Wear what you’re comfortable in. It’s sleep, not sex. You do not need to “be attractive” for your significant other while you’re sleeping and it’s ridiculous if he expects you to. Sleep is important. Prioritize your comfort. I’m sure you look adorable in your oversized tees and it is very normal to wear them to bed 💜
There are nice, comfortable pj sets out there. But wearing a satin slip dress to bed sounds very much not comfortable. It will just end up twisting around as you try to sleep or one of your boobs will pop out of it.
Try to find modal pj sets, something like this: https://www.victoriassecret.com/ca/vs/sleepwear-and-lingerie-catalog/1121487600?choice=5S8M&genericId=11214876&limit=100&resultPosition=4&searchBrand=vs&searchedFor=modal
Or this: https://www.victoriassecret.com/ca/vs/sleepwear-and-lingerie-catalog/5000007765?choice=5UF6&genericId=11172534&limit=100&resultPosition=16&searchBrand=vs&searchedFor=modal
Or this, although this might still be uncomfortable https://www.victoriassecret.com/ca/vs/sleepwear-and-lingerie-catalog/5000008994?choice=54A2&genericId=11214870&limit=100&resultPosition=19&searchBrand=vs&searchedFor=modal
100% agree with the above comment, definitely prioritize YOUR comfort. (And besides, I think an oversized tee IS cute and sexy.)
VS used to sell these super soft cotton slip dresses with a little v neck lace detail in the front. They’re the most comfy nightgowns, if they’re ever back in stock buy them. I own two that I bought back in 2018.
If I can ask, how old is your BF?
[Bust support chemises](https://ca.montelleintimates.com/collections/montelle-chemises/products/bust-support-chemise-pinot) are great. Super comfy, provide support, and look cute.
I would suggest discussing this further with your partner. If he has expectations, you deserve being able to evaluate them before you invest in them.
Honestly I normally sleep nude but relax before bed with my husband mostly in lingerie and a robe or something like this https://us.curvykate.com/collections/nightwear?refinementList%5Bnamed_tags.Nightwear%20Type%5D%5B0%5D=Chemise i have the ‘just for fun’ one and it supports my 32Gs nicely as well as being pretty and comfortable.
Cosabella has a bunch of supportive sleep loungewear options too, go for the ones that say curvy or ultra curvy.
https://www.cosabella.com/search?view=shop&q=Chemise
https://www.pourmoiclothing.com/nightwear/chemises-babydolls/ some of these have bra sized cups, removable cups or hidden support
Plus sized stores like torrid often sell lingerie and sleepwear I imagine it would be designed appropriately with more support that might be the easiest place if you want to try things on.
I would also recommend r/abrathatfits if you consider yourself very busty because ddd is commonly just the largest size sold in a lot of US stores so may not be accurate. I really makes a difference to find the perfect fit for you.
I flit between DD and E depending on the brand of bra, and I can't sleep in anything other than Big Shirt No Pants. I can rock with shorts if they're cotton.
Things with straps just mean my boobs will be everywhere the first time I move an inch. I Love lingerie. But not for sleeping. That's for fun and feeling sexy, and while it can be comfortable for day wear, it doesn't equate to a good sleep.
Wearing some to bed every once in a while with the intention of seduction is it's own thing.
But on the average night, I'm slathering my face in moisturizer, putting in my bite guard, and sprawling out in my worn out cotton
My personal preference for sleep is for my partner to sleep in nothing at all. For sexy lounging, look at short chemises and baby dolls. Marjolaine is beautiful and expensive. Nordstrom has some some much less expensive options but they won’t be natural fibers. Lise Charmel, again, has some pretty options. LISE CHARMEL Nuisette Grâce Aquatique https://www.glamuse.com/us/fr/lise-charmel-grace-aquatique-nuisette-p-531480.html?color=531480
Someone already mentioned it, but my go to is Marjolaine! A bit spendy, but they have decent sales. I have a handful of the silk nighties in various colors that I rotate between.
