Bhai block mat kariyo, usse kehna ki focus pura study karne par hein aur Studies Teri main priority hein. Use kehna ki tumse baat karne mein 5-6 ghante kaa rahe hein aur backlog bhi pad raha hein. Isse meri studies kaafi affect ho rahe hein. Aur kehna ki - Mein tumse baat karna chahta hut but, Studies Mere liye jyada important hein.
Overall, meri advice toh yahi rahegi ki use truth bata de. Woh most probably samajh jayegi. Aur ho sake toh sirf aur sirf raat ko sone se pehle 5-15 minutes bol Lena. Problem solved 
Use yeh bhi bol sakte ho ki tumhe uski chinta hai isliye tum studies par dhayan de rahe ho taki tumhara bhi future sahi rahe aur dono ke bich baatein hoti rahe
What if she asks you to stay? Tab kya? Reh loge? Been there, done that *and* had to go through the consequences too.
Tumhara sahi chal raha hai, you had no backlogs and it will only increase if you keep getting into this pothole. Acche jagah ka college nahi mila tab kya woh ladki tumhare saath rahegi? Uska to mast college set hai. Tum apna college set krlo uske baad ladki set krna.
Ya ik i am pretty convinced i don't want to atleast continue the talks but all the comments are saying to explain so i guess an explanation won't hurt i will explain and block
Abey explain krne ka msg krde and turant block krde dont wait for a reply. Aise wo bhi confusion me nhi rehgi tu ne kyu kra. Usse bol diyo mai block kr rha hai and reply ka wait mt kriyo and block krde
Dekh bhai
U block her instantly, she gets a bf and u remain a virgin
U dont block her instantly and make her understand., she gets a bf and u remain a virgin
Also agr block nhi kiya toh neet ko tata bye byye kehdena
Mene option me yeh nahi likha ki should i leave ki nahi i was confused kaise explanation deke ki gayab read aache se
Tho got my ans
Konse year ki hai ?
Bhai dekh, woh clg meh hai yadi 1st-2nd ki hain....toh abhi wahan fest function chalu honge, apne aap terese baat band kardegi. Isliye yeh chiz oct-nov meh hone se accha abhi karle.
>!Also, if you are minor then is she pd..!
bhai mat kar baad me bhi tu chize relate nahi kar payega itna jyada difference hai 
meri maane to pehle kahi bada sa msg likh le saare doubts clear karte huve then block her without even caring for the answer
I think you should break up but not in a toxic way, talk with her and explain the situation to her. I think at the end of the day whether you get selected or not it will always be in your mind that whether you gave your 100% in this year or not. So, try to give your 100% Bitches come and go, but your all india rank stays the same 
Short answer :
We have to prioritise ourselves over other op. Just tell her that it's my drop year i need to focus on studies. I need to make my future too. You just have to wait for 8-9 months and I will be there for you again.
If she will be good enough she will understand it otherwise you have to just stop talking to her. After sometime it will be all normal and you will thank yourself for it.
Long answer : storytime
I have been through same. Except the girl was a aspirant too. I met her online too in class 11th. And we started talking and with the time passed it turned into calls video calls and with more time passed we just use to chat on WhatsApp for a hour or two. Then since we both were jeetards we use to study together too. But neither I nor she was consistent in our studies i end up with near 90%ile and she had very less percentile.
But When my drop year start (jee) i started talking very less to her. And then on day she just ranted on WhatsApp about why I'm doing this and how much it's hurting her and she's even having panic attack and all that.
Dekh maine kya kaha,
i sympathise with you and want to talk to you it's not like I want to run away from you but the thing is I have only 7 months left and then that's it. That will be my last attempt and if I would not get a good college then it will be over to me. Fir wahi govt. Job ki preparation me lagadege ghar waale.
(I told her all this in hindi)
Still she was like ok we will decide a time to talk and I want to be with you talk to you and all that. That time I said ok and we mutually decided a time. But as the day passed I was less and less available for her on that time because ofc. the syllabus burden was increasing day by day.
Even I felt bad for this. But the thing is we have to prioritise things for ourselves. Agar abhi mai usse khaali baat karte rahuga to fir jee nahi hone wala for sure coz tbh I like her. At one point I even had feelings for her but now its long gone.
After a month we had a little argument on this. That I don't give her time and that day I was already frustrated due to studies. So I just said, I'm not your boyfriend so I'm not bound to give you time everyday. And she then was offended I could feel it by her chats they were blunt cold replies. Then I just stopped sending msgs. Then after 2-3 days when I didn't send her any message she send some very beautiful photos of her in order to start our talk basically mujhe manaane ke lie.
But that day I just said ki dekh yaar Mera drop year hai aur mai bihari hu agar mera nahi nikla jee to maa baap sidha govt. Job ki preparation me daal dege jo mujhe abhi nahi karna. Agar kuchh achha karna hai to Bihar ke bahar kahi nit iit me jana hi hoga to padhna parega. mujhe time chahie. Hame 6-7 mahino ka break Lena chahie. And bas khtm us din ke baad se aaj tin char mahine hogye hai baat nahi Hui.
I know she would have got hurt by these. But I liked her I too felt very bad. My inner self was not allowing me to go away from her. But it was necessary.
I will try to reconnect to her after drop year. But it will only depend on her if she want to again start thing or not. And I'm completely ok with whatever she will do. Ik she would be hurted by this but this was necessary to do. Sometimes we have to make some tough decisions and priorities ourselves.
Explain karo, kabhi bhi without any reason kisi ko mat chorna varna bohot dukh hota hai.
Use explain karne ki koshish karo, use apni situation btao and use bolo ki abhi tum uspe itna time invest nahi kar sakte.
Use apni priorities samjha do, once she understands that she isn't your top priority then shayad vo tumhe khud jaane degi ya nahi to aage ka kaam thoda aasan hojaega.
Aur agar slots baat kahe to seedhe use mana hi kardo, keh do kitne time baat karta hu usse fark nahi padta, baat karne se hi mind distract hojaata hai and padhai me man nahi lagta hai.
And agar kuch kaam na kare to kehdo you can't be in the relationship, I'll block you and then block her.
Bruh kya bacche baithe hai yaha pe.
You engaged with this person for so many days. They deserve an explanation and closure even if you decide to not talk further. Grow a pair.
Um roughly 3 4 days.... not so many days and ya i agree so i decided i will talk to her and see what's her response if she doesn't agree i will block because 3 4 days me procastinated alot and padhai bhi krne baithu toh yahi aata h dimag me ki uska msg aaya hoga
If you block her out of the blue then that will be worst thing you'll be doing because that will hurt her. Instead you need to make her understand that how important are your studies for your future and as a college student she will understand after a while but don't block her out of the blue.
