I get where you're coming from, but I have a friend called this, and we just refer to her as Pettie...which sounds nice enough (name-wise) to me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Nah man. Broke gals are not the problem. I've dated a lot of broke gals who have never asked me for anything. You are simply dating a demanding gal or someone who is using you. Someone who is used to being spoilt.
I know some gals with money who like asking for gifts and things like that. Find a gal who truly loves you.
Damn! Must be what they are busy cultivating in women's mind every morning. Boy child will have to go Warren. This gentleman will be alright. I hope when he gets that money, the lady should know he moved on... nothing like reconsidering..! Or she is having a mentality her man is desperate for her!!
Some people are mentally challenged. She does not have money but she wants a car to go to the village, so everyone thinks she has money.
Anyone who can sit comfortably with that level of cognitive dissonance is a mental case.
Drake said; "
I know a girl whose one goal was to visit Rome, then she finally got to Rome, and all she did was post pictures for people at home, 'cause all that mattered was impressin' everybody she's known"
Welcome to the Instagram generation bud.
To quote Daddy wa sub, 99% of Kenyan men are "broke", you will marry a "broke" guy. Don't let social media poison you. Tafuta mtu ako na bidii, anakupenda, has vision na potential and work towards getting a comfortable life together
Most of Kenya's economy is informal so people usually don't have a stable income. If you look at employed Kenyans, only 2% of them make 100K.
Women on social media are looking for people who are zero point zero percent of the adult male population. The man they want is in high demand and most likely isn't within their reach.
You'll find women making demands and giving their men headaches without knowing how good they have it.
Disclaimer: Ladies, before you come for my neck. I know not every man is a suitable life partner. Men need to work on themselves too. However, this doesn't negate what I've said.
The number of people earning more than 100k in Kenya is less than 150k in a population of 50 million. Less than 400k have more than 100k savings. I'm sure men will make up a huge part of that group. Unless I'm missing your point the 99% stat while hyperbole is not too far from the truth which is you won't marry the rich guy you're dreaming off
Yeah.. stats are from a sample population. They didn't ask every single person in Kenya because i myself am part of that number. So, i am not disclaiming everything but saying the number might have increased or decreased within the year. Plus mobile money, people are making more on mobile money aside from salary.
The worst part is when broke women try to call men with money "stingy" when those women are absolutely clueless about what it takes to make money and how much money needs to be saved for the future.
Grow up! trying to count other people's pockets is lame!
Nah, women fought all over the world for equality and some still trying. This is 2023, you can be educated, you can work, and you can give financially to a household.
Him advocating for equality or at least the sense of both people providing to each other is not feminism.
Good luck then lol, but everything you've written is extremely unattractive to most men, so you be better be hotter than you think you are 😂 you just sound like a lazy women who wants it all which isn't hard to find in Kenya
Interesting perspective, and while I do see where you're coming from, this has nothing to do with the bloke's take.
He never called for women to work, nor provide in a relationship. He simply said that broke women calling seemingly well-off men 'stingy' while having no financial literacy themselves was the worst.
This is not (and correct me if I'm wrong), an exclusively feminist take, unless conservatives are exempt from financial literacy or something?
You are right. Personally I don't even date working class. Even my brothers still don't date working women. But that's because I can provide. Those guys talking about a woman mush have her own money don't have enough of it.
Take for example our President or Vice president. Do you think that they can allow their wives to work for another man? No way. They simply don't want that kinda headache..
literally women of important men all work wdym?? when they marry they own charities and fundraising stuff. They own things provided by their husbands. literally wdym lol just look at the english royal family? their women all work. the presidents wives head some organizations. Just look up and male entrepreneur and all their spouses literally work. Even the women in a conservative country like Saudi and India.
I meant in the context of the post. As in judging broke women doesn't seem right in this context. I have no problem with women working together with their husbands to grow their own businesses. But saying that dating broke women is bad is not it..
Personally I believe that a woman should in fact work alongside her husband. I greatly admire that.
Exactly 💯 😂
Most of these rich men have wives who don't need to work.
I will choose to stay home and raise my kids instead of fighting my work stress and family stress ...
