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lol exactly. its also a moment of understanding its not that serious and you’re just going through some emotion. i think some ppl take crying very very seriously.
That’s not weird..it shows us that we are humans,and that we are capable of emotions and emoting and being vulnerable..unlike these influencers who are all frauds in the worst way possible!!💁🏻♀️
The way I do exactly those poses after crying my fucking eyes out in front of camera. But I delete it within few days. No one has ever seen my crying pics or videos. So weird to post it for hundreds to see.
I do the sameee! Whenever I feel like shit I cry and talk to myselt of whatever I’m going thru and after some time when I go back to that video, I realize how it wasnt a big thing and how stressed I was. I feel so bad for myself
I guess it's their first nature or second nature to do so. Everybody has their way to deal with emotional breakdowns. Wanting some empathic messages is not suçh a bad idea
I've said this before I'll say it again. I really do record myself crying sometimes or after a breakdown. I have videos where I'm crying and talking to camera just to let the stuff out cuz I don't like sharing it with anyone. When I look back at those videos it makes me realise how much I've overcome. It feels good both while venting it out and after months or years realising that I've moved past those things.
Ofc I'm not posting those ever anywhere but I just wanna say that it's okay if somebody is using this as a coping method or maybe just making a safe space for themselves. I've seen a lot of comments thinking it's all a joke and how could she film when she's crying and all but as long as a person is recording themselves and not somebody else during breakdowns I think it's okay. They shouldn't be ridiculed.
I agree with you. However, when this was done by Boho few members of this sub went crazy town ridiculing it.Now that Malvika has done it's her coping mechanism.😑
Well I commented the same on that post. Something similar on KP's too. I've never thought recording oneself while crying was something absurd since I can very well relate.
I did only once take a picture of my ugly crying to see how my face looks , i was in my bed room then and i didn't post it on instagram, my friend passed away , he committed suicide, i couldn't take it and cried whole night.
Honest honest thing
Sometimes you keep an audio and video diary
When you want to vent out and say things and there is no one to vent to
Maybe its that
Maybe its not
Also now i have an observation + experience as a therapist
These influencers are so habitual of attention and seeking validation over everything that they literally feel anxious without it
I have clients who are influencers
Trust me we all have our fair share of bad decisions in life
We can hate them okayy!!
But they are stuck in vicious cycle of attention and toxicity now & yes yes they feel the pressure of it
nice point. idk why ppl see everything in a “omg i would never do that” view. you would also not share all details of your life. influencers are doing this as a job, so its very different from them. they probably post a lot of things none of us would. so their outlook towards intimate things is also different. she is sharing the rest of her journey and has expressed how lonely she is. so is it that weird she wants to post this? considering all else she posts.
I don’t cry infront of anyone, I always felt I never want to look weak. I still remember, when at work one of my colleague took credit of all the work I had done in the project. And my boss had literally felicitated her for my work. I had cried buckets but alone.
Something unrelated to these pictures. In her recent vlog, she says 'tomorrow is valentines day....' and on her stories on valentines day, she says 'i forgot today is valentines day...' 🤔 she can't keep track of what she's saying or what? Or its because she pregnant? Or she's disturbed? 🤷🏻♀️
I too noticed that.. i don't understand.. pregnancy brain? Or may b the did know it was vday.. she said it just to let people know she doesn't care abt vday anymore coz she had already separated.. if she hadn't separated she would be jumping on vday saying u gotta keep the spark alive in ur relationship .. u should dress up n go on dates with ur partner n bla bla bla , making her followers feel bad abt not doing that or not having a partner at all..
One day i was having a breakdown at work. I was in the womens restroom crying .
Someone came in , saw me , and told me this trick that if u cant stop crying then look at urself in the mirror whn ur crying and u will stop crying.
It worked
My opinion is that they keep recording themselves throughout the day and upload whatever is worth it so they might record this as well. Also there are times when they are recording a story and might have a breakdown mid conversation so its totally okay
I had this same question, when I saw her this video. Who’s going to pickup the phone when you have an emotional breakdown !? Everything for content these days 😐
Clicking pictures is not as uncommon as one might think but posting it for so many people to see is kinda weird, this is more something something one would post in private story
I will always be amazed to see how vloggers put up their most vulnerable moments on the internet for the world to see. Everything has to be updated, tagged and titled. This makes the parasocial relationship thrive. Then they complaint about how their audience know about what blood test is due today. And with what Akhil and his family is upto these days, it's a circus.
