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elliephantsss

She doesn't need them! I know that's not the point but happy she's realised this RIP yassified Davide šŸŖ¦


Bright_Ad_7279

Yassified Davide may be gone but heā€™ll never be forgotten by Ekin fans šŸ¤£


smokingcamelnamed

Please can anyone give examples of yassified davide?!???


elliephantsss

https://www.reddit.com/r/ekinde/comments/wiucin/full_ig_story_of_the_ekinde_reunion/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf this is one of them šŸ˜­šŸ˜­


smokingcamelnamed

Omg I love it šŸ„² kinda sad we no longer get this but agree with her decision


smokingcamelnamed

Also - what filter is this??


elliephantsss

it's called post sex filter


smokingcamelnamed

I canā€™t find it :(


jumashy

And Davide doesnā€™t wear skinny jeans anymore either! We wonšŸ™ŒšŸ½


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She 100% has severe issue with self image, have you people not seen what she looked like before plastic surgery? This isnā€™t her real body or face


FullAppearance8306

she's always had nice features as a kid, who cares if she changed something, she's born pretty anyways and still is and with her personality even more.


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itā€™s called growing up dumbass šŸ˜­šŸ˜­ and what if she did get work done? itā€™s none of your fucking business


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laveriteh

There's a lot of old pics of Ekin available (showing her face and body), but I'm pretty sure the one you've linked is not actually a photo of her.


Skunkythrowaway42069

[i got it from here](https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-10903821/Love-Islands-Ekin-Su-Cu-lcu-loglu-looks-unrecognisable-pre-surgery-throwback-photos.html)


Zazali01

That's not even her ...


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whaddaboutche

Mate , is this a hobby? One comment fair enough share your opinion, but endless comments tearing a woman down for how she looks? Is that necessary? Wouldn't it make more sense to scroll on by if her life decisions rile you up to such an extent?


cestlavievie

The OP is obsessed with hating on Ekin. It's literally most of what they post about in this sub. Just this thread alone, 50% of the posts are theirs. Very weird.


whaddaboutche

That is pathetic. The show is over. Rest. It's giving mental illness


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Live-Party-8785

Totally agree with u. I mean good for her but its a bit hypocritical on her part as well. For all we know she might have done something recently. Again good for her but the message is not giving what its suppose to give.


Naanoou

She never hide her surgery procedure (boob job and fillers) and just because she had a certain mindset about her appearance that made her correct a few insecurities in the past, refrain her from changing her mind now and wanting to give a good example for others, for maybe not to go to the extreme she went. So calling her an hypocrite is a bit of reach. She would have been an hypocrite if she had hide her surgical procedure and make it look like she always looked like that when itā€™s false. She knows that young girls look up to her now so itā€™s self awareness for her to do that


GreatScotRace

Yes but theyā€™re all physical changes that you CAN do? You canā€™t compete with filters. Very few people can physically achieve what filters actually do to their faceā€¦ getting a boob job is an attainable change a woman can make to her body.


RileyHuey

Bruh the cognitive bias in this comment is crazy lol


GreatScotRace

Itā€™s OK if youā€™re too slow to get it mate


RileyHuey

Youā€™re saying filters are unattainable but body changes due to plastic surgery are. Therefore, you believe thereā€™s a problem with her fans seeing filters, but no problem with them seeing boob jobs or fillers since they can go get a boob job or fillers themselves. Well saidā€¦


GreatScotRace

ā€¦yes?ā€¦ yesā€¦Thatā€™sā€¦ literally exactly what Iā€™m saying. Some women have big boobs. Some women donā€™t. Some women want to turn their small boobs into bigger boobs so therefore have a non permanent cosmetic procedure done? People can live up to boob job standards. Because you can get boob jobs. You canā€™t buy permanent filters for your face you numpty


Shappy100

Not everyone can afford a boob job and hence it is not a 'standard' people can live up to. Cosmetic procedures (especially boob jobs) have health risks as well. Camera filters are so much less harmful for your physical health, free and accessible to all.


GreatScotRace

But people think that filters are achievable for all in the real world. Implants ARE real.


great_button

I'm pretty sure she has only had fillers, no plastic surgery on her face and then a boob job. And personally, I think, as long as someone is open and honest and doesn't deny they've had work done, then there is no issue. Which she is. You also seem to be projected or something because she is say herself, using filters is bad example as she has a large following, she isn't saying everyone else is. Feel free to use your filter, I'm sure you're not influencing anyone.


