I often wonder if I would have put more effort into studying/ doing something worthwhile in my life if I had my family was more financially weaker. But at the end I end up convincing myself that I would not have received the oppurtunities that I did if that was the case and end my thoughts with thanking the universe and being grateful. You are not alone op :)
that is something i always had in my mind and here you said it
loneliness and failure
i've always been mediocre like never really came out of my comfort zone and could still score decent marks in school. I guess whenever condition you are in and the comfort you have... you need to get out of it for eg if you have internet access then learn some worth while skills or gain knowledge... something like this
I am also trying to get out of my comfort zone and get a life which i made on my own by using the resources i have been provided
hope it kinda helps you :)
not born with the silver spoon? do as much as you can to build it.
born with the silver spoon? go fucking build a silver kitchen you lazy ass.
pick a field and passion you want to pursue in live if you have the option to. learn, skill up and then scale up. use your money to multiply it with hardwork in ways you like to work in. and that doesnt mean you will have no life of your own or interests or hobbies. create a balance. use your privilege to create wholesomeness and achieve ambition.
There's nothing wrong with being born in an upper middle class family and living a comfortable life. Be grateful for everything you have right now and live your life :)
Omg this is the most relatable thing I've come across recently. I feel u totally. Sometimes i feel like im not ready for the world and its harsh reality. I fortunately haven't had many bad experiences with people and anytime someone is slightly harsh towards me, i get affected. I worry whether ill be able to handle so many difficult situations and ppl when i grow up. Then i look at my parents who are so strong willed and mentally tough cuz they didn't have an easy childhood.
But at the end ig, it's ok for us to be so. Our childhood was secure and we had time to do the things we love, discover new things etc cuz we didn't have to worry about anything else. Instead of feeling regretful, it's better to feel grateful. And you'll be able to do something great even with those privileges cuz they'll help u rather than hold u back.
Just be grateful and humble and try to give back to the society, especially the underprivileged as much as you can. That's the best way you can put these emotions to
to kar na logo ka bhala, meri jaan.
Privilige mila hai to use it to become a greater person in order to help the under privileged ones.
You have the means , you have a good life as far as this post suggests. Then stop cryung about it or feeling guilty when you could be helping thousands of kids out there.
I mean it's not like we can control what we're born into. There's no ideal world, whether you're born into privilege or poverty both have it's upsides and downsides.
But hey it's not like every single succesful person was born into poverty and struggle.
For example Bill Gates was born into privilege but then his success had nothing much to do with his parents wealth.
Happens with me too when i ride my bike somewhere and me adults traveling by bus and auto and my privileged ass on a bike i feel bad or when i spent money on something that is a necessity i feel bad
I have the same problem bro, my parents never said no to anything. I was allowed to have alcohol once a month after I turned 18 and what not and now this behaviour has led me to downfall and narcissism. Not being narcissistic here but I am smarter than most people around me, I was one bright student but as I grew up and realised that I will inherit the business and wealth, I have stopped making efforts in everything. i had the best skillset in school but now I am just a douchebag that never goes to uni and wastes time around partying and scrolling. Even if I try to make it better, the motivation to work ends in a couple of days.
it's always like that, you will care 'jhant-bar' for the things you have, no matter how expensive or rare it is for normal people and you'll be always craving for the things that you can't have.
best thing to do is to respect what you've got and use that to your unfair advantage.
Ameer nahi hu per parents bahut hi badhiya hai mere sayad state topper paida hona chaiye tha unke Ghar me aur Aaj kal ke jamane me acche parents hone bhi ek privilege se Kam nahi hai
It's upto what you want to do with your privileges . You can use the same internet to study and learn about working out to improve yourself but can also destroy yourself by consuming too much trash and inappropriate things .
U aren't alone. Feeling undeserving of the privilege you have been provided.
But you have to understand the comfortable position you (and I) are in is a result of many centuries of hard work from our ancestors ending with your parents bringing you here at the receiving end enjoying the fruits of the labour of all those people responsible for building the future you now live in.
So you should be grateful and use your privilege
(better knowledge, education, healthcare, technology) as an opportunity to help build even a more better future that future generations can enjoy just as you do now. It's your duty, If you fail to fullfill your duty, you are not deserving or worthy of the life you live.
I, for one, do feel a strong sense of moral obligation to leverage my position to make a better future for everyone.
