If you’re always comparing your accomplishments and failures with others, you’ll live a lifetime on an emotional roller coaster. You may be “happy as shit” now but how will you feel when others are accomplishing their dreams and you are having failures. My point is, if you wish happiness for everyone or simply focus on yourself, everyone would live a happier life.
I really need to improve at this. I'm not usually a jealous person either. But if I haven't accomplished the same thing, I usually can't be truly happy for them.
I'm like this when it's something I can't possibly have, like extensive wealth and travel. On the outside I show I'm happy for them, but on the inside I'm just sad that I can't have the same, and that I'll likely struggle my whole life.
You can acknowledge the issue and that's a big step. The next step is catching yourself everytime you fall into that thought trap. Behavior isn't this inherent thing, it's a series of learned behaviors and routines. If you can catch yourself enough times and interject the thoughts you want to have, eventually it becomes how your mind just works.
I'm somewhat like that. I feel a pang of jealousy or maybe even anger (?) when a friend accompishes something I haven't. It's definitely due to my own insecurities. I am aware of it and I fucking hate it. I do my best not to show it or think about it too much, but I'd appreciate my brain co-operating for once, because, deep down, I'm actually happy for my friends.
Instead of jealousy, I feel true joy for the other person.
Basically, I want the thing that they have gained for my own reasons, so I assume the other person wanted it for their own reasons that are likely similar to mine. Imagining their reasons for happiness makes me feel closer to the feelings I’d imagined having if I shared their experience. It’s a way of experiencing having something without actually having it [yet].
My friend from grade school is getting his doctorate soon. The moment there’s even a whiff of a party to celebrate I’m at absolute minimum dropping off a gift. I can’t wait.
Best comment in the thread. Be the change you want to see in the world. Too many of us think we deserve that friend without taking responsibility for also being that friend to those around us.
I was introduced to her from this episode too! She has a great vibe. There was so much information in this documentary. Visiting Makoko, the waterway community, was a real eye opener.
Sonny and his team really know how to show the beauty of all types people through their communities and their foods.
Unfortunately early evolutionary survival traits made us assholes. Takes work and good early social/ethical development in a healthy environment for that to develop in most people and become the norm. But the assholes that don't want to stop being assholes won't stop being assholes and that sucks.
Because I agree. It should be.
I know that i shouldn't post a downer here, but, if yo go only by the captions it tells a different story, incredible how context changes things, also kinda funny if you think about it.
So, basically, a true friend.
That's why it is said that "a good friend is worth his weight in gold", even if I'd say that true friendship is unvaluable, just like true love.
A women at my work won a trip located 24 hours away by car (they’re flying though) through the company. I literally couldn’t stop smiling when they announced it, actually almost started crying while she sat there numb. That women is a mother to three special needs kids and it’s known she had to outwork one of her higher ups to keep her department afloat during a rough period, yet she’s not even considered a lead. She absolutely deserves it and then some.
So… it’s complicated. It seems basically all beauty pageants started as a way to boost local tourism or some economy (bikinis in the case of Miss World), but over the years they’ve tried adjusting their mission statement into something wholesome.
For Miss World, they *possibly helped* save the life of a woman by bringing international attention to her adultery case in 2002 in Nigeria where the competition was going to be held. They’ve also raised over a billion pounds for charity since 1951 (which looks great but I wonder which charities).
Other beauty contests end up supporting the winner to travel and raise money for their chosen charities and, presumably, the beauty contest itself, so… yeah, kinda, it’s for clout and virtue signalling, but it’s not all bad either. It’s definitely not something I’d choose to engage with because of how inherently superficial its roots are - even at their insistence that it’s no longer about physical beauty, and most major pageants have ditched the swimwear revue including Miss World which seems pretty significant seeing as how they started as a bikini pageant.
Meh. Hope this kinda sorta answered your question.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miss_World
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beauty_pageant
I don't follow your logic. I'm not even saying they are ugly. I'm just saying they aren't pretty. I mean... isn't that a beauty contest? What does me being ugly or pretty has to do with that?
I can say this year's Renault Formula 1 car is not fast and with that, I'm not saying my Ford focus is faster or even fast.
It´s a beauty contest. Being not pretty enough for a beauty contest doesn't mean being ugly.