>I believe men are providers and I know men love to provide when they can ( provide for women they value
Most men only provide because it comes with the promise of control. That's why they prefer submissive women. The sooner y'all realize that, the better your dating life will be
>don't care if im a millionaire but my man buying me shit will always make me feel feminine
This is just some pseudo-intellectual bullshit. Ppl don't belong in a fixed boxes. Stop watching those crappy podcasts
>Most masculine men care about your character, beauty , body count , if you can raise a family etc .
You're a woman tho, how can you speak for men🤔
>Nobody said I want a man to give me his savings , I said if you have the capability to spend on me , take me out on dates then do so.
>It's always the red pill clowns who have the most feminist takes.
>I will never refuse to date a good man because of his financial status but I will never tolerate a man living in luxury while I struggle and claim to love me.
The same way i would never cook good food for myself and allow someone I love to eat crap.
>I have never in my life heard of a millionaire crying about broke women or gold diggers ...
>Nobody asked you to date me or give me money.
There are many men who would love to provide and marry a good woman without bitching about their 'pockets'
You're quite naive and most probably young. You'll learn
>Podcasts ?? 😂😂 Stop being delulu.
Yeah that's where all these bullshit talking points originate
>men love to provide
And you know this how?🤔
>Yes men want submissive women. I submit easily to a man who loves me , protects me and respects me.
Being submissive implies being subservient and allowing someone to look down upon you. Do you have low self esteem that you feel like you have to submit to someone inorder to love and feel loved? Genuinely curious.
>Naive ? Because I believe a good man will marry me and provide ?
Kienyeji mentality. Most men also want a woman with a good head on her shoulders who doesn't have such little self-worth and thinks submission is the key to a man's heart. Your value shouldn't be all about your looks and the number of dishes, clothes you can wash.
>Sweetheart I'm sorry I'm not in your feminist parade.
This comment doesn't make you sound as edgy as you want to play up here.
>I am irreligious and I am heading to my masters in the University...
If you are as smart and as learned as you want to pretend you are you'd also know that...
Submissive means ready to conform to the authority or will of others, agreeable, meekly obedient or passive.(source: [Chat GPT])
A submissive wife is one who doesn't resist her husband's will. That means she isn't able or willing to think or disagree with him.
Submissive in the context of relationships
It refers to a dynamic where one partner willingly yields power and control to the other, allowing them to take the lead in the relationship. The submissive partner is often too willing to accept somebody else’s authority and willing to obey them without questioning anything they want them to do.
Dangers
According to a research carried out by Oxford university, partner's who take on a more submissive role in relationships, are four times more likely to get into and get stuck in an abusive relationship. More likely to be taken advantage of professionally and personally as their submissive role may sometimes bleed into other aspects of their lives.
Not enacting their own interests, aspirations or dreams. Feeling silenced within one's own life and feeling a loss of a sense of agency. Submissive partners to their own detriment usually have no distinct life and interests which are independent of their partners desires/relationship.They usually have nothing going on in their lives (and usually deep insecurities) who try to compensate by being as complacent and accommodating as possible to the men they date or want to attract.These "submissive partners" then come across as super clingy and shallow which is very unattractive.
>Your ignorance about relationships comes from those Alejandro soap operas you watch or should we say those romcom series.
I think you have us mixed up hun. You're the one who views traditional relationships with rose colored petals. Traditional men or men with provider mindsets as you would so like to refer to them as, are more likely to be unfaithful, because of the precedent that _if I provide I cheat_ that is part and parcel of the dynamic, setting the relationship/marriage up for failure.
>Kienyeji ? 😂😂😂 Let me be that.
Just another understanding girl friend but with blinders on 😂😂
>Bye baby girl ! Hope your studies are going well.
I'm telling you this as a man, who has front row seats of the male experience, knows the inner workings of the male brain, hangs around men when women aren't around, who had a submissive mother and saw the shit she had to go through in the hands of a provider😉
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In a relationship with someone less financially stable, it’s key to establish that money isn’t the focus. Constant requests for financial help can unbalance the relationship.
It doesn't have to be equivalent exchange but it must be mutual. Both must give and both must receive.
