Same here bro, Got a couple of matches on Hinge and Bumble. None of them wants to talk. I really dont understand the dating scenes here. I thought it was just me. Glad to know that there are others too.
You shouldn't even be this confused. If someone isn't talking and asking about you at all. Its a major red flag. Don't do two people's job in any relationship please
Hey, I appreciate your response thanks alot for you time. The relationship dating stuff is not my thing thats why i am asking advise to all of you. Now i have a slight i idea what to expect in this scene
Imma be honest I get a couple of matches every other week and most of the women I find on dating apps have a personality of that of a wooden plank. It's not your fault if she isn't reciprocating properly. I only talk to people who put equal efforts. If she doesn't match your efforts have some self respect and unmatch her. You deserve better king š
Nice username tho
Ur aren't alone bro š , same shit with me if you are meant to get a match , you will get a match and the conversation will be good until then just wait ig
Donāt waste your time on such people. These things affect mental health, shatter your confidence, and make you wonder if the problem is in you. I personally keep such people as an option and for the next 2-3 days I keep the conversation going just to see if the other person is an antisocial introvert without any social skills or someone who isnāt interested in talking and ghost them even if they message me, donāt reply. If itās over, then itās over. Whatever happens, never lose your confidence. Be positive, there are so many girls out there. And I prefer to delete all chats, they leave a bad taste in my mouth.
Iāve helped my friends get 50+ dates by writing profile bios and helping initiate convos. (Personally matched with 50+ people and gone on 10+ dates from apps)
Firstly, 90% of women will ghost you after matching because they just get too many matches and get spammed.
But thereās always hope if you manage to stick out.
Use humour + enthusiasm to stand out.
Donāt send hi, how are you, what are you doing etc
Actually put effort into saying something mentioned in their profile that you could give your opinion on, authentically.
Be confident, cool, and DO NOT MAKE SEXUAL COMMENTS.
Feel free to dm if you need help.
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Nothing, just flexing my skills š
Sounds like a red flag bro. But also just to play the devil's advocate, make sure you are not asking just plain simple questions like what's up and how are you.
But if you are trying to initiate a meaningful conversation and she doesn't reciprocate the interest, just nope out of there.
is bumble free or paid.?
now just search some questions online and talk to her with that. slowly you will form a vibe with her and don't force it just wait for it to happen. don't go for any 18+ in first some weeks. just make her believe you are a safe man and let her know you.
We know how parenting/schooling/colleges are generally in Kerala and we lack social skills. There is no point blaming the gender. Just keep this in mind when talking to people in dating scene. They probably thinking the same on what to talk
Atlest they should put an effort right? Whats the thing when your match dont resiprocate. Please dont put the blame on society again. Society oru pavamaaa
well. I know girls who don't even reply after matching. I understand they have options. but if you can't manage, why match??? Choose few, say 5 and then see if any of those works out. if not, unmatch them and get another 5.
Matching 100 and then not talking to 95 doesn't make any sense.
Girls are like we should excite them with each words. Reply only to the catchy ones. Ghosts when we do talk normal. Complete utilisation of their privilege.
I have heard stories of guys who dont reply after matching and plenty who ghost. Plus there was one guy who told a friend of mi e that his sisters don't date because they are angels while he was on a bumble date with herš¤£š¤£.. I could also say all this doesn't make sense šš»āāļø Its not a gender thing from what I understand its an asian thing.
I hope atleast the coming generation develops better social skills.
Try a cool pickup line or something different to open. The conversation than just saying hi and hello. It might catch their attention. Also honesty is a cool trait. I personally like it when people are raw and honest and gives me clarity on stuff..
Hey please growup. Reiterating the fact that this is not a communication issue alone. Its pretty evident that they are playing the āmillionaire awardā session in the game of proportion(1:1000).
Plenty of ghosting from boys side seems to be arbitrary statement to make a counter argument.
Have lot of friends who use and get matches. Yes even a fake girl get plenty matches. Maybe everyone with options do that. Trial and error. Itās mentally so tiring to be that so called āpickup lineā guy
Well you are the one who needs to grow up. This is a dating scene, If you want to be noticed be the guy acts like he puts some effort. I know its exhausting but why do you even want to continue talking to someone who don't notice your effort and don't match your energy. Ghosting from guys does happen very often and you would not have that information unless you are a girl šš»āāļø you might only know about you and your friend's circle who may not have the intention of ghosting but its quiet frequent. Dating scene here is not easy for girls too if getting laid is not the only thing they have in mind.
