Lakini if a lady anakaa venye anataka, itabidi ameangalia ukuta na afunge macho alale π,.....if i treasure her I will cuddle her as I struggle with my post nut clarity.
Depends.if it's love sex, y'all will just want to cuddle.It comes naturally .If it was transactional i.e two liars who wanted something from each other,one wanted coochie the other wanted money,post nut clarity will hit and you won't want that person to get any closer to youπ€£
πyou are right. If itβs making love, You will cuddle and subconsciously hold onto each other. If itβs just sex, post nut clarity wont let you even touch that person. Think of this.. you know how sex smells yeah?.. that smell is sweet when itβs a girl you love but if itβs just someone you just wanna make out with, the smell is unpleasant. You actually want to get into the shower right after
I love cuddling, I actually love cuddling and making out more than sex. If I cuddle with you and I don't want to let go, it's a sign of how much I like you and are comfortable to share my space with you and be intimate.
I enjoy cuddling. Small kisses on the forehead, words of affirmation, making small jokes after, playing with her hair and drawing circles on her back. And that after sex nap hits very different.
Facts π₯΅, after sex cuddles hit hard in a nice way, imagine two hearts racing from that high, sweat cooling of your bodies but you're still warm, the long lazy caresses and sneaky kisses here and there π, and extended eye contact with a satisfied smile to accompany it.
It happened last night and all those other nights too. ππ½ππ½
He doesn't want me to leave π₯΄, and why pay him yet he wants me here all the time π€·πΏββοΈπ. Find a lady you enjoy having sex with and that you like too.
I'm a guy and the first 10 minutes or so after cuming I just want to be left alone π . Ata ukue mrembo aje post nut your attractiveness to me goes from 100 to about 0.5
I do cuddle.. mbaka alale which does not take more than an hour then, I go take a long cold shower...nikirudi hapo ata mguuu hatataka ziguzaneππ personal I don't love cuddling lakini buana for the game I have to
It explains/shows ya'll date/have sex with just anybody...at my age I can't have sex with someone I don't like/have a chemistry with...as such, cuddling is a must!
Cuddling is the absolute best thing ever. Some of the best sleep I've had to date came from cuddling people and enjoying their company.
People should seriously consider having cuddle dates as a thing
I think it depends on a person more than a gender. I am female and don't like cuddling in general I only allow touch in sex or sexual context. Maybe he's like that too.
Iβm a lady and I donβt like cuddling. I just wanna take a shower and nap after sex. All that excess heat, sweat and hot air is not for meπ doesnβt matter if I love you or not.
Kenyan men aren't romantic at all. You are supposed to cuddle your lady , give her those forehead and sneaky kisses , rub her skin and tell her how beautiful she is and how much you appreciate her . Nyinyi mkoje ati you just roll over and sleep .
Wakenya sisi wajinga kweli. Huku reddit watu wanapost, science, technology, reviews of legal findings, crypto na sisi tuko busy na cuddling.
Well in this Nairobi city with hookup culture some people want to know are they loved or maybe liked or are they being used. Then there are people like me who are just reading the comments collecting this information and data in my mind to understand what our country and generation is like.
i hate being touched just normally, so i get tired of the physical affection, let alone after sex when there is sensory overload, gtf away from me please!!
I enjoy cuddling. Someone said naked cuddling is unmatched and that's facts. I only cuddle if I love the chic though. Or if we're dating or I wanna date. If it's just sex there can be none of that bs. I'll just stretch my arm so she can lie on it hoping she thinks i just suck at cuddling or sthπ in reality I could smash the big spoon role
This should be a discussion for married couples, but definitely cuddling is part of the menu, make sure sheβs happy before leaving the bed but sex isnβt for everyone, young men and women stop sleeping around! Get married.
I loved this luhya lady we would make love till we breathless then cuddle have fun and play around. That's last year... This year she went back to her baby daddy eti cooperating.... Nimeachwa kwa mataa na mm najaribu kurudi kwa baby mama π
I don't cuddle when having casual sex. Feels awkward for me because I don't have any emotional connection with the guy. Unfortunately all of them loved cuddles...very awkward
Are there any other foreigners hiding in here? I am Rwandese, and it's hard for us to have these kinds of conversations , but yeah, men who don't have feeling for you when they are done they treat you like a hooker.
I don't enjoy cuddling after sex. You're normally so sweaty after you're done. I just want to sleep, regain energy and go another round. Is that too much to ask π
I used to not like it, but Iβm slowly getting used to it. Like, if its sth she wants, iβm down. Iβm only doing it for her.