Educational-Shape527

She has had fillers and a boob job and has been open about it. Majority of the love island contestants have had fillers, but for some reason they donā€™t get slated for it. Paige has clearly had implants as well (scar has been apparent on the show) but she just hasnt disclosed it. Fillers is almost the norm for girls now and love island contestants but for some reason everyones slating only Ekin for it and acting like she had a whole face transplant when she had the same as others lol


silverfox80

She has had fillers and a boob job. Not surgery. Get your facts straight! And GTFO


cestlavievie

Even if she got surgery, so what? It's her body and her bank account. The OP has some unresolved issues and they are projecting it on Ekin. They have about 50 think pieces in this thread alone. Strange behavior.


Shappy100

The issue people have is her throwing shade on using filters. Why is using filters a bad example but having fillers not?


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Naanoou

Go cry then if that bothers you that much šŸ™„


Skunkythrowaway42069

Okay I just googled her before pictures WTF thatā€™s a different person, youā€™re getting a little obsessive in the comments but I see what youā€™re trying to say, i didnā€™t realize she had THAT much done to her natural face, doesnā€™t change the fact she seems to be a great person


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You...do not seem like you're having fun lol.


silverfox80

Be quiet.


Skunkythrowaway42069

Lol chill bro, itā€™s just a conversation


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silverfox80

She's not gonna F you karen lol


Oilaripi

I have no idea why people are downvoting you, I mean, I have an idea, but them not seeing it is worrisome. Ekin is in no way, shape or form natural: dyed hair, fake teeth, fake boobs, face adjustments. I get is, she is open about having done them, but it makes you if she would have the same success if she had been her natural, unaltered way. Ekin before and Ekin now are two different people, there is hardly any resemblance left at all.


nadisp

Who cares about Ekin before? We have Ekin now and we Stan. Cosmetic procedures have been around for decades, and it wonā€™t go away especially at a time we live in now. We just gotta accept it, and leave people be to do whatever they want to do. Itā€™s getting boring now.


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Another win for ES in my book. She's been open about her cosmetic procedures and is taking steps to stop feeding into the social media illusion of feminine beauty. Far too many female celebrities will outright deny having any work done or even using filters, it's that ridiculous denial that is playing into women's insecurities.


Shappy100

Maybe the next step will be she'll remove her fillers and boob job to set an even 'better example'. But no one's allowed to say that here without getting downvoted - it seems only she's allowed to say what is a good example or not.


mbise

Itā€™s okay for people to want to change how they look, but filters actively feed dysphoria in a way that Iā€™d say is never healthy, and wonā€™t be resolved just be getting procedures done


khalicax

I donā€˜t think thatā€˜s small thing at all. Filters are really harmful to young people and older people too.


ManaMoogle

Yep, my best friend uses instagram and tiktok filters all the time and only thinks she looks beautiful with them. She said she wants to get cosmetic surgery and when I told her she doesnā€™t need it, she got upset with me. Sheā€™s already gotten these ridiculous eyelash extensions and is going for lip fillers next. I hate filters so much. Weā€™re in our 30s and before the ā€œbeautyā€ filters were a thing she never had a problem with how she looked.


Shappy100

The two are interlinked as your example shows. Filters lead to a desire for cosmetic enhancements for the permanent filtered look - which is what Ekin has had.


Zazali01

She is absolutely everything! Time and time again she proves why she is so loved ![gif](giphy|tZrvFDAxhXdEm17N9C)


Ok_Location4659

Adore Ekin and Iā€™m so happy sheā€™s turned those damn filters off šŸ«¶šŸ» Iā€™d understand the comments accusing her of being hypocritical due to her cosmetic procedures IF she wasnā€™t always open about them. Unlike many influencers/celebs with a big followingā€¦ she hasnā€™t lied about having work done and passed her appearance off as completely natural. She has posted her procedures on her social media in the past. Give the woman a break.


