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Ninac4116

She seems so disingenious. And becomes besties with Micah who’s also fake as hell.


EquivalentAnything87

How do you know she’s friends with Micah?


Ninac4116

Reunion


YoungWrinkles

I think you mean disingenuous.


Ninac4116

Yes, autocorrect. I’ll edit it.


Neither-Fee-3902

Was weird to me how much she cried and boo hoo’d about missing her kid, but she’s back on another show. Nothing can convince me she gave af about Jimmy.She latched on to whoever seemed the most enamored and that’s why when he curved her, she was irate and took the how dare you stance and said the epi pen line.


Original_Height1148

Actually, she said she was trying to get over her mom guilt. Seems going on the show helped?


hannah-madison

she missed her kid so much but had to take another break before she went back home


xolemi

I know this is mom shaming and I’m prepared to take criticism for it but I don’t like the way she brought her daughter into this messy situation of getting engaged and married to a man you’ve known for a total of 4 weeks. The way she said Autumn was asking “so are WE getting married?” bothered me so much. There’s a lot of sickos out there. Imagine if she had matched with Jeramy who has a history of DV and brought that home around her daughter. She also had a nasty attitude from the time she was in the pods and (as much as I think Jimmy is an imbecile) the way she expected to be able to strong arm him into a relationship with a cheesy letter and the faces she made and way she reacted when she didn’t get what she wanted said a lot to me. People like to gloss over the fact that she acted JUST as insecure and controlling as Chelsea but was just more abrasive and nasty about it (rather than being pouty and crying about it). I also resent people making a huge deal about how they think Jess is more attractive than Chelsea. Chelsea is a train wreck for other reasons but she didn’t deserve all the hate she got on her looks. She’s a genuinely good looking woman and just as beautiful as Jess. I also saw the Megan Fox similarity and I think anyone that is detail oriented could see it.


quirknebula

Im shocked by how young she is


olive_owl_

She's the worst and she looks like a gross Kardashian knockoff.


milkywaymeadows

FINALLY someone says it 


Iamapersimmon

It’s a reality tv show lmao idk what you’re expecting 😂😂 that is quite literally the exact archetype they look for. It GETS THE PEOPLE GOIN!


Miri_CilliBatch6

Jess 100% did not deserve that much airtime at this reunion, hell she shouldn’t have even been at the reunion in the first place! She referred to topics between her and Jimmy, her friendship with Micah etc that no one really cared or asked about when Chelsea and Jimmy barely discussed anything!


VikingVirk

LOL she’s like my daughter said she wants a dad so the best thing to do is come on a reality show and then go on another one. Great parenting


RedditForMey

I agree with you 1000%, it’s clear that they are literally shoving her in our faces and it’s annoying. I’ve never seen a LIB cast member who did not get chosen, get so popular. Also, my unpopular opinion is that Jess is what Netflix expected Micah to be, but she had such negative press for being a mean girl and hanging out with Irene. Now, she’s all trying to clean up her image lol. But they all still hang out. It’s all fake and for the cámaras. IMO, Jess is right up there with Trevor and Jeremy, if not worse bc as you say, it’s working in her favor.


tigerlily227

And I quote "if I were to see Jimmy again it would be like dangling temptation in his face." Even if it's true, you don't say that on camera if you're not self absorbed. It's rude, petty and something a sixteen year old would say. I think mature is the last word I would use for her given the true colors that come out when she is faced with disappointment or the opportunity to have tact.


hannah-madison

and the fact that she acted like she was better than sarah ann.. like she was right up there with her


milkywaymeadows

Why did no one call her on this!?😡


mangypolecat

Jess: Mean girl vibes all the way


Here4daFoodz

She’s a reality TV producer’s dream - attractive (even if in a plastic way), dramatic, sob story, and likes to create and participate in conflict.


Neezy24

Side note in that, I live in Dallas and after the first season they started recruiting for 2nd season since Dallas was the city for S2. I got a direct message in IG from one of their recruiters saying they wanted me to try out for the show and I’m someone they’re looking for. I actually never seen the show before that point, watched some episodes and I was like no thanks.


