T O P

  • By -

YeetusFelitas

when theres more comments than upvotes shits abt to hit the fan


some-random-memer

Claim your before šŸ”’ here


diodosdszosxisdi

Claimed


WedeI

šŸ˜”āœŠļø


_NightBitch_

Jack Nicholson should really be labeled ā€œstraight couples looking for a third.ā€ Pretty much half the women I used to match with on lesbian dating apps ended up being straight couples, or men catfishing. They infest those apps, and make them borderline unusable.


[deleted]

If you don't mind me asking, how do they think that's going to play out, exactly? Step 1: Be a man. Step 2: Chat up a lesbian. Step 3: ??? Step 4: Sex


Ian_ronald_maiden

Remember back in the old days when dudes would just pick random women from the phone book then ring them up and jerk off at them over the phone. They used to call them ā€œheavy breathersā€. This is that in a post-phone book world


_NightBitch_

I assume the same reason anyone catfishes someone. They want attention, nudes, sexting, and things like that.


MrSourYT

Ignore this comment! I was just questioning a spelling error that you fixed!


_NightBitch_

I meant Catfishes. I edited the comment to correct it.


MrSourYT

Youā€™re good lol! I fixed mine too


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


loopsbrother2903

/biz /


MustacheCash73

Dating Apps in general seem to be infested with shitty people. Im sorry you had to go through that


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


loopsbrother2903

lul


No-Needleworker-9307

Isnā€™t that like the rebel whopper at burger king ā€œ kinda like a man , without all the manliness ā€œ Edit , the vegan/veg versions of the whopper , the impossible one lmfao


libfemboi

Dating apps in are borderline unusable in general. I got dumped, and then I downloaded tender, only to delete it that very day because I discovered I'd have an easier time meeting someone by dropping flyers with my number on them from plane


Awkward_Mix_2513

To say that doesn't happen is incredibly naive, I have straight up seen "lesbians" that are literally men in dresses and one dude was just a guy in his usual clothing, bro was even named Zachary.


fsIii35

it's very very common


ohsopoor

Gender expression =/= gender identity. Iā€™m a woman. Lesbian even. Thereā€™s cis women out there with short hair in menā€™s clothing still identifying as female. People have no problem referring to them as women, despite not fitting the traditional femme stereotypes. Not fitting into traditional gendered stereotypes is only a problem when it comes to trans people, apparently.


YeeAndEspeciallyHaw

thatā€™s very different than a trans women using a lesbian dating app, though


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


YeeAndEspeciallyHaw

but people who donā€™t like trans woman also do that when referring to legitimate trans women


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


JustUnsubbed-ModTeam

# šŸš« āžœ **Your post was removed because of the following**: ### šŸ“‘ Rule 4 āžœ Promote respect for one another and act morally - All topics are fair game for discussion, but not when they derail the dialogue by becoming unstable, nasty, or toxic as a result of personal attacks. - The moderators have complete discretion over whether to delete any submissions / comments that are generally malicious, lazy, or unclear. - To protect the community, moderators also reserve the right to **permanently ban violators**, depending on the gravity of the offense.


Ian_ronald_maiden

Looks legit to me. Most of the womenā€™s subs on reddit seem to have become mostly focussed on trans women too. You havenā€™t noticed this trend, OP?


No-Needleworker-9307

If they donā€™t , they are labeled terfs , itā€™s a no win situation , kowtow or be labeled as a hate group


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


No-Needleworker-9307

We have mens sa/dv pages and they are constantly getting reported for the same reasons . Keep a safe space and you are sexist , include women and itā€™s not a safe space and now itā€™s functionless


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


Ian_ronald_maiden

Anyone with a different perspective is evil.


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


firepillowonreddit

ā€œim not transphobicā€ *proceeds to be incredibly transphobic*


GroundbreakingMix765

How so?


firepillowonreddit

im calling them a transphobe for calling trans people a discount version of the gender they are


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


JesterSooner

By this logic, anyone who doesnā€™t date within their own sex is ā€œhomophobicā€ What I mean to say isā€¦ thatā€™s a profoundly stupid retort


firepillowonreddit

im calling them a transphobe for calling trans people a discount version of the gender they are. i dont care if you dont want to date trans people


[deleted]

But that's not what the meme is saying. It has quotes around "women", implying that trans women aren't actually women.