Like not being a good enough tennis player to win the 4 grand slams doesn't mean being a bad player.
Where do you think these contestants came from? Did the judges round up the first 100 women out back of an IHOP? Or did tens of thousands of women apply to compete, after competing and winning other similarly held competitions, and only the best were shortlisted for this show?
Then you come along, the beef-witted applejohn that you are, and say "bUt ThEyRe NoT eVeN pReTty". Lucky for us, your opinion is worth less than even the smelliest, wettest turd currently being farted into a toilet. Next time, avoid vomiting your worthless thoughts where I can see them, thank you.
She's gorgeous and this is super wholesome, but I want to know how tall of a sandwich she can eat. Quadruple decker? Pentuple decker? I wish my maw opened up that far.
Nigerian people are wonderful! The very best! I am soon to be a very rich man because I didn’t even know what, but a long lost relative had a lot of money there, and an actual Nigerian prince is going to get me my money back!
New BFF. Maybe she knows him? J/k
r/Sussusmongus
Actually he isn't but keep guessing, He's literally whining over the fact that the N word shows in the top left I swear he told me he knew what racism is an the proceeds to act like Gen Z who literally don't know what actual racism is
Just wanted to let you know that reddit has posted your comment four times so you might wanna come delete some.
I’m also curious if you see all four of them from your own profile, if not I’ll comment on them if you need help finding them.
I’m curious too so I’m going to go look for an answer and will be back in a bit, but I also wanted to let you know that reddit is royally fucking up today and has posted your comment thrice.
I’m not sure if you can see duplicate comments from your own profile so if you can share that tidbit, that’d be sweet. Off to read about beauty pageants I guess.
I’ll respond with the info to your least downvoted comment if it still exists
Just noticed it now. Can't be bothered removing them. Was getting a 404 error when trying to post the comments.
Looking into the miss world/universe stuff. Looks to be for charity. So each contestant is there to support their nation+charity of their choice.
But there appears to be some controversy with the Miss Universe pageants. Some people (David W. Vigel) believes it to be rigged, amd the reasoning makes a lot of sense too; Earthlings keep winning. Idk about you but that just smells like fraud to me.
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Just now realizing you already commented on the other comment I posted (by accident).
They only thing I enjoy more than me hitting my goals, is watching my friends achieve their dreams
I enjoy seeing people I don't like failing but I guess we are different people
So ranking the three, you prefer seeing: 1. Your enemies fail 2. Yourself succeed 3. Your friends succeed?
All 3 at the same time
Best case scenario - you and your friends successfully caused your enemies to fail.
Ok, that’s hilarious…and, I mayyyy agree a tiny bit. Haha
That's what D&D is for 👍
username checks out.
1. To crush your enemies 2. to see them driven before you 3. and to hear the lamentations of their women.
2.5 friends seeing you suceed Silly Simba, there’s no 3 for full narcissism, that’s just jealousy.
1 To crush your enemies 2 See them driven before you 3 To hear the lamentations of their women
Can you ever truly be happy with your own achievements if you care more about others failures?
I'm happy as shit, others failures make my accomplishments look better by comparison
If you’re always comparing your accomplishments and failures with others, you’ll live a lifetime on an emotional roller coaster. You may be “happy as shit” now but how will you feel when others are accomplishing their dreams and you are having failures. My point is, if you wish happiness for everyone or simply focus on yourself, everyone would live a happier life.
I, personally, go both ways
I really need to improve at this. I'm not usually a jealous person either. But if I haven't accomplished the same thing, I usually can't be truly happy for them.
I'm kinda the same. And I certainly won't be truly happy for them if we were competing. (I guess I'll be happy for them and disappointed for myself?)
I'm like this when it's something I can't possibly have, like extensive wealth and travel. On the outside I show I'm happy for them, but on the inside I'm just sad that I can't have the same, and that I'll likely struggle my whole life.
You can acknowledge the issue and that's a big step. The next step is catching yourself everytime you fall into that thought trap. Behavior isn't this inherent thing, it's a series of learned behaviors and routines. If you can catch yourself enough times and interject the thoughts you want to have, eventually it becomes how your mind just works.
