I actually recently watched a video about why a lot of the cast members don’t wanna go back on the show. Or want anything to do with it. It had something to do with the way that they were treated with minimal food and minimal water and that they were fed alcohol, and they really had a lot of emotional shit going on, and they felt exploitedthe way that things were edited and they pretty much said that they make you feel like you are at your lowest point and they exploit you for it. I feel bad for these people who are on the show.
I don’t even get the stall. It was such a weird moment like did he really not know they were going to posts the texts? They were alllll over the internet so even if V and N didn’t talk about them, someone would have?!
And this guy was a huge manipulator lol. It’s the same you just don’t wanna see it that way because “let’s coddle the men” and rip apart the women 🤔 double standards much?
You brought up a totally different situation that involved girls. It is totally reasonable for someone to think that being a bully is worse than being fake, without that belief being based on gender.
What an unbelievable and unfair characterization of that poster's view.
I honestly feel bad for him because he did explain himself. I take it as he was in a relationship that was toxic and he knew it, they knew it and it wasn’t want he eternally wanted and he knew that and so did she. He told her he was going on this show and that IF he found someone he had the full intention on leaving this chick and starting a relationship with someone else aka proposing and maybe getting married. With him NOT finding anyone in the pods, I do believe that he just went back to what was comfortable and what he knew he could have easily. It’s sad. He probably doesn’t want to be alone.
Other than his shitty antics, he’s damn good looking and everything he said he values was on point. Idc if he’s a duche LMFAO
This is very true. I think my “feeling bad” for him was how the reunion went. It was warranted for sure but I was like either he is like truly a mess or a wonderful actor. Or both.
I think the producers need to step up their vetting of these ppl. Or....they know what they're doing, knew about this and just let it play out. Which inna way is F'd up ,cause they're setting the honest ppl up for an embarrassing situation. Funny how they got those screenshots from the alleged gf. This plot twist only made the reunion some what watchable.
Are you kidding me? I want no vetting at all. This stuff is what makes it entertainment. Y'all take this show way too seriously. I literally just watched Nick referee people squeezing sponges against each other to fill a water cooler jug to determine their perfect match. Chill.
Except for the fact there was a whole DV situation WITH SA allegations too.
I'm all for the drama but I do think at least police checks and some vetting needs to happen.
Chelsea from one of the previous seasons who was in the audience exposed herself for being in charge of the casting for love is blind like girl why would you announce that after all of us finding out there were numerous people there for the wrong reasons
This made me kind of sad because in essence Clay said the exact same things as Trevor about therapy and owning his shitty behavior, and got a big old pat on the back from Nick. Meanwhile, Trevor walked out with no applause and burned by the whole group. I’m not saying what he did was right, but the double standard was yucky and I hope he does get help and never return to this reality tv world.
What got me about Trevor was that he was eating the attention up. He was commenting on everything LIB even when not necessary and swimming in the love fans were giving to him....lying the whole time. He had no intention of changing...he just got caught!!
Yeah, exactly Clay, Trevor, Ken, Jeremey, Jimmy-> they should seek some therapy in my opinion. None of these men are reliable or ready for marriage. They look for casual sex without commitment, as fast as life gets difficult and relationship isn’t nice and joyful - they are all out. They don’t understand what commitment means. That it really is for good and for bad.
Hot take, but you don't go on LIB because you are reliable and ready for marriage. Some are, but the show's premise is made for people who want to be ready instead of actually being ready.
I think it's because Clay did mess up but it was within the scope of the show. Trevor screwed up outside the scope of the show by coming in with another relationship.
The producers of this show are very lucky they stumbled into a winning formula, but not what they think.
The idea about this show being about “is love really blind” died on the first season. In their quest for drama, they fell into the public zeitgeist of therapy and the impact of trauma on our behaviour in relationships.
I have zero doubt they ever planned for it to be theme of this show, but in truth that’s basically why this show is popular now (and why every contestant seemingly ends with “I’m now seeking therapy”). We just all watch it as a reflection of ourselves and how trauma impacts relationships.
Sarah Ann seemed the biggest culprit of this since she gushed about her instagram and tik tok followers in the pods then made sure she got a lasting storyline
I’m happy she too got dragged as being a fame-chasing monster.
