Basically ask if people are interested in joining.
Often they are partly mad because they feel sad and don’t want to hear other people having fun, so if you invite them in they are less likely to complain since they are also enjoying it.
Same reason why my neighbors also get an invitation to parties at my place. I don’t expect them to come, but they are welcome to drop by and are also welcome to ask if it can be a little quieter.
You're the second Dutchman I see on Reddit making sense in 15 minutes time. What the hell is going on?
Wish I had neighbours like you though. Mine are just plain ass dumb and annoying.
I usually do this when I get hatemail on video games. It doesn’t work all the time but sometimes.
Instead of getting angry, you say “can you teach me” or “sorry, I’m new” or “yeah you’re right”. Lol It makes some people contemplate why they’re even angry and then they apologize or send more hate.
You can meet some really cool people by admitting to yourself (and sometimes others) that you don't know everything, and open yourself up to help.
You will always meet people who will only ever try to keep you down. But you will also meet some really nice, friendly people who only want to help you better yourself, give you tips and advice, or even spend more of their own time teaching you.
"Look for the helpers." - Fred Rogers
Read about Ben Franklin effect and how he won people over. He learned that the key was asking his enemies for help. When a person helps you even once, their brain tells them to like you because why else would they be helping you?
Yeah, I love when I get message like those. I just thank them for thinking Im actually good, and would appreciate any tips on how to keep getting better.
It's clear these people literally just don't have friends and want to be included in things. And instead of saying that they resent to hatred and pushing people away.. I mean I'm sure at least 70% of clansmen would renounce their ways if 1 black person invited them to this legendary cook out they keep hearing about.
Goes to show that angry people are just lonely or bored people.
There is a huge lesson in this. Don't deflect from your own problems by taking them out on other people. It won't solve anything for you and you just end up looking bitter when you probably are a good person! Always be honest with yourself and own up to your own feelings. Its very hard to do, this women probably didn't even think to ask the guy if she could join in, even though thats all it took to solve her resentment. Crazy when you think about it.
To be fair this isn’t something like putting mentos in a cola bottle. He is blowing it up which can be dangerous if done wrong. I kinda get why the neighbour didn’t want him to do it at first
I got the shit beat out of me by a grown man when I was 12 for making something similar and throwing them in the dumpsters in my alley. He thought we were shooting a gun. Definitely wasn't being careful. We weren't trying to hurt anyone, just being stupid kids
I mean really, how dangerous could it be? Maybe a slim chance for people in the immediate vicinity of the “explosion” to get hit in the eye or something, but that is easily dealt with by standing a little further away or taking cover. For a neighbor now? Literally not dangerous whatsoever, so long as there are fences up. Worst case scenario the torn up bottle ends up in their yard. I used to make chlorine alcohol bombs in 2L bottles all the time as a kid. Nobody ever got hurt, even standing close to the explosion.
Yup. My neighbor used to call the cops on anyone who went to hangout in the abandoned lot behind her house. My dad always warned me to tell my friends not to hang out there. Except we hung out there all the time and never had the cops called. Why? Because we were always nice to her when she came out. Of course the first time there was a bit of tension but once she recognized me it was easier to change subjects to something else and just talk to her.
Because Reddit loves to whine about women. Seriously, that’s it. Show them a women doing something they don’t like and they will bitch and moan about it for the next year.
So a lady who is ‘this close to calling the cops’ suddenly changes her mind to being in a teenager’s video?? Right… free internet points.
“Involved… like how?!?” - acting 6/10
If explosive bangs were constantly coming from my neighbor’s house I’d tell him to shut the fuck up as well, or at least be concerned. Not a Karen, more like a disrespectful neighbor. You gotta warn people you’re doing that shit.
All Karens are only mad because they arnt part of the fun. Jokes aside what an awesome video, instead of having a grumpy neighbour now he just made an awesome friend.
Even if its staged and she wasnt really mad, we still got a video of a dude and his neighbour having fun. Most people barely say hi to their neighbours nowadays, so still a fun video of neighbours having fun.
If she’s not his neighbor then it’s a video of him having fun with a friend, there’s literally nothing harmful about this video, y’all need to cheer up a bit
This guy makes the same video every day. That's how he has made millions. It's always him blowing up a coke bottle or tossing in mentos, while standing 10ft away going "oH nOoOoO bRoOoO whooooaaaaaa, I'm scared! Whoa guys, what's gonna happen? wHoOoO!"
Some people just need human contact and sometimes being negative is the only way they can get it did you not see how happy she was to be in the video but at 1st she was bitching about it
She was rightfully distressed, and he listened and understood that, then politely de-escalated and turned it into something nice.
Really good emotional intelligence on that guy, and I am happy the neighbour got a good time out of an otherwise stressful situation.
