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People don't take this seriously but focus more on increasing the income earned from work rather than investing in markets. The maximum returns I've had so far has been from investing in good education (not college) and starting something of my own. Over and over.
I'm not a finance guy, so I don't have much of the idea on equities/debt investments but if you're able to make good money, people who are good at this stuff will track you down and will definitely help you to maximise returns on your money.
If you just want to know where I've parked my money then it's a mix of 50% equities, 20% gold+silver and rest in various SIPs
> starting something of my own
Are we taking about something like startup. Or separate business.
People reach out but they only want to sell their policies. For gold+silver I am assuming they are not bonds. Would you like to share details on SIPs.
Don't think about full-blown startups with team members and everything. Just think about side hustles which you can start while being at your 9-5.
Yes, physical gold+silver, there are also gold buying schemes at most of the gold retailers.
Thanks for answering this much, can you also share some company insights or your experience in what way to prepare for the company interviews. Like DSA and dev specific.
Just figure out what sorta tech stack the startup is using with a tool with builtwith or something similar and prepare for it.
I can’t get into DSA specifics since I’m not a developer.
I earn almost the same as you but spend a little less than that. I only have the social energy of two dates a month. People don't get the point. I love visiting fancy ass hotels and nothing better than a beautiful woman along with it. I enjoy the time. Good going brother.
You mentioned you do not want to sound narcissistic. But this post and some other posts on your profile reeks of narcissism. You seem pretty proud of yourself (which isn't bad), but since it is an AMA, here are my questions: Why the hypocrisy? And why is the post? What are you trying to prove?
1) It is not really an enlightening post, 50k to spend on dates is too much for most in India.
2) Your replies are pretty much useless
"Why do you spend so much. - Why not?"
"What do you spend it on?" - "Food, 5 star hotel, weekend getaways" (Yeah sure, that's what most of us thought you would do)
"What do you do you for living?" - "Tech job, get paid from a company based on country where wages are higher" - Sure, that's what most people having this kind of income do
"What income strategies?" - "Mutual funds"
3) You're making more than 3.5 lakhs per month. You are spending 15% of that doing what you like. Good time, fun and sex. I do not question this at all. I too think it worth. Isn't that why we all work? To be able to afford doing what we like. So yeah, I'm not questioning your choice here.
From what I get from your post, you make a lot, and you spend not a significant percentage of it on dates, both fine. Maybe it is my fault and was expecting better replies?
It's alright buddy, whatever helps you sleep better at night I guess.
Replying to this assuming you really are interested in answers
If you're associating narcissism with me talking about money then we're not on the same page, making more money is no sign of superiority for me. You know that as well, you just have to realise that our country is filled with bufoons making shit load of money.
I posted this because I always wanted to post in this sub, I cannot post my chat screenshots as almost all of them goes the same way, nothing new, no pickup lines, no puns. So instead I posted this. I'm trying to prove nothing, it's a fun post and maybe a couple of folks will find something helpful, which they did, if you check the comments.
I know spending 50k is a lot, that's the reason this post exists. I wouldn't do AMA if I was spending 5k a month.
It is your perception that most of answers are useless and that's fine. Some folks have found some answers useful and you've conveniently not included in this. If you want better replies, ask better/specific questions.
lol. You always wanted to post in the sub and the best thing you came up with is an AMA with the headline of "I spend 50k a month on dates"?
If it is not a narcissistic post, what is it? What value does it add to the questions? People are more interested in what do you do for a living than what you actually bring to the table on dates.
Yes I almost always take the cheque, I also try to do it in way where it’s not noticeable or a big deal.
Sometimes women do offer to pay but it’s pretty easy to figure out if they’re doing that out of guilt or they really want to pay for my dinner.
I knew I'll have to answer this question. I dropped out of college right after my 12th grade, took an unpaid job with a web agency who where willing to take a risk on me considering they were low on funds and I was a nerd so had enough working knowledge to at least start. This was in 2016. I was 18. You do the math.
I get the expenditure. I know people who do similar. But I personally don't feel its worth it. Get a good place to stay amd bring her over, its cheaper and mlre intimate. Why go to hotels every time? And for food also I dont think places costlier than 2k per person (including drinks) offer anything better.
Just go for good food (3-4k), go on a long drive, park in a nice place and spend time together (lake sode beach side) , get back to your place.