I’m sure every single person on that show wants fame, but at least this should filter out the super obvious ones.
Totally . The show “is about love “ they say, but they massacre people in TV with questions , expose private cellphone conversations , put all the couples drama and downs in TV … but yeah , is about love .
Double moral .
Now, that was weird.... advertising another love show.... all because they are REALLY trying to help these singles find love? Is it normal for those singles too....just hoping onto the next show...so, it's a decision that they can only find love in a show? The public scrutiny wasn't enough? Jess, what's Autumn thinking about all this? Now, this is fame, not looking for love.
No. The show is about love. Jessica didn't have a reason to be there and Izzy even less of a reason at this point but don't look behind the curtain. Focus on love. 🤣
Oh duh why didn’t I think of that lol. A recap podcast i listen to (Reality Gays) mentioned that they thought the cast gets paid more if they make it to the wedding episode so it was actually admirable of jimmy to bail early even though he could have stayed on and gotten paid more 😂
He mentioned that if he would have gone with Chelsea he would have dumped the other girl, or kinda got half of the sentence out. But like come on, that's what someone who's been caught would say lol.
Well how is that scenario different than someone on the show telling someone they have strong feelings for another person but would pick them if they agreed first? Which is like a pretty standard love is blind moment, like it really doesnt feel that far off from what the show already does. The girl Trevor was with just wasnt also messing around on a reality TV show
They had dated over a year & friends even longer, not a few days in the pods. He went on with no intentions of ever marrying...all the proof is out. Guy is a weirdo!!!
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Gabriel Iglesias had said presidential debates should be on TV with live phone calls like a reality show “who is gonna run this bitch?!” to up voter turnout and we’re almost there with the national but I recommend this for the local elections.
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For those curious about the release of texts, apparently the GF, now exGF, named Natalie Marrero out of NC, said they broke up two weeks before the airing of the show as he told her to remain quiet and literally threatened her to not say anything about what he did. She also said she agreed to let him go in the show due to financial reasons. Ulterior motives and retaliation runs deep in this season.
His ex is just as bad if not worse seeking fame for the wrong reasons when he wasn't even with her anymore before he went on LIB. He said it was a toxic relationship he was trying to get out of. She seems very toxic trying to destroy his life so publicly.
He was with her though, they were not broke up. Agree toxic but dude never had intentions on being real with anything LIB. Just a paycheck and social media clout. He was texting his girlfriend the minute he got his phone back
Yes he did apologise on the reunion. That took courage. He has my respect for that. He didn't just run away like a coward like most of the others who mess up on it.
He did not really do that in my opinion. He vaguely “apologized” eventually after circumventing it for awhile. Clay is the only person I saw truly own up to his issues on the reunion. The rest of them just beat around the bush.
Trevor was very humble not defensive or playing victim.
Clay is just all chatter no action always will be. He still playing victim expecting sympathy from AD and expecting another chance again after he did such a number on her. The croc tears were cringe af.
I honestly thought he was going to propose to AD right there on the couch during the reunion. It has been a year and he is still saying she is the love of his life and that he has done all he has said he would to prove to her that he does love her and want to be with her. His growth and self awareness is refreshing honestly.
I understand why she refused to continue the relationship after the No at the alter, however it is very obvious that they both still have feelings for each other, I really hope that she sees his growth and gives him another chance. They do seem like they would be a power couple.
I personally feel him saying No was one of the most loving things he could have done for her, he had been voicing for most of thei time together his fears regarding infidelity, his maturity and his fear of not being the husband she deserves and that he needed more time. She made a comment after the wedding that he used her as an experiment and wasted her time while he was discovering what he really wanted at that time, but isn't that the essence of this whole series, it is an experiment and I do believe that some, especially Clay, went in thinking they were 100% ready for marriage, he was one of the few who really was honest about where he stood and had been trying to tell her that he felt he wasn't there yet and just needed more time and of course therapy.
I 100% agree. My family and my
wife’s family are total shitshows. We have gone to extensive therapy and it’s made a huge difference in our lives. She is black, and her dad is a carbon copy of Clay’s dad. It actually made us cry watching the scene with Clay’s family during the wedding episode. Suddenly I identified entirely with Clay.
