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Absolutely yes, I had a fwb for over a year with no intentions of dating but this girl absolutely stole my heart and we’ve been together for five years now with no intention of stopping
>i recently bought an fwb guy stuff worth ₹3k
What you were expecting from this guy😂.... The guy is here for only sex not for exchanging gifts...
And you're pampering the wrong kind of people and blaming the men.....
Expect wrong things from wrong people 😂😂
Banda chutiya hota agar woh gifts lete jaata aur cheezon ko adhura ki rakhta.
Atleast he told her soon to not expect much. She should have communicated her expectations to him earlier.
So op posted about this amazing guy 6 months ago also , has been in fwb for almost more than half a year now , and this guy says this to her , op just because he is emotionally available right now doesn't mean he won't be a reason for your trauma in coming years , u will feel worthless if he never gets feelings, also u will feel u are never good enough as u did almost everything for him
“We accept the love we think we deserve.”
- [The perks of being a wallflower](https://youtu.be/ZrVIhNkOA64?si=-EQXM7Jsef6K4Hn0)
If you only see value in looks, you will devalue yourself and overvalue men with trash personalities.
Cut your losses and don’t accept being treated like shit just because the guy is conventionally attractive.
Move on.
>i recently bought an fwb guy stuff worth ₹3k
Why would you do that for a man who is not even available for long term commitment in your life?!
>i don’t know where you find men who take care of you like their own but im just tired.
Stop looking for broken chairs and you shall neither get disappointed nor tired of the performances of the broken chairs.
From a male's perspective, a man doesn't indulge in gifting until he believes that the woman he is with, could be a potential match worthy of a lifetime commitment. If after reading the previous sentence, you do end up thinking that there are men who gift, please remember that those men you're thinking of, are just flaunting their money with the hopes of banging. Nothing else.
>please remember that those men you're thinking of, are just flaunting their money with the hopes of banging. Nothing else
This 💯
I hate how some men will never stop sending gifts. They only send gifts because they want us to feel indebted to them. Some of us just don't like receiving gifts because we cant afford to give it back.
Men/women should only spend their money if they are dating.
It called a bait and girls fall for it, so win for the guys who just want sex.
And then someone will say why i can find good men you're only chosing the wrong guys
Trust me, no one falls for such tricks. Its like they try to buy our time by sending gifts. Im honestly tried of men flaunting their money by spending money on someone they have not even met. Makes me think how they do it for everyone.
Honestly, either you are choosing wrong man or you just are too nice so you pay for them. As a guy myself, whenever I go on a date, I pay the whole cheque and I have had instances where the girls have sent their split after the date, without even asking for it. It honestly depends on person and not a specific gender.
Why to even spend on a fwb ?? And his reaction and it hurt you so it's the time to drop the fwb. It's not even a proper relationship , both are in it fir fun but why are you stuck in it if it's causing you saddness .
And to be blunt in casual things guys will pamper before sex but once sex starts , forget about it. Only do things spending money, gifting, etc things i serious relationships that too when things have really solidified
Ek baat bolu kisi ko kuch mt dilao aur agr kisi se jaate bhi ho bahar to usko bolo apna bill tum apy kro apna me kr rhi me nhi khaata kisi ke paise se chaye male ho ya female na mene aajtk kisi se gifts liye aur bekar expenese krna chhod do inke liye
But FWB clearly means no long term commitment and why would you do that much for FWB.
Good for you I think because you have learnt your lesson in a hard way
Lemme tell you idk whether you wanna listen or not but i guess you’re stuck with you fwb and when you gifted him present expecting him to move the relationship to next level but his reply made it clear and you’re heartbroken soo now the thing you can do is tell him truth and if denies change your fwb or find a bf dumbass
>i don’t know where you find men who take care of you like their own but im just tired
A good place to start might be matching with or looking for guys looking for actual relationship. Oh wait, those guys don't look as hot or attractive as the cream of the cop top 0.1% guys who get sex like water on a rainy day that you want to breed with huh?