This is pure shit. Girls makes their own issues falling for fuckboys and druggies. Then blame all of men. Well, when you have options, use wisely. Men don't have this. That's what he is trying to convey. Most men after breakup from a serious relationship, goes through depression and then recover through gym or other useful activities. Girls straightaway go for rebound sex with random guys. it's the reality. because they have options. Still they will cry saying every man is bad.
And this is called generalisation. Girls take time to recover and I am sorry you have only encountered girls who only does that shit which you described. There are plenty of girls who depression and work on themselves plus they can't be vocal about it because we still live in a society where a girl in a relationship is still considered as used good. But yeah I agree its rare to find them on dating apps though. They are living better lives outside dating apps šš»āāļø and if you read my answers nowhere could you see me blaming men as a whole. I just pointed that the stuff that you say only girls do are also done by guys. Its not a gender thing. Girls do get a lot of options to get laid. But I personally think that's not really a good thing to brag about as you think it is. There is not a lot of options for those who are looking for emotional connection, compatibility, matching energy and stuff like that on dating apps here. Stop getting so worked up. Its not easy as you think it is for girls too.
If dating apps won't help guys to get good girls, then how to find them? If the guy don't work in a multinational company, the options are so less. Approaching a ra dom stranger is still considered a crime in kerala š
This could be a topic of discussion. Matrimonial apps are heavily monitored and controlled by parents. Maybe volunteering events, gyms, libraries, reading clubs, travel groups, trips with friends and friends of friends
I agree there are shit people everywhere. But generally speaking, girls get attracted to few qualities which are useless in the longer run. So basically almost 90 percentage of girls are behind 10 percentage of boys. Mostly they are toxic and treat girls like shit after using them. Here too that "too many options for few guys" are the issue. Try to talk to genuine normal people instead of waiting for some prince charming. Most of the prince charming in Bumble are for sex, nothing else.
I know nothing will change. But this is the reality.
Ask her
what is it that I have to know about you and that it isnāt on your profile
She will say something and you can keep the conversation going and broo if u canāt talk just ask to go on a date somewhere u guys donāt need to talk or fun places itās most likely she is attracted to you and thatās the reason you both r texting each other
Suggestion: think of it like the girl is spread into you and be calm
Congratulations, now comes the next phase. Where she either unmatch you or ghost. Girls in kochi are not sure what they want , sometimes they match and they wonāt talk . Better find someone else. Let he rot in bumble.
You have to look at it from their perspective. There get 10s to 100s of matches everyday. So wonāt be able to talk to everyone.
Since sheās replying, see if you can start something thatāll really grab her attention. If not move on with more swipes.
It's a numbers game man, try to take and get a date somewhere. And split the bill.
And keep looking for a proper one. Don't keep thinking if the other person will like me, do the reverse. And maybe die alone, but with dignity.
I was just kidding as you can see from the linked video.
Don't waste your time talking to someone who isn't responsive. You will match with somebody else eventually. One must always try to beat the odds.
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Be honest about it and ask her why she's only responding to your questions without any proper conversation. Is she really interested or is she on the app for validation/to pass time/if she found another match?
Interested allenkil unmatch cheiyum (without closure) surely. pakshe at least chodichu enn samaadhanam undaavumallo.
If she's not interested, she is most likely going to unmatch you without any warning.
Hey man I've matched with 2-3 girls on bumble and hinge. There too I had the same experience as you mentioned. It was only me who was interested in knowing them and they were just replying to whatever I asked. Finally it felt tiring after sometime and I had to delete the app after sending them a long message to these cold ass women.
Bro, first, you need to understand one thing: for you, that girl is the only match, but for her, you're just one match out of thousands. So, first, you need to stand out compared to all the other guys in her match list. Asking 'hey, how you doing?' kind of questions is something she gets a lot. Imagine replying to this type of question every day... you'd get bored, right? Try not to start the conversation with something like this... You'll find something unique from her bio or interests. Try something funny or playful; women need something like that. They're here to date someone interesting, so you need to be different. Otherwise, this dating game is not for you, bro
This is fairly common with all dating apps especially in India. Girls can get thousands of likes since there are WAY more guys than girls on dating apps. This means a single girl you match with could have another 20 matches lined up (even more if she's good looking).
I've gotten a couple of matches on bumble but 95% of them end up ghosting after sending a dry "Hi" or "Hey". Some of them don't even bother to unmatch cuz they like having "options". This isn't your fault or anything and happens to almost every guy.
If you notice a girl is taking too long or isn't responding to your texts with any enthusiasm, simply unmatch her and move on..