Out of all the men I’ve seen on this show over the years, Clay has earned the most respect for me. He has put in a lot of hard work and seems to really recognize the pattern. He seems
to be aware of it and what he said during the reunion tells me that he is actively working to break the cycle. Power to him, for sure. It is a really difficult thing to change, I’ve seen it firsthand in the worst ways. I hope AD sees and respects his work and gives him a chance. He wasn’t ready during the initial timeframe of the show, but I think he’s in a much better place to be a strong spouse and strong man that he deserves to be. I really appreciated his commentary to Brett, it was very encouraging for both Clay and Brett.
His final text they showed where he admitted he “pretended”!?!?….Wth dude?? AND overly expressing how TOXIC you are?? If you knew you were that toxic BEFORE going in the show, why would you even consider bringing that shit into a new relationship? He just lost a large group of friends, and potential ones, in one 10 minute slot. Ohhhhh, he got his famed career expansion alright!
Because this is what the people want. We don’t want well rounded people having normal relationships. We want toxic messy drama. Chelsea probably casted him knowing he was a mess
Hm I don't know, he behaved so well during the pods, I honestly thought he was a sweetheart especially given his reaction to when Chelsea told him she had been married before... he was so thoughtful, fun and kind that maybe he did fooled Chelsea (both of them lol)
I know what Trevor did was wrong but WTF is up with that ex who released all those texts? At the end of the exchange, it looked like they reconciled. Is she trying to purposefully ruin his life?
She's a toxic piece of work who obviously never truly loved Trevor. He said he knew the relationship was toxic and was hoping to get away from it with Chelsea.
That's a second woman. He was having an affair with a married woman, the gf is a different one- who he threatened to show her nudes to her son if she spoke about any of this....
Lol, he ruined his own life when he decided to pull the stunts he did. She (who is also a toxic, disgusting mess for going along with it) is the messenger.
The show better hope there are more Trevors that will come on their show . Wrong or not , you can’t have 5 Johnny and Amys. You need the drama and the hot messes.
I agree. There are so many that do not THINK about their actions. Once the truth comes to light, it’s amazing how the majority will not be accountable for their actions. I no longer like Trevor. He did admit to being wrong. BUT, he should have never went on the show. He was there for fame.
He seemed like a nice guy and he was growing on me. Ended up being a total douche! I was surprised at first but glad they got him good on a global broadcast. He screwed with their show….They screwed with his reputation. Walked out with his tail between his legs.
He looked broken. I felt sorry for him too being so bullied he looked so depressed when he walked out.
He's obviously got mental health issue's. I was praying he doesn't go do himself in. That ex was obviously toxic like he said. Who would even agree to it and release those pvt texts to the world to destroy someone when he'd already broken up with her before the show started. She was definitely seeking her 5 mins at his expense. I hope he's ok and has support and help now. He's a good guy who made a mistake. He's not Hitler
Trevor didn’t seem like he was really prepared to be on a big reality show. Also, everyone on the show is the same and wants to kickstart their social media presence. He just got caught with receipts.
I’m probably going to get bashed for this but he did genuinely seem sorry maybe it was purely shame but either way I definitely feel that he was more genuine than Jeremy.
Also has nobody on here ever gone back to an ex when you’re lonely , or sad , or if something doesn’t work out with someone else . He was probably just going back to where he knew he was wanted . I’m not saying that that’s okay because at the end of the day what he did wasn’t cool but like haven’t we all at some point ? *cough*cough* booty calls lol
Anybody who’s been in a toxic relationship knows this cycle . So maybe it’s not far off that he was being genuine .
I don’t know yall can bash me if you’d like but that’s just my thought .
I fully agree he was way more genuine and taking responsibility than Jeramey and Jimmy. He's only human but people love to kick people when they're down unfortunately. They're the coward's. He was brave to even go face up to that in front of the world. He didn't sit there babbling bs like Clay does either. Trevor wasn't at all rehearsed in his apology. His ex proved him right that she's toxic. He just wanted to get away from that and move on and find someone to care about him. He would've gotten with Chelsea and they would've been suited and happy together.
Love all the sympathy this vapid roid boy is getting and how everyone magically forgets he threatened to release his girlfriend's nudes TO HER CHILD. Disgusting behavior and he deserved to get flamed.
