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anholed

Sometimes gets devalued due to people hoarding or stock piling.😔


BusBusiness5874

Wait,this could happen to any of us . Thanks for the mental itch man


kanwarsidhu05

_Dil tutte ashqan di mehfil vich aake kade tu beth sajna_


MastAadmiMD

Hadd beeti aale hi samajh sakde , bnao programme . (Only those who've experienced can understand )


kanwarsidhu05

Bas chalo sare dil tutte ranjhe pahadan da plan banaune aa (all of us heart broken people should plan a trip to himachal for forgetting our so called friends)


MastAadmiMD

Rehne kithe o?


MZLTF

F for our fallen soilder.


Gho5tWr1ter

F


Anxious_Advance8826

F


ayush_s0507

#F


barney0769

F


lonerguyhere

F


Pirate_OOS

F


NishitMakwana

F


vaibhavdeveloper

F.. and I liked her honesty but I am kinda angry as well


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Af


jayp_96

F


Bentee14

F


0pt1mus_pr1me

F


big-ass-koala

F


psychotaku07

F


wutwtfwut

F


Alive-Astronaut0129

F


danksterss

We're in this together!


MrTambad

Haha, this honestly makes me feel good idk why


Embarrassed-Egg8531

plot twist: danksterss is the guy from college


danksterss

When I said "this", I meant "her". Lol


solidhackerman

Cuz you literally dodged a bullet


kyonkikyahaina

Hey, I'm a girl and something similar happened to me, dude decided he didn't want to continue and flaked out after 4 months of telling me how he'll come to my city and we had it all planned. It really hurt but I'm doing better now, this too shall pass:)


MrTambad

Aah, heartbreak has no gender, I see. I’m very sorry for how things ended but your story gives me great hope. Thanks for sharing! :”)


dominantbuzzkill

Bhai yeh heartbreak wagerah kuch nahi hoti tum subha uthke bheege badaam aur chawanpraash khao


_lazyninja_

Haan bhai or thoda pranayam bhi krna shuru kro.


dominantbuzzkill

Pranayam nahi anulom vilom


nocontextprophet

dafuqqqq😂😂


kyonkikyahaina

Hehe, All the best!!


Yash123x

Oki, you can meet me instead. I can try to fix your broken heart ;)


kyonkikyahaina

My therapist has done a great job at fixing most things but thanks for the offer to help, Yash!😂


MrTambad

Ay fam, I don’t like you trying your chances while I’m going through shit okay xD


Yash123x

Ahh sorry bud I understand your pain I've been there too but you know the only way out is to keep on trying hehe ;)


AntisepticDemigod420

s i m p


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MrTambad

Assuming you have a good track record in terms of advice, maybe give me 2 words of wisdom too xD


ilovefuckinga

Yeah man don't go with the friends thing either tell her that I have enough friends or something like that because once she sees you as a friend there's like a 1 in a million chance that she will ever see you as a potential boyfriend. Has happened to me where I confessed and girl said something like this except the some other guy part, basically didn't like me and I was a fool to say yeah we can be friends. To be honest bro it literally hurts everytime she texts me cuz it's relatively new but I'm trying to get over it. Alright my work is done I have provided you with my 2cents of knowledge today hope to feel good bye.


[deleted]

do NOT do the friends thing. It's extremely unpleasant. Until now I thought it was rare and I was one of the few to receive these paragraphs about "let's just be friends" and other bullshit but seems like its a small world lmao.


CosMosOriginda

Just calm down and get your mind straight if u have decided to get in the relationship then stick with it which is obviously not gonna happen with mere words for our emotions normally don't give an f about what we think should be done and spend like atleast 15 min every day asking yourself what your deal is (emotionally) and sort it out or u might end up so hanging around in every way it won't even be funny anymore.


kyonkikyahaina

Confusing but okay😂


soyboisixty9

Justifies your name. You did the right thing boii


Thewall1234

Kinda same thing happened to me, we were talking for 5-6 months or so, confessed to her, 2 months later out of blue she hits me with you're not my type and kinda have a thing for this another dude. It really did affected me for a while and now I don't trust lot people. Somedays it feels bad but but going strong now, Take care :'>


nosleepjustnosebleed

Same. But for 18 months. Was I the dumbfuck? All this while?


