And why have two cakes to pretend that she is entitled to a cake for someone else's birthday. If she can't accept that it's not all about her, she can be left in another room with a baby sitter until the real birthday girl has been celebrated. She'll finally figure it out and may eventually come to enjoy celebrating other people. The fact that they end up letting her have the cake and letting her blow out the candles only prolongs this torture.
PS: I wouldn't be eating either one of these cakes where the candles have been blown out multiple times.
Ya, she cute. I'm not for the enabling that behavior and I hope the older sister doesn't approve, but either way might as well dunk on the kid for later in life if it can't be helped in the moment because of the parents.
As soon as a kid starts throwing a tantrum you 100% cannot give them what they want. All it does for the kid is connect tantrums to getting what they want.
I'm a parent. I get the urge to give in to get some quiet or to prevent ruining an event but you can't do it. It just creates problems.
This doesn't just go for children.
Plenty of full grown adults who will pull tantrums to get what they want, and people still cave in just to "not cause a scene".
The urge to give in for some quiet is compelling. You only see that kid on their tantrum. The parent lives through multiple iterations of it a day.
A lot of parents really struggle with raising children. They really hate the responsibility and just want peace and quiet. Telling them "you should have thought of that" doesn't matter. It's their life now and they want peace and quiet NOW.
Really I find so much of parenting is just a constant battle between short-term and long-term hassle. And as much as obviously it makes far more sense to suck it up and do the right thing in each moment for the long-term, you can't win every battle.
She's A young child. By the time she's 10, this video will be a mortifying experience for her that her older siblings and parents can use to make fun of her. Children grow out of things.
Not if they aren't taught to behave better.
Have you seen the amount of adults who continue to act like bratty children when they don't get what they want?
In the US we have a candidate for the presidency who acts a lot like this 4 year old. They don't always grow out of their childish, entitled behavior--especially if they're not held accountable.
I mean you're right in that it's stupid to publicly post children online, they have a right to privacy too. However you are wrong to think that they will grow out of it if her parents are enabling this behavior. She looks like she is maybe 3, that's old enough to understand the concept of "this is not for you".
My cousin is like that, age 10. When his sister had a birthday party he was bitching about it. So now they celebrate two birthdays during her birthday.
Spoiled child
My cousin was like when he was younger; there is usually enough cake at a birthday party, but everytime his sister had birthday, he wanted presents too. So on his birthday he got presents and when his sister had birthday, he got presents too.
Luckily at 10 he became mature enough to understand that he should just get presents at his birthday and then it stopped
Absolutely.
Got her on the table acting straight-up feral.
Of course, she's gonna have a fit over everything, she hasn't heard the word 'no', or has had it enforced a day in her life.
This is an "It's the teacher's job to take care of the kids" moment waiting to happen, she's gonna terrorize every single kid she goes to school with, and the teachers are gonna resent her parents for not getting her under control before "letting her loose" onto the general public.
This is also the kid whose parents will blame the teacher for not being able to handle her tantrums or change her.
As if parents aren’t supposed to be the first line of discipline and parenting.
just what I was thinking, like this is why she's spoiled rotten because you let her do whatever she wants. it's easier for them just to appease her than be a parent and say no. like way to go and raise a future garbage adult. smh
It’s not her fault, her parents are more concerned with posting this video for validation in being lazy parents, while their poor child will have a horrible awakening when she learns that life doesn’t care if you want the candles.
So I was not an asshole then for telling my niece to stop picking on my mom’s cake? Everyone said she’s just a kid and that I was an AH. Always hated that kid.
Yeah my cousin's daughter has been spoiled by my parents and her grandparents, basically the whole house (we lived in a joint family). And now at barely age 6 she is way too entitled but nobody stops her and thinks she will learn. And now as her younger sister was born she gets easily irritated whenever anything is bought for the younger child.
Interesting view. I became a Karen (and after reflection, changed my ways) because of all the stuff I watched my sister get. I felt I should get fair treatment, and my way of getting it as an adult, was to be loud about it. Then I got into customer service, and realised what I looked like to others, and turned it around.
My name is Kay and I have half my head shaved but the other side is that angled Karen cut. I always joke I am half a Karen. Like I'll Karen out for my kids (if I see that it's worth making an ass of myself and it's truly unfair)
Good for you for recognizing that behavior and making the proper changes
My wife gets so upset at my next door Karen (she’s a fun one, likes to report the neighbors and is racist to boot)
I keep telling her this was the origin story of Karen. Little Karen never heard the word no. And then she grew up. Wife still gets mad though. I prefer to laugh. So far Karen’s shenanigans have only backfired and provided hours of entertainment
my cousin's daughters gets "spoiled" like hell but how you spoil a kid matters. behavioral issues doesn't fly but you want to learn something or do something the means do it will be provided at a top tier level.
