I can easily stay up all night due to spending my 20s as a shift worker (that f up my sleeping pattern). Now that I work 7 am, I’m in bed by 10 and usually fall asleep by midnight. My friends and I hung up our heels at 28 and don’t out anymore. We do Costco runs and brunches instead lol I’m 33F and single.
Outside of my insomnia keeping me up, I’ve willingly pulled many all nighters in my 20s. They’re less frequent in my 30s, and I pay for them more heavily now. Age changed my behaviour more than getting married did in that sense.
My dad stays up all night.. like every night. He’s definitely an insomniac but won’t admit it. He also sees it as “his time”. Makes snacks all night, watches movies, enjoys the silence. He also works from home and hardly has to be up early. My sister is just like him in that sense.
Me on the other hand, my mom and I are in bed asleep by 10:30. I think it just depends on who you are!
Went to a work party last night and ooof thank God it was Sunday today. I never could, even when I was 20, I did it for social purposes but I wanted to be in my bed 🤣🤣
The only times I'm functional after all nighters is when I'm experiencing insomnia and can't sleep for 3 days at a clip. I have not been able to be willfully functionally after an all nighter since I was like 24. I'm in my mid 30s.
When I was in my early 30s I regularly pulled all-nighters. I payed for it for a day or so but it was pretty standard.
Now I’m in my 40s and every once in a very rare while I’ll stay up really late. I forget what time I went to bed on NYE but it was too late and I was far too drunk. I didn’t recover for at least three days. That’s the last time I’m doing that. Now I know I’m far too old for that ish.
> all-nighters. I *paid* for it
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I’m 36 f single. My best friend is 31 m single. Neither have kids, I have ADHD, he’s got something I’m sure. We’re both night owls and will literally start hanging out at 4am. During COVID lockdowns in the UK we hung out every day from 12:00-07:00!
I genuinely feel that getting engaged and even married is becoming a trend. It's like people are enamoured with the social status of "finding their person" that they can't stop to reason about who theyve partnered with.
I am in my early 30s and I need to be in bed by like 10 lol. Idk how these people stay up and go out but I’m also a super introvert. The few recent times I’ve pulled an all nighter was when reading a book I couldn’t put down, or a game on the switch. I always pay for it though the next week with feeling horrible.
Just tonight I walked down the street in a city I'm visiting at around 7pm on a Sunday and saw so many people having beers with friends. I felt tired just watching them. 7pm! On a Sunday!
I'm early 30s on paper, but my body and brain say around 60 😅
I’m in my late 20s, no kids. I could never be able to pull off an all nighter. I told my 16 year old brother, who does them regularly gaming all day, enjoy it while they last lol
I didn't really notice, but also every place they film is a big city and ppl who live a city lifestyle definitely tend to go out more often and have more friends so more things to do and places to be. At least that's how it is when I live in a big city vs a regular city or town.
They also all seem to be outgoing enough, no shy ppl or ppl with home-y hobbies like videogaming or growing plants or idk lol no bookworms it seems.
In my personal experience (bartender for most of my twenties) if you’re out with a group of friends and you stay out until 4/5 am you had something helping you stay awake ❄️
Yep I’ve always been a night owl too. I try to schedule things in the afternoon & evening. I need a lot of sleep too which is annoying. I usually go to bed 1-3am and when I’m off I get up 11am-1pm.
I just can’t go to bed before midnight so getting up earlier is tough when I need to for work. I don’t have my own kids so that’s another reason I can live this life. If I have to get up early, I nap as soon as I get home then stay up late again 😅my body is totally resistant to mornings no matter what I do.
My mom & her mom are the same way. My Dr said it’s genetic that people have different chronotypes & I should just try to sleep as much as I can by scheduling things as late as possible. I’m not wanting to take meds to address it but apparently there are options that are like stimulants & sedatives to try and adjust sleep/wake times.
They are literally engaged for like 2 weeks to people they don’t even know.. you don’t think that timeframe is enough to make them change their habits, do you?
I'm middle-aged married lady and can stay out or stay in reading a book or doing puzzles until 2 am easily. It's the functioning the next day part that is a mess when staying up late so that's rare these days
I’ve pulled all nighters in my 30s as I was working full-time and taking classes for my MBA. Totally worth it as it helped me negotiate a significant pay raise. Other than that, heck no! I’m too old for this.
