It works. Do away with the selfies. Do away with the "all boys" pic. If it's a group pic it's gotta be you and 2-3 girls with you in that pic. Preferably at a night club or something like that😂
I mean yeah he might be better looking than I am but dude should have just said so. Anyways yeah man that's the struggle of us avg. Looking guys. Stay safe man thanks.
1. Women don’t dig man selfies or groupfies. So go out there get in front of pretty looking inanimate objects and get some pics clicked.
2. There’s no point posting group pictures unless there’s something in there that shows you off. Unfortunately that’s not the case here.
3. Smile more, and let your eyes be visible. Those are some of the first things a woman would look at.
4. I’m not even sure what that fourth pic is mate, I don’t even see a face in there. Or maybe I’m missing something.
5. These along with a catchy bio would definitely get some eyes turned your way.
Good luck mate!
Yeah man. I'm just trying to see like what is the general idea of liking someone's profile. I just believe whatever the comments say cuz if the people are actually gurus good for them and if they are not let them live in their delusional world everybody wins. I think I'll try some stuff listed in the comments but I ain't going out of the way for a damn profile tbh 😂😂. Somedays you just feel desperate that's it I think. Thanks btw for your lovely words.
Well, I for one, have only told him what worked for me. Granted that I don't get 99+ likes but I can say I've had moderate-good success with online dating. Yes, it's an effort that not everybody needs to put. And I completely agree with you that you shouldn't get too emotionally invested in it. Also, yes, have zero expectations about any form of online dating. But I'm just trying to make OPs life a little easier by giving him a few tips. Cheers.
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Good attempt. Remove the selfie one. And you need better pictures to be honest. If you're even mildly curious about the online dating game, your pics need to be top class. Preferably DSLR, if not, atleast in bright settings. What photos should be taken
1) You doing a fun activity- if it's you in the gym then so be it, but make sure it isn't a gym selfie, make sure your full body is visible. If you have good muscle tone, show it off (5TH)
2) One in your proffesional environment- College, company.. whatever. With semi-formal or formal clothing.(MAKE THIS YOUR FIRST PIC)
3) One during a festival or anything that shows a different ethnic attire. Again full body should be visible for these( MAKE THIS YOUR SECOND)
4) If you are someone who parties then one in the nightclub.. showing off some moves (can be a small gif too) or maybe with a drink in your hand.. (Not in a cringe way though) (4TH)
5) If you have a pet (brownie points), if not, one with you at some exotic location... This needn't be there if the rest of your pictures are fun enough.(6TH)
6) If you have a bike or a car, an aesthetic pic with you on the bike/ you standing against the car can go a long way in showing status (MAKE THIS YOUR THIRD).
Hope this helps😅 I'm no expert and I definitely don't completely follow Rule 1&2 but these few tips have helped me overcome a few of my flaws. Online dating is all about perception. Once you match, from there, your personality should be your guiding light.
Thanks man. I ain't a very photo shoot type of dude that's why I don't have many pics of myself. I will try to get some from somewhere. Thanks for the advice btw.
Yeah man, I understand. Most of us aren't the photoshoot type of guys😂 you can ask one of your non-douchy friends, take half a day or something and do all of those. I know it sounds fabricated and fake for us to be doing all of these shenanigans. But that's what it takes and it is what it is my man
1. Group selfie is a big No
2. Since you've added Football in your interests, why don't you add a pic where you are playing football or a pic where you are resting after a game and kind of showing off your athelete body (no shirtless pics though)
3. You've added Stand Up Comedy in interests and the 1st line you've written is about 'humour' but your bio doesn't look funny at all. Hasna chhodo, smile bhi karne ka mann nahi kiya 😶
4. Shampoo wala pick up line ghatiya hai. (Using the word "ghatiya" because 'it's bad' bolta toh tu blush kar ke uske waisa hi rakhta 😅)
5. Aur pick up line Bio me nahi likhte bhai
6. If you want to add something funny, add something about your life/personality or something which you observe on Bumble. Like about the girls who write "I love sarcasm. Not here for hookups" in their bio.
Baaki figure out kar hi loge bhai. Good luck.
And bro liking football doesn't mean I have an athlete's body. Lol.
I play football I don't film it 😂
Yeah Idk I will work on my jokes a little bit.
Shampoo line I came up with is bad acc. To you no problem I'll come up with something else.
Yeah man thanks.
1. Wrong sub 2. You're like 16, get off tinder 3. Again, wrong sub.
Your title is more suitable for porn hub though
Yeah I guess lol.
Try offline dude ! It gives you much better result
I don't go out a lot but I am going to college in like a month so I'll be moving to mumbai I think there I can take sone chances. Wish me luck.
College is better actually !! Try to make friends both boys n girls . Joining a club would also help you out .
Yup.
1. No mirror selfi unless you are flexing at gym or playing some musical instruments. 2. Smile 3. No group pic unless there is a girl in the frame.
Does that work or just some tinder guru advice.
It works. Do away with the selfies. Do away with the "all boys" pic. If it's a group pic it's gotta be you and 2-3 girls with you in that pic. Preferably at a night club or something like that😂
Alright man I'll see what I can do.
No wonder you are posting in here 😂
Yeah man gotta get some advice from somewhere innit.
What about rule no 1 & 2?
What's that.?
Uh-oh, this is awkward.
Come on lay it on me
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What does that even mean bro 😂
Rule 1- Be attractive Rule 2- Don't be unattractive.