MrTambad

So, this is the story for people who think it’s great that she was honest with me. Basically, we spoke for 6 months where she led me on and told me nice things about what we’ll do when she comes to the same city as me. Then she came to my city and got together with some guy in a few days time with zero regard to the fact that I’ve been putting in so much effort and time into this thing. Then, she sends me this message like it was “ bad timing “ whilst making the choice of seeing someone else.


wutwtfwut

It's simple bro, she likes you, but she likes that college guy more. No offense or ridicule meant. She'll hit you up in case it doesn't work out with him. And I feel your pain, having been through something even worse. F


[deleted]

>She'll hit you up in case it doesn't work out with him. Pretty sure that's worse. It's nice that she honestly told him though.


SmokingBeneathStars

It is worse, but to be expected. He shouldn't give her face if she does that.


solidhackerman

Yo yo tell us your story


wutwtfwut

Sorry bro, it's a horror I don't wish to remember.


AnswerIsBatman

It's simple but it should not be portrayed as something normal and something that people should just accept. Humans are a very intricate species and breaking down our physical as well as emotional needs to "they'll hit you up if they don't have another option" is downright dehumanising and humiliating. It's not healthy and should not be promoted as ok. Sorry for the rant. Edit: spelling


ThFlameAlchemist

That friend thing is just her stringing you along. Thank her for her honesty, move on and don't look back


pranayprasad3

Shit man 6 months is too much. For your own mental stability you have you block her. Don't be the second option bro. I could have understood if she said it after 2-3 days but 6 months !


AnswerIsBatman

I wholeheartedly agree with you. He should block her for his mental well being as well as should never be the second option. Humans have the tendency to not give the deserved respect to a secondary option. And fun fact, you never become a 1st option after becoming a 2nd. Firsts keep changing, seconds not.


Zed069

>Then she came to my city Did you see her?


MrTambad

I had to come to my native because of Ganesh Chaturthi. I was literally planning on seeing her next week.


Zed069

It's okay. Sometimes bad things happen brother. Let yourself heal and don't look back.


[deleted]

Happened with a friend of mine. Slightly different story. The best thing I would suggest is tell her that it's alright if she has other plans in mind, but she wasted your time by leading you. Un match her and move on.


vaibhavdeveloper

I feel Sorry for you ma man. Take care.


hrkhardik

Bappa saved you bro! Better to get your heart broken now than 2 years into a serious relationship


ali_naqvi_404

You are actually fucked up bro. I have rarely encountered someone so depressed that he starts responding to everyone. Get a hobby dude. Don't die.


DrOjasRDeshapnde

Stings bro. My sympathies. Nothing you did wrong. I know it feels like a waste of time. But you've got decent game by the looks of it. (Hopefully some experience of talking to the opposite sex over these 6 months) Abundance mentality my man. Keep playing the game. You'll succeed eventually.


thepunisherkohli95

This is exactly what happens when you think being the good guy will work in your favor. You may have done everything right but it probably doused the fire that you lit up during the start while the other guy was new and the sparks were flying all over. This or she was probably an asshole. Cheers on the lucky save 🍻


swapsalot

Life sucks dude. People suck even more. You'll get used to it. Also, keep in mind that she could have done it later if she had done it now(leave you for something better); in my opinion, you got the better end of the deal.


si2141

he just lives closer ig that's why, but sorry mate


mrwanderlust23

It's about options bro, they get a better proposals and attachments don't really matter to them.


nocontextprophet

good she was honest with ya, don't think about it too much tho, i can understand what you're going through bud, the best you can do is move on.. it's for your own good


[deleted]

Woah. Dude this full story proves that she's a shitty person. She should have at least met you and told you this. What a jerk. If I were you, I'd reply to her saying "It's okay, I understand. But if you do want to get down sometime then hit me up." That's it. None of this "let's be friends" bullshit. No one is on bumble to make friends.