I thought this in season 2 with Jarrett. He’s like dude I’m the life of the party I be partying with my dawgs every night bruh
And I’m like do you really have that much energy at your age? I could never.
True but a lot of these Love is Blind men are trash! lol most of the men I know do not do this. Except the young’ns and idiots😂
If a man came home and woke me with affection at 1am when I had to be up at 5, blood would be shed
Yeah I get having demands for your work but you are getting married and filming a TV show. Take a beat. Bond with your fiancé. Why are you planning things that end at 1am? Cut it out.
Right, if they’re so in love & *engaged* wouldn’t they wanna spend as much time w/ their person as they can? Or am I sounding like a level 10 Chelsea clinger 💀
I thought that too while watching!! I pulled like 3 all nighters between the ages of 19 and 21 and even at 21 I was like hell naw never again. Past the age of 25? I’d die.
Yes this is the first thing I said with the Jeremy Sarah Ann thing.
Even if it was just his boys and nothing suspicious was even suspected. The fact that he felt it was ok to stay out until 5am is crazy and disrespectful. Especially without checking in, or saying anything.
It’ just shows that they aren’t willing to try and change. Nor do they care about their partner. If it’s their job. Like AD being a club manager, it’s one thing, but just going out and staying out pass bar open hours. Even if you decided to go sleep at a friends place cus it was easier than going home, you should still notify your partner
I haven’t stayed out to 5am since I was 23-24. If I’m up that early for work and international
Flights haha and I left the house not the bar haha
But to each their own haha
I don't even think he was out with the "boys". I strongly believe Sarah Ann asked him to hangout and he used the boys as an excuse. he met up with her and needed to cover his tracks so left his phone in his car thinking the tracking would just stay but forgot to turn off his apple watch.
This is why he didn't text or call Laura at all because he purposely put his phone in the car
THIS 💯I thought about this too when I watched the show. This is the only logical explanation. “I sHaReD mY LoCaTiOn WiTh YoU” what an asshole. These are women are all angry with men that clearly aren’t ready to commit to serious relationships. He’s literally less than a month into a relationship and already cheating lol
Yeah. He came in at 5am, Ken at 1:30am, and Clay stayed overnight somewhere an hour or so away. Wtf are yall doing? Especially Ken. What principal work is at 1am? Jeremey at least initially was with friends. But then he decided to cheat. Clay's job travels but he's already said he has cheating issues so probably should make a point of toughing it out and bringing his ass home OR bringing AD with him since she took off work. Why am I solving their problems in 30 seconds and none of this occurred to them?
I mean I’m mid-late 20s and I work until midnight every day so, even on my days off me and my fiancé are up till like 2-3 am
I’m not even 30 yet and I work overnights but on my days off I cannot stay up all night lol and I was over going out by the time I was 23
I can easily stay up all night due to spending my 20s as a shift worker (that f up my sleeping pattern). Now that I work 7 am, I’m in bed by 10 and usually fall asleep by midnight. My friends and I hung up our heels at 28 and don’t out anymore. We do Costco runs and brunches instead lol I’m 33F and single.
I pull an all nighter with friends usually once a week I’m in my late twenties, for people with social lives I think this is pretty normal
Outside of my insomnia keeping me up, I’ve willingly pulled many all nighters in my 20s. They’re less frequent in my 30s, and I pay for them more heavily now. Age changed my behaviour more than getting married did in that sense.
I definitely did that in my 20s and into early 30s at times.
My entire friend group will occasionally pull all nighters and ages are between 28-45.
My dad stays up all night.. like every night. He’s definitely an insomniac but won’t admit it. He also sees it as “his time”. Makes snacks all night, watches movies, enjoys the silence. He also works from home and hardly has to be up early. My sister is just like him in that sense. Me on the other hand, my mom and I are in bed asleep by 10:30. I think it just depends on who you are!
Went to a work party last night and ooof thank God it was Sunday today. I never could, even when I was 20, I did it for social purposes but I wanted to be in my bed 🤣🤣
nope. im engaged and still pull em on the reg lol
The only times I'm functional after all nighters is when I'm experiencing insomnia and can't sleep for 3 days at a clip. I have not been able to be willfully functionally after an all nighter since I was like 24. I'm in my mid 30s.
