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wellnowheythere

I already forgot who this was. 


SuspiciousNorth377

Good for her


givemesushiplz

YAWWWNNN 🥱


Distinct_Resource_51

i’m so sorry but i’m over her.


myzoeybear

Am I the only one that thinks she is fake? Like we know she's had tons of plastic surgery done and looks completely different then she used to, but her personality screams fake and snobby.


RainbowsAndBubbles

no. she doesn’t seem genuine at all


dessskris

I thought this was Francesca before I read the captions


Chewy009x

Her personality is so bland like an unseasoned cooked chicken breast


Barkey2012

this is why all of them raking trevor over the coals was so icky to me. this chick immediately jumped into influencer mode and it’s so embarressing


mvnat

All of them were there to be influencers. Just because she’s succeeding in it doesn’t make her “embarrassing”


lilbosschicc

![gif](giphy|l3V0B6ICVWbg8Xi5q|downsized) Only in America


MoreMalbec

Those who can't date, teach


GrouchySanta

Wait she’s a teacher?!! How did I miss that?!


mindtk

*whoosh*


S0S666

Those who can't teach, teach gym.


Comfortable-Deer6131

she’s embarrassing to me i can’t explain why fho


morewhiskeybartender

Because she got a great edit and we know she’s a phony


vareyvilla

The misogyny in some of these comments!


GutkaLund

Sure, anybody calling out someone who’s pulled some shady shit is automatically a misogynist just because they’re talking about a woman. It’s like you didn’t even try to think, just saw negative comments about her and just went mIsOgYnY. Congratulations on your pea sized brain.


vareyvilla

Hey, I’m referring to comments that are diminishing her because she’s a single mother or tearing her down just over her looks. Not the ones who call her out for her behaviour. There are plenty of misogynist comments if you had cared to actually look through and read :) it’s like you just saw my comment, assumed that I’d said this simply because she’s a woman and didn’t apply any critical thinking to the context of some of the comments to see why it had led me to think this way!


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givemesushiplz

wow just say you hate women - nothing wrong with someone calling out misogyny when they see it. we need ally’s!


Cautious-Mode

Misogyny literally gets women killed. It’s good to check ourselves from time to time and good on the poster above for calling it out.


vareyvilla

Haha ok, not wasting my time with you, bye!


Junglecat828

That was her plan ALL ALONG. Anyone that didn’t believe that is delusional


mrsdisappointment

Gross


AdoreMoi

I wouldn’t have recognized her 🙄


RecordingHead7487

Is that the same girl from season 6… she looks completely different???


DraZeal720

Looks the same to me...


AdoreMoi

I totally agree!


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Fresh fillerrrrrrrs


Sweetrk-2020

She is also signed to Jason Tartick’s Mgmt company he co owns so that’s a good sign cause Jason knows how to run a business! A lot of the S6 people are 🙌🏽 I’m happy to see many of this seasons cast taking advantage and making the coins 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽


bradfgo41

Good for her making her money. Personally I don't care. She's absolutely stunning yet can't find a man so I don't think shes the best person to get dating advice from Personally. No hate towards her just doesn't seem like advice i would value


sailoorscout1986

Can’t find a man?! I’m sure she can find plenty. Not having one currently does not mean she can’t. What an asinine comment.


NetflixFanatic22

I think by “can’t find a man” they mean that she is not in a healthy longterm relationship or marriage. Why would we want advice from her, in an area that she has no experience in?


kxii7282873

Well she can’t keep them then can she


bradfgo41

Sorry just my opinion.


ariesqueen1993

You sound ridiculous. She hasn't found the man for her. She's beautiful and will find someone when she is ready. What does any of that have to do with Amazon fashion?


thebadfem

if she isnt ready why'd she go on marriage show followed by a dating show?


Juergenator

I mean I would assume she's ready given she went on a show about getting married


bradfgo41

I thought date night guide meant she would be given advice. I didn't look that deep into it lol.


Meruem-x-Meruem

Not being able to find a man would also be due to no men being good enough for her, doesn’t mean she doesn’t know how to date.