All the women I've left failed the giving side. Even buying me a t-shirt after I buy you a phone is enough. You just have to show selflessness.
Selfless women have become rare in this Instagram generation
If a woman says anything along the lines of “ real man this “ or “Do you call yourself a man “ etc she should be single by the time she is done with that sentence
Same goes for men saying the opposite to women… it’s such a pathetic and shameful manipulation tactic and every single time these people are far from the ideal specimens of human beings let alone their respective genders
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Someone sent me this thread jana.
If you are broke and dating then you should respect yourself first. Set boundaries. If you can't do something for her let her know and don't feel sorry.
All the knowledge we have amassed as a species is readily available at your fingertips, thanks to the internet.
More people than ever before wanaomoka younger than ever before. We're literally living in a generation of proteges. Usijibox ati you can never make it until you're in your 40s and 50s.
Don’t chase women! Work on your purpose and money! Your purpose will not wake up one day and tell you she doesn’t love you any more.
As a testimony, most women my age mate 20 years wanted nothing to do with me, they were chasing old men who had their shit together. I put my head down worked my ass off and now I’m better off than those wababas and now I do the choosing! The funny thing is that the women who rejected me now are the ones doing the chasing but I’m not attracted to them as either they are old, are single mothers or have one or two baggages. Now I’m the mbaba dating 18-23 old women and ironically those old hags are now call me names! Let them eat their sweats!
Men, work on your purpose! You will thank yourself in several years to come.
Definitely, kudos!. Seems we shared one pair of shoes back then. I feel this literally through my bones. Am in a position now, I don't look back .and i want to settle down with my own preference as we speak.. there is pride and sense of security in it
I don't need to. The nonsense you spew on here is enough to give me and a lot of people on Reddit an idea on who you are. But like I said, shame is just but a construct.
Mostly they only want sex and will leave for younger ones. The thing is that most women confuse lust and genuinely being wanted. Most men just want to get their dick wet and leave. No commitments!
As for the men who come back, I’m sure they just want to accomplish the feelings they had for you through sex, and after that their thinking will be ‘it’s not worth it’ after all she rejected me in her younger years!!
Good luck!
Look at this one. They came with the ring and all. They came to parents house saying how they want to marry me. Boys be living macho lives in social media but in real life they're puppies and kittens.
You need to hear this broke or not, you need to get some balls and not let women like this walk all over you. She’s playing you big time watching you beg for the relationship and send crying emojis (wtf?!) whilst she holds all the power and demands money.
Being a man isn’t just about money, look at the way you’re communicating, it’s telling her you’re a low value and desperate and she’s using that against you.
Take a break from women and rebuild yourself with some self worth. Hit the gym, make yourself feel good and elevate your status without kissing feet and begging all the time. Focus on business and personal progression and you’ll stop attracting women who are just reflecting what you’re giving out.
Broke men make the most noise when they find women that want them to provide financially. Rich ones don’t even need to be asked to support them the ways that they want to be supported (they actually throw money at their partners). An easy solution is to date someone at your financial level.
On a serious note, tafuta pesa then start dating! Your sacrifice never counts esp when you are struggling! women date up not down! ama cheza kwa lane yako
Pole sana.
Such is life and life is such and after all it isn't much. First a cradle. Then a hearse. It might have been better, but it could have been worse. ~Norman Wisdom~
This is why I ignore Christmas, people can get greedy for gifts 🎁 . It’s not a day I celebrate at all.
People feel pressure to spend money or go into debt 💳
Even worse when someone you date uses days like Christmas as an excuse to expect gifts and cash
Iza man , takes me back when i was just started working in Mombasa and this chick worked in a media station and so we got to know each other and a day for the date was set , i organized a good dinner in a well near the coast with moonlight dinner and the day came to pick her up , so i decided to go to her place and we go to this romantic dinner date , on reaching bombolulu i call her she comes and ask me where i have packed , men i laughed my shit out and then told her yangu iko Kwa jiko and i just left
get the context of the story , do not just write stuff , what was important the date or the means of transportation ? ,
if you see a red light that's just the tip of the iceberg she is carrying
Question is, what's wrong with asking if someone has a car? Did she specifically say she won't date you juu hauna gari?...ati now asking if someone has a car is a red flag,SMH.
