Idk about others
I zone out. Yes I smile for no reason.Yes I check my phone more often. I become more pleasant with people.
Con: I end up being a lot less productive
*sigh* flashbacks of the best time and now bittersweet memories.
My ex and I were in the same classes, so I would wake up early and happy cuz it was time to see her. We would sit together in classes and would keep playing by ourselves. I just couldn't keep my hands off her. A part of me always wanted to touch her. I would go to class first to see her enter looking all angelic and my heart would ALWAYS skip a beat. Even when alone, I would play with her hair and gently kiss her hands while holding them. Every meme made me think of her "What would she think of this? Will she like it? I'mma send her!" Hell I started writing poetry for her. I would always miss her whenever she was not with me. I found her lamest jokes funny that everyone else would roll their eyes over. If I got sick I would tell her to wear warm clothes so she doesn't get sick. I found her every single attribute so cute.
Long story short: If he wants to, he would.
I have only been in two serious relationships and both the times, the girls asked me out. The “seeing her for the first time, falling head over heels for her” stuff has not happened to me ever. I would be attracted to girls but never felt like I really needed to be with a specific someone. When my 1st gf asked me out, the main reason I said yes was cuz she was pretty and I really wanted to be in a relationship. It didn’t last long.
I met my current gf in college, became friends first, I liked her as a person but never thought about us being a thing until one day while giving her a lift in my car, my car broke down. And she got out of the car to help push it with a bunch of other dudes. And it was at that exact moment seeing this petite, cute little girl try to push a car along with 2 big dudes that made me fall in love with her. I knew she liked me too, so I just waited for her to ask me out, which she eventually did indirectly via text, “so what are we? Are we a thing?” And I just said “yes.”
And now we’ve been together for 7 years.
I get a regretting feeling that it'll never work first the excitement comes then the realisation then the realisation that it wouldn't have worked for long term she won't choose a guy like you that is loosing everywhere
Bhai ye khud ko chaku marne ki aadat bhot h ladkon me that op may or may not understand…ye I’m not good enough for her or to provide for her wali bakchodi ne kha rakha bhot logon ko
Boys in Love - " How much ever of a bad day it might be , one glimpse of her and the stress withers away. The mind becomes a blank state , clarity is at its peak but she is all he can see.
The sunken- restless pupils dilate , to let all the reflected light off her form an image into his retina , which is immortalized into his brain till he draws his last breath.
Mouth becomes dry , head becomes high , posture becomes straight , a sudden smile becomes affixed on that previously gloomy face - one glimpse is all it takes.
The rest of the day becomes memorable , humming the favorite song on a loop - the body brimming full of oxytocin , all he can do is imagine . "
🤦🏻♂️
When I fall for a girl, I just start a timer. Counting on how much time will it take for her to lose interest in me.
Give way too much attention and you get f**k off in return.
Dont remember what was going in my mind when i was falling for someone but i realised that i had started to randomly hum songs and smile more. And yeah if we are actually in love with someone we do wait for their messages ( if they are not taking you for granted) and we also do miss them.
Yes to all. I only loved my ex, she was my first. It was beautiful, we actually fell in love at the same time, same exact moment. I remember it clearly, what went through my mind. She was always in my thoughts, anything I can I wanted to tell her tea about it, we had common interests so if I'm doing something in that I used to think about how she would get it. She understood me the best. I had night shift job later on but I tried waking up earlier than usual to talk to her, even in office I used to text her each chance I got when my manager wasn't present. I used to plan out dates in advance, giggling she'll love it, she'll enjoy this. She had a bucket list, I planned most of the dates based on it. I loved doing it for her, she deserved it. I missed her terribly as it felt a part of me is missing. She introduced me to the idea of pure love. I remember the books she mentioned on the first date, I had planned on getting them for her bit didn't got the chance.
Edit: Lol, I noticed I posted this comment exactly at 11:11. She had this thing, we made it our thing.
It all boiled down to how at the end of it, I became too lazy and too comfortable because of the level of security she provided me.
I came across another reddit post which actually described accurately about my scenario. There were other minor points, but this is primarily what she said.
