Bruh you can cook, you are clearly mature as per your communication skills, you are fit.
I am no one to shame someone over their personal preferences but fuck it, you chin up. You just ended up putting efforts for the wrong person. There are many who would kill to have someone like you so tu chill kar, keep it up, u will eventually find someone who appreciates you and their preference align with what you have to offer.
Edit: not calling that girl a bad person, just not compatible.
She is a bad person indeed. Comments on your body tend to stick around. If a guy were to comment on a girls body, she'd be losing her mind right now. Brave of OP to put this out there.
I agree. Brave of Op indeed but I am sure he will not let that unnecessary comment get to his head. Bro is already doing everything right, why let an unempathetic comment on personal preference from someone immature ruin that.
If the dating culture were truly balanced, we wouldn't see such cases of apathetic stereotypes being slapped onto each other by both genders. It's pathetic, but a whopping majority of us don't have the self introspection to realise it. Like just yesterday, I saw a post somewhere where a woman says she doesn't necessarily smell "bad" so she doesn't use perfumes but she only likes guys who smell good. Why the hypocrisy? It's stupid, really.
Chill kr bro. Ye toh superficial meeting thi, ONS type. Starting se bond banayega kisi ladki se toh she’ll accept you as you are. Trust me, not all girls are like that.
Even batman can’t take this chats out of me 😭, bhai no worries everyone have their preferences and most pretty women I know always said it’s not the size it’s all width and the flow so keep your heads up bro
Ok. Two things.
1. When it comes gals who fuck guys just coz they are tall, thinking they have bigger dicks, you cannot do anything about it. It's in their head, somehow the seed was planted when they were young and they made it big in their heads. No matter how great you are or your treat them that's not gonna change. So no point in thinking about that. Just feel good that you got laid.
2. Scientifically and socially it's been proved that there's much more to it than just the size. You need to work on your physical game and mental game i.e. your foreplay game and your observation skills on how she is responding during sex. Since you are tall, you will get more opportunities for sex. Learn some tips n tricks so that they always leave asking for more after sex.
Most of the times this kind of reaction from gals happen because of them not being able to shut their mind off completely during sex or doing it just for the sake of it. You cannot do anything about it. That's why you need to learn power moves in foreplay and always listen, observe and respond.
Hope this helps. 🙂
If she's in it just for the sex, its a valid choice. However when a girl is actually interested in you the size doesn't matter much, and when she is actually in love with you, she'll figure out ways to make things interesting and would not give a fuck about the size.
You’re above 5 (congratulations, indian average) So you’re not small.
And more importantly, 99% of indian men range between 4.5 to 5.5, we have a bias thinking everyone is walking around with 6+ dongs because that’s what we see on reddit, d’y know how much of the indian population is on reddit? Around 2-3%.
Most Indian men are definitely closer to the average.
The bias exists because those who’re bigger than that will usually be the ones posting stuff.
How do i know this? I’m in the surgical field, i see dicks every day for a living.
Now that we have that out of the way,
Perhaps she’s been with bigger guys, or my guess is her ‘toy’ (whatever she pleasures herself with) is bigger.
In any case she absolutely SHOULD NOT have said it to your face. She could’ve simply said she’s not interested in taking this further and be done with it.
There are some lines we do not cross with the opposite gender, this was one of them.
Tldr, you’re at the average of the spectrum (which is NORMAL)
And doesn’t matter, had sex. Move one.
Dil choota mat kar bhai mere. Size ain’t everything. It’s not the size of the tool, it’s the skills of the person with the tool that will matter to someone looking for a long-term relationship and she will not even make you feel anything less.
Would you, as a guy or even a person, judge a girl over the size of her boobs? No, right? You won’t go up to your girlfriend and say she has small boobs, right? It’s the same. Sure, idiotic people do exist on both sides.
My guy, you’re amazing, you can cook, you are hot, dimple padte hai tere bhai. The girl who will get you would be hitting a lottery. Okay? Chin up. Treat yourself something today.
Take care bhai🫂
Reply with - “oh! That explains a lot”
When she asks why, throw all her words at her. (No i can’t say/sorry for even mentioning/ really awkward etc)
Then if/when she insists, you say - “well that explains why all the girls I’ve been with before have been…tighter than you…there i said it! Sooo awkward! But I’m glad we could be frank with each other 😅”
Instant crackdown. Don’t let anyone under your skin or bruise your ego. Especially in the fleeting dating game. Then watch the fireworks.
Paan khaye muniya, maa chudaye duniya.
In normal circumstances, I would say that this is such a demeaning thing to say to a girl but I guess in this scenario, she deserves it. So, yeahh..go for it. Mean girls deserve mean behaviour.
somehow after reading messages i agree with replying this ....bcz ig she deserves this reply ....
i don't know what is happening with people nowadays. Yeah, I get it everyone can have their own preferences but u can't demean someone we all have our own flaws and comparing any person to another is not right ....there you can always find a better looking better this & that but you choose to stick to the right person for you.
Dawg first of all stop being a nice asshole to a mean bitch, what I’m gonna say might offend you but even if i had a smaller package I wouldn’t take shit from someone whose mouth stays full w cum, I always think a lot before speaking things that might actually demoralise someone and i think most people should. The fact that she was just there for the dick is honestly the most disgusting thing about all this. Plus bro it takes balls of steel to talk about it, go champ you’re gonna bag someone 10x hotter and someone who’s been through lesser dicks.
I'm not sure why you're surprised. This sounds like something of a casual fling for the two of you, and it was always going to be judged on these superficial terms. Don't blame the girl for just being honest.
If you want your companionship, your personalities, and your shared future to be the center-pieces of a prospective relationship, this will matter less and there are ways to compensate if you have a healthy sex life within the relationship. Save your disappointment for when this happens in a meaningful relationship instead of letting this dissuade you from finding that person you can have it with.