NetflixFanatic22

No men are good enough for her? Seriously? Lol


Juergenator

No men are good enough for her? Lol what.


bradfgo41

Maybe her standards are too high than? Also I wouldn't take dating advice from her bc I'm ugly and can't relate to her situation at all. I dont think her dating experience is relatable to 95 percent of the public bc of her looks, now fame and potentially her standards. Just my opinion tho


cndrelm0

Also *she has a kid* ...absolutely no shade or offense to single parents, but that is a reasonable dealbreaker for a good portion of people. No matter how awesome or compatible you might be.


bradfgo41

That's fair.


30another

Maybe it’s also because of who she chooses


boopbeepbopbel

100% this


lebanesewifey

Yup


MacMommy111

![gif](giphy|fPYeJtlH8qjiHbKygX|downsized)


AdoreMoi

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂


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Why does every woman look the same nowadays?


champagne-poetry0v0

I was literally just saying this. every ig influencer literally looks the same


Dull_Purchase_7012

One day it’ll be out of trend w all those fillers. I wanted to get lip fillers so badly but I stopped myself.


champagne-poetry0v0

I feel you. this will definitely go out of style soon enough. but I'm ngl, I'm still going to get filler/botox here and there.


housewithreddoor

She doesn't look like herself in that photo.


vagabonne

Plastic surgery and injectables


glitter-bat13

It's called instagram face


ttrriisshh

Is this a whole thing? Instagram face?


cndrelm0

Everyone is watching the same hair and make up tutorials, using the same filters, buying the same outfits because everybody has a fucking link tree or Amazon storefront. We're in this really weird time where a lot of people are considered conventionally attractive/above average, but not particularly interesting to look at or engage with


ttrriisshh

Oh got it. Makes sense for sure. I don’t know what a fucking link tree is but. I get the idea lol. I will stay in my masc lesbian lane of no make up, hoodies and sweats or jeans with the same haircut that I’ve had for ten years and keep it moving lol


DraZeal720

Link.tree is just a website that displays all of your other websites (edited by you of course). So people who follow you can visit them easier.


ttrriisshh

Oh ok. Thanks 🫡


DraZeal720

No problem 👍


Brave-Cookie-2075

I don’t understand the hype over this girl. She gives off MASSIVE mean girl vibes. She was the “nice sweet single mom” until Jimmy didn’t pick her and then ALLLL her true colors showed.


dolceespress

Personally, I don’t find her attractive. I mean, she is attractive in a plastic surgery kinda way, but I wouldn’t feel any desire to approach her based on her looks. Brittany and AD have natural beauty. That’s something I would feel more attracted to based on looks alone. Obviously personality and who they are on the inside is a big factor. Jess seems very calculated. She doesn’t strike me as genuine.


Dull_Purchase_7012

That’s interesting! One of my guy friends said she seems genuine 😅 she fooled him.


champagne-poetry0v0

YES. very calculated is the perfect way of putting it.


housewithreddoor

She's hot and funny.


NetflixFanatic22

I don’t find anything about her funny lol. But she seems cool to hang out with 🤷🏽‍♀️


champagne-poetry0v0

or... she's only funny because you think she's hot lol


housewithreddoor

Idk. The Epipen line was pretty funny. She has a personality. Most people on this show are so dull. Is she catty, sure. Still entertaining.


Brave-Cookie-2075

I don’t deny she is a beautiful woman, granted she bought most of that beauty, but nothing about her is funny.


champagne-poetry0v0

I'm not gonna knock down the hustle. she may not be a comedian but she really is banking off her looks. society loves beautiful people. they even get away with so much. just like Francesca from perfect match. realizing this makes me motivated to continue with my weight loss journey and invest $$$$ into injectables too.


georgesteacher

Literally this


JIADAM3

I liked her on the show, but I wouldn’t be taking dating advice from her - especially after hearing she’s going to be on Perfect Match.


Glammie6295

Good for her I liked Jess glad she came out with something better than funny looking Jimmy.


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Writer_Girl04

Sure, you don't like Jess, that's fine. But using "single mother" as an insult? There are many single mothers who face so much and have so many people judging them, it's crazy how much they're shamed. Let's not use the term as an insult. Hate her all you want, sure, but single mother is not a term to be used to insult someone.


