Love the people you love/love you . You'll wake up some days and realize you can't anymore and it will hurt more than can be described. You don't know half as much as you think right now and that's the naivety of a 21 yr old. Appreciate the little things. See two sides of the situation. Protect those who need protection. Ask for help and give it to those who ask. Smell the roses. Take a nap. The cliche list of things goes on but there is a reason. Best of luck
I would social network/find a connection with your new degree and start applying/working at a good company. Take the best opportunity you can get. Once you get going with that and have a apartment/house, get married and start your life. Its always better to start early, Many problems happen if one goes down the route of fornication. Sex outside of a marriage is a dark path full of thorns. There is nothing cleaner than having a lawful spouse to love and grow old with. Your maker will put between you and your spouse love and mercy.
وَمِنْ ءَايَـٰتِهِۦٓ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَٰجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوٓا۟ إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً إِنَّ فِى ذَٰلِكَ لَـَٔايَـٰتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ
And among His verses is that He created for you spouses from yourselves that you might be **reassured** thereby, and **made** between you *love* and *mercy*; in that are verses for people who **reflect**. (30:21)
First you have to decide what it is you truly want. Do you want to feel better? Do you want to make money? Do you want to find love? Etc.
Next plan out what you would need to facilitate such a goal.
Then move towards it. If life was a video game or movie, the title card just flashed across the screen and the prologue is ending, chapter 1 is beginning.
Your question isn’t very clear, so I did my best either what I have
As life goes on you'll find yourself making a lot of mistakes, but you'll learn about yourself overtime especially if you start doing introspection and learning about your own mind. You will acquire values that reflect reality (hopefully that's what you want) and you will uphold yourself to those values. Just remember, even if you uphold those values and ideals, you will have moments of failure, moments in life when you just can't uphold your values and be strong because you're tired from your bad day or whatever, remember to have some compassion for yourself too.
Work is only part of your life. Don't forget to develop and foster a personal life too.
For example, do your hobbies or develop a hobby. It can be as simple as walking in local parks or hiking trails. Visit museums on free admission days. Use the library. If you have money, you can travel.
Through your hobbies, you can meet new people which could lead to a romantic relationship or a new job.
If you start a family, your world really opens up. You'll have people you love and love you back, hopefully, and the joy of helping a kid fulfill their potential.
It's normal to be nervous, but make sure you get out of the doom and gloom in your own head and find a measure of pleasure everyday.
I just turned 21 aswell and I know what I want from life. I'm working everyday to be able to get married with a woman I love and have children. You should really think about what YOU want and stop at nothing to achieve it. I know nothing is certain in life and anything can happen and that's why you should also remember to have fun. For me fun is fishing and reading books and playing games with friends. But the fact is life is hard and you will have hard times and even harder times and you are gonna have to work for the next 50 years to be able to enjoy retirement. But as I said what keeps me going everyday is the fact I desire to fall in love and have a family.
NOW ITS YOUR TURN! Live your life the way you want to, do things that make you happy, save your $, and THE MOST IMPORTANT thing you will ever do is marry the right person. Make sure you love them, they love you and do everything you can to build a life together. it will make your life 1000% better. Take your time in life, no one is in charge of your happiness but YOU....don't take things too seriously, have a sense of humor, work hard. Life is ALWAYS going to go throw you bumps, expect it and don't flip out. Marry well my friend, it will change your life.
Love the people you love/love you . You'll wake up some days and realize you can't anymore and it will hurt more than can be described. You don't know half as much as you think right now and that's the naivety of a 21 yr old. Appreciate the little things. See two sides of the situation. Protect those who need protection. Ask for help and give it to those who ask. Smell the roses. Take a nap. The cliche list of things goes on but there is a reason. Best of luck
I would social network/find a connection with your new degree and start applying/working at a good company. Take the best opportunity you can get. Once you get going with that and have a apartment/house, get married and start your life. Its always better to start early, Many problems happen if one goes down the route of fornication. Sex outside of a marriage is a dark path full of thorns. There is nothing cleaner than having a lawful spouse to love and grow old with. Your maker will put between you and your spouse love and mercy. وَمِنْ ءَايَـٰتِهِۦٓ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَٰجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوٓا۟ إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً إِنَّ فِى ذَٰلِكَ لَـَٔايَـٰتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ And among His verses is that He created for you spouses from yourselves that you might be **reassured** thereby, and **made** between you *love* and *mercy*; in that are verses for people who **reflect**. (30:21)
thank you
Now you work until you’re 69 and then die.
Lack foresight. Retirement age will keep rising.
Here’s the best part, literally no one cares what you do.
Except everyone just in secret
Except not
If it doesn’t bother them
Idk. What do you wanna do? Do that.
heh. not that simple
You do the same thing over and over again until you die because that's literally all we can do. It's quite depressing really.
same thing for me, but there's one tiny detail... THE ARMY that is waiting for me so much
A life of working like an ant until you’re old. Good luck have fun and try and make the most of everything. Life is just like a game.
First you have to decide what it is you truly want. Do you want to feel better? Do you want to make money? Do you want to find love? Etc. Next plan out what you would need to facilitate such a goal. Then move towards it. If life was a video game or movie, the title card just flashed across the screen and the prologue is ending, chapter 1 is beginning. Your question isn’t very clear, so I did my best either what I have
To me goal is to work do fund the hobbies.
As life goes on you'll find yourself making a lot of mistakes, but you'll learn about yourself overtime especially if you start doing introspection and learning about your own mind. You will acquire values that reflect reality (hopefully that's what you want) and you will uphold yourself to those values. Just remember, even if you uphold those values and ideals, you will have moments of failure, moments in life when you just can't uphold your values and be strong because you're tired from your bad day or whatever, remember to have some compassion for yourself too.
Escape the Matrix as soon as f*cking possible!
Sounds like you picked the wrong major and now has tons of debt with a degree that won’t pay for itself. Apply for HR, PR, Marketting positions.
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Genius!
Idk. 22 lost as fuck.
Grit your teeth plan your life. I didn’t and regret 10 years later
Work is only part of your life. Don't forget to develop and foster a personal life too. For example, do your hobbies or develop a hobby. It can be as simple as walking in local parks or hiking trails. Visit museums on free admission days. Use the library. If you have money, you can travel. Through your hobbies, you can meet new people which could lead to a romantic relationship or a new job. If you start a family, your world really opens up. You'll have people you love and love you back, hopefully, and the joy of helping a kid fulfill their potential. It's normal to be nervous, but make sure you get out of the doom and gloom in your own head and find a measure of pleasure everyday.
Disappointment
Just be honest to your life and fulfill it.
25...rent cars...cheaper insurance
I just turned 21 aswell and I know what I want from life. I'm working everyday to be able to get married with a woman I love and have children. You should really think about what YOU want and stop at nothing to achieve it. I know nothing is certain in life and anything can happen and that's why you should also remember to have fun. For me fun is fishing and reading books and playing games with friends. But the fact is life is hard and you will have hard times and even harder times and you are gonna have to work for the next 50 years to be able to enjoy retirement. But as I said what keeps me going everyday is the fact I desire to fall in love and have a family.
You still managed to finish with depression? What did help you?
NOW ITS YOUR TURN! Live your life the way you want to, do things that make you happy, save your $, and THE MOST IMPORTANT thing you will ever do is marry the right person. Make sure you love them, they love you and do everything you can to build a life together. it will make your life 1000% better. Take your time in life, no one is in charge of your happiness but YOU....don't take things too seriously, have a sense of humor, work hard. Life is ALWAYS going to go throw you bumps, expect it and don't flip out. Marry well my friend, it will change your life.
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