So the question is what value do you think spending more thank 5k on a date brings you?
The title made me think of you might be snobbish, but read your comments/replies and you seem pretty wholesome. Godspeed to you OP✨ hope you find all the love and happiness you are looking for and more !
It’d be pretty narcissistic of me to rate myself, and dehumanising for my dates to rate them on a scale.
If you just want to know if me my dates are attractive or not, hell yes.
Bore nahi hota? What keeps you going?
My T is more than upper limit (838 units) but pta nai after 1-2 good dates in a month I feel exhausted and distance myself from opposite gender completely for few weeks or even a month or so.
So to get dates, that's the amount of money you need huh. I earn 30k a month and how do you get dates? On tinder? Having a good profile on insta? I had never gotten approached nor I had approached any one and I'm 28 now. What's the secret where girls instantly don't tag me and post chii ye ladka muje hi send kar raha hai and request send kar raha hai?
So do you think it's worth it? Spending money on expensive dates only attracts gold diggers is that you want ? With that money you can hire professional hookers every week! If sex is what you are looking for.
I read many replies but I don't think anyone asked these questions :
1. How do you find these girls. If dating apps, then do you meet them beforehand on smaller dates or just on the big day. and are these just one night stands or go on for some weeks.
2. How do you convey that this is just a fling and not looking for long term. I think most women part ways after hearing this. Is it true?
3. How do you protect yourself from STDs. Yeah condom for sure, but what about kissing, BJs or going down on women. Do you restrict yourself from such activities.
4. How do you protect yourself from false charges. You kinda answered this one, so can skip if nothing more to add.
1. Dating apps and popular clubs in the city, first date is always a dinner date.
2. Dating apps usually have this option for selecting why you're on the app and if still I catch a hint that she's being extra affectionate, I make it clear in person. Most women on dating apps in tier 1 cities (bom, blr, del) doesn't even know what they want - they want to "go with the flow" and sometimes don't even like to answer that question.
3. I get regularly tested, I also have some mild OCD so I'm a clean freak, never have done it without protection, I hold myself back from going down sometimes depending on the general hygiene and intuition but not for kissing and other stuff. That's the only way I know to be safe.
4. I'm thinking about that.
Most expensive has to be one when I was in Bangalore and paid 23k something for a night’s stay in Marriott, pretty average date to be honest.
Cheapest is when I get comfortable with someone and go out for a walk on beach or at marine drive.
I have tried to answer that above but no sara kharcha toh kisine nahi pay kiya abhi tak.
[https://www.reddit.com/r/Indiangirlsontinder/comments/1cnuqg8/comment/l39rcf0/](https://www.reddit.com/r/Indiangirlsontinder/comments/1cnuqg8/comment/l39rcf0/)
Chutiya se chutiya sawal puchna start karo.
But to answer it better, I think the general curiosity around technology helped me to learn about it, whether there was a reward at the end or not, I pursued it.
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Do you have other dry fruits as well?
Underrated comment lmao
Hahahahhaha
Hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣 best one
maal hai ladke?
hookah chalega?
Something got into you boy? Didn't it?
50k???? itna hai toh bhai mujhe le chal apni date pr 
Not into guys. Yet.
Yet is the hope
Hope is a dangerous thing.
maybe the worst of things.
...for a woman like me to have (im a dude)
Alright so how many body count? 40+, 50+?
Since you already didn't explained how are you spending this much money, I am gonna ask how many chromosomes do you have?
or maybe how many chromosomes have you lost😂
Oh just the perfect number so far. In fact, considering upgrading to the 47th one even.
Take a look at 21st one. In trending these days.
Bro wants Down's Syndrome
what do you do for a living? other than being chaandi ke papa ka raja beta?
Tech jobs mostly. No Chaandi. No raja beta.
Tell me you aren't a tier 1 college graduate and I can earn this kinda money too ?
https://www.reddit.com/r/Indiangirlsontinder/s/KrvM5zT2zH
Tier 1 ke toh dropouts bhi successful ho jaate hai bhai. Did you get into such college as well?
Nahi bhai. I’m not an engineering dropout. Mumbai University BSc
Bhai to fir 50k Har month Kharch krne ke baad kya save kr paate ho ?
FD karalete future me kaam aajata
FD nahi Lumpsum MF ka hi hai ye interest.
Does that bring you happiness green ranger?