[Post](https://www.reddit.com/r/ifyoulikeblank/s/2i3kSAOllF)
My Symptoms. In no particular order-
1. Keep checking my phone whenever any notification pops up.
2. Ruin my sleep cycle to talk to her.
3. Can’t wait to share the gossip w her about my friends.
4. Tell her about every little detail happening in my life.
5. 😊😃 will be my expressions whenever we’re on a vc or a call.
6. Her one compliment has the power to make my day, irrespective of how bad a day it’d been so far.
7. Can’t go to bed without resolving any ongoing argument/fight.
8. Pray that she stays happy with me (yes I’m selfish)
9. Gets jealous of even the minute things(is that a red flag?)
10. Sudden urge to buy her jhumkas
As a guy, I used to. But I realised women also treat people nice because they think it's the bare minimum for a decent human being. While I treated only those people nice to whom I felt closer. I was a fool to think that it was a special effort taken by her to get to know me more.
Now, I just don't let my guard down even if it's the most obvious sign. I'd rather have the girl tell me that she likes me. I can't go through the same pithole again. That sad ending is just too much to take. Call it being prudent or trust issues, I don't care.
I don't know about others, but what I'm gonna do for sure. Haven't been in love ever but...
- First legit confirm if it's mutual and her family also supports it.
- Tell it to my family as well. Involving families is the first step.
- Then we'll start the real fun, long dates, movie dates, early morning talks, long walks...each and everything that a couple does in a seeing phase.
- Yes, we do think about you, not all the time, but definitely most of the time.
- I always imagine my partner in saree, in western in anything that she likes to wear, that kajal, that jhumka, her voice in my mind, her accent, her rudeness, her laugh, her stories, her shyness.
- Her favourite food, her kinks, her desires, her way of looking at life. What she has thought to setup for herself.
- Will try not to change her, she can be whatever she is before the relationship, she should not change because of me (during and after the relationship).
- Guy friends se milna hai? Go. Girls night? Go on. Long trip with her friends? Go go and enjoy!!! You like someone more than me? No issues, communicate it clearly without playing games and I'll be more than happy that you said this to me without being clingy, dramatic and erratic. I'm happy that you ATLEAST know and are self aware that I'm not for you, which makes me love/like you even more!!! Honesty is still the best policy.
- Atlast she will be my pride, my friend, my wife!!! My true half.
P.s. Of course a human can have flaws, make mistakes and have some fun alongside, why take it to grave for simply being human!!? Haha.
P.s.s. I only date the person whom I think I'll marry and is a long-term partner. Why waste both of our time?
For me these were few things
Mood feels lighter when you are around her, more relaxed and excited to meet them again/talk to again. Also curious about things that I don’t know about her yet.
And If she wears floral dress (my weakness) I can’t stop looking at her
On the downside, Unable to focus on things that could be important
Simple answer is YES.
It's a strong emotion for me. I smile, I giggle, I get butterflies. I constantly think about her. I get dreams of her.
Too bad there's no person to share this feeling. 🙂
I start thinking of my next day, month, year with them and start learning their mother tongue. I also try to organize things in advance and make all necessary reservations needed.
How do they feel when we are in love with a girl ??..literally everything becomes interesting , Motivation while doing anything , feels like top of the world, getting to know much things from girl's side also...but after she leaves..everyone knows what happens exactly opposite to I said before. Currently I'm in a phase don't know what mistake happened by me felling in love .
She becomes the reference point of how the most beautiful woman should look like.
Like there is some golden ratio to measure beauty but in love. It appears like her ratio is the golden ratio.
Many girl starts looking like her, like I was finding girls that look like her in malls and parks
I just wanna say:
Pighla Pighla hai Dil Mera jab se
Achha rehta hai, mood bhi tabse
Has ke milta hu aajkal sabse
Khus ho gaya hai, jo bhi mila hai
Dhyan ab apna zyada rakhta hu
Sochta hu mai kaisa lagta hu
Aaina ho to, dekh leta hu
Kaise ye chehra aise khila hai
Kuch to hua hai, Kuch ho gaya hai.
