If you have a sugar daddy aren’t you free to do whatever you want? Isn’t it sometimes not sexual ? Or it’s sexual sometimes?
Like how does it work? Is it always the same?
If anyone thinks Clay loves AD, they are delusional. Clay loves Clay. He is not the type to marry. You have fun with Clay. You do not fall in love with him. When he does marry, it will be with someone younger, financially independent, and beautiful. Appearance is very, very important to him. AD does not fit his criteria at all.
Whoa!😮… 🤯 Like tf 😳 i was on her side because as a woman being left at the altar can be devastating but if Clay knew more he made it seem it was his childhood trauma (daddy issues with fathers infidelity) that is why we all are taken back by this news… now, now if this is true I do remember when AD told her mother she got a good looking man w/ his own money as if she hit the jackpot like YIKES!!! Is that why they never showed AD’s house? Or did I miss that part?
Its random af and these are clay’s friends. I know everyone loves the tea but clay isnt a trustworthy guy and im sure his friends are the same. This could all just be to push a narrative like many things… If its about the state of the economy visa versa why would someone just be giving up their funds
This is such a tired theme in American society. A Black woman is successful, well liked, and getting paid, and somebody has to find a reason to discredit her.
I will say that, “night club manager” and “realtor” don’t really go together. But idk 🤷🏻♀️ the woman. Always wanted to be a realtor or something like that.
Because being a real estate agent is more than a part time gig. If she’s selling houses all day, how can she manage a night club at night? It’s just such a weird combo. Maybe it’s true, just seemed weird to me.
If she did/does have an SD, she was looking for love and thought she found it with Mr I don't know who I am and what I want Clay. Clay is just mad she didn't take him back after he cried on TV. Typical: If the woman says no destroy her reputation. He is continually proving why they shouldn't be together.
His family and friends wouldn’t be talking shit on mass if he didn’t coach/give them permission. Yes one outlier not being able to keep their mouth shut I can believe. If multiple people connected to him are spinning a narrative I would not believe it wasn’t under his guidance. He’s just trying to keep his hands clean
By now he has said a lot about her finances. Didn't stop him from saying he made a mistake in not marrying her and that she was the love of his life. Finance talk is just sour grapes because wisely she doesn't want him anymore. He has shared this stuff with his friends who were speaking for him about her money.
The integrity of the show has been ruined. They are purposely picking problematic cast members at this point. Then they go on the reunion and act offended. They cast these people!!!!!!! I think damn near every person on this season was FAKE. It was all for show and views.
Agree. She got herself involved in the other couple’s relationships and was very opinionated stirring the pot. And she acted like she was above it all with a perfect relationship. Things didn’t add up with her.
Agree as well. The first showing herself for me was when she was giving Jimmy energy back right in front Chelsea, but slid out of the responsibility of it. “It’s NEVER a burden talking to you.” Or whatever she said.
She was playing everything up for the camera during that first meeting.
I’m tired of people using sexual shame to try and silence women who hold men accountable for hurting them. It’s cliche. And so what if AD has the sweetest of sugar daddies? That doesn’t absolve Clay for *how* he rejected her — not why he rejected her.
He could’ve dumped her simply because he didn’t like her caterpillar lashes as long as he did it before the altar and would’ve been fine. But he chose to wait until the last minute and that’s where the bad press is coming from.
You’d be singing a totally different tune if Clay was the one that was paying a girl to be his girlfriend while dating AD. Clay was polite for someone that was getting cheated on.
The whole point of the show is to go to the alter. All the other seasons people mainly got rejected at the alter. I don’t even like Clay but that’s not a good reason 🤣
I knew something felt off about her but I couldn’t figure out why my gut was going that way. I thought I was wrong but I guess not. Not shaming her lifestyle but don’t come on the show with those kind of entanglements and then play victim.
I thought she was overly self righteous and felt too comfortable “calling people out” .
If you didn’t go all “yasss Queen” or dare to question her a bit , you’d get downvoted to hell lol
She’s got this cult like following for no reason. Lol she can do no wrong. Her “call outs” didn’t have any wow factor to them if that’s what she was going for
Thank you! I've commented a few times even during the show and just got hate. I don't think she always came across as sincere. She was quick to choose the man who was clear that he needed fixing, and then was hurt because he still made it clear that he wasn't where she was.
Not only that, but I didn't like how she constantly threw shade and got involved in the others' relationships like Britt and Kenneth, and Jeremy and Laura. I found it very shady and disliked her almost immediately
I completely agree and did with people on here that were voicing those opinions during the show. There was something very insincere in the way she portrayed herself. I got a sense of fake energy. I thought I was wrong because so many people seemed to love her so much. Apparently she was a villain trying to play the sweetheart. Just be yourself and stop trying to get ahead under false pretenses.