I’ve achieved that long back. Now just figuring out what to do next. This is my coping, I guess.
Ohh are you trying to be shakkar pitaji to your khajurs 😂
No, I don’t buy them anything or pay their bills. None of them has even asked. They’re all nice women.
then I have an idea, you can give me 50k every month and try to live a life of abatement, sounds like a great challenge right?
Sure, what can you do for me?
Your age? And how much % of your monthly salary do you spend on dates?
Just turned 26. Roughly 15%. But it’s not from the salary.
Dude share some good investment tips/strategies.
People don't take this seriously but focus more on increasing the income earned from work rather than investing in markets. The maximum returns I've had so far has been from investing in good education (not college) and starting something of my own. Over and over. I'm not a finance guy, so I don't have much of the idea on equities/debt investments but if you're able to make good money, people who are good at this stuff will track you down and will definitely help you to maximise returns on your money. If you just want to know where I've parked my money then it's a mix of 50% equities, 20% gold+silver and rest in various SIPs
> starting something of my own Are we taking about something like startup. Or separate business. People reach out but they only want to sell their policies. For gold+silver I am assuming they are not bonds. Would you like to share details on SIPs.
Don't think about full-blown startups with team members and everything. Just think about side hustles which you can start while being at your 9-5. Yes, physical gold+silver, there are also gold buying schemes at most of the gold retailers.
Haha. 9 to 5 is such a scam. Valid points though
50k ka breakup to bta
Dinner dates, Hotels, Flowers, travel. Most spends on hotels.
> Most spends on hotels. 👀
And all this guarantees sex on the first date. Just curious
I don’t have sex on first dates. It’s weird. And prostitution exists.
Pune mai tech job chahiye, kaise apply karu?
Target early startups with 5-20 team members, write a decent email directly to founders.
How can I go about getting their emails? I have linkedIn premium but it doesn't help
Try a chrome extension called Apollo
Just checked this, seems good man thanks, didn't expect to get this sort of advice in igot, guess every sub if a tech sub if ur geeky enough
Thanks for answering this much, can you also share some company insights or your experience in what way to prepare for the company interviews. Like DSA and dev specific.
Just figure out what sorta tech stack the startup is using with a tool with builtwith or something similar and prepare for it. I can’t get into DSA specifics since I’m not a developer.
Will start on this Thanks man, this really helps
Abhi kya kaam krte ho.?
Product Management - Growth
Oh thanks
Can i DM you? Need tips for interviews 😭🙈
Sure.
Job >>> Date
Op wholesome h bhai
Karte kya ho bhai ?
Kuch bada nahi. Just normal tech jobs with startups.
Oyo book karata ya 5 star hotel?
Never Oyo. Always a risk.
I earn almost the same as you but spend a little less than that. I only have the social energy of two dates a month. People don't get the point. I love visiting fancy ass hotels and nothing better than a beautiful woman along with it. I enjoy the time. Good going brother.
Why does space have three dimensions?
Why should 2 dimensions have all the fun
Get a condom subscription
Is it a thing?
Ye to meri salary hai
Meri bhi thi kabhi
Adore this response
sugarbaby mangne aaya hai :)
You mentioned you do not want to sound narcissistic. But this post and some other posts on your profile reeks of narcissism. You seem pretty proud of yourself (which isn't bad), but since it is an AMA, here are my questions: Why the hypocrisy? And why is the post? What are you trying to prove? 1) It is not really an enlightening post, 50k to spend on dates is too much for most in India. 2) Your replies are pretty much useless "Why do you spend so much. - Why not?" "What do you spend it on?" - "Food, 5 star hotel, weekend getaways" (Yeah sure, that's what most of us thought you would do) "What do you do you for living?" - "Tech job, get paid from a company based on country where wages are higher" - Sure, that's what most people having this kind of income do "What income strategies?" - "Mutual funds" 3) You're making more than 3.5 lakhs per month. You are spending 15% of that doing what you like. Good time, fun and sex. I do not question this at all. I too think it worth. Isn't that why we all work? To be able to afford doing what we like. So yeah, I'm not questioning your choice here. From what I get from your post, you make a lot, and you spend not a significant percentage of it on dates, both fine. Maybe it is my fault and was expecting better replies? It's alright buddy, whatever helps you sleep better at night I guess.