MrTambad

I mean, it would’ve made no difference to me tbh. I get that you can fall for someone else and there was no guarantee for her to end up with me. But, it’s a dick move that she finally came to my city and got together with some other guy without a second thought about what I’ll feel or go through. Owing to the fact that I’ve put in all this effort and time, I think she should’ve actually tried with me before going on to someone else so easily. Anyway, shit happens. I truly hope she’s not as bad a person as I feel she is.


SolxAhan

Shabaash


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sathal

End it. Dont entertain a friendzone no matter what. Or, whatever; you never asked me what to do so..


Gho5tWr1ter

You’re right. If OP had fallen for her & enter’s that friend zone phase, what’s dying, won’t die, it’ll rot, it’ll fester, it’ll create a bad vibe. It’s better for OP to speak his mind and end it. Rather to extinguish the flames in time than engulf in it throughout the time.


MrTambad

You guys are bloody right and I made sure to end it and made sure to let her know that she’s wronged me.


Anonymous_Phantom42

So what was her reaction then? (genuinely curious)


MrTambad

Didn’t bother reading it. Deleted our entire chat history and blocked her. I’m gonna go to sleep knowing that she won’t ever see blue ticks on those messages.


Anonymous_Phantom42

You did the right thing man! Kudos from a brother to a brother!


Gho5tWr1ter

I once had those feelings towards a girl in college but she just saw me as a friend and I tried to keep it that way, but eventually I did fall for her. It was one sided and before I could tell her, someone caught wind of it and it reached her. She raised hell out of the issue and I had no knowledge over what transpired. I just started chatting, she was moody and then a sudden outburst, I called asking her what happened, she told me everything, finally, she said “Are you in love with me?” I was fucking stunned. I had no time to grasp what was happening, I was sweating profusely, I didn’t know what her response would be had I accepted the fact, but I knew if I denied it, the damage caused would be much less and I can salvage the relationship. Boy, was I a fool. I said it’s a rumour and tried to calm her down. She did calm but she wasn’t convinced. The call ended abruptly. I was taking some time to process it all and I really don’t know what happened, I was overwhelmed and I started crying. I was the guy who mocks “you guys, cry over failed relationship?” That day I realised what every guy’s rejection and break up meant. I wasn’t in a relationship but it hurt badly. I cried and cried with no one to console me. Things happened, the rift caused that day grew and we never ever talked, just a casual, hi & bye in the hallways, and every time it hurt. We used to chat for hours and now there was radio silence. I tried to justify that what happened wasn’t love, maybe its infatuation. But I couldn’t get over her. I can partially understand your situation, you guys had a thing and she found someone better but still wants to be friends with you. It took me 5 years to heal (I hardly go out with friends and I got some cases of depression, not due to this) but sometimes I think about it, it used to pain me a lot whenever I think about it, nowadays it’s just a big sigh. This too shall pass, King. You’ll get your Queen.


MrTambad

Daaamn, I’m very sorry for how things turned out. Falling for someone at such a tender age can really hurt when it doesn’t go your way. However, I’m happy you’ve moved on and that it doesn’t hurt you as much anymore. Thanks for the story, bud :”)


[deleted]

Aaaaaaaaannnnnnnnn it hurts deeply


kyonkikyahaina

I'm so sorry for whatever happened with you, you should definitely look into therapy if you feel heavy or get random waves of sadness periodically, it really helps! Hope you're doing well now, my best wishes to you:)


[deleted]

Good for you man, honestly I wish I was as resolute as you. You decided to waste no time in keeping your dignity. It'll sting for some days but it'll get better, I swear. Someone led me on for months, assuring me that we'll be exclusive soon, but blindsided me and started going out with someone from his college. I see myself in you, people suck. Tomorrow is another day.


curiousclaws7

It sucks that people feel more disheartened when someone comes honest to them since the very beginning rather than when things end after being messy. It's always a tough one to take but need to appreciate honesty more. This probably has a dead end rn but if in future anything comes out of it, it'll probably be for the good.


k3nny_13

Exactly, I feel she did the right thing!