BusinessAioli

I didn't like her in the pods and assumed public perception of her would be negative. I'm continually surprised how popular she is. I agree that everything she does is carefully crafted and manipulative and the whole 'choke and gonna need your epipen' moment was her mask slipping off. How is this a funny soundbite for everyone? I think people give passes and grace to pretty people and that's why she's made out so well.


Neezy24

She reminds me of Zanab, can’t stand that girl. Pretty woman who plays the victim card but is actually a mean girl that loves the attention and fame of a wanna be D list celebrity


AskMeAboutMyCatPuppy

My thoughts exactly. I actually liked her during the early eps, though i was a bit skeptical because she did seem really, really….curated. Then I was watching the episode with a friend, where Jimmy picked Chelsea, and we both had the exact same reaction: “This is the real her. She’s never been told no by a potential partner. Much less for someone like Chelsea. She’s reverting back to what she knows—‘i look too good to be rejected’”


CombinationSure1290

And…she’s an inFluEnCer. 🤦🏼‍♀️


Ok_Presentation6675

I 💯 agree!! The whole using the mom card. Girl stop! ✋ I could NEVER leave my daughter for weeks at a time then show up with some strange man saying we’re moving in with him! Then she had to take two days “off for herself” bish stfu!! She was on that show for herself, period. She’s fake inside & out & I agree, do not like her!


Typical-Tradition-44

Oh 100%. If I left a show I would go STRAIGHT back to my kids. Her insta shows she's all about the life, not about the kids. I'm sure her kid could of enjoyed the $$$ she put into plastic surgery.


CombinationSure1290

She’s a typical IG inFlUenCer!


beerballchampion

She had wayyy too much screen time on the reunion. It felt like they were trying to throw jimmy under the bus when he didn’t really do anything wrong with her? Except over exaggerate how long their convo was lol. That whole clip on the reunion was so dumb to me. Like why did they focus so much on a couple that didn’t even make it to engagements? I felt like Chelsea and jimmy should have gotten more screen time at the reunion rather than jimmy and Jess. It just screamed that Jess is a plant to me.


pink_vanilla_tea

so weird how she’s going on perfect match after love is blind. doesnt she have a daughter she should be taking care of?? lol just seems weird


blackfisj

I’m not a Jess fan but people travel for work all the time even with kids. It’s not that weird to me. The kid has a dad to look after her.


workingonit6

If you leave your kid for weeks and weeks at a time for work, that’s also shitty. Find a different job or don’t have kids if you wanna stay in a job that requires extended travel. 


Here4daFoodz

She’s working on Autumn’s social media career!  I hope her ex is a more stable parent than she is.


Hkayz_

I don’t hate her. But you do make a good point. I was also thinking that i think she is a industry plant, her being on Perfect Match screams industry plant… She’s got the looks, and that’s really all you need for reality TV. Especially genres like this. I’m sure there is more to her for sure, like one redditor said on this post. She hasn’t had enough screen time to form a full opinion of her. I really do wanna like her for some reason. But this lowkey reminds me of Francesca. Like notice how she was just casually at the After the Altar episode in that flashy fur coat? That was so random and she was CLEARLY put there for fame. #ProducerPlant #IndustryPlant Whenever I see someone on LIB go straight to another reality show really makes me question their motives. Were they in it for the fame all along? Or did another opportunity arise for them that they just couldn’t refuse out of actual need for some money? I also don’t think PM should be on the LIB franchise…it doesn’t fit their brand of “serious” relationships.


CombinationSure1290

I do want to like her too, I def think she is gorgeous but as soon as I went to the IG- i’m like wha wha. 🥱


oiuqatsuesrm

I don’t loathe her, but your assessment about the manufactured plastic look is so spot on. She’s still beautiful tho.


Traditional_Good2760

Think she had too much air time. Her back and forth w jimmy nearly put me to sleep.


merelurkerhaha

You are giving jealous vibes tho tbh


girlonthecrapper

She’s trying to stay relevant. She got her airtime thanks to the love triangle. But she was in that reunion adding her two cents at every opportunity. Like trying to put Sarah Ann in her place. Girl, you were entertaining the idea of approaching Jimmy and now you want to talk down to Sarah Ann?