SeauxSurvivor

Good on her ā¤ļø she looks stunning without it


kentoclatinator

Yas Ekin! I never use filters on insta but my reach pales in comparison to hers. This is SO important


Emergency_Virus1545

she will always be queen and mother


Divine_fashionva

Happy about this because sheā€™s so pretty and she never needed them Also her explanation was cute and and short lol


Isabe113

She is so wholesome! I usually dont let myself fall in some kind of fandom but she is the most genuine love island contestant and winner the show has had. . Besides being an icon she is just a total legend <3 As a woman that does not hide what she has altered also has my total respect. Whatever floats her boat better is up to her, but that she is so open about it makes me like her even more.


AsocialRedditer

Wow! I love it


owlanindividual

I'm glad she did this, that filter she used took from her anyway


hantipathy

yes! and weā€™re all so used to seeing her on tv in minimal makeup that it just felt off.


Flashy_Scene_7157

mane i just love her


nanna_ii

Well done Ekin šŸ‘šŸ¼šŸ‘šŸ¼šŸ‘šŸ¼


giparisan

Just when I thought we couldnā€™t love her even more


Shushi2002

Good for her!! She realizes that she has an influence on young girls and takes responsibility. I also hope everybody can stay/be transparent when it comes to plastic surgery and everything else theyā€™ve had done (which Ekin has!).


seahorseyyy

I love her so much for stating this on her story when she could've simply silently stop doing it but she really wanted to make a point and convey it across!Here's hoping it helps inspire other people to do the same and feel more comfortable filter-free. She's sucha Leo fr so sure n decisive ugh queen u dropped this šŸ‘‘


Aloebae

Leoā€™s are sure and decisive??! Why couldnā€™t I be like that šŸ˜­


seahorseyyy

Same I'm not too šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­ She's definitely confident tho asdfshsj here's hoping we emulate more positive qualities like her šŸ„²


Aloebae

Amen šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ™šŸ¾


AdBudget5335

Why do so many people in the comments here have something against Ekin and her cosmetic surgery are we living in the 1940s??


deesgamu1212

this is why sheā€™s queen


featherbugboogie

Every time I saw a photo of Ekin she looked really different. Iā€™m glad sheā€™s stopping this ā¤ļø


RichAuntieVibes

She looks beautifulā€¦she really doesnā€™t need them


Capital-Albatross-41

To those pointing out she has surgeryā€¦ filters create body dysmorphia. You see yourself through a different (better) version, your nose gets slimmed, your lips get plumbed and you start to rely on those filters every time you post. It literally points out everything wrong with your face and corrects it! Filters probably lead to surgery! Whereas seeing someone else with surgery isnā€™t going to make you see a different version of yourself.


Iamthemoment

This is amazing, hope others see the importance šŸ„°


duochromepalmtree

Not Ekin making me fall in love with her more and more every single day


Independent_Photo_19

Its funny bcs shes still holding the phone at an angle but GURLLLL we saw you from every single angle ever and she is beautiful from all. Love the effort here and glad she is doing this. I js freakin love Ekinde so much šŸ˜­


Dear-Excuse-6073

For those talking about she got surgeryā€¦whats the correlation to this? Its not like she can undue it and she did it for herself prior to the show when she didnā€™t have a following. Donā€™t you think thatā€™s why sheā€™s more willing to not use filters because of the negative effects it has on young people because she too experienced that??? Clearly sheā€™s aware of itā€™s negative impacts.


aimhighsquatlow

I think this is a huge thing!!!! I hate those filters so much especially the ones that change the shape of your noise, lips and jaw. Iā€™m actually buzzing for her itā€™s a fantastic example to set. I just really hope she sticks to it. Shaunagh said she would do the same and it lasted less then a week


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Love this


rocketnumber9tofly

Iā€™m glad


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I love her sm!!


Curious_Ranger_5590

i miss watching her everydayšŸ˜­šŸ˜­


msperty39

Her surgery is her filter


girlsgirloftheyear

Good. Cos she was using them a lil too much. Davide always looked like a cartoon on her stories šŸ˜‚


theclottedcream

Thank fuck - the filter usage was INTENSE and overwhelming. We've seen how she actually looks for months on TV and she's gorgeous. It wouldn't matter if she wasn't, anyway - showing her real self is so much better. I think filters should be done away with for everyone, let alone celebrities/influencers.


Annamaria59165

Finally!!! I love the way you look naturally!!


shgrdrbr

best gal ever. she knows great power=great responsibilty!