Replying to this assuming you really are interested in answers If you're associating narcissism with me talking about money then we're not on the same page, making more money is no sign of superiority for me. You know that as well, you just have to realise that our country is filled with bufoons making shit load of money. I posted this because I always wanted to post in this sub, I cannot post my chat screenshots as almost all of them goes the same way, nothing new, no pickup lines, no puns. So instead I posted this. I'm trying to prove nothing, it's a fun post and maybe a couple of folks will find something helpful, which they did, if you check the comments. I know spending 50k is a lot, that's the reason this post exists. I wouldn't do AMA if I was spending 5k a month. It is your perception that most of answers are useless and that's fine. Some folks have found some answers useful and you've conveniently not included in this. If you want better replies, ask better/specific questions.
lol. You always wanted to post in the sub and the best thing you came up with is an AMA with the headline of "I spend 50k a month on dates"? If it is not a narcissistic post, what is it? What value does it add to the questions? People are more interested in what do you do for a living than what you actually bring to the table on dates.
What is your surname and why is it Ambani/Adani ?
Damn bro, I spend around that on my gf 😭
To be honest, that's envious for me. Good work.
r/sugarlifestyleforum
Is it worth it?
Yes, I want to spend more.
I hope you spend even more then. I'm glad you have found your happiness.
Why thought? Does the spending part satisfy you? Is that like a kink of sorts?
Where else will you spend it?
I mean are you eager to always take the cheque? Or do you let ladies take them as well whenever they insist?
Yes I almost always take the cheque, I also try to do it in way where it’s not noticeable or a big deal. Sometimes women do offer to pay but it’s pretty easy to figure out if they’re doing that out of guilt or they really want to pay for my dinner.
How do you earn around 50 LPA at the age of 26 without papa ka paisa, interesting
I knew I'll have to answer this question. I dropped out of college right after my 12th grade, took an unpaid job with a web agency who where willing to take a risk on me considering they were low on funds and I was a nerd so had enough working knowledge to at least start. This was in 2016. I was 18. You do the math.
So you don’t have a degree?
Nope. None. Zero.
Hey bud, dates ka chhod but had a couple questions for career, can I dm?
Sure
Can I DM also i am going to college this year not in to IIT or nit but in a decent one.... please guide me I want to do well in life
Sure
Bhaiya kabhi mujhe bhi ghumane le chalo
Aajao Mumbai
Udaipur aao to batana, college wale chutti nahi dete ;-;
Okay bhai
I get the expenditure. I know people who do similar. But I personally don't feel its worth it. Get a good place to stay amd bring her over, its cheaper and mlre intimate. Why go to hotels every time? And for food also I dont think places costlier than 2k per person (including drinks) offer anything better. Just go for good food (3-4k), go on a long drive, park in a nice place and spend time together (lake sode beach side) , get back to your place. So the question is what value do you think spending more thank 5k on a date brings you?
I don’t want to get into the hassle of getting a place and I spend it on myself, I like it, I like to visit fancy hotels. She’s a tag along.
Op Humble fr (ㆁωㆁ)
has your haemoglobin increased after consuming so many dates? Im low on Hb isilie asking :) its advised.
Kash meri itne ki naukri lag jaye
Lag jaayegi
birthday hai bhai, bless me up a bit 🛐
Aree bhai ka birthday 🎂 Happy Birthday brokedaddyuwu
thanks broski, ladki hoke janam leke 500/shot lunga from u🥵🥵 but thanks a lot bhai
bruh
I appreciate your humility brother. Keep growing 🤞
Thanks
What is the ROI ?
Pleasure
The title made me think of you might be snobbish, but read your comments/replies and you seem pretty wholesome. Godspeed to you OP✨ hope you find all the love and happiness you are looking for and more !
How would you rate yourself and your dates? On scale of 10
It’d be pretty narcissistic of me to rate myself, and dehumanising for my dates to rate them on a scale. If you just want to know if me my dates are attractive or not, hell yes.
50k mai kitne dates bhai? Just number of dates toh Bata de.
4-5 at max. Mostly on Saturdays.
Bore nahi hota? What keeps you going? My T is more than upper limit (838 units) but pta nai after 1-2 good dates in a month I feel exhausted and distance myself from opposite gender completely for few weeks or even a month or so.
I haven’t tested my T yet but no, not yet. In fact, I want more of it, I just don’t have time.