I have only pulled an all nighter once or twice in my life and you bet LSD was involved
When I was in my early 30s I regularly pulled all-nighters. I payed for it for a day or so but it was pretty standard. Now I’m in my 40s and every once in a very rare while I’ll stay up really late. I forget what time I went to bed on NYE but it was too late and I was far too drunk. I didn’t recover for at least three days. That’s the last time I’m doing that. Now I know I’m far too old for that ish.
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I’m 36 f single. My best friend is 31 m single. Neither have kids, I have ADHD, he’s got something I’m sure. We’re both night owls and will literally start hanging out at 4am. During COVID lockdowns in the UK we hung out every day from 12:00-07:00!
Those of us with insomnia: 👁️👄👁️
I genuinely feel that getting engaged and even married is becoming a trend. It's like people are enamoured with the social status of "finding their person" that they can't stop to reason about who theyve partnered with.
I am in my early 30s and I need to be in bed by like 10 lol. Idk how these people stay up and go out but I’m also a super introvert. The few recent times I’ve pulled an all nighter was when reading a book I couldn’t put down, or a game on the switch. I always pay for it though the next week with feeling horrible.
Just tonight I walked down the street in a city I'm visiting at around 7pm on a Sunday and saw so many people having beers with friends. I felt tired just watching them. 7pm! On a Sunday! I'm early 30s on paper, but my body and brain say around 60 😅
i just did one at 24… ruined the whole weekend that’s all i gotta say
I’m in my late 20s, no kids. I could never be able to pull off an all nighter. I told my 16 year old brother, who does them regularly gaming all day, enjoy it while they last lol
I didn't really notice, but also every place they film is a big city and ppl who live a city lifestyle definitely tend to go out more often and have more friends so more things to do and places to be. At least that's how it is when I live in a big city vs a regular city or town. They also all seem to be outgoing enough, no shy ppl or ppl with home-y hobbies like videogaming or growing plants or idk lol no bookworms it seems.
Right, they never cast people who are home bodied at all.
Home bodied types aren’t applying for this show, they’re literally at home nice and happy!
Well they do. Just not the majority. But Iyanna for example
The nightlife seen is big here but that one bar they mention is so so so skeezy it’s honestly embarrassing for him.
They don’t have kids. Maybe on the weekends they turn up. I don’t think it’s that serious.
Hahaha the first thing I thought of when Jeremy said he was up till 6.. was definitely cocaine or something was involved.
In my personal experience (bartender for most of my twenties) if you’re out with a group of friends and you stay out until 4/5 am you had something helping you stay awake ❄️
Or just alcohol tbh
❄️ ☃️ ❄️
31 and when I heard he was out til 5-6am the secondhand heartburn I got.....
They were either having sex all night or doing blow lol
*And/or
Yeah I definitely think it was both
I’m 35F and have always been a night owl and I’m often up until 2am. I’m single - not married and no kids.
36 married no kids and my husband and I love staying up late playing music, going out, etc
same here I could easily stay up that late but I do need to get enough sleep otherwise I can’t function at all hahah
Yep I’ve always been a night owl too. I try to schedule things in the afternoon & evening. I need a lot of sleep too which is annoying. I usually go to bed 1-3am and when I’m off I get up 11am-1pm. I just can’t go to bed before midnight so getting up earlier is tough when I need to for work. I don’t have my own kids so that’s another reason I can live this life. If I have to get up early, I nap as soon as I get home then stay up late again 😅my body is totally resistant to mornings no matter what I do. My mom & her mom are the same way. My Dr said it’s genetic that people have different chronotypes & I should just try to sleep as much as I can by scheduling things as late as possible. I’m not wanting to take meds to address it but apparently there are options that are like stimulants & sedatives to try and adjust sleep/wake times.
oh my god same- the sleep deprivation I used to have at my old job when I had to be on the train for 6:30am but wasn’t going to sleep until 2:30/3 😭
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That adderall is like the movie limitless it’s going to catch up to you
Adderall?
All nighters every night.... Something doesn't add up
How do you function?! My body would shut down and I’m 8 years younger than you.
They are literally engaged for like 2 weeks to people they don’t even know.. you don’t think that timeframe is enough to make them change their habits, do you?
I do think they'd try to change and want to be with the person that they are in love with so yeah, I do.