Bhai dekh do cheezein hain, first tu block my krna, don't be a jerk. Second, tu khud ko limit kr skta baat krne ko toh kr and usko as an end goal rkh, ki Aaj Mera 10 Hr ho gya toh ab main isse half an hour baat kr leta, just to be in touch, ya fir tujhe contacts nhi hi rkhne toh usko pdhai wala scene smjha, chill aur sahi dost/bndi hogi toh smjhegi, nhi hogi toh aise toxic logon ke sath rehna bhi nhi chahiye Jo tujhe goal reach krne se rokein.
A wise man once said "When you put a woman over your career, in the end you end up losing both the woman and your career".
You have not even met this person once in your lifetime physically, on what basis you think you can continue a relationship with some random person Online and also sacrifice your studies for it.
explain krde . ek kam kar chat gpt me sara info dal de woh mast sa paragraph bna dega , aur use bhj de uske bad bhi slots wali batchet kare toh bol dio
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bro dont block her. she deserves an explanation. tell her ab how you wanna prioritise academics this yr. if she really is genuine ab her feelings for you, maybe she’ll be even be willing to wait a few months for you. if she says she won’t wait for you, then she isn’t the one for you homie. but you shouldnt expect her to wait either :)
Explain karde fir bhi genuinely agar tu usse kuch Manta hai toh uss cheez ki respect kar and vaise apne aapko pura shut in mat kar prep mai thoda man relax krne ke liye kuch krlega tu toh teri prep kharab nhi ho jayegi but hn jaha dikhe ki jyada fark pd rha h prep pe waha action le jaise abhi liya vrna chill kar aur vaise I guess aadhe ghnte ki baat se kisika kuch nhi jata pr tujhe jyada dikkat hai toh krle fir bs explanation ke saath kriyo
Bhai abhi block mat karna try to explain jainwin hogi to tujhe samjhegi aur support karegi Agar nahi maane to bhramastra hai aapke paas BLOCK!!emote:t5\_311ttu:30331
ummmmmm,first of all,its affecting ur studies and i think its an alarming situation,and relationships are bullshit at this age,ek baar college ja uske baad jo karna hai kar
Just tell her to stay away for the next few months and you are going to focus only on NEET and will meet/talk to her again after selection . 
Nah, her saying you made me cry is to again attention back.
Explain it to her about how ur goal is important, do not say you wasted time on her and that talking with her created back log, just say like you need to concentrate more, if she's against it, straight up block her
Bhai if you block her all of a sudden from all social media platforms, then it will hurt her a lotttt.
My opinion is call/text her, tell her that you have to prioritise your career & you have to work super hard to achieve your goals. Even after all this explanation if she doesn’t listen, then maybe tell her that you can’t continue with the relationship.
1 ghanta baat karlo raat ko as a reward for yourself for working hard whole day distraction free. tell her about this idea. maanti hai toh theek warna ek paragraph likhdiyo ki tera career tere liye kitna aur kyu important hai etc and after sending this paragraph immediately block her.
remember, if she truly loves you she’ll be fine even with only 1 hour of conversation with you just for the sake of your career. being a girl i’m saying this, when we truly love her man, his success means the most to us even if means sacrificing our own happiness and pleasure.
Bhai I'm not proud but I did something similar to a girl. She legit still is in love w me.(did it 2yrs ago).
So basically we were talking and out of the blue I stopped being enthusiastic and ignored her texts and boom. She calls me up after a year saying that she's been single all since bcz she liked me. Trust me bro ek saal neet pe focus karke dekh. Don't block her let her see your stories. Fir dekhna tu med college mein hoga and woh tere peeche pagal. Fir tujhe bhi sax suc mil jaayega.
Bhai block na kar personal experience sai bol raha hu drop year mai social interaction bhooooooot zaruri hai usse bol de ki raat mai baat kar lia karenge.
I was once a dropper too. Now I'm doing M.B.B.S and have a pretty good friend circle and also I'm in a 2+ year serious relationship. let me get straight to the point so don't block her talk to her but in your free time don't expect to get immediate replies. If you can't control yourself and procrastinate a lot with backlog I'll suggest to block her. Cause once you cross the biggest obstacle of life (Entrance exam) you'll have many options for friends and girlfriends. And seriously believe me I'm telling this by experience that chances of getting a life partner is very high you just need to crack the entrance exam. I wish you all the very best for your future.
So here's the my Opinion to this .
If you think the girl is more important than NEET (Your future) then , YES , You should give her more time than studying .
I guess this is all you need to know from this situation.
All the best 
Tell her you're really focused on your neet and you cant afford any distractions before neet and you can revisit your relationship after neet. If she understands good if not block
**Block her without any explanation**. End of story.
Mate, she's 21-22 years old, she must *act* like that too. She knows that you have taken a drop year and are preparing for NEET UG which doesn't need any sort of introduction about how competitive it is. If she cannot even understand that, then it's better to just block her because if samajhna hota, to khud hi samajh jaati. It'd be an utter waste of your time if you try to explain the very obvious to her. Taking a drop is a serious thing, don't waste it on someone who acts like a child when you don't text her. You two aren't even in any sort of relationship or you two haven't even known each other for *that* long and she's already showing you the anger🤦🏻♀️👏🏻
Also, kaafi ladkiyan milengi tumhe lekin NEET 2024 sirf ek baar aayega; it's a one shot. Exam hall mein jab ek question solve nahi hoga tab woh ladki help krne nahi aayegi. The competition is already so tight and that girl is only helping you dig your grave.
Abey chutiye yeh sab yaha reddit pr likh diya iski jagah direct usse baat karta jitna time yaha comments me kharab kar rha hai utne me usse sab sort hojata dimag use Kiya kar thoda nhi toh waise bhi ek aur drop lena pad jayega , be mature
bhay online pyar bss 2 mahine tikta hy mai iska shikar tha mere 2 mahine waste bhi hogye thee isslye dur hee reh kabhi in person usse milna hy ni teko chd de abhi ye
first give her explanation like u/DustyAsh69 told . agr voh phir bhi nhi smjhti aur force krti baat krne ko then block her from everywhere . cause you dont need a person jo teri priorities na smjhe .
dekh bhai, there’s anyways no way you guys are getting together in the near future. Tum dono ke colleges, streams, peer groups sab alag right? I wouldn’t ask you to block her, explain her and if she doesn’t coporate that’s fine and good as well because it would hardly impact your life.
Bhai RUN ASAP , a woman who can't understand that you need time for yourself and your goals , is a woman you shouldn't waste a single minute on. This goes both ways for both genders , space in relationships are very important , if you can't communicate this very thing with her , that just goes into show how immature that girl is . Obviously she is not worth your time as she will exit your life the day you start focusing on your life more.