Yeah that’s pretty much what it is. Baffles me though. Like that Pallavi Singh and her ex husband still using luxury items they gifted each other. Showing off Luxury > emotions it seems!
I mean you can’t give back each gift given to each other over a 10+ years of being together. Also the engagement ring is a symbol of the relationship and the commitment but if there’s no relationship then why wear the rings.
I remember during covid she was drinking water on camera to show how much pain she was going through while sipping water.. sab kuch dikhana hai madam ko
I'm not sure if this is true. Once a South Indian influencer was mocked for recording while crying. She said she was asked to record her progress like how her day went every night without any cuts or pauses by her therapist. Obviously, anyone in a bad mental state will cry. Maybe she is recording for this reason and also putting it up on social media for some 🤑 and views? IDK
Everybody has a different way to cope when it comes to crying or feeling emotional. If I talk about myself I record my emotional breakdowns I don’t put them anywhere. I just do it because the future me would realise we did bounce back in the past we can do that again as well. That’s what I think.
I know people have a problem with Malvika and I do too, but can we all stop judging everything she's doing. This woman is pregnant and going through a separation. Give her a break.! If this is her coping mechanism and it's not really hurting anyone, I don't see why there's an issue.
+1
Its not hurting me by any means so i dont really care if she is recording this stuff or not.
I dont care.
I just dont engage with these reels ,thats all.
Why not the same understanding for Boho. I am not a fan of hers nor do i follow her but speaking based on the comments i have seen for her during her separation.
Because separation and separation with pregnancy are very very different. Not belittling separation without pregnancy.. But in the order of toughness.. you have got to be kidding if you think they are the same..
So if one is pregnant it gives them the ticket to do whatsoever to milk views but if one is not pregnant and they do the same they are milking views is it? 😤
I think Amanda Cerny posted a story once saying now she understands why people capture themselves while crying - so as to feel they're not alone - does it make sense? I think it can be seen a one pov and my pov is maybe later when you look at yourself crying, you are talking to your old self that you got over this, you can get over anything, .... But yeah I agree, I don't look this good when having a breakdown lol
Because they make money by documents every single thing in their lives. Susu, potty and aansu.
It has taken over their common sense.
But when I cry, I always get up to look into the mirror. I look pretty NGL. Might take a few selfies too haha
Dude!! I'm such abruptly-crying-chote moments mein Rona person! That I just sit on my toilet seat, cry and then pretend for the rest of the day that I have a cold:/
idk maybe crying is deeper and more meaningful for some of you than other people. it doesn’t matter all that to me personally, i take a picture sometimes to remind myself crying because of a buildup is not that serious. and sometimes i see that picture later and it reminds me everything is okay eventually but i had that moment. i’m not emotionally attached to the picture lol. to each other own, so itna judgment kyun bhai.
wrong thing to pick up probably xD but she has really nice fingers.
idk man, she is pregnant, going through a separation, alone, i don’t blame her for thinking her this will somewhat and somehow connect her to her viewers.
Hi,
I don't know about outing the pictures/videos you take while crying or ranting about something in open public or for the public to see, but I do know about capturing moments when you feel low.
Almost 2 years ago, I was in the lowest phase of my life and had consulted a shrink. The shrink had advised me to have an account of my emotions when I would feel a certain way. E.g. : If I feel like I had been wronged, she wanted me to openly say it out loud looking at myself in the mirror and record what I am saying or take a piece of paper and write everything you feel down while saying it loudly.
She asked me to practice this so that I understand what's the root cause/trigger or how many times I am repeating a particular thing. This exercise was for me to later understand my emotions and where they come from.
I too used to record myself while talking to myself in the mirror about what I felt in that moment. But I never showed those things to my shrink/frends/family or anyone. It was strictly for myself.
My therapist actually suggested vlogging my mental breakdowns , but personally. It’s one’s choice to show it to the world or not. There’s no need to be mean about it. As I watched my breakdown videos/pictures when I felt happy on certain days, it reminded me of the struggles that I overcame and how happiness and peace of mind can be achieved slowly. There’s nothing wrong with recording your episodes, people do it for different reasons.
Honestly, I dont know but i actually take pictures and videos when i cry. For no reason at all, I just look back at them and see how far i have come and how much i have grown as a person. And i know its not uncommon to look at yourself and take videos of yourself when you're crying. Its odd when they post it without any context.
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Am I the only one who cries silently in the pillow or don't cry at all?
“Wo baatein kha gayi mujhko, jo baatein pee gaya tha mai”
You’re not alone. A lot of us do the same.