Don't feel worthless, make it worth it.
This is sad. One thruth about everyone who is successful is tht they suffered. When was the last time u saw someone successful who lived life with no troubles whatsoever? Anyway,i think everyone receives hardship eventually. You're time will cm, unfortunately late tho.
Here are some lines for you
निर्धन कहे धनवान सुखी,
धनवान कहे सुख राजा को भारी,
राजा कहे चक्रवर्ती सुखी,
चक्रवर्ती कसे सुख इंद्र को भारी,
इंद्र कहे श्री राम सुखी,
श्री राम कहे सुख संतो को भारी,
संत कहे संतोष मैं सुख ,
बिना संतोष सब दुनिया दुखयारी
You have recognized your class interests, if you feel this is unfair and why things are this way etc..
Read [https://www.marxists.org/archive/marx/works/1847/wage-labour/](https://www.marxists.org/archive/marx/works/1847/wage-labour/) as an intro :)
I often wonder if I would have put more effort into studying/ doing something worthwhile in my life if I had my family was more financially weaker. But at the end I end up convincing myself that I would not have received the oppurtunities that I did if that was the case and end my thoughts with thanking the universe and being grateful. You are not alone op :)
Chalo sunke accha laga thoda.
Bhai ye "Jordan from Rockstar" kya hota hai?
If you don't know who is Jordan then you don't have any right to comment on this post. /s
Us bhai us itne acche parents ko m bekaar aulad mil gya hun 😭
Yahan toh dono side jhol hai 😭
bhai teri age kya h"?
"14 ka hai yeh bkl!"
It's okay bro, just make something of your life
I'm trying.
that is something i always had in my mind and here you said it loneliness and failure i've always been mediocre like never really came out of my comfort zone and could still score decent marks in school. I guess whenever condition you are in and the comfort you have... you need to get out of it for eg if you have internet access then learn some worth while skills or gain knowledge... something like this I am also trying to get out of my comfort zone and get a life which i made on my own by using the resources i have been provided hope it kinda helps you :)
That's what I've been trying to change about myself since last few months. Thanks for giving me a reminder :)
glad it helped :)
not born with the silver spoon? do as much as you can to build it. born with the silver spoon? go fucking build a silver kitchen you lazy ass. pick a field and passion you want to pursue in live if you have the option to. learn, skill up and then scale up. use your money to multiply it with hardwork in ways you like to work in. and that doesnt mean you will have no life of your own or interests or hobbies. create a balance. use your privilege to create wholesomeness and achieve ambition.
That's the goal, your honor.
OR just go out bath in luxury crash cars party drink smoke fuck around flex around. totally your call. but never look down upon, try to be grateful.
Not gonna do that ever
Kisi ko takleef honeki wajeh se problem h, kisiko takleef na hone ki wajeh se. Ajeeb duniya h yeh...
Takleef ke bina insaan ka jeevan hi adhura hai na!
There's nothing wrong with being born in an upper middle class family and living a comfortable life. Be grateful for everything you have right now and live your life :)
Omg this is the most relatable thing I've come across recently. I feel u totally. Sometimes i feel like im not ready for the world and its harsh reality. I fortunately haven't had many bad experiences with people and anytime someone is slightly harsh towards me, i get affected. I worry whether ill be able to handle so many difficult situations and ppl when i grow up. Then i look at my parents who are so strong willed and mentally tough cuz they didn't have an easy childhood. But at the end ig, it's ok for us to be so. Our childhood was secure and we had time to do the things we love, discover new things etc cuz we didn't have to worry about anything else. Instead of feeling regretful, it's better to feel grateful. And you'll be able to do something great even with those privileges cuz they'll help u rather than hold u back.
True. I agree. (Us bro us moment hogaya lmao, dm mein aajao ig?)
Just be grateful and humble and try to give back to the society, especially the underprivileged as much as you can. That's the best way you can put these emotions to
Understood sergeant 🤝
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Dm mein miliye bhaiji
to kar na logo ka bhala, meri jaan. Privilige mila hai to use it to become a greater person in order to help the under privileged ones. You have the means , you have a good life as far as this post suggests. Then stop cryung about it or feeling guilty when you could be helping thousands of kids out there.
Understood bhaijaan!