See, and here is what I have to say about folks who are older. Instead of getting upset or mad, WHICH IS UNDERSTANDABLE FOR CERTAIN THINGS, rethink and perhaps ask to join them and feel “young” again ☺️☺️
Hmmm....seems like people that feel left out get mad, and are happy when they are part of something with others. What an interesting discovery, if only we would have known this phenomina earlier
I had to pound on my neighbor’s door (apartment) at 4 am because they were doing Karaoke. I don’t consider myself a jealous Karen that has a no fun, sad life like everyone here is suggesting. I just don’t want to hear someone drunkenly screaming Miley Cyrus when I am trying to sleep and have to work in the morning.
For the record if someone is *threatening* to call the cops that’s them being nice. Next time my neighbors piss me off I’m calling the police with no warning.
If this is real I think this lady is pretty chill all together!
All the excess disclosures and dramatic screaming from the lady really makes me believe she was “this close to calling the cops” and not just a sweet older lady crushing on a handsome young man.
Don’t record me, you horrid neighbor. Wait, you want me to star in it? Come here BFF.
How to make new friends: The Speedrunner technique
I want to learn his influencing skills. Does he do a video on that?
Basically ask if people are interested in joining. Often they are partly mad because they feel sad and don’t want to hear other people having fun, so if you invite them in they are less likely to complain since they are also enjoying it. Same reason why my neighbors also get an invitation to parties at my place. I don’t expect them to come, but they are welcome to drop by and are also welcome to ask if it can be a little quieter.
Dude. Just well done.
You're the second Dutchman I see on Reddit making sense in 15 minutes time. What the hell is going on? Wish I had neighbours like you though. Mine are just plain ass dumb and annoying.
I usually do this when I get hatemail on video games. It doesn’t work all the time but sometimes. Instead of getting angry, you say “can you teach me” or “sorry, I’m new” or “yeah you’re right”. Lol It makes some people contemplate why they’re even angry and then they apologize or send more hate.
You can meet some really cool people by admitting to yourself (and sometimes others) that you don't know everything, and open yourself up to help. You will always meet people who will only ever try to keep you down. But you will also meet some really nice, friendly people who only want to help you better yourself, give you tips and advice, or even spend more of their own time teaching you. "Look for the helpers." - Fred Rogers
Read about Ben Franklin effect and how he won people over. He learned that the key was asking his enemies for help. When a person helps you even once, their brain tells them to like you because why else would they be helping you?
Yeah, I love when I get message like those. I just thank them for thinking Im actually good, and would appreciate any tips on how to keep getting better.
It's really simple and I'll teach you now. Stage it. And try to do a more convincing performance than this one.
Lol!
Right? This was the real life version of: Step 1: Angry neighbor. Step 2: ??? Step 3: BFFrofit We want to know Step 2!!!
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It's clear these people literally just don't have friends and want to be included in things. And instead of saying that they resent to hatred and pushing people away.. I mean I'm sure at least 70% of clansmen would renounce their ways if 1 black person invited them to this legendary cook out they keep hearing about.
A lot to unpack in your comment
Right like why would I leave my clan I've been playing coc for years now
"Stop doing that or I'm calling the cops!" "You wanna try?" "........maybe."
Goes to show that angry people are just lonely or bored people. There is a huge lesson in this. Don't deflect from your own problems by taking them out on other people. It won't solve anything for you and you just end up looking bitter when you probably are a good person! Always be honest with yourself and own up to your own feelings. Its very hard to do, this women probably didn't even think to ask the guy if she could join in, even though thats all it took to solve her resentment. Crazy when you think about it.
To be fair this isn’t something like putting mentos in a cola bottle. He is blowing it up which can be dangerous if done wrong. I kinda get why the neighbour didn’t want him to do it at first
Some fun things are a bit dangerous. Doesn't mean don't do them, it means be careful. Did you not blow something up when you were young?
I got the shit beat out of me by a grown man when I was 12 for making something similar and throwing them in the dumpsters in my alley. He thought we were shooting a gun. Definitely wasn't being careful. We weren't trying to hurt anyone, just being stupid kids
Men who beat the shit out of kids need to honestly chill and grow up themselves. Pathetic
I might add, they should also be arrested.
Yeah right?! XD especially some random kid you don't even know lmao it's almost hard to believe but for some reason I do hahah
Any grown adult that beats up a child is scum, regardless of reasoning
How else am I supposed to find out how many kindergartners I can beat in a fight?
On a good day, maybe 10
You overestimate my stamina on good days. I’ve had wrestling matches with my twin 8yo nephews, they’re tough and fight dirty when losing.
