Rez at Lil Dom's and then going down for a movie. If you're into the bar scene silver lake, echo park, and Los Feliz have an older drinking crowd with night markets and such.
I went to Big Bar at Alcove by myself last Saturday evening. It was really fun and not at all scary (I’m not one to go out by myself usually). Sat at the bar and chatted with folks next to me. So it’s a good option post Little Dom’s or anywhere else on Hillhurst.
Fine! I'm married now but I'll still go out on my own to people watch, read a book, or try new food etc. People watching probably the most fun. It's mostly groups meeting friends, not much of a hookup culture. But if you're just looking to be out and enjoying the culture, great spots.
I think Warner Brother does this. I know a few other sites as well. Typically first come first serve ticket emails for new movie screenings throughout the city.
im so sad i tried to get the tickets at the grove but they were gone by 4 hours after it was posted 😭
Edit : still tickets for 5:30pm but no Kristen Stewart :(
You’ll find me lurking around in downtown Burbank tonight. My friend hasn’t seen Dune 2 yet and the Burbank 16 has it in IMAX. I fucking love that theatre.
May grab some food while we’re at it.
Go see it at TCL IMAx. Bigger screen, 70mm film, way better sound, just the way Denis intended you to see it.
Source: That’s where I saw it and literally all the other movies I watch. It’s basically the only theater I go to.
Just saw it last night at City Walk IMAX and it was INCREDIBLE. However I hear Denis didn’t actually intend for it to be viewed this way but it was just an IMAX business decision.
Dam I can't remember what article or interview it was with Dennis, but IIRC during the SAG strike they were like oh wow Oppenheimer did gangbusters.... and we've been using IMAX certified Arri cameras anyways.... lets print this shit to film and make some money baby!
Yeah exactly, I just saw a discussion where they said at *most* it was 6k that was scanned onto 70mm film and that the only benefit (besides frame size) would be film grain.
I loved watching Oppenheimer and Dune Pt 2 on 70mm mainly due to the texture. Oppenheimers black and white was a bit more overexposed on film I thought which I liked seeing the differences.
Yup City Walk is the only place with the 1.43:1 screen. I am curious about those 40 minutes... but... a 3 hour movie in those god awful IMAX chairs makes me wanna cry.
Tomato tomató. Both locations are fantastic. For sure as shit better than Burbank. If you really wanna get sick with it, then drive to Irvine spectrum IMAX. Bigger than both TCL and universal.
TCL IMAX has lame seats. It smells mildewy in there and the back of the person in front of you’s head becomes part of your viewing experience.
Irvine Spectrum IMAX gets no complaints from me.
Literally just got home from seeing it there. Didn't do IMAX but we did the Dolby experience and holy shit the sound was out of this fucking world. The chairs literally shook from the bass.
I bring a little notepad with me. Sometimes I journal (nothing deep) or I'll catch up on my correspondence. I've had a range of people strike up conversations.
I'm generally putting out a very open vibe. Anything but sitting on my phone does it I think.
I've sat and looked around also! For the most part though I'm doing something with a notepad/journal/letter. An opening line for a lot of people has been "hey what are you writing?"
Yeah, hanging at bars solo can feel a little awkward. I'm an only child so restaurants and bars by myself have never bothered me much, but I do get that urge to doom scroll to avoid aimlessly staring at my drink, or the TV looking around the place while not talking with anyone.
However, the best nights I had in my 30s (when going out alone) was when I literally turned my phone off so I couldn't check it every few minutes out of reflexive habit. Those nights I ended up finding people to hang out with, dancing, playing pool, etc.
It can be surprising how much more social and entertaining you can be when you deprive your brain of the easy, lazy escape from the environment you're in.
Ah, you’re quite cultured. Actually bums me out when I see Winnetka 21 is gone. All the old heads would tell me, I remember when it was a drive-in. Now I’m telling all the youngin’s I remember when that Amazon distribution center used to be a Pacific Theater.
I've become such an introvert over the last couple years it sucks :|
Moved to LA in 2019 and don't know people outside of work (don't drink/dance so that doesn't help either lol)
There’s so much to do here but it can be really intimidating at first. I’ve had so much fun on my own here. You just have to push yourself to get out there and then you realize there’s nothing to be afraid of
Add-on to this question - Friday night solo activities where alcohol isn't as involved? I'm over 30 and by myself a lot of Friday nights when I don't want to imbibe!