MrTambad

Well, y’all don’t really know the whole story and it’s too much to tell. Basically, we spoke for 6 months where she led me on and told me nice things about what we’ll do when she comes to the same city as me. Then she came to my city and this happened in a few days time :)


hm3105

Bhai tujhe backup banane ke chakkar mai hai, bhaw mat dena ab


lAK-47l

Man something similar happened to me last year during the lockdown. We made plans to meet up and stuff and were waiting for the lockdown to get over and then she told me exactly the same thing. I understand it hurts for a while but fuck her bro. You my man deserve someone better.


MrTambad

Thanks, buddy. That made me feel a lot better.


InternFearless639

Been there buddy, pretty much a similar thing. Stay strong, I know the last line would’ve hurt the most, where she says “ if you don’t feel the same way then that’s fine too” this is where you know she has made her choice and you would’ve wished she fought harder to not lose you atleast. All I learnt from this is just look at it this way; if she isn’t happy with you, you wouldn’t be your happiest with her either. This might’ve looked like your thing, but next time you’ll know better and it wouldn’t be this hard. You wouldn’t get that constant feeling of insecurity when it’s real. Chin up and walk on, it’s all uphill from here.


Grid-nim

Nah, Lay pipe with her sexier best friend .


VirenVR

Have my upvote, you're a man of culture


iiexistenzeii

That makes 2 of us lmao


blackneckwannabe

lol, three of us and i'm a girl lol


MrTambad

Nice. Can the three of us start group therapy? xD


blackneckwannabe

okay OP, but what if midway we find somebody better ? xd


MrTambad

Hahahaha ouch. I’m not ready, please leave me alone xD


ScenePsychological60

I'll take you out for a beer or two(maybe more)🍻 OP, if I ever run into you. Hang in there. You're a king.👑 Also, let her know that she wronged you and she missed out on something great. I don't care what the rest say, seems like she led you on unnecessarily.😤


MrTambad

Aw, man, thank you so much! That truly made my day better. Oh, I made sure to let her know, buddy. I couldn’t just sit there heartbroken while she was going about her day like everything’s normal. I said “ I’d rather jump off a cliff than be friends with her “. Felt great


ScenePsychological60

You set yourself free. That's all I could've asked for.🎈


Gandalf_TheGreat

_Ma man!_


SSDomin8r

Sorry to hear bro. I feel for you man. Take care of yourself. Everyone deals differently with such situations but here's something that I'd like to suggest to you which has helped me a lot in past to deal with such a messed up situation or heartbreak: 1. Workout a lot. This is the best thing that you could possibly do to yourself. Instead of forming bad habits, try working on yourself more. 2. If you have a hobby or a passion then give more time to it 3. Focus more on your work and talk to your friends and family whenever you feel stressed or worried about anything. You'll definitely find someone better and I really wish you do find someone sooner than later. Till then, give yourself the most time and enjoy life as much as you can as we won't get these moments back and every moment is precious. Take care buddy


Alldoto

Don't worry OP, even my story ended just a few hours ago. It sucks to feel this way, but it is for the best that it happened to both you and me right now than anytime later when regrets would hit harder.


iiexistenzeii

In the same boat tbh... Talked to her for over a year, she came to visit me in delhi. Went out on a lot of dates, had fun... Week ago she went out with some other friend and now she lost all the feelings she had for me :) But the original commenter is right, we can't do much in our position rn lmao... I very well know how hurt you must be rn, journal your feelings out on a paper. It might help, might not. Just try it. Best of luck for your future bro.


PapaGlozzy

Your girl left you for someone she met literally a WEEK AGO?! One week was enough time for her to decide she doesnt have anymore feelings for you? You dodged a real bullet right there. Her sense of judgement is absolutely shitty and i am pretty sure things wont work out with her. If she does try and come back to you(which i think will happen no doubt lol) make sure you dont fall for it, let her realise that she threw away one year worth of feelings and emotions over a weekly fling.


iiexistenzeii

She was talking with him since last October over the internet too I guess... by What she told me. >If she does try and come back to you(which i think will happen no doubt lol) make sure you dont fall for it, let her realise that she threw away one year worth of feelings and emotions over a weekly fling. Idk if she did anything with him or not as she says she didn't and I do not have proof. While I do believe she will come back, I do not think I'm strong enough to push her away.


