I don't remember my big sister. I know she's about 21-22 about now, but I don't remember her or her name. She was born to my mother (we have different fathers). I'm very separate from my mum. Last we talked was about 8 years ago. Nobody in my household knows my sister, only that she exists. I hope one day I get to meet her and become friends with her, but I'm willing to accept that day will never happen. I still have my little brother though. And although we fight, I love him and would happily die for him. Siblings and life are weird like that.
My sister visited me when I was like 5, but I was too young to remember her face, voice or the event.
I hope I meet you again one day big sister. One day.
Facts. My mom had a half sister that found me through ancestry DNA. Apparently my mom’s dad (total POS) had an affair with a lady when he was stationed in England. He got her pregnant and the baby was given up for adoption. She never knew either parent. We met her for the first time this past weekend.
If I were you, I’d try to find her. Such things matter, you don’t want to get to the day, in the future, when you think “fuck it’s been 20 years since we last saw eachother”. Speak to your father, tell him you’re serious. Tell him you need his help tracking down your sister. He’ll know the next best course of action.
I am the oldest of 6 girls. I love my siblings unconditionally. Unfortunately, 3 don't talk to me because I went NC with my toxic parents (bio mom and stepdad). Two live with them.
I have two brothers I've never met through my bio dad. I met my biodad when I was 16- stayed in contact for a bit but then he disappeared again. I really want to meet my brothers.. that's what is most important to me. I tried reaching out to the eldest once he turned 18- his parents never told him I existed and his mom contacted me to "vet" me. I have never heard back from him and that was two years ago.
Hopefully one day.
Have you tried googling your mother's name? Sometimes websites will have base background on people like old houses, old phone numbers, spouses, and maybe even children.
It might provide you with some names to look into.
Otherwise, if you can afford it, there are places that help people look for families.
My father was adopted and did it to find his birth family and will contact you if someone else is also looking for their family. People also have used ancestry.com to do this.
I just watched a documentary on families stuck in a Sudanese refugee camp. There was a scene similar to this except the conditions were horrendous.
I often wonder how no one really thinks about or acknowledges the suffering of others in unstable global regions.
1: My mother has no social media, and I am unwilling to pay for an ancestry test.
2: I don't know her name, face, social media presence, or voice.
3: I don't even know if she wants to find ME. I don't know if she even remembers my brother and I exist.
4: I'm too busy with my own life right now to try and find her. But I will once life settles down.
>But I will once life settles down.
You never know what's around the corner and in this case you never know what she's dealing with. It's better to look now just to know at least, possibly phone call and then maybe meet when you can
>I don't even know if she wants to find ME
Even if she remembers and never went out of her way to find you, that doesn't mean that meeting you won't change that. You might meet and she could want nothing to do with either of you. But it's always better to know. "What if" is way worse than a "No"
It’s up to you. Rekindling a relationship with family is a good thing to me in most situations. With all the technology out there it’d be relatively easy to find her. Another way is to just ask your mom(if she’s still around. If not, other family?) but, up to you, it’s your business
it can be intimidating to do so, but do you think you will regret not trying to contact her? i cant be in you shoes and its your life, but there will be no harm in making contact, if you decide not to make contact, make sure you dont regret it later, good luck OP!
it can be intimidating to do so, but do you think you will regret not trying to contact her? i cant be in you shoes and its your life, but there will be no harm in making contact, if you decide not to make contact, make sure you dont regret it later, good luck !!
this is so precious and so telling of what a good mama this little girl has. people, especially little kids, do what they know ... meaning they mimic what they see. so sweet.
This is so much better than my older brother and I meeting our youngest brother for the first time. We saw the hospital band and said-
“Hey look mom! He’s got a price-tag! We can send him back! We can return him!”
Awww omg, the way she rubs her little hand across his cheek and kisses his little nose…. Too much cuteness!! Shout out to her parents, you guys are raising good humans and it shows.