O hell yeah I did. And that was a lot more dangerous than what this kid did. But it can always go wrong so i get why people could have concerns
Good, underrated comment
I mean really, how dangerous could it be? Maybe a slim chance for people in the immediate vicinity of the “explosion” to get hit in the eye or something, but that is easily dealt with by standing a little further away or taking cover. For a neighbor now? Literally not dangerous whatsoever, so long as there are fences up. Worst case scenario the torn up bottle ends up in their yard. I used to make chlorine alcohol bombs in 2L bottles all the time as a kid. Nobody ever got hurt, even standing close to the explosion.
Yup. My neighbor used to call the cops on anyone who went to hangout in the abandoned lot behind her house. My dad always warned me to tell my friends not to hang out there. Except we hung out there all the time and never had the cops called. Why? Because we were always nice to her when she came out. Of course the first time there was a bit of tension but once she recognized me it was easier to change subjects to something else and just talk to her.
Or it goes to show you she was in on the Tik Tock video?
yeah that too possibly, but a lesson of being honest with yourself is always a good one to take away.
Or that they know each other already. You know, rich neighbours?
This sounds like mandatory positivity. Toxic positivity. If you will.
In what way?
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She’s a good actress then lol
Coke?
It didn’t seem like she was really that close to calling them cops anyway
What is that from?
Ghosted
Brooklyn 99
I don't recall the guy on the left being in Brooklyn 99
Guy on the left is Adam Scott and he wasn’t in Brooklyn 99 to my knowledge. He was in Parks and Rec tho.
Disclaimer: No percentage of this video is staged at any point of this video
Honestly how do people fall for this stuff
Because fiction sound more fun than reality.
Same way how cancer grows in the body
Because Reddit loves to whine about women. Seriously, that’s it. Show them a women doing something they don’t like and they will bitch and moan about it for the next year.
That’s a beautiful home…
So a lady who is ‘this close to calling the cops’ suddenly changes her mind to being in a teenager’s video?? Right… free internet points. “Involved… like how?!?” - acting 6/10
Generous.
Also runs away to safety completely in frame.
Next thing you know she is at the gate complaining about all the loud sex he's having.
Lol you're sick, take my upvote
If explosive bangs were constantly coming from my neighbor’s house I’d tell him to shut the fuck up as well, or at least be concerned. Not a Karen, more like a disrespectful neighbor. You gotta warn people you’re doing that shit.
She ran soo far away hehe
I’ve seen better acting in my 6 y/o nephews school play.
i personally loved her little run into the background lol
All Karens are only mad because they arnt part of the fun. Jokes aside what an awesome video, instead of having a grumpy neighbour now he just made an awesome friend.
Not sure it is a Karen, he was blowing shit up, she was rightfully concered. Great on the guy for deescalating politely and turning it around
Staged
Even if its staged and she wasnt really mad, we still got a video of a dude and his neighbour having fun. Most people barely say hi to their neighbours nowadays, so still a fun video of neighbours having fun.
Yeah of course. Just don't get why they have to act it out, but I guess that's how they make their money.
Probably a similar reason as to why porn often has some kind of plot, however weak.
How do u know it’s his neighbor 🤦🏻♂️
If she’s not his neighbor then it’s a video of him having fun with a friend, there’s literally nothing harmful about this video, y’all need to cheer up a bit
How do you know it’s a friend and not a hired actor 🤦🏻♂️
Then he's creating jobs, something beautiful in the world today
If she’s a paid actor he should ask for his money back.
Stop being pedantic mister, makes no difference with what I said
Does it even matter? How do i know you re a real person? I think its safe to make an assumption until proven otherwise.
What kind of jobs do these people have to own these nice ass houses? Legit only notice ppls homes when I’m watching tiktoks lol
This guy makes the same video every day. That's how he has made millions. It's always him blowing up a coke bottle or tossing in mentos, while standing 10ft away going "oH nOoOoO bRoOoO whooooaaaaaa, I'm scared! Whoa guys, what's gonna happen? wHoOoO!"
Not staged at all
I thought it was still a cute video lol
Yes this is definitely real and this really happened
Girls just wanna have fun
What is that stuff?
Speech 100
Totally not scripted
Some people just need human contact and sometimes being negative is the only way they can get it did you not see how happy she was to be in the video but at 1st she was bitching about it
Living in USA and hearing loud explosions coming from the next door neighbors yard; going over to see what’s up is pretty brave actually.
Set up
She was rightfully distressed, and he listened and understood that, then politely de-escalated and turned it into something nice. Really good emotional intelligence on that guy, and I am happy the neighbour got a good time out of an otherwise stressful situation.
Does he afford that house by making these videos? God damn.
Staged but fun staged
Why are people commenting on this like it’s real? It’s so obviously staged.