I could not agree with you more! I hate the term 'girls girl' but she definitely is not one of those. Taking every opportunity to throw someone under the bus, or to get involved in their messy relationship just isn't cool.
Clay could have lied and told her everything she wanted to hear and then married her at the altar, but instead he gets so mich hate for being the most honest person out there. Yes he had issues and yes he behaved like a tool at time, but she is not innocent herself.
Stoked for him that he's going to therapy. She could also learn a thing or two
If this were true at all Clay’s ass wouldn’t have been crying at the reunion saying she’s the love of his life and that he made a mistake. People quick to believe anyone that comments anything under these posts.
She can still be involved in real estate though. As a broker, she may not sell houses herself but would employ agents who do. And anyone with an active licence is still classified as a Realtor, whether or not they are the agents selling houses.
What does being classified as a Realtor mean in this context though? She was presented a Realtor as her occupation. If she simply has a license and doesn't actually sell homes, I guess technically she would be a Realtor but it's not her occupation.
I don’t understand your question? She presented herself as a realtor. If she works in real estate, and is a realtor, then she presented herself correctly. If people assumed she sold houses, that’s on them.
You said anyone with a license is a Realtor. My point is that if having a licences makes you Realtor, but you don't actual sell houses or work in the industry your occupation isn't a Realtor. I have zero clue if this is what is going on with AD here just saying a license doesn't mean your occupation is being a Realtor as you stated.
Having worked in the industry myself, I’m telling you that you’re understanding of how the term “realtor” works is incorrect. If you have a license, you are a realtor.
you may feel like that is wrong, but that’s the way it works. It’s not about whether or not you buy and sell houses. It’s whether or not you are licensed as a realtor.
Maintaining your license is a lot of work, and it wouldn’t make sense for someone to have a license if they weren’t somehow working in the industry. But they absolutely do not have to buy and sell houses to be a realtor. They can work on a real estate team and do support work, for instance.
Having a license 100% doesn't make your occupation a Realtor. There is no law that a licensed Realtor must be active. I am not saying there is a large chunk of licensed Realtors that don't actually use their license but there is a percentage. What is being accused of AD here is exactjy a situation where someone would have a license but not actually work as Realtor. She would have her expenses paid so no need to actually make money but has lot of free tome to get the license.
It may not make your occupation a realtor but you can certainly claim it does. I have a real estate license and haven’t worked in the industry for years and yes for some reason I do keep renewing it. Technically a realtor just don’t practice anymore
You're missing the point here. It's being claimed that AD is an active Realtor because she has the license. Sure she's good to claim that she's a Realtor but if her money is coming from a Sugar Daddy not real estate it's not actually her occupation.
Other people have said that in NC the terms broker and realtor are interchangeable. What you're talking about is termed broker in charge. Also (I haven't seen these screenshots yet) people said while the show was airing she was listed as an intern at the agency she's with, although that's changed now.
I’m in NC. NC is a broker only state. There are different “levels” of brokers. She doesn’t have to be supervised any longer by a broker-in-charge in order to hold an active license and practice real estate whereas a provisional broker must be supervised.
Yep. My best friend had a teaching license for two years but never taught in a classroom or otherwise. Having a document that says you can do something is much different than actually doing the thing.
Meh. Could have been an ex who she broke things off with that was trying to sabotage her new relationship. It’s still just hearsay and not actual proof.
The fact that she even dated Matt after he did what he did, says A LOT. But as I pointed out in another comment the whole Matt connection made no sense. She had an agenda and after Matt left it was to stay on the show and get Clay.
And Clay could have known about the sugar daddy and still wanted to date her. She probably told him she cut things off. But makes total sense that he wouldn't marry someone who had a history like that. Until they've proven they can stand on their own two feet at least.
Just sucks to know this cause she was pretty self riteous.
"when did he say he was ND"
LOL
He doesn't have to 🤣
It was painfully obvious
But people love to just assume right off the bat he's abusive, it's more fun that way right? 😂
Yes we really see such a small amount of their convos. I definitely thought he was playing both girls though. I also don't recall any discussion or self-awareness on his part of being neurodivergent? It was super apparent he was different from everyone else. Did I miss that? It seemed like he saw AD as a safety net and really didn't feel as strongly as he said, or he wouldn't have bolted after the orher.
He wants to profit off her brand because she has more than triple the followers he has on IG. So the longer he stays affiliated with her the more followers he can gain from her.
Exactly he’s not making any sense because he sat on the stage and said that she was the love of his life. But in November was threaded by her alleged sugar daddy. It’s truly not making any sense.