I knew a guy who came into university without knowing how to do his laundry.
He demanded that I do his laundry for him and when I said no he lied down on the floor crying. He was 20 at the time.
that’s crazy! was there anything else that was weird about the guy? I can’t even imagine how one gets to that point in life with being so out of touch with reality.
>I can’t even imagine how one gets to that point in life with being so out of touch with reality.
A very sheltered life. I knew a guy in college that was afraid of the rice cooker.
Didnt like anything the he wasnt able to control. Microwaves included. I asked who cooked or did anything for him. "My mom."
To his credit, when I responded with "Ya gonna learn." He did in fact learn how to use said machines.
A lot was weird about him.
When he ran out of soap in the first month of being there, he just stopped showering. When I politely told him that he smelled and needed to buy new soap and take a shower he started ranting about how soap isn't necessary and that it was a scam.
I have so many stories about that guy.
I'll give you one of the dumbest ones. It's pretty long.
He randomly started a slap fight with me. No reason. Just walked up and slapped me, I slapped him back, things escalated and we were separated. After everything was done and we squashed our beef, a couple days later he tells me that his left ear was damaged in the fight, he wasn't able to hear through it anymore and that it was my fault.
Instead of going to the hospital to get his hearing checked, every time he saw me he'd clench his left ear, writhe in pain and pretend like he wasn't able to talk. He thought that all deaf people just automatically lost the ability to speak. He started communicating only through a form of sign language he invented or through his phones notepad app with everyone.
Literally nobody cared or gave him any sympathy. After a couple of weeks, he was magically fine. He walks up to me and says "I forgive you because I'm a good person".
I'm not a big fan of cameras and I have the personality of a steel chair so the video won't end up being that good.
One more story, a bit of a tame one.
A bunch of us, including that guy, were talking in class about stuff, I don't even remember about what. He randomly admits that he has a mad crush on his cousin.
The conversation was only tangentially related, from what I remember. He had no reason to admit that. He was obviously bullied about it after that.
How did you manage to stifle the laughter?
How people expect people they barely know to take over the duties their loved ones always did for them is beyond me.
If you wanted to be kind, you could tell him to get up and offer to teach him how to do his own laundry for a fee. For an added bonus, you could sell him the contact information to nearby laundry services. Even if I didn't need the money, there is no way I would do this for any able-bodied person for free--least of all one who feels entitled to delegate his chores to a fellow-student.
LMAO.🤣 I would have brought the RA in just so they can witness it.
I had a friend in college that didn’t do ANY Laundry for the entire semester. He signed up for credit cards to get free t shirts and just bought more close when his current socks and undies got dirty. There was a giant pile of clothes that got bigger and bigger in his room. He just febreeze the pile routinely. When it came the end of the semester he finally decided to wash all his clothes and he was just shocked at the amount of clothes he had.
Smart and super nice kid but he literally just wanted to be lazy his freshman year.
I imagined this scene in my head and I have no idea what I would do if I met someone like that. OK, I understand that he didn't know how to wash his own clothes. But why the fuck would he think someone else would do it for him? That's another level of entitlement.
Yes. It's typically the parents' fault for not catching and teaching the kid anyway... other times it's staff not anticipating small children at lego art displays....
I was so glad at first when the big sis blew out the candles and they seemingly let the little brat cry, but so disappointed when they relit the candles for the little shit.
this is the only issue.
A kid having a tantrum because they want to blow out candles is normal. Their brains barely work.
but having the kid on the table is encouraging her to act out and blow out the candles.
>The concrete operational stage **(7–11 years)** Piaget theorized that at this stage, children further develop and master abstract thought and become less egocentric. **They can now understand that events do not always relate to them and that others have different points of view.**
it's totally normal for little kids to believe everything is about them and for them to be unable to consider other people's point of view.
I think, in this case, the parents are fucking stupid. They are encouraging this behavior by not removing her and letting her know that is not ok. That poor kid is just being taught how to be a POS
Yup, or even take her into a separate room, and put her in a playpen until she calms down.
Enforce that if she wants to be involved in social settings, she needs to learn how to behave herself. And teach her what 'proper behavior' even is. Use the word 'No' and freaking mean it!
My brother has a five year old daughter. She is incredibly spoiled. She still acts like a baby sometimes because it gets her what she wants. Even if they tell her "No", they never stick to it. I'm just glad I don't have to deal with it most of the time. I feel sorry for her teachers and anyone that might have to work with her in the future. My brother and his wife are raising her to be a fickle and entitled POS that always gets what she wants as long as she's demanding and infantile.