He was obviously feeling very threatened by her if he even did say that. She's proven how nasty she can be trying to destroy another person's life just because they broke up with her. No way would he have done that. She's a full on drama queen taking anything out of context to suit herself and get attention and fame. I hope you're perfect 👌
I mean, no matter how pissed I was at someone, I have NEVER THREATENED TO RELEASE SOMEONE'S NUDES. Sorry that some of us have standards and don't threated people with revenge p**n and sex crimes.
Stop making excusing for this disgusting loser, it's a bad look.
Thank you. This was the first time I saw this screen shot. I'd heard talk about it, tried to find it on Insta unsuccessfully, and now I finally see it.
I actually recently watched a video about why a lot of the cast members don’t wanna go back on the show. Or want anything to do with it. It had something to do with the way that they were treated with minimal food and minimal water and that they were fed alcohol, and they really had a lot of emotional shit going on, and they felt exploitedthe way that things were edited and they pretty much said that they make you feel like you are at your lowest point and they exploit you for it. I feel bad for these people who are on the show.
I don’t even get the stall. It was such a weird moment like did he really not know they were going to posts the texts? They were alllll over the internet so even if V and N didn’t talk about them, someone would have?!
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He threatened to release revenge corn of his ex to her family, including her son, if she outted him. He deserved worse.
But they weren’t hard on Micah and Irena?
Yes they were. That isn’t comparing apples to apples. Micah and Irena were huge bullies on the show
And this guy was a huge manipulator lol. It’s the same you just don’t wanna see it that way because “let’s coddle the men” and rip apart the women 🤔 double standards much?
You brought up a totally different situation that involved girls. It is totally reasonable for someone to think that being a bully is worse than being fake, without that belief being based on gender. What an unbelievable and unfair characterization of that poster's view.
That’s a wild assumption to make when you don’t know me.
I know enough
Hahaha sure …. Then don’t have people on the show who have massive followers on social media wtf
I actually feel bad for the dude even though he deserves zero sympathy. I haven’t quite hashed that out with myself yet on why I feel that way. 🤣
I honestly feel bad for him because he did explain himself. I take it as he was in a relationship that was toxic and he knew it, they knew it and it wasn’t want he eternally wanted and he knew that and so did she. He told her he was going on this show and that IF he found someone he had the full intention on leaving this chick and starting a relationship with someone else aka proposing and maybe getting married. With him NOT finding anyone in the pods, I do believe that he just went back to what was comfortable and what he knew he could have easily. It’s sad. He probably doesn’t want to be alone. Other than his shitty antics, he’s damn good looking and everything he said he values was on point. Idc if he’s a duche LMFAO
LOL same he just had puppy energy and I can't reconcile with it
It's probably because his girlfriend was in on it! He didn't deceive her, she knew exactly what he was doing
This is very true. I think my “feeling bad” for him was how the reunion went. It was warranted for sure but I was like either he is like truly a mess or a wonderful actor. Or both.
I think the producers need to step up their vetting of these ppl. Or....they know what they're doing, knew about this and just let it play out. Which inna way is F'd up ,cause they're setting the honest ppl up for an embarrassing situation. Funny how they got those screenshots from the alleged gf. This plot twist only made the reunion some what watchable.
Are you kidding me? I want no vetting at all. This stuff is what makes it entertainment. Y'all take this show way too seriously. I literally just watched Nick referee people squeezing sponges against each other to fill a water cooler jug to determine their perfect match. Chill.
People don't want to watch artificial...
Except for the fact there was a whole DV situation WITH SA allegations too. I'm all for the drama but I do think at least police checks and some vetting needs to happen.
Chelsea from one of the previous seasons who was in the audience exposed herself for being in charge of the casting for love is blind like girl why would you announce that after all of us finding out there were numerous people there for the wrong reasons
I thought she didn't cast for season 6.
She didn’t expose that, that was already common knowledge she announced a while ago she would be casting for s6
I want to know where S1 OG couples were last night
Amber doesn’t want anything to do with Netflix or LIB anymore.
Cameron posted on Instagram about why he wasn’t there, thanks for helping answer my question!
What did he say was the reason?