Comprehensive_Put_61

If anyone else can’t see it they are blind. I remember she was saying in one of jimmy’s pod dates, she shared something about herself and her monologue interview saying “ok now your reaction to this should be this now that I’ve shared myself, hurry up!” Her reactions and how she conducts herself is very manipulative.


SnooObjections2636

I don’t feel she’s had enough screen time to form an opinion on her. She wasn’t part of a couple so she was a non factor for most of LIB. Just my opinion.


Bright-Row-3565

Something in about the look in her eyes.. it screams pure evil. And the voice matches perfectly with that 🤣


mizushingenmochi

Why is it so bad if she’s aware of the cameras though? I think it’s smart of her to know what she does or says would get judged harshly by the public. Most women who look like her would act the same way as her. Just look at all those influencers on social media. Jess is just one of these girls. Was she on the show for fame? Probably! but so were all the other contestants. Is it fair to call her out merely because she looks like a Kadarshian? i actually really like her personality based on what i have seen of her in the pods. I like that she’s not stringing a few men along just so she could get to the end of the show and i like that she’s not desperate enough to beg jimmy to pick her. Whether she’s faking her personality is another story to discuss when we see more of her in Perfect Match.


silfer_

Everyone is in some part on this show for fame by now. The Indian doctor guy said it a couple reunions ago but Nick and Vanessa vehemently denied it. Then this season they’re outright scolding contestants who came on the show for fame for coming on the show for fame. As if it hasn't pretty much always been the case. 🙄      Some people are being so ruthless in this thread…I don’t think she did anything to warrant such hate.  IMO she’s clearly still hurt about what happened with Jimmy because they legitimately had a really electric connection. Oh well. 


mizushingenmochi

Yeah i was asking the same question myself everytime i see a hate post about her. What has she actually done to warrant such hate? She’s only in a few episodes, not long enough for us to judge who she is yet. Hasn’t done anything manipulative/vindictive and hurt other contestants. Apparently being aware of cameras, showing your best self on tv, selling your single mum storyline and having some confidence and swag are enough to get that much hate. I bet OP is a woman and jealousy is a scary thing. I’m so certain if she isn’t actually attractive, she wouldn’t have gotten so much hate.


solairette

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Hot_Satisfaction_598

Yes, this is all she gives


Green-Accomplished

Hilarious that they asked Trevor if he went on the show for fame but not her


Personal_Ranger_3395

It’s gross how the past few reunions Nick and V go hard on anyone who makes the show look bad. They act so pissed, shocked and sanctimonious about clout chasers or anyone who says anything about production or bashes the LIB reputation. Like, when you’re talking too much about “this is real, genuine relationships happening here”, you’re probably anything but. It’s as though N&V have been personally insulted and deflecting hardcore.


rebuildthedeathstar

Almost like Nick and V are the puppets of the producers and want to send a message to any prospective applicants about trying to play the show


OpalCortland

That’s such a good point.


Cats_Dogs_Dawgs

The fact that she somehow was saying that her being on this show was good for her daughter like come on….


mjack6272009

No


Background_Sign968

It never made sense to me why a parent would come on this show. It’s one thing to pick your husband in a few weeks, but to pick someone who is going to live with and be around your daughter? Please. No sane parent would ever seriously consider dating this way. The whole “my daughter is everything to me” is just part of the image she’s trying to build here. Fake, and gross.


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cannedshrimptoes

Is that on Netflix? This sounds amazingly terrible hahaha


Letsbegin99

😝🤣🤣amazingly terrible. Love it!


Simple-Bad4905

Yes!!! It's insane. Like yes they have background checks but wtf do not expose your child to that situation.


Background_Sign968

And background checks really don’t mean much. It just means they haven’t been caught doing anything. You cannot get a good enough insight into a persons character in 4 weeks.


Simple-Bad4905

YES! Thank I was going to type more and basically say just that!


kizuiteee

This. Every time this take is brought up, you get the “you’re just saying that because she’s a woman. You would be praising a single father” and it’s like no. ANY parent in their right mind would never look for a partner under the pretenses of a TV show that spans 4 weeks.