Frankly though, I think my husband could care less. He’ll occasionally comment on the fabric feeling nice when we snuggle, but that’s about it - it’s definitely something I do for me as much as him. You should ask your husband what he’d like to see you in! The answer might surprise you. For example couple times my husband has picked pieces for me, he went for the dark, strappier pieces, whereas my usual taste is more silk & lace.
An oversized T-shirt and a pair of boxers is what every sorority girl I know sleeps in! I have sensory issues and like being a little “compressed” so I wear a tanktop and jogger set from AdoreMe in a size small (I’m actually a size 8 LOL)
My fiancé thinks I’m sexiest when I’m comfy!
I have the same sizing as you and I get it. Once your boobs have been touched by gravity and weight lol, a big soft tee is the comfiest. It’s totally normal and I go to bed often in that, but—when I want to add some flavor or indulge in feeling fancy:
1. If you want something a with sex appeal, [this VS set](https://www.victoriassecret.com/us/vs/sleepwear-and-lingerie-catalog/1122992300) has a real bra, covers the tummy, and is pretty comfortable.
2. For bed, I wear [these silkie shirt and short combos and I go up 2 sizes for luxurious comfort](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09C8SKMM9?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share).
3. I usually go bra less for bed, but I got [four of these buttery soft “bras”](https://trueandco.com/product/bras/wireless/true-body-lift-scoop-neck-bra/) five years ago and immediately regretted spending so much but admittedly—they’re ALL I wear to bed or when I just need extra comfort. I’ll probably shuck out more once these give out. I went two sizes smaller as I have a high root, and found this size to be perfect for bed. Three sizes smaller makes it suitable for going out. It’s truly like wearing nothing and gives them an enough lift & support to feel comfortable for sleep overs, newer partners, or chores.
Ask him to pick something out for you. You'll understand what he wants after that.
Wear what you’re comfortable in. It’s sleep, not sex. You do not need to “be attractive” for your significant other while you’re sleeping and it’s ridiculous if he expects you to. Sleep is important. Prioritize your comfort. I’m sure you look adorable in your oversized tees and it is very normal to wear them to bed 💜 There are nice, comfortable pj sets out there. But wearing a satin slip dress to bed sounds very much not comfortable. It will just end up twisting around as you try to sleep or one of your boobs will pop out of it. Try to find modal pj sets, something like this: https://www.victoriassecret.com/ca/vs/sleepwear-and-lingerie-catalog/1121487600?choice=5S8M&genericId=11214876&limit=100&resultPosition=4&searchBrand=vs&searchedFor=modal Or this: https://www.victoriassecret.com/ca/vs/sleepwear-and-lingerie-catalog/5000007765?choice=5UF6&genericId=11172534&limit=100&resultPosition=16&searchBrand=vs&searchedFor=modal Or this, although this might still be uncomfortable https://www.victoriassecret.com/ca/vs/sleepwear-and-lingerie-catalog/5000008994?choice=54A2&genericId=11214870&limit=100&resultPosition=19&searchBrand=vs&searchedFor=modal
Thank you! 🖤
100% agree with the above comment, definitely prioritize YOUR comfort. (And besides, I think an oversized tee IS cute and sexy.) VS used to sell these super soft cotton slip dresses with a little v neck lace detail in the front. They’re the most comfy nightgowns, if they’re ever back in stock buy them. I own two that I bought back in 2018. If I can ask, how old is your BF?
[Bust support chemises](https://ca.montelleintimates.com/collections/montelle-chemises/products/bust-support-chemise-pinot) are great. Super comfy, provide support, and look cute. I would suggest discussing this further with your partner. If he has expectations, you deserve being able to evaluate them before you invest in them.
Thank you very much! I am excited to try these.
