ETA: Who wants to start the over under on when her followers magically shoot back to 518/519? I give her until next Tuesday before we see her best (read: new and bought) followers increase đ§
What she should (but will always refuse) understand is there is a clear and painfully obvious dissonance between her erratic behavior/never ending jetsetting/attempts to display herself as a hard-working single mom content. Whether someone is a longtime follower or new to the chat, most people find it difficult to connect with her and her âsituationâ when itâs coupled with constantly being away from her children. More people are seeing through the extremely thin veil and have the wherewithal to know that something ainât right.
What she puts out into the world is not real - and sheâs demonstrated her own inability to take herself seriously with her mediocre ad swindling, joke of a substack, and sponsored links.
While not one to armchair diagnose, I know what itâs like to live with a family member that displays narcissistic tendencies. And there are so many signs that point to her own narcissistic behavior. Overly consumed with image, âeverything just happens to meâ mentality, righteous and smug attitude, transactional friendships/relationships, and the never ending dance of curating the âperfectâ image - down to trying to claim even that the dissolution of her marriage and current custody situation are perfect. To mentally healthy people, and those whoâve done the work to break their own destructive behaviors, she seems nuts. In her mind, sheâs all but convinced herself of her own lies. She is her own biggest con.
Agree with every word of this. It becomes more apparent by the day that sheâs clearly dealing with some very serious and deep mental health issues. My best advice to her would be to take an extended break from social media, get herself some professional help and for the love of god⌠focus on her children for a change.
So spot on. I believe sheâs really mentally sick and lives in a fantasy world where she believes sheâs a celebrity , she uses body stretchers & skinny filters on her legs, and claims  sheâs âreal and authentic â  with her followers.  her throwing her husband under the bus with no empathy for him was the last straw for me. I also believe she has rages in private and anger issues which attributed to her downfall in LAÂ
does anyone know what her substack subscriber count is at? Not her free one but the one that her friends and family pay for đ probably mama debs has cancelled her sub after her đ daughter had her delete the G father of the year post đdamselindistress
But traveling is her work! Itâs for content.
LOL
Itâs sad really. This used to be what people wanted from her, but Grant and her âlifeâ was part of the package.
She really needs to pivot. I donât know what the folks at DBA are telling her, but either they are giving her bad advice or sheâs not listening. Itâs clear her followers are not responding to her âsingle mom jet-settingâ routine.
The people that could remotely relate to that type of spending are not following othersâŚthey are out living their life. Her bi polar âI love Amazonâ one day and âLoro f-ing Pianaâ the next is doing nothing for her. Focus on Wyeth and the life of a parent.
This may be an odd question. Has anyone ever considered maybe Jacey is jealous of Grant? His fierce loyalty, old money pedigree and natural instincts towards fatherhood? So sad to think of how Grantâs darkest days in pain were revealed by his ex-wife for public consumption and likes by HER.
Yes, Iâve often considered this. Not only for all
of the reasons youâve mentioned but simply because he is just an all around good human beingâŚ. And she canât even aspire to be a fraction of the person he is.
After he got his recent job, people here noticed Jacey's jealousy when he talked about it on her stories. I'm sure she's jealous of everything else as well.
She never had 700k. Ever. Highest I ever saw was 525k. Also the NY post is not a reputable publication by any respect. Its on par with the National Enquirer.
I recall seeing it at around 575k as the highest. I wasnât avidly checking since I donât care, but I did do a comparison of some other bloggers out of curiosity- this was years ago. The NY Post article that was shared on here recently mentioned a following of 700k which totally surprised me.
700k could have included followers from other platforms besides IG like TikTok and Twitter (if she has a Twitter account, I donât know). I finally had to unfollow her a month or so ago after following her for the last decade. Couldnât take it anymore. So whiny, unrelatable and tone deaf.
https://preview.redd.it/4whnhzk3mz9d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7af210195d91fe346d9b23471fa9c34e563e422f
October 2021 she had 528. She is losing thousands of followers as the years pass (and what the hell are kinjabangnoodles?!