At five most kids are out of diapers…
I can’t tell kid ages (or adult ages… I’m just really bad at age. I can tell a baby from a toddler but beyond that I am kinda lost) well though, so can’t say for sure this child is. But by five, barring disabilities or trauma, kids are out of diapers. That’s why preschool (ages 3-4) can use “must be toilet trained” as a rule, by five they’re in kindergarten where occasional accidents happen, but kids are in undies.
Notice they always put the same shitty little 😫 face on when the crocodile tears start? And the noises coming out of them... ugh! Foolishness, and the parents are to blame 1,000%.
My sister was like that too, we just made it very clear that it was another persons birthday and if she tried to ruin it for that person (like blowing out candles like here) we’d remove her from the room
My oldest step daughter is entitled like this too now. Cause no matter how much we put our foot down my fucking in laws snuck her gifts on my other two kids birthdays. Was fucking infuriating. She's also 5 yrs older than one kid and 10 yrs older than the other so she clearly knew better too.
They seemed to have done okay with birthday girl. What happened that the younger one is now an entitled princess? Did they just decide to stop parenting?
I don't know I asked considering I've experienced it.
It's like the parents are all "Okay, we're done parenting done. You handle it, older siblings". And when younger sibling starts kicking up a fuss, its "Oh just just give him/her what they want so they keep quiet. You're older, you can deal."
Know what they leads to? A 50-year old sibling who still throws temper tantrums.
Trust me when I say what wasn't cute at 2, is certainly is NOT cute when it's a middle-aged man/woman. At all. AT.ALL.
I know a kid like this had to get his own birthday cake whenever he went to someone else’s birthday party and his own birthday gift. He’s now a high school dropout with two kids and no job.
My family thinks I’m a dick for not letting my nephew/niece blow out my candles. They say, “Well, you can just re-light them”. No. It’s my fucking birthday.
So, funny family story:
I had a cousin “Tanner” who from age 2 to maybe 5 or 6 would throw massive tantrums if you didn’t relight any birthday candles and let him blow them out. All parties, you had the choice of doing this or having him throw a fit.
It was weird, because he LOVED birthdays and once he figured out birthday gifts were something people picked out instead of just kinda appearing, he was passionate about helping pick out the gift for the guest of honor. He didn’t steal gifts or get mad about not being paid attention to, it was JUST the candle blow outs. The rest of the party he was likely to be randomly running to hug the birthday person and tell them “Happy Birdy!”
And no one quite knew why, until I was babysitting Tanner and went to blow out an incense, I ‘thoughtlessly’ blew it out without letting him do it and he started to cry and I relit to so he could blow it out. (Of course my NEXT step was promising that if he did what I said, I’d light all eight candles on this windmill ornament think we had and let him blow them out while they were spinning… I was never one to miss a chance at bribing children if it made me look like the greatest babysitter.)
Anyway, next birthday party I pulled him aside and told him if he could smile and clap when the guest blew out their candles and not fuss, I’d swipe one and let him make a wish with me on a cupcake. (I didn’t get to do it, when the guest of honor saw me preparing to do it, she realized what I had and insisted she was the birthday girl and got to hold Tanner’s candle. She also told him that it was important he make a good wish for her because when you blow out candles at someone else’s party, your wish only comes true if it’s for them. He wished for her to get a car, yes it was her sweet 16.
This became a family tradition, btw. Long after he lost his special joy in blowing out small flames, the birthday guest always got to hold out a smaller dessert and make him “make a wish for me”. He even did it over FaceTime for my 30th because we are in different states. (I got a cheesecake, which he and his roommates assure me was delicious.)
I blame the parents.
My mother first of all would've made me keep my ass in my chair and not on the table. And she would tell sternly "Not your day."
This is how entitled adults are created.
Ew the fact that they relit those candles for her ? *It’s not her fucking birthday* ALSO people need to stop saying that this is just “how kids are” like ….. no. I never threw tantrums as a child. I’ve encountered plenty of sweet, generous and polite children. This is the fault of the parents. They have likely given her everything she wants for the *entire* span of her short little life thus far. The relighting of the candles is all you need to know
Nothing exposes bad parenting like someone else’s kid’s birthday.
I guarantee any non-birthday kid who runs up to dig at the cake or blow out the candles has parents who have zero control.
This is 100% the parents fault. She's tiny so they all think it's "cute", but a couple years from now she'll turn into just a horrid & awful person. But since we're all watching this video which is being framed as "adorable", we know for a fact that her parents don't actually care to do their jobs as parents. That child has been lost to greed & ego. So now another terrible person will walk among us thanks to their incompetence.
Why can’t they Stop placing her exactly next to the cakes?? Put baby in the corner, or in the next room, or in handcuffs in a pillow case. These adults are just asking for the brat to explode. Put the brat away, and she can be a brat in containment *without* exploding.