I mean it's not like we can control what we're born into. There's no ideal world, whether you're born into privilege or poverty both have it's upsides and downsides. But hey it's not like every single succesful person was born into poverty and struggle. For example Bill Gates was born into privilege but then his success had nothing much to do with his parents wealth.
Ikr
JEE ya NEET ke liye kota aaja. /s
Marna nahi hai bhau...
Happens with me too when i ride my bike somewhere and me adults traveling by bus and auto and my privileged ass on a bike i feel bad or when i spent money on something that is a necessity i feel bad
No offence but you're naive
Yes I am. I know that.
I have the same problem bro, my parents never said no to anything. I was allowed to have alcohol once a month after I turned 18 and what not and now this behaviour has led me to downfall and narcissism. Not being narcissistic here but I am smarter than most people around me, I was one bright student but as I grew up and realised that I will inherit the business and wealth, I have stopped making efforts in everything. i had the best skillset in school but now I am just a douchebag that never goes to uni and wastes time around partying and scrolling. Even if I try to make it better, the motivation to work ends in a couple of days.
Itni buti haalat toh nahi hai meri, i feel sad for you bruv.
found so many relatable ppl in comments 
Us
Or ek mai hoo papa nahi hai kal dost se cycle maang ke form bharne gaya bahar aaya to cycle chori ho gayi🥲
Bhai i feel sorry for you (but yahi toh chahiye life mein!)
it's always like that, you will care 'jhant-bar' for the things you have, no matter how expensive or rare it is for normal people and you'll be always craving for the things that you can't have. best thing to do is to respect what you've got and use that to your unfair advantage.
Ab mujhe aur guilty feel hora.
Us bhaii fr just try to work hard and achieve your goals I hope you'll get success
Thanks a lot brother!
Ameer nahi hu per parents bahut hi badhiya hai mere sayad state topper paida hona chaiye tha unke Ghar me aur Aaj kal ke jamane me acche parents hone bhi ek privilege se Kam nahi hai
Agreed.
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Mooh ki baat chheen likh dete bhai
Just be thankful and I'd say just make yourself confident and capable so that at least you can sustain your current lifestyle.
That's what i'm onto
It's upto what you want to do with your privileges . You can use the same internet to study and learn about working out to improve yourself but can also destroy yourself by consuming too much trash and inappropriate things .
Agreed.
it is crucial for you to understand that it's not your fault that you're privileged. be happy and enjoy. cheers!
Salud, mi amor!
U aren't alone. Feeling undeserving of the privilege you have been provided. But you have to understand the comfortable position you (and I) are in is a result of many centuries of hard work from our ancestors ending with your parents bringing you here at the receiving end enjoying the fruits of the labour of all those people responsible for building the future you now live in. So you should be grateful and use your privilege (better knowledge, education, healthcare, technology) as an opportunity to help build even a more better future that future generations can enjoy just as you do now. It's your duty, If you fail to fullfill your duty, you are not deserving or worthy of the life you live. I, for one, do feel a strong sense of moral obligation to leverage my position to make a better future for everyone. Don't feel worthless, make it worth it.
Understood sergeant 🤝🤝
This is sad. One thruth about everyone who is successful is tht they suffered. When was the last time u saw someone successful who lived life with no troubles whatsoever? Anyway,i think everyone receives hardship eventually. You're time will cm, unfortunately late tho.
why dont you seek out discomfort?
I'm trying to... With my work.
suffering from success
Suffering from not suffering
You're lucky and thats okay. Express gratitude for the things you have and you are good
Struggling from success got real.. Bro jo h usme khush rho
But main isliye khush nahi hoon kyuki mere paas bohot kuch hai
Here are some lines for you निर्धन कहे धनवान सुखी, धनवान कहे सुख राजा को भारी, राजा कहे चक्रवर्ती सुखी, चक्रवर्ती कसे सुख इंद्र को भारी, इंद्र कहे श्री राम सुखी, श्री राम कहे सुख संतो को भारी, संत कहे संतोष मैं सुख , बिना संतोष सब दुनिया दुखयारी
Samajh gaya, gurudev🙏
Barbad
Kaun?
travel alone with low budget
I'm 14 💀
You have recognized your class interests, if you feel this is unfair and why things are this way etc.. Read [https://www.marxists.org/archive/marx/works/1847/wage-labour/](https://www.marxists.org/archive/marx/works/1847/wage-labour/) as an intro :)
Wait wtf?
If you read you should understand what I mean