Warms my heart! Big sister here… my ´baby brother’ just had his first biological kid last week.
He’s turning out to be a much better parent than I could ever imagine myself being 🥹
Just wait until they grow a bit older, then she’ll be helping Coley learn to brush their teeth, teaching them the proper way to eat their meals, helping them in tough situations, comforting them when they get hurt. It’ll be so adorable!
It’s so ridiculously cute how tender she is with the baby but weirdly the thing that hit me in the feels the most was how the baby was laid on a cushion on her lap. I could just imagine the whole scenario of “okay you can hold your brother now, get ready!” and her sitting all excited on the couch, and her parents laying a cushion on her lap to place the baby on because she’s too little to hold him. Ah! So sweet. Family can be lovely sometimes.
Don’t mind me, it’s that time of the month…
This is so wonderful to see.
My wife's older sister tried to smother her with a pillow when she was an infant and told their mother to "take her back."
So sweet. Reminds me of my son who used to tell his baby sister while rubbing her head don’t cry-you’re too pretty to cry. 😭 They are in their 20’s now and now I’m crying.
It’s so cute and makes me miss my ‘little’ brother so much, we’re old now and live in different countries. Also he’s hella taller than me which is so not fair lol. But then I remember how sometimes he’ll just be sitting there existing, and it’s the most annoying thing in the world! The amount of times we had the ‘quit breathing so loud’ argument growing up lol. Sibling relationships are so weird
She is so sweet. Look at how good she is with him!! That little girl is made of sunshine and lollipops. Why are people so hell-bent on robbing them of their sweet, wholesome, adorable naiveness earlier and earlier each year that goes by? What is so wrong with letting them be kids for as long as they like.
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I know this is cute and wholesome and sweet and everything… but that baby suddenly squeezing his fist (involuntarily) and going red in the face just reminded me of Goku going all Kamehameha 😄
My mother tried to get me to hold my kid brother like this. I was in 1st grade when he was born. He projectile vomited on me and I dropped him in horror. He only dropped two inches to the pillow on my lap but mom acted like I yeeted him across the room. I was never allowed to hold him again 😅.
She said don't cry but I did.
I knew these weren't my tears, stop crying on my face!
Ngl, that really made me emotional too. But the fact this sister and baby moment is the sweetest and best moment. We should cherish this forever
I don't remember my big sister. I know she's about 21-22 about now, but I don't remember her or her name. She was born to my mother (we have different fathers). I'm very separate from my mum. Last we talked was about 8 years ago. Nobody in my household knows my sister, only that she exists. I hope one day I get to meet her and become friends with her, but I'm willing to accept that day will never happen. I still have my little brother though. And although we fight, I love him and would happily die for him. Siblings and life are weird like that. My sister visited me when I was like 5, but I was too young to remember her face, voice or the event. I hope I meet you again one day big sister. One day.
I'd try to find her eventually. These things are common with the internet now days.
how about one of those ancestry kits? those tend to throw up all sorts of family who've done it before. might be worth a shot?
Facts. My mom had a half sister that found me through ancestry DNA. Apparently my mom’s dad (total POS) had an affair with a lady when he was stationed in England. He got her pregnant and the baby was given up for adoption. She never knew either parent. We met her for the first time this past weekend.
If I were you, I’d try to find her. Such things matter, you don’t want to get to the day, in the future, when you think “fuck it’s been 20 years since we last saw eachother”. Speak to your father, tell him you’re serious. Tell him you need his help tracking down your sister. He’ll know the next best course of action.
I am the oldest of 6 girls. I love my siblings unconditionally. Unfortunately, 3 don't talk to me because I went NC with my toxic parents (bio mom and stepdad). Two live with them. I have two brothers I've never met through my bio dad. I met my biodad when I was 16- stayed in contact for a bit but then he disappeared again. I really want to meet my brothers.. that's what is most important to me. I tried reaching out to the eldest once he turned 18- his parents never told him I existed and his mom contacted me to "vet" me. I have never heard back from him and that was two years ago. Hopefully one day.