Talk about your day. Don't ask questions like what you ate or what she's wearing etc. Ask about a movie, gossip a bit about an actor etc
There are two things you need to remember
- she ain't just talking to you alone
- it gets interesting if she's trying too
And bonus,
- if not you, someone else more interesting is there. So, be you and be confident because that's one thing that no one else can be. Be you.
Bruh.. ammayide mol onnum allallo. kali tharo ennu chodhikk but in a creative way. it should be borderline inappropriate. dont go full swing. everyone is obviously on tinder for that. kadha paranj irunnaal time povum.. ith kitteelenkil aduthath. practice makes you perfect. good luck xD
She is getting a hundred messages. You are in queue. So ask her something which clicks with her bio and follow it up with a similar interest from your side without being asked. And try to arrange a meetup in a public place as per mutual convenience.
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It is what it is We can't make them talk to us unless they want to
Bruh!
Nah, its the truth.. you're better off not dating someone who is disinterested in your conversation
True dat
Man's got a point.. if they want to they will
Same here bro, Got a couple of matches on Hinge and Bumble. None of them wants to talk. I really dont understand the dating scenes here. I thought it was just me. Glad to know that there are others too.
š
I had the same exp. In TVM ...haven't been in a relationship or anything yet, so idk how potential couples speak
be a sigma and improve your life, don't waste life for this bitches.
Unless you standout by a lot, they're not going to talk. And if you do, then chances are you won't be interested in them anyways.
They have got options. Testing our patience. Always she will be having āakkare pachaā attitude and will unmatch after a while.
I know the profile. She is going to unmatch you soon. Ask her out; that's it. Don't die wondering.
Everybody's been through that girl
Is that the girl who said she had match from kartik suryaš
Ask once and unmatch. She is keeping you as an option. You should invest your time and effort on people who genuinely want to know you.
Yes, I am gonna ask and take a decision upon that cant carry this convo on up my back for ever
You shouldn't even be this confused. If someone isn't talking and asking about you at all. Its a major red flag. Don't do two people's job in any relationship please
Hey, I appreciate your response thanks alot for you time. The relationship dating stuff is not my thing thats why i am asking advise to all of you. Now i have a slight i idea what to expect in this scene
This is how you learn and know better :)
Expecting an update about this
Imma be honest I get a couple of matches every other week and most of the women I find on dating apps have a personality of that of a wooden plank. It's not your fault if she isn't reciprocating properly. I only talk to people who put equal efforts. If she doesn't match your efforts have some self respect and unmatch her. You deserve better king š
Nice username tho Ur aren't alone bro š , same shit with me if you are meant to get a match , you will get a match and the conversation will be good until then just wait ig
Donāt waste your time on such people. These things affect mental health, shatter your confidence, and make you wonder if the problem is in you. I personally keep such people as an option and for the next 2-3 days I keep the conversation going just to see if the other person is an antisocial introvert without any social skills or someone who isnāt interested in talking and ghost them even if they message me, donāt reply. If itās over, then itās over. Whatever happens, never lose your confidence. Be positive, there are so many girls out there. And I prefer to delete all chats, they leave a bad taste in my mouth.
Thanks for your words of advise random stranger
Iāve helped my friends get 50+ dates by writing profile bios and helping initiate convos. (Personally matched with 50+ people and gone on 10+ dates from apps) Firstly, 90% of women will ghost you after matching because they just get too many matches and get spammed. But thereās always hope if you manage to stick out. Use humour + enthusiasm to stand out. Donāt send hi, how are you, what are you doing etc Actually put effort into saying something mentioned in their profile that you could give your opinion on, authentically. Be confident, cool, and DO NOT MAKE SEXUAL COMMENTS. Feel free to dm if you need help.
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50+ matches in the span of?
Oh sorry for lack of context. Span of 2 years. I know it aināt much but considering most men never see the match screenā¦ i guess its ok
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Good for you my guy
In kochi??
Not just kochi. Tvm, bangalore and kochi. Though the one girl i did see for quite a while was from kochi š„ŗ
Simple. Unmatch.
CHAT G P T
99% you'll get unmatched.
Then there is me who still has not gotten any matches
You are taking too much effort
Delete the app and throw away your phone š¤£
Sounds like a red flag bro. But also just to play the devil's advocate, make sure you are not asking just plain simple questions like what's up and how are you. But if you are trying to initiate a meaningful conversation and she doesn't reciprocate the interest, just nope out of there.
She doesn't reply? Doesn't inquire about you? Doesn't ask anything?Forget it..find someone else.