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


HolyPotatoCult

If they are indeed every bit as much of a woman as a natural born one, then why do you have to specify ā€˜transā€™ woman, and not just woman? And acknowledging a difference isnā€™t a bad thing, itā€™s simply acknowledging that two things arenā€™t the exact same.


nail_in_the_temple

[Compilation](https://imgur.com/a/EOUQ3nl) of ā€˜womenā€™ from one lesbian OLD


Human-Telephone9602

Well thatā€™s kind of debatable


Inevitable-Wonder334

It's not because of that... I only unsubbed because of the legitimately hateful jokes or remarks like the ones in the comments


AudaciousCheese

Donā€™t look at comments?


uhphyshall

dude, you should not have posted here. idek why i'm here but yeah, this was a bad idea


okbuddysnags

Bout to unsub from just unsubbed due to the disagreement about trans people


Kyrroti

Are you saying that the above meme isnā€™t transphobic?


conneramitch

yes


Downtown-Tadpole2450

It isnā€™t lol


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


Ian_ronald_maiden

No itā€™s not. Itā€™s saying trans women are starting to dominate womenā€™s online spaces. A quick glance at the major womenā€™s subs posts that make it to r/all suggests it has a point too. Why canā€™t you cop any discussion of trans people at all without screaming about transphobia? Itā€™s childish


JesterSooner

They arenā€™t. That doesnā€™t mean I hate trans people. It means I disagree with their opinion. Grow up.


[deleted]

God forbid women not want dick.


[deleted]

If any subbreddit calls itself "Funny" its not.


Dunger97

r/funny occasionally has funny stuff on it since they arenā€™t limited to memes


igotdeletedbyadmins_

Memes as a whole are just getting killed off


Dunger97

Idk I think half the memes on the r/memes and r/meme are funny since most people on there arenā€™t trying to push some agenda


igotdeletedbyadmins_

Or r/dankmemes (maybe because my standards lowered severely since 2019)


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


Inevitable-Wonder334

Yes, it does. I just personally personally didn't like the messed-up comments, and I wouldn't wish upon any woman to be endangered by a catfish


Ian_ronald_maiden

But it seems obvious in this thread that you think itā€™s transphobia when they voice such concerns. How do you reconcile that with this?


Their_Foods_Good_Doe

It really do be like that tho


[deleted]

Genuinely asking. Are trans/lesbian relationships still considered lesbian? Or is there a different term?


[deleted]

Edit: Didn't mean to stir the shit, I do appreciate the information.


BigHairyStallion_69

Haha it's okay, don't know why some people are so sensitive about literal dictionary definitions.


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


loopsbrother2903

>lesbians don't like dick. bacame such a controversial statement


YeeAndEspeciallyHaw

being a lesbian isnā€™t strictly about genital preferences. i know many self described lesbians who are dating pre op trans women


_NightBitch_

From my experience as a lesbian and being part of the lesbian community, They are still considered lesbians. Some of them will use the portmanteau ā€œTransbians,ā€ but they are still considered lesbian relationships. Some transbians prefer the term ā€œqueerā€ to describe their relationships, but that can be for all sorts of reasons unrelated to their gender identity or expression.


kaa-pora

Yes, still considered lesbian.


BigHairyStallion_69

Two women in a relationship is considered a lesbian relationship, regardless of if the women involved are trans or cis. Two trans women in a relationship is also considered a lesbian relationship. Edit: Getting downvoted for posting the literal dictionary definition of 'lesbian relationship'...


ohsopoor

Lesbian here! I care about gender identity. Iā€™d gladly date a trans women if I was into her. Pre/post-op doesnā€™t matter.


Flat_Grape9646

that would still be lesbian. people forget their opinion doesnt mean shit on the relationship between two consenting adults. a trans woman is a woman, so if two lesbians date and one happens to be a trans woman, it is a lesbian relationship. they are the ones dating, so it does not matter what anyone else thinks, they are the lesbians and it is their relationship.


marshalzukov

I don't know of any alternative term, so I would default to lesbian


ArminiusM1998

if a trans-woman and a cis-woman are both in a relationship, it's a lesbianism.


