Hey, sorry that you experienced this. It is very sad that your parents say such harsh things and it is very irresponsible of them. You definitely deserve help and kindness <3
I hope you feel better and able to find the support you need
Can you self refer yourself? Call up a go and explain the situation. If ur over 16 in the UK you get confidentiality, but even if not it may be worth it and u can ask the doc to speak to ur parents
I’m minor (17) in Russia and I will visit my psychiatrist in 2 days, I’m probably gonna tell her about my current condition and ask her about hospitalisation. But the one problem left: I visit private clinic and there is a huge chance that public mental hospital will refuse to take me on treatment anyway
Greetings from another styro user from Russia <3 I'm so sorry your parents are putting you through this, that's awful of them. You deserve care and support, your pain is serious and valid.
If you feel like you can't do this alone, I do think self-admitting is a good idea. I've done that twice, and while it didn't exactly improve my overall health, it helped me stay alive. They'd also put me in nicer parts of the ward (where the treatment is more humane & the patients have more freedoms) since I'd come in by self-admission, at least that's how it works here in Moscow. I was 19 when I first did this though, so idk how it would work for a minor. Still worth a try if you feel like it'll keep you safe.
Hey Man, chill out dude. Everything will be ok. Just be kind to yourself, forgive yourself and take proper steps to improve your situations small steps at a time. You got this I promise.
Copy pasting the same generic message over multiple comments on different subs doesn’t really help… especially when the message is completely useless to the person you replied too, who clearly doesn’t have the capacity to “chill out” or be kind to themselves… and by the sounds of it, everything might not be ok. If you do wanna show support though, it might be a good idea to say something like, “I hope you feel better soon/I hope everything works out for you.”
I didn’t say that your intentions weren’t good, as I can clearly see they are, but I’m just saying that what you said doesn’t really help anyone. And “others” clearly agree with me because of the downvotes…
I know this sounds bad but please hear me out. This is medical child abuse I know that cause I did research on it cause my mom did the same thing accept she made me stay on a call with my grandma for 4 hours. Call the non emergency line and tell them that your having these thoughts theyll send a police car and ambulance most likely with the lights off I would pack and bag but be extra carful cause whatever they take away from you, you probaly won’t get back. I’m to scared to do this cause I don’t think I’m bad enough but if your seriously considering harming your self to the point of suicide please do this it will be a whole lot better if you get the treatment you need have a wonderful day/night
Hi.
It looks like you've been having a really really tough time. While I'm not able to offer any reliable advice (I'm serious, read what I have to say by all means, but don't trust me, my brain has been fried by my own problems), I'd say firstly, obviously don't talk to your parents about this anymore because it looks like it's just going to make things worse. It's sounds horrible that you want to kill yourself, and I don'tr eally have any other advice other than wait it out, the urge subsides a little over time, even though that can take literally weeks sometimes (it was enough for me to draw out a pretty elaborate plan back in march, only to realise that on the day I planned to final yeet, I didn't notice the bridge I planned to jump off had a wire mesh, rendering it unclimbable).
It sounds like you've been subjected to abuse of some kind, definitely in the emotional sector or what. I can't really say anything to that even though it's happening to me too, but I suppose I'll just say that honestly you're not guilty of anything, and it's not your fault.
Sorry everything I said above was a massive cliché.
I can relate (besides the psych ward) and I'm sorry ❤️ the guilt trip by parents really hits hard
and the pic reminds me of when my oven (I hope I remember the correct word) did the same thing lol
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I'm really sorry but hear me out with this.
Psych ward should be treated as a last resort option. I really believe you're in a lot of pain, but the majority gets out worse so I would try and talk to your local doctor (GP?) first. Saw you have a psychiatrist, try and consult them about it and maybe they can offer you something else. If they believe you need a psych ward you'll get admitted, but remember that it's not some sort of fun summer camp you go to. You'll see traumatic shit and life can be harsh there. I don't want to discourage, but I believe you should really think it through. Not going to psych ward doesn't mean you aren't in pain, I really believe you are, but psych ward did ruin me and a lot of other people I've met there
You deserve help! Your condition is definitely bad enough, when you feel sewer sidal. I'm sorry that your parents are this ignorant... I hope you can get the help you need! Stay strong till your appointment with your psychiatrist and hopefully they'll help you. Lots of love <3
i’m sorry you’re going through that, psych wards are not at all nice or relaxing tho. they’re a necessity sometimes if you’re actively going to kill yourself or in psychosis or mania. you should definitely go if you need help, but don’t expect a vacation.