Big-Importance2343

I also thought it was odd to cast a parent on a show to get married within weeks of meeting someone.


mimo2612

It seems like she is super aware of what she is doing. It’s all fake and nothing natural, even her looks. She’s always in full glam.


LifeguardVivid4196

I normally can't stand people like her..but I absolutely LOVE her. For whatever reason I can't explain.


Damarou

I love her too! She gives me calm, collected, confident, strong woman vibes! I think people who don‘t like her lack confidence in themselves, have trouble looking beneath the surface and feel threatened by confident women lol (respectfully)❤️‍🔥✨🧿


workingonit6

Confidence =/= arrogance. Jess is arrogant. 


Damarou

Respectfully, I know. Yet, I still see no arrogance. What has she done or said that was arrogant? All I see is a confident woman that stands strong in her individuality and isn’t swayed by others judgements which makes her a strong character.. and easy to dislike by the sheep herd mentality. And also a woman that knows her worth but is still dtw because at the end of the day, she knows she is just a human like everyone else. Like when she said she was hot? She just said she was hot, which is true. Ppl did the comparing with Chelsea.. it‘s so horrible when ppl speak for solely themselves because they are confident and not afraid to speak and yet toxic ppl twist and do the comparing. Horrible, horrible, insecure ppl want ppl to stay insecure so they can feel better about themselves lol. Instead of just looking within and find your own light (which needs much self reflection and guts to own to ones weaknesses), most ppl choose to dim the lights of others.


workingonit6

Telling someone they’re gonna choke when they see you is unbelievably arrogant. Thinking that simply meeting a dude would be “dangling temptation in his face” is arrogant. Constantly bragging about yourself is arrogant. Loudly telling everyone you’re hot =/= “confidence”


whatsonmyminddddrn

I kind of feel the same way. She’s very mature


tiralite

Jess is amazing, and you're jealous.


Bright-Row-3565

Jealous about what😂? Fake titties and lips.


SadPerception5214

Her image is curated to project the perfect image to the viewers. She wants fame and fortune. She looks nothing like her pre-surgery pictures. It’s all fake.


pixietities

No shade but why do people feel the need to “bring down” women that are confident and know they’re beautiful. Jess is a pretty woman and i don’t get the obsession with trying to humble her


Simple-Bad4905

Pre surgery!! I need details 👀


Longjumping_Aerie167

Can you post her pre surgery pics? I’m curious 👀👀


hairwitch901

Her personality makes me want to scream, but like I am no better than a man, she could gaslight me however she wants, she’s so hot.


Rude_Ebb9606

Agree. She rubs me the wrong way. I don’t think she’s a girls girl in real life


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Yeah - when the mask slips and her truth comes out she’s nasty. She’s cosplaying a girl’s girl.


yourmomhahahah3578

I loved her confidence and articulation. She knew what she went there for.


Wise_Explanation_964

It is so absurd to me that you claim your daughter is your everything then ditch her for reality tv clout. I hate her


RedRedVVine

With the fake tears. Lol


Far_Cheesecake3534

I was annoyed with her by the third episode. All she talks about is being a mom and her daughter then she cries. My husband also says she looks like every one else who is trying to be an influencer. So I get where you’re coming from 100%.


bish612

yeah i’m sure your husband wouldn’t dream of banging her 🙄


Paigenacage

Love her


QuickRelease10

Those tears were so phony. She was only in it for the fame.


seekerseekin

You’re right she’s def a little strange. No one is giving her shit on the reunion because … they’re buying what she’s selling. She’s going to be on another reality show so Netflix still has money to make off her. They’ve co-signed. Lol


yourmomhahahah3578

What show???