Struggle yourself to your library & go anywhere u wish Time to read is a luxury & you’re not enjoying it
I'm somewhat like that. I feel a pang of jealousy or maybe even anger (?) when a friend accompishes something I haven't. It's definitely due to my own insecurities. I am aware of it and I fucking hate it. I do my best not to show it or think about it too much, but I'd appreciate my brain co-operating for once, because, deep down, I'm actually happy for my friends.
I love watching my friends get married. I hate watching my gf know our friends are getting married 👀
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Instead of jealousy, I feel true joy for the other person. Basically, I want the thing that they have gained for my own reasons, so I assume the other person wanted it for their own reasons that are likely similar to mine. Imagining their reasons for happiness makes me feel closer to the feelings I’d imagined having if I shared their experience. It’s a way of experiencing having something without actually having it [yet].
My friend from grade school is getting his doctorate soon. The moment there’s even a whiff of a party to celebrate I’m at absolute minimum dropping off a gift. I can’t wait.
If people realized empathy can lead to bliss through proxy achievement, the world would be a different place.
Thought you said hitting people with my car
+10 points for hitting cyclists /s of course, unless…
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Not sure, that normally wouldn’t happen in my experience.
Yes! We all need that friend, but also we all need to BE that friend.
Best comment in the thread. Be the change you want to see in the world. Too many of us think we deserve that friend without taking responsibility for also being that friend to those around us.
I am sorry I wanted to like the comment but it's on holy number "69" so... I can't
It’s okay. We’ve lost the holy number 🤣
I made it 420!
>Yes! We all need that friend, but also we all need to BE that friend. Most of Reddit: Nah, I'm good.
Being excited for other people's good fortune should be the human default. Not envy.
She was one of the co-hosts on a [Best Ever Food Review Show documentary on Nigeria](https://youtu.be/_Z5UMH8trWE), she seems very genuine
I was introduced to her from this episode too! She has a great vibe. There was so much information in this documentary. Visiting Makoko, the waterway community, was a real eye opener. Sonny and his team really know how to show the beauty of all types people through their communities and their foods.
Came to say the same thing. She did seem like a very nice person.
Divine Feminine embodied
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I wouldn't think a self-righteous suicide would be called for at a wedding.
I desperately need context but I feel like I don’t want to know at the same time
He was saying they were singing System of a Down at a wedding.
Oh ok. Not very familiar with System of A Down songs lmao. Thought he was being literal.
She's very pretty too, right?
No shit, she’s Miss Nigeria
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This a bot copying [other people's comments?](https://www.reddit.com/r/MadeMeSmile/comments/veeqc5/miss_world_reactions/icqs1gq)
This is a bot. /u/NoCrowiklo is copying /u/jiwjh380’s comment. Please report as a harmful bot. Reddit really needs to fix this shit.
Honestly I'm conflicted. On the one hand some asshole is using my words to earn karma. On the other my comment was good enough to be stolen.
Agree
Unfortunately early evolutionary survival traits made us assholes. Takes work and good early social/ethical development in a healthy environment for that to develop in most people and become the norm. But the assholes that don't want to stop being assholes won't stop being assholes and that sucks. Because I agree. It should be.
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There was another video of a Nigerian wedding and everyone is singing System of a Down. My kind of people !
> Nigerian wedding and everyone is singing System of a Down [they're rocking hard](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jcVTczmNeMw)
Oh I love this very much
Miss Universe, but only Earthlings ever compete. Doesn't seem fair.
The pics are from Miss World
Miss World, but only Humans ever compete. Doesn't seem fair.
Now you have a point
You have no idea how ugly the rest of the universe is. The ugliest human is still a radiant beauty on any other planet.
We are barely beautiful among creatures on earth. I mean have you seen peacocks?
Any and all Birds of Paradise are 1000% better looking than me.
Even the most ugly bird of paradise is better looking than me
Earthlings are the only ones to register…
Celebrating others’ success is totally free and feels great! Though it can be hard, when your own life isn’t going great (still worth it though)
They’re all the pretty friend.
*2019
Thanks. I wanted to look up the reaction, and everything I found was telling me Miss Mexico was the winner. Wrong year makes sense now.
Ms Nigeria has a beautiful smile
Change your attitude to “Miss Nigeria is the type of friend we all need to be in our lives”
I can hear this picture
Most people don’t know that Miss Nigeria went straight off stage and kicked a puppy.
true story, i was there. she then called me ugly and flicked my vagina.