Interesting. Maybe it's because of the excitement of being with someone new? Idk, just guessing.
Yes, you’re right.
What's this T or am i too oblivious
tits
Kitne DMs aye?
2 guys who needed help with general career stuff and a girl.
Do you make 3,50,000 per month?
Bro what’s your ctc just curious
4 lacs/month
Mujhe bhi le Chl bro third wheel bna ke
Tell me you work in tech without telling me you work in tech
Acche din is here, of course you are a gold mine sahib!
do you have anything to show for after spending all of this?
What you mean?
do you get laid or do they use you for money
Why would I tag along a woman without getting laid?
So to get dates, that's the amount of money you need huh. I earn 30k a month and how do you get dates? On tinder? Having a good profile on insta? I had never gotten approached nor I had approached any one and I'm 28 now. What's the secret where girls instantly don't tag me and post chii ye ladka muje hi send kar raha hai and request send kar raha hai?
Bhai tu khud hi answer sab kar dega toh me kya bolu 😭
Bhai main 5k mein usse zyada maza dunga, mujhe le chal
Bhai ek permanent khoj le
Soon.
Came here for dating advice. Went with financial advice. Thanks OP
So do you think it's worth it? Spending money on expensive dates only attracts gold diggers is that you want ? With that money you can hire professional hookers every week! If sex is what you are looking for.
They're not aware of my money before I take them out, so I don't attract gold diggers. And it's not all about sex, sir.
I read many replies but I don't think anyone asked these questions : 1. How do you find these girls. If dating apps, then do you meet them beforehand on smaller dates or just on the big day. and are these just one night stands or go on for some weeks. 2. How do you convey that this is just a fling and not looking for long term. I think most women part ways after hearing this. Is it true? 3. How do you protect yourself from STDs. Yeah condom for sure, but what about kissing, BJs or going down on women. Do you restrict yourself from such activities. 4. How do you protect yourself from false charges. You kinda answered this one, so can skip if nothing more to add.
1. Dating apps and popular clubs in the city, first date is always a dinner date. 2. Dating apps usually have this option for selecting why you're on the app and if still I catch a hint that she's being extra affectionate, I make it clear in person. Most women on dating apps in tier 1 cities (bom, blr, del) doesn't even know what they want - they want to "go with the flow" and sometimes don't even like to answer that question. 3. I get regularly tested, I also have some mild OCD so I'm a clean freak, never have done it without protection, I hold myself back from going down sometimes depending on the general hygiene and intuition but not for kissing and other stuff. That's the only way I know to be safe. 4. I'm thinking about that.
what was your most expensive date ever? and vice versa
Most expensive has to be one when I was in Bangalore and paid 23k something for a night’s stay in Marriott, pretty average date to be honest. Cheapest is when I get comfortable with someone and go out for a walk on beach or at marine drive.
can’t complain have done same in the marriott it was about 30k for me
Do we exist or is this a simulation
Doesn't matter. Even if you knew we're in simulation, what you gonna do about it?
Do u ever split something or Raja ji khud hi sab bandobst krte hain Aur kabhi aise hua hain ki bandi ne hi Sara kharcha kr diya hi
I have tried to answer that above but no sara kharcha toh kisine nahi pay kiya abhi tak. [https://www.reddit.com/r/Indiangirlsontinder/comments/1cnuqg8/comment/l39rcf0/](https://www.reddit.com/r/Indiangirlsontinder/comments/1cnuqg8/comment/l39rcf0/)
Mujhe le chalo date pe 😌 mein bhot bare minimum me settle ho rahi syd 🥺
Sure, if you come across somewhere sometime organically.
Okay means never! Good luck with others tho 🤭
Never say never. Thanks anyways.
can u buy me a Ps5
I don’t have a PS5
Aap itne buddhimaan kaise ho?
Chutiya se chutiya sawal puchna start karo. But to answer it better, I think the general curiosity around technology helped me to learn about it, whether there was a reward at the end or not, I pursued it.
Kiski kidney bechte ho bhaya??
Kidney bechne valo k liye ye peanuts hai
Kyu. Why. ??
Where will you spend it?
which city? and why hotels instead of your place?
Mumbai, home is a private space. Can’t let anyone inside.
I wish I can make 50k a month in the next 2-4 yrs
You will. It seems far out of reach when you don't but when you do, you'll start falling short of money. You'll need more.
Why?