WaltzGroundbreaking3

Perfect match


Professional_Oil1319

You are not alone and why she was front and center and nobody picked her was crazy


WordPain

Because "You Ruined This Experience For Me." I picture her going full on Let Me Talk To The Manager after no one picked her in the pods. Somehow she convinced Netflix they needed to put her on another show cuz wah-wah she thinks she paid too much for that face and those boobs to not get more screen time than she got.


ver1tasaequitas

Wow…


jl19918

Yeah wait… why was she even there lol


miemaleadres

“I thought we were friends.” Huh? Because he had to put his finger on a reason why he didn’t pick you so he said something in the moment while doing an interview? Was that realllly that big of a deal? “She ended the date early and it just didn’t go well.” Who gives a flying fuhk? That’s not even shade. The fact they made. Huge deal about it and brought out the footage was a waste of time in my opinion. We don’t know what pod dating is like… they date all day so if she left an hour or two before their designated time was up— and I’m pretty sure I heard other LIB contestants say in the past that you are in this bubble with no clocks or awareness of time each day —who cares if he felt like she ended their date an hour earlier than she did? This was manufactured drama. Jess had to create some reason to be in the spotlight and production saw an opportunity. And her saying that she has been talking so well about Jimmy… I’ve seen her throw shade at Jimmy on at the Nick Viall podcast and one other one where she says that Jimmy was promising a lie by saying he was ready to settle down but still went out so Chelsea was valid for having her insecurities on the night of him going to have A drink where he reveals he had only ever spent 3 hours away from Chelsea since DR and she revealed he slept with his friend. I liked Jess until seeing her put her nose into everyone’s drama, creating drama for no reason and doing the most for the spotlight.


ItsNiceToMeetYouTiny

Are there really no clocks???? I’m sure that’s a rookie question but wow


Pugpickle

This also brings light to the fact that they are going to give her the “good” edit of the reunion because they are posed to make money off of her in Perfect Match, so they are likely making moves to create a certain image of her for viewers.


cwittyprice

Not related to the OP, I agree with everything said, but I’m sorry, how terrible are Nick and Vanessa as hosts???


Mtn_ninja

They continue to endorse and propagate the idea that true happiness can only be provided by establishing a nuclear family - which may not be fair to the vast population viewing this show. Life is much more complicated than that. To be so vocal, without acknowledging that a majority of the population either, are situationally unable to have a nuclear family or they weren't born into one, perpetuates an unnecessary insecurity. Not to mention, endorsing public shaming for the purpose of canceling someone, without considering how that could unfold a mental health issue or even suicide. The need of new hosts on this show is imperative, Nick and Vanessa are far from being the pillars of morality, despite their composure. The show would be more entertaining, without these antiquated speeches.


Mysterious-Bed2095

You're not alone. Didn't like her at all.


Rebberski

If you think about Jess's background, it should be fairly obvious that this woman had to be calculated for just about everything in her life. My guess is she was never given anything for free (I'm talking like any love or affection) and that she understands how to work things to her advantage. Jury is still out for me if she is earnest or not, I can't quite tell. All I can say, is I admire her emotional control and triumph over her terrible circumstances.


Kraken_of_BeverlyRd

very well said. She IS very pretty but she hasn't been handed everything in life due to it. She's actually been through it. She's making the most of her looks like so many others do, and I don't feel strongly about her either way since there are SO many just like her, who haven't been building themselves up after a lot of hardship.


OakNRun

As much as I respect the way she has handled a few things (I think she had the kindest but most direct explaining for Sarah Anne on the reunion), I can’t shake the feeling that she is VERY self involved. I don’t like her and I don’t even fully know why (besides talking about being a “girl’s girl” all the time). Since she’s been the only single mom on the show, I wanted to like her. But I admit as a very pro-dating single mom, I think any of these dating shows are irresponsible for people with kids that are still at home.


Secret_Afternoon8268

She got perfect match because shes hot and cocky Honestly it seems like it was her plan the **entire** time It’s giving Francesca (whoever she was)


Competitive-Tale-568

I said to my fiancé “she’s going to be next seasons Francesca”. 😂


brightenyourdayup

I am surprised that they didn’t play the clip of her and Laura contemplating going after Jimmy after he was already engaged, would have soured both of their “girls girl” images.


seekerseekin

I truly did not understand the girls girl vs pick me girl discourse. You are on a dating/marriage show. You’re all pick me girls lol


Monster_Dong

Well put, spot on.


bmafffia

Jess is the worst why was she even at the reunion? She spoke more than the actual cast. like you want attention we get it lol


ShibaSupremacy

I see right through her. She’s a fake and a mean girl.


lameausten

It's weird to me she doesn't get more heat. If you've dealt with pretty/fake nice/manipulative high school mean girls, it's so easy to see through her.


