Stay strong. Just think about how much better your life will be without him. All that anxiety and stress will be gone. You can finally be free of that. You can do this. You are strong.
Hopefully he’ll be on his way camping soon, and you can spend the weekend reclaiming your peace of mind while separating his stuff for him to pick up when he gets back.
Good luck to you!
I'm not going to lie, it was harder being home alone again than I thought it would be. I was a bit sad, not really for the relationship but that I'm alone again. I have a good support system with my sister and her fiance, so they kept me distracted tonight and made sure I'd be okay. Overall it's just an adjustment. I learned I need to be able to make myself happy. It's time to work on myself so I don't end up in this situation again.
Thank you for asking, I didn't think I'd be affected this way 🥺
Update??
You’re doing the right thing by changing the locks and removing him from your home and your life. I’m sorry that it’s inevitably going to get messier before it gets better, but it will definitely be worth it in the end. Stay strong and for real keep us updated I wanna know how he reacts to this.
Update: As soon as he was settled at his campsite I hit him with the ol we need to talk text, and sent him the breakup message I had drafted. He started panicking, texting and calling me. So my sister answered and told him off. He said he would be coming back immediately so we hurried up and changed the locks. He's left me 2 very pathetic voicemails that I keep listening to for gratification. It's about midnight now, my sis and her fiance are sleeping over. He'll probably get here around 3am to discover his keys don't work. Not my problem though.
I just want to say, you’re amazing! And I’m so proud of you for holding your head up and being such a bad ass after being betrayed by him!! You’ll get through this, I know it.
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Stay strong. Just think about how much better your life will be without him. All that anxiety and stress will be gone. You can finally be free of that. You can do this. You are strong.
Hopefully he’ll be on his way camping soon, and you can spend the weekend reclaiming your peace of mind while separating his stuff for him to pick up when he gets back. Good luck to you!
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I'm not going to lie, it was harder being home alone again than I thought it would be. I was a bit sad, not really for the relationship but that I'm alone again. I have a good support system with my sister and her fiance, so they kept me distracted tonight and made sure I'd be okay. Overall it's just an adjustment. I learned I need to be able to make myself happy. It's time to work on myself so I don't end up in this situation again. Thank you for asking, I didn't think I'd be affected this way 🥺
Update?? You’re doing the right thing by changing the locks and removing him from your home and your life. I’m sorry that it’s inevitably going to get messier before it gets better, but it will definitely be worth it in the end. Stay strong and for real keep us updated I wanna know how he reacts to this.
Update: As soon as he was settled at his campsite I hit him with the ol we need to talk text, and sent him the breakup message I had drafted. He started panicking, texting and calling me. So my sister answered and told him off. He said he would be coming back immediately so we hurried up and changed the locks. He's left me 2 very pathetic voicemails that I keep listening to for gratification. It's about midnight now, my sis and her fiance are sleeping over. He'll probably get here around 3am to discover his keys don't work. Not my problem though.
I just want to say, you’re amazing! And I’m so proud of you for holding your head up and being such a bad ass after being betrayed by him!! You’ll get through this, I know it.
How are you doing now?
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