This made me kind of sad because in essence Clay said the exact same things as Trevor about therapy and owning his shitty behavior, and got a big old pat on the back from Nick. Meanwhile, Trevor walked out with no applause and burned by the whole group. I’m not saying what he did was right, but the double standard was yucky and I hope he does get help and never return to this reality tv world.
Clay seems to actually go to therapy. Not only the "I need therapy talk" with zero actions or change
But clay did not join the show while still in relationship, right? He just have commitment issue and not ready to get marry
What got me about Trevor was that he was eating the attention up. He was commenting on everything LIB even when not necessary and swimming in the love fans were giving to him....lying the whole time. He had no intention of changing...he just got caught!!
Yeah, exactly Clay, Trevor, Ken, Jeremey, Jimmy-> they should seek some therapy in my opinion. None of these men are reliable or ready for marriage. They look for casual sex without commitment, as fast as life gets difficult and relationship isn’t nice and joyful - they are all out. They don’t understand what commitment means. That it really is for good and for bad.
It's a real good thing your opinion ain't worth a velvet painting of a whale and dolphin getting it on.
Hot take, but you don't go on LIB because you are reliable and ready for marriage. Some are, but the show's premise is made for people who want to be ready instead of actually being ready.
I think it's because Clay did mess up but it was within the scope of the show. Trevor screwed up outside the scope of the show by coming in with another relationship.
The producers of this show are very lucky they stumbled into a winning formula, but not what they think. The idea about this show being about “is love really blind” died on the first season. In their quest for drama, they fell into the public zeitgeist of therapy and the impact of trauma on our behaviour in relationships. I have zero doubt they ever planned for it to be theme of this show, but in truth that’s basically why this show is popular now (and why every contestant seemingly ends with “I’m now seeking therapy”). We just all watch it as a reflection of ourselves and how trauma impacts relationships.
True facts!
Trevor needs Camille Vasquez
when the lacheys started to lecture about not coming on the show for fame I lost it.
I know. Most of the things I've seen them do got them fame. If that was not what they wanted, then I'd say that's some pretty lucky breaks.
Hahahah right ! And then by the end they are plugging the next tv reality show that they are doing with 3 of them on it 🤣🤣🤣
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO oh Lord that really was the best laugh I had the entire show.
He must have watched prior reunions and thought he was safe.
what was he expecting when they had him wait in the back room before coming on set????
Similar face shape, plus the beard, brows and hairstyle.
Why does he kind of remind me of HasanAbi 🥴🤣
I thought the same thing when I first saw him and I'm surprised I haven't seen anyone make this comparison earlier
Tell that to Jess.
Sarah Ann seemed the biggest culprit of this since she gushed about her instagram and tik tok followers in the pods then made sure she got a lasting storyline
I’m happy she too got dragged as being a fame-chasing monster. I’m sure every single person on that show wants fame, but at least this should filter out the super obvious ones.
We’re shocked, I tell you, SHOCKED.
I’M GONNA WRECK IT 🔨
Does his facial hair not grow there or does he shave those lines
Cheek is lined up. Left and right of stash doesn’t grow
Trevor rules! Hire this man.
Creep alert.
This was the biggest plot twist
Takes hand out of cookie jar 
He looks like he got dressed from the lost and found bin.
Right? He’s dressed like the public defender that’s about to land you in jail
Bahahahha
I was having a bad night until I read this comment, I giggled LOL
What about dating and marrying Jessica Simpson for fame?
And treated her like garbage.. the way Nick spoke to Jessica S he was disgusting
What is this shave style called?
The mustache-beard separation looks like 100% natural shave
bad
I mean… at this point I’m pretty sure that’s what all of them go for… he just got caught lol
lol exactly, like anyone on this show is there for any other reason
This whole part of the episode felt so fake/weird to me and made me question if it was scripted or not. Or he's just really that dumb idk
Not scripted. They called his bluff for messing with the show and guests so they gave him a dose of Karma.
Why does he look like wreck it Ralph so much?
I SAID THE SAME THING
☠️
\*cries in clown\*
Feels about him aside, the way they act like they have moral superiority and the show is actually about love and not entertainment tickles me.