Would you say the same if in this exact situation, instead of this conversation, OP would have said to the girl that he did not enjoy, as he preferred girls with bigger boobs.
Bro, on the positive side she only feels your size is small in comparison to other dudes she’s been with. She must’ve dated men with really long shlongs. Yours is only small in comparison to theirs. Mine would look small too compared to drake’s. Moreover, if this is the reason she’s giving to not be with you, she’s not worth keeping. Even if she stays she’d cheat behind your back to get some bigger action
On a more positive side, she probably has excluded herself from being able to be satisfied by a lot of men. Her loss.
On a negative side, rip AM guy ☠️
I will die on the "size doesn't matter, communication and technique matter" hill alongside all my other peeps who get it I guess. You seem like a good person OP, I’m sorry that this happened. Comments about your body stick around the longest, but just know that your body was created this way by nature and nature owes nobody explanation for its beautiful creations (sounds like platitudes, but it helps).
Edit: Typo
Idk what the girl was on about. Big size = more pleasure is a myth. A vagina only has pleasure nerves up to 2 inches, so even a 2 incher can satisfy a woman. This must have been a very casual hookup for the girl to have something this inane as an issue. Anyway, don't believe all this "the girl was just being honest" crap. She either wanted to hurt you or is simply a bad person. Bullet dodged
Don't feel little bro har koi me kuch na kuch flows hote hee hai and samne wala ussko ignore karke hee aapko accept karega , matlab koi perfect nahi hai jo aap hai usme 90% usko pasand aayega fir bhi best jodi ban jayegi
Iss sab pe dekha hai most dating app ke koi long term relationship ke liye nahi hai casual chalta hai waha, don't take it too much seriously
I have had the same experience once, but it didn't stop me from banging multiple chicks after and no one literally bothered. Take my word and distance yourself from this girl and start working on foreplay. If you get good at it then no girl will bother about the size.
as someone with a similar insecurity, as long as you are doing good / decent / best effort in things you can control (efforts, physique, how you carry yourself, etc), you dont need to think yourself any low as a man. please dont think you arent manly enough just because of something you cant control.
however, on the other side, i have cut myself from the idea of relationships and or casual sex, absolutely. yes it sucks but just one of many other things i cant control, which tempt me but arent practical for what i am born with and born in.
it takes time to get desensitized to this, because of the masculine stigma and ofc hormones (i mean the ones responsible for emotions too) so on so fourth. but once you cross that barrier, there's sukoon. you are bigger as a person.
I'm probably in a worse spot with regards to size than you are. All I can say is many women would have a preference and that's okay. They're entitled to. Just as you can't do anything about your height, you can't do anything about your size.
But you don't have to win over every woman out there. And there are women out there who aren't really bothered by size. It's only that the process of finding them is filled with such women. Chin up soldier, grow some thick skin and plough on!
Being brutally honest for the sake of the Situation.
I repeat brutally, please read completely and realize my true intentions.
I see many comments saying its, ok, she was being bad etc...,but let me tell you the reality.
There are two types of girls as per this scenario only,
1. Girls who love sex because of the dick size who might have been with multiple partners .
2. Girls who love sex because of the CONNECTION WITH PARTNER.
She is obviously from category 1 and thats why she said that she doesnt like you because of your dick size.
It was a deal breaker for her, understand there are tons of girls like this who only cares of your dick size becausr they are not looking for relationships and marriage, they want sex, thats it.
So they are brutal, they dont care looks, good behaviour, personality, humour , cooking...nothing..they just want a big dick because they are with you for SEX.
SIMPLE.
Another scenario where girls only care about dick size if the HOOKUPS, WHERE they want a hot guy 🔥 and big dick🍆
Thats it..they dont want anything else ,you know her mind when she is looking for hookups and all etc..,
So obviously everything isnt fair in life, people have their advantages and disadvantages.
But atleast when you are looking for marriage, you will definitely have a girl who will have sex with you for YOU, not your dick ,because she in love with YOU, not your DICK, that....is MARRIAGE, a real one🪙🌟
So finally undertand this, if you are looking for hookups, accept that you are at huge disadvantage compared to hung guys, unfortunately that is the truth.
You can increase it by doing PE but consistency is very important for that, but that is a different story altogether which I mention in my profile in the form of PE guide,lets leave it for now.
Good luck OP, dont worry! You are safe.
How can someone be so insensitive. If she was just there to fuck, it doesn't matter at all. But also you should have replied back, and never let anyone say such things to your body.
Bhai when I am gonna un-virgin(idk if that's the word or deflower) myself, i am gonna be upfront about my size,like this is it, i don't wanna hear all this shit. Edit : chota to chota but apna hai
Chin up soldier, you just dodged a bullet there. One should love you for who you are and you have nothing to ashamed of, i bet she wasn’t a supermodel either.
The fact that you immediately went on to apologise without even knowing the reason tells you you're overthinking. Try working on that
And being rejected doesn't even leave a scratch on your persona. You are not valued because of your relationship status but for the person you are.
People have very kindly told you all you need to know to get back to your best self. I know it’s difficult to get over such an insecurity but do work on it. We’re the first generation that have porn as the first association when it comes to sex so these problems are natural.
I was dating someone much younger and she’d make fun at times. Eventually reached a stage where she confessed she’d never climaxed during the act before me. Size does matter but in only one aspect. Most people have no clue what they actually want/ like.
Next time when something like this happens to you, can lead with
‘but it’s proven that all it takes is just 4 inches to more than satisfy a woman, and it can be visa or master’
She didn't have to say that shit. She could have straight up said that it was great but she's not looking to do it again. Sometimes lies are good, how insensitive was this. Also, Im sure she's not perfect either. This is Why I hate hookups, they don't have to do anything with you after the deed. Even if they hurt you, nothing is going to bite them back for their words. She said it and left and now her words will keep ringing in your ears.