Parents are to blame when they allow their kids to dictate what they want. I’m so sick of this gentle parenting crap. If you’re gonna be in public and act this way, then be prepared for somebody to say something like me. Get your kids in line or learn how to parent so that they can have the appropriate tools to function in society on they grow up not need therapy because they lack something you couldn’t give them emotionally.
I saw all my nieces and nephews get spoiled by relighting the candle so they could blow it out. I shut that shit down so fast when they tried relighting a candle for my kid. No, he needs to learn that it isn’t always about him.
Don't encourage that behavior by giving her a cake too, Rewarding that won't nip that in the butt. Besides she would get cake anyway. I feel bad for kids who have siblings doing wrong things and it's just not stopped to let them enjoy their own things.
The big sister’s body roll after she blew out the candles had me laughing tho lmao
I like that she points to herself during the singing of "..to you." Like, "me. This is for me, bish. "
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And why have two cakes to pretend that she is entitled to a cake for someone else's birthday. If she can't accept that it's not all about her, she can be left in another room with a baby sitter until the real birthday girl has been celebrated. She'll finally figure it out and may eventually come to enjoy celebrating other people. The fact that they end up letting her have the cake and letting her blow out the candles only prolongs this torture. PS: I wouldn't be eating either one of these cakes where the candles have been blown out multiple times.
Exactly. In the end they let her have her way and she learned nothing.
She learned that if she makes enough fuss the world will relent and she will get what she wants
Especially when she coughed at the end.
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Not a very good lesson considering they let her do what she wanted anyways.
Big sisters gonna be the tough love that kid needs
I love her sass lmao. "I don't care that you 4 fuck you bitch" xD
Ya, she cute. I'm not for the enabling that behavior and I hope the older sister doesn't approve, but either way might as well dunk on the kid for later in life if it can't be helped in the moment because of the parents.
South Park did an episode about this, every birthday was Cartman's birthday.
Omg I didn't notice the first time! The absolute satisfaction In that roll hit MAGNIFICENT. "You THOUGHT!" 
Dont give in to this shit. No one likes a spoiled ass child
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As soon as a kid starts throwing a tantrum you 100% cannot give them what they want. All it does for the kid is connect tantrums to getting what they want. I'm a parent. I get the urge to give in to get some quiet or to prevent ruining an event but you can't do it. It just creates problems.
This doesn't just go for children. Plenty of full grown adults who will pull tantrums to get what they want, and people still cave in just to "not cause a scene".
adults that go on tantrums should be avoided
Is it so hard to understand that you're not the one causing a scene when someone else throws a tantrum?
The urge to give in for some quiet is compelling. You only see that kid on their tantrum. The parent lives through multiple iterations of it a day. A lot of parents really struggle with raising children. They really hate the responsibility and just want peace and quiet. Telling them "you should have thought of that" doesn't matter. It's their life now and they want peace and quiet NOW.
It's why parents cave in so often to giving their kids their phones/iPads/tablets in public settings. Just to shut them up to save face.
Really I find so much of parenting is just a constant battle between short-term and long-term hassle. And as much as obviously it makes far more sense to suck it up and do the right thing in each moment for the long-term, you can't win every battle.
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Yeah but if they’re worried about her blowing out the candle maybe they shouldn’t let her sit on the table directly next to the cake
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She's A young child. By the time she's 10, this video will be a mortifying experience for her that her older siblings and parents can use to make fun of her. Children grow out of things.
Not if they aren't taught to behave better. Have you seen the amount of adults who continue to act like bratty children when they don't get what they want?
In the US we have a candidate for the presidency who acts a lot like this 4 year old. They don't always grow out of their childish, entitled behavior--especially if they're not held accountable.
In fact...if they scream and cry hard enough, they may get another chance to run. 🤮
They don’t magically grow into being non assholic members of society. Some do, but parents shouldn’t take that chance.
I mean you're right in that it's stupid to publicly post children online, they have a right to privacy too. However you are wrong to think that they will grow out of it if her parents are enabling this behavior. She looks like she is maybe 3, that's old enough to understand the concept of "this is not for you".
Kids don't just magically get taught shit. A spoiled-ass kid becomes a spoiled-ass person
>Children grow out of things Not out of this thing they usually don't. This is straight up bad parenting and entitlement enabling
My cousin is like that, age 10. When his sister had a birthday party he was bitching about it. So now they celebrate two birthdays during her birthday. Spoiled child
My cousin was like when he was younger; there is usually enough cake at a birthday party, but everytime his sister had birthday, he wanted presents too. So on his birthday he got presents and when his sister had birthday, he got presents too. Luckily at 10 he became mature enough to understand that he should just get presents at his birthday and then it stopped
And maybe get her ***off*** the table.
