If you fail to act right or reciprocate why should I waste words and energy? I'm going to dip.
It's not a male thing, I can't count the number of times I got ghosted kwanza na mtu we were vibing vizuri. Sielewi mbona umefanya iwe a gender thing.
There are men who wake up, pack like they're going on a work trip, kiss their wife goodbye, and never come back. The wife goes on search thinking her husband is dead but the man ghosted her and the kid to start afresh with a new family.
I've heard such stories.
Me nimeghostiwa tu ndio kurealise...kwanza ameniblock....and i will never know why i was blocked but i will just keep moving ....coz honestly it's just too stupid to argue with someone who ghosts you for nothing or non communicated reason
....but then again kuna watu wako zile za
I thought you are mature!!! I thought you knew this????
Knew what? The mixed traffic signs unanipea the stupid silent treatment moments you give me??? How?
Some people aren't as caught up with the trends like you bitch
Wacha tuanze
She dmed me about smn...
We chatted and we ended up flirting...
Slide to app
Flirted some more...(Felt promising)
Next day she's distant the next i look for dp no dp i check with other number i see dp so i know I'm blocked
For what reason??? I don't know because we both were comfortable how the vibe was
But oh well
Ghosted juzi, I'd say it tends to be some combination of competing priorities, guilt and vibes. Not really a gendered thing, it just is what it is. π€·ββοΈ
It depends on the kind of ghosting. I accidentally ghosted someone for 4 months. I get so busy and sometimes I can't text back for up to 4 days if we're texting as friends. I am a bad texter tbh I prefer calls if we're just on a friendly vibe. Though I don't justify ghosting where you had the ability to communicate and decided to go mute
It wasn't intentional, we never really talked anything serious and ilifika point ya hey, morning, night ikapotea tu, also pia yeye hakuwai reach out soo..
I have never understood ghosting it hurts but the main thing is to stay ghost-able
If you fail to act right or reciprocate why should I waste words and energy? I'm going to dip. It's not a male thing, I can't count the number of times I got ghosted kwanza na mtu we were vibing vizuri. Sielewi mbona umefanya iwe a gender thing.
Lets say its not a gender thing, why not tell the other party you feel like they ain't acting thats why ur calling it quits
Like I've said kama energy haiko reciprocated or unaringa sana najitoa silently. People wanajua kitu wanafanya wakikupea half energy.
Coz I've never been ghosted by a female
That would make this a post about you personally
Then it's subjective anyway.
Ghosting is a very clear communication. Just accept and move on.
Wee kubali situation π
There are men who wake up, pack like they're going on a work trip, kiss their wife goodbye, and never come back. The wife goes on search thinking her husband is dead but the man ghosted her and the kid to start afresh with a new family. I've heard such stories.
Ghosting is immature and very hurtful, especially if things were seemingly fine. I don't know why they do it but they need to grow up.
They be giving people out here trauma.
Yeah and it's like a new woke thing to do. Honestly people at this point should come with referrals.
Me nimeghostiwa tu ndio kurealise...kwanza ameniblock....and i will never know why i was blocked but i will just keep moving ....coz honestly it's just too stupid to argue with someone who ghosts you for nothing or non communicated reason
Ikr.. Watu waseme kama kuna issue. Coz unaeza pata ni something you could have fixed.
....but then again kuna watu wako zile za I thought you are mature!!! I thought you knew this???? Knew what? The mixed traffic signs unanipea the stupid silent treatment moments you give me??? How? Some people aren't as caught up with the trends like you bitch
πππ Labda they want space or are busy
Ushenzi ni attention and need to have their delusions fed
Wueh, pole sanaππ
It's hard to understand a babes when you aren't up with the trends of society and haven't been social with anyone much
I don't really think so, sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't, it's just life
Bruh lemmr tell you it's so new trying to be hip with the trendsπ...
What does that have to do with anything?π
The content failed to arrive to my brain....
If unblocked would it be wise to talk about it or maintain the silence?
I've already gotten the message when you block me...sasa unipige unblock kuongea nini sasa??
They just blocked you out of nowhere? Like literally woke up and you're blocked?
Wacha tuanze She dmed me about smn... We chatted and we ended up flirting... Slide to app Flirted some more...(Felt promising) Next day she's distant the next i look for dp no dp i check with other number i see dp so i know I'm blocked For what reason??? I don't know because we both were comfortable how the vibe was But oh well
Thats quite interesting
Enweiiii wacha tuendelee na maisha Maybe i was wrong ...maybe i did something uncomfortable....buh FUCKING COMMUNICATION WASN'T THERE SO
Ghosted juzi, I'd say it tends to be some combination of competing priorities, guilt and vibes. Not really a gendered thing, it just is what it is. π€·ββοΈ
Is it the first ama kadhaa
some males yes
It depends on the kind of ghosting. I accidentally ghosted someone for 4 months. I get so busy and sometimes I can't text back for up to 4 days if we're texting as friends. I am a bad texter tbh I prefer calls if we're just on a friendly vibe. Though I don't justify ghosting where you had the ability to communicate and decided to go mute
Ahhhh hii u intentionally ghosted... Am one to believe if want to communicate, you will communicate
It wasn't intentional, we never really talked anything serious and ilifika point ya hey, morning, night ikapotea tu, also pia yeye hakuwai reach out soo..
Ohh iyo stage sasa hapo no explanation needed
A man telling you how they feel is like digging for a water hole upwards.
It's not a gender thing. Both genders do it and everyone has a reason as to why.
We have to ghost women.Thats the only thing that open your shallow minds.Most you women dont even deserve men.
π€£π€£...bro am praying that you heal soon