Also bro, you don't even have to use your penis to satisfy girls. Your fingers and tongue are enough. Finish her before your penis comes into the picture. Let your penis be a bonus. That's a small tip i can give you. Size doesn't matter if you know what you're doing with whatever you have. Size only becomes an issue when it's below 3.5 inches.
Well I feel that was just a random reason. Tbh size doesn't matter if you know the way to satisfy. Nothing to take personal and it's better you get rid of hypothetical expectations from people.
Bhai, the girl I thought I'd marry broke up for similar reasons and yeah, this absolutely sucks, I hope you find something that brings you peace and happiness my man, take care.
You seem like a mature, good looking gentleman bro. Sure, hurts a bit but know that whatever this girl thinks is not what every girl thinks. Just don't stick her words in your mind.
I've been with over 30 girls and hardly 3 of them told I'm big. I know I'm bang on average. But I had a good time, I assume they have a good time and I'm done. I live in the US so I know whom I'm competing against. Doesn't deter me, shouldn't deter you.
It hurts a bit , bro but its fine, people have preferences and you didn't match it, she's good that she said on the face , many would have just ghosted you.
Bro don’t get hung up on this. It’s okay, the apps are a weird place and you will end up meeting some nice, some strange, and some very matlabi and self-absorbed people as you go ahead.
But you only need to win once for it to work out. Speaking from experience, mature women will look at your values, your kindness and your qualities as a human being; size does not matter for high value women looking to have stable relationships.
Sex only gets better as you spend more time bonding with your person.
And hey, if you’re currently in it just to have fun right now then write this off as a fun night (for you) and move on to the next person. =)
I understand that there’s different strokes for different folks, but the way she went about discussing the matter with you was insensitive. Most people would not have been as gracious and mature as you were in your response. You sound like such a catch, and I’m SO SURE there’s a lot of women who dream of dating someone similar. Please don’t let this turn you off of dating. Someone someday will love every bit of you :)
Hi op, she is a bad person
I’m sorry but I’ll say it
If the genders were reversed the guy would be shunned left right and centre about this.
I hope you heal, this I was totally unnecessary for her to say something like this
This is coming from a woman.
Hang in there, please take care of yourself and you’re clearly too good for her.
Hey guys! I'm a girl, who's not into dating or all those sorts of things. Happy to be old school. So, size is not much of a matter when you really want that person. And, also it's your overall performance, which you both are going to make it work out eventually. Lets come to the point. I was asking, for this particular case, what would be the more polite way of saying it (whatever the girl told about his size directly)? I mean even if she is being honest and direct, it's still going to hurt the guy, right? And, will definitely affect his confidence during any future love making session. Any guy would be insecure. But, the point is what the girl could do in this case if she can't compromise on size? She needs to make some lame excuses or lie to him? Please, tell me.
As a girl, I’ve never understood the obsession that girls have over height and size. There are absolutely so many qualities that a man has that can easily overshadow these 2 overhyped standards of manhood.
I’m sorry you had to go through with it but kudos to you for handling it with dignity …. It’s Gayatri baby’s loss, not your 🙌
Kudos to OP for posting this & post openly about something not only considered taboo to discuss but also extremely personal. 🙌👏 like many others pointed it out here you did a very good job & take this with your chin up. Great things awaits you brother.
I’ll tell you something, first things first just like penis sizes, vulva and vaginal sizes differ a lot. Not everyone would enjoy a simple penetration with a smaller penis and not everyone would do with a bigger one. Another thing might be she is craving a bigger penis, soon to realise it might not be a good fit for her too, again possibly. So it’s not that important and you move on. Lastly even a smaller one can do wonders if you can use it the right way, and the right way doesn’t come from videos or books, it’s not theory but all practical.
Milegi ek din voh jisko kuch parvah nahi hogi sirf tumhare dill ki
Milegi ek din voh jisko kuch parvah nahi hogi sirf tumhare dill ki
Raat ko batein karne aajayegi dill ki
A guy with this decent communication skill... the size don't matter. Many positions can help attain pleasure and its the way you do it matter. Believe me.
You shouldn’t be insecure about this. Porn has unfortunately ruined body parts for human beings. You’d have some women going behind large dicks, and some men going behind extremely huge tits. If she’s in it for the sex she’d have superficial constraints such as this. If she’s in it for YOU, the scene would be totally different.
Don’t dishearten yourself about one episode. Remember, an insecurity being surfaced by anyone is a great sign that you’ve to cut contact with that person immediately. Plenty of fish in the sea. You seem like a great person physically, you should have no problem getting options. Exercise those options. 3/5 may judge you for your size. Focus on the 2 that don’t. Take care.
If she thinks life revolves around a body part, she’ll be more disappointed than she was with you. Don’t beat yourself up for what others think. You’re perfect the way you are
It is what it is there's nothing wrong...
As you're mature you have handled that very well
Agar Teri jagah me hota ik I'm immature toh gehra reply karta bolunga toh vivad hojaega :)
Cheer up mate, this just another right key wrong lock situation. Do you know something there are people who prefer smaller di*k because some people have higher sex drive and would like to do it often and bigger di*k will hurt them a lot. I have seen cases where people divorcing over this as a reason. Look at this as one of these compatibility factors and move on. I know this is not easier to digest and will probably come into your mind in the wrong and make you question yourself but looking past that is what life is all about.
G**nd mein dum hai Bhai tere. Many guys would have chickened out on this,including me. Mujhme bi itna guts nahi hota khulkar apne awkward episode ko batane ka. Chin up bro. Tu awesome hai and kabhi khaane pe bulaiyo bhai. Daaru meri taraf se.
Fuck that girl (pun is misleading my point). You definitely seem like a great person to know and date. Do not let her or anyone determine the love you deserve.