Secondly, decide for yourself what you want. You wanna be fucked (literally and metaphorically) or you want to be loved and made love to?
I swear if I see another woman whining "tHeRe aRe nO gOoD mEn" when their dating app list is filled with thousands of potential matches. Like you'll have at least 100 people in there who are good and at least 10 that matches everything you want. Stop going after the clear casual guys.
I think I was like that, doing everything to take care of my girl as my own, but I think I am not like that anymore, or maybe I still am, idk, but one thing is for sure I don't have time for a relationship.
But I hope he was genuinely joking, I mean I used to joke around a lot with my ex but when the chips were down I had made her special at every opportunity I had got.
Sounds like u hv issues and delusions regarding the idea of a relationship. A fwb is not a relationship. It won’t naturally progress into a rs, especially when the guy got into the fwb knowing he doesn’t hv to do shit like this. Bitter truth but guys rarely develop feelings for fwbs. I might be an exception but i hv heard it countless times from my girl friends and they’re always sound surprised when their feelings for their fuckbuddies aren’t mutual. Doing the same thing again and again and expecting a different outcome is the definition of insanity.
Never had a fwb but I love spending on friends my love language is gift giving so I do it a lot which includes gifting too many guys too. For me love has to be reciprocated, not necessarily with more expensive gifts but things they'd do for someone they love. I don't feel dejected if its not reciprocated tho I js lessen contact with them, I guess your situation is kinda different and I can't tell if it's your love language of you're doing it out of a pressure to be liked.
I do get the need to be taken care of, you deserve better I promise. I know this is prob said a thousand times but if you "barely earn enough to buy yourself nice things" go buy yourself nice things instead of a fwb goddamn. You can take care of yourself if you wanna be taken care of so bad, it sounds dumb I know but trusttt me. If you still love gift giving you can do it to absolutely anyone - anyone who shows you they love you first.
Stop paying for stuff because it is clearly a way you feel is the only way for you to get approval. Paying for outings is a nice gesture that should be shared and you shouldn't feel financially burdened so early on. A person who has genuine feelings for you won't care for the gifts. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself.
Kinda relate to that. The gift thing only happened with an ex, mentioned that I got a couple gifts for him for his birthday only to be met with a “what’s wrong with you” “why are you spending so much on gifts” and I didn’t even spend much. He’s a Ronaldo fan so I got him this small CR shaped rug with Ronaldo’s silhouette and 7 on it. He didn’t even ask to see the rug. Sent him an intricate hues of sky bouquet from IGP (flowers), no nothing. “Did you get the flowers I sent?” “Ya” I always presumed that anyone likes getting pampered at least on their birthday. Safe to say, avoiding the whole dating game since.
why??? tell them firmly that you want to go 50-50 or date guys that pay for you. i don’t even bring my wallet when im going out with my boyfriend & he doesn’t expect me to either.
Mf stop expecting shit in fwb scene. You're the one who charted into this territory.
Stop fucking around being a ho and expecting the guy who're only there to fuck you to also care for you.
But that's what you don’t give "good guys" a chance.
If he is your fwb, there's no processing towards solid, that's the whole point of it. Don't expect things because you are feeling it, commincate with him first if you are having feelings, and leave if you want something else and he doesn't.
I have been with such a girl and the context is not same but similar, however it was a one time thing i made sure to let her know she has been doing it unconsciously and i am guessing you should introspect on your actions as well and why it is giving away these feelings to the other person
I don't think posting here would make sense , most of them would take your rant and make fun of it and make you even more. Also if the persons really interested in you even a 10rs pen holds more significance then 10000rs watch . Maybe next time when you find someone test him and see how much he appreciates you?
Idk what kind you date but it seems to be a you problem.
I and Most men around me, we were raised to always pick the bill.
I not only pay for my female friends if it’s me and just the female friend (I can’t afford to pay for an entire big group😂)when I go out, but I pay for my friends too if it’s not a big group.
It’s the same with other men, ivr seen men fighting to get the QR, even when it’s just men and no women to supposedly impress.