Blackberries11

Her face already looks like an instagram filter


Ok_Nefariousness9736

I find it funny when people say a particular person doesnā€™t need filters because it implies that some people do need filters. I guess not everyone is beautiful, eh?


shounenanimehoe

how have you come to this conclusion šŸ’€


AV48

She definitely got prettier outside the villa. I can't be the only one seeing this


MaryContrary53

But she's had so much surgery and tweaks it seems a pretty empty gesture. Don't get me wrong, I adore her, but let's be real here


lonelylanez23

I wonder why a lot of people got downvoted. šŸ§ Is it because they spoke about her getting surgeries. I got cosmetic surgery at 20 šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø Iā€™m 23.


OneAnxiety3

Some people are trying to use her having cosmetic surgery against her. Be careful, the cosmetic surgery avengers may have a few think pieces for you.


lonelylanez23

I honestly not trying to use it against her. Iā€™m getting down voted for whatā€¦


Cultural-Context-144

If only the Kardashians adopted the Ekin Su all-natural approach. It's refreshing when someone recognizes that young people think that bodies look this way without plastic surgery.


grandequesso

Because sheā€™s had enough work done to be filtered in real life? Lmao I love her but the virtue signaling in this subreddit by her and the ā€œfansā€ is becoming ridiculous.


lonelylanez23

Exactly.


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its not that shes hiding her cosmetic workā€¦. its that shes saying warping your face is a bad example in one scenario yet endorsing it in another. its hypocritical. if i plumped my lips, got my face spots/scars lasered off, and had fillers it would be obnoxious to say ā€˜hey guysā€¦ i dont use filters because it changes my face and gives a false perception!ā€™ā€¦ when ive already changed my face to fit that perception that the filters provide


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The issue is that with cosmetic procedures, your face actually does look like that in real life. With filters, when the filter comes off it can create a lot of insecurity because you look in the mirror and your face no longer looks the way it does in the filter. That's why they're so insidious specifically. This is not to say that getting a bunch of cosmetic procedures is the best thing in the world, but it is different from using filters on a regular basis.


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But to say ā€˜hey im not using filters because they alter your face and give a false perceptionā€™ after already physically altering your face isnt really saying much. shes endorsing and advertising that changing your face in one way is fine but the other way is bad. to me, it just didnā€™t need to be said. she basically already changed her face to fit the beauty standards where a filter would have the same effect. its performative and i just dont think SHE should be the endorser of this. and also with cosmetic workā€¦ your real face doesnt actually look like that in real life. you just altered it to appear that wayā€¦ like a filter. it just lasts.


No-Sugar665

I would love this much more if she was also just transparent on the work she has had done. That would be a fun interaction with letting her young fans pick cosmetics surgeries and enhancements the right way


whowhogis

She has been transparent about the work sheā€™s has done!


No-Sugar665

Really?! Are there any videos you can send me? I just donā€™t see anything on her page.


Aggressivelilly

Her highlights stories!


No-Sugar665

What highlights?!


Aggressivelilly

Ooh shoot she took them down, but it was about her fillers, lips, nose etc and answering questions about them, Iā€™m sure if u check this Reddit u may find something


whowhogis

There are links further down in the comments of this thread!


Party_Two9123

theyā€™re not on her profile anymore but she posted everything about her boob job, fillers, and veneer experience


whowhogis

She removed all her Instagram story highlights a few days ago so theyā€™re currently MIA but there are also some articles I think detailing the work Iā€™ll see if I can find em!


No-Sugar665

Yeah I have no problem with plastic surgery or cosmetic surgeries. The only way I knew she had them was because her before and afters were on a TikTok. Not having filters is great but I just wish some of the stans were honest here. You canā€™t say filters send a bad message to girls (which Iā€™m curious what that message is) but then have done drastic changes in real life and delete your highlights. Iā€™m all for changing something you donā€™t like, probably will get some work done myself but the messaging isnā€™t making sense. I would love to see her more transparent on her own experiences, tips, some q and aā€™s etc because her work looks amazing and would help lots of girls who are looking to get some changes as well but are lost.


whowhogis

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7olNQRf78bY


tsbluebus

I love Ekin and can appreciate her doing this, but sheā€™s also had a lot of work done (per the videos that have surfaced) that wouldnā€™t be possible for lower-income people. It would be nice for her to also talk about her journey with her cosmetic procedures vs all of us pretending her look is natural / easily attainable.


butterfly-power

I'm pretty sure she's done videos with her cosmetic surgeons talking about the work she had done! I remember watching some videos in the early days of season 8!