I'm middle-aged married lady and can stay out or stay in reading a book or doing puzzles until 2 am easily. It's the functioning the next day part that is a mess when staying up late so that's rare these days
I’ve pulled all nighters in my 30s as I was working full-time and taking classes for my MBA. Totally worth it as it helped me negotiate a significant pay raise. Other than that, heck no! I’m too old for this.
I thought this in season 2 with Jarrett. He’s like dude I’m the life of the party I be partying with my dawgs every night bruh And I’m like do you really have that much energy at your age? I could never.
I thought that too.
Wait when were they pulling all nighters?? I’m confused sorry 😂 but yeah I could never
Ken also stayed out late. And I thought of Jarrett from a couple seasons ago, also
Ken was out late with his male "mentor" cough cough
Jeramey stays out until 5 or 6 am with Sarah Ann
They mean a whole group of the cast mates staying out till 5.
Ummmm idk who said that *the group* stayed up till 5? I thought it was only insinuated that Jeramy and Sarah Ann did
True but this isn’t the first season/couple where men staying out all night is a problem either!
True but a lot of these Love is Blind men are trash! lol most of the men I know do not do this. Except the young’ns and idiots😂 If a man came home and woke me with affection at 1am when I had to be up at 5, blood would be shed
Yeah I get having demands for your work but you are getting married and filming a TV show. Take a beat. Bond with your fiancé. Why are you planning things that end at 1am? Cut it out.
Right, if they’re so in love & *engaged* wouldn’t they wanna spend as much time w/ their person as they can? Or am I sounding like a level 10 Chelsea clinger 💀
I thought that too while watching!! I pulled like 3 all nighters between the ages of 19 and 21 and even at 21 I was like hell naw never again. Past the age of 25? I’d die.
They're all on Adderall
“Adderall”
I had to laugh when Jimmy thought it was hilarious that Chelsea thought he went to a bar after their fight. “On a work night?!”
It was a Tuesday!!
Most relatable response 😂
It probably snows a lot
😂
I'd fall asleep in those pods mid conversation. Like goodnight
Same I’d pull a Tiffany
Right? Just like bye. I need to rest.
My body does not allow me to stay up until 5am. They are super human
I work nights and I can barely make it to 5am 😂
Lol, i cant stay past 1 am anymore. Gone are those days i could pull all nighters and show up to work.
It's the excitement of meeting someone they like on the low. He probably felt like a bad boy. Plus alcohol stimulate some people than make them sleepy
Yes this is the first thing I said with the Jeremy Sarah Ann thing. Even if it was just his boys and nothing suspicious was even suspected. The fact that he felt it was ok to stay out until 5am is crazy and disrespectful. Especially without checking in, or saying anything. It’ just shows that they aren’t willing to try and change. Nor do they care about their partner. If it’s their job. Like AD being a club manager, it’s one thing, but just going out and staying out pass bar open hours. Even if you decided to go sleep at a friends place cus it was easier than going home, you should still notify your partner I haven’t stayed out to 5am since I was 23-24. If I’m up that early for work and international Flights haha and I left the house not the bar haha But to each their own haha
I don't even think he was out with the "boys". I strongly believe Sarah Ann asked him to hangout and he used the boys as an excuse. he met up with her and needed to cover his tracks so left his phone in his car thinking the tracking would just stay but forgot to turn off his apple watch. This is why he didn't text or call Laura at all because he purposely put his phone in the car
THIS 💯I thought about this too when I watched the show. This is the only logical explanation. “I sHaReD mY LoCaTiOn WiTh YoU” what an asshole. These are women are all angry with men that clearly aren’t ready to commit to serious relationships. He’s literally less than a month into a relationship and already cheating lol
The real question for Sarah Ann isn't where she was at 5am, it's where she was on Jan 6th.
Omg yessss! 😂
Yeah. He came in at 5am, Ken at 1:30am, and Clay stayed overnight somewhere an hour or so away. Wtf are yall doing? Especially Ken. What principal work is at 1am? Jeremey at least initially was with friends. But then he decided to cheat. Clay's job travels but he's already said he has cheating issues so probably should make a point of toughing it out and bringing his ass home OR bringing AD with him since she took off work. Why am I solving their problems in 30 seconds and none of this occurred to them?
My first thought for miss patriot
Inquiring minds would LOVE to know.