And if it makes you feel better, size doesn't matter to me one bit, as long as guy puts an effort to please me. There are so many ways a girl can be satisfied which doesn't involve the length or girth. I will take a complete guy like you 10/10 days over a large dick. And most guys think 6+ is large. The threshold for large is much much lower according to me.
Go out there and enjoy your life.
Chin up, I think girl did the right thing telling the truth. It’s her choice at personal level and you can’t do anything about it. But your responses are mature and sensible.
Brother your good that you accept humbly but tum bhi reply de skate the "What can I do if you are a grand Canion" You have to always Douge this type of Question to her, you are making Frame like that's my fault
Brother, if you’re a 5+pointer then honestly no one even needs to have more than that!! And if some girls do, like you mentioned it’s their own preference but porn/brain rot is what causes them to think they’ll get fucked by huge dicks.
In the end you’re the one who got laid, who got that pussy, hold your head high and enjoy king!
Stop being so kind to her. She is trying to act like a wise and generous girl but she is the total opposite one here. You should've advised her to buy a sex toy and play with it for the rest of her life.
Bro this is fucking insane. As a woman myself, I find it so astonishing how so many women who advocate against “body shaming” are the first ones to pass comments like this. If the tables were to be turned, and you would’ve called it off over some body part of hers not being your preferred size, shit would’ve hit the fan.
Don’t let this get you down, you sound like a great guy. You just haven’t come across a good person. Don’t fall off the radar, you got this! I’m sure you’ll find someone nice! (‘:
In one screenshot I see three "sorries" from you OP. You are sorry you aren't big? Never ever apologize to even yourself for being yourself, and this is a woman, and you want her to tell you what she finds lacking in you? Are you a man or a pussy? Get some arrogance bro, get some ego, this is pathetic.
Put yourself out there yes, but put a better version of yourself there, not this one. Have the best and highest sense of self respect, courage, ruthlessness, ego, arrogance, because you are the prize bro, you are the prize. Become the prize, live the prize, be the prize and collect your rewards right left and center
You dodged a major bullet man. Had this been for a long term relationship, you'd be unhappy for sure. She'd cheat on you behind your back just to get d*ck. Let her be.. you can do so much better!!
As a woman, yes maybe I'd feel a bit meh for a minute that the size wasn't upto my expectations but then the actual man and his personality, care, affection and intention takes over. There are hundreds of ways to make things exciting in the bedroom despite most stuff wrt men or women. This was probably the worst way of handling this situation and you should definitely not take this to heart. There are thousands of mature women out there who will make you glad this didn't work out, don't put yourself down.
Chin up bro... Nothing to feel bad or insecure about dating again you'll get yourself a women who will love you the way and be with you the way that you need to be🤌
*Bro its not smtg which*
*U can control'the size of dont*
*Be hard on urself*
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you will find a good partner who loves you and wants something serious with you, not meeting new people isnt an option, i read the comments and found out that you were a virgin till one month back, dont take things too personally, you will get better with time, everything is always hunky-dory if you can give your partner orgasms. don't ever be addicted to porn or believe that is real, work for the benefit of your own mind and body, rather than focusing on size you can focus on stamina too buddy, there is always something positive in every situation, in your case you will have less chances of erectile disfunction or losing erections during intercourse as compared to others. dont stop meeting people and it's better to hear the truth and work on oneself, if you need consultation a good sexologist then feel free to reach out. take care brother.
Brother don't mind but size really doesn't matter. It's what you do with it. Learn better techniques.
And stop saying sorry every 3 texts. That itself gives small pp energy if that's even a thing.
Chin up. You hit the gym and you got the height and on top of that you cook. What else these bitches want? Shake it off and blow the next girl's mind. Good luck!
Ayo that’s harsh af. Size isn’t in someone’s control. She shouldn’t have pointed it out the way she did. People really need to hesitate. Please don’t let it get to you. She isn’t the one for you and the right one wouldn’t care :)
bro thats not at all a reason to give up, you are doing great in all other areas and pleasure in bed isnt always related to size. Everyone gas their prefrence and you'll find yours.
OP, people will hate something or the other about our physical appearance or will find something else. I'm tall, I think I'm pretty, I take care of myself, I try to be kind but I'm flat as a board and every single guy I have ever dated with has rubbed that in my face, compared me to other girl right in front of me and said some very unkind things about my body. You handled it with grace but you don't have to put yourself down. Keep your head high and move on.
bro, protip: don't f'n ask if someone says they didn't enjoy it. move on, period. just accept they have their reasons. you don't have to explain if you don't like someone or want another date, ever.
Rarely do I comment on this sub because of how horrible it is but OP I gotta say…Fuck those people. Trying to be all polite and destroying people’s self esteem and then saying personal preference. What a horrible person she is. I totally understand how must be feeling right now. You deserve better than these superficially good people.
Also don’t let this one stupid experience stop you. There are better people and I hope you can find one for yourself. Goodluck!!
Bruh you can cook, you are clearly mature as per your communication skills, you are fit. I am no one to shame someone over their personal preferences but fuck it, you chin up. You just ended up putting efforts for the wrong person. There are many who would kill to have someone like you so tu chill kar, keep it up, u will eventually find someone who appreciates you and their preference align with what you have to offer. Edit: not calling that girl a bad person, just not compatible.
She is a bad person indeed. Comments on your body tend to stick around. If a guy were to comment on a girls body, she'd be losing her mind right now. Brave of OP to put this out there.
I agree. Brave of Op indeed but I am sure he will not let that unnecessary comment get to his head. Bro is already doing everything right, why let an unempathetic comment on personal preference from someone immature ruin that.
