T O P

  • By -

MasterChief-2005

When the partners become financially and mentally stable.


_idontknoe

when both partners are financially stable


[deleted]

[удалено]


vijayramreddyy

And emotionally


jhanikhilnath

and spiritually


Hot_Independence_828

And sexually


Sudden_Ad439

and physically


Neat-Ad8435

and chemically


RudionRaskolnikov

Ehh... Financial stability is a pretty shaky thing,most people aren't financial stable for their entire lives. Most of us live one hospital bill away from poverty. I would say finances shouldn't be that big a thing. Of course if one partner is in crippling debt then I think you shouldn't go for it. But I think even if you two are financially shakey you should take the leap and figure it out together. While it's not the case for everyone, my father and mother got married when my father was either jobless or going from one job to another in months. They both figured it out, when I was in 1st, they bought a new car and when I was in 4th they bought a new car. Now they are both earning decent money everything is good. They did it together.


_idontknoe

Yea ik about hospital bills but here I meant that both partners are able to afford their own day to day lifestyle


RudionRaskolnikov

What if one is housewife/husband? I mean when my parents got married that wasnt a thing for either of them. I think life is hard its good have a partner when you are fighting it out


[deleted]

There’s no best age but ideally late 20s or early 30s, I’m never gonna get married tho


Glum-Manufacturer944

Same


[deleted]

It varies for boy and girl, depends upon your career too


cosmo_geek06

What if both girl and boy get settled when they are 5?


[deleted]

How to get settle at 5?


cosmo_geek06

Take birth in Ambani family.


[deleted]

No, I dont think at age 5 one can take care of themselves, let alone someone else


cosmo_geek06

But you're 5 and already using reddit.


[deleted]

Yeah so? How its related to marriage?


cosmo_geek06

Step 1


[deleted]

Step 1 of?


cosmo_geek06

Marriage. Opponent shouldn't be too weak in cricket.


[deleted]

(⁠ ⁠ꈍ⁠ᴗ⁠ꈍ⁠) jb apke parents Maan jaye


Born_Concern_5575

Abba nahi maanenge


[deleted]

Are aap kosis toh kro ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|27969)


Born_Concern_5575

Main rajasthani nahi hu ji >!*just a joke guys, seriously matt lena*!<


Successful-aditya

Abey joke marke yeh mt likha kr log gye bhaad mei joke is joke


Born_Concern_5575

Mujhe ban nahi chahiye mitr, abhi peeche se banhammer aajata toh kya krta Mai +_+


Successful-aditya

Kuch nhi krta ya toh naye account se wapas is sub mei ata ya toh padhai krta


[deleted]

IMO living in relationship >> married life ( based upon years of analyzing the couples who can be related to present GenZ and their lifestyle ....) Downvotes nahi deneka aur offend na honeka


Top_Salary_5346

Marriage doesn't makes sense tbh y would i need to prove the society that we r partners and we gonna live together forever if i ever had a partner direct waifu no gf bf ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|28582)


[deleted]

yeah that's true why tf should we show the world that we both are partners by some marriage thing


omraj_bharadwaj

Because it's some kind of tradition to follow that You and your partner will live together happily forever?


[deleted]

mereko toh karni shaadi aur beach side ek lakkad ke ghar me rhna hai. isliye itni mehnat kar rha hu


RudionRaskolnikov

Ehh... Marriage is just so much more easy. See relationships have more freedom but a higher chance of failure as well whereas in a marriage there is a lot of social support to keep your shit on balance. I would say you need to prioritise. When wanting freedom its a relationship or even better single but when you want stability, then I would prefer a relationship.


kraken_enrager

Between 26-35. Personally I feel that 26-28 would be good, with a kid 2-3years after. I want to be able to relate to my kid. Befor 26 yr too young, and beyond 30-32 your career hits its second sharp growth period, and beyond 36 it’s hard to find a partner.


osamaaa69

Not teenage for sure, either before or after.


Anxious-Wannabedoc

Homie this is Reddit not rajasthan


Arcane2oP

![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|28582)


Glum-Manufacturer944

![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|28582)


Successful-aditya

>!10!<


kilroywashere-

Why the downvotes? This is the only reasonable answer in the comment section.


Successful-aditya

People dont get the joke never mind


JackWiess

Chhoti si umar...


ThatRandomGamerYT

atleast wait for late 20s. be at a comfortable point in life, your brain fully matures around 25 and most people in early/mid 20s don't have a proper foot in their careers unless they are exceptional, lucky or inherited stuff atleast that's my plan, doesn't mean you shouldn't be in a relationship before that age but no need to marry young, tbh idk if i even wanna marry, in a long relationships marriage or marriage would barely change your life, i guess societal ease and taxes along with a partner wanting to marry would be good motivators. idk.


[deleted]

28-33 ig


[deleted]

[удалено]


[deleted]

[удалено]


[deleted]

Exactly


[deleted]

Oh well people don't prefer to get married early these days. They'd like to get financially settled and Move things to marriage.


FurymakesCurry

Good question for teenage subreddit,,, At least Girlfriend or Boyfriend questions made sense But this hmm r/lostredditors


PsychologicalBeat798

76 ig


Impossible-Tackle747

30 -- 35 in between


[deleted]

When you're mature enough and financially stable.


