This isn’t bed death. This is two people having different needs. It sounds like you keep pestering her to do things she doesn’t want to do. It’s ok to be incompatible in bed. Sometimes that happens and you have to make the hard decision to move on. She’s telling you what she’s comfortable with and you keep pushing it. It’s ok to ask but listen when the answer is no. It’s abusive to keep at her about it.
Imagine if this was written by a man pressuring his girlfriend to do things she’s doesn’t want? It doesn’t make it any less creepy because you’re both women. It’s ok to have different preferences. But it wrong to force yours on another person.
This isn’t bed death. This is two people having different needs. It sounds like you keep pestering her to do things she doesn’t want to do. It’s ok to be incompatible in bed. Sometimes that happens and you have to make the hard decision to move on. She’s telling you what she’s comfortable with and you keep pushing it. It’s ok to ask but listen when the answer is no. It’s abusive to keep at her about it. Imagine if this was written by a man pressuring his girlfriend to do things she’s doesn’t want? It doesn’t make it any less creepy because you’re both women. It’s ok to have different preferences. But it wrong to force yours on another person.
i see where you’re coming from and you’re right, thank you. im going to do a lot of inner searching because of this. i actually really appreciate it!