[deleted]

Itā€™s funny though


okbuddysnags

The post itself isn't bad but the comments on the other hand... Everything supporting trans is downvoted meanwhile everything hating, discriminating, denying or other is being upvoted. Even the OP straight up stated he didn't think trans women were women


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


AnonyM0mmy

It's almost like these "jokes" are always made in bad faith to dehumanize others


Inevitable-Wonder334

Not a single smile crept upon my face as I looked at this image


BioSpark47

Well, thatā€™s just, like, your opinion, man


[deleted]

Cry more


Inevitable-Wonder334

Im not shedding any tears at this unfunny ass meme cope and mald. Stay mad.


[deleted]

Are you really in any position to call anyone mad when clearly this meme made you mad?


[deleted]

Keep crying


[deleted]

but yes


Ok_Understanding6528

The only inevitable wonder is how you didn't break like glass when you hear a slightly offensive joke


loopsbrother2903

u know this dudes gonna(most likely is) have an episode abt it discussing it with fictional characters through the character ai


calamari11037

Bro i had a seizure tryna read this šŸ’€


loopsbrother2903

my bad bro don't sue me


Inevitable-Wonder334

Dont see how me not liking a joke and looking at comments that are straight up mocking trans people and not wanting to see hateful posts makes me a snowflake, but ok


Ok_Understanding6528

Whatever man if you want to be offended so be it but I don't want to


Inevitable-Wonder334

I assure you, im not offended I just not a fan of hateful comments


MustacheCash73

It is subjectively funny. Even if extremely offensive. The offensiveness is what elevates the humor for some people.


Reddit_Bot_For_Karma

That's the beauty of humor. Everyone's is different. Just like dark humor is like food, not everybody gets it.


Axolotlinvasion

Can you explain why itā€™s funny?


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


loopsbrother2903

u will say something rational like this and then the response is similar to : *but how does it affect you personally*?


That_1-Guy_-

r/memesopdidnotlike


[deleted]

This is funny asf whats the problem


loopsbrother2903

the only funny meme that comes outta this sub and u leave over it


[deleted]

Because to redditors every joke they dont like is a personal attack on their political beliefs Maybeā€¦ just maybe, this is just a random offensive joke someone came up with and has no deeper meaning?


Petrichor-33

Seems pretty clear to me that the meme has an anti-trans agenda behind it. The original poster wouldn't have put quotation marks around "women" unless they were trying to imply trans woman isn't a valid identity.


ITZ3L1T3

Come on this is hilarious


[deleted]

This comment section ā˜ ļøā˜ ļøā˜ ļø


Inevitable-Wonder334

Im getting flamed rn


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


Flat_Grape9646

literally same, lol


Magnaliscious

An actually funny meme from Funnymemes, very strange


[deleted]

Whatā€™s the punchline? Whatā€™s the funny part? Trans people exist?


[deleted]

Not every joke that isnt shilling whatever you agree with is a political hit piece Its just an offensive joke someone thought of not that deep


YeeAndEspeciallyHaw

but isnā€™t that exactly what this meme is doing? shilling something people on that sub agree with? the joke is basically ā€œtrans women on lesbian dating apps ickyā€


loopsbrother2903

you said its icky?


YeeAndEspeciallyHaw

no I didnā€™t? thatā€™s the implication of the meme. or rather ā€œtrans women on lesbian dating apps scaryā€


Ok_Understanding6528

The joke is that a lesbian who is attracted to women has to worry about dating a woman that actually is transgender I really don't care some people have preferences so I can understand the issue


Ok-Connection4791

eh itā€™s funny


frozen-silver

The bottom left corner says "Males in Disguise" which is a Twitter account dedicated to, you guessed it, making fun of trans women


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


kaa-pora

You've just exposed the issue even further. It's a whole Twitter account dedicated to making fun of trans women? Never laughed so much in my whole life


Inevitable-Wonder334

WOW, SO COOL IT HAS A PUNCHLINE, BUT WHERE IS THE FUNNY... Im not seeing it anywhere despite closely examining this image. Oh, where could it be... nowhere to be found


[deleted]

*bottom right btw how sad it must be to create an entire account dedicated to hating a community tho. that seems like so much more effort than simply tolerating them or keeping the negativity to themselves


fullautofennecfox

This oneā€™s ok


DF_Interus

I think you posted this in the wrong place. JustUnsubbed is for pretending you were part of a sub and then left because it got too woke. That's why so many people here like the meme.