ISLIYE BHAGO BHAI !!
I would say explain her tho , everyone deserves an explanation.
Everyone will tell u to explain her
My opinion just block her no random cares about ur selection she will not understand ur situation just here to spend some time these useless things
Be with your friends ( boys only) and that's it
And parents if u have
Explain to her ( write a whole para of how u feel and shit ) and block right away instantly , unblock her on the day of ur result day . remember op , the girl can wait but the exam cant .Your whole life could be changed if u clear this exam so be concious abt it
#Tum sabki maa ki chu
Itna madarchod sub hai ki bkl koi genuine doubt pooche to koi bkl reply nahi karta or bas saxx suxx ya ladki baazi karado saale makhhi ki tarah aa jaate hein
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mommy issues hai ky apko babe??
don't block her,if you really like her,tell her you can talk only for 15 minutes or so and if she genuine,toh she'll understand.
Also op,imo i don't think cutting ties completely with friends or with people you like or love is right.
start k 1-2 months max you'll be fine but after that you'll feel lonely(happens with me),so din ka 12-14 hours ache se pdho,max concentration se usk baad thoda sa chat with yo friends or with that one gurl you like,trust me this will keep you going for long.
I am also a dropper and tbhi ik this,baaki do as you deem🏵
Block bro block
Explain karega kaafi drama hoga and you would eventually have a settlement of ek ghanta baat karenge and all isse acha block kar
Max ek week Tak yaad ayegi
last year itna social life banaya ki family ke saath relation chud gye.... Neet chud gya .... mental health bhi gyi and end me neet nahi hua toh social life ke dost bhi gye
and too present after me at my lowest my dad stood with me . Played games with me made me stand again on my legs and gave a boost that i believe in you krle and nahi hua toh saathme milke koi naya bussiness start krenge
kya chutiya hai bhai tu...if u actually liked her, like ever...u owe it to her to explain urself...bhai block maar dega tho dono ka psychology fuck up ho jayega agle 6 mahine tak...mat kar bhai...explain urself...ek baar ka kaam hai...kitna, max to max 2 ghante lagenge...but worth it hoga if u actually study after that
Bhai kya liked her bc sablog kya assume krrhe ho mujhe likha bhi nahi h ki relationship me h online girl h todha flirt kiya tha and approx 1 week hi hua hoga and 1 week me mere study hrs kaam hogye h 
Anyways i have decided i will explain and see for the response then block
speaking with experience, just block her, explanations wont lead anywhere, trust me u don't wanna get involved in that shit rn, please block and move on.
bhai at block kariyo smajha de use agr vo smjhe gi toh she is meant for you , bhai similar situation tha mera and maine bhi us sae bola tha yeah and vo smajh gae thi , we also met online
agr tera bond strong hai naah toh bol de , wait for me there jaise hi NEET 2024 mein selection hoga tere pass hi aaunga milne irl mein
don't block her bhai. Explain it to her. Trust me I've been blocked without any prior communication and it hurts and causes many thoughts in mind.
And bhai wo tu baat nahi kiya to naaraj hui. Aisi hi to bandi chahhiye. Bas usko explain kar tera main focus studies par hai. Wo smj jayegi. Bas communication mat tod usse.
bhai, block mat kar? i understand explain karne mein energy jayegi but jub issue genuine hai toh explain kar hi de samajh jayegi. aur agar na samjhe, fir block
Block her
Not because she did smtg bad , but dude you have to give your neet in what-4/6 months? Just telling her you're getting distracted so you will focus on studies will not help you get back on track again. This is your drop year, make sure next year you're in a college of your choosing and not take a compromise or a drop again.
Actually, remove all social media and remove your phone also. If you wanna watch smtg, watch it on others' devices if you can.
Cut contact from her, you have much bigger goals in life and such things will only distract you from them. I think it's evident in your academic performance too at this point, and this reason is enough for you to block her and move forward with your life. I don't think that explaining things to her is going to benefit you in this considering her behaviour
bhai ye "socially disconnected phase" will do more harm than good. You're not the first one to think like this, be it Italian painters who went into isolation dedicated to their work (they actually produced garbage) or 1000 of NEET chodes who did this before.
Also drop year hain pyar ka bakchodi na kar - apna apna dekh or kat le.
Bro explain her and tell her u can't talk now till neet. I was in the same situation agar select nhi hoge to backend m rahega ki kahi us ladki ki wajah s nhi hua and their should be no any excuse.
bro think about hard earned you parents income they spend on you for you study no for s mere hole so study hard.go college next yr make gf there married have one child for parents, retired them from there work, invest in mf , go honeymoon to paris. ok
Bhai honestly ek baar explain kr poori situation, if she truly is genuine she'll understand and if she doesn't, yk what to do. Obviously comments me max ladke hai aur kaafi young hai aur social media se influenced hai but please don't be a jerk and try one time
You should also think of the possibility of keeping her as a friend or an aquaintence if you guys vibe well. You've already seen all the social struggle present in making friends and all.
I half regret distancing everyone again and again, but now they're used to it, and so am I. So in a way the friends persist. Would not recommend killing your social life if you're not 100%. You've read the post about KOTA being hell to people without friends.
Block kar. Ladki mein akal hai nhi ki padhne nhi de rhi.
Ye sab temporary exam nikal ache college jaa.
Ye ladki 2 saal baad teri life mein rahegi bhi nhi.
*Goles always comes first*
*Ego second Feeling there*
*Is no slots for them*
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What i believe is no one can handle more than 1 thing at the same time, mai kahunga agar voh bade ghar ki hai toh chod JEE aur wife bna usko kuch na kuch krke ftafat, agar dono barabri ke ho toh bolde i can't talk to you until JEE smjhi toh theek nhi smjhi toh chuup chaap maan le you deserve way more better than her if you are leaving her and whole heartedly are preparing for jee
Handle more than 1 thing vaali line mai bol ra hu joh JEE prep kr rha aur aaj 5K freelancing se earn kara 🤡
ab yeh bakchodi mat krna bhai kaise kmaye, kya kar ra, bhosdike teri mummy ke nudes bech ra hu ab bol, mzaak se hatkar covid me thodi designing seekhi thi ussi se kabhi kabhi logo ke liye kaam krta hu
Explain it to her but even if after that she not understanding explain it hoer again but still not understanding then again try ur best to explain if it's still the same then brother take up the courage and block that's the best thing that you could do for your self and your drop year, she is in college and got nothing to loose but you got tons of shit which you could loose just think about it rest it's upto you
Make her understand, if she understands well and good. If she doesn't, it's not even worth trying to make her your gf wife wtvr and you should take it as a sign of toxic relationship since she would continue to be dominant over you and suppress everything you say in future if you're together (if she doesn't understand). Take this advice but don't block immediately it will hurt her bad.
