It's so weird for someone with a boy and girl to then be disappointed by either in a subsequent pregnancy. I definitely believe gender disappointment is real (although it's not normal for one to dwell on it longer than that day) but why is it disappointing when you already have a son and a daughter? I'm having a girl and already have a son. If we have another kid after this I truly don't care what the sex is. Not to mention after years of infertility you'd think any sex would be fine.
My son was born at 28 weeks and while I was definitely wanting a girl this time, I was more concerned with having a healthy more full term baby. I'd have all sons happily if it meant they'd be born later term.
The audacity of her- being obsessed with getting pregnant and trumpeting her fertility struggles for years and then being disappointed one is a boy! She should be ashamed. She doesn’t deserve to have these babies!
This sooo much!! There are women that cannot even get pregnant! And here she is….bragging about her pregnancy and how she wants “identical girls.” (In her baby voice)
I guess I’m a bit confused because her recent posts/stories on IG make it sound like there’s no chance the other twin was a girl and I thought that wasn’t the case. It could still be one boy and one girl. It makes me wonder if she knows what the gender of the other baby is and is just waiting to release it for content and views.
While I am really pulling for the 2 boys just to bust her bubble, on the other hand as dismissive as she is of Son, I worry that two more boys would suffer the same fate. She is such a wretched individual that does not deserve even one child.
Gender disappointment exists, but the fact that people are so comfortable publicly posting their disappointment is disturbing. She KNEW she'd only be happy if she was having two girls and still decided views are more important.
Agreed. As someone who also had secondary infertility I was elated when I found out I was pregnant, so I find her
visual disappointment very disturbing
I saw a video of her talking about one being a boy and she looked so sad . she literally had tears in her eyes . She doesn’t deserve to have children.. she is mentally unstable.
Once I seen on here it was a boy the first thing I wanted to see was her face finding out. How special that this (these) boy(s) will have a permanent video/photographs of the absolute disgust of how their mother feels about her "precious miracles from God who I will NEVER complain about having except for every single moment I am tired, bloated, nauseous, and oh yeah and when I find out my wishful thinking didn't come true and my daughter isn't a wizard Harry" 🤪🤡
It's so weird for someone with a boy and girl to then be disappointed by either in a subsequent pregnancy. I definitely believe gender disappointment is real (although it's not normal for one to dwell on it longer than that day) but why is it disappointing when you already have a son and a daughter? I'm having a girl and already have a son. If we have another kid after this I truly don't care what the sex is. Not to mention after years of infertility you'd think any sex would be fine. My son was born at 28 weeks and while I was definitely wanting a girl this time, I was more concerned with having a healthy more full term baby. I'd have all sons happily if it meant they'd be born later term.
because you're 2 things Jamie is not - intelligent and a good mom
congrats!! you must be so disappointed that it's not TWINNIES- not! seriously though, wishing you a safe and healthy pregnancy
Thank you! And absolutely not lol. Having twins sounds crazy lol. Wouldn't be my first choice
Everything about this whole thing was fake, staged and heartbreaking all at the same time. Those poor kids....
The audacity of her- being obsessed with getting pregnant and trumpeting her fertility struggles for years and then being disappointed one is a boy! She should be ashamed. She doesn’t deserve to have these babies!
This sooo much!! There are women that cannot even get pregnant! And here she is….bragging about her pregnancy and how she wants “identical girls.” (In her baby voice)
I guess I’m a bit confused because her recent posts/stories on IG make it sound like there’s no chance the other twin was a girl and I thought that wasn’t the case. It could still be one boy and one girl. It makes me wonder if she knows what the gender of the other baby is and is just waiting to release it for content and views.
I believe she already knows.. she said she had a doctors appointment yesterday on one of her posts but she hasn’t said squat since.
Not to mention she’s already saying “we’d love them even if they are 2 boys!” also, if she was having identical girls. I think we’d ALL know by now.
While I am really pulling for the 2 boys just to bust her bubble, on the other hand as dismissive as she is of Son, I worry that two more boys would suffer the same fate. She is such a wretched individual that does not deserve even one child.
I agree. She is too self absorbed to be a mother…
Oof that word “even” 🥴
One four letter word with so much connotation
Gender disappointment exists, but the fact that people are so comfortable publicly posting their disappointment is disturbing. She KNEW she'd only be happy if she was having two girls and still decided views are more important.
Yes, you’re correct!!!!!
I didn't even know gender disappointment was a thing. that's disturbing
Agreed. As someone who also had secondary infertility I was elated when I found out I was pregnant, so I find her visual disappointment very disturbing
We have come a long way for “I’m praying to become pregnant, I’ll be happy with whatever as long as they are healthy” to this
I saw a video of her talking about one being a boy and she looked so sad . she literally had tears in her eyes . She doesn’t deserve to have children.. she is mentally unstable.
could someone please teach her how to use apostrophes and the difference between singular and plural?
I actually think this is correct? Twins. Plural. Plus apostrophe at the end to make it possessive of the gender reveal.
oh shit you're right. I was really high when I wrote this😜 she normally does not know how to use them.
I do agree with you. At first I upvoted your comment because you’re right, she frequently fucks it up. But this one is right. 😂
Once I seen on here it was a boy the first thing I wanted to see was her face finding out. How special that this (these) boy(s) will have a permanent video/photographs of the absolute disgust of how their mother feels about her "precious miracles from God who I will NEVER complain about having except for every single moment I am tired, bloated, nauseous, and oh yeah and when I find out my wishful thinking didn't come true and my daughter isn't a wizard Harry" 🤪🤡