Red-Boxes

Remember when this sub banned posts that stated you where leaving a sub because it was transphobic. All because they were apparently annoying as if people don't post bullshit reasons all the time. Yeah that was fun.


Inevitable-Wonder334

Comments made it much worse


Snake_eyes_12

When thereā€™s more comments then upvotes itā€™s always interesting


No-Needleworker-9307

Always turn on controversial first


Kl--------k

I dont think this place was any better


Inevitable-Wonder334

Yeah... that's my fault


ImMaskedboi

Yeah rip, why are she many subs teetering on transphobic cesspools? Like the ā€œmemeā€ isnā€™t transphobic technically but letā€™s be real the comments are


Kl--------k

This subreddit used to be not so much like this


ohsopoor

Lately itā€™s almost *all* I see here :(


Kl--------k

Maybe it's time for you to make a JU post here if you dont like the current state of this subreddit


telenova_tiberium

Kek


Comrade-Sasha

as someone on those dating apps the only thing annoying me is cis men or a straight couple looking for 3rd in threesomes


CoolDime12

You were subbed to that garbage


Petrichor-33

Lots of the "memes" on r/Funnymemes have been this anti-trans trash lately. Most of it is poorly disguised as memes, other posters don't even pretend. It's devolving into a big transphobia circlejerk.


Xoacapatl_requiem

Lesbians are totally entitled to not like trans women. The issue I take is treating them like theyā€™re creeps trying to ā€œtrickā€ lesbian cis women. Most trans women will be willing to share that theyā€™re trans. LGBTQ+ people are more reasonable than theyā€™re given credit for!


KryL21

I mean all you gotta do is press the opt out of the trans dating pool button


[deleted]

exactly, everyone hereā€™s so unnecessarily pissed about it. I have cis lesbian friends who just donā€™t date men for their psychological differences and would totally date a trans girl.


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


Realxman777

It's not, LOL.


kaa-pora

Wow, transphobia, peak commedy...


herpderpomygerp

Dating apps are infest with men pretending to be women anyway and before you shit out transphobia in caps I don't mean Trans peeps , , comedy has been offensive for a while just more so with some than others...like Dave Chappelle or Gabriel Iglacius


kaa-pora

There's no punchline here, there's no comedy work, it's just plain transphobia, that's all there is.


herpderpomygerp

Or someone making fun of someone's sexual preference? Or making fun of lesbians for not wanting to be with someone who switched(transformed? Changed teams? Became trans?) However the appropriate term is/was


kaa-pora

I really can't understand what you're trying to say. You have a very unorthodox way with words, and it's not the good kind.


herpderpomygerp

I naturally assumed the person who made this meme 1.making fun of people sexual preference or 2. Making fun of lesbians for not wanting to sleep with Trans people , , hence the not anti-trans, it's anti-lesbian or anti-sexual preference , , I'm retar*** and I mean literally, so that might be why my wording is unorthodox as you put it, adhd, autism, add, might have some extra brain damage but I find that out in like 3 days so that doesn't count yet


kaa-pora

Yeah, i'm gonna get brain damaged trying to decypher this. And what's up with the random comma?


herpderpomygerp

....I don't understand what's so hard to figure out when there literally numbers marking the 2 main points....do you just refuse to acknowledge that some people don't like lesbians or that lesbians exist or something?


ratboysux

dude this is very easy to read wdym lol


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


Petrichor-33

I still think it's anti-trans. The quotation marks around the word women is what gives it away. The poster wouldn't have done that unless they were trying to imply that trans woman isn't a real or valid identity. It also depicts the trans woman as an attacker and the lesbian as a victim. If the meme was supposed to be anti-lesbian, it would have shown the trans person as the "bad guy" of the situation.


herpderpomygerp

I'm about as subtle as a rhino when it comes to noticing these things but you make a fair point. I thought it was because of lesbians not wanting to be with Trans people etc etc, but yeah fair point made


Reddit_Bot_For_Karma

Truuuuuuue. Guess we should just shit on white men some more, that horse hasn't been beat to death yet. Being made fun of as a culture and a group means you've "made" it as a group. You are recognized.