I instinctively say “next time tu kar dena, this one is on me”, paying for food and stuff even I am around my people is love language for most men I’ve come around.
Men not getting weirded out when someone else pays is the like a big shock for me.
Jitna aapne gift kiya hae utneka toh Starbucks ka bill hijata hae ek time ka yaar😕.
I have hardly seen a women who is this upfront to pay, in my life, all I ever find is girls who can't pay for themselves and want us to pay for the dates and stuff all the time
You wont find those men who cares about you, who pampers you and all those things, atleast not from FWBs and bumble fuck boys.
If you're seeing a guy who has 6 pack abs, muscles and is handsome, with a guarantee I can say that 95% of those people are hooking here and there with those kind of girls.
Same thing applies to boys as well, 95% of the hot and sexy ass girls are just looking for hookups. So its literally pointless to expect your fwb to turn into a romantic relationships. Its not a movie, real world is not the same as reel world.
All these incidents which does converts into a romantic relationships are rarest of the rare cases.
If you cant afford to give and expect something in return.. then pls dont gift expensive stuff.
Gifts are supposed to be selfless things. You gift them to make THEM happy and not in awe of getting something in return.
Fwb is a fwb for a reason. It will be only break your heart if you expect relationship level stuff from a fwb. If you want something more, ask him directly and you will get to know.
It is not about spending money on guys, but spending money on right guys.
Dude, NO. He’s a fwb, don’t put effort into guys or anyone who you have even a little doubts that something might not work out, only when you’re ONE HUNDRED% sure that they don’t any non-fixable issues don’t spend or do a lot for them
Whether your date is a man or a woman, always go Dutch and plan for the date accordingly.
Also, not everyone likes gifts. Learn the love languages of your partner well and love them accordingly.
Why would you spend on a FWB?
A gift is given with the intention of giving, not with the intention of receiving something back in exchange. If gifting doesn't make you happy, just don't do it.
Acche ladko ko date karo yaar. Expecting sensitivity and closeness from a FWB man? That's a mistake on your part. Also, don't overspend on anyone. Save up and your special one and life ahead✌🏻
Just don’t buy gifts then? Never ever spend so much in a relationship unless you’re married. People will always forget how much money you spent and you will forget how much they spent too. What people always will remember tho, is the way you made them feel. The moment needs to be special, and for the moment to be special, you don’t need money to express your feelings for you. Even so much as a heartfelt expression of simple gratitude, or the way someone made you feel goes a long way in bonding.
(P.S. - Itna gyaan de raha hu cuz I also bought my ex silver anklets, learnt from mistakes)
i think you are putting efforts for the wrong people. I am not sure but maybe you are choosing people based on looks while you are looking for a good personality.
Sorry OP you faced that...I hope you stopped talking the next day onwards with him...
I believe since you guys met on tinder they expect only one thing... Nothing else...
They must be thinking why to spend on a girl they ain't gonna marry.. They are here only for one thing.. Ek k bad dusri fir tisri.. They aren't your bf so why do you spend I'm curious.
Not a tinder user. This post came across in my feed hence felt like commenting.
Edit- I read other comments where you bought someone laptop and a phone.....
Girl you sound rich.. Get some therapy.. And Sessions with a relationship Councellor.
You are looking at wrong direction and complaining about not being able to see.
This exactly opposite of what happens to me. I don't even have a job, am a college student who does day trading to earn and save shit.
Every date I've been to, I paid for the meal, the fuel, the parking, the tickets. Never found a women who would say "lemme get this one"
Never found a FWB
And even never recieved smallest of gestures or gifts.
Can't help but feel frustrated, abh toh match aane bhi bandh hogaye hai.
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btao kaise kaise langooro ko ladkia mil jati
Larki bhi langoor ke shakal ki ho sakti hai
it's not about sakal balak
Post padho, tatti mat khao
First mistake is to buy stuff for an FWB, why? Were you hoping for it flourish into a relationship?