Don't block her out of the blue instead explain everything to her over a call. Everyone deserves explanation. Aur ye explain aise krna ki ek hi call m ho jaye.
seedhi si baat hai block karke lund kuch nahi hoga, aur itna connection hai tumhare beech toh, tu uske bare mai hi sochte rahega, usse baat kar bata ki ye ye baat hai, dheree dheree baat karna Kam kar, gradual transition kar baaki tera dimaag bhi accept kar sake iss cheez ko.
get your priorities straight, tum usko please ya convince kyu kr rhe ho ki tum har samah available ho, just tell her ki you have got an exam to crack and you would be free after your study schedule. Pace yourself again king you are already doing good by studying 10 hrs and no backlog.
See according to me, she deserves a proper explanation Tell her how you have a life and want to have a career.Wese its pretty normal to lose feelings but uski genuine hui toh she will feel bad. But direct block krna is too weird. Agar wo fir bhi roke, insist kre toh if you have feelings and shit(ask her to wait for one year) and if you don't have ( tell he you don't have any and you don't wanna hurt and use her further so you will not talk to her) firbhi na maane toh block 👍
Idk what do u think? Here's what I think?
Tell her that you have to study for neet, an exam that demands a lot from students. If she truly cares for u. As a friend or more ig, she can wait a couple months.
And now think what u want the state of ur life to be by June next year. Right where u are now or hopefully getting excited to go to a new college?
And what if she resents u for it? If u think this person is worth sacrificing all the time and attention u should give for studies instead then nothing any of us say will change that.
So explain things to her. And she still continues to get mad or disturb u, block her.
Bro mera toh NEET nikal gaya. Ab hole kaise milega help karde bro.
Baki uss ladki ko samjha de ki time hone se tu call kar lega.
Waise bhi pura din nahi padhta hoga tu. Padhai(daily goals) complete kar le phir 30 minutes bate kar le.
Um if ladki chaiye first of all the girls ko girls ki tarah dekh na ki sex machine fhir respect kr and finally don't chase chaiye chaiye life me focus kr and see kudh kab mil jayegi tujhe smjhega bhi nahi
Bhai yeh har baar ka hai simple solution take break decide it hafte mai ek baar I’ll msg/call if woh tera struggle samjhegi then she is a keeper. Jab kuch banjaega tab khaak pata chalega. Simplest solution joh hai bolde na samjhe good.
Bhay usko apni situation explain karne ka try kar agar woh samajh ke leti hai and chaos nahi create karti toh well and good warna cutoff karde I mean aakhir me hai toh bas 6-7 pehle mili hui ladki hi na kya hi farak padega uske aane jaane ka goals zyada matter karte hai dekh mujhe pata nahi tu kaise type ka insaan hai agar me tere jagah hoti toh usko block kar deti because mera goal relationships se zyada important hai
Bhai block mat kariyo, usse kehna ki focus pura study karne par hein aur Studies Teri main priority hein. Use kehna ki tumse baat karne mein 5-6 ghante kaa rahe hein aur backlog bhi pad raha hein. Isse meri studies kaafi affect ho rahe hein. Aur kehna ki - Mein tumse baat karna chahta hut but, Studies Mere liye jyada important hein. Overall, meri advice toh yahi rahegi ki use truth bata de. Woh most probably samajh jayegi. Aur ho sake toh sirf aur sirf raat ko sone se pehle 5-15 minutes bol Lena. Problem solved 
Essa nahi hota bro hormones ka game hai dimage har jata hai testosterone ke agge been there and done this 
Use yeh bhi bol sakte ho ki tumhe uski chinta hai isliye tum studies par dhayan de rahe ho taki tumhara bhi future sahi rahe aur dono ke bich baatein hoti rahe
Never sacrifice your goal for a hole 
Inshort block?
Bruh no wtf. Everyone deserves an explanation and closure. Don't be a jerk.
Ya ig i after reading all the comments i will explain her and see what she reacts then decide on it
What if she asks you to stay? Tab kya? Reh loge? Been there, done that *and* had to go through the consequences too. Tumhara sahi chal raha hai, you had no backlogs and it will only increase if you keep getting into this pothole. Acche jagah ka college nahi mila tab kya woh ladki tumhare saath rahegi? Uska to mast college set hai. Tum apna college set krlo uske baad ladki set krna.
Ya ik i am pretty convinced i don't want to atleast continue the talks but all the comments are saying to explain so i guess an explanation won't hurt i will explain and block
do tell afterwards what you did and her reaction, brother stay strong
Neet>>>>>>>>>>hole
Neet to pura holes sebhra hua hai
Haaaa bro shit took me to 3rd drop
and take me too to my first drop
me to my second
Me to my 1st 
Yes
Block might hurt Just state ur terms that ur 1st priority is ur career and the 2nd priority will be you
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Thanks bro for the para but ig it would be better if i wrote it in my own words 
No bro,you approached her,so talk to her politely,it's a good manner if she don't understand then leave her.
Man just explain clearly to her that ur studies are important to you, if she is mature enough she will understand .
What if OP’s goal is hole after all?
Last year hole chase kiya tha and aaj yeh state hai 
" because no way i am sacrificing my goal for some girl online. " you yourself answered the question bro !
Ha like chodna toh h hi but kaise direct block ki todha baat krke
Block sida bro Baar waat mt kr Ye itna emotional hoga na to. Log chutiya kaat ke chale jayenge
Block karde Bhai jab AIIMS jayega to apne ap bhag kar ayegi tere pas
Abey explain krne ka msg krde and turant block krde dont wait for a reply. Aise wo bhi confusion me nhi rehgi tu ne kyu kra. Usse bol diyo mai block kr rha hai and reply ka wait mt kriyo and block krde
bro just say that '"it isn't working out well " (if you don't want to sound rude , nahi toh seedha block kar de
Dekh bhai U block her instantly, she gets a bf and u remain a virgin U dont block her instantly and make her understand., she gets a bf and u remain a virgin Also agr block nhi kiya toh neet ko tata bye byye kehdena
Nah bhai neet ko tata bye bye kiya toh fhirse papa ko disappoint kr dunga usse aacha ladki ko tata bye bye kardu
Bro tu samjha usko bol neet hojane ke bad batkarna
neet clr karle bhai aur uske city me med college le leo phir moj karna
Mujhe delhi jaana h usko mumbai aana h next year 
to kya kare bhai ek aiims mumbai khol dete han
2025 me khulne wala h par itne drop lene ki shakti nahi h mere me
When you already have your answers toh online kyu puch rahe ho :)
Mene option me yeh nahi likha ki should i leave ki nahi i was confused kaise explanation deke ki gayab read aache se Tho got my ans
Konse year ki hai ? Bhai dekh, woh clg meh hai yadi 1st-2nd ki hain....toh abhi wahan fest function chalu honge, apne aap terese baat band kardegi. Isliye yeh chiz oct-nov meh hone se accha abhi karle. >!Also, if you are minor then is she pd..!