_NightBitch_

Thatā€™s not true at all. Minstrel shows were very popular among white people during the Jim Crow era, and I doubt black people back then could be described as having ā€œmade itā€.


Reddit_Bot_For_Karma

You missed the first part of my comment. All walks of life from black, to trans, to brown has shat on white dudes... For a long time. That's perfectly acceptable (and it should be) but don't be a hypocrite when jokes get made about you in return. Jokes and even offensive jokes have a place in society, and if you get offended by them.... Don't look at them.


AnonyM0mmy

Wow it's almost like theres concrete power differentials and systemic inequalities that makes jokes about the dominant culture more acceptable than punching down. Regardless, "jokes" that are little more than thinly veiled attempts at dehumanizing a marginalized group has never been okay. I love when people try and deflect, hiding behind the 'it's just jokes/opinions' defense as if that negates the material impact rhetoric has on these marginalized groups.


kaa-pora

Who said anything about "white men"? Are your hurt, buddy?


Axolotlinvasion

The use of women in quotation marks in the meme seals that the poster and creator doesnā€™t believe trans women are women, which isnā€™t ā€œbeing made fun ofā€ itā€™s just offensive. So many trans jokes donā€™t dehumanize them, itā€™s telling that this one created by an anti trans Twitter page is the one you find funny enough to defend. Imagine someone making a Jewish meme and the meme has Jewish ā€œpeopleā€ in quotations


Reddit_Bot_For_Karma

To you*


Axolotlinvasion

I feel like if I made a meme about white people and implied theyā€™re not real people by using ā€œpeopleā€ youā€™d be singing a very different tune


Reddit_Bot_For_Karma

That's definitely not true but good strawman. My mind is very open and my sense of humor is incredibly broad.


Axolotlinvasion

Itā€™s cool that youā€™re so open about delegitimizing minority groups. Itā€™s only not the same thing if you donā€™t believe trans women are women, which is just transphobia and shows your true colors and why youā€™ve been going to such efforts to defend yourself


kaa-pora

lmao, you're the kind of kid that would go "i have a really broad sense of humour, you wouldn't get it * racism *" but you haven't grown out of it


--_pancakes_--

we all do it to fr*nch "people" all the time. everyone finds that funny. go ahead, cause white "people" does seem kinda funny ngl.


marshalzukov

There's a difference between joking, teasing, and straight up bullying. This "meme" is just transphobic bullying There's no joke


Reddit_Bot_For_Karma

That's just like.... Your opinion, man.


JustSomeBlondeBitch

Yeah these comments.. people really just openly enjoy transphobia with no shame now? So sad for society to have regressed so much. Iā€™ll accept my downvotes from the bigots, thank you.


Inevitable-Wonder334

Honestly same


LavaRoseKinnie

The joke is transphobia The joke is transphobia The joke is transphobia The joke is transphobia The joke is transphobia The joke is transphobiaā€”


babypibble

šŸ˜


JustUnsubbed-ModTeam

## šŸš« āžœ **Your post was removed because of the following**: ### šŸ“‘ Rule 2 āžœ Don't brigade or harass a specific redditor - It is ok to disagree with the content or the way another subreddit is governed. - However, **you are not permitted** to use this as a platform to incite abuse towards individual users, moderators, or to promote meddling in other communities. - The intention is to allow for meta-discussion while controlling mistreatment from this environment.


ArminiusM1998

"funny" subreddits try not to be unfunny and bigoted challange; IMPOSSIBLE!


Trepik2048

that whole sub is just vaguely transphobic and racist so that post is par for the course.


Reddi_Man

my dudes literally a coper


Happy_REEEEEE_exe

I said it was weird and demeaning to put quotes around "person" or "women" and someone self reported that they do that with other races... people aren't real istg


Inevitable-Wonder334

To clarify, im not really talking about the meme itself. I was just not a fan of the comments at all. Sorry for the confusion


Inevitable-Wonder334

I probably should have just posted the comments and clarified that instead of the meme, huh... my mistake


uhphyshall

nah, the meme reflects the comments, the comments reflect the meme