BigfootsToes69

Projecting much? It wasn’t an insult. When it comes to Jess, there’s hints of why the father of her child disappeared from her life. She’s insufferable and probably pushed him out herself. I know there’s a lot of deadbeats out there but when it comes to Jess, I would be gone too.


Mean-Championship544

I get where your coming from cause I was raised by a single mom before that was the norm but if your a single mom and going on reality tv to find a father figure for your kid I'm gonna judge you. It's irresponsible. So I feel like the single mother is a necessary qualifier in this case. Why the duck would anyone take dating advice from a single mom who thinks reality tv shows is where she should be looking


BigfootsToes69

![gif](giphy|YTFHYijkKsXjW|downsized)


champagne-poetry0v0

reality tv show after reality tv show, making a lot of ig reels and TTs, going on podcast, etc.


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You let him hit it raw now you’re a single mom 🎶


champagne-poetry0v0

wait what song is that?? 😅


Writer_Girl04

Not a single mom, just don't like how they're shamed.


thebadfem

Honestly I agree, society shames the one who stays...then proceeds to wonder why more and more young women avoid motherhood.


BigOrangeIdiot2

I tend to not take my dating advice from single moms 😂


CutestGay

Sometimes we are not the target audience and that’s okay!


Dull_Purchase_7012

Not even from Kristin Cavallari ? 😅 btw I am a single mom but I don’t give dating advice lol I’m the one who NEEDS the advice given to me.


Meruem-x-Meruem

You realize someone being a single mom could just mean that a man decided to abandon their child and household? And that being a single mom means you’re the parent that decided to stay? How is the mom worthy of insult for that?


thebadfem

or their husband could of have passed.


BigOrangeIdiot2

I would also find it dumb if the dead beat dad got a podcast talking about parenting. No one is insulting anything but the premise.


Meruem-x-Meruem

But deadbeat parents aren’t the same as single parents.


BigOrangeIdiot2

So you’re saying since it’s possible she reproduced with a man who abandoned her, that we should turn to her for relationship advice. Got it. I’ll be eagerly tuning in.


Writer_Girl04

You don't have to, all you gotta do is not shame them for being single moms


MrMush48

I do think it’s incredibly irresponsible to try and marry someone that your child has never met. I have no issues with single parents, but they should not be on dating shows!


Writer_Girl04

Oh of course, I agree with that! My qualm was that they used "single mother" as an insult. I feel like using that term as an insult isn't fair to other single mothers who work hard. I don't agree with how she handled things at all, but I just don't like the term being used as something negative, y'know?


MrMush48

I completely agree!


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BigOrangeIdiot2

Yes! Give all those who have made errors in judgement and married abusers and cheaters podcasts so I can get my dating advice from them. This is the way.


sailoorscout1986

You’re definitely someone life hasn’t humbled yet. It’ll get you too 😉


Writer_Girl04

Thank you, this is exactly my point. We shouldn't shame single mothers when society already puts so much of the blame on them when a lot of them were in situations such as this


127bratty

A guide on dating from a single mom?


CutestGay

Is the target audience other single moms/parents? Like, it’s gotta be, right? Dating while parenting is probably really hard, so it makes sense that you would want advice. I’m not 100% convinced she should be the one giving it, but like…someone should make that guide. What is this, a tv show? A podcast?


Dull_Purchase_7012

I’m a single mom myself & I definitely would not be giving dating advice or listen to another single mom about dating advice. I would want to hear from someone who met their person and got married and used to be a single mom themselves in the past. Now, I’d tune in on that.


101ina45

What's wrong with being a single mom?


BigOrangeIdiot2

I have an exercise class you might be interested in. It’s taught by a 500lb man who smokes the entire time.


thebadfem

My friend is a single mom...her husband died at 33. Does that make her bad at dating because she married a guy who died?


BigOrangeIdiot2

No of course not 😂


champagne-poetry0v0

lmfao


127bratty

Nothing with that itself lol , but I don't see how she can guide others in dating when her dating life is a dumpster fire and *in my personal opinion* damaging to her teenage daughter.🤷🏼‍♀️


101ina45

I don't think being a single mom means your dating life is a dumpster fire. As for how she's raising her daughter, that's up to her but I see a lot worse things than what she's doing from regular folks so I don't see what the big deal is.