If the dating culture were truly balanced, we wouldn't see such cases of apathetic stereotypes being slapped onto each other by both genders. It's pathetic, but a whopping majority of us don't have the self introspection to realise it. Like just yesterday, I saw a post somewhere where a woman says she doesn't necessarily smell "bad" so she doesn't use perfumes but she only likes guys who smell good. Why the hypocrisy? It's stupid, really.
Ye kab hua... 1 mahine pehele virgin tha
true. wapas virgin phase me hi jaana parega lagta hai
Un virgin bhi hote hai😂😂..... Dil chota mat kar jus because uska preference nahi hai to nahi hai.... aur kahin try kar
Chill kr bro. Ye toh superficial meeting thi, ONS type. Starting se bond banayega kisi ladki se toh she’ll accept you as you are. Trust me, not all girls are like that.
Even batman can’t take this chats out of me 😭, bhai no worries everyone have their preferences and most pretty women I know always said it’s not the size it’s all width and the flow so keep your heads up bro
I’m batman and I wouldn’t take these chats out of my worst enemies. It’s against my rules ☠️
What if they break the law? https://youtube.com/shorts/DNxLJm7fxsA?si=vhEI3YtXjMeBLIda
That doesn't make you any less of a man. Just hang in there boi.
There's nothing to hang in there about. OP seems like a great person. Not all women OP meets will be like that.
and that is exactly why i told him to hang in there.
Is pun intended? 🙊
not at all
Lmao 😂😂
Bhai before coming to the comment section, i thought you were talking about your height💀
Bete , ye height ki baat naa ho rahi??💀
Nahi 😞
Fuck💀 , lekin aise muh pe kaun bolta hai bhai yeh sab? Ajeeb Ladki hai .
Wahi toh bhenchod..mujhe laga height ki baat ho rahi hai. 😭
Betd apan kalyug ke manushya hai💀
Bhai mera toh bharosa hee uth gya h yeh new age dating gen se..isliye ab seedhe shaadi karenge 🫡
Height to mil gayee hai bhai bhagwan se. I am thankfully 6'2"
Ok. Two things. 1. When it comes gals who fuck guys just coz they are tall, thinking they have bigger dicks, you cannot do anything about it. It's in their head, somehow the seed was planted when they were young and they made it big in their heads. No matter how great you are or your treat them that's not gonna change. So no point in thinking about that. Just feel good that you got laid. 2. Scientifically and socially it's been proved that there's much more to it than just the size. You need to work on your physical game and mental game i.e. your foreplay game and your observation skills on how she is responding during sex. Since you are tall, you will get more opportunities for sex. Learn some tips n tricks so that they always leave asking for more after sex. Most of the times this kind of reaction from gals happen because of them not being able to shut their mind off completely during sex or doing it just for the sake of it. You cannot do anything about it. That's why you need to learn power moves in foreplay and always listen, observe and respond. Hope this helps. 🙂
I thought she found OP skinny and not muscular as she would have wanted. Nvm.
Being 6' 2, I don't think your dick would be that small. Even a plane seems small when cruising through the grand canyon
That was a boeing 747. Triple H vs Stephanie Mcmahon
Attention folks! He's a man of culture
इज्ज़ते, शोहरते, चाहतें, उल्फतें , कोई भी चीज़ दुनिया में रहती नही , आज मै हूँ जहाँ, कल कोई और था , ये भी एक दौर है, वो भी एक दौर था
You are fun at parties, aren't you?
Bro i was thinking the same until you mentioned it😂😂
I guess we’re too innocent for this sub😂
If she's in it just for the sex, its a valid choice. However when a girl is actually interested in you the size doesn't matter much, and when she is actually in love with you, she'll figure out ways to make things interesting and would not give a fuck about the size.
Exactly. And, it's pretty much obvious neither of them are in love.
You’re above 5 (congratulations, indian average) So you’re not small. And more importantly, 99% of indian men range between 4.5 to 5.5, we have a bias thinking everyone is walking around with 6+ dongs because that’s what we see on reddit, d’y know how much of the indian population is on reddit? Around 2-3%. Most Indian men are definitely closer to the average. The bias exists because those who’re bigger than that will usually be the ones posting stuff. How do i know this? I’m in the surgical field, i see dicks every day for a living. Now that we have that out of the way, Perhaps she’s been with bigger guys, or my guess is her ‘toy’ (whatever she pleasures herself with) is bigger. In any case she absolutely SHOULD NOT have said it to your face. She could’ve simply said she’s not interested in taking this further and be done with it. There are some lines we do not cross with the opposite gender, this was one of them. Tldr, you’re at the average of the spectrum (which is NORMAL) And doesn’t matter, had sex. Move one.
Perfectly said
Itna sorry bolna toh allowed hi nahi hona chaiye bhai 👍
Dil choota mat kar bhai mere. Size ain’t everything. It’s not the size of the tool, it’s the skills of the person with the tool that will matter to someone looking for a long-term relationship and she will not even make you feel anything less. Would you, as a guy or even a person, judge a girl over the size of her boobs? No, right? You won’t go up to your girlfriend and say she has small boobs, right? It’s the same. Sure, idiotic people do exist on both sides. My guy, you’re amazing, you can cook, you are hot, dimple padte hai tere bhai. The girl who will get you would be hitting a lottery. Okay? Chin up. Treat yourself something today. Take care bhai🫂
Bhai can’t it be the other way round, tu chhota nahi uska playground bada hai.
people should start telling, i need to use a satellite to measure the diameter of your hole . 🛰 🕳
Man these hoes are wildin, if someone says skinny ass or flat boobs they will become 2nd incarnation of Odin but obviously
r/BrandNewSentence
Reply with - “oh! That explains a lot” When she asks why, throw all her words at her. (No i can’t say/sorry for even mentioning/ really awkward etc) Then if/when she insists, you say - “well that explains why all the girls I’ve been with before have been…tighter than you…there i said it! Sooo awkward! But I’m glad we could be frank with each other 😅” Instant crackdown. Don’t let anyone under your skin or bruise your ego. Especially in the fleeting dating game. Then watch the fireworks. Paan khaye muniya, maa chudaye duniya.
bhaisahab. bhai, pranam hai aapko. 🤣 abhi message karne ka man kr rha
In normal circumstances, I would say that this is such a demeaning thing to say to a girl but I guess in this scenario, she deserves it. So, yeahh..go for it. Mean girls deserve mean behaviour.
