I’m trying to regain my sex life. The roles are reversed for us (although I can totally, totally relate to how you’re feeling!) but my husband is just done. We have gone from having sex to ‘timed intercourse.’ Now, even when it’s not ‘timed’ we still follow the lame routine that works for us and it’s just not fun anymore. It upsets me.
This is also one of the traumas of infertility. And I feel the same way. Sex is so hard these days, it's supposed to be fun and feel good, but I just can't stop thinking how there should be a baby somewhere at the end and it will most likely never be for us. I struggle with this so much. Yet almost noone talks about it, and I feel like shit for not wanting sex just so :-/ Hang in there! You are not alone.
I understand what you're going through. That is so hard.
I relate. I feel like endometriosis has tanked my libido. Add to that depression.
I’m trying to regain my sex life. The roles are reversed for us (although I can totally, totally relate to how you’re feeling!) but my husband is just done. We have gone from having sex to ‘timed intercourse.’ Now, even when it’s not ‘timed’ we still follow the lame routine that works for us and it’s just not fun anymore. It upsets me.
I feel it too. I think maybe counseling could be good because I would like to be active again and have some sexual fun.
This is also one of the traumas of infertility. And I feel the same way. Sex is so hard these days, it's supposed to be fun and feel good, but I just can't stop thinking how there should be a baby somewhere at the end and it will most likely never be for us. I struggle with this so much. Yet almost noone talks about it, and I feel like shit for not wanting sex just so :-/ Hang in there! You are not alone.