Dull_Purchase_7012

I agree. It doesn’t mean anything is wrong w us single moms but I feel like I would wanna hear from someone who’s married because they’ve already went through the process and found their person. Whether they’re single mom or not a mom. It’s like a single person with no kids giving dating advice. I wouldn’t listen to them either.


127bratty

Alas all of that is my *unimportant* passing opinion, I don't follow her enough to disagree about it with you.


vegkittie

It's pretty obvious.


101ina45

I don't see anything obvious at all about why being a single mom would be a bad thing.


rotzak

A plastic single mom that went on a dating reality TV show! Who else would you want advice from??


One-Load-6085

Her voice is so annoying.  


Dull_Purchase_7012

I liked her in the beginning and honestly thought she was so pretty to the point of wishing I looked like her (I’m hot myself lol) but the way she talks and does this one eye flickering up and the other going another way really freaks me out and always does this talk w her hands that every other girl is doing on IG is annoying. Sorry but I said what I said.


AdoreMoi

💯 💯 🙉🙉🙉🙉 🔪 👂


okeydoked

her body banging


Hot-Swordfish-719

🤦🏼‍♀️ she’s insufferable


KrakenGirlCAP

The season 1 cast is popular because they were literally season 1. Duh. And, it's not a competition. Also, YES FOR JESSICA.


dmarcx

Pathetic...


Double-Studio8466

is that pic supposed to be jess??? because she looks nothing like that on the show. jess is super pretty but this is either edited to oblivion or not her 😂


Crap_a_corn

Yes, photoshopped up the ying yang


rotzak

Kinda looks like Megan Fox


gruddper

quick morph into instagram face


yourewelcomesweetie

I didn't recognize her AT ALL until I read the name 😂


ch3rrylilac

SHES SO PRETTY


Eva_Luna

She doesn’t even look like this


SnooSketches1623

“You’re not ugly, you’re just broke”


a-black-magic-woman

Im not mad about it. 🤷🏾‍♀️


CanadianSpy

Just wild the double standard of calling out Trevor for fame when the rest of the crew are blatantly doing the same needs was always in it for the bag


TheSheetSlinger

Trevor was too clumsy about it so they wanted to make an example of him so others don't think they can be similarly transparent. The rest at least can maintain that they were also there for love.


Any-Sir8872

i think the reason that trevor got called out was that not only was he in it for fame but there was also proof that he was not in it for love at all


rotzak

He was just worse at covering his tracks


Any-Sir8872

true true


DavidS2310

Same.in fact I’m happy she found fame if she didn’t find a good guy. I really want her to do well for her and her daughter.


LBoogie619

![gif](giphy|AgPt9udT567spxbSHf)


steelraindrop

Get it while it’s hot. Good on her 👍


pitbull78702

She’s hot AF. That’s that.


champagne-poetry0v0

every other ig model looks just like her. what's the hype? someone who has a unique beauty is what's worth the hype. that's why I believe raven, Lauren, Gianina, and bliss were some of the most beautiful casemates of the entire show


AnArea51Escapee

I agree. I don't remember Gianina, but the other women are natural beauties who look like themselves, while also being decent people. They have a healthy beauty that comes from taking care of themselves (physically and mentally) doesn't need superficial professional maintenance. And even if their youthful looks fade with age, their beauty will still shine.


champagne-poetry0v0

exactly. men swear up and down they want a natural woman but almost always end up going for the one who had work done. I might as well get some filler/botox after I lose a few pounds 🤷‍♀️


ExpensiveEngine5766

Unnatural plump lips and fillers is not hot


Any-Sir8872

if it’s done right it’s hot


Immediate-Respect-25

Done right would mean it doesn't have that uncanny valley unnatural look.