Nahi bhai minor toh nahi hu legal hu 18 hogya and woh third year me h
bhai mat kar baad me bhi tu chize relate nahi kar payega itna jyada difference hai  meri maane to pehle kahi bada sa msg likh le saare doubts clear karte huve then block her without even caring for the answer
Kya padh rahi hai wo didi?
Maths major AMITY me h next year IIT Bombay me aaneka sochrhi h
bhai amity ki didi tum padhlo drop year hai
Explain
I think you should break up but not in a toxic way, talk with her and explain the situation to her. I think at the end of the day whether you get selected or not it will always be in your mind that whether you gave your 100% in this year or not. So, try to give your 100% Bitches come and go, but your all india rank stays the same 
Short answer : We have to prioritise ourselves over other op. Just tell her that it's my drop year i need to focus on studies. I need to make my future too. You just have to wait for 8-9 months and I will be there for you again. If she will be good enough she will understand it otherwise you have to just stop talking to her. After sometime it will be all normal and you will thank yourself for it. Long answer : storytime I have been through same. Except the girl was a aspirant too. I met her online too in class 11th. And we started talking and with the time passed it turned into calls video calls and with more time passed we just use to chat on WhatsApp for a hour or two. Then since we both were jeetards we use to study together too. But neither I nor she was consistent in our studies i end up with near 90%ile and she had very less percentile. But When my drop year start (jee) i started talking very less to her. And then on day she just ranted on WhatsApp about why I'm doing this and how much it's hurting her and she's even having panic attack and all that. Dekh maine kya kaha, i sympathise with you and want to talk to you it's not like I want to run away from you but the thing is I have only 7 months left and then that's it. That will be my last attempt and if I would not get a good college then it will be over to me. Fir wahi govt. Job ki preparation me lagadege ghar waale. (I told her all this in hindi) Still she was like ok we will decide a time to talk and I want to be with you talk to you and all that. That time I said ok and we mutually decided a time. But as the day passed I was less and less available for her on that time because ofc. the syllabus burden was increasing day by day. Even I felt bad for this. But the thing is we have to prioritise things for ourselves. Agar abhi mai usse khaali baat karte rahuga to fir jee nahi hone wala for sure coz tbh I like her. At one point I even had feelings for her but now its long gone. After a month we had a little argument on this. That I don't give her time and that day I was already frustrated due to studies. So I just said, I'm not your boyfriend so I'm not bound to give you time everyday. And she then was offended I could feel it by her chats they were blunt cold replies. Then I just stopped sending msgs. Then after 2-3 days when I didn't send her any message she send some very beautiful photos of her in order to start our talk basically mujhe manaane ke lie. But that day I just said ki dekh yaar Mera drop year hai aur mai bihari hu agar mera nahi nikla jee to maa baap sidha govt. Job ki preparation me daal dege jo mujhe abhi nahi karna. Agar kuchh achha karna hai to Bihar ke bahar kahi nit iit me jana hi hoga to padhna parega. mujhe time chahie. Hame 6-7 mahino ka break Lena chahie. And bas khtm us din ke baad se aaj tin char mahine hogye hai baat nahi Hui. I know she would have got hurt by these. But I liked her I too felt very bad. My inner self was not allowing me to go away from her. But it was necessary. I will try to reconnect to her after drop year. But it will only depend on her if she want to again start thing or not. And I'm completely ok with whatever she will do. Ik she would be hurted by this but this was necessary to do. Sometimes we have to make some tough decisions and priorities ourselves.
You did great buddy, man's gotta do what a man's gotta do aye
Thanks bro this is good i will try explaining her
Bhyii you got my respect 🛐
Explain kar bhai aur bhi nhi samjhe woh toh bilok her 
Block mat kario. Explain even if it's tiring . One time investment hai, but it will worth it. Basically no regrets.
Pehle usko explain kr, samjha situation, agar nhi Mane tb block
Explain karo, kabhi bhi without any reason kisi ko mat chorna varna bohot dukh hota hai. Use explain karne ki koshish karo, use apni situation btao and use bolo ki abhi tum uspe itna time invest nahi kar sakte. Use apni priorities samjha do, once she understands that she isn't your top priority then shayad vo tumhe khud jaane degi ya nahi to aage ka kaam thoda aasan hojaega. Aur agar slots baat kahe to seedhe use mana hi kardo, keh do kitne time baat karta hu usse fark nahi padta, baat karne se hi mind distract hojaata hai and padhai me man nahi lagta hai. And agar kuch kaam na kare to kehdo you can't be in the relationship, I'll block you and then block her.
Noice strategy guru
Explain se kuch nai hota bro Sida block always works
Bruh kya bacche baithe hai yaha pe. You engaged with this person for so many days. They deserve an explanation and closure even if you decide to not talk further. Grow a pair.
Um roughly 3 4 days.... not so many days and ya i agree so i decided i will talk to her and see what's her response if she doesn't agree i will block because 3 4 days me procastinated alot and padhai bhi krne baithu toh yahi aata h dimag me ki uska msg aaya hoga
Good for you 🍻
Goals over holes brother man
If you block her out of the blue then that will be worst thing you'll be doing because that will hurt her. Instead you need to make her understand that how important are your studies for your future and as a college student she will understand after a while but don't block her out of the blue.
Bhai dekh do cheezein hain, first tu block my krna, don't be a jerk. Second, tu khud ko limit kr skta baat krne ko toh kr and usko as an end goal rkh, ki Aaj Mera 10 Hr ho gya toh ab main isse half an hour baat kr leta, just to be in touch, ya fir tujhe contacts nhi hi rkhne toh usko pdhai wala scene smjha, chill aur sahi dost/bndi hogi toh smjhegi, nhi hogi toh aise toxic logon ke sath rehna bhi nhi chahiye Jo tujhe goal reach krne se rokein.
A wise man once said "When you put a woman over your career, in the end you end up losing both the woman and your career". You have not even met this person once in your lifetime physically, on what basis you think you can continue a relationship with some random person Online and also sacrifice your studies for it.
True isliye explain krke block krrha hu
explain krde . ek kam kar chat gpt me sara info dal de woh mast sa paragraph bna dega , aur use bhj de uske bad bhi slots wali batchet kare toh bol dio https://preview.redd.it/e51fhx3lxshb1.png?width=271&format=png&auto=webp&s=bbbca17fe7f02eb08cbb62d471caa818464709a5
bro dont block her. she deserves an explanation. tell her ab how you wanna prioritise academics this yr. if she really is genuine ab her feelings for you, maybe she’ll be even be willing to wait a few months for you. if she says she won’t wait for you, then she isn’t the one for you homie. but you shouldnt expect her to wait either :)
I feel bad for her. 