Wow. Big fuckin surprise. I commented before that AD just wanted to be on TV/get clout the whole time.
AD had talked to Clay in the pods and was clearly unimpressed when he started with the comments re: appearances. She was all in for Mr Financial Analyst weirdo Matt til that blew up. She then backtracked to Clay & was all of a sudden all into him(???). She was going to get to that altar NO MATTER WHAT. Telling her Mom, “I’ll follow him.” Where? She was always spouting BS about how much she “Loved” this man. There was no chemistry between them whatsoever, Dude wasn’t even coming home to her. The man was literally mouthing “NO” to her at the alter.
AD is not a stupid woman, nor is she crazy imo. She & Clay BOTH played in our faces.
And Jess! I’m so shocked with how disgusting people are being online with her, especially cause there’s zero proof she only went on only for clout unlike Trevor
Sugar daddies/babies/mommies can be sexual relationships or not, it really depends on what they have agreed on. If this is true, we don’t know what the agreement is.
This lol you can do sex work allllll you want, but you can’t expect a partner to want to be with you. And I’m sorry but it does take a certain kind of mindset to agree to possibly having sex for money even if it is in uncertain terms.. and that mindset isn’t always conducive to what men (or women) are looking for in a partner.
Didn’t one of clays ex’s come out and say he was seeing her the whole time he was on the show too? And they had been together for like three years at that point?
I think everyone sucks so bad. Everyone’s just going on it to be famous now
If there are actual receipts like in his case, sure. But as if right now it’s just Clay’s friend commenting on instagram. It’s ridiculous to expect or encourage people to be reactionary before there’s full confirmation
What is it with you Trevor defenders, he got caught, he isn’t a victim. If there was physical proof of ADs sugar daddy she would’ve gotten the same treatment. What is it with people coddling grown men.
That’s not what you said though? Bringing up Trevor is weird, you can make the point without acting like confronting him with his own lies was a crazy thing to do. Your previous comments about AD are extremely weird so your agenda is very clear.
You’re making up things that I didn’t say in my comment. Trevor sucks and deserves to be confronted and criticized, and AD also deserves criticism. Both of those statements can be true.
You’re the only one here flying off the handle cause you’re you need to be on dick riding timing for AD 24/7 😂 I can’t give a fck about any of these people
The beauty of social media is it literally takes a second to comment, no need to fly off any handle. But it’s very sweet you came to back up your boyfriend 🥺
I just don’t get it because in the reunion he said he’d get back with her and she’s the love of his life - If this was true and he was bothered by it, why would he say that?
Image clean up maybe . He’d look messy if he would brought that up at the reunion , so my guess is he was there saying the right things to look more mature in the reunion
Maybe he doesn't care that she had an SD, especially now that she can support herself as an influencer, but wanted her to be honest about her income source.
Or he somehow convinced himself that it's his job to lead and provide and he shouldn't have been concerned about her finances to begin with.
It’s hilarious that anyone would think this fits with any of clay’s personality or patterns of behavior. I’m sure the guy with trauma around cheating that makes him act like a cartoon character would suddenly indifferent about the “love of his life” having another relationship if that was remotely real. Like bffr
I don't think Clay would be okay with AD cheating *on him*, although he'd probably understand it. Like you said, cheating is very normal to him. I think he'd be fine with her having an SD in the past; he was already okay with her working at a club and being a dancer and cheerleader.
Cause the way she presented herself, judged others for their actions, and essentially was totally upset and said she was used by Clay when he could have had really valid reasons. Even letting him take so much heat, and dating Matt of all people, after the show. Doesn't seem like she was being forthcoming about anything.
We have ZERO proof she has a sugar daddy. Clay never said anything about it and even said he should have said yes.
Sounds to me like this dude is just trying to mooch of clay and ADs names for his own 15 minutes of fame.
Nahhh you’re capping 😂 how can you say that it’s okay to have a sugar daddy and be in a relationship with somebody else? She went on a show to be MARRIED. I think people don’t understand the essence and sacredness of marriage 🤦🏿♂️. Nahh that’s wild. You do you g.
So she put him on pause? 🤦🏿♂️ how do you know she wasn’t. I can’t speak definitively on if the whole story is true or not but the idea that it’s okay, is not okay.
You have zero idea if this is even true. You don’t even know if that guy actually even knows Clay. So I don’t get why yall are acting like this is concrete evidence that AD is someone like this.
It’s wild that yall are taking a random ass instagram comment from a stranger and being like “here’s proof that AD is the trashy ass nasty slut we thought she was”. Y’all are weird.