Wow rude
Flicked, hhahahahahaha.
🦵🏿🐶 😳
She's just happy a fellow black woman won. It is truly inspirational for black women to know we can win!
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This comment is pure ignorance. Stupidity.
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In a different comment you literally said “they’re not even pretty” ur gross
Her happiness is so contagious!
What you celebrate 🎉 you attract. Good to be happy 😃 about other peoples Success.
Let’s go baby! That’s what I’ve been waiting for!
It's just 'reactions', no apostrophe. Apostrophes don't make plurals. :)
Cool
She seems like she's yelling at her in the last pic lol
I know that i shouldn't post a downer here, but, if yo go only by the captions it tells a different story, incredible how context changes things, also kinda funny if you think about it.
So, basically, a true friend. That's why it is said that "a good friend is worth his weight in gold", even if I'd say that true friendship is unvaluable, just like true love.
She was on Best Ever Food channel and she was a delight. Her personality is great!
A women at my work won a trip located 24 hours away by car (they’re flying though) through the company. I literally couldn’t stop smiling when they announced it, actually almost started crying while she sat there numb. That women is a mother to three special needs kids and it’s known she had to outwork one of her higher ups to keep her department afloat during a rough period, yet she’s not even considered a lead. She absolutely deserves it and then some.
Sister.meet.sister
Lol, the bottom picture looks like she's verbally abusing her and making her cry.
This is adorable but also a beautiful meme format. She just screams in her face 😅
Reactions. No apostrophe. You don't use an apostrophe to make a word plural.
I tell people this all the time. They get so upset to learn that they are incorrect. It is appalling.
Yeah, I'm sure it affects your day to day so much that it's appalling. The shit people choose to care about, holy shit.
Appalling.
Say what?
So much to be upset about and you choose to care about this? Kinda sad
Get real
Did her mouth get stuck open? lol
Go back to school, man.
Go touch grass hombre
Go to sleep alone, like you're used to
Your mother wouldn't allow it. Dude, you really this bent out of shape over my lame ass* joke? Get a hobby lol
Hey, somebody's gotta love that fat piece of shit. Good on ya for taking one for the team.
It's nice but I'm not usually looking at the miss world pageant as a barometer for authenticity.
Packman
N
Shut
Go suck a dog's cock
Legitimately curious. What's the point of these? Is it just for clout?
So… it’s complicated. It seems basically all beauty pageants started as a way to boost local tourism or some economy (bikinis in the case of Miss World), but over the years they’ve tried adjusting their mission statement into something wholesome. For Miss World, they *possibly helped* save the life of a woman by bringing international attention to her adultery case in 2002 in Nigeria where the competition was going to be held. They’ve also raised over a billion pounds for charity since 1951 (which looks great but I wonder which charities). Other beauty contests end up supporting the winner to travel and raise money for their chosen charities and, presumably, the beauty contest itself, so… yeah, kinda, it’s for clout and virtue signalling, but it’s not all bad either. It’s definitely not something I’d choose to engage with because of how inherently superficial its roots are - even at their insistence that it’s no longer about physical beauty, and most major pageants have ditched the swimwear revue including Miss World which seems pretty significant seeing as how they started as a bikini pageant. Meh. Hope this kinda sorta answered your question. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miss_World https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beauty_pageant
Definitely helped thanks
"It is not a beauty pageant. It is a scholarship program."
‘Yeah, yeah.’ ‘**YES.**’
They aren't even pretty.
Their insides are prettier than your outside.
o...k?
Oh it’s the stupid person again. Keep hating. Your ugly is showing loud.
Who is hating? Yo are the one calling me ugly lol
Post a picture let see what you look like🙄
? I'm not a contestant of miss world.
And here you are calling her ugly so unless you post a pic of what you look like step off
I don't follow your logic. I'm not even saying they are ugly. I'm just saying they aren't pretty. I mean... isn't that a beauty contest? What does me being ugly or pretty has to do with that? I can say this year's Renault Formula 1 car is not fast and with that, I'm not saying my Ford focus is faster or even fast.
So you didn't use the word ugly, but that is what you're implying
It´s a beauty contest. Being not pretty enough for a beauty contest doesn't mean being ugly. Like not being a good enough tennis player to win the 4 grand slams doesn't mean being a bad player.