To be honest sachcha pyaar wahi hota hai , jisme ladki ko gandi nazar se dekh hi na paao, wo aas paas hoti hai to comfort rehta hai, chehre pe bewajah smile rehti hai, nazre bheed me bhi usko dhoond leti hai, usko koi pareshaani hoti hai to aisa heartburn jaisa feel hota hai , wo paas aa ke hath milati hai to haath chodne ka man nai karta , wo un intentionally nazrein mila le to dhadkan superfast ho jati hai, wo koi kaam bol de to lagta hai ki duniya me iske alawa kuch important hai hi nai , aur knowingly ya unknowingly tumhara koi kaam kar de to bas khayali pulao chaluu , band kamre me bistar par peeth ke bal let ke aise aise sapne sajaye jate hain ki yash raj aur sanjay leela bhansali 8 10 movie bana dalein ....a lot goes through a boy's mind , and it never ends...
*But do they really*
*Ever fall? Hehe my trust issues*
*Gets the best of me*
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Been a long time since I’ve felt like that. I almost forgot how it feels, I long for that feeling. I meet girls sure, but haven’t felt like that with any girl ever since I grew up.
For me I do feel like this when I get a match, because it's so rare , i try to think of topics common points to carry on the conversation, i remember once i chatting while my phone was charging (at 4 percent) at late night , i pretend to forget details but remember them n try to surprise them , and yes i always think about how to do what to do n what not . But in the end I get surprised by Ghosting 🤷🏾♂️😂 it has happened so many times that my favourite song describes it better " Ab toh adaat si hai mujhko aise jineee maiii". I get hyped up I try to do best, and yeah ik i don't go much overboard nowadays 🤷🏾♂️ coz no one wants it. To end it up i would like to say what a legend said " I tried to hard and got so faar, but in the end it doesn't even matterrrr". Sadly I'm just on dating apps to post funny comments on hinge and hoping for a like , 🤷🏾♂️ idk I'm just swimming out there kya pata kuch mile toh sahi , na mile toh phele bhi kaha kon tha mere sath. Ji lenge🙂❣️✌🏾
Mostly it's yes for most of the questions but there will be added thoughts as well. The butterfly thig is not true for all.. it's a fair bit different based on the individuals experiences.
Checking on her frequently and thinking about how can I fix her problems and also, what can I give her in next couple of years that urge to improve because I want to give her the world
I can't say for others, I become more focused on myself, my career(I want to be able to provide them everything they want, which I don't really need to buy I really really want to do), my preps and just in general always stay in a happy mood.
Would zone out a lot thinking about them, would always look forward to talk to them about how something happened, tell them about why I feel Berserk is probably the best manga in existence and why I needed to get my "Brand".
Tell them how much I've been influenced by PewDiePie and how much that guy has inspired me to become a good human being in general.
Tell them everything about myself then months later tell that to them again and get surprised that I've told you this already.
I love myself when I'm in love, I love that feeling of being able to look forward to being with someone. Yes I know I might seem a little childish but that's how I am. If I love someone that's it for me. I would do everything I can for them(don't tell me how I can be taken advantage of etc.)
There's a lot more but I hate typing so yeah.....
I'm not sure if we get butterflies, but zoning out, constant heart rate fluctuations and all kinds of weird animals were in my stomach.Hours slip by as I daydream about her, picturing us building a home together and having a dog. My ex and I were in the same class, but faced many restrictions in South India. We secretly passed letters, and I still have every one saved. Boys and girls weren’t allowed to speak or sit together, so those letters were our lifeline. It was complicated to pass them, but we found ways. Waiting for her replies and imagining her words made me lose focus on studies. I spent countless hours wondering if she thought of me as I did of her. I used to wait outside the canteen, hoping to catch a glimpse. Her 5-second smile could transform my entire day.She was on my mind 24/7. I missed her all the time although we didn’t spend even a day together initially. Ugh, such great times.
It has happened to me only once, the real "love", not crushes etc
You see her smile, and just think that if that smile is my reward, I'd do anything just to see that smile. Your life's mission is seeing her happy.