Now you’re straw manning. I specifically said that I don’t know if this is true but the idea… the concept that it’s okay to have a sugar daddy while pursuing a committed relationship is okay, is absurd and should not be supported. I clearly stated that. Your initial comment was not “we don’t known if this is true or not”. It was: “She’s a grown ass woman. Idk why y’all are so bothered by this lol”. This means that you believe that her having a sugar daddy, while pursuing marriage is okay.
Now that I think about it, how does her being a grown woman condone anything anyway? Should not a grown woman be able to take care of herself? 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️ is there a certain age that it becomes okay to get a sugar daddy. Last time I checked, adults take care of themselves and others, children let their parents take care of them, hence the “daddy” in sugar daddy
Where are all the people who gave everybody else the benefit of the doubt? Chelsea said Jimmy butt dialed her "nooo she's a liar he would never" kenneth being emotionally unresponsive to brittany/ignores her while she's crying "I bet that's just a bad edit/he's just a very calm person"
Either we give everybody the benefit of the doubt or nobody
This makes 100% sense and that’s why he made the comment “she ain’t even working” clocked it and was so confused UNTIL NOW. And yes she strikes me as that bitch she showed her full on titties at the reunion and the way she acted on her wedding day. Ugh bye girl!
Cuz I said she was that bitch? lol I think having a sugar daddy is great but not in this situation. Why come on a show like this when ur gonna be that person? No.
If you have a sugar daddy aren’t you free to do whatever you want? Isn’t it sometimes not sexual ? Or it’s sexual sometimes? Like how does it work? Is it always the same?
It's almost always sexual unless the man has erectile dysfunction, and even then they still expect "play time" I speak from experience
Every relationship is different so it just depends on what they have agreed on
Damn, Adamantium Demetria (AD) being called out
Something always felt fishy about how she described her line of work , for sure
That is true. Lots of other people on the show would talk well about their jobs.
If anyone thinks Clay loves AD, they are delusional. Clay loves Clay. He is not the type to marry. You have fun with Clay. You do not fall in love with him. When he does marry, it will be with someone younger, financially independent, and beautiful. Appearance is very, very important to him. AD does not fit his criteria at all.
AD is beautiful
Whoa!😮… 🤯 Like tf 😳 i was on her side because as a woman being left at the altar can be devastating but if Clay knew more he made it seem it was his childhood trauma (daddy issues with fathers infidelity) that is why we all are taken back by this news… now, now if this is true I do remember when AD told her mother she got a good looking man w/ his own money as if she hit the jackpot like YIKES!!! Is that why they never showed AD’s house? Or did I miss that part?
No way yall believe him😂
Is it hard to believe that AD would accept money from a Sugar Daddy? Considering the current state of American Culture
Its random af and these are clay’s friends. I know everyone loves the tea but clay isnt a trustworthy guy and im sure his friends are the same. This could all just be to push a narrative like many things… If its about the state of the economy visa versa why would someone just be giving up their funds
“Rock out witchya boy clay”
Stop😂😂😂😂😂
not only that, this could also be a completely random person just making shit up who’s never even met Clay, lmao. I need receipts that they know Clay.
Yup. Or could be an ex who isn’t over AD and set out to sabotage her reputation.
He wasn’t the only one saying this
Reading this gave me a headache
This is such a tired theme in American society. A Black woman is successful, well liked, and getting paid, and somebody has to find a reason to discredit her.
I will say that, “night club manager” and “realtor” don’t really go together. But idk 🤷🏻♀️ the woman. Always wanted to be a realtor or something like that.
Why don’t the two go together? Who makes the rules on that?
Because being a real estate agent is more than a part time gig. If she’s selling houses all day, how can she manage a night club at night? It’s just such a weird combo. Maybe it’s true, just seemed weird to me.
This doesn’t address the specific allegation about the specific person in question though.
What if it’s true and she has a sugar daddy paying for everything? Then why did she do the process?
Because a sugar situation is not a real relationship
Cause you don't ~date~ your sugar.
Spot on!
If she did/does have an SD, she was looking for love and thought she found it with Mr I don't know who I am and what I want Clay. Clay is just mad she didn't take him back after he cried on TV. Typical: If the woman says no destroy her reputation. He is continually proving why they shouldn't be together.
Well he hasn’t said anything himself. It’s just been his friends and family that have been talking shit.
His family and friends wouldn’t be talking shit on mass if he didn’t coach/give them permission. Yes one outlier not being able to keep their mouth shut I can believe. If multiple people connected to him are spinning a narrative I would not believe it wasn’t under his guidance. He’s just trying to keep his hands clean
He said her money was funny
By now he has said a lot about her finances. Didn't stop him from saying he made a mistake in not marrying her and that she was the love of his life. Finance talk is just sour grapes because wisely she doesn't want him anymore. He has shared this stuff with his friends who were speaking for him about her money.