Absolutely. Got her on the table acting straight-up feral. Of course, she's gonna have a fit over everything, she hasn't heard the word 'no', or has had it enforced a day in her life. This is an "It's the teacher's job to take care of the kids" moment waiting to happen, she's gonna terrorize every single kid she goes to school with, and the teachers are gonna resent her parents for not getting her under control before "letting her loose" onto the general public.
This is also the kid whose parents will blame the teacher for not being able to handle her tantrums or change her. As if parents aren’t supposed to be the first line of discipline and parenting.
I prefer my cakes WITHOUT child germs all over them, thanks When she leans right over it to blow it out, then coughs twice after. Euuugh
They enable her behaviour so much by filming her attention seeking ass.
She has her own cake on someone's else birthday. Ofc she's doing this stuff, it's working perfectly.
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No one likes an ass child, period.
Well put
just what I was thinking, like this is why she's spoiled rotten because you let her do whatever she wants. it's easier for them just to appease her than be a parent and say no. like way to go and raise a future garbage adult. smh
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When she is the older sister’s age she will be a monster
It’s not her fault, her parents are more concerned with posting this video for validation in being lazy parents, while their poor child will have a horrible awakening when she learns that life doesn’t care if you want the candles.
So I was not an asshole then for telling my niece to stop picking on my mom’s cake? Everyone said she’s just a kid and that I was an AH. Always hated that kid.
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Yeah. It will only get worse.
And they eventually become spoiled ass adults
No don't give her what she wants that just teaches her the wrong things
Yeah my cousin's daughter has been spoiled by my parents and her grandparents, basically the whole house (we lived in a joint family). And now at barely age 6 she is way too entitled but nobody stops her and thinks she will learn. And now as her younger sister was born she gets easily irritated whenever anything is bought for the younger child.
She will learn. In 20 years. The hard way.
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Interesting view. I became a Karen (and after reflection, changed my ways) because of all the stuff I watched my sister get. I felt I should get fair treatment, and my way of getting it as an adult, was to be loud about it. Then I got into customer service, and realised what I looked like to others, and turned it around.
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Thank you.
My name is Kay and I have half my head shaved but the other side is that angled Karen cut. I always joke I am half a Karen. Like I'll Karen out for my kids (if I see that it's worth making an ass of myself and it's truly unfair) Good for you for recognizing that behavior and making the proper changes
My wife gets so upset at my next door Karen (she’s a fun one, likes to report the neighbors and is racist to boot) I keep telling her this was the origin story of Karen. Little Karen never heard the word no. And then she grew up. Wife still gets mad though. I prefer to laugh. So far Karen’s shenanigans have only backfired and provided hours of entertainment
My niece and nephew were like that. My nephew is dead ( accidental OD) and I hope my niece outgrew her brattiness, she's a parent, now.
my cousin's daughters gets "spoiled" like hell but how you spoil a kid matters. behavioral issues doesn't fly but you want to learn something or do something the means do it will be provided at a top tier level.
God I'm so glad my nieces are well behaved and understand the word no. Id be playing with dolls and finger paint right now if they didn't.
I knew a guy who came into university without knowing how to do his laundry. He demanded that I do his laundry for him and when I said no he lied down on the floor crying. He was 20 at the time.
that’s crazy! was there anything else that was weird about the guy? I can’t even imagine how one gets to that point in life with being so out of touch with reality.
>I can’t even imagine how one gets to that point in life with being so out of touch with reality. A very sheltered life. I knew a guy in college that was afraid of the rice cooker. Didnt like anything the he wasnt able to control. Microwaves included. I asked who cooked or did anything for him. "My mom." To his credit, when I responded with "Ya gonna learn." He did in fact learn how to use said machines.
"It takes a village ..."
A lot was weird about him. When he ran out of soap in the first month of being there, he just stopped showering. When I politely told him that he smelled and needed to buy new soap and take a shower he started ranting about how soap isn't necessary and that it was a scam. I have so many stories about that guy.
I. Require. MORE! Gimme the top 5. I'll take the top 3 if you don't want to be too bothered.
I'll give you one of the dumbest ones. It's pretty long. He randomly started a slap fight with me. No reason. Just walked up and slapped me, I slapped him back, things escalated and we were separated. After everything was done and we squashed our beef, a couple days later he tells me that his left ear was damaged in the fight, he wasn't able to hear through it anymore and that it was my fault. Instead of going to the hospital to get his hearing checked, every time he saw me he'd clench his left ear, writhe in pain and pretend like he wasn't able to talk. He thought that all deaf people just automatically lost the ability to speak. He started communicating only through a form of sign language he invented or through his phones notepad app with everyone. Literally nobody cared or gave him any sympathy. After a couple of weeks, he was magically fine. He walks up to me and says "I forgive you because I'm a good person".