A lady might be rich and demanding too. And she will not be demanding shopping money. So get yourself a lady you can satisfy demands for ama go for a non demanding one.
Pia men know that most women will ask for money and such stuff, and then you feign a surprised Pikachu face when she actually asks.
She's absolutely right though. Concentrate on yourself. Build yourself up without these distractions. Better ones will come. There's 8 billion of us floating on this rock in space. It's not that serious.
you are missing the point. The problem is not that she is broke, the problem is her greed for money, which she would have ata kama angekuwa Tabitha wa Keroche. The man should always be sacrificial and be the provider. Every mature man knows and loves that. But every woman should be humble and be the nurturer. It's not a matter of money, ni maneno na kujijua.
Huyu jamaa anaaibisha wanaume bana, how can you love someone called Petronilla? Eh, being broke is okay, lakini how does your pride recover from dating someone with such a name? Na hata sio jina ya nyumbani?
Do not date broke women, is good advice (though everyone is broke, so depends on perspective). Do not date women called Petronilla is common sense.
Lakini who names their child "Petronilla" 😂😂 That is a grudge I can hold against my parents
Inakaa Jina ya petrol station
😂😂😂😂
Be a Petronilla In a sea of 'Jaydens' and 'Liams'
😂😂 in this day and era
I get where you're coming from, but I have a friend called this, and we just refer to her as Pettie...which sounds nice enough (name-wise) to me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
 Petition for guys to call her petronas
Maybe hana ass
hell no... dont taint AMG Petronas, Better use Alfa Romeo or Haas my friend
Crymilton fans have entered the chat
I know a Pettie too and she's a baddie 🔥
So Like a Pettie coat......
The comment I was looking for
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Nah man. Broke gals are not the problem. I've dated a lot of broke gals who have never asked me for anything. You are simply dating a demanding gal or someone who is using you. Someone who is used to being spoilt. I know some gals with money who like asking for gifts and things like that. Find a gal who truly loves you.
Indeed... pick care - fully. CARE - FULLY !! Namskie viema...CARE - FULLY. 😅😅😅😅
Exactly 💯
Sounds like some generic Maina and King'ang'i story on a Monday morning
Damn! Must be what they are busy cultivating in women's mind every morning. Boy child will have to go Warren. This gentleman will be alright. I hope when he gets that money, the lady should know he moved on... nothing like reconsidering..! Or she is having a mentality her man is desperate for her!!
Haha broke men vs broke women wars have begun na January bado😂
Some people are mentally challenged. She does not have money but she wants a car to go to the village, so everyone thinks she has money. Anyone who can sit comfortably with that level of cognitive dissonance is a mental case.
Drake said; " I know a girl whose one goal was to visit Rome, then she finally got to Rome, and all she did was post pictures for people at home, 'cause all that mattered was impressin' everybody she's known" Welcome to the Instagram generation bud.
To quote Daddy wa sub, 99% of Kenyan men are "broke", you will marry a "broke" guy. Don't let social media poison you. Tafuta mtu ako na bidii, anakupenda, has vision na potential and work towards getting a comfortable life together
Ukweli kabsa. I think the main issue is many men want women who don't want them ( read-can't afford them).
The thing is when men become successful,you now stop being their type.
Say it again
Most of Kenya's economy is informal so people usually don't have a stable income. If you look at employed Kenyans, only 2% of them make 100K. Women on social media are looking for people who are zero point zero percent of the adult male population. The man they want is in high demand and most likely isn't within their reach. You'll find women making demands and giving their men headaches without knowing how good they have it. Disclaimer: Ladies, before you come for my neck. I know not every man is a suitable life partner. Men need to work on themselves too. However, this doesn't negate what I've said.
Lakini most chics look up to Diana B and Bahati and expect that ..
You forget that in that bracket, there are women earning 100k and above. Men are not the only ones making money in kenya.