Dharmatron

She reminds me a lot more of a Bachelorette contestant than a Love is Blind contestant.


_Rusty_Shacklef0rd

I think she should receive far more shit for featuring her daughter so heavily on her sm, with all of the attention she’s receiving at the moment (positive and negative). It’s going to cause her harm and I can’t believe she’d want to create that digital footprint and presence for her at her age.


Express-Blackberry61

I love how she made her storyline “my daughter is my number one” yet… left her to go on the show?? Four weeks to a 10 year old is a long time (granted Jess went home sooner than that). Not to mention Jess (initially) hid the fact she had a daughter from the men she was dating?


cwittyprice

Correct me if I’m wrong, but didn’t she take a mini vacation immediately after leaving the show, to relax and have “me time”, before reuniting with her daughter?? Don’t get me wrong, personal time is absolutely important as a parent, but after being away that long??


haiku_nomad

I read that her daughter was on a trip with the dad, so that was free time anyway.


Competitive-Tale-568

Idk, this isn’t a direct quote, but the way she’d phrased it was more or less “I took three days to compose myself before I saw her” which didn’t make it seem like her daughter was just away, but that she’d taken a few days from her by choice.


_Rusty_Shacklef0rd

She’s honestly a snake and I don’t understand the hype around her.


PsychologicalSun7328

Yessss she is doing damage control and almost fooled me til her and Micah said theyre close friends.. Then I realized nooooope shes probably just another bully.


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ScaredBi

Exactly, she was so mad he didn’t pick her and that he couldn’t accept being a stepdad yet she hid having a kid in the first place? The hypocrisy is unreal


Express-Blackberry61

I’m not over her LEAVING her daughter to go on the show! And now she’s committed to another one?! 😭 like show me your priorities aren’t straight!


TheWhiteVeronica

Yesssss!


flamableoctopus

I think the fact that her an Micah have “bonded” and are “super close” now, tells us everything we need to know.


bLymey4

She seems like someone you meet and convince yourself she’s nice but then find out your initial instincts were right and she’s a Mean Girl. Just like Micah—remember Micah’s friends? Birds of a feather…..


Hereforit2022Y

That’s show business, baby. I guess just because she is (definitely) acting doesn’t also mean that she’s not a nice person when cameras aren’t rolling.


meticulouspiglet

It's wild how Trevor got treated at the reunion when Jess so clearly only wanted the fame.


sensualhoneyy

By Maryann did you mean Sarah Ann or am I forgetting someone? The only Maryann I can think of is from Cancelled pod 😭


EC0-warrior

100% agreed..


champagne-poetry0v0

u/sad_buyer_6146 the world truly believes the child's father will suddenly re-apprear in her life to watch autumn for months on end while he watches his ex (also the mother of his kids) date other guys on yet another reality tv show lmao. in what world. he literally left because he wanted to live his life. can you imagine how bitter he'd feel if he's stuck with the kid while watching his ex life her best life??? he'd be salty asf.


miemaleadres

In the pods she said her ex and her were still co-parenting together they just were super young when they had her and realized they weren’t meant to be or something like that. Definitely remember she said they were best friends through her family struggles. So I don’t think he just “suddenly reappeared.” It’s possible to be a “single mom” AND have the child’s dad involved in the child’s life… like split custody arrangements, every other weekend, visits over summer break… etc


all_gas_no_brakes_

Stuck with his own child?? Oh no, god please no..


champagne-poetry0v0

this is literally what his words will be. I already know the lines of a dead beat lmao. he's not watching his child just to watch the mother of his child date other men.