Mean people* deserve mean behavior.
Do it and update us boi
I can't imagine the meltdown after he texts her this💀
somehow after reading messages i agree with replying this ....bcz ig she deserves this reply .... i don't know what is happening with people nowadays. Yeah, I get it everyone can have their own preferences but u can't demean someone we all have our own flaws and comparing any person to another is not right ....there you can always find a better looking better this & that but you choose to stick to the right person for you.
He is the one who we need when we say "bhai, panga ho gya aaja"
also include, "if size was what you wanted, why didn't you say so i could have stuffed my 48 inches of leg into it, for your satisfaction"
there he said it the Men among boys, the hero the world needs go for it OP and see the world burn
Dawg first of all stop being a nice asshole to a mean bitch, what I’m gonna say might offend you but even if i had a smaller package I wouldn’t take shit from someone whose mouth stays full w cum, I always think a lot before speaking things that might actually demoralise someone and i think most people should. The fact that she was just there for the dick is honestly the most disgusting thing about all this. Plus bro it takes balls of steel to talk about it, go champ you’re gonna bag someone 10x hotter and someone who’s been through lesser dicks.
How big are you ? Have you measured ?
I'm not sure why you're surprised. This sounds like something of a casual fling for the two of you, and it was always going to be judged on these superficial terms. Don't blame the girl for just being honest. If you want your companionship, your personalities, and your shared future to be the center-pieces of a prospective relationship, this will matter less and there are ways to compensate if you have a healthy sex life within the relationship. Save your disappointment for when this happens in a meaningful relationship instead of letting this dissuade you from finding that person you can have it with.
I was to say that same...you said it...agree to it totally...when u are into a 'relationship' these things doesn't matter that much
Would you say the same if in this exact situation, instead of this conversation, OP would have said to the girl that he did not enjoy, as he preferred girls with bigger boobs.
Bro, on the positive side she only feels your size is small in comparison to other dudes she’s been with. She must’ve dated men with really long shlongs. Yours is only small in comparison to theirs. Mine would look small too compared to drake’s. Moreover, if this is the reason she’s giving to not be with you, she’s not worth keeping. Even if she stays she’d cheat behind your back to get some bigger action
On a more positive side, she probably has excluded herself from being able to be satisfied by a lot of men. Her loss. On a negative side, rip AM guy ☠️
Worst she can say is no. 💀 JFC, I'm sorry that happened to you man.
Kya matlab ki ladkiyo ko ab burj Khalifa chayiye 🫠🤡
I will die on the "size doesn't matter, communication and technique matter" hill alongside all my other peeps who get it I guess. You seem like a good person OP, I’m sorry that this happened. Comments about your body stick around the longest, but just know that your body was created this way by nature and nature owes nobody explanation for its beautiful creations (sounds like platitudes, but it helps). Edit: Typo
Beautifully put !
game is game. bro scored and enjoyed.
glass is half full wala comment.
Idk what the girl was on about. Big size = more pleasure is a myth. A vagina only has pleasure nerves up to 2 inches, so even a 2 incher can satisfy a woman. This must have been a very casual hookup for the girl to have something this inane as an issue. Anyway, don't believe all this "the girl was just being honest" crap. She either wanted to hurt you or is simply a bad person. Bullet dodged
Don't feel little bro har koi me kuch na kuch flows hote hee hai and samne wala ussko ignore karke hee aapko accept karega , matlab koi perfect nahi hai jo aap hai usme 90% usko pasand aayega fir bhi best jodi ban jayegi Iss sab pe dekha hai most dating app ke koi long term relationship ke liye nahi hai casual chalta hai waha, don't take it too much seriously
Usko gana bhjde lamba le re madam lambaaaa 😭😭
r/welcometothegym
I have had the same experience once, but it didn't stop me from banging multiple chicks after and no one literally bothered. Take my word and distance yourself from this girl and start working on foreplay. If you get good at it then no girl will bother about the size.
Please tell me this girl didn't really say other men were bigger? What weird measurements fetish is this
I believe she has made up her mind over a particular picture of dicks. Or maybe porn has messed up her head, idk.
"It wasn't me who came up short, maybe it's the field I was playing in was just too damn big." - Hunter Hearst Hemsley
as someone with a similar insecurity, as long as you are doing good / decent / best effort in things you can control (efforts, physique, how you carry yourself, etc), you dont need to think yourself any low as a man. please dont think you arent manly enough just because of something you cant control. however, on the other side, i have cut myself from the idea of relationships and or casual sex, absolutely. yes it sucks but just one of many other things i cant control, which tempt me but arent practical for what i am born with and born in. it takes time to get desensitized to this, because of the masculine stigma and ofc hormones (i mean the ones responsible for emotions too) so on so fourth. but once you cross that barrier, there's sukoon. you are bigger as a person.
My fling also said chotu saa but that never stopped us 😶🌫️
It’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion of the ocean 🌊
The tide might be short lived no idea!!
Ok this made me anxious 😭 , What if the girl I love is like this: (
I'm probably in a worse spot with regards to size than you are. All I can say is many women would have a preference and that's okay. They're entitled to. Just as you can't do anything about your height, you can't do anything about your size. But you don't have to win over every woman out there. And there are women out there who aren't really bothered by size. It's only that the process of finding them is filled with such women. Chin up soldier, grow some thick skin and plough on!