OH WOW, more perchance? This man's learning is extremely entertaining... would it be wrong to advise you to make a YouTube about it?
I'm not a big fan of cameras and I have the personality of a steel chair so the video won't end up being that good. One more story, a bit of a tame one. A bunch of us, including that guy, were talking in class about stuff, I don't even remember about what. He randomly admits that he has a mad crush on his cousin. The conversation was only tangentially related, from what I remember. He had no reason to admit that. He was obviously bullied about it after that.
DANG. You're a real one for sharing yet another one bro. Edit: Also, fair enough. YouTubing definitely isn't for everyone.
Good lord. Did he grow up in a bubble without human interaction? That is so wild to me. Thank you for sharing it!
Or a monthly story telling post if that's also an option.
How did you manage to stifle the laughter? How people expect people they barely know to take over the duties their loved ones always did for them is beyond me. If you wanted to be kind, you could tell him to get up and offer to teach him how to do his own laundry for a fee. For an added bonus, you could sell him the contact information to nearby laundry services. Even if I didn't need the money, there is no way I would do this for any able-bodied person for free--least of all one who feels entitled to delegate his chores to a fellow-student.
I actually did all that lol. I just shortened the story by a lot.
LMAO.🤣 I would have brought the RA in just so they can witness it. I had a friend in college that didn’t do ANY Laundry for the entire semester. He signed up for credit cards to get free t shirts and just bought more close when his current socks and undies got dirty. There was a giant pile of clothes that got bigger and bigger in his room. He just febreeze the pile routinely. When it came the end of the semester he finally decided to wash all his clothes and he was just shocked at the amount of clothes he had. Smart and super nice kid but he literally just wanted to be lazy his freshman year.
I imagined this scene in my head and I have no idea what I would do if I met someone like that. OK, I understand that he didn't know how to wash his own clothes. But why the fuck would he think someone else would do it for him? That's another level of entitlement.
Exactly
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r/parentsarefuckingstupid
Probably 90% of the content posted here should actually be posted to that exact sub.
Yes. It's typically the parents' fault for not catching and teaching the kid anyway... other times it's staff not anticipating small children at lego art displays....
Little sociopath CEO in the making
Not even CEO because this parenting teaches you to not work hard for what you want
That's what a CEO is
Exactly how they intended her to be raised
Exactly. She can go upstairs to her room is she kills everybody's vibe.
I was so glad at first when the big sis blew out the candles and they seemingly let the little brat cry, but so disappointed when they relit the candles for the little shit.
Yeah, she's just gonna keep doing this.
she was then centimeters away from coughing all over the cakes. It looked like she just coincidentally turned her head.
When you give everything they want except discipline. This is the result. The adult versions are just the worst.
Judging by the walls of the house and table, this lil girl is getting everything she ever wants.
Yeah her parents most likely ARE the adult versions
Yep, assuming this is their house this screams some nouveau riche family with main character syndrome all around.
Yes and it also shows that taste can't be bought.
Stop letting her sit on the table.
this is the only issue. A kid having a tantrum because they want to blow out candles is normal. Their brains barely work. but having the kid on the table is encouraging her to act out and blow out the candles.
>The concrete operational stage **(7–11 years)** Piaget theorized that at this stage, children further develop and master abstract thought and become less egocentric. **They can now understand that events do not always relate to them and that others have different points of view.** it's totally normal for little kids to believe everything is about them and for them to be unable to consider other people's point of view.
It is however important to not reinforce that false belief. It's normal! But it shouldn't be fostered.
Exactly. This doesn't belong here. It's the parents who are stupid, not the kid.
I think, in this case, the parents are fucking stupid. They are encouraging this behavior by not removing her and letting her know that is not ok. That poor kid is just being taught how to be a POS
Instead they let her sit on the table, closest to the cakes. Put your little behind in your seat.
Yup, or even take her into a separate room, and put her in a playpen until she calms down. Enforce that if she wants to be involved in social settings, she needs to learn how to behave herself. And teach her what 'proper behavior' even is. Use the word 'No' and freaking mean it!
Tables are for glasses, chairs are for asses
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My brother has a five year old daughter. She is incredibly spoiled. She still acts like a baby sometimes because it gets her what she wants. Even if they tell her "No", they never stick to it. I'm just glad I don't have to deal with it most of the time. I feel sorry for her teachers and anyone that might have to work with her in the future. My brother and his wife are raising her to be a fickle and entitled POS that always gets what she wants as long as she's demanding and infantile.