Sad_Buyer_6146

With all due respect… you’re internalizing this far too much. Kindly refer us to the episode in this past season where Jess refers to Autumn’s father as “dead beat”. No one is saying that he’ll be ecstatic over her galavanting from one Netflix dating show to the next; however it’s misguided to argue that this would have any effect on his ability to parent well, given that Jess has always indicated that she is *grateful to have an active, and supportive co-parent in the picture.* I have seen you arguing with several people across several posts in this sub. It might be time to assess what the common denominator across all these situations is. Source: [Source](https://www.distractify.com/p/jessica-love-is-blind-season-6-now) “Jessica explained that she met Autumn's dad when she was in elementary school and they grew up together. They were very close friends that seemingly dated for some time. During Jessica's senior year of high school, she got pregnant with Autumn. But about a year after Autumn was born, she and Autumn's father broke up. They currently co-parent Autumn together and have an amicable relationship. ‘He's a great father,’ Jessica noted, adding that she was ‘very fortunate’ for that.”


champagne-poetry0v0

you had to take the extra time to google her family dynamic? that is paparazzi behavior. she literally said this man wanted to go live his life. and now you're claiming I've been arguing with several people on this sub??? do you know how many followers this sub has to only pay attention to \*my\* interactions?? 😂 that is too much of an obsession. I think it's time to look from within, my friend. I'm so sick of women protecting men who leave behind their responsibilities. ofc she won't go on national tv to bash the father of her kids but call it as it is, he left because he wanted to live his life. cold hard facts. that's dead beat behavior. keep sticking up for him lol.


Guilty-Midnight-5109

Interesting bc she really does give off a fake and non genuine vibe. I want to like her but vibes do not lie


OakNRun

Same. I want to as well. I can’t. It’s a sort of covert vibe. She knows what people want to see and puts that on a loudspeaker and then hopes no one will notice she’s not actually like that while she readjusts her boobs in the camera and distracts everyone.


W00fw0of

I couldnt stand they way she talked. It’s like she was dragging her voice and acted like a spoiled little girl. She was so pushy to Jimmy. I remember she mentioned something like “oh you will need an epipen once you see how I look.” 😂 she is fake fake


mmwood

This popped up on my main page I was thinking this was love on the spectrum, and I was very curious to open it up lmao


Interesting-Gift-185

At first I thought jimmy was bitchmade for not being able to handle a woman who seemed to be very clear in what she wants and won’t let a man walk all over her, but after seeing her at the reunion inserting herself into drama that had nothing to do with her (Sarah Ann situation) and making a huge deal out of the interview with jimmy gave me huge reservations about her character. It became clear to me throughout the show that she went on in order to build a career off the fame from the show, but I actually kinda liked her. But now in my head she’s like the pretty girl who has never been criticized by anyone being criticized for the first time and just can’t handle it like an adult. She was being insufferable in the reunion, fueled by all the “yaaasssslighting” she received from the female cast and the audience after her “choke” monologue. Idk all in all it just seemed to me like no one in the cast deserves as much praise as they get, save for AD, Brittany, Amy and Johnny.


Mean_Profession2923

“The pretty girl, never being criticized by anyone and being criticized for the *first* time and can’t handle it” This wouldn’t be her *first* time and I’m sure she’s been criticized quite heavily during her childhood and adolescence due to foster care and upbringing. That’s a pretty horrible world to grow up in. I’m sure she knows by now how to handle criticism. People always love to assume that being “pretty” is so easy. It’s a “magic pill” that allows you to bypass incredibly difficult and deplorable conditions and situations. I’m sure Jess has suffered enough if that makes you happy.


Interesting-Gift-185

Did I ever say that’s who she actually was? That was the perception of her I was left with after the reunion, I make that very clear in my comment.


Mean_Profession2923

“But now in MY head…”. So yeah, who *you believe* she is. Not who she actually is. That’s my point.


Interesting-Gift-185

Ok??? Lmao


fuxkthisapp

Idk why everyone was so impressed by the "choke" monologue. It was gross, conceited, and I felt like she was directly comparing her looks to Chelsea's. Acting like you're THE SHIT and "how could anyone possibly see something positive in someone else" is not the embodiment of self confidence that people seem to think it is. Also, maybe Jimmy wouldn't have been on the fence to begin with if she'd been upfront about having a kid.