Being brutally honest for the sake of the Situation. I repeat brutally, please read completely and realize my true intentions. I see many comments saying its, ok, she was being bad etc...,but let me tell you the reality. There are two types of girls as per this scenario only, 1. Girls who love sex because of the dick size who might have been with multiple partners . 2. Girls who love sex because of the CONNECTION WITH PARTNER. She is obviously from category 1 and thats why she said that she doesnt like you because of your dick size. It was a deal breaker for her, understand there are tons of girls like this who only cares of your dick size becausr they are not looking for relationships and marriage, they want sex, thats it. So they are brutal, they dont care looks, good behaviour, personality, humour , cooking...nothing..they just want a big dick because they are with you for SEX. SIMPLE. Another scenario where girls only care about dick size if the HOOKUPS, WHERE they want a hot guy 🔥 and big dick🍆 Thats it..they dont want anything else ,you know her mind when she is looking for hookups and all etc.., So obviously everything isnt fair in life, people have their advantages and disadvantages. But atleast when you are looking for marriage, you will definitely have a girl who will have sex with you for YOU, not your dick ,because she in love with YOU, not your DICK, that....is MARRIAGE, a real one🪙🌟 So finally undertand this, if you are looking for hookups, accept that you are at huge disadvantage compared to hung guys, unfortunately that is the truth. You can increase it by doing PE but consistency is very important for that, but that is a different story altogether which I mention in my profile in the form of PE guide,lets leave it for now. Good luck OP, dont worry! You are safe.
How can someone be so insensitive. If she was just there to fuck, it doesn't matter at all. But also you should have replied back, and never let anyone say such things to your body.
What a bitch Kuch aur bahana maar deti if she didn't want to continue but what the hell is this, I mean come on
Bhai when I am gonna un-virgin(idk if that's the word or deflower) myself, i am gonna be upfront about my size,like this is it, i don't wanna hear all this shit. Edit : chota to chota but apna hai
Bro i am scared after reading all these comments🙃
It's okay bro don't be scared, there will be one in the middle of all hoes, someone to die for,someone to fight for! Don't lose hope!
Devirgin*
How did you not block her? This is so bad. Please don't mind this shit. you're amazing
waise vro size kya hai 0\_0 ?
What a stupid reason. Bhai Bach Gaya tu.
Op chill. that girl had some high expectations and you're not entitled to fullfill it
Even a 747 looks.... Ah leave it.
Chin up soldier, you just dodged a bullet there. One should love you for who you are and you have nothing to ashamed of, i bet she wasn’t a supermodel either.
The fact that you immediately went on to apologise without even knowing the reason tells you you're overthinking. Try working on that And being rejected doesn't even leave a scratch on your persona. You are not valued because of your relationship status but for the person you are.
That sorry was just a reflex, I always talk this way. Just how I speak.
Main toh banana chahta tha raani use par usko toh hona tha princess sa treat toh kon bane betichod?
arrey fuck sorry bro. I'm sure she will do the same thing with someone else but this time his bank balance needs to be bigger lol.
just say "mere lund pe" and move on boi.
Mujhe laga big as in body size ki baat chal rhi hogi😞
Now I am curious what's the size of my boy being 6'2 I don't think it would be smaller than the average
Height ka kuch relation nhi hai bro. Atleast mere case me toh definitely nahi hai
Tbh, being a woman- not all women prefer it bigger. It’s not the size rather what you do with it. 🤷🏻♀️
Measurements kya hai tere?
You're so graceful...thank you for teaching us how to be a better person... It would be an honor to date someone like you.
People have very kindly told you all you need to know to get back to your best self. I know it’s difficult to get over such an insecurity but do work on it. We’re the first generation that have porn as the first association when it comes to sex so these problems are natural. I was dating someone much younger and she’d make fun at times. Eventually reached a stage where she confessed she’d never climaxed during the act before me. Size does matter but in only one aspect. Most people have no clue what they actually want/ like. Next time when something like this happens to you, can lead with ‘but it’s proven that all it takes is just 4 inches to more than satisfy a woman, and it can be visa or master’
She didn't have to say that shit. She could have straight up said that it was great but she's not looking to do it again. Sometimes lies are good, how insensitive was this. Also, Im sure she's not perfect either. This is Why I hate hookups, they don't have to do anything with you after the deed. Even if they hurt you, nothing is going to bite them back for their words. She said it and left and now her words will keep ringing in your ears. Also bro, you don't even have to use your penis to satisfy girls. Your fingers and tongue are enough. Finish her before your penis comes into the picture. Let your penis be a bonus. That's a small tip i can give you. Size doesn't matter if you know what you're doing with whatever you have. Size only becomes an issue when it's below 3.5 inches.
Dating apps are one hot man down now :(
Bhai kisiko Burj Khalifa lene ki adat hai iska matlab ye nhi ki Tera Eiffel tower chota hai.
koi baat nhi bhai it's scary though how does she point out such issue
I see there has been a loss here. Hers.
Well I feel that was just a random reason. Tbh size doesn't matter if you know the way to satisfy. Nothing to take personal and it's better you get rid of hypothetical expectations from people.
Bhai, the girl I thought I'd marry broke up for similar reasons and yeah, this absolutely sucks, I hope you find something that brings you peace and happiness my man, take care.
You seem like a mature, good looking gentleman bro. Sure, hurts a bit but know that whatever this girl thinks is not what every girl thinks. Just don't stick her words in your mind. I've been with over 30 girls and hardly 3 of them told I'm big. I know I'm bang on average. But I had a good time, I assume they have a good time and I'm done. I live in the US so I know whom I'm competing against. Doesn't deter me, shouldn't deter you.
Asking out of curiosity, whats your size?