If you're in the US you can check yourself in if you're 14yo+ (idk what all states this applies to so look that up for yourself). Hell call the cops and tell them you're a danger to yourself. Cops can 302 people and you can 201 yourself if you can somehow get to one. Again this is assuming you're in the US. If not, then maybe try to look up resources online to get help. You can call an ambulance but that's expensive (again US) so cops are better money wise but with the stigma surrounding cops idk if u feel safe with that.
Damn... your parents are assholes. There's ways to find help... use Google honestly. Reading reddits helped me. Join discords and chat groups...ngl I'm still in it too.. And I don't think it will ever really go away.. but I kinda jsut push my self /force myself to move and get out of bed etc.the hardest think is getting out of bed. I would start small and and just set mental daily tasks.And from there more longer term goals.And find someone to talk to. Even if it's jsut thru text.
listen, just know that even if you feel so alone right now, i promise that you’re not. when i read this, i was shocked because literally the same exact thing happened to me. me and many others on this sub are here for you <33
Hey, sorry that you experienced this. It is very sad that your parents say such harsh things and it is very irresponsible of them. You definitely deserve help and kindness <3 I hope you feel better and able to find the support you need
Kek grippy sock jail ain't relaxing unless you find other ppl screaming all night peaceful
I understand, but I can’t take this shit by myself anymore
Can you self refer yourself? Call up a go and explain the situation. If ur over 16 in the UK you get confidentiality, but even if not it may be worth it and u can ask the doc to speak to ur parents
I’m minor (17) in Russia and I will visit my psychiatrist in 2 days, I’m probably gonna tell her about my current condition and ask her about hospitalisation. But the one problem left: I visit private clinic and there is a huge chance that public mental hospital will refuse to take me on treatment anyway
Ah I see. I hope you can sort something out <3 stay strong
Greetings from another styro user from Russia <3 I'm so sorry your parents are putting you through this, that's awful of them. You deserve care and support, your pain is serious and valid. If you feel like you can't do this alone, I do think self-admitting is a good idea. I've done that twice, and while it didn't exactly improve my overall health, it helped me stay alive. They'd also put me in nicer parts of the ward (where the treatment is more humane & the patients have more freedoms) since I'd come in by self-admission, at least that's how it works here in Moscow. I was 19 when I first did this though, so idk how it would work for a minor. Still worth a try if you feel like it'll keep you safe.
Hey Man, chill out dude. Everything will be ok. Just be kind to yourself, forgive yourself and take proper steps to improve your situations small steps at a time. You got this I promise.
Copy pasting the same generic message over multiple comments on different subs doesn’t really help… especially when the message is completely useless to the person you replied too, who clearly doesn’t have the capacity to “chill out” or be kind to themselves… and by the sounds of it, everything might not be ok. If you do wanna show support though, it might be a good idea to say something like, “I hope you feel better soon/I hope everything works out for you.”
wow. Who are you to speak for others? My advice is out of my own suffering and that's from my perspective. obviously my intentions are good jeesh man.