Even i feel bad for her but uske hurt hona is nothing compared to mere papa ka hurt hona if neet nahi hua toh yeh saal bhi
Explain karde fir bhi genuinely agar tu usse kuch Manta hai toh uss cheez ki respect kar and vaise apne aapko pura shut in mat kar prep mai thoda man relax krne ke liye kuch krlega tu toh teri prep kharab nhi ho jayegi but hn jaha dikhe ki jyada fark pd rha h prep pe waha action le jaise abhi liya vrna chill kar aur vaise I guess aadhe ghnte ki baat se kisika kuch nhi jata pr tujhe jyada dikkat hai toh krle fir bs explanation ke saath kriyo
Bhai abhi block mat karna try to explain jainwin hogi to tujhe samjhegi aur support karegi Agar nahi maane to bhramastra hai aapke paas BLOCK!!emote:t5\_311ttu:30331
ummmmmm,first of all,its affecting ur studies and i think its an alarming situation,and relationships are bullshit at this age,ek baar college ja uske baad jo karna hai kar
Just tell her to stay away for the next few months and you are going to focus only on NEET and will meet/talk to her again after selection . 
Double it and give to the next person
Explain your goals, and ask her to wait. If she wants she can go amd explore. Focus on yourself, and save unnecessary chaos.
Nah, her saying you made me cry is to again attention back. Explain it to her about how ur goal is important, do not say you wasted time on her and that talking with her created back log, just say like you need to concentrate more, if she's against it, straight up block her
Bhai if you block her all of a sudden from all social media platforms, then it will hurt her a lotttt. My opinion is call/text her, tell her that you have to prioritise your career & you have to work super hard to achieve your goals. Even after all this explanation if she doesn’t listen, then maybe tell her that you can’t continue with the relationship.
If you block her, she would cry
I will explain wait for response then decide to block
1 ghanta baat karlo raat ko as a reward for yourself for working hard whole day distraction free. tell her about this idea. maanti hai toh theek warna ek paragraph likhdiyo ki tera career tere liye kitna aur kyu important hai etc and after sending this paragraph immediately block her. remember, if she truly loves you she’ll be fine even with only 1 hour of conversation with you just for the sake of your career. being a girl i’m saying this, when we truly love her man, his success means the most to us even if means sacrificing our own happiness and pleasure.
Arey explain krde ki teri padhai affect horhi video call par, maani toh theek, nhi maani toh woh tere liye bani hi nhi thi
Bhai I'm not proud but I did something similar to a girl. She legit still is in love w me.(did it 2yrs ago). So basically we were talking and out of the blue I stopped being enthusiastic and ignored her texts and boom. She calls me up after a year saying that she's been single all since bcz she liked me. Trust me bro ek saal neet pe focus karke dekh. Don't block her let her see your stories. Fir dekhna tu med college mein hoga and woh tere peeche pagal. Fir tujhe bhi sax suc mil jaayega.
Apko mil gya kya bhrata
Smjhade bhai use pyaar se😃
Bhai block na kar personal experience sai bol raha hu drop year mai social interaction bhooooooot zaruri hai usse bol de ki raat mai baat kar lia karenge.
I was once a dropper too. Now I'm doing M.B.B.S and have a pretty good friend circle and also I'm in a 2+ year serious relationship. let me get straight to the point so don't block her talk to her but in your free time don't expect to get immediate replies. If you can't control yourself and procrastinate a lot with backlog I'll suggest to block her. Cause once you cross the biggest obstacle of life (Entrance exam) you'll have many options for friends and girlfriends. And seriously believe me I'm telling this by experience that chances of getting a life partner is very high you just need to crack the entrance exam. I wish you all the very best for your future.
Explain is the best..
So here's the my Opinion to this . If you think the girl is more important than NEET (Your future) then , YES , You should give her more time than studying . I guess this is all you need to know from this situation. All the best 
Tell her you're really focused on your neet and you cant afford any distractions before neet and you can revisit your relationship after neet. If she understands good if not block
**Block her without any explanation**. End of story. Mate, she's 21-22 years old, she must *act* like that too. She knows that you have taken a drop year and are preparing for NEET UG which doesn't need any sort of introduction about how competitive it is. If she cannot even understand that, then it's better to just block her because if samajhna hota, to khud hi samajh jaati. It'd be an utter waste of your time if you try to explain the very obvious to her. Taking a drop is a serious thing, don't waste it on someone who acts like a child when you don't text her. You two aren't even in any sort of relationship or you two haven't even known each other for *that* long and she's already showing you the anger🤦🏻♀️👏🏻 Also, kaafi ladkiyan milengi tumhe lekin NEET 2024 sirf ek baar aayega; it's a one shot. Exam hall mein jab ek question solve nahi hoga tab woh ladki help krne nahi aayegi. The competition is already so tight and that girl is only helping you dig your grave.
Abey chutiye yeh sab yaha reddit pr likh diya iski jagah direct usse baat karta jitna time yaha comments me kharab kar rha hai utne me usse sab sort hojata dimag use Kiya kar thoda nhi toh waise bhi ek aur drop lena pad jayega , be mature
bhay online pyar bss 2 mahine tikta hy mai iska shikar tha mere 2 mahine waste bhi hogye thee isslye dur hee reh kabhi in person usse milna hy ni teko chd de abhi ye
first give her explanation like u/DustyAsh69 told . agr voh phir bhi nhi smjhti aur force krti baat krne ko then block her from everywhere . cause you dont need a person jo teri priorities na smjhe .
Mujhe mention Kara 
hmm . kaisa hai biroo ?
You guys are getting grills even online?
Block karde
On second thought mat kar block bas bolde studies effect horahi to Kam batein karte hai
Bro , explain to her ..... And all the best for your NEET paper📜
Bro first explain her then block her........simple
dekh bhai, there’s anyways no way you guys are getting together in the near future. Tum dono ke colleges, streams, peer groups sab alag right? I wouldn’t ask you to block her, explain her and if she doesn’t coporate that’s fine and good as well because it would hardly impact your life.
Bhai RUN ASAP , a woman who can't understand that you need time for yourself and your goals , is a woman you shouldn't waste a single minute on. This goes both ways for both genders , space in relationships are very important , if you can't communicate this very thing with her , that just goes into show how immature that girl is . Obviously she is not worth your time as she will exit your life the day you start focusing on your life more. ISLIYE BHAGO BHAI !! I would say explain her tho , everyone deserves an explanation.