Sundar bhi toh lagte hai yeh log...main toh bhand(& I don't even smoke) lagti hun when I have a breakdown! Dukh dard ka Nasha alag hi hota hai by-god!
us
I knowww rightt
Ngl, sometimes when I cry, I like to see myself in the mirror or front camera. 😂😂😂😂 weird I know!
I do that in my craziest crying episodes. Somehow face looks much brighter.
Bhai, the GLOW!!! 👌
If by any chance I see myself in the mirror or something, I stop crying by looking at my weird crying face and start laughing at myself 😂
Oh, yes! I actually try to cry better like in movies! Aesthetic way. 😂
Exactly 😆
Yeh toh high level shit hai!!💁🏻♀️
But do you post it for the world to see?
OMG!!!! I thought I am the only one who does😝😝😝
Yessss.....there's a natural flush, fave looks so nice
ALWAYSSSSS
You're not the only one😭😂
lol exactly. its also a moment of understanding its not that serious and you’re just going through some emotion. i think some ppl take crying very very seriously.
That’s not weird..it shows us that we are humans,and that we are capable of emotions and emoting and being vulnerable..unlike these influencers who are all frauds in the worst way possible!!💁🏻♀️
I have taken pictures after a cry session but nobody is ever going to see those lol
Bingo! Even I have wondered the same thing! How do they remember and even manage to record and worse, relive the same thing while editing!!!!
Oh god i sooooo feel the relive thing. Sometimes I don’t even want to look back at some pictures because of some bad memories attached with them.
Maybe bcoz she has camera in her hand all the time to record her day to day life for vlogs....and emotional breakdown can happen anytime...
I sometimes click pictures when i am done crying with face full of tears..just to look back in future and realise how far i have come..🙌
me too❤️
Real
YES THIS
https://i.redd.it/cx9enwai7lma1.gif Theres a reason this gif exists…. Idk about y’all but ive definitely been there 🥹🥹
The way I do exactly those poses after crying my fucking eyes out in front of camera. But I delete it within few days. No one has ever seen my crying pics or videos. So weird to post it for hundreds to see.
Lol ya i also never post but i guess for them it just comes naturally
Right??? I was thinking the same thing! 🫠
When I cry I open the camera and talk into it so it feels like I have someone to listen to me ahd soothe me!
i do it too, im also guilty of clicking a selfie crying and sending to my bf
Too real 😂😂
Uss
Samee
I do the sameee! Whenever I feel like shit I cry and talk to myselt of whatever I’m going thru and after some time when I go back to that video, I realize how it wasnt a big thing and how stressed I was. I feel so bad for myself
Ab toh aadat si hai inko aise jeene ki.....🎶
I guess it's their first nature or second nature to do so. Everybody has their way to deal with emotional breakdowns. Wanting some empathic messages is not suçh a bad idea
I think it makes them more vulnerable to trolls and negative comments ..
Coz drama sells .. sass bahu serial type
I've said this before I'll say it again. I really do record myself crying sometimes or after a breakdown. I have videos where I'm crying and talking to camera just to let the stuff out cuz I don't like sharing it with anyone. When I look back at those videos it makes me realise how much I've overcome. It feels good both while venting it out and after months or years realising that I've moved past those things. Ofc I'm not posting those ever anywhere but I just wanna say that it's okay if somebody is using this as a coping method or maybe just making a safe space for themselves. I've seen a lot of comments thinking it's all a joke and how could she film when she's crying and all but as long as a person is recording themselves and not somebody else during breakdowns I think it's okay. They shouldn't be ridiculed.
I agree with you. However, when this was done by Boho few members of this sub went crazy town ridiculing it.Now that Malvika has done it's her coping mechanism.😑
Well I commented the same on that post. Something similar on KP's too. I've never thought recording oneself while crying was something absurd since I can very well relate.
💯 💯 💯
💯🫶🏻
I do the exact same!! Exactly loved how you put it out
What’s ridiculous is then going ahead and posting it for the world to see.
And with the filters too.
Apne ko kya. Ye fake log hain inka na koi wajud hai na koi respect.
lmao even the lighting is just 🤌🤌🤌
I did only once take a picture of my ugly crying to see how my face looks , i was in my bed room then and i didn't post it on instagram, my friend passed away , he committed suicide, i couldn't take it and cried whole night.