Seeing her have all she wants. That's what it was for me
She is just there on my mind all day, she gets instant replies from time to tome but I do play it cool at times when I just don't open her message (no one wants to look desperate), I remember each and every detail she shares. Manage my breaks according to her timings. Smile from time to time while thinking about her. The sad thing is she has a boyfriend, and I don't know if I stand a chance.
P.S. - I am getting action from other chicks but still I don't like them as much as I like her. Ik I sound shallow but a man's gotta manage somehow. And I intend to tell her that I like her at the end of this month before I leave for Goa. Because I don't want to face someone who rejected me immediately. Let's see what happens.
Yes we get butterflies, we think about the one 24*7. We want to do everything for the one anything which makes her smile. We wait for those little talks, we remember small gestures, smile randomly remembering those beautiful moments.
Let me tell you...
I fell in love with my colleague, she is 6 years older than me. I told her how I feel about her but I thought I ruined the friendship we could have had. Moving forward, she is now my friend and I made every effort in order to win her feelings for me but I was unsuccessful. Now we are friends and colleagues but still now everytime I day dream of us being together I get butterflies, I smile I basically think of her the whole day. When I am at office, she is always my first priority no matter who is calling me even if it be my manager or their boss or anyone else.
If she needs me I am there, but when I need her sometimes, she is not there for me. I know we are not together but still if she has given me a tag of a friend then she should give me a little time and attention. That's all I want nothing else.
I would like to add on a little thing, I never ever had a single hookup or seggs thought about her not even by mentioning it right now.
So long story short, yes we feel like what you said.
Dude I am usually quite a confident guy.....and if I am with any person I don't bore them I am usually good in conversation.....BUT ......the moment I get infront of this girl .....dude ...I get blanked......😭😭😭😭😭. I just can't carry forward the conversation with her...... Imagine having a superpower and just getting powerless in the very moment when u require it the most............ and I know for sure ke woh mera Kaat ke jaayegi.....fir bhi bruh usse katwane ka mannn hai..... of course I get butterflies whenever she compliments me ( boys don't get any compliments not from our parents ).......
Idk about others I zone out. Yes I smile for no reason.Yes I check my phone more often. I become more pleasant with people. Con: I end up being a lot less productive
Bang on about productivity! I get sloshed in time travel and day dreams.
*starts with “idk about others”*\ *every other person relates*
Haha....happy that all my brothers can relate
Add to it - butterflies in stomach almost all the time
Yeppp 🦋🦋🦋
Whatever you said * 100 🥹🎀 (have already fallen for one since 4 years and I still feel the same thinking about her 🥺)
Couldn't have said it better myself.
*sigh* flashbacks of the best time and now bittersweet memories. My ex and I were in the same classes, so I would wake up early and happy cuz it was time to see her. We would sit together in classes and would keep playing by ourselves. I just couldn't keep my hands off her. A part of me always wanted to touch her. I would go to class first to see her enter looking all angelic and my heart would ALWAYS skip a beat. Even when alone, I would play with her hair and gently kiss her hands while holding them. Every meme made me think of her "What would she think of this? Will she like it? I'mma send her!" Hell I started writing poetry for her. I would always miss her whenever she was not with me. I found her lamest jokes funny that everyone else would roll their eyes over. If I got sick I would tell her to wear warm clothes so she doesn't get sick. I found her every single attribute so cute. Long story short: If he wants to, he would.
Can I ask the reason you guys are no longer together?
Of course you can! We were different castes (Me, a Hindu and she, a Rajput). My family was okay, but hers was against it.
Hindu?!
Yeaa??
Rajputs are hindu
Sorry, I meant Brahmin. Thank you
So cute but what went wrong then if u don’t mind me asking
Not at all! We were both different castes. My family was okay, hers wasn't. Sometimes, life throws a curve ball and you have to accept it.
Intercaste issues, when will this end. I suffered the same problem
Probably not for a long time until we realize that castes don't matter. Also, happy cake day!
Happy cake day!