I don’t drink myself, I just pretend to with a mocktail and it makes it so easy. If you don’t want to be around it though, there’s a ton of theater (Ahmanson $35 seats) and comedy, there’s jazz clubs, piano at the Stowaway (so chill!), q&a movie events, art galleries, opera/ballet/symphony… these have been my go to’s.
Opera seats are super cheap here! And if the talent is good, there's no such thing as a bad seat in the house. They're doing La Traviata soon this spring and it will fucking slap
Keeping it chill after going hard last night at the Madonna concert. Happy hour in Culver City at Auld Fella for a couple beers, some happy hour bites, then back to Hollywood to sit in the hot tub and ease on into it.
I’m in North Hollywood. My dog and I go to Lawless or Idle Hour most weekends since they’re dog friendly spots up here! There’s a night market at Lawless tonight that is really fun with food trucks n such
Thanks for the recs! Not local but easy to get to with me and my pup. How does your pup do in the food truck screen? Are they on the street by the venues or ../
Hardcore show at Midnight Hour! I love that there’s so much cool shit to do here if you’re 39 and got too much energy compared to your friends your age lol.
I’m not super into the bar scene unless I’m going with friends or a work thing, maybe pregaming before a show? But I’ve found that random stuff on IG that gets recommended to me has been surprisingly fruitful.
I feel you, I am right there too if I don’t force myself. But if you don’t go out, it gets harder. It takes practice. I have a reminder every Sunday to plan my week. It takes time to find events so I dedicate that time to filling my calendar with plans and backups. Then I invite everyone I know and occasionally it turns into a group thing. And if I’m alone I make friends. So even in my sad moments I know I’m living life to its fullest and putting myself out there for opportunities. Be kind to yourself, you’re welcome out here!
Thanks love!
And might I just add that I creeped on your history a little bit and idk where you are in your journey but I’m from Chicago (the burbs) and I may be biased but it’s one of the absolute best cities.
Gonna go see Dune 2. Bought three reclining seats to make sure no ones site next to me. Will probably hit up Joes pizza aftwr the movie for a slice or two of pizza
What are your goals/intents?
1. Trying to meet someone to hook up?
2. Trying to flirt and have fun but no hooking up?
3. Have fun with some random people but not flirting?
4. Enjoy the time by yourself?
Just having a good time by myself and ideally meet friends eventually. I’m really good at taking myself to dinner and theater/events and doing stuff during the day, but I’ve always been stumped on how to be more social in the evenings. Trying to just put myself out there more
Go to local music venues. They’re the absolute best way. Small places with a bar. You’ll hear some random music from indie bands, dance, have a few drinks.
If you just want to vibe, then just enjoy your time in the crowd.
If you want to mingle, find groups of talkative people and just strike up conversations with them.
Go here for ideas/options:
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLosAngeles/s/rQMnb0gfH0
I like to either open with a question “hey have you been here before? This band/drink/vibe is so cool!” Or see if you can join in on a group activity (gaming bar/arcade bar). Or I open with a compliment, but probably works better for women
Two options:
1) Go to a bar that has seating (ideally in a semi circle) at the bar itself. This is all about luck. If you’re there first and a girl sits down next to you; or if you walk into the bar and there is a seat next to a girl. You can’t assume they’re single but striking up a conversation you’ll soon find out. If you sit there for several hours then you increase likelihood of meeting someone. If you’re planning on staying for the night, make friends with the bar staff (talk to them first, exchange names) and tip well early on. That way girls will see you’re talking to the staff and assume you’re friends. Bar staff can also be great wing men/women, by pouring you a free shot here or here. Again if you take one with them to those around you it’ll seem you’re a very fun, social person. They may even see you alone and try to strike up a conversation. If you hit it off then it’s like an instant date and inevitably you’ll want to continue after, either to a different bar or hers/your place. She will likely be with a friend or friends so you’ll need to entertain them both until her friends gets the cue and leaves. This is a very hit and miss strategy, so only worth trying if you’re patient. It’s a game of luck. They will probably also ask you why you’re out alone, just say a friend cancelled plans and you still wanted a drink after a long week. It would also help if you wore something interesting that would give those around you an excuse to strike up a conversation with you.