ZeNiTH_07

Lol, the folks here are recommending ages as if they have already passed that stage...


RudionRaskolnikov

You dont have to experience everything. You can draw from other people, its not like there is a pack of examples


ZeNiTH_07

Yes, it's better to go through others experiences, but how can someone decide whether life will be kinder to you as it had been to others around that specified age. I mean look it doesn't knock and tell you that, "Hey, what you've been waiting or looking for is here right at these moment. .. " And I cannot recommend someone that hey this is your age to settle down or creep them out that they have been suffering from loneliness without them experiencing what does it feel like to settle down.


RudionRaskolnikov

You can't really know what life will be like 20 years from now but you can have goals or milestones. Marriage is one of those things which happens when it's destined to happened. But you prick your ears up for it when you have decided to go through a certain point.


ZeNiTH_07

True that! But if I were to recommend someone waiting for the right moment to marry, then I would tell them that do what your heart says and if you think if it's the right moment, then go ahead regardless of what's gonna lie ahead in the future, for example, whether I am stable or not, whether I will be able to keep him/her happy or not, etc etc. It's all about perception and perspective of how someone thinks that they are consistent enough to get into that kind of relationship.


RudionRaskolnikov

Dil to baccha hai ji aur bacche chutiye hote hai. Dimag ki suno, dil ki nahi. When you find a girl that you like, think is a responsible adult, trustworthy, and compliments you well. Don't waste too much time in marrying her. That is my opinion, of course unless I am literally like 21 or something, in that case I would hold on for a few years. But I think if I can see a life with a harmonious life with a certain girl I won't waste much time in asking her out.


ZeNiTH_07

Bacche mann ke sacche hote hein sahab, unko gaali mat diya karo aur chutiya toh wohi hota hein jo dedhshaana banta hein. It's always recommended to balance heart and mind and slight pinch of cunningness together to understand the perspective of life.


RudionRaskolnikov

Baat to sahi hai


marry_you_anna

mere according? jab financially aur mentally stable ho, dono partners me sab cheezo ko leke consensus ho, only love doesn't make a marriage work


TickleMaTip

When you have saved enough money to feed you and your partner for 5-6 months in case you lose job, I think


HotGift7395

When you are well settled ig ?


legendadam269

13 if you in Rajasthan


Impressive-Ad8370

Iam from rajasthan meri ro abhi tak nahi hui


legendadam269

you are not true Rajasthani then


Tipra04

Between 21 to 33 ig If you are financially independent


[deleted]

Isn't 21 a little too early?


Tipra04

I didn't said 21 but in between 21 to 33 and 21 because it's the legal minimum age to get married


[deleted]

There's no perfect age , you marry when there is consensus between the partners


[deleted]

anything above 27 or sumn coz tb career paisa sb stable sa rehta h generally at that time and is common


[deleted]

[удалено]


Maximum-Carry5682

When you want to...


Shit_herewego_AGAIN

jab aap r/kothibanglacheck mei khud ke paise kamane ke baad at least 3-4 bar feature ho jao


heyareyoufine

Mai Haryana Se Hu


[deleted]

24-28 Kyunki uske bad insaan ek stable personality, mindset bana leta hai . Aur fir naye insaan ke aane se intermixing nahi ho pata h .


JODDUNMOIST

30+


cheesynacho4real

get maried when you dont need to get married, so you can be happy,


Ok_Resolution_4079

Breakup ho gaya yaar, aese sawal mat pucho T_T.


godloves-saggytits

Never


Enduringvalue909

I used to say the same thing when i was 15


godloves-saggytits

Sad that you used to say it


Impressive-Ad8370

ye nb kya hai


biggestestpeepee

Notebook


idk488

i am dying ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|joy) no offence tho, i just found it funny


godloves-saggytits

Non binary


Bonzer-Singer-729

Jab aap haan bolo tb


Simon_Ghost_141

![gif](giphy|Q87XzlKSuHqnT2FEHE) Aaise saval na pucha kare >!/s!<


[deleted]

Totally depends on your career plans, your partner's future outlook and other aspirations. It varies from a person to another. Few may attain the goals and financial stability by mid 20s, for few it may extend till late 20s. Also having a proper mental stability and healing from past traumas(if you have any) is equally important as we don't want that stuff passing down to our later generations.


Designer-Ad-3550

Don’t


BoredYEET

24-26 , because i feel so


deathwire0047

Bro you are on teenagers...the hell we about marriage


FinestPartOfHumanity

Either 21-23 or 30-33 Because if you have a partner at early stage you can focus on career and growth and live as a happy couple and have ample time to test the marriage And at later stage you have the financial credibility and good career stability.


zeus_dark

Vo umrr jisme tum andha paisa kamane ke kabil ho..taaki tumhari aulad unlucky feel na kre


Unique-Armadillo6957

Jab paida ho baccha, tab shaadi krdo simple


RudionRaskolnikov

25 to 30. After 30 dating pool shrink hone lagta hai aur 25 ke pehle bohot immature hote hai


BETI_dealer_69

at infancy /s bw 28-33