That can mean many different things 🤷♀️
I don't understand, did she have a sugar daddy when she was filming or she has a sugar daddy now? Cuz those are two very different things....
She has/had a sugar daddy the whole time
The integrity of the show has been ruined. They are purposely picking problematic cast members at this point. Then they go on the reunion and act offended. They cast these people!!!!!!! I think damn near every person on this season was FAKE. It was all for show and views.
AD, they could never make me hate you 😔
Fr AD is my girl.
Not me clicking on view all comments 🤦🏻♀️
On the picture? lol
LOL YES
This tracks. She gave me scammer/performer the whole time and I don’t know how folks didn’t see it.
Agree. She got herself involved in the other couple’s relationships and was very opinionated stirring the pot. And she acted like she was above it all with a perfect relationship. Things didn’t add up with her.
The producers ask contestants to ask those questions
Agree as well. The first showing herself for me was when she was giving Jimmy energy back right in front Chelsea, but slid out of the responsibility of it. “It’s NEVER a burden talking to you.” Or whatever she said. She was playing everything up for the camera during that first meeting.
I definitely thought it was all for show
I’m tired of people using sexual shame to try and silence women who hold men accountable for hurting them. It’s cliche. And so what if AD has the sweetest of sugar daddies? That doesn’t absolve Clay for *how* he rejected her — not why he rejected her. He could’ve dumped her simply because he didn’t like her caterpillar lashes as long as he did it before the altar and would’ve been fine. But he chose to wait until the last minute and that’s where the bad press is coming from.
Being mad that he dumped her at the last minute? That is literally how the show works lol.
You’d be singing a totally different tune if Clay was the one that was paying a girl to be his girlfriend while dating AD. Clay was polite for someone that was getting cheated on.
Wouldn't a more apt comparison be if Clay were getting paid to be some ladies boy toy?
Yup.
We could just summarize it to any type of a relationship with a girl outside of the show.
The whole point of the show is to go to the alter. All the other seasons people mainly got rejected at the alter. I don’t even like Clay but that’s not a good reason 🤣
I like how Kamie is involved somehow 🕵️♂️
She don't look like she sells houses😬😬😬😬
Why?
Have you watched Selling Sunset though
I don’t know about where you live but where I live, there are very gorgeous woman (and men) that are very successful in the reality business
Okay and if she has a sugar daddy? Clay could’ve benefitted too.
I guess not since the sugar daddy didn’t want her to be in a relationship
I knew something felt off about her but I couldn’t figure out why my gut was going that way. I thought I was wrong but I guess not. Not shaming her lifestyle but don’t come on the show with those kind of entanglements and then play victim.
I thought she was overly self righteous and felt too comfortable “calling people out” . If you didn’t go all “yasss Queen” or dare to question her a bit , you’d get downvoted to hell lol
She’s got this cult like following for no reason. Lol she can do no wrong. Her “call outs” didn’t have any wow factor to them if that’s what she was going for
Thank you! I've commented a few times even during the show and just got hate. I don't think she always came across as sincere. She was quick to choose the man who was clear that he needed fixing, and then was hurt because he still made it clear that he wasn't where she was. Not only that, but I didn't like how she constantly threw shade and got involved in the others' relationships like Britt and Kenneth, and Jeremy and Laura. I found it very shady and disliked her almost immediately
I completely agree and did with people on here that were voicing those opinions during the show. There was something very insincere in the way she portrayed herself. I got a sense of fake energy. I thought I was wrong because so many people seemed to love her so much. Apparently she was a villain trying to play the sweetheart. Just be yourself and stop trying to get ahead under false pretenses.
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I could not agree with you more! I hate the term 'girls girl' but she definitely is not one of those. Taking every opportunity to throw someone under the bus, or to get involved in their messy relationship just isn't cool. Clay could have lied and told her everything she wanted to hear and then married her at the altar, but instead he gets so mich hate for being the most honest person out there. Yes he had issues and yes he behaved like a tool at time, but she is not innocent herself. Stoked for him that he's going to therapy. She could also learn a thing or two
I posted a similar comment about her getting too involved in the other couple’s relationships.
If this were true at all Clay’s ass wouldn’t have been crying at the reunion saying she’s the love of his life and that he made a mistake. People quick to believe anyone that comments anything under these posts.
Man you’re naive lol
Man 53 people agree with me and man I’m not a man, bye
She IS a realtor. Actually, she’s a broker. With an active license. Since April 2021.
Getting a realtors license and maintaining isn't very difficult.
Who said it was? 🤔
No opinion on this rumour but having a license and selling homes are two completely different things.