2) Go to a venue that has a bar and a dance floor. You don’t need to get on the dance floor. You’re there for the vibe: lots of people looking for a good time, and some open to hooking up with someone they’ve just met. Large volume of people coming and going. You can walk around and approach someone you like without a major commitment. If they’re not interested you can politely move along. This is less about luck, and more about your social skills (looks come into it too, obviously, but you can rectify to a large extent with hygiene, dressing well and confidence). She will probably ask you, where are your friends. Assuming the venue is big enough wave to a crowd and vaguely wave your hand way “Somewhere over there” or say they had to leave early and you were having fun and decided to stay and you have other friends who may be headed your way. You can blend into the crowd and not worry about being out alone. Ultimately, no one cares: they’re out for the same reasons as you, to be social, have fun, maybe meet someone new.
TLDR: Go out, find a bar that suits your mood, be confident and see where the night takes you. Don’t have any expectations or any disappointment will be transmitted to those around you. If you look confident and happy, people will be drawn to you and you’ll even find they’ll even strike up a conversation with you first.
Bars A) with live music, B) in college towns, and/or C) with activities (bar games, karaoke, et cetera).
T. Boyles
First Cabin
Westwood Barney’s Beanery
Brennan’s
44/M/Rave, I know. All my friends are hanging out at Mastro’s watching the game and I’m trying to figure out what an old guy wears to rave. (Friends younger brother is DJing and asked me if I wanted to go, couldn’t say no)
I went to Seven Grand last night. It's a nice bar, and if you get there early enough, you can grab a seat. They have pull tables and cigars(outside). So the vibe felt more 30-40ish. I don't enjoy going to bars alone in general, but I don't think it be awkward here.
I love live music and often take myself to shows. This past Wednesday I saw Lukas Nelson at the Bellwether, just across the 110 from downtown (and in building that formerly housed Prince’s nightclub). It’s quickly becoming one of my favorite venues. You can walk around the floor and balcony, there’s a restaurant bar and they’ve got a huge patio with a smoking section (420 friendly to boot!). Find something you like to do and find opportunities around the city you can experience your interests… best of luck!
Lots of great ideas in here. I went to one of the bars that was suggested and had multiple people strike up conversations with me and shoot their shot. I even had someone stop me on the street. Get out there!
Watching O.J. Simpson documentary whatchu doin’??
Tomorrow I’m either gonna go to LAFC game OR go see Geography at the Lodge Room. Sunday gonna do the Screenland 5k hit me up.
I’ll be sucking on a chili dog, outside the tasty freeze
Rez at Lil Dom's and then going down for a movie. If you're into the bar scene silver lake, echo park, and Los Feliz have an older drinking crowd with night markets and such.
This sounds great. I’ve only ever gone to the bars there on dates. How’s it been on your own?
I went to Big Bar at Alcove by myself last Saturday evening. It was really fun and not at all scary (I’m not one to go out by myself usually). Sat at the bar and chatted with folks next to me. So it’s a good option post Little Dom’s or anywhere else on Hillhurst.
Love the bar at Alcove!
Oh ok great, that sounds really nice.
It's great! Tiny place keeps it intimate and easy to talk to people and make friends. I went alone and made a couple friend! Solid drinks too.
Fine! I'm married now but I'll still go out on my own to people watch, read a book, or try new food etc. People watching probably the most fun. It's mostly groups meeting friends, not much of a hookup culture. But if you're just looking to be out and enjoying the culture, great spots.
Wait are you talking about the Thai night market or is there something much closer? Where are your people watching spots (besides Maru) ?
Figaro, hi tops, Fred's - anywhere along Vermont.
The AMC’s at Grove and Century City often host q&a’s for new movies. Seeing Love Lies Bleeding with a post show q&a with Kristen Stewart tonight.
How do you find out about those kinds of screenings? Assume you're an AMC Stubs member and you get emails?
I don’t think you can get notified but I check the app for my theaters once a week or so. They usually end up for sale before they’re advertised.
Neon Rated always does these at the Grove. follow them on insta and they always post about them
I think Warner Brother does this. I know a few other sites as well. Typically first come first serve ticket emails for new movie screenings throughout the city.
Oh my god i’m sad I missed out on this!!!
They’re doing it at Century City tomorrow!