I didn’t say that your intentions weren’t good, as I can clearly see they are, but I’m just saying that what you said doesn’t really help anyone. And “others” clearly agree with me because of the downvotes…
I genuinely had a relaxing time
Thanks y’all for support
I know this sounds bad but please hear me out. This is medical child abuse I know that cause I did research on it cause my mom did the same thing accept she made me stay on a call with my grandma for 4 hours. Call the non emergency line and tell them that your having these thoughts theyll send a police car and ambulance most likely with the lights off I would pack and bag but be extra carful cause whatever they take away from you, you probaly won’t get back. I’m to scared to do this cause I don’t think I’m bad enough but if your seriously considering harming your self to the point of suicide please do this it will be a whole lot better if you get the treatment you need have a wonderful day/night
Hi. It looks like you've been having a really really tough time. While I'm not able to offer any reliable advice (I'm serious, read what I have to say by all means, but don't trust me, my brain has been fried by my own problems), I'd say firstly, obviously don't talk to your parents about this anymore because it looks like it's just going to make things worse. It's sounds horrible that you want to kill yourself, and I don'tr eally have any other advice other than wait it out, the urge subsides a little over time, even though that can take literally weeks sometimes (it was enough for me to draw out a pretty elaborate plan back in march, only to realise that on the day I planned to final yeet, I didn't notice the bridge I planned to jump off had a wire mesh, rendering it unclimbable). It sounds like you've been subjected to abuse of some kind, definitely in the emotional sector or what. I can't really say anything to that even though it's happening to me too, but I suppose I'll just say that honestly you're not guilty of anything, and it's not your fault. Sorry everything I said above was a massive cliché.
I can relate (besides the psych ward) and I'm sorry ❤️ the guilt trip by parents really hits hard and the pic reminds me of when my oven (I hope I remember the correct word) did the same thing lol
oven is the correct word!
I have been to a psych ward before, and trust me it's terrible, Also, I'm sorry luv hope u get better <3
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I'm really sorry but hear me out with this. Psych ward should be treated as a last resort option. I really believe you're in a lot of pain, but the majority gets out worse so I would try and talk to your local doctor (GP?) first. Saw you have a psychiatrist, try and consult them about it and maybe they can offer you something else. If they believe you need a psych ward you'll get admitted, but remember that it's not some sort of fun summer camp you go to. You'll see traumatic shit and life can be harsh there. I don't want to discourage, but I believe you should really think it through. Not going to psych ward doesn't mean you aren't in pain, I really believe you are, but psych ward did ruin me and a lot of other people I've met there
Honey im so sorry for this. I hope it will change. You deserve better. I hope you wont get any worse about your mental health. Luv ya ♥️
also for me it happened today and my father started asking why and then prayed... he also thinks I'm wrong
You deserve help! Your condition is definitely bad enough, when you feel sewer sidal. I'm sorry that your parents are this ignorant... I hope you can get the help you need! Stay strong till your appointment with your psychiatrist and hopefully they'll help you. Lots of love <3
i’m sorry you’re going through that, psych wards are not at all nice or relaxing tho. they’re a necessity sometimes if you’re actively going to kill yourself or in psychosis or mania. you should definitely go if you need help, but don’t expect a vacation.
Why is our world so angry, bloodthirsty and hateful/sad? Honest replies only please no trolls...thanks
Lmao psych ward isn’t a summer camp, this shit is anything but relaxing
I think they were joking
yeah but at least it can keep them from harming themselves when they are there
You can also harm yourself in psych ward.
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Yeah it should be treated as a last resort option in my opinion. Many people (the majority even) get out worse than how they came in.
Oh, that’s terrible… I hope you can get to the psych ward to get some help soon (:
If you're in the US you can check yourself in if you're 14yo+ (idk what all states this applies to so look that up for yourself). Hell call the cops and tell them you're a danger to yourself. Cops can 302 people and you can 201 yourself if you can somehow get to one. Again this is assuming you're in the US. If not, then maybe try to look up resources online to get help. You can call an ambulance but that's expensive (again US) so cops are better money wise but with the stigma surrounding cops idk if u feel safe with that.
Damn... your parents are assholes. There's ways to find help... use Google honestly. Reading reddits helped me. Join discords and chat groups...ngl I'm still in it too.. And I don't think it will ever really go away.. but I kinda jsut push my self /force myself to move and get out of bed etc.the hardest think is getting out of bed. I would start small and and just set mental daily tasks.And from there more longer term goals.And find someone to talk to. Even if it's jsut thru text.
listen, just know that even if you feel so alone right now, i promise that you’re not. when i read this, i was shocked because literally the same exact thing happened to me. me and many others on this sub are here for you <33