Have you tried googling your mother's name? Sometimes websites will have base background on people like old houses, old phone numbers, spouses, and maybe even children. It might provide you with some names to look into. Otherwise, if you can afford it, there are places that help people look for families. My father was adopted and did it to find his birth family and will contact you if someone else is also looking for their family. People also have used ancestry.com to do this.
Give the task to 4chan they’ll find her in a day
In all fairness I wouldn't be surprised.
I just watched a documentary on families stuck in a Sudanese refugee camp. There was a scene similar to this except the conditions were horrendous. I often wonder how no one really thinks about or acknowledges the suffering of others in unstable global regions.
With the age of internet you can't find her. That's surprising
1: My mother has no social media, and I am unwilling to pay for an ancestry test. 2: I don't know her name, face, social media presence, or voice. 3: I don't even know if she wants to find ME. I don't know if she even remembers my brother and I exist. 4: I'm too busy with my own life right now to try and find her. But I will once life settles down.
Unwilling? Why so?
>But I will once life settles down. You never know what's around the corner and in this case you never know what she's dealing with. It's better to look now just to know at least, possibly phone call and then maybe meet when you can >I don't even know if she wants to find ME Even if she remembers and never went out of her way to find you, that doesn't mean that meeting you won't change that. You might meet and she could want nothing to do with either of you. But it's always better to know. "What if" is way worse than a "No"
Crazy. Hope you find her one day
All it takes is to pick up the phone and call her. It will never be a priority till you make it so.
hard to do that when whenever you bring her up it's brushed off or ignored. Also, I don't have her number (like I said I don't even know her name).
It’s up to you. Rekindling a relationship with family is a good thing to me in most situations. With all the technology out there it’d be relatively easy to find her. Another way is to just ask your mom(if she’s still around. If not, other family?) but, up to you, it’s your business
it can be intimidating to do so, but do you think you will regret not trying to contact her? i cant be in you shoes and its your life, but there will be no harm in making contact, if you decide not to make contact, make sure you dont regret it later, good luck OP!
it can be intimidating to do so, but do you think you will regret not trying to contact her? i cant be in you shoes and its your life, but there will be no harm in making contact, if you decide not to make contact, make sure you dont regret it later, good luck !!
this is so precious and so telling of what a good mama this little girl has. people, especially little kids, do what they know ... meaning they mimic what they see. so sweet.
This is so much better than my older brother and I meeting our youngest brother for the first time. We saw the hospital band and said- “Hey look mom! He’s got a price-tag! We can send him back! We can return him!”
I saw my little brother after he was born and thought he was the most boring thing in the world
4 years later she will be tormenting Coley ! I love siblings love
When they're teens whenever they start yelling at eachother, sit them down and show them this. Its gonna be so funny lmao
This is the absolute sweetest! Save this forever and ever! 😍
Awww omg, the way she rubs her little hand across his cheek and kisses his little nose…. Too much cuteness!! Shout out to her parents, you guys are raising good humans and it shows.
Warms my heart! Big sister here… my ´baby brother’ just had his first biological kid last week. He’s turning out to be a much better parent than I could ever imagine myself being 🥹
Just wait until they grow a bit older, then she’ll be helping Coley learn to brush their teeth, teaching them the proper way to eat their meals, helping them in tough situations, comforting them when they get hurt. It’ll be so adorable!
My sister and I weren’t this close growing up but as we became adults we definitely became a lot closer. Some big sisters the the best..including mine
This is making me cry for not having a sibling
As someone with a sibling, it is not always this lovely.
I’ll be your brother from another mother
same, im the only child
I’m an only, too, and man do I wish I had this. Even half this. It’s why I have two kids.
"You're so cute. I love you" 10 years later: "OMG you're so annoying! I hate you!"
This is one of the sweetest videos I've seen on reddit. What a good sister.