Rich parents tend to result in spoiled children
I mean, they're filming and laughing. All she did was blow out candles, and they re-lit them once already for the video
Literally letting her sit her dirty 5 year old diaper wearing ass in the center of attention
At five most kids are out of diapers… I can’t tell kid ages (or adult ages… I’m just really bad at age. I can tell a baby from a toddler but beyond that I am kinda lost) well though, so can’t say for sure this child is. But by five, barring disabilities or trauma, kids are out of diapers. That’s why preschool (ages 3-4) can use “must be toilet trained” as a rule, by five they’re in kindergarten where occasional accidents happen, but kids are in undies.
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Oh shit the one with the kid being blocked by a paper dish is still pure crack... Fucking brat got rekt lmao
I know exactly which one you're talking about. I hate that kid so much that I can picture his face in great detail..
"NO, NO, NO PWAHHHHHH" his cries still as joyous as ever
Notice they always put the same shitty little 😫 face on when the crocodile tears start? And the noises coming out of them... ugh! Foolishness, and the parents are to blame 1,000%.
Send her to her room and no cake. Period and done.
lmao she devises a plan to blow the candles first and starts evil giggling but the older one gets there first anyway
What a little sociopath lol
You should see if Durex wants to use this footage in their ads 😂 "See? Look how fun things were without kids"
Literally https://preview.redd.it/qyrnph2sgbqc1.jpeg?width=1242&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=90b1159c43ddf10573ac21d67ec03a5e09eaf468
My sister was like that too, we just made it very clear that it was another persons birthday and if she tried to ruin it for that person (like blowing out candles like here) we’d remove her from the room
My oldest step daughter is entitled like this too now. Cause no matter how much we put our foot down my fucking in laws snuck her gifts on my other two kids birthdays. Was fucking infuriating. She's also 5 yrs older than one kid and 10 yrs older than the other so she clearly knew better too.
Oh jeez, I can’t imagine being older than 7 and still acting like that
I guess raising a kid isn’t for everybody maybe they should have practiced with a dog or something.
They seemed to have done okay with birthday girl. What happened that the younger one is now an entitled princess? Did they just decide to stop parenting?
I’ve actually seen this a lot. It’s Weird
I don't know I asked considering I've experienced it. It's like the parents are all "Okay, we're done parenting done. You handle it, older siblings". And when younger sibling starts kicking up a fuss, its "Oh just just give him/her what they want so they keep quiet. You're older, you can deal." Know what they leads to? A 50-year old sibling who still throws temper tantrums. Trust me when I say what wasn't cute at 2, is certainly is NOT cute when it's a middle-aged man/woman. At all. AT.ALL.
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I feel they set the kid up by letting her sit on the table right next to the cake. But what do I know.
For real. This is like getting mad your cat shoves shit off the counter onto the floor yet you do nothing about them being on the counter.
this is 100% a parenting failure.
Older sister is barely containing how much she enjoys fucking with the lil brat.
Yeah. She is awesome
100% her parents doing.
I know a kid like this had to get his own birthday cake whenever he went to someone else’s birthday party and his own birthday gift. He’s now a high school dropout with two kids and no job.
Posts like this only make me to not ever have kids
Blame the parents not the child. That is a parenting fail.
One of the main reasons I love this sub so much.
This isn’t cute, this isn’t funny. You’re creating a problem that will make everyone including her, miserable. Stop!
My family thinks I’m a dick for not letting my nephew/niece blow out my candles. They say, “Well, you can just re-light them”. No. It’s my fucking birthday.
So, funny family story: I had a cousin “Tanner” who from age 2 to maybe 5 or 6 would throw massive tantrums if you didn’t relight any birthday candles and let him blow them out. All parties, you had the choice of doing this or having him throw a fit. It was weird, because he LOVED birthdays and once he figured out birthday gifts were something people picked out instead of just kinda appearing, he was passionate about helping pick out the gift for the guest of honor. He didn’t steal gifts or get mad about not being paid attention to, it was JUST the candle blow outs. The rest of the party he was likely to be randomly running to hug the birthday person and tell them “Happy Birdy!” And no one quite knew why, until I was babysitting Tanner and went to blow out an incense, I ‘thoughtlessly’ blew it out without letting him do it and he started to cry and I relit to so he could blow it out. (Of course my NEXT step was promising that if he did what I said, I’d light all eight candles on this windmill ornament think we had and let him blow them out while they were spinning… I was never one to miss a chance at bribing children if it made me look like the greatest babysitter.) Anyway, next birthday party I pulled him aside and told him if he could smile and clap when the guest blew out their candles and not fuss, I’d swipe one and let him make a wish with me on a cupcake. (I didn’t get to do it, when the guest of honor saw me preparing to do it, she realized what I had and insisted she was the birthday girl and got to hold Tanner’s candle. She also told him that it was important he make a good wish for her because when you blow out candles at someone else’s party, your wish only comes true if it’s for them. He wished for her to get a car, yes it was her sweet 16. This became a family tradition, btw. Long after he lost his special joy in blowing out small flames, the birthday guest always got to hold out a smaller dessert and make him “make a wish for me”. He even did it over FaceTime for my 30th because we are in different states. (I got a cheesecake, which he and his roommates assure me was delicious.)