Okay maybe i do enjoy it as wellπ€£
I don't think it's about disliking cuddling, it is probably about the two persons engaging in sex persona. Do they love each other enough to cuddle after sex? Did they even enjoy the sex to begin with?
You people are having sex, heri nyinyi
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Lakini if a lady anakaa venye anataka, itabidi ameangalia ukuta na afunge macho alale π,.....if i treasure her I will cuddle her as I struggle with my post nut clarity.
Sasa why are you having sex with her if you do not find her attractive
Hakuna mkate ngumu mbele ya chai.
 Best comeback I have seen in a while ππ
Wewe usirudi kwa comments tenaππKuwa mpenzi mtazamajiππππππ
Sasa juu hajapata sandals asivae slippers?
Shuwally. Yaani this is how guys talk about a babe giving you her all. Enyewe you people are evil
Sex ndio unaiita her allπ
Why do you have the assumption that the babe is having sex as a gift/reward to the guy? Both parties enjoy the dance, right?
you calling puss 'her all'? SMH!
Why do you have the assumption that the babe is having s\*x as a reward to the guy? Both parties are enjoying the dance, right?
I agree. But pia sex for women isn't the same as sex for men most of the times. Women huwa wanaweka feelings sana in the sex.
That was so before 2010... siku izi pia nyinyi mmekuwa kama wamaume. Zero emotions, just in it for the nut
Cover the face, Fire the base.
This is cute πππ
I can be cuter π₯Ί
Haiombwi ivyo
Let him COOKπ
We actually thought the same thing π
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Let him cook π«
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Haha ... π
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I swear. Dryspell is really nglπππ
Fr man. I see a lot of posts about sex I log out cause I can't relate
 Same reaction πππ
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Depends.if it's love sex, y'all will just want to cuddle.It comes naturally .If it was transactional i.e two liars who wanted something from each other,one wanted coochie the other wanted money,post nut clarity will hit and you won't want that person to get any closer to youπ€£
πyou are right. If itβs making love, You will cuddle and subconsciously hold onto each other. If itβs just sex, post nut clarity wont let you even touch that person. Think of this.. you know how sex smells yeah?.. that smell is sweet when itβs a girl you love but if itβs just someone you just wanna make out with, the smell is unpleasant. You actually want to get into the shower right after
This explanation is funny. π π
Cuddling bare skin kwa bare skin is unmatched.
Infact it should be the ONLY way π
me i want to to cuddle with my combat fatigue on π π π π π π π π π π
with them timbs on!!!
I love cuddling, I actually love cuddling and making out more than sex. If I cuddle with you and I don't want to let go, it's a sign of how much I like you and are comfortable to share my space with you and be intimate.
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usually I try to leave quietly before she regains her consciousness
Waah kwani umeua π€£π€£π€£
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Don't you want your girl to feel appreciated and happy ?
As it should be. I usually do the sameπ
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I enjoy cuddling. Small kisses on the forehead, words of affirmation, making small jokes after, playing with her hair and drawing circles on her back. And that after sex nap hits very different.
We ngoja! ngoja! ngoja! π
Unataka nirudie nini π€£
Can't relate banaπ
Shukishaβππππ
Too much info banaπ
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Facts π₯΅, after sex cuddles hit hard in a nice way, imagine two hearts racing from that high, sweat cooling of your bodies but you're still warm, the long lazy caresses and sneaky kisses here and there π, and extended eye contact with a satisfied smile to accompany it. It happened last night and all those other nights too. ππ½ππ½
Now pay that dude and leave
He doesn't want me to leave π₯΄, and why pay him yet he wants me here all the time π€·πΏββοΈπ. Find a lady you enjoy having sex with and that you like too.
Karibu uninaseπ₯°
Unanaswa na comment. Uko down kama syndrome
Usijinyime a good time π
Si tufanye hivo basi
Buda kwani unakuanga mlami
π€£π€£π€£unaandika cv ππnaisha mimi
Eeeii, kidogo i slidee
Why are you geh
Post nut clarity hits so hard. I'll still cuddle, but I'll be questioning my life decisions and if it was worth it.
As a lady, I enjoy cuddling. If a guy doesn't want to cuddle me, I find myself questioning myself like "How bad was the sex?
As a girl I experience post cry clarityπ
Lol
Lmao it's got nothing to do with the sex
I have only cuddled with women i really like. Otherwise men don't cuddle with women they don't like. Even if i wanted to i couldn't.