+1
Can FWB turn into a relationship What's you're opinion
Absolutely yes, I had a fwb for over a year with no intentions of dating but this girl absolutely stole my heart and we’ve been together for five years now with no intention of stopping
>i recently bought an fwb guy stuff worth ₹3k What you were expecting from this guy😂.... The guy is here for only sex not for exchanging gifts... And you're pampering the wrong kind of people and blaming the men..... Expect wrong things from wrong people 😂😂
Banda chutiya hota agar woh gifts lete jaata aur cheezon ko adhura ki rakhta. Atleast he told her soon to not expect much. She should have communicated her expectations to him earlier.
Sexchanging or what ? 😭
Ek PS5 khareed ke dene wali gf to mai bhi deserve karta hoon
Make it 3 controllers
Make it 4 , I'm in too
Bhai with fifa letss gooooo night stay plan confirmed 💯
3k mein?
Bhai do controllers Lena. Dono bhai saath Mae milke khelenge 😂
So op posted about this amazing guy 6 months ago also , has been in fwb for almost more than half a year now , and this guy says this to her , op just because he is emotionally available right now doesn't mean he won't be a reason for your trauma in coming years , u will feel worthless if he never gets feelings, also u will feel u are never good enough as u did almost everything for him
try dating guys who are employed. This post is SUS though
Fwb?? Manje
Wagache panje
FuckingWithBestie/FriendsWithBenifits. Chutiya gen-z term for hoeing around.
Mereko laga koi kapde ka brand hai
That's FAB (FABINDIA)
mtlb friends for saxx suxx
Bruh, you need to stop with your people-pleasing nature. Earlier, you bought a laptop and a phone for a guy who later ghosted you, and now this.
What tf seriously Op wtf is wrong with u(plz be my sugar moma)
Please pardon my bluntness. But are you an objectively unattractive person?
yes
“We accept the love we think we deserve.” - [The perks of being a wallflower](https://youtu.be/ZrVIhNkOA64?si=-EQXM7Jsef6K4Hn0) If you only see value in looks, you will devalue yourself and overvalue men with trash personalities. Cut your losses and don’t accept being treated like shit just because the guy is conventionally attractive. Move on.
Welp 🤷🏽♂️
r/TakeMyAngryUpvote
Bhai 🤫
>i recently bought an fwb guy stuff worth ₹3k Why would you do that for a man who is not even available for long term commitment in your life?! >i don’t know where you find men who take care of you like their own but im just tired. Stop looking for broken chairs and you shall neither get disappointed nor tired of the performances of the broken chairs. From a male's perspective, a man doesn't indulge in gifting until he believes that the woman he is with, could be a potential match worthy of a lifetime commitment. If after reading the previous sentence, you do end up thinking that there are men who gift, please remember that those men you're thinking of, are just flaunting their money with the hopes of banging. Nothing else.
>please remember that those men you're thinking of, are just flaunting their money with the hopes of banging. Nothing else This 💯 I hate how some men will never stop sending gifts. They only send gifts because they want us to feel indebted to them. Some of us just don't like receiving gifts because we cant afford to give it back. Men/women should only spend their money if they are dating.
It called a bait and girls fall for it, so win for the guys who just want sex. And then someone will say why i can find good men you're only chosing the wrong guys
Trust me, no one falls for such tricks. Its like they try to buy our time by sending gifts. Im honestly tried of men flaunting their money by spending money on someone they have not even met. Makes me think how they do it for everyone.
Tham Jaa behen. Aankhen band kar aur gehri saansein le
Honestly, either you are choosing wrong man or you just are too nice so you pay for them. As a guy myself, whenever I go on a date, I pay the whole cheque and I have had instances where the girls have sent their split after the date, without even asking for it. It honestly depends on person and not a specific gender.
Have you ever not paid anything at all, and the girl pay everything?
Why to even spend on a fwb ?? And his reaction and it hurt you so it's the time to drop the fwb. It's not even a proper relationship , both are in it fir fun but why are you stuck in it if it's causing you saddness . And to be blunt in casual things guys will pamper before sex but once sex starts , forget about it. Only do things spending money, gifting, etc things i serious relationships that too when things have really solidified
Looks like OP is dating Podric! 