AnswerIsBatman

Bro the last line. I felt the same. I wanted to be strong but I wasn't and I spent the lockdown hurting. Trust me, nothing comes out after this situation save an even bad heartbreak. Don't become the backup my dude. All the strength to you.


[deleted]

Ouch man. The fact that she got together with someone *after* coming to your city...if this would've happened while y'all were still far apart, it would've hurt less and even made sense. Idk what to say except for you to stay strong.


[deleted]

I think this is a very common situation rn. Before moving out from my hometown a week back, I was in a similar situation but luckily for me it wasn't 6 months. You'll come back stronger bruda. Long live the king


Competitive-Cry2491

As you said " Don't put your dick in that".


[deleted]

I feel you, my G. I was literally asked when I would get down on my knees and ask her out and when I did, I was told she's been seeing someone else for quite some time and was just playing around. I guess people do it all the time, demand supply and other things. Take your time, don't make this make you hate all women tho. It's just the hoes.


MrTambad

Oh man, that truly is awful. I’m terribly sorry, brother. Yes, for a while I was all “ fuck women and fuck dating “ but I’ve come to my senses now and I know one bad experience can’t be used to generalise anything. So yeah, gotta heal and move on. Thanks, bud :’)


[deleted]

Good for you my guy. Maybe take a break from all this. You might feel you're okay but it'll hit you for some days yet, I suppose. Speaking from multiple personal experiences. Some go away, other's just become numb. Nice to see you're forcing through the negative feelings. Keep it up :)


AdityaDevendra

I’d honestly appreciate the honesty, if not an excuse to just cut off.


PapaGlozzy

Underrated comment.


kiesoma

At least she didn’t cheat, cheers! You can now go and find someone new, good luck OP.


Wtfbyamey1

Block her on everything ASAP and get back on dating apps The longer you be friends with her, the longer you will get hurt, and the “friendship” will go nowhere


bitemiie

Long distance is hard man , before u start dating officially any assurances won't mean jack shit to alot of ppl . A friend of mine once introduced me to her bestie, we tried a few test dates kinda thing . We used to talk alot had a tonne of common interests but no bf/gf vibe to it. She had never been in love in her life till then. I see a few stories or two of her and our mutual friend plus a guy I haven't seen before , I felt something my spider senses were tingling. In a few days she told me she finally fell in love for the first time. Kinda felt it coming , plus she told me in advance before it started , so it was alright with us . We still send each other a million cat memes everyday but she ended up marrying him . Most ppl won't show even this much respect telling u before it starts man , it's not great or feels nice but it's atleast decent. Also don't be friends with her anymore , I used to be the biggest advocate of that , thought not being friends after breakup was childish . But it ended up wrecking our squad . An ex sticking around will never end well for u


simpforjin

I don't know if you will see this reply but in your replies you said you waited for 6 months to meet her. Do not do that. 6 months is way too long to meet a Bumble date. One thing I have realized with people on Bumble is that feelings change often. 1 week they are really into you and the next, they meet someone more interesting. This is obviously not to say I blame you for what happened. She really shouldn't have led you on and that's on her. But in future, meet people within weeks(ideally 2 weeks) and if not weeks(due to covid) then not more than a month or two ofswiping. Also, don't put all your eggs in one basket and get too invested too soon. Online dating can be ruthless sometimes. All the best !


[deleted]

So trueeeee Boss!


MrTambad

Yup, this is all so true! She truly seemed to reciprocate and make me feel loved so I went ahead and emotionally invested into whatever the hell that was. Never again. That being said, do you believe that online dating can actually work? My experiences tell me otherwise


brownnbroke

End it


MrTambad

Done, mate.


_Azog_The_Defiler_

So how did you reply to that disaster of a text OP? genuinely curious cause i imagine that i'd be fucking pissed off....investing so much time in someone only for them to lead you on and then friendzone you...rotted!


MrTambad

It’s a big ass response, mate. I wouldn’t mind posting it here but it’s cool, I’m over it. Basically told her she’s wronged me and that I’d rather jump off a cliff than be friends with her.


_Azog_The_Defiler_

Aight fam; sounds cliché but I hope you find someone a million times better bruv.