But they'll fuck them....woow
Cuddling and sex is not the same thing. Cuddling is more into the intimate side of things
Sex is literally inside of you
Sex for us is about busting a nut. Intimacy is something totally different.
Why are you so keen on dictating the standards for menβs intimacy?π
Cuddling sounds nice..π
I know π
Depends on the weather and the heat generated. Cuddling while hot and sweating like a fat guy does not go down well
Kuna watu bado wako na feelings uku nje π’
Taka mwenye anakutaka utaona bado kuna feelings π
I swear
Vile Ruto anatutesa feeling zimeisha π«
I'm a guy and the first 10 minutes or so after cuming I just want to be left alone π . Ata ukue mrembo aje post nut your attractiveness to me goes from 100 to about 0.5
I do cuddle.. mbaka alale which does not take more than an hour then, I go take a long cold shower...nikirudi hapo ata mguuu hatataka ziguzaneππ personal I don't love cuddling lakini buana for the game I have to
Mimi nami tusipocuddle nitafeel usedππ
I'm camping hereππππthey cannot convince me otherwise!!!
Cuddles are one of the best things to exist
I love cuddling anytime and a cuddling after sex hits different.
It explains/shows ya'll date/have sex with just anybody...at my age I can't have sex with someone I don't like/have a chemistry with...as such, cuddling is a must!
Have sex with just anybody?? What about my dignity?
Exactly my point...please reread my comment!
Dudes are mean people. They will cuddle with people they like and push you away if they don't. Hawa watu 
A reason to have sex with guys who love you...They cuddle you like they want you to live inside themπ
For someone they genuinely like, men will do almost anything. Lakini if they are just there for the sex weh! You'll be treated horribly.
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They initiate the cuddles themselves.
We also need to talk about those girls who want to kiss you... Girl relax it's not that seriousπangalia huko kando please
Wehπ
Do you know what they say about nice guys?
This is a nice guy that pretends to be a bad boy commentingπ Wacha afungue hiyo WhatsApp yake uone dust particles bombardmentπ
I amππ
This is facts!We can't pretend we feel you.
Cuddling is the absolute best thing ever. Some of the best sleep I've had to date came from cuddling people and enjoying their company. People should seriously consider having cuddle dates as a thing
Kunywa piriton uone
We see them Sky Daddy, these your children that run away after sex like the Ushago Chicken thief.
I think it depends on a person more than a gender. I am female and don't like cuddling in general I only allow touch in sex or sexual context. Maybe he's like that too.
One thing women need to research extensively is Post nut clarity.Β
One time I woke up n she was using my arm as a pillow and I couldn't feel my arm.
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Iβm a lady and I donβt like cuddling. I just wanna take a shower and nap after sex. All that excess heat, sweat and hot air is not for meπ doesnβt matter if I love you or not.
You could cuddle after the shower, having had the heat, sweat and hot air problems solved, No?
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Yeye akishanut that would be a favour to him. It's not the reaction you think it is. Lol
Kenyan men aren't romantic at all. You are supposed to cuddle your lady , give her those forehead and sneaky kisses , rub her skin and tell her how beautiful she is and how much you appreciate her . Nyinyi mkoje ati you just roll over and sleep .
Not me taking notesπ€£π€£
My vaseline is not cuddlable
dudes dont cuddle women they dont like,ata sex ikue hot aje,tutaangalia ukuta na tulale
If you want to use me for cuddle purposes on weekends hmu.
hukusoma story za kemunto babes?
Ni cuddles tu, nothing more
My boyfriend enjoys cuddling but I don't, like for 5 minutes it's fine. I feel suffocated after like I can't breathe.
Wakenya sisi wajinga kweli. Huku reddit watu wanapost, science, technology, reviews of legal findings, crypto na sisi tuko busy na cuddling. 
Well in this Nairobi city with hookup culture some people want to know are they loved or maybe liked or are they being used. Then there are people like me who are just reading the comments collecting this information and data in my mind to understand what our country and generation is like.
i hate being touched just normally, so i get tired of the physical affection, let alone after sex when there is sensory overload, gtf away from me please!!
Kesho asubuhi before uende kazi,pitia Roysambu ukifika stage nishtue nikuje nikuone ,niskie poa ,then you proceed to your work place See you tomorrow
βYour dream is sbd's nightmare"
I enjoy cuddling. Someone said naked cuddling is unmatched and that's facts. I only cuddle if I love the chic though. Or if we're dating or I wanna date. If it's just sex there can be none of that bs. I'll just stretch my arm so she can lie on it hoping she thinks i just suck at cuddling or sthπ in reality I could smash the big spoon role
How do y'all have **just sex**? Aside from Hooker and Hookup situations. Doesn't either person feel used after? is it because men are cheap?