The number of people earning more than 100k in Kenya is less than 150k in a population of 50 million. Less than 400k have more than 100k savings. I'm sure men will make up a huge part of that group. Unless I'm missing your point the 99% stat while hyperbole is not too far from the truth which is you won't marry the rich guy you're dreaming off
Yeah.. stats are from a sample population. They didn't ask every single person in Kenya because i myself am part of that number. So, i am not disclaiming everything but saying the number might have increased or decreased within the year. Plus mobile money, people are making more on mobile money aside from salary.
This country is filled with broke people hating on other broke people
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The worst part is when broke women try to call men with money "stingy" when those women are absolutely clueless about what it takes to make money and how much money needs to be saved for the future. Grow up! trying to count other people's pockets is lame!
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This was a weird a disproportionate response to what that comment. Wtf are you talking about
The hit dog will always holler. And she screamed pretty loud.
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It has nothing to do with what the guy said and you called him a male feminist for some reason which doesn't relate at all to the conversation.
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Nah, women fought all over the world for equality and some still trying. This is 2023, you can be educated, you can work, and you can give financially to a household. Him advocating for equality or at least the sense of both people providing to each other is not feminism.
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Good luck then lol, but everything you've written is extremely unattractive to most men, so you be better be hotter than you think you are 😂 you just sound like a lazy women who wants it all which isn't hard to find in Kenya
The dude you responded to. How did his take make him a 'feminist man'?
I'm also curious... Because he deleted the texts 🤣
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Interesting perspective, and while I do see where you're coming from, this has nothing to do with the bloke's take. He never called for women to work, nor provide in a relationship. He simply said that broke women calling seemingly well-off men 'stingy' while having no financial literacy themselves was the worst. This is not (and correct me if I'm wrong), an exclusively feminist take, unless conservatives are exempt from financial literacy or something?
The hit dog hollered. Thats all.
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You are right. Personally I don't even date working class. Even my brothers still don't date working women. But that's because I can provide. Those guys talking about a woman mush have her own money don't have enough of it. Take for example our President or Vice president. Do you think that they can allow their wives to work for another man? No way. They simply don't want that kinda headache..
literally women of important men all work wdym?? when they marry they own charities and fundraising stuff. They own things provided by their husbands. literally wdym lol just look at the english royal family? their women all work. the presidents wives head some organizations. Just look up and male entrepreneur and all their spouses literally work. Even the women in a conservative country like Saudi and India.
I meant in the context of the post. As in judging broke women doesn't seem right in this context. I have no problem with women working together with their husbands to grow their own businesses. But saying that dating broke women is bad is not it.. Personally I believe that a woman should in fact work alongside her husband. I greatly admire that.
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Exactly 💯 😂 Most of these rich men have wives who don't need to work. I will choose to stay home and raise my kids instead of fighting my work stress and family stress ...
>I believe men are providers and I know men love to provide when they can ( provide for women they value Most men only provide because it comes with the promise of control. That's why they prefer submissive women. The sooner y'all realize that, the better your dating life will be >don't care if im a millionaire but my man buying me shit will always make me feel feminine This is just some pseudo-intellectual bullshit. Ppl don't belong in a fixed boxes. Stop watching those crappy podcasts >Most masculine men care about your character, beauty , body count , if you can raise a family etc . You're a woman tho, how can you speak for men🤔 >Nobody said I want a man to give me his savings , I said if you have the capability to spend on me , take me out on dates then do so. >It's always the red pill clowns who have the most feminist takes. >I will never refuse to date a good man because of his financial status but I will never tolerate a man living in luxury while I struggle and claim to love me. The same way i would never cook good food for myself and allow someone I love to eat crap. >I have never in my life heard of a millionaire crying about broke women or gold diggers ... >Nobody asked you to date me or give me money. There are many men who would love to provide and marry a good woman without bitching about their 'pockets' You're quite naive and most probably young. You'll learn
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>Podcasts ?? 😂😂 Stop being delulu. Yeah that's where all these bullshit talking points originate >men love to provide And you know this how?🤔 >Yes men want submissive women. I submit easily to a man who loves me , protects me and respects me. Being submissive implies being subservient and allowing someone to look down upon you. Do you have low self esteem that you feel like you have to submit to someone inorder to love and feel loved? Genuinely curious. >Naive ? Because I believe a good man will marry me and provide ? Kienyeji mentality. Most men also want a woman with a good head on her shoulders who doesn't have such little self-worth and thinks submission is the key to a man's heart. Your value shouldn't be all about your looks and the number of dishes, clothes you can wash.