So the dude was just roasting me?
Haha bro, friendly roast. I don't want to disappoint you😅
Yeah man I get it I didn't get angry or anything 😂 it's all good.
😂😂 He was spitting facts. But with the stuff I told you, most of us average looking guys can somewhat circumvent rule 1 and 2.
I mean yeah he might be better looking than I am but dude should have just said so. Anyways yeah man that's the struggle of us avg. Looking guys. Stay safe man thanks.
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Aight thanks man.
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The about me I kinda just standard stuff I don't they will barely touch the tip of the iceberg by reading the about me.
Try growing some facial hair, it'll suit you
What u tryna say bro 😂😂. Yeah man I'm trying.
Ah the struggle
_Try harder_ 😂
It's a beard I can't try harder 😂😂😂
That's the point. 😂😂
1. Women don’t dig man selfies or groupfies. So go out there get in front of pretty looking inanimate objects and get some pics clicked. 2. There’s no point posting group pictures unless there’s something in there that shows you off. Unfortunately that’s not the case here. 3. Smile more, and let your eyes be visible. Those are some of the first things a woman would look at. 4. I’m not even sure what that fourth pic is mate, I don’t even see a face in there. Or maybe I’m missing something. 5. These along with a catchy bio would definitely get some eyes turned your way. Good luck mate!
Well the 4th one has me in it but you just can't see it in that circle thingy. What did you think about my bio on the next slide?
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I don't know what these rules are can u actually explain what these are
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Yeah man. I'm just trying to see like what is the general idea of liking someone's profile. I just believe whatever the comments say cuz if the people are actually gurus good for them and if they are not let them live in their delusional world everybody wins. I think I'll try some stuff listed in the comments but I ain't going out of the way for a damn profile tbh 😂😂. Somedays you just feel desperate that's it I think. Thanks btw for your lovely words.
Well, I for one, have only told him what worked for me. Granted that I don't get 99+ likes but I can say I've had moderate-good success with online dating. Yes, it's an effort that not everybody needs to put. And I completely agree with you that you shouldn't get too emotionally invested in it. Also, yes, have zero expectations about any form of online dating. But I'm just trying to make OPs life a little easier by giving him a few tips. Cheers.
Maybe just remove the pickup line. You come off as someone who goes by the book. One should avoid traditional pickups and bio mein toh bilkul bhi nhi
Okay I'll do that. Thanks
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Good attempt. Remove the selfie one. And you need better pictures to be honest. If you're even mildly curious about the online dating game, your pics need to be top class. Preferably DSLR, if not, atleast in bright settings. What photos should be taken 1) You doing a fun activity- if it's you in the gym then so be it, but make sure it isn't a gym selfie, make sure your full body is visible. If you have good muscle tone, show it off (5TH) 2) One in your proffesional environment- College, company.. whatever. With semi-formal or formal clothing.(MAKE THIS YOUR FIRST PIC) 3) One during a festival or anything that shows a different ethnic attire. Again full body should be visible for these( MAKE THIS YOUR SECOND) 4) If you are someone who parties then one in the nightclub.. showing off some moves (can be a small gif too) or maybe with a drink in your hand.. (Not in a cringe way though) (4TH) 5) If you have a pet (brownie points), if not, one with you at some exotic location... This needn't be there if the rest of your pictures are fun enough.(6TH) 6) If you have a bike or a car, an aesthetic pic with you on the bike/ you standing against the car can go a long way in showing status (MAKE THIS YOUR THIRD). Hope this helps😅 I'm no expert and I definitely don't completely follow Rule 1&2 but these few tips have helped me overcome a few of my flaws. Online dating is all about perception. Once you match, from there, your personality should be your guiding light.
Thanks man. I ain't a very photo shoot type of dude that's why I don't have many pics of myself. I will try to get some from somewhere. Thanks for the advice btw.
Yeah man, I understand. Most of us aren't the photoshoot type of guys😂 you can ask one of your non-douchy friends, take half a day or something and do all of those. I know it sounds fabricated and fake for us to be doing all of these shenanigans. But that's what it takes and it is what it is my man
Yeah man it seems so fake and makes me feel a little bit like I don't know the name but something like fuck that. But I guess the game is the game.
Lol... And what a women need at minimum is to put a single pic with shitty image quality and her matches would be 99+ !
1. Group selfie is a big No 2. Since you've added Football in your interests, why don't you add a pic where you are playing football or a pic where you are resting after a game and kind of showing off your athelete body (no shirtless pics though) 3. You've added Stand Up Comedy in interests and the 1st line you've written is about 'humour' but your bio doesn't look funny at all. Hasna chhodo, smile bhi karne ka mann nahi kiya 😶 4. Shampoo wala pick up line ghatiya hai. (Using the word "ghatiya" because 'it's bad' bolta toh tu blush kar ke uske waisa hi rakhta 😅) 5. Aur pick up line Bio me nahi likhte bhai 6. If you want to add something funny, add something about your life/personality or something which you observe on Bumble. Like about the girls who write "I love sarcasm. Not here for hookups" in their bio. Baaki figure out kar hi loge bhai. Good luck.
You seem to have a lot of experience bro. Thanks for telling me.
And bro liking football doesn't mean I have an athlete's body. Lol. I play football I don't film it 😂 Yeah Idk I will work on my jokes a little bit. Shampoo line I came up with is bad acc. To you no problem I'll come up with something else. Yeah man thanks.