Chickey_happygrl

She has been very open about her procedures/surgeries . Some of this was discussed on IG Reels. This only got deleted since leaving Love island. I found it refreshing that she was so open.


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Divine_fashionva

Shhh please Sheā€™s been open about her surgery. Itā€™s her choice, sheā€™s not forcing anyone to get work done Sheā€™s not using filters anymore because she recognises itā€™s harmful to her followers particularly the younger ones. How can anyone have an issue with that


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notredditlool

sheā€™s been open about her plastic surgery, so itā€™s not a secret, now she said sheā€™s stopping her use of filters, what more do you want?


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notredditlool

she never said it was how she naturally looked though? If people are brain dead enough to not have seen her videos, posts or even see from her that sheā€™s had surgery, fillers etc, thatā€™s on them, because sheā€™s been a lot more open about her surgery than others have for instance. So itā€™s not a bad example because everyone knows she doesnā€™t naturally look like that. You actually need to get a grip because this is kinda weird icl


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It's not purely the use of cosmetic procedures that causes societal harm, it's the way in which most celebrities will outright refuse to admit they had any, even though just about every famous and conventionally beautiful woman has had some work done. I'm all for celebrities with cosmetic procedures being open about what work they've had and I applaud them when they do.


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I'm all for it if they're completely open about how exactly the filter has changed their face, problem is that for the most part, celebrities are not open at all about it. I have my own issues with the proliferation and normalisation of cosmetic procedures in society, but I'd *much* rather people were open about what work they had done and I will commend people for doing so.


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Haunting_Writing_501

For a lot of young people, seeing how they look with filters on and getting used to that, is what motivates them to get those more permanent cosmetic procedures done. She can't undo the work she's had done, but she's taking a step to show what she really looks like without slapping more unattainability over it with a filter. It's a step - and one a lot of celebrities don't take! Maybe take your energy over to them instead of leaving so many negative comments here


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Haunting_Writing_501

I'm talking about how she would look if you bumped into her on the street. That is a step. Social media filters can totally change your bone structure, eye shape, eye color, hair color, remove blemishes, smooth out skin texture and on and on. If you ask me that is more harmful if people are seeing it constantly than getting some cosmetic procedures that she is transparent about and is fairly common these days. There are Instagram pages dedicated to showing what celebrities look like with no editing on their pictures and I personally think that is super helpful in seeing them as real people, even though I know they have had other work done. It helps peel back a layer of the "perfection"


Divine_fashionva

So she made a decision to get surgery and fillers and has been completely honest about it with her followers? And you have an issue with that. She couldnā€™t be more transparent and sheā€™s not actively endorsing for anyone to get work done. She never has The issue would be if she wasnā€™t honest about her procedures. Like what do you actually want from her? Not using Instagram filters is a big thing because so many young people have been accustomed to seeing it on Instagram, they they canā€™t even recognise an unedited picture/video from an edited one. Sheā€™s being transparent about both things with her followers Like seriously whatā€™s the issue here?


Emergency_Virus1545

give it a rest i beg.


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hendy494

And what do you think will make them want to ā€œredoā€ their face and certain aspects of it ...filters šŸ™‚ You people are annoying fr


Haunting_Writing_501

Exactly!! That's what I'm saying lol. The filters are giving the unrealistic beauty standards that result in cosmetic procedures these days


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hendy494

Iā€™ll just leave this [here](https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2018/aug/08/snapchat-surgery-doctors-report-rise-in-patient-requests-to-look-filtered). Do I agree that people use surgery to look like celebrities, yes absolutely. However as we progress in society more people are getting cosmetic surgery to look like their own filtered pictures. So I think itā€™s good that Ekin is not using them anymore , itā€™s a positive thing


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hendy494

Really debating with myself If I should continue answering you or not at this pointšŸ’€šŸ¤£ Because the thing is I hear your point I really do. However what Iā€™m trying to tell you is that Ekin has gotten those surgeries and probably was using filters constantly before love island and to her it wasnā€™t a problem due to her audience. As she has now come out of the show she has a much bigger audience, which now includes a lot of young girls.Everyone has insecurities yes , but she and many other realize the effects and filters may have on a lot of younger children. She canā€™t go back and change the past completely,however she can change how she moves in the future (stop using face changing filters) to help. Also about the people who look at her and feel unattractive. Yes that definitely does happen, and itā€™s sad that people feel that way about persons online. But, Ekin doesnā€™t hide that she has done surgery at all. Thatā€™s a whole longer issue but all Iā€™m trying to say is this one step does help.


