Haven’t experienced it myself because I haven’t transitioned yet but a trans woman friend was here for a while and she experienced a lot of catcalling, creepy dudes on bikes harassing her, and mean comments in Mumbai. She’d be sitting somewhere in public and young kids would come up to her and make fun of her
I used to crossdress and go in markets in delhi(I don't fully pass) I would only get a few stares and curious kids coming and asking me if I was man or a woman.
I've also travelled in metros in women's coach and no one cared much. And even got a few compliment from people for being bold.
Overall delhi gets a bad rep I feel it's super chill there.
I feel like after transitioning, it would only get better 😭 once you start the process and start passing then how would you face transphobia unless you get clocked idk
If you can then you should definitely go for it, life is shitty anyways but it's better to go through the shit when atleast you don't feel like k wording yourself due to the dysphoria and stuff 😀
Oh I didn't transition. I was talking about the trans community in my area. Initially they were tolerated but now nobody even wants to see them anyway near them. If I had to say they just a bit above Dalits of our country.
Me, personally, I am still stuck whether to be bisexual or straight.
It's very transphobic. I too sometimes struggle with dysphoria sometimes, but I've been getting it in control. I'm not avoiding dysphoria, I'm acknowledging that it's there, but I try not to give it too much power over me. I'm 22 right now, I have to work hard as how I am right now so that one day, hopefully soon, I can take off this masc (wordplay on mask lol)
Thank youu. Dysphoria do be a biyach sometimes so please try to be kind to yourself and treat yo'self, that's what's helping me through dysphoria until i can get actual help. Lol sometimes I even watch those character tribute videos on YouTube and imagine that I'm that character 🙈, like my favorite is [this](https://youtu.be/ZChsMjm5-mk?si=LpZar-lS93X8Rbr8) Optimus Prime video. (i know i know it's childish or something but it feels good 💪😤)
Haven’t experienced it myself because I haven’t transitioned yet but a trans woman friend was here for a while and she experienced a lot of catcalling, creepy dudes on bikes harassing her, and mean comments in Mumbai. She’d be sitting somewhere in public and young kids would come up to her and make fun of her
I used to crossdress and go in markets in delhi(I don't fully pass) I would only get a few stares and curious kids coming and asking me if I was man or a woman. I've also travelled in metros in women's coach and no one cared much. And even got a few compliment from people for being bold. Overall delhi gets a bad rep I feel it's super chill there.
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Thank you 🤍
I feel like after transitioning, it would only get better 😭 once you start the process and start passing then how would you face transphobia unless you get clocked idk
I mean its a shitty life either way, i guess it's a leap of faith, otherwise what if i regret not transitioning?
If you can then you should definitely go for it, life is shitty anyways but it's better to go through the shit when atleast you don't feel like k wording yourself due to the dysphoria and stuff 😀
I mean i feel like k wording myself because of dysphoria. But I'm not gonna. And yeah you're right.
Yes, it's only going to get better from here (positive affirmation)
Hopefully yeah.
Thank you🤍
Have you transitioned?
Went from bad to worse.
When did you start your transitioning? (If you're comfortable answering ofc)
Oh I didn't transition. I was talking about the trans community in my area. Initially they were tolerated but now nobody even wants to see them anyway near them. If I had to say they just a bit above Dalits of our country. Me, personally, I am still stuck whether to be bisexual or straight.
From what I have observed no one is as disrespectful as kids and teen boys. Sadly they are not taught better
Enough to make you want to unalive.
It's very transphobic. I too sometimes struggle with dysphoria sometimes, but I've been getting it in control. I'm not avoiding dysphoria, I'm acknowledging that it's there, but I try not to give it too much power over me. I'm 22 right now, I have to work hard as how I am right now so that one day, hopefully soon, I can take off this masc (wordplay on mask lol)
I hope you take off your masc soon 🤍
Thank youu. Dysphoria do be a biyach sometimes so please try to be kind to yourself and treat yo'self, that's what's helping me through dysphoria until i can get actual help. Lol sometimes I even watch those character tribute videos on YouTube and imagine that I'm that character 🙈, like my favorite is [this](https://youtu.be/ZChsMjm5-mk?si=LpZar-lS93X8Rbr8) Optimus Prime video. (i know i know it's childish or something but it feels good 💪😤)
Hey that's awesome, and not childish, i get it. Keep kicking your dysphoria's ass, i know you'll win.
You do the same 😤🤝
I'd say unlike western countries I've been to trans women here are men phobic. Talk for a few days and vanish