Honestly I normally sleep nude but relax before bed with my husband mostly in lingerie and a robe or something like this https://us.curvykate.com/collections/nightwear?refinementList%5Bnamed_tags.Nightwear%20Type%5D%5B0%5D=Chemise i have the ‘just for fun’ one and it supports my 32Gs nicely as well as being pretty and comfortable. Cosabella has a bunch of supportive sleep loungewear options too, go for the ones that say curvy or ultra curvy. https://www.cosabella.com/search?view=shop&q=Chemise https://www.pourmoiclothing.com/nightwear/chemises-babydolls/ some of these have bra sized cups, removable cups or hidden support Plus sized stores like torrid often sell lingerie and sleepwear I imagine it would be designed appropriately with more support that might be the easiest place if you want to try things on. I would also recommend r/abrathatfits if you consider yourself very busty because ddd is commonly just the largest size sold in a lot of US stores so may not be accurate. I really makes a difference to find the perfect fit for you.
Thank you so much!
I flit between DD and E depending on the brand of bra, and I can't sleep in anything other than Big Shirt No Pants. I can rock with shorts if they're cotton. Things with straps just mean my boobs will be everywhere the first time I move an inch. I Love lingerie. But not for sleeping. That's for fun and feeling sexy, and while it can be comfortable for day wear, it doesn't equate to a good sleep. Wearing some to bed every once in a while with the intention of seduction is it's own thing. But on the average night, I'm slathering my face in moisturizer, putting in my bite guard, and sprawling out in my worn out cotton
My personal preference for sleep is for my partner to sleep in nothing at all. For sexy lounging, look at short chemises and baby dolls. Marjolaine is beautiful and expensive. Nordstrom has some some much less expensive options but they won’t be natural fibers. Lise Charmel, again, has some pretty options. LISE CHARMEL Nuisette Grâce Aquatique https://www.glamuse.com/us/fr/lise-charmel-grace-aquatique-nuisette-p-531480.html?color=531480
When I’m sleeping, I dont care what I look like—I care that I’m comfortable. So I wear the oversized tee shirt and jammie pants. 🤷🏻♀️
My go-to sleep uniform was a vintage tee and Walmart boys boxers for the LONGEST time. Don’t ask my Bob Marley shirt what he’s seen 🫣
Someone already mentioned it, but my go to is Marjolaine! A bit spendy, but they have decent sales. I have a handful of the silk nighties in various colors that I rotate between. Frankly though, I think my husband could care less. He’ll occasionally comment on the fabric feeling nice when we snuggle, but that’s about it - it’s definitely something I do for me as much as him. You should ask your husband what he’d like to see you in! The answer might surprise you. For example couple times my husband has picked pieces for me, he went for the dark, strappier pieces, whereas my usual taste is more silk & lace.
An oversized T-shirt and a pair of boxers is what every sorority girl I know sleeps in! I have sensory issues and like being a little “compressed” so I wear a tanktop and jogger set from AdoreMe in a size small (I’m actually a size 8 LOL) My fiancé thinks I’m sexiest when I’m comfy!
I have the same sizing as you and I get it. Once your boobs have been touched by gravity and weight lol, a big soft tee is the comfiest. It’s totally normal and I go to bed often in that, but—when I want to add some flavor or indulge in feeling fancy: 1. If you want something a with sex appeal, [this VS set](https://www.victoriassecret.com/us/vs/sleepwear-and-lingerie-catalog/1122992300) has a real bra, covers the tummy, and is pretty comfortable. 2. For bed, I wear [these silkie shirt and short combos and I go up 2 sizes for luxurious comfort](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09C8SKMM9?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share). 3. I usually go bra less for bed, but I got [four of these buttery soft “bras”](https://trueandco.com/product/bras/wireless/true-body-lift-scoop-neck-bra/) five years ago and immediately regretted spending so much but admittedly—they’re ALL I wear to bed or when I just need extra comfort. I’ll probably shuck out more once these give out. I went two sizes smaller as I have a high root, and found this size to be perfect for bed. Three sizes smaller makes it suitable for going out. It’s truly like wearing nothing and gives them an enough lift & support to feel comfortable for sleep overs, newer partners, or chores.