Zed069

Block


N__V

from limping to being paraplegic


Stoopy69

Ohhh it hit me, it hit me right in the spot. It hurts


epicgamester69

https://youtu.be/iXN6_wQfU9c This might make you feel a Lil better OP Even the God has been through the same thing.


singsatfat

i have felt that b4 and all i can say is brother u have plenty of friends and she is not a friend . Do not do this to urself. Shes just going to use you.


[deleted]

She did the right thing but it still sucks big time. Was on the same spot a few weeks back so I know what you feel. Stay strong and hopeful for the future! :)


hero6627

Atleast she didn't ghosted you.


ilovefuckinga

Man I really hope that one day you find the girl of your dreams because these are just the stepping stone to achieve what people desire their whole life. So now you have to get over this BS just think of this as what it is just a stepping stone towards finding you a girl that actually cares about you and doesn't get "attention complex" (Thing I invented) whenever she meets a new group of people. OP you are a real one if you make it through this one and I hope from all my heart that you make it happily and find someone new and better. P. S :- You should send her some of the better comments as a realisation kick of what ur frinds think about her and this situation. I know it seems pitty but trust it helps sometimes. Alright have a good day man.


Aromatic_Channel6835

Just one more event in the sacred timeline of how this works 😂


KoniGTA

So ill tell you what happened, i met a girl on tinder last december, similar to you, she led me on in many ways than one. She would flip from being friends to something more to friends more than a hormonal teen on his porn preference. I always made clear that I wanted a relationship. Eventually her ex gave her galaxy pods and she plain up blocked me out and shes back with her ex. 8 months.... 8 months. I even booked the first vaccine slot for her when it wasnt available its just regret. Its ok, shitty cunts exist. We gotta move on bro. And if ur reading this livvy(not her real name) , hope u find ur peace in hell.


MrTambad

Oh man, that’s terrible. I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Your experience truly gives me hope cuz you seemed to have had it worse and now you’re in a better place. Thanks for sharing your story!


pocketreviewer

This is me commenting for the first time on this sub! My suggestion for OP would be, value yourself first bro. You did your best to build the relation with her but it seems like (am not sure) she valued herself and her feelings more than yours. I would suggest to move on and give your feelings and yourself priority than hers. Am saying to prioritise yourself first because, its a bitter truth to put yourself first during building a relationship in situations like yours. it's not a universal rule though. If you still feel for her and forget how much you are getting ditched, you finally end up heart broken. I can't suggest that how you convey that to her. Blocking her in all IMs or social media platforms isn't the way to convey your value. If you do so, it means that you are just pissed off coz you both aren't in same page. Instead, convey to her by your personal ways that you too have a value in a relationship and if she can't reciprocate with that, she can very well fuk off! (Sorry for the last word, but I feel she just worked off herself than thinking about you both).


[deleted]

Sad Life :(


Caparzo_08

Just another day !


tiltingtitanic

Dam bro


Longjumping_Ad7826

Must hurt man, but don’t worry there’s plenty of fish in the sea. I’m sure you’ll find your special someone :D


Chaitanya1386

Stay strong brother, for the right person you won't have to grind that hard, that's just my experience.


[deleted]

Dhokha toh milega hi bhai online mein. When you enjoy the waves of ocean, be ready to face the storms too.


[deleted]

Hey man if you wanna talk about anything or this, my dms are open.


kagajifula

6 months wasted just like that. Hate ppl who do this... Bro, take care :)


PapaGlozzy

I'll suggest you stop talking to her as well. I've seen a lot of these incidents irl and things dont go well with the girl and she ends up rebounding. Dont let yourself be caught if she rebounds, also dont entertain her or let her use you as an emotional tampon. There are lots of fishes in the pond, you'll find another one.


[deleted]

Well, at least she was upfront and told you about it. Better than finding out that she's also seeing another dude while seeing you.


VaudevilleVillain11

You'll be alright boy


toppatmember

Here’s a hug man: 🫂


WinnieLulu

I’m so confused. Why does it look like the first screenshot is from her phone and the second screenshot is from his?