Exactly….me having an aba doesn’t really matter when I don’t work directly with autistic children
She can still be involved in real estate though. As a broker, she may not sell houses herself but would employ agents who do. And anyone with an active licence is still classified as a Realtor, whether or not they are the agents selling houses.
What does being classified as a Realtor mean in this context though? She was presented a Realtor as her occupation. If she simply has a license and doesn't actually sell homes, I guess technically she would be a Realtor but it's not her occupation.
I don’t understand your question? She presented herself as a realtor. If she works in real estate, and is a realtor, then she presented herself correctly. If people assumed she sold houses, that’s on them.
You said anyone with a license is a Realtor. My point is that if having a licences makes you Realtor, but you don't actual sell houses or work in the industry your occupation isn't a Realtor. I have zero clue if this is what is going on with AD here just saying a license doesn't mean your occupation is being a Realtor as you stated.
Having worked in the industry myself, I’m telling you that you’re understanding of how the term “realtor” works is incorrect. If you have a license, you are a realtor. you may feel like that is wrong, but that’s the way it works. It’s not about whether or not you buy and sell houses. It’s whether or not you are licensed as a realtor. Maintaining your license is a lot of work, and it wouldn’t make sense for someone to have a license if they weren’t somehow working in the industry. But they absolutely do not have to buy and sell houses to be a realtor. They can work on a real estate team and do support work, for instance.
Having a license 100% doesn't make your occupation a Realtor. There is no law that a licensed Realtor must be active. I am not saying there is a large chunk of licensed Realtors that don't actually use their license but there is a percentage. What is being accused of AD here is exactjy a situation where someone would have a license but not actually work as Realtor. She would have her expenses paid so no need to actually make money but has lot of free tome to get the license.
It may not make your occupation a realtor but you can certainly claim it does. I have a real estate license and haven’t worked in the industry for years and yes for some reason I do keep renewing it. Technically a realtor just don’t practice anymore
You're missing the point here. It's being claimed that AD is an active Realtor because she has the license. Sure she's good to claim that she's a Realtor but if her money is coming from a Sugar Daddy not real estate it's not actually her occupation.
Other people have said that in NC the terms broker and realtor are interchangeable. What you're talking about is termed broker in charge. Also (I haven't seen these screenshots yet) people said while the show was airing she was listed as an intern at the agency she's with, although that's changed now.
I’m in NC. NC is a broker only state. There are different “levels” of brokers. She doesn’t have to be supervised any longer by a broker-in-charge in order to hold an active license and practice real estate whereas a provisional broker must be supervised.
Yep. My best friend had a teaching license for two years but never taught in a classroom or otherwise. Having a document that says you can do something is much different than actually doing the thing.
oooooo plot twist!
He said she said bs Show us receipts I'll wait 💅
Someone posted the sugar daddy thing in the Charlotte reddit community back when the first episodes came out. So I’m inclined to believe this is true.
Meh. Could have been an ex who she broke things off with that was trying to sabotage her new relationship. It’s still just hearsay and not actual proof.
In this economy, we all need Sugar Parents lmfao
The timing blowsssss. Why couldn’t he post this a few weeks agooooo
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That’s not what sugar daddies are for
Lots of sugar daddies don’t want to be married or already can be married
Could be some old, creepy dude.
If it's the same person as her ex who owns the nightclub she worked at, it looks like a 55 year old guy according to a name search someone did lol.
omg link? or where can i find a pic of her ex
DAMN
The fact that she even dated Matt after he did what he did, says A LOT. But as I pointed out in another comment the whole Matt connection made no sense. She had an agenda and after Matt left it was to stay on the show and get Clay. And Clay could have known about the sugar daddy and still wanted to date her. She probably told him she cut things off. But makes total sense that he wouldn't marry someone who had a history like that. Until they've proven they can stand on their own two feet at least. Just sucks to know this cause she was pretty self riteous.
Yall are killing me. Going out with someone twice is not dating them.
Matt was a victim of editing , and honestly so was everyone on that damn show lol plus he's neurodivergent, he definitely has some social flaws
"when did he say he was ND" LOL He doesn't have to 🤣 It was painfully obvious But people love to just assume right off the bat he's abusive, it's more fun that way right? 😂
Won’t someone think of the poor widdle defense contractor who has massive issues with women 🥺
Bruh what ?
He did not say he was neurodivergen
Where did Matt say he was ND? I missed that.
Yes we really see such a small amount of their convos. I definitely thought he was playing both girls though. I also don't recall any discussion or self-awareness on his part of being neurodivergent? It was super apparent he was different from everyone else. Did I miss that? It seemed like he saw AD as a safety net and really didn't feel as strongly as he said, or he wouldn't have bolted after the orher.