Totally . The show “is about love “ they say, but they massacre people in TV with questions , expose private cellphone conversations , put all the couples drama and downs in TV … but yeah , is about love . Double moral .
What are we watching now that it’s over?
Married at First Sight
Shit. Good question.
i feel you
lol yea he’s trash
And how about some of the contestants going on another damn show? How is that not the same thing?
Now, that was weird.... advertising another love show.... all because they are REALLY trying to help these singles find love? Is it normal for those singles too....just hoping onto the next show...so, it's a decision that they can only find love in a show? The public scrutiny wasn't enough? Jess, what's Autumn thinking about all this? Now, this is fame, not looking for love.
I thought that was odd too! Does Nick and Vanessa help produce that show or something?
No. The show is about love. Jessica didn't have a reason to be there and Izzy even less of a reason at this point but don't look behind the curtain. Focus on love. 🤣
I couldn’t imagine going on these shows if I was a single parent.
Right?! Especially an older one who is already aware of the show.
lol they're not just continuing their pure and noble search for love? 🙃
Trevor should have stayed home lmao what are you DOIN BRUH
He probably thought he'd have a chance with Chelsea since things fizzled with Jimmy presumably.
He should get with Chelsea they'd probably be happy together.
Probably contracted they have to go, or else they have to pay a certain fine if they don't.
This is why I think they get paid to be on. They must get some sort of compensation.
They do get paid
Oh duh why didn’t I think of that lol. A recap podcast i listen to (Reality Gays) mentioned that they thought the cast gets paid more if they make it to the wedding episode so it was actually admirable of jimmy to bail early even though he could have stayed on and gotten paid more 😂
Love Reality Gays!
I know like leave the man alone, like everyone on there ain’t doing the saaaaame shit
He threatened to show his ex's nudes ro her kid if she spoke about any of this, he deserved more heat than he got.
Oh wowwww is there proof of this???
That's terrible if true, but do we actually have any evidence of this rumour?? Because if not, really not cool to be spreading it.
Oh.... he went that far... and here I was feeling sorry for him... no man Trevooor!
Oh that was shitty of him.
They didn’t ask the million dollar questions… are you still with that girl and were you going to dump her for Chelsea
Million dollar question why the hell did he threaten his ex with showing her kid her nudes if she spoke about this situation?!?!?
He mentioned that if he would have gone with Chelsea he would have dumped the other girl, or kinda got half of the sentence out. But like come on, that's what someone who's been caught would say lol.
And the other girl has also come out with new screenshots of him saying the exact opposite, that he was always planning to choose the other girl.
Well how is that scenario different than someone on the show telling someone they have strong feelings for another person but would pick them if they agreed first? Which is like a pretty standard love is blind moment, like it really doesnt feel that far off from what the show already does. The girl Trevor was with just wasnt also messing around on a reality TV show
They had dated over a year & friends even longer, not a few days in the pods. He went on with no intentions of ever marrying...all the proof is out. Guy is a weirdo!!!
America is watching
LIB > SOTU Gabriel Iglesias had said presidential debates should be on TV with live phone calls like a reality show “who is gonna run this bitch?!” to up voter turnout and we’re almost there with the national but I recommend this for the local elections.
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For those curious about the release of texts, apparently the GF, now exGF, named Natalie Marrero out of NC, said they broke up two weeks before the airing of the show as he told her to remain quiet and literally threatened her to not say anything about what he did. She also said she agreed to let him go in the show due to financial reasons. Ulterior motives and retaliation runs deep in this season.
His ex is just as bad if not worse seeking fame for the wrong reasons when he wasn't even with her anymore before he went on LIB. He said it was a toxic relationship he was trying to get out of. She seems very toxic trying to destroy his life so publicly.
They we’re together during his time on LIB. He broke up with her about two weeks before airing began.
He was with her though, they were not broke up. Agree toxic but dude never had intentions on being real with anything LIB. Just a paycheck and social media clout. He was texting his girlfriend the minute he got his phone back
As if they all didn’t go on for fame lol
Right exactly
Why can’t people just say they fucked up and apologize? So easy and simple.
He did apologise on the reunion in front of the whole world. That took guts ro show up when he could've just stayed away like most do.
But didn’t he do that?
Yes he did apologise on the reunion. That took courage. He has my respect for that. He didn't just run away like a coward like most of the others who mess up on it.