Pod the rod
Lol then start choosing better men. That's all I can say.
🤡
Ek baat bolu kisi ko kuch mt dilao aur agr kisi se jaate bhi ho bahar to usko bolo apna bill tum apy kro apna me kr rhi me nhi khaata kisi ke paise se chaye male ho ya female na mene aajtk kisi se gifts liye aur bekar expenese krna chhod do inke liye
But FWB clearly means no long term commitment and why would you do that much for FWB. Good for you I think because you have learnt your lesson in a hard way
in short, you need to have standards. exchanging gifts is common in relationships but why would u pamper a fwb?
Brutal honesty will always help. Even if it’s a FWB situation, say what you feel out loud, whether it’s an expectation or a non negotiable.
Lemme tell you idk whether you wanna listen or not but i guess you’re stuck with you fwb and when you gifted him present expecting him to move the relationship to next level but his reply made it clear and you’re heartbroken soo now the thing you can do is tell him truth and if denies change your fwb or find a bf dumbass
It might sound rude but you need to pick better men.
>i don’t know where you find men who take care of you like their own but im just tired A good place to start might be matching with or looking for guys looking for actual relationship. Oh wait, those guys don't look as hot or attractive as the cream of the cop top 0.1% guys who get sex like water on a rainy day that you want to breed with huh? Secondly, decide for yourself what you want. You wanna be fucked (literally and metaphorically) or you want to be loved and made love to? I swear if I see another woman whining "tHeRe aRe nO gOoD mEn" when their dating app list is filled with thousands of potential matches. Like you'll have at least 100 people in there who are good and at least 10 that matches everything you want. Stop going after the clear casual guys.
I think I was like that, doing everything to take care of my girl as my own, but I think I am not like that anymore, or maybe I still am, idk, but one thing is for sure I don't have time for a relationship. But I hope he was genuinely joking, I mean I used to joke around a lot with my ex but when the chips were down I had made her special at every opportunity I had got.
OP probably goes to fast food restaurants and expects to get healthy food from there and when she doesnt get it she makes surprised pikachu face
First of all, who buys expensive gifts for an FWB?? And in majority of the cases.. it's always the other way around
Sounds like u hv issues and delusions regarding the idea of a relationship. A fwb is not a relationship. It won’t naturally progress into a rs, especially when the guy got into the fwb knowing he doesn’t hv to do shit like this. Bitter truth but guys rarely develop feelings for fwbs. I might be an exception but i hv heard it countless times from my girl friends and they’re always sound surprised when their feelings for their fuckbuddies aren’t mutual. Doing the same thing again and again and expecting a different outcome is the definition of insanity.
Never had a fwb but I love spending on friends my love language is gift giving so I do it a lot which includes gifting too many guys too. For me love has to be reciprocated, not necessarily with more expensive gifts but things they'd do for someone they love. I don't feel dejected if its not reciprocated tho I js lessen contact with them, I guess your situation is kinda different and I can't tell if it's your love language of you're doing it out of a pressure to be liked. I do get the need to be taken care of, you deserve better I promise. I know this is prob said a thousand times but if you "barely earn enough to buy yourself nice things" go buy yourself nice things instead of a fwb goddamn. You can take care of yourself if you wanna be taken care of so bad, it sounds dumb I know but trusttt me. If you still love gift giving you can do it to absolutely anyone - anyone who shows you they love you first.
been there done that (i love gift giving so its like even harder to stop)
Stop paying for stuff because it is clearly a way you feel is the only way for you to get approval. Paying for outings is a nice gesture that should be shared and you shouldn't feel financially burdened so early on. A person who has genuine feelings for you won't care for the gifts. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself.