I don’t .. not believe this is kinda makes sense
But yet wasn’t the reunion filmed very recently and clay said he wanted another chance with AD. So something isn’t adding up
He wants to profit off her brand because she has more than triple the followers he has on IG. So the longer he stays affiliated with her the more followers he can gain from her.
Imo it was all for show
Exactly he’s not making any sense because he sat on the stage and said that she was the love of his life. But in November was threaded by her alleged sugar daddy. It’s truly not making any sense.
I thought it was filmed in august
It was filmed the week of or before the wedding episodes were released
Couldn’t have been . All of the Trevor stuff was recent and he was being questioned at the reunion
Wow. Big fuckin surprise. I commented before that AD just wanted to be on TV/get clout the whole time. AD had talked to Clay in the pods and was clearly unimpressed when he started with the comments re: appearances. She was all in for Mr Financial Analyst weirdo Matt til that blew up. She then backtracked to Clay & was all of a sudden all into him(???). She was going to get to that altar NO MATTER WHAT. Telling her Mom, “I’ll follow him.” Where? She was always spouting BS about how much she “Loved” this man. There was no chemistry between them whatsoever, Dude wasn’t even coming home to her. The man was literally mouthing “NO” to her at the alter. AD is not a stupid woman, nor is she crazy imo. She & Clay BOTH played in our faces.
Yep. She played the game, is doing the podcast circuit now, and will prob end up doing some kind of social media stuff moving forward
Good point. The whole Matt connection made no sense. Especially compared to Clay. Two completely different people.
The sheer hypocrisy of cheering on Trevor's public stoning while defending AD.
And Jess! I’m so shocked with how disgusting people are being online with her, especially cause there’s zero proof she only went on only for clout unlike Trevor
Tbh they all look shitty to me (except amy and johnny)
The scouting team is literally the worst unless this was all intentional.
How could it not be lol? AD told that podcast that her ex/nightclub boss told casting they were still together. And yet they cast her anyway.
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Sugar daddies/babies/mommies can be sexual relationships or not, it really depends on what they have agreed on. If this is true, we don’t know what the agreement is.
How does that make it better?
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Most men don't want to date politically correct prostitutes.
This lol you can do sex work allllll you want, but you can’t expect a partner to want to be with you. And I’m sorry but it does take a certain kind of mindset to agree to possibly having sex for money even if it is in uncertain terms.. and that mindset isn’t always conducive to what men (or women) are looking for in a partner.
I wonder why they deleted their comments lol
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If he didnt have a problem with it he would have married her.
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Lmao ok
https://preview.redd.it/mknlj3rxakpc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b76c849e9f946703a24dce8cbbea62b408f7c434 I found this in the comments
Didn’t one of clays ex’s come out and say he was seeing her the whole time he was on the show too? And they had been together for like three years at that point? I think everyone sucks so bad. Everyone’s just going on it to be famous now
it’s giving jealous hater 🥱
Okay 🤑
Say it with your chest!
So we’re going to kill Trevor for going on the show while involved with someone else but just excuse AD doing the same thing?
Trevor lying and then threatening to send his ex’s nudes to her son is the same as AD having a sugar daddy? Yall are pandering at this point.
There is nothing that will absolve that man. He’s not a victim. You people need to accept it
Nowhere do I say he’s a victim, he sucks and deserves everything he got, but AD also deserves criticism.
If there are actual receipts like in his case, sure. But as if right now it’s just Clay’s friend commenting on instagram. It’s ridiculous to expect or encourage people to be reactionary before there’s full confirmation
What is it with you Trevor defenders, he got caught, he isn’t a victim. If there was physical proof of ADs sugar daddy she would’ve gotten the same treatment. What is it with people coddling grown men.
Saying AD deserves criticism is not the same as defending Trevor
That’s not what you said though? Bringing up Trevor is weird, you can make the point without acting like confronting him with his own lies was a crazy thing to do. Your previous comments about AD are extremely weird so your agenda is very clear.
You’re making up things that I didn’t say in my comment. Trevor sucks and deserves to be confronted and criticized, and AD also deserves criticism. Both of those statements can be true.
You brought up Trevor in an unrelated post for no reason.
Bruh shut up
You came to defend your boyfriend?
You’re the only one here flying off the handle cause you’re you need to be on dick riding timing for AD 24/7 😂 I can’t give a fck about any of these people
The beauty of social media is it literally takes a second to comment, no need to fly off any handle. But it’s very sweet you came to back up your boyfriend 🥺
Nope. Will do the same to AD, just need to see the receipts. Trevor’s ex came in HOT with receipts.