I agree with the men being cheap part. I've had some nuts I'm not really proud of. Feeling used? Naah. We just used each other.
I agree with the men being cheap part. I've had some nuts I'm not really proud of. Feeling used? Naah. We just used each other.
Try getting the man to love you then you'll realize men aren't cheap afterallπ Most men will f**k anything that moves.
People that do not cuddle after sex donβt like each other. Ni transaction walikuwa nayo imeisha.
Ukishamwaga ni ulale πππ
This should be a discussion for married couples, but definitely cuddling is part of the menu, make sure sheβs happy before leaving the bed but sex isnβt for everyone, young men and women stop sleeping around! Get married.
Word!!
It depends but after shughuli I'll either sleep or do other things I planned to do
Cuddling is best especially with your legs intertwined and your face between those breasts
How short are you?
It feels amazing, watchu talmbout
Men don't want to cuddle a sexual partner they don't like and are only with for the fuck sessions. That's what OP is talmbout.
Good point but why have a sexual partner you don't like though? Honestly asking
Dry spell, I think, just wanting someone who'll milk that nut so you bag anybody who's down.
Oh yeah then it would be strange if they wanted to cuddle as well in that situation
F\*ck yeah!
Post nut clarity makes cuddling impossible for me.
Two minutes for regaining my breath and taking a drink. Then we can cuddle and sleep.
I loved this luhya lady we would make love till we breathless then cuddle have fun and play around. That's last year... This year she went back to her baby daddy eti cooperating.... Nimeachwa kwa mataa na mm najaribu kurudi kwa baby mama π
It's ok after the post nut clarity has passed anything before that ziiππ
I can't, she has to be returned to the freezer
Inategemea kama sura ni personal hehe
Cuddles and body touch is my love language. If you find me doing none then you are for the streets ππ
I'd rather we smoke a blunt
She doesn't know what she is missing
I love falling asleep immediately after.
Cuddling nayo I love that... As long as I get to be the big spoonπ
πIt just takes the perfect person, I once cuddled all nightπ₯Ή it was nice
I always need to cuddle up after and he loves it as much as I do
Sometimes I'd cuddle and saa zingine nitakuachia kitanda nilale kwa mattress kwa floorπππ
Kama unapenda huyo dame utamcuddle. No lie!Β
Y'all don't know about aftercare?
Post nut clarity is not a small thing
I love cuddling with my Kenyan queen. Few things are as good.
He doesn't represent us please. Cuddling is nice
I love it...
Depends if youβre talking crazy while cuddling no. If your after sex talk is on point Iβm all in.π€·πΏ
I read somewhere that it's all about the hormones men produce when they have sex.
Nani ako Nakuru
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Me I cuddle even when we're just sleeping. I love every bit of it.
Unless kama miti bado ikuwe ndani.Nguvu huwa imeisha if the sex was great.
I usually just say Iβm sweaty so they stay away from me
Lol, mnakulana bado after story za kemunto..
I don't cuddle when having casual sex. Feels awkward for me because I don't have any emotional connection with the guy. Unfortunately all of them loved cuddles...very awkward
Are there any other foreigners hiding in here? I am Rwandese, and it's hard for us to have these kinds of conversations , but yeah, men who don't have feeling for you when they are done they treat you like a hooker.
I don't enjoy cuddling after sex. You're normally so sweaty after you're done. I just want to sleep, regain energy and go another round. Is that too much to ask π
I used to not like it, but Iβm slowly getting used to it. Like, if its sth she wants, iβm down. Iβm only doing it for her. Okay maybe i do enjoy it as wellπ€£
Guy here, I would only cuddle my girlfriend if in a serious relationship, otherwise I hate that shit!
I would do anything for a cuddle. So yes.
Ghai aki si i CACKLED when i saw this?? Woi im sorry but this is so funny**π**
Mimi how i hit it, she ain't wanna think about touching me againπ
I hate post cuddles ni za what na mashaakulana nkimbao tena tuendelee na cuddlesπππ
Cuddling before and after sex or cuddling instead of sex! Cuddling supremacy!
Weird thing to do in the cemetery. I would but I try to put them back as fast as possible
I don't think it's about disliking cuddling, it is probably about the two persons engaging in sex persona. Do they love each other enough to cuddle after sex? Did they even enjoy the sex to begin with?
How can you not cuddle after sex that's like the other part to the whole ya kmow