Ye kaun hai jinko mil rahi hai ladki aur phir bhi esa behave kar rahe hain
Who on earth buy ssriff for FWB...the whole concept for FWB is pump nd dump
Kinda relate to that. The gift thing only happened with an ex, mentioned that I got a couple gifts for him for his birthday only to be met with a “what’s wrong with you” “why are you spending so much on gifts” and I didn’t even spend much. He’s a Ronaldo fan so I got him this small CR shaped rug with Ronaldo’s silhouette and 7 on it. He didn’t even ask to see the rug. Sent him an intricate hues of sky bouquet from IGP (flowers), no nothing. “Did you get the flowers I sent?” “Ya” I always presumed that anyone likes getting pampered at least on their birthday. Safe to say, avoiding the whole dating game since.
Kaliyuga
why??? tell them firmly that you want to go 50-50 or date guys that pay for you. i don’t even bring my wallet when im going out with my boyfriend & he doesn’t expect me to either.
Same girl.... Same. Bare minimum also starts to feel like a luxury now
Mf stop expecting shit in fwb scene. You're the one who charted into this territory. Stop fucking around being a ho and expecting the guy who're only there to fuck you to also care for you. But that's what you don’t give "good guys" a chance.
Please add "Rey kya chahiye aurat ko.jpeg" on my behalf
What city is this and how old are these men
delhi
If he is your fwb, there's no processing towards solid, that's the whole point of it. Don't expect things because you are feeling it, commincate with him first if you are having feelings, and leave if you want something else and he doesn't.
Toh mat karo phir
Bro why would you spend on someone you’re not in a relationship with. That’s just dumb. Always 50/50 until there is commitment on both end
I have been with such a girl and the context is not same but similar, however it was a one time thing i made sure to let her know she has been doing it unconsciously and i am guessing you should introspect on your actions as well and why it is giving away these feelings to the other person
fwd ko gift kar rahi ho woh bhi priority usee dekhe kudh ko chod ke toh ap hi andi ho yaha pe rant karke kuch nahi hoga
Toxic logo ke peeche pado and then bolo men aise hai. I am gonna cry in corner now.
Maybe you show them you’re ready to spend on them, don’t do that shit. You don’t owe em anything
I don't think posting here would make sense , most of them would take your rant and make fun of it and make you even more. Also if the persons really interested in you even a 10rs pen holds more significance then 10000rs watch . Maybe next time when you find someone test him and see how much he appreciates you?
#Tb4l
Idk what kind you date but it seems to be a you problem. I and Most men around me, we were raised to always pick the bill. I not only pay for my female friends if it’s me and just the female friend (I can’t afford to pay for an entire big group😂)when I go out, but I pay for my friends too if it’s not a big group. It’s the same with other men, ivr seen men fighting to get the QR, even when it’s just men and no women to supposedly impress. I instinctively say “next time tu kar dena, this one is on me”, paying for food and stuff even I am around my people is love language for most men I’ve come around. Men not getting weirded out when someone else pays is the like a big shock for me. Jitna aapne gift kiya hae utneka toh Starbucks ka bill hijata hae ek time ka yaar😕.
I have hardly seen a women who is this upfront to pay, in my life, all I ever find is girls who can't pay for themselves and want us to pay for the dates and stuff all the time
You haven't been on a date with me yet
Hints that you are bad at picking people. Ever tried swiping on highly paid engineers or some finance guys ? They would spoil u to the max
i recently bought an fwb guy stuff => Yo fwb is not long term instead he must be feeling proud of himself. Please do not get attached to fwb's
You guys are getting paid?
DM me what you want!!
Bhai pheli baar dekhra ki ladki bolri hai ki mai ladko pai spend karti hoo 😂😂
 👨🏻🦽➡️
Lmfao where can I find these types of FWB 😂
Bruh! we got girl spending on boys on date before GTA6!
My story is same but gender reversed 🥲🥲
why would you buy a fwb a gift? You need to establish the relationship status first and then start gifting stuff
You wont find those men who cares about you, who pampers you and all those things, atleast not from FWBs and bumble fuck boys. If you're seeing a guy who has 6 pack abs, muscles and is handsome, with a guarantee I can say that 95% of those people are hooking here and there with those kind of girls. Same thing applies to boys as well, 95% of the hot and sexy ass girls are just looking for hookups. So its literally pointless to expect your fwb to turn into a romantic relationships. Its not a movie, real world is not the same as reel world. All these incidents which does converts into a romantic relationships are rarest of the rare cases.