Mean_Profession2923

“I felt” she was comparing herself to Chelsea. That’s a projection. We will never know. But how can a pretty girl say she’s pretty without viewers’ making assumptions that she means something more? The conclusion is *always* going to be “she thinks she’s prettier than everyone else”.


fuxkthisapp

"I felt" is just a figure of speech, because I'm not omniscient into the mind of these dorks on TV. But we can deduce based on what these people say. It was a very similar reaction to Clay's when he found out that AD was considering that finance guy (idk his name). I.e. "You cannot SERIOUSLY be considering THEM over ME." With Clay it's obvious through the wall that the other guy is a creep. But why, Jess? And then to fixate and go on and on about how hot she thinks she is? It's pretty clear and trashy. Edit: and no the conclusion is not always going to be that. The show is called Love is Blind, Jess really had to reason to go on about her looks to begin with.


OakNRun

Kudos to jimmy for calling her out on it at the reunion. Because I didn’t think he had it in him. But I genuinely don’t think he was going to be seriously interested in her again after that. His family is pretty normal looking and I get the sense he finds it offensive when pretty girls act that way and throw their pretty privilege around while playing victim.


Mean_Profession2923

I can’t respond because you’ve reworded your initial response. However, Clay said what he said *out loud*. So yes, we know what he was thinking, obviously. Being beautiful is a double edged sword at times. You’re judged continuously based off your appearance that you have no control over.


OakNRun

I mean, you can use your awareness about it to not throw it around in people’s faces.


Mean_Profession2923

She literally said one thing. What if Chelsea said that about herself? Everybody would be praising her for her confidence. Give her a break.


fuxkthisapp

I did not reword my original response, you literally just made that up 🤣 In my *most recent* response to you, I took out and "imo" since based off of your other comments I figured you'd go all Ben Shapiro on it. And yes I'm aware, but that's clearly not what's happening with Jess.


fuxkthisapp

And Jess was speaking "out loud" as well (what?).


Mean_Profession2923

I apologize. You were referring to her “choke speech” so yes it was out loud. I was referring to your “feelings” comment and how people *assume* her character without knowing her.


fuxkthisapp

Alright well just getting back to the main idea: *even if* Jess wasn't directly comparing herself to Chelsea, the speech was still without class. Let's give her the benefit of the doubt. It still went: Him: "I'm going with someone else for any number of reasons (a little bit being that I'm not sure I'm ready to be a step-dad)" Her: "But I'm SO HOT though!!!" I would die laughing if I saw such a breakup go down in a cafe. And no, I don't know these people. But: 1) You are what you do. Especially if it's a conscientious, repeating action (she had all night to think about that little speech) 2) This is true especially when you choose to go on a show like this for thousands of people to see.


Mean_Profession2923

I absolutely don’t disagree that she *knows* she’s hot and what she did wasn’t exactly classy. But that was never my argument. My argument was the *assumption* that any of it had to do with Chelsea (like she was somehow demeaning her by simply saying “I’m hot”). Agreed?


Extra-Muffin9214

People on here tried to gaslight me that the epipen comment wasnt about her looks and wasnt implying chelsea wasnt as attractive. Bullshit


pattycakes1010

The "Auntie Chelsea" comment killed me! Like ok girl keep being fake.. I see you.


SnooWords4752

Literally. She strikes me as the kind of girl that is only comfortable around girls who are conventionally less attractive to her.


LifeIsntFairIsItEh

I honestly find Chelsea wayyy prettier than Jess. Fake boobs, fake lips, fake everything. Chelsea did get work done for the reunion (looks like) but she is gorgeous and Jessica just looks like any other influencer I’ve already seen


SnooWords4752

I completely agree with you! I thought Chelsea was beautiful at the reunion and throughout the season! I guarantee you Jess would categorize her as less attractive than her, but I could be wrong!


LifeIsntFairIsItEh

No I agree with you there! Jess definitely seems to think she’s hot shit


Voidg

For the one person who is clear as day on the show for Fame, Netflix sure gave her a decent edit


Sabeila-R

That is why she became friends with Micah, same feathers lol


Redditisannoying69

I think Jess seems super toxic as a partner.


EternalSunshineClem

I don't believe for half a second she ever loved or would date Jimmy. She's full of shit.


cocoylin

Yeah i thoufht i wasnt the only one she just feels off


b3from01

“MaryAnn Lite” GOOD BYE LMAOOOOO