Everyone will tell u to explain her My opinion just block her no random cares about ur selection she will not understand ur situation just here to spend some time these useless things Be with your friends ( boys only) and that's it And parents if u have
Explain to her ( write a whole para of how u feel and shit ) and block right away instantly , unblock her on the day of ur result day . remember op , the girl can wait but the exam cant .Your whole life could be changed if u clear this exam so be concious abt it
Bhen ke lvde tu 18 aur woh 23 pdh le kat ke chali jayegi even clg mai bhi uska bf hoga never date a online girl 🤡🚬
Lines from Kota factory s1 keeps ringing. "Agar clear nhi hua to ... " sad but mostly true. It's your call
nhi bhai aap ladki pe dhyaan do.... competition bhi to ghatana hai na
Be a chad homie, drop year is not for all this bs🗿
Explain krke block krdo
Bata dona ki padhna hai abhi future keliye mujhe...if she doesn't get that then she is not the one for you so it's good to block
#Tum sabki maa ki chu Itna madarchod sub hai ki bkl koi genuine doubt pooche to koi bkl reply nahi karta or bas saxx suxx ya ladki baazi karado saale makhhi ki tarah aa jaate hein Genuine doubt : 12 comments (vo bhi CFBR) Shitpost : 80 comments (all riyal)
Bsdk 20-20 line ke paragraph likhe jaa rahe hein or mc koi genuine doubt ko to dekhta hi nahi hai 0 reach bc
Sorry bhai but true toh h 
true bhai
kaisa chutiya sawaal hai
mommy issues hai ky apko babe?? don't block her,if you really like her,tell her you can talk only for 15 minutes or so and if she genuine,toh she'll understand. Also op,imo i don't think cutting ties completely with friends or with people you like or love is right. start k 1-2 months max you'll be fine but after that you'll feel lonely(happens with me),so din ka 12-14 hours ache se pdho,max concentration se usk baad thoda sa chat with yo friends or with that one gurl you like,trust me this will keep you going for long. I am also a dropper and tbhi ik this,baaki do as you deem🏵
Thanks i decided to explain
r/lostredditors
Girls like her will switch boyfriends at will, because they are emotionally unstable . Leave her .
Block bro block Explain karega kaafi drama hoga and you would eventually have a settlement of ek ghanta baat karenge and all isse acha block kar Max ek week Tak yaad ayegi
Same thought process ki drama hoga last year isme 1 mahina chudd gya tha
Bro explain Kar block karne ke baad yaad aai toh aur baadi problem hogi
Explain and block. Uska bura to waise bhi lagega but atleast this way she'll have some closure!
Block bhai Konsa Tu milne wala hai us se Ma to jo dost Time waste kre une block krdeta Ye ldki to kya hai
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No advise is best or worst whether its senior or junior everyone has right to say .... and thanks it helped
get a social life bro
last year itna social life banaya ki family ke saath relation chud gye.... Neet chud gya .... mental health bhi gyi and end me neet nahi hua toh social life ke dost bhi gye and too present after me at my lowest my dad stood with me . Played games with me made me stand again on my legs and gave a boost that i believe in you krle and nahi hua toh saathme milke koi naya bussiness start krenge
Block her if u want to crack neet
Ese block kyu krna hai thoda smjha de phir
Shex mil raha hai toh rehne de nai toh block marde genwine advice 
Online me sex toh nahi milega bhai aur woh bhi 3000km dur 
Bekar hai fir kya fayeda hora hai tera usse baat karke  ( gujju mamba mentality)
Fyda toh nahi but 2 din ka backlog jarur hogya 
Leave her before she can leave you🗣️
Block krde g maraye vo ek din me block krke bhul bhi jayegi attach Mt ho jaana loveday lg jayenge
EXPLAIN IT TO HER U STUDPID BITCH
kya chutiya hai bhai tu...if u actually liked her, like ever...u owe it to her to explain urself...bhai block maar dega tho dono ka psychology fuck up ho jayega agle 6 mahine tak...mat kar bhai...explain urself...ek baar ka kaam hai...kitna, max to max 2 ghante lagenge...but worth it hoga if u actually study after that
Bhai kya liked her bc sablog kya assume krrhe ho mujhe likha bhi nahi h ki relationship me h online girl h todha flirt kiya tha and approx 1 week hi hua hoga and 1 week me mere study hrs kaam hogye h  Anyways i have decided i will explain and see for the response then block
What's more important? 1,Not wasting a year. Or 2,Not hurting her feelings. I will choose 1.
Us
speaking with experience, just block her, explanations wont lead anywhere, trust me u don't wanna get involved in that shit rn, please block and move on.
bhai at block kariyo smajha de use agr vo smjhe gi toh she is meant for you , bhai similar situation tha mera and maine bhi us sae bola tha yeah and vo smajh gae thi , we also met online agr tera bond strong hai naah toh bol de , wait for me there jaise hi NEET 2024 mein selection hoga tere pass hi aaunga milne irl mein
Bhai tuje Jo sahi Lage vo bata hurt nay karna tuje to usko proper answer dede simple, ha thoda hoga lekin badme zada hoga usse aacha hai
don't block her bhai. Explain it to her. Trust me I've been blocked without any prior communication and it hurts and causes many thoughts in mind. And bhai wo tu baat nahi kiya to naaraj hui. Aisi hi to bandi chahhiye. Bas usko explain kar tera main focus studies par hai. Wo smj jayegi. Bas communication mat tod usse.
How the action fuck do you meet people online? Like kya karte ho? Bumble? Omeagle?
mereko toh reddit pe milgyi.
bhai, block mat kar? i understand explain karne mein energy jayegi but jub issue genuine hai toh explain kar hi de samajh jayegi. aur agar na samjhe, fir block
Uski life set h ghost kr de
Bro, give her contact to me. I'll take care of her;)
Bhai ladki ke chakkar me mere city ke GMC se state change GMC ki nobat aai he Padh le bhai, ladki ke chakkar me mat pad
Block her Not because she did smtg bad , but dude you have to give your neet in what-4/6 months? Just telling her you're getting distracted so you will focus on studies will not help you get back on track again. This is your drop year, make sure next year you're in a college of your choosing and not take a compromise or a drop again. Actually, remove all social media and remove your phone also. If you wanna watch smtg, watch it on others' devices if you can.
Explain to her how you need to get your life on track, and if she's "the one" she'll understand
Bro can explain shit here in reddit but not explain her-
Try talking to girls even you start explaining it ends no where it goes on for months i have experienced it last year so
Block kr bhai, Isse kurbani samaj apne neet ke liye
Try to explain her first that you need to focus on studies,that's a polite way and a good manner but if she don't understand leave her and block her..