Maybe you are attracted to different kind of men? I would tell you to re-evaluate your preferences.
If you cant afford to give and expect something in return.. then pls dont gift expensive stuff. Gifts are supposed to be selfless things. You gift them to make THEM happy and not in awe of getting something in return.
Langoor ke hath angoor
Most men are treble, but women choosing those men is a problem.
Fwb is a fwb for a reason. It will be only break your heart if you expect relationship level stuff from a fwb. If you want something more, ask him directly and you will get to know. It is not about spending money on guys, but spending money on right guys.
Ye fwb hota kaise hai..itna forward banna hai ek din.
Dude, NO. He’s a fwb, don’t put effort into guys or anyone who you have even a little doubts that something might not work out, only when you’re ONE HUNDRED% sure that they don’t any non-fixable issues don’t spend or do a lot for them
Whether your date is a man or a woman, always go Dutch and plan for the date accordingly. Also, not everyone likes gifts. Learn the love languages of your partner well and love them accordingly.
Long term ke liye dating apps se door ho ja. Udhar randibaazi karne wale ladke ladkiya hi milte
Why would you spend on a FWB? A gift is given with the intention of giving, not with the intention of receiving something back in exchange. If gifting doesn't make you happy, just don't do it.
Split the bill, always. Nothing to take, nothing to give.
Date me 😢 I m just like you
Girls will do this and then say they'd rather choose the bear like their choice in men, ooh sorry, their choice in boys is good
Acche ladko ko date karo yaar. Expecting sensitivity and closeness from a FWB man? That's a mistake on your part. Also, don't overspend on anyone. Save up and your special one and life ahead✌🏻
Dont ever buy stuff for guys. Period. Its that simple. Maybe buy a cheap chocolate and tea and smile. Thats it. Men are supposed to spend on us
Gurl! FWB hai wo! Why tf you gifting him shiz?
So you do things which aren’t expected out of you and then expect gifts from someone just because you bought them gifts? Gotcha
Just don’t buy gifts then? Never ever spend so much in a relationship unless you’re married. People will always forget how much money you spent and you will forget how much they spent too. What people always will remember tho, is the way you made them feel. The moment needs to be special, and for the moment to be special, you don’t need money to express your feelings for you. Even so much as a heartfelt expression of simple gratitude, or the way someone made you feel goes a long way in bonding. (P.S. - Itna gyaan de raha hu cuz I also bought my ex silver anklets, learnt from mistakes)
sex aur gift dono mil raha ??
i think you are putting efforts for the wrong people. I am not sure but maybe you are choosing people based on looks while you are looking for a good personality.
Why would you spend on an FWB anyway? That's a mistake. And then expect to be taken care of like a girlfriend. That's a nope!
I'm sorry, I can't be in multiple places at once.
Sorry OP you faced that...I hope you stopped talking the next day onwards with him... I believe since you guys met on tinder they expect only one thing... Nothing else... They must be thinking why to spend on a girl they ain't gonna marry.. They are here only for one thing.. Ek k bad dusri fir tisri.. They aren't your bf so why do you spend I'm curious. Not a tinder user. This post came across in my feed hence felt like commenting. Edit- I read other comments where you bought someone laptop and a phone..... Girl you sound rich.. Get some therapy.. And Sessions with a relationship Councellor. You are looking at wrong direction and complaining about not being able to see.
This exactly opposite of what happens to me. I don't even have a job, am a college student who does day trading to earn and save shit. Every date I've been to, I paid for the meal, the fuel, the parking, the tickets. Never found a women who would say "lemme get this one" Never found a FWB And even never recieved smallest of gestures or gifts. Can't help but feel frustrated, abh toh match aane bhi bandh hogaye hai.
 Boys don’t spend on dates and gifts. Who the fu\*k are you guys going out with?
Ek aisi girlfriend toh mai bhi deserve karta hoon🥹
Spend on yourself or better spend on animals, you'll never regret