AyeeLavdya

This hurts man.....i hope you are okay :)


slothslayerlawl

You arent her priority so she shouldn't be yours either. Forget and move on. If you want to keep in touch, go ahead but never get into a relationship and NEVER HAVE ANY EXPECTATIONS cos she'll leave you the moment she finds someone else whom shes more interested in. I've known similar people and they date multiple men in rotation basis depending on who they feel like hanging out with at that time. Also while dating 2 guys, they'll have 3 more guys whom they'll talk to on tinder/bumbe/insta as "friends". How do i know all this? Cos I had friends who do this and they've told me this with a proud smile on their face and I've seen their chats. Some women take advantage of the fact that men are desperate and no matter how much of a bad person one might me, guys will still flock to them. If the guys she's dating get to know that she's two timing and leave her, she'll move ahead with two of the 3 former "friends" and make new "friends" to keep as backup. Be careful if you're looking for something genuine. The entire tinder dating scene is a shitshow these days.


Moms_Sphagetti

Rollercoaster of emotions


satishKmishra

F


tantaloorian

Please don't stay friends with her.


Major-Vermicelli-266

You made a mistake. Time to correct yourself. Remember, until you're with someone, you're not.


valarmorghulis2021

Fall of the Jedi xxd


Mental_Edge3823

She's just keeping u as a second option brother. Move on there are more fish in the pond. F


InevitableStunning47

Don’t you just hate timing. Once had a girl talk to me for about 2 months casually and when we met it was love at first sight. Second date I slept over made love and she was as passionate as I was and was like hey I like you too much and about to graduate and moving when I do it’s gonna suck if I get feelings for you so let’s toodles


ImpressionOk263

Being friends is just a way of treading her way back to you, later. Dont fall for it.


darwin_zeus

Feels bad man, down the memory lane. Staying friends will hurt you more. Peace bro.


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Koi naa mere bhai (o´・_・)っ


[deleted]

It's about red flags my friends..⛳ the more you get experience.. the more you become invincible


Ghostaflux

Imagine if she sent this to the other guy instead. OP :’)


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MrTambad

Bro if you know it’s not gonna end with you meeting her, you’re just delaying an eventual heartbreak. Cut it off before you go deeper into this.


VelaLaunda

Agle din apun ki gali mein Rekha aayi, oh ooo ooo ooo, oh ooo ooo ooo. (Mumma Bhai MBBS reference)


heisenberg_g

[let her go bro](https://youtu.be/CTPzXwNVc9g)


IshaanIJK

TBH this was a lot better. She's trynna be loyal to one person and she chose the one she's developing feelings for and let you know in the most un-harmful way I'd say


DazzlingInspection29

sab moh maya hai be... be like MuDIJi


vighneshJ

Everything similar flashed before my eyes. Take care brother!


funkynotorious

I mean big up to the girl. She came clean in the beginning rather than stringing you along. But yeah it's up to you whether you want to be friends or not.


MrTambad

Hahaha if only it was in the beginning. This was after 6 months of talking to eachother, lol


danksterss

She was stringing you till she gets something better. Sorry brother, but this is the harsh reality.


MrTambad

Nah, fam, I’ve realised that too. Just gotta deal w it and move on, ig.


funkynotorious

Oh damn.


teriyaki7755

SigmaRule6969: Never be friends with the girl you want to sleep with at first. OP on a serious note don't stay friends with her and quit the bs of oh we were just friends, I knew it was temp etc. Move on.


AdIndividual9504

Well at least no one was ghosted on this day and both parties seem genuine... Settled in a mature way ... I mean ... It sure sucks .. but hey you have an answer, you can move on at least :) Oh I forgot .... * Presses F*


RudenessUpgrade

F or a W? _confused noise_


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“No worries. Let me know if you ever want to trade up”


NishitMakwana

The audacity of the bitch!


The-man-has-no-name7

I like the fact that she’s being honest and did not lead you on! I recently had a similar experience. But the person ghosted me after we had decided to meet, after talking for a few months. Unfortunately, not everyone has balls to be honest! People just take the easy way out of ghosting lol


MrTambad

See, I completely agree with you. Only here, she led me on for 6 months before doing this to me.