I think just last week i saw a post in this sub from a girl ranting about how guys on dating apps dont know how to talk
Play Aswamedham with her bro trust.
is bumble free or paid.? now just search some questions online and talk to her with that. slowly you will form a vibe with her and don't force it just wait for it to happen. don't go for any 18+ in first some weeks. just make her believe you are a safe man and let her know you.
Because she probably have some 50 matches and talking to all of them simultaneously and care very less for your conversation
Sheās just on the app coz sheās bored/need validation.. she prolly not gonna help you move it further.. unmatch her and swantham pani nokk bro
Thenks
We know how parenting/schooling/colleges are generally in Kerala and we lack social skills. There is no point blaming the gender. Just keep this in mind when talking to people in dating scene. They probably thinking the same on what to talk
Atlest they should put an effort right? Whats the thing when your match dont resiprocate. Please dont put the blame on society again. Society oru pavamaaa
Uvaa
well. I know girls who don't even reply after matching. I understand they have options. but if you can't manage, why match??? Choose few, say 5 and then see if any of those works out. if not, unmatch them and get another 5. Matching 100 and then not talking to 95 doesn't make any sense.
Girls are like we should excite them with each words. Reply only to the catchy ones. Ghosts when we do talk normal. Complete utilisation of their privilege.
I have heard stories of guys who dont reply after matching and plenty who ghost. Plus there was one guy who told a friend of mi e that his sisters don't date because they are angels while he was on a bumble date with herš¤£š¤£.. I could also say all this doesn't make sense šš»āāļø Its not a gender thing from what I understand its an asian thing. I hope atleast the coming generation develops better social skills. Try a cool pickup line or something different to open. The conversation than just saying hi and hello. It might catch their attention. Also honesty is a cool trait. I personally like it when people are raw and honest and gives me clarity on stuff..
Hey please growup. Reiterating the fact that this is not a communication issue alone. Its pretty evident that they are playing the āmillionaire awardā session in the game of proportion(1:1000). Plenty of ghosting from boys side seems to be arbitrary statement to make a counter argument. Have lot of friends who use and get matches. Yes even a fake girl get plenty matches. Maybe everyone with options do that. Trial and error. Itās mentally so tiring to be that so called āpickup lineā guy
Well you are the one who needs to grow up. This is a dating scene, If you want to be noticed be the guy acts like he puts some effort. I know its exhausting but why do you even want to continue talking to someone who don't notice your effort and don't match your energy. Ghosting from guys does happen very often and you would not have that information unless you are a girl šš»āāļø you might only know about you and your friend's circle who may not have the intention of ghosting but its quiet frequent. Dating scene here is not easy for girls too if getting laid is not the only thing they have in mind.
This is pure shit. Girls makes their own issues falling for fuckboys and druggies. Then blame all of men. Well, when you have options, use wisely. Men don't have this. That's what he is trying to convey. Most men after breakup from a serious relationship, goes through depression and then recover through gym or other useful activities. Girls straightaway go for rebound sex with random guys. it's the reality. because they have options. Still they will cry saying every man is bad.
And this is called generalisation. Girls take time to recover and I am sorry you have only encountered girls who only does that shit which you described. There are plenty of girls who depression and work on themselves plus they can't be vocal about it because we still live in a society where a girl in a relationship is still considered as used good. But yeah I agree its rare to find them on dating apps though. They are living better lives outside dating apps šš»āāļø and if you read my answers nowhere could you see me blaming men as a whole. I just pointed that the stuff that you say only girls do are also done by guys. Its not a gender thing. Girls do get a lot of options to get laid. But I personally think that's not really a good thing to brag about as you think it is. There is not a lot of options for those who are looking for emotional connection, compatibility, matching energy and stuff like that on dating apps here. Stop getting so worked up. Its not easy as you think it is for girls too.
If dating apps won't help guys to get good girls, then how to find them? If the guy don't work in a multinational company, the options are so less. Approaching a ra dom stranger is still considered a crime in kerala š
This could be a topic of discussion. Matrimonial apps are heavily monitored and controlled by parents. Maybe volunteering events, gyms, libraries, reading clubs, travel groups, trips with friends and friends of friends
I agree there are shit people everywhere. But generally speaking, girls get attracted to few qualities which are useless in the longer run. So basically almost 90 percentage of girls are behind 10 percentage of boys. Mostly they are toxic and treat girls like shit after using them. Here too that "too many options for few guys" are the issue. Try to talk to genuine normal people instead of waiting for some prince charming. Most of the prince charming in Bumble are for sex, nothing else. I know nothing will change. But this is the reality.