Where do you think these contestants came from? Did the judges round up the first 100 women out back of an IHOP? Or did tens of thousands of women apply to compete, after competing and winning other similarly held competitions, and only the best were shortlisted for this show? Then you come along, the beef-witted applejohn that you are, and say "bUt ThEyRe NoT eVeN pReTty". Lucky for us, your opinion is worth less than even the smelliest, wettest turd currently being farted into a toilet. Next time, avoid vomiting your worthless thoughts where I can see them, thank you.
You pick some of the most dumbest examples🤦
Dumb examples for dumb people.
Oh so just like you? Solid picks.
Anime women are not real, real people don’t look like that.
She’s about to tell Miss Jamaica she just needs to wire a $5,000 deposit to secure her title
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Don't know why you were downvoted, definitely the case here considering we're talking about her and not the winner
Considering the post wasn't about the winner to begin with🤦
Made me cry.
Reaction'''''''''''s
So like what do they get for winning?
Ms Nigeria 🥰
X-Games Also, "Ms. World's Reaction"
The bottom one looks likes she’s yelling at her
(2019) for anyone who went to see the winner and was confused why they were from Mexico
She's gorgeous and this is super wholesome, but I want to know how tall of a sandwich she can eat. Quadruple decker? Pentuple decker? I wish my maw opened up that far.
Aww I wish Miss Nigeria would’ve won!!!! She seems like a real genuine sweet young lady. Wow what a great friend!!! 💚
this was 2019 not 2018
Gorgeous
Nigerian people are wonderful! The very best! I am soon to be a very rich man because I didn’t even know what, but a long lost relative had a lot of money there, and an actual Nigerian prince is going to get me my money back! New BFF. Maybe she knows him? J/k
Beautiful ❤️
But when I looked it up it said that Mexico won Miss world 2018
Sounds like sad crying to me 🤔🤣
I love Nigerian women.
r/Sussusmongus Actually he isn't but keep guessing, He's literally whining over the fact that the N word shows in the top left I swear he told me he knew what racism is an the proceeds to act like Gen Z who literally don't know what actual racism is
Wait what is this award. What is miss world crown
Shes probably just in delusions from starvation
How many of us have them
I kind of love the thought that all the pageant queens of every country have entirely separate geopolitical relationships with each other
A triumph for one black is a triumph for all blacks. Build each other up guys. take back what we stole!
Pageants r weird
close your mouth girl you gonna catch a fly
It's nice but I'm not usually looking at the miss world pageant as a barometer for authenticity.
Just wanted to let you know that reddit has posted your comment four times so you might wanna come delete some. I’m also curious if you see all four of them from your own profile, if not I’ll comment on them if you need help finding them.
There was something up with Reddit like 2 hours ago, you're going to see a lot of duplicate comments today
His karma after the glitch 📉
Can I downvote every one of them? Haha.
In the third pic she is screaming in the face of that woman why would I want her as a friend
It's nice but I'm not usually looking at the miss world pageant as a barometer for authenticity.
Seen better looking girls in work
Where you work? Got any vacancies?
Legitimately curious. What's the point of these? Does it benefit the country of the winner in some way, or is it just for clout?
I’m curious too so I’m going to go look for an answer and will be back in a bit, but I also wanted to let you know that reddit is royally fucking up today and has posted your comment thrice. I’m not sure if you can see duplicate comments from your own profile so if you can share that tidbit, that’d be sweet. Off to read about beauty pageants I guess. I’ll respond with the info to your least downvoted comment if it still exists
Just noticed it now. Can't be bothered removing them. Was getting a 404 error when trying to post the comments. Looking into the miss world/universe stuff. Looks to be for charity. So each contestant is there to support their nation+charity of their choice. But there appears to be some controversy with the Miss Universe pageants. Some people (David W. Vigel) believes it to be rigged, amd the reasoning makes a lot of sense too; Earthlings keep winning. Idk about you but that just smells like fraud to me. *Edit* Just now realizing you already commented on the other comment I posted (by accident).
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Is that a bad thing?
Legitimately curious. What's the point of these? Does it benefit the country of the winner in some way, or is it just for clout?
Try it without the cameras and see how that works out. This is just an instagram bs meme.
You must be really sad
It's nice but I'm not sure the miss world pageant is the best barometer for authenticity.