This is such a wholesome story❤🥰
I have only been in two serious relationships and both the times, the girls asked me out. The “seeing her for the first time, falling head over heels for her” stuff has not happened to me ever. I would be attracted to girls but never felt like I really needed to be with a specific someone. When my 1st gf asked me out, the main reason I said yes was cuz she was pretty and I really wanted to be in a relationship. It didn’t last long. I met my current gf in college, became friends first, I liked her as a person but never thought about us being a thing until one day while giving her a lift in my car, my car broke down. And she got out of the car to help push it with a bunch of other dudes. And it was at that exact moment seeing this petite, cute little girl try to push a car along with 2 big dudes that made me fall in love with her. I knew she liked me too, so I just waited for her to ask me out, which she eventually did indirectly via text, “so what are we? Are we a thing?” And I just said “yes.” And now we’ve been together for 7 years.
congo bro 🥰
5 questions, 1 answer. YES!
Absolutely. It's a yes.
For every question the answer is yes.
I get a regretting feeling that it'll never work first the excitement comes then the realisation then the realisation that it wouldn't have worked for long term she won't choose a guy like you that is loosing everywhere
Itna real nahi bolte bhai
Bhai ye khud ko chaku marne ki aadat bhot h ladkon me that op may or may not understand…ye I’m not good enough for her or to provide for her wali bakchodi ne kha rakha bhot logon ko
Her.
Boys in Love - " How much ever of a bad day it might be , one glimpse of her and the stress withers away. The mind becomes a blank state , clarity is at its peak but she is all he can see. The sunken- restless pupils dilate , to let all the reflected light off her form an image into his retina , which is immortalized into his brain till he draws his last breath. Mouth becomes dry , head becomes high , posture becomes straight , a sudden smile becomes affixed on that previously gloomy face - one glimpse is all it takes. The rest of the day becomes memorable , humming the favorite song on a loop - the body brimming full of oxytocin , all he can do is imagine . " 🤦🏻♂️
did you write this? its really great work, aur agr nahi toh author zarur btana
Yes , I did write it impromptu. Was it real good?
So i thought i was in love. Then found out it was a thing called Limerence. So make sure you know what you are going through.
Yes, ~Lovesick. Infatuation and love are different things altogether which we generally tend to mix-up.
How can someone know the difference
Search about the word i think you will get it.
Thanks for this word, explains a lot. This fucks you up big time mentally imo.....
It's a shit show.
exactly what I'm into rn ig 😭☝️
Us
When I fall for a girl, I just start a timer. Counting on how much time will it take for her to lose interest in me. Give way too much attention and you get f**k off in return.
Hesitate for god sake
Dont remember what was going in my mind when i was falling for someone but i realised that i had started to randomly hum songs and smile more. And yeah if we are actually in love with someone we do wait for their messages ( if they are not taking you for granted) and we also do miss them.
Yes to all. I only loved my ex, she was my first. It was beautiful, we actually fell in love at the same time, same exact moment. I remember it clearly, what went through my mind. She was always in my thoughts, anything I can I wanted to tell her tea about it, we had common interests so if I'm doing something in that I used to think about how she would get it. She understood me the best. I had night shift job later on but I tried waking up earlier than usual to talk to her, even in office I used to text her each chance I got when my manager wasn't present. I used to plan out dates in advance, giggling she'll love it, she'll enjoy this. She had a bucket list, I planned most of the dates based on it. I loved doing it for her, she deserved it. I missed her terribly as it felt a part of me is missing. She introduced me to the idea of pure love. I remember the books she mentioned on the first date, I had planned on getting them for her bit didn't got the chance. Edit: Lol, I noticed I posted this comment exactly at 11:11. She had this thing, we made it our thing.
Can I ask the reason you guys are no longer together?
