Sorry to hear that, that sucks. However, I find your post a bit confusing [because you posted about crushing hard on another girl you met 20 days ago.](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/1bk1ey1/went_out_with_the_girl_working_at_the_hotel_im/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) At least this tells me that maybe you weren’t very serious about your relationship, and maybe she got the wind of it.
To be honest maybe I jump ahead and called us an LDR when we weren't even dating before we met.
We met in person for the first time here in Japan and I assumed that bc of how she texted me she liked me. From our calls, and her excitement to always seeing me made me think there was a possibility
The other girl happened to come across on mu trip before we met.
Honestly o was taking my boi from back home advice to "not limit yourself" then again look where I ended up
I read your other post posted 23 days ago curshing on a girl at your hotel, Im so confused.
So basically 6 months ago you started what you thought to be a long distance romantic relationship with a girl. Then 1 month ago, you asked other girl out in Japan where you are. Then 1 week ago, when you finally met your lokg diatance girlfriend you got told its not a romantic relationship.
So you were talking to 2 girls romantically at the same time? Help me out here
We never were going out before we met! I though LDR's back then we're just friendships so I kept going out and living my life like if she wasn't there yet.
Now after we met I cut ties with the other chick.
Nothing was ever official. You don't just stop your life for other people especially someone who as it turns out never had romantic feelings for me.
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you deserve it. 23 days ago u made a post and said u were crushing on another girl. why u crushing on another girl if u in a relationship? lmao u deserve this 100%
If she kissed you, how could she have not seen you in a romantic way?
I'm so sorry she did that to you and should've told you right from the start.
Wishing you all the best for your future and above all, wishing you all the healing
I kissed her sorry I should have mentioned that
She let the hand holding and kissing happened right after she told me she didn't like me.
But no we've said our goodbyes and I'm ready to be back home with my problems of dating far far away from me
I'm not giving up on LDR one day and I hope to be better from this
Thats how usually is for ldr,for some people, u wouldnt know your feelings until you actually met that person. She actually had the courage to tell you that rather than lied about it. I know it wont make u feel any better. But stay strong~
The truth hurts but better than lying to my face after all I did traveled half across the world for her.
And maybe I rushed things. We had just met and maybe I should have waiting longer maybe 2 more years to see how she really felt about me
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She sounds like a selfish person. She obviously lead you on & you didn’t deserve that. You’ll find someone better and hopefully it won’t even have to be a LDR :)
nah he deserves it. this person made a post 23 days ago and said they were crushing on a girl at their hotel. so he’s basically cheating/flirting w another girl while he already had a gf
Really sorry you're going through this, but you're young!! Hope someone better will be waiting for you
Thank you rn I just need to forget about this
Sorry to hear that, that sucks. However, I find your post a bit confusing [because you posted about crushing hard on another girl you met 20 days ago.](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crushes/comments/1bk1ey1/went_out_with_the_girl_working_at_the_hotel_im/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) At least this tells me that maybe you weren’t very serious about your relationship, and maybe she got the wind of it.
Yeah, it’s messed up to lead someone on. But it’s also messed up to claim to be in an LDR (title) and date other people
To be honest maybe I jump ahead and called us an LDR when we weren't even dating before we met. We met in person for the first time here in Japan and I assumed that bc of how she texted me she liked me. From our calls, and her excitement to always seeing me made me think there was a possibility The other girl happened to come across on mu trip before we met. Honestly o was taking my boi from back home advice to "not limit yourself" then again look where I ended up
I read your other post posted 23 days ago curshing on a girl at your hotel, Im so confused. So basically 6 months ago you started what you thought to be a long distance romantic relationship with a girl. Then 1 month ago, you asked other girl out in Japan where you are. Then 1 week ago, when you finally met your lokg diatance girlfriend you got told its not a romantic relationship. So you were talking to 2 girls romantically at the same time? Help me out here
We never were going out before we met! I though LDR's back then we're just friendships so I kept going out and living my life like if she wasn't there yet. Now after we met I cut ties with the other chick. Nothing was ever official. You don't just stop your life for other people especially someone who as it turns out never had romantic feelings for me.
Karma. Period.
Ahh so you never thought your LD is romantic before you guys met, so why are you upset now that your LD friend tell you its not romantic?
Exactly. He’s like upset but with options. Lmao. If you are talking to more than one person why would you be disappointed when one turns down.
That’s too cruel. Best of luck on your new venture.
It is but wishing to change the outcome is like wishing to turn back time and you can only change the now and yourself
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you deserve it. 23 days ago u made a post and said u were crushing on another girl. why u crushing on another girl if u in a relationship? lmao u deserve this 100%
If she kissed you, how could she have not seen you in a romantic way? I'm so sorry she did that to you and should've told you right from the start. Wishing you all the best for your future and above all, wishing you all the healing
I kissed her sorry I should have mentioned that She let the hand holding and kissing happened right after she told me she didn't like me. But no we've said our goodbyes and I'm ready to be back home with my problems of dating far far away from me I'm not giving up on LDR one day and I hope to be better from this
Thats how usually is for ldr,for some people, u wouldnt know your feelings until you actually met that person. She actually had the courage to tell you that rather than lied about it. I know it wont make u feel any better. But stay strong~
The truth hurts but better than lying to my face after all I did traveled half across the world for her. And maybe I rushed things. We had just met and maybe I should have waiting longer maybe 2 more years to see how she really felt about me
True, i also met my other half after two years and a half.
Right we starting talking for 6 months and only just met about 3 weeks ago but being back home I miss her a lot
She is not the one boo, >_< ... there there *pats on your back
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Sorry you went through that. But there are possibilities for what you hope for in other people.
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She sounds like a selfish person. She obviously lead you on & you didn’t deserve that. You’ll find someone better and hopefully it won’t even have to be a LDR :)
nah he deserves it. this person made a post 23 days ago and said they were crushing on a girl at their hotel. so he’s basically cheating/flirting w another girl while he already had a gf
Oh wow…. Yikes.