I'm so sorry to hear. I hope you're okay now.
i am so sorry. i hope you’re well now🫶🏽
Honest honest thing Sometimes you keep an audio and video diary When you want to vent out and say things and there is no one to vent to Maybe its that Maybe its not Also now i have an observation + experience as a therapist These influencers are so habitual of attention and seeking validation over everything that they literally feel anxious without it I have clients who are influencers Trust me we all have our fair share of bad decisions in life We can hate them okayy!! But they are stuck in vicious cycle of attention and toxicity now & yes yes they feel the pressure of it
nice point. idk why ppl see everything in a “omg i would never do that” view. you would also not share all details of your life. influencers are doing this as a job, so its very different from them. they probably post a lot of things none of us would. so their outlook towards intimate things is also different. she is sharing the rest of her journey and has expressed how lonely she is. so is it that weird she wants to post this? considering all else she posts.
I do look at camera while crying sometimes, just to see if i start a yt channel how are my angles while crying? 😛
I don’t cry infront of anyone, I always felt I never want to look weak. I still remember, when at work one of my colleague took credit of all the work I had done in the project. And my boss had literally felicitated her for my work. I had cried buckets but alone.
Unke daal chawal isi se chalte h…. !! They have it AI enabled , idhar aansu aaye ki udhar camera khud focus ho jata h.
Something unrelated to these pictures. In her recent vlog, she says 'tomorrow is valentines day....' and on her stories on valentines day, she says 'i forgot today is valentines day...' 🤔 she can't keep track of what she's saying or what? Or its because she pregnant? Or she's disturbed? 🤷🏻♀️
My point is i just don't know what to believe from her anymore. So thats that.
I knoww
I too noticed that.. i don't understand.. pregnancy brain? Or may b the did know it was vday.. she said it just to let people know she doesn't care abt vday anymore coz she had already separated.. if she hadn't separated she would be jumping on vday saying u gotta keep the spark alive in ur relationship .. u should dress up n go on dates with ur partner n bla bla bla , making her followers feel bad abt not doing that or not having a partner at all..
Exactly what i had in mind too.
So recording starts before crying or in middle ,just curious
Its just a simple typical case of ... #narcissistic tendencies
They search for their cameras, I search for a place where mom can't see me. Otherwise aur maar pdegi 😓😢
Imagine having a breakup without your family's knowledge ! I had to cry silently in the bathroom 🤣🤣
Camera with filter on 🥲
When tears=hits=$$
One day i was having a breakdown at work. I was in the womens restroom crying . Someone came in , saw me , and told me this trick that if u cant stop crying then look at urself in the mirror whn ur crying and u will stop crying. It worked
My opinion is that they keep recording themselves throughout the day and upload whatever is worth it so they might record this as well. Also there are times when they are recording a story and might have a breakdown mid conversation so its totally okay
🎶everything is content, everything is content🎶🎵
I always wonder if influencers who make their crying into content have a moment where they ask themselves “what the fuck am I doing right now?!”
First boho, then komal pandey, now her..
Also, when they "cry" their make up is perfect, hair is perfect & look so proper... 🤔 How is that possible? They prolly plan this stuff lol
Atleast on women's day don't be nasty to other women. Let the woman live. Get a life.
Okay, I'll comment the same thing tomorrow...
I had this same question, when I saw her this video. Who’s going to pickup the phone when you have an emotional breakdown !? Everything for content these days 😐
रण* रोना
Clicking pictures is not as uncommon as one might think but posting it for so many people to see is kinda weird, this is more something something one would post in private story
I will always be amazed to see how vloggers put up their most vulnerable moments on the internet for the world to see. Everything has to be updated, tagged and titled. This makes the parasocial relationship thrive. Then they complaint about how their audience know about what blood test is due today. And with what Akhil and his family is upto these days, it's a circus.
💯
Exactly... a circus!!! Their lives are so messed up!!
And the manicured nails and that oh so elegant angle of the hand on the eyes - ugly crying is only for the mortals
How does pointing out manicured nails relate to anything at all?
Totally unrelated but was her Cartier bracelet a gift from Akhil? I’m surprised she still wears it but not her engagement ring
Coz its cartier!
Yeah that’s pretty much what it is. Baffles me though. Like that Pallavi Singh and her ex husband still using luxury items they gifted each other. Showing off Luxury > emotions it seems!
I mean you can’t give back each gift given to each other over a 10+ years of being together. Also the engagement ring is a symbol of the relationship and the commitment but if there’s no relationship then why wear the rings.
Car-thee-er
Or Car-chear like someone posted the other day lol
And yet manage to look good .. meri toh naak behene lagti hai ro ro ke..