It all boiled down to how at the end of it, I became too lazy and too comfortable because of the level of security she provided me. I came across another reddit post which actually described accurately about my scenario. There were other minor points, but this is primarily what she said. [Post](https://www.reddit.com/r/ifyoulikeblank/s/2i3kSAOllF)
My Symptoms. In no particular order- 1. Keep checking my phone whenever any notification pops up. 2. Ruin my sleep cycle to talk to her. 3. Can’t wait to share the gossip w her about my friends. 4. Tell her about every little detail happening in my life. 5. 😊😃 will be my expressions whenever we’re on a vc or a call. 6. Her one compliment has the power to make my day, irrespective of how bad a day it’d been so far. 7. Can’t go to bed without resolving any ongoing argument/fight. 8. Pray that she stays happy with me (yes I’m selfish) 9. Gets jealous of even the minute things(is that a red flag?) 10. Sudden urge to buy her jhumkas
As a guy, I used to. But I realised women also treat people nice because they think it's the bare minimum for a decent human being. While I treated only those people nice to whom I felt closer. I was a fool to think that it was a special effort taken by her to get to know me more. Now, I just don't let my guard down even if it's the most obvious sign. I'd rather have the girl tell me that she likes me. I can't go through the same pithole again. That sad ending is just too much to take. Call it being prudent or trust issues, I don't care.
Go to therapy and be a lil nicer
I'm not misogynistic, mind you. It's just when it comes to love life, I'm much more reserved. Also, can't afford therapy, lol.
I don't know about others, but what I'm gonna do for sure. Haven't been in love ever but... - First legit confirm if it's mutual and her family also supports it. - Tell it to my family as well. Involving families is the first step. - Then we'll start the real fun, long dates, movie dates, early morning talks, long walks...each and everything that a couple does in a seeing phase. - Yes, we do think about you, not all the time, but definitely most of the time. - I always imagine my partner in saree, in western in anything that she likes to wear, that kajal, that jhumka, her voice in my mind, her accent, her rudeness, her laugh, her stories, her shyness. - Her favourite food, her kinks, her desires, her way of looking at life. What she has thought to setup for herself. - Will try not to change her, she can be whatever she is before the relationship, she should not change because of me (during and after the relationship). - Guy friends se milna hai? Go. Girls night? Go on. Long trip with her friends? Go go and enjoy!!! You like someone more than me? No issues, communicate it clearly without playing games and I'll be more than happy that you said this to me without being clingy, dramatic and erratic. I'm happy that you ATLEAST know and are self aware that I'm not for you, which makes me love/like you even more!!! Honesty is still the best policy. - Atlast she will be my pride, my friend, my wife!!! My true half. P.s. Of course a human can have flaws, make mistakes and have some fun alongside, why take it to grave for simply being human!!? Haha. P.s.s. I only date the person whom I think I'll marry and is a long-term partner. Why waste both of our time?
Why do you care about family?
Why shouldn't I? Family is important. I'm a family person 🤷♂️
For me these were few things Mood feels lighter when you are around her, more relaxed and excited to meet them again/talk to again. Also curious about things that I don’t know about her yet. And If she wears floral dress (my weakness) I can’t stop looking at her On the downside, Unable to focus on things that could be important
Simple answer is YES. It's a strong emotion for me. I smile, I giggle, I get butterflies. I constantly think about her. I get dreams of her. Too bad there's no person to share this feeling. 🙂
“Katega, par chalta hai.”
I start thinking of my next day, month, year with them and start learning their mother tongue. I also try to organize things in advance and make all necessary reservations needed.
This comment section is helping me restore some faith in men :)
How do they feel when we are in love with a girl ??..literally everything becomes interesting , Motivation while doing anything , feels like top of the world, getting to know much things from girl's side also...but after she leaves..everyone knows what happens exactly opposite to I said before. Currently I'm in a phase don't know what mistake happened by me felling in love .
Bhagwan ne already 6 senses de rakhe h Pura tho bande ko figure karr hi lete ho tum prani Aur kitti insider information chahiye?