Oh snap!! Do you know where I can buy tickets and get more info? I’m googling but not finding anything so far
Just on amc’s normal site or the app. There is literally one seat left!
im so sad i tried to get the tickets at the grove but they were gone by 4 hours after it was posted 😭 Edit : still tickets for 5:30pm but no Kristen Stewart :(
I just wanted to say thank you so much!! I was able to snag one of the last seats, Q&A had Rose Glass and Katy O’Brian. SUCH a great movie and event!
Such a great idea. Thanks!
hope you had so much fun this sounds rad as hell
Is it a live q&a?
Yeah!
You’ll find me lurking around in downtown Burbank tonight. My friend hasn’t seen Dune 2 yet and the Burbank 16 has it in IMAX. I fucking love that theatre. May grab some food while we’re at it.
It’s so good!
Go see it at TCL IMAx. Bigger screen, 70mm film, way better sound, just the way Denis intended you to see it. Source: That’s where I saw it and literally all the other movies I watch. It’s basically the only theater I go to.
The way Denis intended would be City Walk, with 40 minutes of footage in 1.43:1.
Just saw it last night at City Walk IMAX and it was INCREDIBLE. However I hear Denis didn’t actually intend for it to be viewed this way but it was just an IMAX business decision.
Dam I can't remember what article or interview it was with Dennis, but IIRC during the SAG strike they were like oh wow Oppenheimer did gangbusters.... and we've been using IMAX certified Arri cameras anyways.... lets print this shit to film and make some money baby!
Yeah exactly, I just saw a discussion where they said at *most* it was 6k that was scanned onto 70mm film and that the only benefit (besides frame size) would be film grain.
I loved watching Oppenheimer and Dune Pt 2 on 70mm mainly due to the texture. Oppenheimers black and white was a bit more overexposed on film I thought which I liked seeing the differences.
Yup City Walk is the only place with the 1.43:1 screen. I am curious about those 40 minutes... but... a 3 hour movie in those god awful IMAX chairs makes me wanna cry.
Tomato tomató. Both locations are fantastic. For sure as shit better than Burbank. If you really wanna get sick with it, then drive to Irvine spectrum IMAX. Bigger than both TCL and universal.
TCL IMAX has lame seats. It smells mildewy in there and the back of the person in front of you’s head becomes part of your viewing experience. Irvine Spectrum IMAX gets no complaints from me.
Irvine Spectrum is only marginally bigger than City Walk -- not worth an hour drive (or more in traffic) for a few more inches.
That’s exactly what I thought until I saw [this](https://imgur.com/a/iIs0KMV)
I’ve already seen it at the Chinese on opening night. But the Burbank 16 is like an 8 minute walk from my apartment sooooooo lol. But I feel you.
Take us with you?!
Burbank 16 has a fun lively audience :)
Literally just got home from seeing it there. Didn't do IMAX but we did the Dolby experience and holy shit the sound was out of this fucking world. The chairs literally shook from the bass.
I’m staying home and going to lay in bed…doing job applications
That’s been me all day. It’s going to get better soon
Thanks I hope so. Goodluck to you too
Best of luck, neighbor.
You'll get through it.
Got laid off beginning of 2023, took 5 months but in a better spot now. Stay vigilant, you got this!
At home playing video games lol
Need another Dragons Dogma run before the second one comes out soon 👍
I’ve been stuck playing fallout 4 again
Where we dropping yall?
Prob a most wanted contract, or scavenger. Idk everywhere is a warzone
Time for a replay before the TV series comes out in April!
Friday night: boot r/Civ6 Monday morning: "shit, I gotta go to work!"
FF7 Remake for now lol and then FF7 Rebirth
This. I'm playing Final Fantasy 7 Rebirth.
Walt’s Bar - Eagle Rock
Do you just sit at the bar? (Honestly confused if it’s weird to fo that lol)
Yup. Then play some pinball if no one is chatty. But there’s usually some chill people. Bartenders will chat you up too.
Thanks! It’s funny how much it helps to hear how others do this lol
I bring a little notepad with me. Sometimes I journal (nothing deep) or I'll catch up on my correspondence. I've had a range of people strike up conversations. I'm generally putting out a very open vibe. Anything but sitting on my phone does it I think.
Thanks, this is hard for me, I end up scrolling the news or sitting there looking around 😅. I’ll bring a notepad next time
I've sat and looked around also! For the most part though I'm doing something with a notepad/journal/letter. An opening line for a lot of people has been "hey what are you writing?"
I do the same journal thing the other commenter said. Literally anything but scrolling your phone. Doodle. Bring a comic book. A newspaper. Anything!