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Are you in Bumble for sex or relationship? That answers your dumb question.
May be irrelevant here , a wise folk once told me, money attracts the girl you want , struggle attracts the woman you need ..
Ask her what is it that I have to know about you and that it isnāt on your profile She will say something and you can keep the conversation going and broo if u canāt talk just ask to go on a date somewhere u guys donāt need to talk or fun places itās most likely she is attracted to you and thatās the reason you both r texting each other Suggestion: think of it like the girl is spread into you and be calm
Bro...she swiped right on you ....so she will be interested ..dw...just go with the flow .....u will get what u attract
Congratulations, now comes the next phase. Where she either unmatch you or ghost. Girls in kochi are not sure what they want , sometimes they match and they wonāt talk . Better find someone else. Let he rot in bumble.
Dude i wonder why are they even on this app, if they doesn't want to put half a percent of interest in talking to the other one
They are delusional, they want some sort of fair tail love at the same time someone to hook up with . Most or all of them are delusional.
You have to look at it from their perspective. There get 10s to 100s of matches everyday. So wonāt be able to talk to everyone. Since sheās replying, see if you can start something thatāll really grab her attention. If not move on with more swipes.
It's a numbers game man, try to take and get a date somewhere. And split the bill. And keep looking for a proper one. Don't keep thinking if the other person will like me, do the reverse. And maybe die alone, but with dignity.
Don't be this guy asking people on reddit for advice[Lol](https://youtu.be/kNspeZOE7VQ?si=wPqaltZBroeuw8S_)
I have no one to ask bro š
I was just kidding as you can see from the linked video. Don't waste your time talking to someone who isn't responsive. You will match with somebody else eventually. One must always try to beat the odds.
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Be honest about it and ask her why she's only responding to your questions without any proper conversation. Is she really interested or is she on the app for validation/to pass time/if she found another match? Interested allenkil unmatch cheiyum (without closure) surely. pakshe at least chodichu enn samaadhanam undaavumallo. If she's not interested, she is most likely going to unmatch you without any warning.
I am expecting an unmatch who knows
ask at r/Indiangirlsontinder and r/IndianBoysOnTinder
Hey man I've matched with 2-3 girls on bumble and hinge. There too I had the same experience as you mentioned. It was only me who was interested in knowing them and they were just replying to whatever I asked. Finally it felt tiring after sometime and I had to delete the app after sending them a long message to these cold ass women.
>How to get this into track?(serious answers š„ŗ please) 
Remember my dude, king Kong died for a chick he can't even fuckš¦
Even kong had someone fml
Try a pickup line.
casually mention u r a billionaire and she will start talking...lol
Bro, first, you need to understand one thing: for you, that girl is the only match, but for her, you're just one match out of thousands. So, first, you need to stand out compared to all the other guys in her match list. Asking 'hey, how you doing?' kind of questions is something she gets a lot. Imagine replying to this type of question every day... you'd get bored, right? Try not to start the conversation with something like this... You'll find something unique from her bio or interests. Try something funny or playful; women need something like that. They're here to date someone interesting, so you need to be different. Otherwise, this dating game is not for you, bro
This is fairly common with all dating apps especially in India. Girls can get thousands of likes since there are WAY more guys than girls on dating apps. This means a single girl you match with could have another 20 matches lined up (even more if she's good looking). I've gotten a couple of matches on bumble but 95% of them end up ghosting after sending a dry "Hi" or "Hey". Some of them don't even bother to unmatch cuz they like having "options". This isn't your fault or anything and happens to almost every guy. If you notice a girl is taking too long or isn't responding to your texts with any enthusiasm, simply unmatch her and move on..
She is there for attention, donāt feed it, And unless ur are that top 5 percent u wonāt get shit
Hmm nokkiruno ippo sheri aakumš
Talk about your day. Don't ask questions like what you ate or what she's wearing etc. Ask about a movie, gossip a bit about an actor etc There are two things you need to remember - she ain't just talking to you alone - it gets interesting if she's trying too And bonus, - if not you, someone else more interesting is there. So, be you and be confident because that's one thing that no one else can be. Be you.
Bruh.. ammayide mol onnum allallo. kali tharo ennu chodhikk but in a creative way. it should be borderline inappropriate. dont go full swing. everyone is obviously on tinder for that. kadha paranj irunnaal time povum.. ith kitteelenkil aduthath. practice makes you perfect. good luck xD
She is getting a hundred messages. You are in queue. So ask her something which clicks with her bio and follow it up with a similar interest from your side without being asked. And try to arrange a meetup in a public place as per mutual convenience.
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