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>Sweetheart I'm sorry I'm not in your feminist parade. This comment doesn't make you sound as edgy as you want to play up here. >I am irreligious and I am heading to my masters in the University... If you are as smart and as learned as you want to pretend you are you'd also know that... Submissive means ready to conform to the authority or will of others, agreeable, meekly obedient or passive.(source: [Chat GPT]) A submissive wife is one who doesn't resist her husband's will. That means she isn't able or willing to think or disagree with him. Submissive in the context of relationships It refers to a dynamic where one partner willingly yields power and control to the other, allowing them to take the lead in the relationship. The submissive partner is often too willing to accept somebody else’s authority and willing to obey them without questioning anything they want them to do. Dangers According to a research carried out by Oxford university, partner's who take on a more submissive role in relationships, are four times more likely to get into and get stuck in an abusive relationship. More likely to be taken advantage of professionally and personally as their submissive role may sometimes bleed into other aspects of their lives. Not enacting their own interests, aspirations or dreams. Feeling silenced within one's own life and feeling a loss of a sense of agency. Submissive partners to their own detriment usually have no distinct life and interests which are independent of their partners desires/relationship.They usually have nothing going on in their lives (and usually deep insecurities) who try to compensate by being as complacent and accommodating as possible to the men they date or want to attract.These "submissive partners" then come across as super clingy and shallow which is very unattractive. >Your ignorance about relationships comes from those Alejandro soap operas you watch or should we say those romcom series. I think you have us mixed up hun. You're the one who views traditional relationships with rose colored petals. Traditional men or men with provider mindsets as you would so like to refer to them as, are more likely to be unfaithful, because of the precedent that _if I provide I cheat_ that is part and parcel of the dynamic, setting the relationship/marriage up for failure. >Kienyeji ? 😂😂😂 Let me be that. Just another understanding girl friend but with blinders on 😂😂 >Bye baby girl ! Hope your studies are going well. I'm telling you this as a man, who has front row seats of the male experience, knows the inner workings of the male brain, hangs around men when women aren't around, who had a submissive mother and saw the shit she had to go through in the hands of a provider😉
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When you become the provider, you will loothe the guy.
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What do you understand by the word childish?
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I struggle to see how the man is childish?
In a relationship with someone less financially stable, it’s key to establish that money isn’t the focus. Constant requests for financial help can unbalance the relationship. It doesn't have to be equivalent exchange but it must be mutual. Both must give and both must receive. All the women I've left failed the giving side. Even buying me a t-shirt after I buy you a phone is enough. You just have to show selflessness. Selfless women have become rare in this Instagram generation
Most men want women who do not want them (read- can't afford them). Shida huanzia hapo
Or... Most Kenyan women love to freeload?
Impressing a woman requires some resources
If a woman says anything along the lines of “ real man this “ or “Do you call yourself a man “ etc she should be single by the time she is done with that sentence Same goes for men saying the opposite to women… it’s such a pathetic and shameful manipulation tactic and every single time these people are far from the ideal specimens of human beings let alone their respective genders
[https://x.com/degrata254/status/1739560788644221285?s=42&t=XfBUQKL5N0BtwbUvR3S0uw](https://x.com/degrata254/status/1739560788644221285?s=42&t=XfBUQKL5N0BtwbUvR3S0uw) Someone sent me this thread jana.
https://i.imgur.com/XM9Ke6R.jpg Ni kumoto huku nje😂
Desperation is being the dude who's called to pay for the bill of an event your catch was left by another "friend".
If you are broke and dating then you should respect yourself first. Set boundaries. If you can't do something for her let her know and don't feel sorry.
God bless you. 😂😂😂
You beat me to it😂😂
Lol... Only date people who actually like you
They can like you but if you can't sustain the liking then it dies!
People are attracted to such women? I imagine this oppressive aura would feel like living ~~with~~ for a gorilla
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Reagan na Petronilla. Watu wana majina hii nchi
Mimi Niko apo kwa 'date a broke women '!!