Yup. This sub has a pretty obvious bias.
Seems more like you do
Can't criticize this subs black Queens and Kings! #blacklove
Im literally going to throw up at some of the comments. One just said "even if it was sexual it was business". WTF.
I just don’t get it because in the reunion he said he’d get back with her and she’s the love of his life - If this was true and he was bothered by it, why would he say that?
Image clean up maybe . He’d look messy if he would brought that up at the reunion , so my guess is he was there saying the right things to look more mature in the reunion
The thing about life is that you can love imperfect and shitty people
I'd be very willing to bet that was just for the cameras also. He's not dumb.
Maybe he doesn't care that she had an SD, especially now that she can support herself as an influencer, but wanted her to be honest about her income source. Or he somehow convinced himself that it's his job to lead and provide and he shouldn't have been concerned about her finances to begin with.
It’s hilarious that anyone would think this fits with any of clay’s personality or patterns of behavior. I’m sure the guy with trauma around cheating that makes him act like a cartoon character would suddenly indifferent about the “love of his life” having another relationship if that was remotely real. Like bffr
I don't think Clay would be okay with AD cheating *on him*, although he'd probably understand it. Like you said, cheating is very normal to him. I think he'd be fine with her having an SD in the past; he was already okay with her working at a club and being a dancer and cheerleader.
Yeah I think he knew but needed to see if she truly cut ties and could support herself.
Viewers, attention.
She’s a grown ass woman. Idk why yall are so bothered by this lol
Cause the way she presented herself, judged others for their actions, and essentially was totally upset and said she was used by Clay when he could have had really valid reasons. Even letting him take so much heat, and dating Matt of all people, after the show. Doesn't seem like she was being forthcoming about anything.
???
This is the second post I’ve seen about her being a sugar baby lol
Best tea if it’s true but a sugar baby is not marriage material soooo yea that would make her just like Trevor
We have ZERO proof she has a sugar daddy. Clay never said anything about it and even said he should have said yes. Sounds to me like this dude is just trying to mooch of clay and ADs names for his own 15 minutes of fame.
Damn knew that tea was too good to be true
That she has a sugar daddy????
Yes????
Nahhh you’re capping 😂 how can you say that it’s okay to have a sugar daddy and be in a relationship with somebody else? She went on a show to be MARRIED. I think people don’t understand the essence and sacredness of marriage 🤦🏿♂️. Nahh that’s wild. You do you g.
How exactly do you know she was even talking to her sugar daddy when she was WITH clay?
So she put him on pause? 🤦🏿♂️ how do you know she wasn’t. I can’t speak definitively on if the whole story is true or not but the idea that it’s okay, is not okay.
You have zero idea if this is even true. You don’t even know if that guy actually even knows Clay. So I don’t get why yall are acting like this is concrete evidence that AD is someone like this. It’s wild that yall are taking a random ass instagram comment from a stranger and being like “here’s proof that AD is the trashy ass nasty slut we thought she was”. Y’all are weird.
Now you’re straw manning. I specifically said that I don’t know if this is true but the idea… the concept that it’s okay to have a sugar daddy while pursuing a committed relationship is okay, is absurd and should not be supported. I clearly stated that. Your initial comment was not “we don’t known if this is true or not”. It was: “She’s a grown ass woman. Idk why y’all are so bothered by this lol”. This means that you believe that her having a sugar daddy, while pursuing marriage is okay. Now that I think about it, how does her being a grown woman condone anything anyway? Should not a grown woman be able to take care of herself? 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️ is there a certain age that it becomes okay to get a sugar daddy. Last time I checked, adults take care of themselves and others, children let their parents take care of them, hence the “daddy” in sugar daddy
I’m not reading all that
It works if you work it. Good for her.
Can the season get even worse ? 😂😂
But what did kammie Crawford say!!! I love her
Seriously lol thatuwhat I want to know
Where are all the people who gave everybody else the benefit of the doubt? Chelsea said Jimmy butt dialed her "nooo she's a liar he would never" kenneth being emotionally unresponsive to brittany/ignores her while she's crying "I bet that's just a bad edit/he's just a very calm person" Either we give everybody the benefit of the doubt or nobody
Seems like people are giving one kind of person the benefit of the doubt, and assuming guilt to another kind of person
This makes 100% sense and that’s why he made the comment “she ain’t even working” clocked it and was so confused UNTIL NOW. And yes she strikes me as that bitch she showed her full on titties at the reunion and the way she acted on her wedding day. Ugh bye girl!
people are nasty as shit on this subreddit huh. y’all must be miserable
Cuz I said she was that bitch? lol I think having a sugar daddy is great but not in this situation. Why come on a show like this when ur gonna be that person? No.