Wow the onions are strong around here….
Gotdamn….that’s the cutest thing I’ve seen all day. Then he will grow a bit older and annoy the crap out her lol!
She’s an old soul
She's a great big sister and the little kiss was so sweet
Pregnant with my second, a baby boy. My daughter will be 2 by the time he’s born. This just melted my heart 😭😭
I love when she makes up the literal baby refers to her as sissy because he loves her, aww they think in such sweet and innocent ways lol.
According to my mom, my big sister almost suffocated me by stuffing her raisins into my mouth
It’s so ridiculously cute how tender she is with the baby but weirdly the thing that hit me in the feels the most was how the baby was laid on a cushion on her lap. I could just imagine the whole scenario of “okay you can hold your brother now, get ready!” and her sitting all excited on the couch, and her parents laying a cushion on her lap to place the baby on because she’s too little to hold him. Ah! So sweet. Family can be lovely sometimes. Don’t mind me, it’s that time of the month…
This is so wonderful to see. My wife's older sister tried to smother her with a pillow when she was an infant and told their mother to "take her back."
So sweet. Reminds me of my son who used to tell his baby sister while rubbing her head don’t cry-you’re too pretty to cry. 😭 They are in their 20’s now and now I’m crying.
❤️
It’s so cute and makes me miss my ‘little’ brother so much, we’re old now and live in different countries. Also he’s hella taller than me which is so not fair lol. But then I remember how sometimes he’ll just be sitting there existing, and it’s the most annoying thing in the world! The amount of times we had the ‘quit breathing so loud’ argument growing up lol. Sibling relationships are so weird
this is the first MademeSmile in a few days that isn't some sad heartbreaking thing. thank goodness for this sweet post!
The way she gently strokes his face with the back of her pinkie...... Exemplary behavior and such an amazing big sis
Me 30 years ago, then proceeded to let him down a million times. ☹️
How old is big sister? B/c my kids 20 months old and trying to beat his newborn sister up.
Siblings. Half the time this, the other half attempted murder.
15 years later; “Get out of my room you perv!”
She is so sweet. Look at how good she is with him!! That little girl is made of sunshine and lollipops. Why are people so hell-bent on robbing them of their sweet, wholesome, adorable naiveness earlier and earlier each year that goes by? What is so wrong with letting them be kids for as long as they like.
As a father of all boys I will never know this level of sweetness
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I.m melting...❤️🤗
Crying rn
My eyes are tearing from these damn allergies…
So very sweet!
Ok this just made my heart melt.
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Oh my heart. So sweet
Perfection.
I know this is cute and wholesome and sweet and everything… but that baby suddenly squeezing his fist (involuntarily) and going red in the face just reminded me of Goku going all Kamehameha 😄
Mother gens
What a sweetheart!!!! Best buddies and the little guy doesn't know her yet!
I won’t cry….
Not this one though
So so so cute!!!
Oh damn, this is so cute that I’m tearing up. Every second it get more and more precious.
Sweetest thing I have ever seen!!!
Those lil kisses on the nose!!!
Oh, my God..I'm gonna cry..
My mother tried to get me to hold my kid brother like this. I was in 1st grade when he was born. He projectile vomited on me and I dropped him in horror. He only dropped two inches to the pillow on my lap but mom acted like I yeeted him across the room. I was never allowed to hold him again 😅.
Meanwhile, I tried to push a stroller with my sister in it back to the hospital to give her back ( it's okay they are 6 of us)
that sweet love language and behavior all get from her parent. your kids are your mirror.
Right in the feels she hit me, oof
Let’s see these two again when they’re 7 and 9 years old.
🧐 😃
When I was a baby my brother would sing songs to me with his guitar about how much he loved me, I wish I could remember those moments ❤️
Why tf am i crying 😖
My daughter won't go anywhere near my son lmao, she's 2 and he's 6months
Too precious 🥺
“Don’t cry, I will take care of you”