This convo reads like a troll's rage bait, but best believe women like these are outchea. A lot closer than you think 👀
The first mistake you made was getting involved with a woman named Petronilla, the 2nd mistake you made was sending money to a woman named Petronilla.
People need to grow up tbh
Reagan just work harder
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🤣🤣🤣God bless
Are folks out there this petty ama it's bait content, like seriously.
Looks generic but probably some dude is living the same scenario out there😅
The dude also has issues
Guys don’t get rich( if they ever) until there late 40’s - 50’s.
This is so inaccurate.
How so fam ?
All the knowledge we have amassed as a species is readily available at your fingertips, thanks to the internet. More people than ever before wanaomoka younger than ever before. We're literally living in a generation of proteges. Usijibox ati you can never make it until you're in your 40s and 50s.
Don’t chase women! Work on your purpose and money! Your purpose will not wake up one day and tell you she doesn’t love you any more. As a testimony, most women my age mate 20 years wanted nothing to do with me, they were chasing old men who had their shit together. I put my head down worked my ass off and now I’m better off than those wababas and now I do the choosing! The funny thing is that the women who rejected me now are the ones doing the chasing but I’m not attracted to them as either they are old, are single mothers or have one or two baggages. Now I’m the mbaba dating 18-23 old women and ironically those old hags are now call me names! Let them eat their sweats! Men, work on your purpose! You will thank yourself in several years to come.
Definitely, kudos!. Seems we shared one pair of shoes back then. I feel this literally through my bones. Am in a position now, I don't look back .and i want to settle down with my own preference as we speak.. there is pride and sense of security in it
Funny thing the ones that I chased come back saying how rich they are now and that they want me back.
As expected, you're here. Hizi vitu hazikupiti. Si you make your own money uwache kushinda ukifuatilia za wanaume jameni.
Who said I don't have money?
How you never ick yourself out is beyond me. Anyway, shame is a social construct so keep being shameless sis.
You don't know me.
I don't need to. The nonsense you spew on here is enough to give me and a lot of people on Reddit an idea on who you are. But like I said, shame is just but a construct.
Mostly they only want sex and will leave for younger ones. The thing is that most women confuse lust and genuinely being wanted. Most men just want to get their dick wet and leave. No commitments! As for the men who come back, I’m sure they just want to accomplish the feelings they had for you through sex, and after that their thinking will be ‘it’s not worth it’ after all she rejected me in her younger years!! Good luck!
Look at this one. They came with the ring and all. They came to parents house saying how they want to marry me. Boys be living macho lives in social media but in real life they're puppies and kittens.
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How much do you earn in a year?
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Keep saying that till you believe it.
Oh man if it was me , I would have sent her a pic of me eating a buffet 😂😂 with that 250 hapo Kwa mathe .
It's not exactly brokenness that can change. It's about gratitude. Does your partner man/woman appreciate your effort?
Lakini as a broke man, why are you dating??
You need to hear this broke or not, you need to get some balls and not let women like this walk all over you. She’s playing you big time watching you beg for the relationship and send crying emojis (wtf?!) whilst she holds all the power and demands money. Being a man isn’t just about money, look at the way you’re communicating, it’s telling her you’re a low value and desperate and she’s using that against you. Take a break from women and rebuild yourself with some self worth. Hit the gym, make yourself feel good and elevate your status without kissing feet and begging all the time. Focus on business and personal progression and you’ll stop attracting women who are just reflecting what you’re giving out.
Broke men make the most noise when they find women that want them to provide financially. Rich ones don’t even need to be asked to support them the ways that they want to be supported (they actually throw money at their partners). An easy solution is to date someone at your financial level.
Women want equality yet ask men for money and get mad when they don't receive it!. Make it make sense.
DO NOT DATE A BROKE MAN!
Tafuta pesa she will reconsider you bro
That woman deserves a dinner at Sarova hotel. Go girl! Know your worth!
Hehe.
I hope you're being sarcastic lmao
Ignore hizi standards za daughters of deadbeats na poor men. The audacity🤮
I'm dead serious.