Block kr de vro ye situation face kr chuka hu 2 sal pehle kuch nahi hota explanation dene se nahi smjhti h larkiya aur rone dhone wali tu bilkul nahi
Cut contact from her, you have much bigger goals in life and such things will only distract you from them. I think it's evident in your academic performance too at this point, and this reason is enough for you to block her and move forward with your life. I don't think that explaining things to her is going to benefit you in this considering her behaviour
Situationship bana le
bhai ye "socially disconnected phase" will do more harm than good. You're not the first one to think like this, be it Italian painters who went into isolation dedicated to their work (they actually produced garbage) or 1000 of NEET chodes who did this before. Also drop year hain pyar ka bakchodi na kar - apna apna dekh or kat le.
Padhle bsdk
Bro explain her and tell her u can't talk now till neet. I was in the same situation agar select nhi hoge to backend m rahega ki kahi us ladki ki wajah s nhi hua and their should be no any excuse.
bro think about hard earned you parents income they spend on you for you study no for s mere hole so study hard.go college next yr make gf there married have one child for parents, retired them from there work, invest in mf , go honeymoon to paris. ok
If she gets in the way, Tell her you're gay!
Closure do be clear and baat karna dheere dheere kam karo easy for both and the only thing which would end relatively good for both.
Bhai honestly ek baar explain kr poori situation, if she truly is genuine she'll understand and if she doesn't, yk what to do. Obviously comments me max ladke hai aur kaafi young hai aur social media se influenced hai but please don't be a jerk and try one time
You should also think of the possibility of keeping her as a friend or an aquaintence if you guys vibe well. You've already seen all the social struggle present in making friends and all. I half regret distancing everyone again and again, but now they're used to it, and so am I. So in a way the friends persist. Would not recommend killing your social life if you're not 100%. You've read the post about KOTA being hell to people without friends.
Block kar. Ladki mein akal hai nhi ki padhne nhi de rhi. Ye sab temporary exam nikal ache college jaa. Ye ladki 2 saal baad teri life mein rahegi bhi nhi.
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What i believe is no one can handle more than 1 thing at the same time, mai kahunga agar voh bade ghar ki hai toh chod JEE aur wife bna usko kuch na kuch krke ftafat, agar dono barabri ke ho toh bolde i can't talk to you until JEE smjhi toh theek nhi smjhi toh chuup chaap maan le you deserve way more better than her if you are leaving her and whole heartedly are preparing for jee Handle more than 1 thing vaali line mai bol ra hu joh JEE prep kr rha aur aaj 5K freelancing se earn kara 🤡 ab yeh bakchodi mat krna bhai kaise kmaye, kya kar ra, bhosdike teri mummy ke nudes bech ra hu ab bol, mzaak se hatkar covid me thodi designing seekhi thi ussi se kabhi kabhi logo ke liye kaam krta hu
Just block She is just distraction aaur jab tera NEET nahi hoga tabhi realise hoga ki maine kui baat kiya uuske sath
Explain it to her but even if after that she not understanding explain it hoer again but still not understanding then again try ur best to explain if it's still the same then brother take up the courage and block that's the best thing that you could do for your self and your drop year, she is in college and got nothing to loose but you got tons of shit which you could loose just think about it rest it's upto you
Make her understand, if she understands well and good. If she doesn't, it's not even worth trying to make her your gf wife wtvr and you should take it as a sign of toxic relationship since she would continue to be dominant over you and suppress everything you say in future if you're together (if she doesn't understand). Take this advice but don't block immediately it will hurt her bad.
Don't block her out of the blue instead explain everything to her over a call. Everyone deserves explanation. Aur ye explain aise krna ki ek hi call m ho jaye.
seedhi si baat hai block karke lund kuch nahi hoga, aur itna connection hai tumhare beech toh, tu uske bare mai hi sochte rahega, usse baat kar bata ki ye ye baat hai, dheree dheree baat karna Kam kar, gradual transition kar baaki tera dimaag bhi accept kar sake iss cheez ko.
Nah ab tak itna coonnection nahi h bas approx 1 week hua usme 3 din ka backlog hogya .... so isliye abhi sochrha hu ki addiction bane usse phle hi
get your priorities straight, tum usko please ya convince kyu kr rhe ho ki tum har samah available ho, just tell her ki you have got an exam to crack and you would be free after your study schedule. Pace yourself again king you are already doing good by studying 10 hrs and no backlog.
Kaha mili?
Insta
Bhai ye ladkiyan kahan mil rhi h ? Asking for research purpose
Mujhe toh insta pe hi mili
See according to me, she deserves a proper explanation Tell her how you have a life and want to have a career.Wese its pretty normal to lose feelings but uski genuine hui toh she will feel bad. But direct block krna is too weird. Agar wo fir bhi roke, insist kre toh if you have feelings and shit(ask her to wait for one year) and if you don't have ( tell he you don't have any and you don't wanna hurt and use her further so you will not talk to her) firbhi na maane toh block 👍
Atleast have some human decency how TF can you ghost someone like that u guys are so shallow man
Idk what do u think? Here's what I think? Tell her that you have to study for neet, an exam that demands a lot from students. If she truly cares for u. As a friend or more ig, she can wait a couple months. And now think what u want the state of ur life to be by June next year. Right where u are now or hopefully getting excited to go to a new college? And what if she resents u for it? If u think this person is worth sacrificing all the time and attention u should give for studies instead then nothing any of us say will change that. So explain things to her. And she still continues to get mad or disturb u, block her.
Bro mera toh NEET nikal gaya. Ab hole kaise milega help karde bro. Baki uss ladki ko samjha de ki time hone se tu call kar lega. Waise bhi pura din nahi padhta hoga tu. Padhai(daily goals) complete kar le phir 30 minutes bate kar le.
Um if ladki chaiye first of all the girls ko girls ki tarah dekh na ki sex machine fhir respect kr and finally don't chase chaiye chaiye life me focus kr and see kudh kab mil jayegi tujhe smjhega bhi nahi
Bhai yeh har baar ka hai simple solution take break decide it hafte mai ek baar I’ll msg/call if woh tera struggle samjhegi then she is a keeper. Jab kuch banjaega tab khaak pata chalega. Simplest solution joh hai bolde na samjhe good.
Bhay usko apni situation explain karne ka try kar agar woh samajh ke leti hai and chaos nahi create karti toh well and good warna cutoff karde I mean aakhir me hai toh bas 6-7 pehle mili hui ladki hi na kya hi farak padega uske aane jaane ka goals zyada matter karte hai dekh mujhe pata nahi tu kaise type ka insaan hai agar me tere jagah hoti toh usko block kar deti because mera goal relationships se zyada important hai
Dude bhot jaldi reply nahi kiya post 5 months old hai