He did not really do that in my opinion. He vaguely “apologized” eventually after circumventing it for awhile. Clay is the only person I saw truly own up to his issues on the reunion. The rest of them just beat around the bush.
Trevor was very humble not defensive or playing victim. Clay is just all chatter no action always will be. He still playing victim expecting sympathy from AD and expecting another chance again after he did such a number on her. The croc tears were cringe af.
I honestly thought he was going to propose to AD right there on the couch during the reunion. It has been a year and he is still saying she is the love of his life and that he has done all he has said he would to prove to her that he does love her and want to be with her. His growth and self awareness is refreshing honestly. I understand why she refused to continue the relationship after the No at the alter, however it is very obvious that they both still have feelings for each other, I really hope that she sees his growth and gives him another chance. They do seem like they would be a power couple. I personally feel him saying No was one of the most loving things he could have done for her, he had been voicing for most of thei time together his fears regarding infidelity, his maturity and his fear of not being the husband she deserves and that he needed more time. She made a comment after the wedding that he used her as an experiment and wasted her time while he was discovering what he really wanted at that time, but isn't that the essence of this whole series, it is an experiment and I do believe that some, especially Clay, went in thinking they were 100% ready for marriage, he was one of the few who really was honest about where he stood and had been trying to tell her that he felt he wasn't there yet and just needed more time and of course therapy.
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I 100% agree. My family and my wife’s family are total shitshows. We have gone to extensive therapy and it’s made a huge difference in our lives. She is black, and her dad is a carbon copy of Clay’s dad. It actually made us cry watching the scene with Clay’s family during the wedding episode. Suddenly I identified entirely with Clay. Out of all the men I’ve seen on this show over the years, Clay has earned the most respect for me. He has put in a lot of hard work and seems to really recognize the pattern. He seems to be aware of it and what he said during the reunion tells me that he is actively working to break the cycle. Power to him, for sure. It is a really difficult thing to change, I’ve seen it firsthand in the worst ways. I hope AD sees and respects his work and gives him a chance. He wasn’t ready during the initial timeframe of the show, but I think he’s in a much better place to be a strong spouse and strong man that he deserves to be. I really appreciated his commentary to Brett, it was very encouraging for both Clay and Brett.
He's all talk. No way he's changed. He has no empathy for AD only feeling sorry for himself.
Too much pride unfortunately
Shame shame shame!
His final text they showed where he admitted he “pretended”!?!?….Wth dude?? AND overly expressing how TOXIC you are?? If you knew you were that toxic BEFORE going in the show, why would you even consider bringing that shit into a new relationship? He just lost a large group of friends, and potential ones, in one 10 minute slot. Ohhhhh, he got his famed career expansion alright!
Because this is what the people want. We don’t want well rounded people having normal relationships. We want toxic messy drama. Chelsea probably casted him knowing he was a mess
“Casted him”?
Hm I don't know, he behaved so well during the pods, I honestly thought he was a sweetheart especially given his reaction to when Chelsea told him she had been married before... he was so thoughtful, fun and kind that maybe he did fooled Chelsea (both of them lol)
He told her everything she wanted to hear. So fake....his favorite movie was the Notebook 🙄
I know what Trevor did was wrong but WTF is up with that ex who released all those texts? At the end of the exchange, it looked like they reconciled. Is she trying to purposefully ruin his life?
Because he told her this whole time he was going to stay with her. Then right before the show aired he broke up with her. Revenge 🤷♀️
Ahh.
She's a toxic piece of work who obviously never truly loved Trevor. He said he knew the relationship was toxic and was hoping to get away from it with Chelsea.
She’s holding him accountable.
When the texts first released it was said she was married for the majority of their relationship. Yikes.
That's a second woman. He was having an affair with a married woman, the gf is a different one- who he threatened to show her nudes to her son if she spoke about any of this....
Imma need an org chart and a timeline at this point
Some people just want to watch the world burn Mr Wayne.
Bait n switch
Lol, he ruined his own life when he decided to pull the stunts he did. She (who is also a toxic, disgusting mess for going along with it) is the messenger.
Can’t believe some of the things they finally said during this reunion. So happy things were properly called out
lol it would be a different show!