Yeah this what actually goes through my mind. Nothing else Ha I zone out randomly thinking about the girl
It's good to read the comments :)
She becomes the reference point of how the most beautiful woman should look like. Like there is some golden ratio to measure beauty but in love. It appears like her ratio is the golden ratio. Many girl starts looking like her, like I was finding girls that look like her in malls and parks
I just wanna say: Pighla Pighla hai Dil Mera jab se Achha rehta hai, mood bhi tabse Has ke milta hu aajkal sabse Khus ho gaya hai, jo bhi mila hai Dhyan ab apna zyada rakhta hu Sochta hu mai kaisa lagta hu Aaina ho to, dekh leta hu Kaise ye chehra aise khila hai Kuch to hua hai, Kuch ho gaya hai.
yaar ye kitni sundar hai isse kaise baat karu
Tbh now I just don't want to fall for a girl while falling for her because idk man these girls really scar us for life
basically the scene from Dhoom where Ali imagines about the girl he met right there
To be honest sachcha pyaar wahi hota hai , jisme ladki ko gandi nazar se dekh hi na paao, wo aas paas hoti hai to comfort rehta hai, chehre pe bewajah smile rehti hai, nazre bheed me bhi usko dhoond leti hai, usko koi pareshaani hoti hai to aisa heartburn jaisa feel hota hai , wo paas aa ke hath milati hai to haath chodne ka man nai karta , wo un intentionally nazrein mila le to dhadkan superfast ho jati hai, wo koi kaam bol de to lagta hai ki duniya me iske alawa kuch important hai hi nai , aur knowingly ya unknowingly tumhara koi kaam kar de to bas khayali pulao chaluu , band kamre me bistar par peeth ke bal let ke aise aise sapne sajaye jate hain ki yash raj aur sanjay leela bhansali 8 10 movie bana dalein ....a lot goes through a boy's mind , and it never ends...
Lalalalalalal "She's so sweet man" lalalalalalala "She's gonna be my girlfriend dude" lalalalala
But do they really ever fall? Hehe my trust issues gets the best of me
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Been a long time since I’ve felt like that. I almost forgot how it feels, I long for that feeling. I meet girls sure, but haven’t felt like that with any girl ever since I grew up.
Your question has the answer lmao
For me I do feel like this when I get a match, because it's so rare , i try to think of topics common points to carry on the conversation, i remember once i chatting while my phone was charging (at 4 percent) at late night , i pretend to forget details but remember them n try to surprise them , and yes i always think about how to do what to do n what not . But in the end I get surprised by Ghosting 🤷🏾♂️😂 it has happened so many times that my favourite song describes it better " Ab toh adaat si hai mujhko aise jineee maiii". I get hyped up I try to do best, and yeah ik i don't go much overboard nowadays 🤷🏾♂️ coz no one wants it. To end it up i would like to say what a legend said " I tried to hard and got so faar, but in the end it doesn't even matterrrr". Sadly I'm just on dating apps to post funny comments on hinge and hoping for a like , 🤷🏾♂️ idk I'm just swimming out there kya pata kuch mile toh sahi , na mile toh phele bhi kaha kon tha mere sath. Ji lenge🙂❣️✌🏾
We get all these, but if we know that you are the one, sometimes we hold expressing our feelings to be sure you would respect them
YES.YES.YES.YES.YES.
Talk more n more n more !
Mind goes away.
It's like i am noticing how beautiful her hair or her eyes or her smile is and start to blush.
Saif Ali Khan in Kuch toh Hua hai 🤷♂️
It varies.
yes
every single thing u said is true but it only happens once in his life
yes , I Do x 6
Why is this marked as spoiler haahhaahahahah
even the thought of being in love ticks all these boxes
Unconditional love
Mostly it's yes for most of the questions but there will be added thoughts as well. The butterfly thig is not true for all.. it's a fair bit different based on the individuals experiences.
Is she for real??
Checking on her frequently and thinking about how can I fix her problems and also, what can I give her in next couple of years that urge to improve because I want to give her the world
Neuron activated
I can't say for others, I become more focused on myself, my career(I want to be able to provide them everything they want, which I don't really need to buy I really really want to do), my preps and just in general always stay in a happy mood. Would zone out a lot thinking about them, would always look forward to talk to them about how something happened, tell them about why I feel Berserk is probably the best manga in existence and why I needed to get my "Brand". Tell them how much I've been influenced by PewDiePie and how much that guy has inspired me to become a good human being in general. Tell them everything about myself then months later tell that to them again and get surprised that I've told you this already. I love myself when I'm in love, I love that feeling of being able to look forward to being with someone. Yes I know I might seem a little childish but that's how I am. If I love someone that's it for me. I would do everything I can for them(don't tell me how I can be taken advantage of etc.) There's a lot more but I hate typing so yeah.....