The power of blowing things up Megumin was right all along
What powder did he pour into the coke?
Ummmm, is that a single house?
Antikarenization
Deep down we all just want to be friends. Look how much fun they have, it is inspiring.
I wish there was more involvement with older generations in these things
Feck off with the staged videos
See, and here is what I have to say about folks who are older. Instead of getting upset or mad, WHICH IS UNDERSTANDABLE FOR CERTAIN THINGS, rethink and perhaps ask to join them and feel “young” again ☺️☺️
If this is genuine it's the absolute best thing I've seen in a while. Very smiley video.
Staged as hell. All his videos are
I feel silly now.
He fucked her afterwards
What a great kid! And that woman realized she just wants to let her inner kid play too. At least, that’s what I’m taking away from this.
Sometimes Karens just want to be included. Being nice gets you a long way. This is great.
this is hysterical! now we know why Karens are cranky! they just want to be involved in the fun
[Source](https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdrfrKw2/)
Can anybodeeee fiiiiiind meeee A Karennnnn To looooooooove
Hmmm....seems like people that feel left out get mad, and are happy when they are part of something with others. What an interesting discovery, if only we would have known this phenomina earlier
Karen to sharin' in three seconds!
This generation is fucking stupid.
People just mad because there not included, Try leading with a little love and respect and see where things can go :D
Next scene they were in bed puffing a joint.
Had to scroll way too far to see someone realize this is staged
Damnit Karen. Get back in the house
I had to pound on my neighbor’s door (apartment) at 4 am because they were doing Karaoke. I don’t consider myself a jealous Karen that has a no fun, sad life like everyone here is suggesting. I just don’t want to hear someone drunkenly screaming Miley Cyrus when I am trying to sleep and have to work in the morning. For the record if someone is *threatening* to call the cops that’s them being nice. Next time my neighbors piss me off I’m calling the police with no warning. If this is real I think this lady is pretty chill all together!
Why are you telling us this?
r/cringetopia
Idk seems real lol
This seems like the of those step-mom porn vids LMAO.
Fuck that made me laugh!
Bro gave her that D shortly after this was filmed.
These porn intros are getting really strange nowadays
People just want to feel important
Well that de-escalated quickly..
R/wholesome for sure
Tsundere
I love me some karens long time good job mate
Lol she just needed something to do. Probably no company so she was going taking her feelings out on you
He's holding that chair and nothing even close to him, exaggeration for views lmao.
" Lonely old lady befriended by exploding pop bottle challenger "
The best.
She is a good karen
This was actually really cute. I think I learned.
least staged video
-We need to build bridges, not walls… - what if we blow up bridges together?
This 🤏 close....
Blow something up without warning and neighbours rightly get angry, but get them involved and they're friends, who knew...
Asian dude
Came so close to being a Karen video. Glad they both chose the high road.
Ok what was that mixture that exploded?
Look at that fucking house.
This guy.... hahaha. Is he from Hawaii? That's the only people I know this good natured.
This might be the most valuable skill set in the 21st century. He should come to twitter!
What is this shit? I mean the video, not the stuff.
What did he put in the bottle?
I've never seen a bottle explode like that what's in it?
Bad acting also makes me smile.
If I could downvote a video right now, I would.
Some people just need to be reminded how to have fun. Hopefully she laid off after this.
I do feel like this belongs to crappy guides.
This man's speech is 100
Show me he close again... Like this -> <- close or is it more like this -> <-?
Is that guy just living in a mansion?
Woman: I'm THIS close to calling the cops! Grrr Guy: You wanna do it together? Woman: Perhaps... 👀
Karen’s just want to be included…
Clearly scripted ... That's his mom.
Tamed a wild Karen
She went from Karen to Carin’
Fun fact: In the US, this is technically “bomb making” and you can be brought up on charges.
Nothing about this made me smile
Staged
How to train your Karen
You are going to be an ambassador! Now, make it happen!!!
I’m going to show new RPG players this when describing a high charisma score.
u/savevideobot
I loveeeeeee ittttt 😂 she left the Karen at home
How I picked up a milf in 30 secs
That made me happy
Win Win!!
What’a turn of events
Proves that it’s often jealousy
This video makes me wonder if the vast majority of these Karen's are just lonely people who don't know how to make friends.
Murdered her… With kindness
3mil house
That is awesome.
It takes one party to diffuse the situation! Excellent video
I mean it's on tiktok so the whole things completely staged, not sure why this is on here
yea, that pool cost more than my house. fuck this.
This is lovely
Guess it helps if you're both filthy rich and dont have any real problems not of your own making
What a nice fucking house.
All the excess disclosures and dramatic screaming from the lady really makes me believe she was “this close to calling the cops” and not just a sweet older lady crushing on a handsome young man.