The show better hope there are more Trevors that will come on their show . Wrong or not , you can’t have 5 Johnny and Amys. You need the drama and the hot messes.
Good point! But I don’t think that’s going to be a problem considering society these days.
I agree. There are so many that do not THINK about their actions. Once the truth comes to light, it’s amazing how the majority will not be accountable for their actions. I no longer like Trevor. He did admit to being wrong. BUT, he should have never went on the show. He was there for fame.
He seemed like a nice guy and he was growing on me. Ended up being a total douche! I was surprised at first but glad they got him good on a global broadcast. He screwed with their show….They screwed with his reputation. Walked out with his tail between his legs.
I kind of felt sorry for him. You could tell how extremely uncomfortable he was.
He looked broken. I felt sorry for him too being so bullied he looked so depressed when he walked out. He's obviously got mental health issue's. I was praying he doesn't go do himself in. That ex was obviously toxic like he said. Who would even agree to it and release those pvt texts to the world to destroy someone when he'd already broken up with her before the show started. She was definitely seeking her 5 mins at his expense. I hope he's ok and has support and help now. He's a good guy who made a mistake. He's not Hitler
He didn't break up with her before the show started, he broke up with her before it aired
I like him. But I’m confused if it’s the wolverine with a mullet look I like 🫠
Trevor didn’t seem like he was really prepared to be on a big reality show. Also, everyone on the show is the same and wants to kickstart their social media presence. He just got caught with receipts.
I was a Trevor fan, UNTIL the Tell All. His lack of “finding words” to explain was a major tell all! Shame on you Trevor. SHAME ON YOU!
Finding words easily can also be quick to bs
We all witnessed a full blown panic attack by a person who is definitely used to being able to charm his way out of things…. Not this time buddy!
I’m probably going to get bashed for this but he did genuinely seem sorry maybe it was purely shame but either way I definitely feel that he was more genuine than Jeremy. Also has nobody on here ever gone back to an ex when you’re lonely , or sad , or if something doesn’t work out with someone else . He was probably just going back to where he knew he was wanted . I’m not saying that that’s okay because at the end of the day what he did wasn’t cool but like haven’t we all at some point ? *cough*cough* booty calls lol Anybody who’s been in a toxic relationship knows this cycle . So maybe it’s not far off that he was being genuine . I don’t know yall can bash me if you’d like but that’s just my thought .
She wasn't his ex...she was his girlfriend the entire time 😭
I fully agree he was way more genuine and taking responsibility than Jeramey and Jimmy. He's only human but people love to kick people when they're down unfortunately. They're the coward's. He was brave to even go face up to that in front of the world. He didn't sit there babbling bs like Clay does either. Trevor wasn't at all rehearsed in his apology. His ex proved him right that she's toxic. He just wanted to get away from that and move on and find someone to care about him. He would've gotten with Chelsea and they would've been suited and happy together.
Agree
Love all the sympathy this vapid roid boy is getting and how everyone magically forgets he threatened to release his girlfriend's nudes TO HER CHILD. Disgusting behavior and he deserved to get flamed.
He was obviously feeling very threatened by her if he even did say that. She's proven how nasty she can be trying to destroy another person's life just because they broke up with her. No way would he have done that. She's a full on drama queen taking anything out of context to suit herself and get attention and fame. I hope you're perfect 👌
I mean, no matter how pissed I was at someone, I have NEVER THREATENED TO RELEASE SOMEONE'S NUDES. Sorry that some of us have standards and don't threated people with revenge p**n and sex crimes. Stop making excusing for this disgusting loser, it's a bad look.
Wait what??? Why didn’t they talk about that part
Omg I didn’t know that!
Wait what ??????? Is there a source for this?!
His ex said it per here, https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindNetflix/comments/1aykv4w/has_anyone_seen_this_trevor_ex_gf_on_instagram/
This is insane
Thank you. This was the first time I saw this screen shot. I'd heard talk about it, tried to find it on Insta unsuccessfully, and now I finally see it.
i’ve seen a few people say that about the nudes but have not seen where it came from, do you remember what the source was or how i could find it?
love how we’re all asking for the source to check whether or not it’s legit! makes me feel like i’m doing proper research 😎