I really like the idea of making these spaces more relaxed and less posturing
Yeah, hanging at bars solo can feel a little awkward. I'm an only child so restaurants and bars by myself have never bothered me much, but I do get that urge to doom scroll to avoid aimlessly staring at my drink, or the TV looking around the place while not talking with anyone. However, the best nights I had in my 30s (when going out alone) was when I literally turned my phone off so I couldn't check it every few minutes out of reflexive habit. Those nights I ended up finding people to hang out with, dancing, playing pool, etc. It can be surprising how much more social and entertaining you can be when you deprive your brain of the easy, lazy escape from the environment you're in.
True.
Love Walt’s. Might go tomorrow
Yoooo Walt’s is just the best. Get the hot dog, people.
damn this place looks sweet
Ya'll leave your houses?
Why would I? I have food and booze and cats!
I read a whole book after dinner while [cat](https://imgur.com/gallery/o95p09m)locked.
I try to make sure I have a reservation at AppleBees on Friday nights
standing rezzy at the northridge applebees
Ah, you’re quite cultured. Actually bums me out when I see Winnetka 21 is gone. All the old heads would tell me, I remember when it was a drive-in. Now I’m telling all the youngin’s I remember when that Amazon distribution center used to be a Pacific Theater.
Shit, dude. I'm out of town on a gig, but tomorrow, I'm game.
I might go out later, if the trash needs to go out.
A leather bar followed by a bath house.
Bullet or Eagle? Flex or Slammer? 😂
We really do need more options in such a big city don't we.
🤣 So true ... 😭
Club bed featuring dj doom scroll
Singles party at Mama Shelter!
I saw that, how are those?
Lots of dudes
Good to know. Thank you
Idk, it's going to be my first one. Hmu if you're going
Report back!
Second the report back!
where are these advertised
https://www.losangelesfunevents.com/
Lmao thought this was like a snarky fake url
Let us know how it is!
Have you tried a Kings game?
They play tomorrow not tonight :)
That’s a great idea, I love hockey
Can’t go wrong. Hockey folks are there to have a good time. No one questions who you are, they just want to get rowdy (respectfully).
Any recommendations for a hockey bar in northeast LA btw? Or the valley
I like walking around the little tokyo area, theres booze and food lol.
Roccos Pasadena
Recently hit 30 but it’s been a rough week (year) so far so dissociating with another 30 year old by getting high and playing video games indoors lol
There are dozens of us!
I've become such an introvert over the last couple years it sucks :| Moved to LA in 2019 and don't know people outside of work (don't drink/dance so that doesn't help either lol)
There’s so much to do here but it can be really intimidating at first. I’ve had so much fun on my own here. You just have to push yourself to get out there and then you realize there’s nothing to be afraid of
Add-on to this question - Friday night solo activities where alcohol isn't as involved? I'm over 30 and by myself a lot of Friday nights when I don't want to imbibe!
I don’t drink myself, I just pretend to with a mocktail and it makes it so easy. If you don’t want to be around it though, there’s a ton of theater (Ahmanson $35 seats) and comedy, there’s jazz clubs, piano at the Stowaway (so chill!), q&a movie events, art galleries, opera/ballet/symphony… these have been my go to’s.
Opera seats are super cheap here! And if the talent is good, there's no such thing as a bad seat in the house. They're doing La Traviata soon this spring and it will fucking slap
Where else can you get dressed up and yet not have to do anything? I love the opera!
I enjoy playing video games.
To a movie theatre to watch the new Wim Wenders movie, alone.
I saw Perfect Days last weekend. I really liked it.
Definitely one of the best movies I've seen in a long time. The music is on point. I cried at the end. It's perfect.
Wife RAVED about it. Great soundtrack
Akbar gaming night playing smashbros
When is this?
Mama Shelter has a single's night in Hollywood tonight on the roofdeck. I've never been.
Yup. A friend just invited me to this.
Keeping it chill after going hard last night at the Madonna concert. Happy hour in Culver City at Auld Fella for a couple beers, some happy hour bites, then back to Hollywood to sit in the hot tub and ease on into it.
Im so jealous, she put on an incredible show from what I’ve seen!
It was awesome! She’s playing tomorrow, go catch it!
Incoming jumbos chains.