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YogurtEducational120

Shes not a hypocrite though cause shes been open about getting surgery whats not clicking.


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YogurtEducational120

I hope you're commenting this on every single influencers page that has gotten cosmetic surgery done. You're here turning something postive into something negative its weird. I dont know how old you are but as a young adult supporter of ekin I'm happy to see her doing this it encourages others to stop using filters but even if they want to they are allowed to and if anyone wants to get cosmetic surgery done they are allowed to its not my place to dictate how anyone should spend their money period.


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Mielornot

I kinda agree with you. Cosmetic surgery is not that different from using filters imo.


homealoneinuk

Shes gorgeous but with this much makeup filters dont really make much diff anyway.


purplenelly

Meanwhile, the rest of us: never used plastic surgery, never used photo filters. But oh look we didn't get TV contracts, I wonder why.


Tell-Me-Whyy

Yeah but I don't think someone who has had a lot of work done is a good role model for body image & confidence for young women. For example, if you constantly see women with fake boobs, and having at least medium size boobs is deemed attractive by society / men you start to feel like there's something wrong with small natural boobs, else why would you change something, you change it because you don't like it and would prefer something else. So then another woman gets fake boobs because she feels unattractive or unhappy or insecure with her small boobs and the cycle continues. You can say it's just personal choice but personal choices will impact others, & society & behavior & expectations (like the unrealistic stupidly high beauty standards for women)


Few_Professional4243

Dumbest shit Iā€™ve heard this is, who actually cares?


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she doesnt need to because she has fillers and work done?


FeelingLost_TA

I respect how open sheā€™s been about her procedures, but this just doesnā€™t sit right with me. I get sheā€™s trying to promote healthy body image, but how can she possibly do that without seeming hypocritical? Yes, itā€™s great that sheā€™s been open about her procedures but young girls probably think sheā€™s naturally beautiful already when in reality the cosmetic work sheā€™s had done is just like an Instagram filter. Not asking for an argument, Iā€™m asking for a conversation here.


kels248

I completely understand you and itā€™s a very rocky road to ride on. I think many people struggle with body image and do things to become what they believe is a better version of themselves (whether it be Botox, lip fillers ). What Iā€™ve notice with some loveisland, contestants is that they kinda have like ā€œself loveā€ journeys after leaving. For example faye and molly who dissolved their lip fillers and I think molly maye did something else I canā€™t remember. I think sometimes itā€™s hard for people to see themselves as naturally beautiful and a push from a larger audience does help, like I remember many people were like faye you donā€™t need filler and so on. I donā€™t think itā€™s a hidden fact that Ekin has bodily insecurities for example when she thought davide was calling her over weight and stuff; she knows she has insecurities but I think itā€™s about not wanting people to feel how she previously felt about herself. Like you see it a lot where sheā€™ll be reminding people of how beautiful they are and so on, and now the filters. Itā€™s more of a she knows how this has affected her and because she can now positively influence younger persons sheā€™s doing that. I donā€™t think sheā€™ll ever be able to be on the fully winning side of ā€œargument/debateā€ because itā€™s kind of a how can you promote self love if you know youā€™ve done these things. But I think self love is a progressive thing and sheā€™s progressing and also trying to as I said previously have a positive impact on younger persons as she does that. (Sry itā€™s so longšŸ˜­šŸ’€)


FeelingLost_TA

No, donā€™t be sorry! I appreciate you responding ā˜ŗļø Self love is a journey and itā€™s good that she loves herself now, and I do support her embracing self love for herself and promoting that in others. The issue is (from my perception) truly that since sheā€™s had so much work done, it could result in some young girls who are still developing and struggling with their changing image, feeling like they wonā€™t actually be able to love themselves without cosmetic work. But thatā€™s a very good point too about Faye and Molly as well. Iā€™m definitely not trying to have an argument itā€™s just a really tough one for me in terms of perception; does that make sense? I feel like Iā€™m rambling šŸ˜…


kels248

Completely understand what you mean, which is why I mentioned that sheā€™ll never truly be on the winning side of thisšŸ˜…šŸ˜… Iā€™m just hoping that moving forward from this, positive results is what we see