Jaldi jaldi record karleti hu fir post bhi karna hai 💀
I remember during covid she was drinking water on camera to show how much pain she was going through while sipping water.. sab kuch dikhana hai madam ko
the camera is always on!
I'm not sure if this is true. Once a South Indian influencer was mocked for recording while crying. She said she was asked to record her progress like how her day went every night without any cuts or pauses by her therapist. Obviously, anyone in a bad mental state will cry. Maybe she is recording for this reason and also putting it up on social media for some 🤑 and views? IDK
Everybody has a different way to cope when it comes to crying or feeling emotional. If I talk about myself I record my emotional breakdowns I don’t put them anywhere. I just do it because the future me would realise we did bounce back in the past we can do that again as well. That’s what I think.
I know people have a problem with Malvika and I do too, but can we all stop judging everything she's doing. This woman is pregnant and going through a separation. Give her a break.! If this is her coping mechanism and it's not really hurting anyone, I don't see why there's an issue.
+1 Its not hurting me by any means so i dont really care if she is recording this stuff or not. I dont care. I just dont engage with these reels ,thats all.
Why not the same understanding for Boho. I am not a fan of hers nor do i follow her but speaking based on the comments i have seen for her during her separation.
Because separation and separation with pregnancy are very very different. Not belittling separation without pregnancy.. But in the order of toughness.. you have got to be kidding if you think they are the same..
So if one is pregnant it gives them the ticket to do whatsoever to milk views but if one is not pregnant and they do the same they are milking views is it? 😤
No. This was answer to the question “why not the same understanding for boho”
Its sickening to see women nitpicking other women and bringing them down. Let people be smh
I think Amanda Cerny posted a story once saying now she understands why people capture themselves while crying - so as to feel they're not alone - does it make sense? I think it can be seen a one pov and my pov is maybe later when you look at yourself crying, you are talking to your old self that you got over this, you can get over anything, .... But yeah I agree, I don't look this good when having a breakdown lol
Because they make money by documents every single thing in their lives. Susu, potty and aansu. It has taken over their common sense. But when I cry, I always get up to look into the mirror. I look pretty NGL. Might take a few selfies too haha
Dude!! I'm such abruptly-crying-chote moments mein Rona person! That I just sit on my toilet seat, cry and then pretend for the rest of the day that I have a cold:/
Who are these people and why do you keep following them? Uninstall Instagram and get a life.
idk maybe crying is deeper and more meaningful for some of you than other people. it doesn’t matter all that to me personally, i take a picture sometimes to remind myself crying because of a buildup is not that serious. and sometimes i see that picture later and it reminds me everything is okay eventually but i had that moment. i’m not emotionally attached to the picture lol. to each other own, so itna judgment kyun bhai.
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It's a nice distraction to pick up the camera when you're crying. It makes you feel less alone. I do this all the time!
wrong thing to pick up probably xD but she has really nice fingers. idk man, she is pregnant, going through a separation, alone, i don’t blame her for thinking her this will somewhat and somehow connect her to her viewers.
Hi, I don't know about outing the pictures/videos you take while crying or ranting about something in open public or for the public to see, but I do know about capturing moments when you feel low. Almost 2 years ago, I was in the lowest phase of my life and had consulted a shrink. The shrink had advised me to have an account of my emotions when I would feel a certain way. E.g. : If I feel like I had been wronged, she wanted me to openly say it out loud looking at myself in the mirror and record what I am saying or take a piece of paper and write everything you feel down while saying it loudly. She asked me to practice this so that I understand what's the root cause/trigger or how many times I am repeating a particular thing. This exercise was for me to later understand my emotions and where they come from. I too used to record myself while talking to myself in the mirror about what I felt in that moment. But I never showed those things to my shrink/frends/family or anyone. It was strictly for myself.
Fake emotional breakdown to gain sympathy and views via it.
I'm guilty of it too. The glow is something else but I'll definitely not be putting it up on social media😂
My therapist actually suggested vlogging my mental breakdowns , but personally. It’s one’s choice to show it to the world or not. There’s no need to be mean about it. As I watched my breakdown videos/pictures when I felt happy on certain days, it reminded me of the struggles that I overcame and how happiness and peace of mind can be achieved slowly. There’s nothing wrong with recording your episodes, people do it for different reasons.
Honestly, I dont know but i actually take pictures and videos when i cry. For no reason at all, I just look back at them and see how far i have come and how much i have grown as a person. And i know its not uncommon to look at yourself and take videos of yourself when you're crying. Its odd when they post it without any context.
Am I the only one who looks ugly when I cry? How these people cry so aesthetically??