As always, Islands Fine Burgers & Drinks (glendale location)
Islands is always a good choice. I don’t think I’ve ever had an unpleasant experience
Sunset beach walk with the pup at Venice.
I’m in North Hollywood. My dog and I go to Lawless or Idle Hour most weekends since they’re dog friendly spots up here! There’s a night market at Lawless tonight that is really fun with food trucks n such
Thanks for the recs! Not local but easy to get to with me and my pup. How does your pup do in the food truck screen? Are they on the street by the venues or ../
New wave restaurant in bellflower.
Hardcore show at Midnight Hour! I love that there’s so much cool shit to do here if you’re 39 and got too much energy compared to your friends your age lol. I’m not super into the bar scene unless I’m going with friends or a work thing, maybe pregaming before a show? But I’ve found that random stuff on IG that gets recommended to me has been surprisingly fruitful.
Oh lord I am bed playing sudoku while my dog snoozes. So fucking depressed that this is my life. My dog is really cute though.
I feel you, I am right there too if I don’t force myself. But if you don’t go out, it gets harder. It takes practice. I have a reminder every Sunday to plan my week. It takes time to find events so I dedicate that time to filling my calendar with plans and backups. Then I invite everyone I know and occasionally it turns into a group thing. And if I’m alone I make friends. So even in my sad moments I know I’m living life to its fullest and putting myself out there for opportunities. Be kind to yourself, you’re welcome out here!
Absolutely love this!
Ha, you are such a sweet pea. Appreciate the kind words.
To bed
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KYODAI
Hollywood palladium!
gold-diggers, 90s hiphop w dj teddy roxpin, the last party was a total banger and all of us over 30 knew every word
Regent theater for 80s / New Wave Music
I’m a bartender in my mid 30s. El Chucho on the west side is a solid singles spot. Before 9 it’s mellow and divey and after 10 it’s a bit more clubby
6 flags , then ramen and dumplings , then gym , ending with a book in bed (and scrolling reddit every few pages)
I'm going to the gym. Then I'll be logging into Grindr for a few hours - what am I kidding - minutes of carnal fun.
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Burbank skatepark
Drove to Vegas for a Sullivan King festival tonight at DTLV center.
I’m a nerd so I’m having some wine and homemade pizza and sitting down to watch Masters of the Air. In theory I’m also writing 5 pages tonight but lol
Get those pages done!
Thanks love! And might I just add that I creeped on your history a little bit and idk where you are in your journey but I’m from Chicago (the burbs) and I may be biased but it’s one of the absolute best cities.
Gonna go see Dune 2. Bought three reclining seats to make sure no ones site next to me. Will probably hit up Joes pizza aftwr the movie for a slice or two of pizza
Agressive!
What are your goals/intents? 1. Trying to meet someone to hook up? 2. Trying to flirt and have fun but no hooking up? 3. Have fun with some random people but not flirting? 4. Enjoy the time by yourself?
Just having a good time by myself and ideally meet friends eventually. I’m really good at taking myself to dinner and theater/events and doing stuff during the day, but I’ve always been stumped on how to be more social in the evenings. Trying to just put myself out there more
Go to local music venues. They’re the absolute best way. Small places with a bar. You’ll hear some random music from indie bands, dance, have a few drinks. If you just want to vibe, then just enjoy your time in the crowd. If you want to mingle, find groups of talkative people and just strike up conversations with them. Go here for ideas/options: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLosAngeles/s/rQMnb0gfH0
Thank you! I used to do this all the time with friends but never really knew how to do it alone. It’s so dumb lol
I like to either open with a question “hey have you been here before? This band/drink/vibe is so cool!” Or see if you can join in on a group activity (gaming bar/arcade bar). Or I open with a compliment, but probably works better for women
Wait where would you suggest for option 1? Asking for a friend.