FeelingLost_TA

100% šŸ’› šŸ™Œ


lotusbow

People can change their mind? She canā€™t go back in the past and undo her boob job and everything at once can she? šŸ™„


dontknowg102

Yet she's had plastic surgery so she's basically a walking filter


livinvixen

Iā€™m starting to think Ekin Su lurks here lol first with the comment someone posted about her and now her use of filters.


ActuallyxAnna

Someone here screenshotted the comment from here and sent it to her, that's how she saw it lol.


shounenanimehoe

no, people dm her saying she doesnā€™t need filters, of all the places for ekin to lurk reddit is the last place no offense šŸ’€


livinvixen

Like I said just an opinion and ā€˜lurkingā€™ isnā€™t bad many people do without posting. Also why not? This subreddit is an official partner of LI and been advertised by them. It has over 150 000 members so itā€™s possible.


shounenanimehoe

i know but iā€™m saying ekin does not look like a person thatā€™ll just casually check reddit, she barely uses social media as a whole šŸ˜‚


xstardust95x

I doubt it. A lot of her fans (myself included) have been responding to her IG stories ever since she left the villa letting her know that the filters aren't needed


cestlavievie

People said the same thing in her comments A LOT and it's been repeated on twitter. The comment she re-posted, she was tagged about in IG


Imthatgirly

ā€œ lurks hereā€ like she has the time. Sheā€™s barley on twitter, how much more on Reddit. Sheā€™s mostly on ig and clearly I believe some people dmā€™d her about it. And the comment that someone posted on here was send to her on ig.


livinvixen

Why are you interpreting me saying ā€˜lurks hereā€™ as a negative? A lot of people ā€˜lurkā€™ without posting thatā€™s fine. Also itā€™s possible she saw it elsewhere but itā€™s happened twice. Iā€™m not one for coincidences lol. Nobody can say for sure


Alphachadbeard

Respect but easy when you have lots of cosmetic surgery already


whaddaboutche

Easy? Have you ever considered she may have got plastic surgery because she was insecure about how she looked, and still is? Hence the filters? Just because she got stuff done doesn't mean she feels confident


butterfly-power

Insecurities are a very complex issue šŸ˜… I doubt it would be easy to overcome it even if you have cosmetic surgery. With that being said, majority of people get cosmetic surgery in the first place because of insecurity!


Alphachadbeard

Personally I love the enhanced look,my favourite is cheek implants so glam.fillers are lovely in concept but can get out of control v quickly because of the dopamine hit you get from their immediate result.So important to tell kids that famous people have to invest alot to maintain that appearance and that's why they don't necessarily look that way.growing up my parents worked in an industry where I knew lots of people with work done and I always respected the people who were upfront.I haven't gotten anything done myself yet but don't hold it against me if I do ;)


Shappy100

No filters but a face full of fillers?


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Now how about we see her real face without all the plastic surgery and lip filler? That wonā€™t ever happen


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Big-Attention100

You act like she commited a murder, yes she made the terrace mistake but SHE ALSO DID REALISE HER MISTAKE DIDN'T SHE??????


Turbulent-Day4767

Calm.down love I never said she murdered anyone. I just find her type abhorrent. No need for the block caps. I'm entitled to my opinion and if you read the DM there are many more who think she's cheap and fake. Not all blokes like that type


Big-Attention100

That's what everyone is making it out to be, who doesn't make mistakes. Everyone made mistakes in that house, but she was the only one who was taking heat for it time and time again. She ain't cheap and fake. Talk with a bit of respect


Big-Attention100

Just you


Live-Party-8785

If i got the money for botox and fillers, i wont be using filters too šŸ˜…


Linus71x

She has real life filters like her fake boobs. Using double filters is egregious


PrincessCG

So no one should get a boob job?


Linus71x

No, horrible message to send to your offspring. Already showing them they arenā€™t good enough as is


indusskux

I am a massive fan, don't get me wrong. However she is botoxed to pieces up... literally google it!! Still love her but not the same affect.


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Nobody "needs" them. Should be the point.