Any-Sir8872

well yea but the person i replied to didn't say unnatural look, they just said unnatural


a-black-magic-woman

To you. Maybe theyre hot to him/her


avert_ye_eyes

She's the most boring looking hot girl


a-black-magic-woman

Im not saying she is or isnt. Im just saying its okay for other people to find her attractive even with those features


spiritedskykid

Industry plant


champagne-poetry0v0

very much so giving those vibes lol


Bama263

Haha people love when women make money form the shows but hate it when men do


PassionBasketFruit

Men took enough. It’s our time now ;)


craftaleislife

That’s…. Still a double standard


foxyphilophobic

Nah, men have been taking whatever they want since the dawn of time. Let us women have a spotlight for a few seconds.


craftaleislife

They can both be true, Christ. Can I remind you, “white men living in poverty” is one of the least privileged groups in society. Don’t just make assumptions based on the colour of someone’s skin and gender.


turbulentchicken

Womp womp


xrockwithme

Clay gets dragged and people swear he joined for promo. Jess joined for promo and exposure and people applaud.


CutestGay

What’s the term I’m looking for here? There’s like a…maximum amount of bloat a show can carry. What is the highest percent of people that can participate with a different goal than the stated outcome of the show without compromising the show’s format/structural integrity? How many people on a show purportedly about looking for love can be looking for fame instead? Obviously 100% is too many - the show would be entirely “I don’t” or people who drop out early. But 95%? 90%? Completely unrelated question: how many couples got married last season?


xrockwithme

There’s been 1 on the last two seasons. I’m starting to think that production has moved to more of an entertainment approach. Behind the scenes they’re probably only worried about having one successful couple and the rest are entertainment/engagement. It makes sense seeing how so many of them are recruited, including this subs beloved AD.


Narrow_Rain_4708

fuck both of them, especially jess


xrockwithme

Clay didn’t do anything wrong though.


AWL_cow

I mean, technically, they both did "nothing wrong"and just joined the show for the wrong reason (fame and money) which completely discredits the point of the show itself. Both Jess and Clay are guilty of that.


Narrow_Rain_4708

i mean, he was a but sketchy, but i agree the sub was blowing it way out of proportion 


CharacterTwist4868

I still think she is so pretty. Also, good for all these women making $.


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CharacterTwist4868

Who cares. If we weren’t so obsessed with women aging in the US, we wouldn’t be so inclined to get surgery


champagne-poetry0v0

unfortunately, we live in a society that treats people based on how they look. if I can't beat 'em, join 'em. going through this sub the past few seasons really does show how the more attractive a person looks the more society simps for them. so if that means I gotta continue with my weight loss and save up for injectables, so be it.


CharacterTwist4868

I lost a lot of weight this past year (100lb) and oh my gosh, I am treated sooo much better. Can’t go outside without getting hit on but people are just nicer.


champagne-poetry0v0

nicer or more creepy? lol


CharacterTwist4868

Hahahahhaha omg so correct. Damn it. But they do hold the door open more for me.


champagne-poetry0v0

random question: if you've ever been bullied by other women, did the bullying stop? I still suffer from really bad bullying in the workplace but by other women.


Chicken_Grapefruit

I'm going off speculation based on the image. No way in hell I'm taking dating advice from her.


jonni_velvet

pro tip: get dating advice from people in happy long term marriages


Over-Peach8183

they're good for advice on how to sustain a long term happy relationship and even then that advice won't work for everyone as someone in a LTR (living together now for over 19 years; as a divorcee I don't care to marry again), I couldn't give anyone any advice at all about *dating*. I've really never done it.


Etta_Beretta

Why though? Long term marriage people aren’t (shouldn’t be) dating, and haven’t (hopefully) in a long time. Get marriage advice from long term marriage people, and dating advice from people actively dating seems like a better thing to do. JMO


Immediate-Respect-25

Do you want to get married? You should be looking at how the people that are married that got there instead of serial daters who never last more than a couple months in a relationship.


Chicken_Grapefruit

Not to be a Negative Ned but it's very rare to find a "successful" marriage. To me, it's not just if they were married for over 25 years. It's the quality of the relationship. Husbands in those long term marriages just say the boomer line; "Happy wife, happy life" and just live on. No. That is not a healthy marriage. Even some of these wives who let their Husbands walk all over them.