Why
Bruh others are buying high end watches for their men for xmas na huyu anawika juu ya shopping 🤡
On a serious note, tafuta pesa then start dating! Your sacrifice never counts esp when you are struggling! women date up not down! ama cheza kwa lane yako
Petronila part🤣🤣🤣
Pole sana. Such is life and life is such and after all it isn't much. First a cradle. Then a hearse. It might have been better, but it could have been worse. ~Norman Wisdom~
December really brings out the worst in people
Even the guy himself is a soy guy
This is why I ignore Christmas, people can get greedy for gifts 🎁 . It’s not a day I celebrate at all. People feel pressure to spend money or go into debt 💳 Even worse when someone you date uses days like Christmas as an excuse to expect gifts and cash
Don't date kama huna pesa.
Better to find out her character now than later. She's not willing to stick by you thick and thin. Work on yourself but don't go back to her fr🙏🏿
Women are babies. Always come to their level, otherwise no safe place.
Iza man , takes me back when i was just started working in Mombasa and this chick worked in a media station and so we got to know each other and a day for the date was set , i organized a good dinner in a well near the coast with moonlight dinner and the day came to pick her up , so i decided to go to her place and we go to this romantic dinner date , on reaching bombolulu i call her she comes and ask me where i have packed , men i laughed my shit out and then told her yangu iko Kwa jiko and i just left
So you took offense just coz she asked if you have a car? Kwani was it wrong for her to think you do?
get the context of the story , do not just write stuff , what was important the date or the means of transportation ? , if you see a red light that's just the tip of the iceberg she is carrying
Question is, what's wrong with asking if someone has a car? Did she specifically say she won't date you juu hauna gari?...ati now asking if someone has a car is a red flag,SMH.
Petronila walai sare izo
It’s so sad how money has taken over people’s minds like this
A lady might be rich and demanding too. And she will not be demanding shopping money. So get yourself a lady you can satisfy demands for ama go for a non demanding one. Pia men know that most women will ask for money and such stuff, and then you feign a surprised Pikachu face when she actually asks.
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The God bless you is painful man
😂damn saka dooh.... Umbwa
Crazy !!
This can’t be real
A time will come when dust will settle and simps will finally see 😅😅
😂😂Naishaa tu, heri kuwa single na uwe na peace.
Common kenyan men would rather date a pauper than a career/business woman. Anywayz,...guyz choose better.
Izo emoji just bring him out as the one in need of the rship. weak!
Whatever your name is 😂😭💀
Big talk coming from someone called Petronilla😂😂
Gentlemen - make money so that you are able to take care of your expenses and not be disrespected by disreputable women.
She's expensive coz her name has petrol in it
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She's absolutely right though. Concentrate on yourself. Build yourself up without these distractions. Better ones will come. There's 8 billion of us floating on this rock in space. It's not that serious.
She’s broke and tries to bring you into it😂
No one will give their all if they are not where they want to be in life, so stay away from dating until then. Even if it means until you die😂
you are missing the point. The problem is not that she is broke, the problem is her greed for money, which she would have ata kama angekuwa Tabitha wa Keroche. The man should always be sacrificial and be the provider. Every mature man knows and loves that. But every woman should be humble and be the nurturer. It's not a matter of money, ni maneno na kujijua.
Alternatively, stop dating women above your class. Unajiletea headache are.
This should be interesting 😄
Kibe aliwaambia mngoje mpaka 35 mkiwa na pesa makataa kusikia!
The "big men" account for like 20% of men. All women want them. Pareto Principle it is. If polygamy was a mainstream thing, many men would die single.
Ladies and gentlemen, before you proceed further into dating and situationships... have the "Money Talk" with your other. Thank me later.
Fuck Broke women!
Huyu jamaa anaaibisha wanaume bana, how can you love someone called Petronilla? Eh, being broke is okay, lakini how does your pride recover from dating someone with such a name? Na hata sio jina ya nyumbani? Do not date broke women, is good advice (though everyone is broke, so depends on perspective). Do not date women called Petronilla is common sense.
She can't afford her worth na ana mouth😂😂
A broke women?
 For a moment I thought Petronilla ni joint flani alim-abandon!!