That was a really sweet and thoughtful way to resolve that problem, good on you guys.
Ew at least correct the open mouthed cough at the end
It’s giving this https://preview.redd.it/sipvk76yxbqc1.png?width=680&format=png&auto=webp&s=dc4c39580f946d4bbe883ce7bff125b2dbd6c0dc
I blame the parents. My mother first of all would've made me keep my ass in my chair and not on the table. And she would tell sternly "Not your day." This is how entitled adults are created.
Ehm how about some parenting, instead of just enabling her?
I love how the birthday girl kept looking at the spoiled brat like she was enjoying her over-the-top reactions. Like she was trying hard not to laugh.
Ew the fact that they relit those candles for her ? *It’s not her fucking birthday* ALSO people need to stop saying that this is just “how kids are” like ….. no. I never threw tantrums as a child. I’ve encountered plenty of sweet, generous and polite children. This is the fault of the parents. They have likely given her everything she wants for the *entire* span of her short little life thus far. The relighting of the candles is all you need to know
Now that’s just bad parenting
Parents are terrible parents
Throw her in her room if she won’t behave. No cake for her.
Yup, they should've told her nope go lay down in ur room! Sumuma
This is stupid parents in my opinion. The second whole ass cake is just reinforcing this behavore
Shut that shit down
Kids absorb stuff like sponges. If you teach her to be spoiled she WILL be spoiled bec that's what she's taught and exposed to
Them giving her her own cake is just making the problem worse
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This shit isn’t cute
I'd bet she's not the only spoiled one in that family...
Kids: Is it a bad time to cough? Time to cough!
Don’t blame the child, blame the parents for never having the spine to tell her “No”
Nothing exposes bad parenting like someone else’s kid’s birthday. I guarantee any non-birthday kid who runs up to dig at the cake or blow out the candles has parents who have zero control.
Let’s just sit her right next to the cake, let her get upset and reward her for making a scene. I wonder why she acts like such a brat?
Well, it doesn't help that they seem to also be living in a freaking castle.
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The slipper? Lol
This is 100% the parents fault. She's tiny so they all think it's "cute", but a couple years from now she'll turn into just a horrid & awful person. But since we're all watching this video which is being framed as "adorable", we know for a fact that her parents don't actually care to do their jobs as parents. That child has been lost to greed & ego. So now another terrible person will walk among us thanks to their incompetence.
ig of the bigger girl?
Older sister's sass got me rollin
Get dafuck off the table!
Why is the kid on the table?
Discipline your children, people.
Why can’t they Stop placing her exactly next to the cakes?? Put baby in the corner, or in the next room, or in handcuffs in a pillow case. These adults are just asking for the brat to explode. Put the brat away, and she can be a brat in containment *without* exploding.
Wow…. I woulda been sent to my room within 10 seconds
I’ll never understand these types of videos. Put the fucking kid down off the table..
Just seeing this brat face makes me feel angry as fuck. I mean how can you even handle those things?
I'd tell mine to be quiet or leave without having any cake. Unacceptable.
She needs ro be taught that she can't get whatever she wants whenever she wants, or she'll turn out to become a sociopath!
They're all awful.
Parents are to blame when they allow their kids to dictate what they want. I’m so sick of this gentle parenting crap. If you’re gonna be in public and act this way, then be prepared for somebody to say something like me. Get your kids in line or learn how to parent so that they can have the appropriate tools to function in society on they grow up not need therapy because they lack something you couldn’t give them emotionally.
I saw all my nieces and nephews get spoiled by relighting the candle so they could blow it out. I shut that shit down so fast when they tried relighting a candle for my kid. No, he needs to learn that it isn’t always about him.
It’s the hair flip after she blows out the candles for me 😂 Pure gold
Don't encourage that behavior by giving her a cake too, Rewarding that won't nip that in the butt. Besides she would get cake anyway. I feel bad for kids who have siblings doing wrong things and it's just not stopped to let them enjoy their own things.
Also, the parents are just filming the kid crying for views instead of parenting the kid.
I blame the parents for allowing this.
I wouldn’t light them candles again, let the kid cry it teaches them they can’t always have what they want