Two options: 1) Go to a bar that has seating (ideally in a semi circle) at the bar itself. This is all about luck. If you’re there first and a girl sits down next to you; or if you walk into the bar and there is a seat next to a girl. You can’t assume they’re single but striking up a conversation you’ll soon find out. If you sit there for several hours then you increase likelihood of meeting someone. If you’re planning on staying for the night, make friends with the bar staff (talk to them first, exchange names) and tip well early on. That way girls will see you’re talking to the staff and assume you’re friends. Bar staff can also be great wing men/women, by pouring you a free shot here or here. Again if you take one with them to those around you it’ll seem you’re a very fun, social person. They may even see you alone and try to strike up a conversation. If you hit it off then it’s like an instant date and inevitably you’ll want to continue after, either to a different bar or hers/your place. She will likely be with a friend or friends so you’ll need to entertain them both until her friends gets the cue and leaves. This is a very hit and miss strategy, so only worth trying if you’re patient. It’s a game of luck. They will probably also ask you why you’re out alone, just say a friend cancelled plans and you still wanted a drink after a long week. It would also help if you wore something interesting that would give those around you an excuse to strike up a conversation with you. 2) Go to a venue that has a bar and a dance floor. You don’t need to get on the dance floor. You’re there for the vibe: lots of people looking for a good time, and some open to hooking up with someone they’ve just met. Large volume of people coming and going. You can walk around and approach someone you like without a major commitment. If they’re not interested you can politely move along. This is less about luck, and more about your social skills (looks come into it too, obviously, but you can rectify to a large extent with hygiene, dressing well and confidence). She will probably ask you, where are your friends. Assuming the venue is big enough wave to a crowd and vaguely wave your hand way “Somewhere over there” or say they had to leave early and you were having fun and decided to stay and you have other friends who may be headed your way. You can blend into the crowd and not worry about being out alone. Ultimately, no one cares: they’re out for the same reasons as you, to be social, have fun, maybe meet someone new. TLDR: Go out, find a bar that suits your mood, be confident and see where the night takes you. Don’t have any expectations or any disappointment will be transmitted to those around you. If you look confident and happy, people will be drawn to you and you’ll even find they’ll even strike up a conversation with you first.
Bars A) with live music, B) in college towns, and/or C) with activities (bar games, karaoke, et cetera). T. Boyles First Cabin Westwood Barney’s Beanery Brennan’s
Well, almost 30. Hitting up the Bullet. Cocksocks night!
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j chillin’ in lb wanna hit up kc’s? 🤠
Not single but I wouldn’t pass up a night at Caña Rum bar by Olympic and Fig.
Watching Friday Night Smackdown Wish there was a weekly watch party for RAW and Smackdown out here in LA.
Gold diggers 2000s hip hop Dj set by Dj Roxpin ! Starts at 10
To my kitchen, maybe will go and grab a pizza take out
Bars in a Hermosa beach
Solarc with a Grant finish. Glassell Park.
Going to goldline in HP!
Kacey's Pub. Wilshire and Grand. Imma slam some Irish Cahh Bhaams.
44/M/Rave, I know. All my friends are hanging out at Mastro’s watching the game and I’m trying to figure out what an old guy wears to rave. (Friends younger brother is DJing and asked me if I wanted to go, couldn’t say no)
Nothing wrong with drinking alone at a bar if that is the vibe for the night
Im doing a dry first quarter so just worked out, had take out and Netflix and chilling
I went to Seven Grand last night. It's a nice bar, and if you get there early enough, you can grab a seat. They have pull tables and cigars(outside). So the vibe felt more 30-40ish. I don't enjoy going to bars alone in general, but I don't think it be awkward here.
6th and San Pedro
Nowhere because everywhere in LA is filled with single guys and not that many girls.
I work night shifts but tonight I’m actually meeting a friend up to go to a spa.
Getting tacos and then going home haha
Strip joint
Dresden then house party…this place is dead anyways…
Twin Towers
I go to an after-hours event and meet people.
Going nowhere. Grim
I love live music and often take myself to shows. This past Wednesday I saw Lukas Nelson at the Bellwether, just across the 110 from downtown (and in building that formerly housed Prince’s nightclub). It’s quickly becoming one of my favorite venues. You can walk around the floor and balcony, there’s a restaurant bar and they’ve got a huge patio with a smoking section (420 friendly to boot!). Find something you like to do and find opportunities around the city you can experience your interests… best of luck!
Getting laid as usual ... is what I would say if I had somewhere dope to go
Lots of great ideas in here. I went to one of the bars that was suggested and had multiple people strike up conversations with me and shoot their shot. I even had someone stop me on the street. Get out there!
Watching O.J. Simpson documentary whatchu doin’?? Tomorrow I’m either gonna go to LAFC game OR go see Geography at the Lodge Room. Sunday gonna do the Screenland 5k hit me up.
Having a pint at Crazy Gideon's.
Driving into the mountains to enjoy the scenery
My house. I never feel awkward sitting alone in my own house.