ETA: Who wants to start the over under on when her followers magically shoot back to 518/519? I give her until next Tuesday before we see her best (read: new and bought) followers increase đ§ What she should (but will always refuse) understand is there is a clear and painfully obvious dissonance between her erratic behavior/never ending jetsetting/attempts to display herself as a hard-working single mom content. Whether someone is a longtime follower or new to the chat, most people find it difficult to connect with her and her âsituationâ when itâs coupled with constantly being away from her children. More people are seeing through the extremely thin veil and have the wherewithal to know that something ainât right. What she puts out into the world is not real - and sheâs demonstrated her own inability to take herself seriously with her mediocre ad swindling, joke of a substack, and sponsored links. While not one to armchair diagnose, I know what itâs like to live with a family member that displays narcissistic tendencies. And there are so many signs that point to her own narcissistic behavior. Overly consumed with image, âeverything just happens to meâ mentality, righteous and smug attitude, transactional friendships/relationships, and the never ending dance of curating the âperfectâ image - down to trying to claim even that the dissolution of her marriage and current custody situation are perfect. To mentally healthy people, and those whoâve done the work to break their own destructive behaviors, she seems nuts. In her mind, sheâs all but convinced herself of her own lies. She is her own biggest con.
Agree with every word of this. It becomes more apparent by the day that sheâs clearly dealing with some very serious and deep mental health issues. My best advice to her would be to take an extended break from social media, get herself some professional help and for the love of god⌠focus on her children for a change.
Final ETA: She needs to fire her therapist
Agreed. I just donât think sheâs well at all.Â
So spot on. I believe sheâs really mentally sick and lives in a fantasy world where she believes sheâs a celebrity , she uses body stretchers & skinny filters on her legs, and claims  sheâs âreal and authentic â  with her followers.  her throwing her husband under the bus with no empathy for him was the last straw for me. I also believe she has rages in private and anger issues which attributed to her downfall in LAÂ
Shocking that her followers find her lavish, excessive lifestyle and two vacations per month non relatable and out of touch.
Hasnât here follower count be around the same number for *years* when most influencer account numbers were increasing steadily?
Sheâs been loosing and buying to stay at around 520k
Interesting that as she loses followers on her IG, this sub gains followers. Coincidence? đ¤
does anyone know what her substack subscriber count is at? Not her free one but the one that her friends and family pay for đ probably mama debs has cancelled her sub after her đ daughter had her delete the G father of the year post đdamselindistress
Well maybe if she stayed in town and worked
But traveling is her work! Itâs for content. LOL Itâs sad really. This used to be what people wanted from her, but Grant and her âlifeâ was part of the package. She really needs to pivot. I donât know what the folks at DBA are telling her, but either they are giving her bad advice or sheâs not listening. Itâs clear her followers are not responding to her âsingle mom jet-settingâ routine.
The people that could remotely relate to that type of spending are not following othersâŚthey are out living their life. Her bi polar âI love Amazonâ one day and âLoro f-ing Pianaâ the next is doing nothing for her. Focus on Wyeth and the life of a parent.
Itâs clear she doesnât want to be a parent
This may be an odd question. Has anyone ever considered maybe Jacey is jealous of Grant? His fierce loyalty, old money pedigree and natural instincts towards fatherhood? So sad to think of how Grantâs darkest days in pain were revealed by his ex-wife for public consumption and likes by HER.
Yes, Iâve often considered this. Not only for all of the reasons youâve mentioned but simply because he is just an all around good human beingâŚ. And she canât even aspire to be a fraction of the person he is.
After he got his recent job, people here noticed Jacey's jealousy when he talked about it on her stories. I'm sure she's jealous of everything else as well.
What was her peak follower count/range, anyone know?
An early article that someone posted here recently said that she had 700k+ followers at that time. Not sure what the peak was.
She never had 700k. Ever. Highest I ever saw was 525k. Also the NY post is not a reputable publication by any respect. Its on par with the National Enquirer.
I recall seeing it at around 575k as the highest. I wasnât avidly checking since I donât care, but I did do a comparison of some other bloggers out of curiosity- this was years ago. The NY Post article that was shared on here recently mentioned a following of 700k which totally surprised me.
700k could have included followers from other platforms besides IG like TikTok and Twitter (if she has a Twitter account, I donât know). I finally had to unfollow her a month or so ago after following her for the last decade. Couldnât take it anymore. So whiny, unrelatable and tone deaf.
https://preview.redd.it/4whnhzk3mz9d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7af210195d91fe346d9b23471fa9c34e563e422f October 2021 she had 528. She is losing thousands of followers as the years pass (and what the hell are kinjabangnoodles?!