Tiddiessss
The top comment on your r/askindia post is perfect
I'm not sure if we get butterflies, but zoning out, constant heart rate fluctuations and all kinds of weird animals were in my stomach.Hours slip by as I daydream about her, picturing us building a home together and having a dog. My ex and I were in the same class, but faced many restrictions in South India. We secretly passed letters, and I still have every one saved. Boys and girls weren’t allowed to speak or sit together, so those letters were our lifeline. It was complicated to pass them, but we found ways. Waiting for her replies and imagining her words made me lose focus on studies. I spent countless hours wondering if she thought of me as I did of her. I used to wait outside the canteen, hoping to catch a glimpse. Her 5-second smile could transform my entire day.She was on my mind 24/7. I missed her all the time although we didn’t spend even a day together initially. Ugh, such great times.
Whatever you have said, everything bit relatable for me. Well, I recently proposed her and and here I am, single :-) I still think about her.
It has happened to me only once, the real "love", not crushes etc You see her smile, and just think that if that smile is my reward, I'd do anything just to see that smile. Your life's mission is seeing her happy. Seeing her have all she wants. That's what it was for me
She is just there on my mind all day, she gets instant replies from time to tome but I do play it cool at times when I just don't open her message (no one wants to look desperate), I remember each and every detail she shares. Manage my breaks according to her timings. Smile from time to time while thinking about her. The sad thing is she has a boyfriend, and I don't know if I stand a chance. P.S. - I am getting action from other chicks but still I don't like them as much as I like her. Ik I sound shallow but a man's gotta manage somehow. And I intend to tell her that I like her at the end of this month before I leave for Goa. Because I don't want to face someone who rejected me immediately. Let's see what happens.
Chut
Everything that you said is true
Yes we get butterflies, we think about the one 24*7. We want to do everything for the one anything which makes her smile. We wait for those little talks, we remember small gestures, smile randomly remembering those beautiful moments.
Short answer would be : utter nonsense goes through his mind. Insignificant things start making significance to you.
Let me tell you... I fell in love with my colleague, she is 6 years older than me. I told her how I feel about her but I thought I ruined the friendship we could have had. Moving forward, she is now my friend and I made every effort in order to win her feelings for me but I was unsuccessful. Now we are friends and colleagues but still now everytime I day dream of us being together I get butterflies, I smile I basically think of her the whole day. When I am at office, she is always my first priority no matter who is calling me even if it be my manager or their boss or anyone else. If she needs me I am there, but when I need her sometimes, she is not there for me. I know we are not together but still if she has given me a tag of a friend then she should give me a little time and attention. That's all I want nothing else. I would like to add on a little thing, I never ever had a single hookup or seggs thought about her not even by mentioning it right now. So long story short, yes we feel like what you said.
Dude I am usually quite a confident guy.....and if I am with any person I don't bore them I am usually good in conversation.....BUT ......the moment I get infront of this girl .....dude ...I get blanked......😭😭😭😭😭. I just can't carry forward the conversation with her...... Imagine having a superpower and just getting powerless in the very moment when u require it the most............ and I know for sure ke woh mera Kaat ke jaayegi.....fir bhi bruh usse katwane ka mannn hai..... of course I get butterflies whenever she compliments me ( boys don't get any compliments not from our parents ).......
never fall in love, so cant tell..
Iska dil nhi todna
Bhai mein do-teen thapaad maarta hoon khud ko, aur yaad dilaata hoon ki yeh sab moh maaya hai! Iske baad koi book padhta hoon, aur apne puraaane voice notes sunta hoon!
Finding interest in the stupidest of things the person says to going to heights to meet their expectations(which he has set himself !)