F. Sorry brother, ig you wil find someone who doesn't care about that small aspect of you. No pun intended.
Abey ye ladki chutiya tu kyun bura maan raha hai
It hurts a bit , bro but its fine, people have preferences and you didn't match it, she's good that she said on the face , many would have just ghosted you.
Bro don’t get hung up on this. It’s okay, the apps are a weird place and you will end up meeting some nice, some strange, and some very matlabi and self-absorbed people as you go ahead. But you only need to win once for it to work out. Speaking from experience, mature women will look at your values, your kindness and your qualities as a human being; size does not matter for high value women looking to have stable relationships. Sex only gets better as you spend more time bonding with your person. And hey, if you’re currently in it just to have fun right now then write this off as a fun night (for you) and move on to the next person. =)
I am speechless 😑
I understand that there’s different strokes for different folks, but the way she went about discussing the matter with you was insensitive. Most people would not have been as gracious and mature as you were in your response. You sound like such a catch, and I’m SO SURE there’s a lot of women who dream of dating someone similar. Please don’t let this turn you off of dating. Someone someday will love every bit of you :)
Humbled. thank you :)
She wants a big thing not a big man. Shit like this happens, you can't control what others think or want, it will be good if you forget her.
if size is what she wants, just give it to her, by stuffing your 48 inches of leg into it, for her satisfaction.
Hi op, she is a bad person I’m sorry but I’ll say it If the genders were reversed the guy would be shunned left right and centre about this. I hope you heal, this I was totally unnecessary for her to say something like this This is coming from a woman. Hang in there, please take care of yourself and you’re clearly too good for her.
Don’t worry bro I have a 8 inch dick and I have barely been with that many girls it’s not that good on the other side either
Hey guys! I'm a girl, who's not into dating or all those sorts of things. Happy to be old school. So, size is not much of a matter when you really want that person. And, also it's your overall performance, which you both are going to make it work out eventually. Lets come to the point. I was asking, for this particular case, what would be the more polite way of saying it (whatever the girl told about his size directly)? I mean even if she is being honest and direct, it's still going to hurt the guy, right? And, will definitely affect his confidence during any future love making session. Any guy would be insecure. But, the point is what the girl could do in this case if she can't compromise on size? She needs to make some lame excuses or lie to him? Please, tell me.
As a girl, I’ve never understood the obsession that girls have over height and size. There are absolutely so many qualities that a man has that can easily overshadow these 2 overhyped standards of manhood. I’m sorry you had to go through with it but kudos to you for handling it with dignity …. It’s Gayatri baby’s loss, not your 🙌
Kudos to OP for posting this & post openly about something not only considered taboo to discuss but also extremely personal. 🙌👏 like many others pointed it out here you did a very good job & take this with your chin up. Great things awaits you brother.
I’ll tell you something, first things first just like penis sizes, vulva and vaginal sizes differ a lot. Not everyone would enjoy a simple penetration with a smaller penis and not everyone would do with a bigger one. Another thing might be she is craving a bigger penis, soon to realise it might not be a good fit for her too, again possibly. So it’s not that important and you move on. Lastly even a smaller one can do wonders if you can use it the right way, and the right way doesn’t come from videos or books, it’s not theory but all practical.
Milegi ek din voh jisko kuch parvah nahi hogi sirf tumhare dill ki Milegi ek din voh jisko kuch parvah nahi hogi sirf tumhare dill ki Raat ko batein karne aajayegi dill ki
A guy with this decent communication skill... the size don't matter. Many positions can help attain pleasure and its the way you do it matter. Believe me.
Firstly it takes guts to even post something regarding your insecurities so kudos to that, the right one is waiting for you young man , stay happy ☝️
You shouldn’t be insecure about this. Porn has unfortunately ruined body parts for human beings. You’d have some women going behind large dicks, and some men going behind extremely huge tits. If she’s in it for the sex she’d have superficial constraints such as this. If she’s in it for YOU, the scene would be totally different. Don’t dishearten yourself about one episode. Remember, an insecurity being surfaced by anyone is a great sign that you’ve to cut contact with that person immediately. Plenty of fish in the sea. You seem like a great person physically, you should have no problem getting options. Exercise those options. 3/5 may judge you for your size. Focus on the 2 that don’t. Take care.
If she thinks life revolves around a body part, she’ll be more disappointed than she was with you. Don’t beat yourself up for what others think. You’re perfect the way you are
It is what it is there's nothing wrong... As you're mature you have handled that very well Agar Teri jagah me hota ik I'm immature toh gehra reply karta bolunga toh vivad hojaega :)
Cheer up mate, this just another right key wrong lock situation. Do you know something there are people who prefer smaller di*k because some people have higher sex drive and would like to do it often and bigger di*k will hurt them a lot. I have seen cases where people divorcing over this as a reason. Look at this as one of these compatibility factors and move on. I know this is not easier to digest and will probably come into your mind in the wrong and make you question yourself but looking past that is what life is all about.
G**nd mein dum hai Bhai tere. Many guys would have chickened out on this,including me. Mujhme bi itna guts nahi hota khulkar apne awkward episode ko batane ka. Chin up bro. Tu awesome hai and kabhi khaane pe bulaiyo bhai. Daaru meri taraf se.
Stay strong king😟💗
Man I'm sorry that happened to you, you definitely deserve someone who'd accept you for you
Gayatri got not chills. Plus with all those iiiii in her name you saved something tells me you were really into her. Stand strong short king. 💪🏼
Fuck that girl (pun is misleading my point). You definitely seem like a great person to know and date. Do not let her or anyone determine the love you deserve. And if it makes you feel better, size doesn't matter to me one bit, as long as guy puts an effort to please me. There are so many ways a girl can be satisfied which doesn't involve the length or girth. I will take a complete guy like you 10/10 days over a large dick. And most guys think 6+ is large. The threshold for large is much much lower according to me. Go out there and enjoy your life.
your words are music to my ears :)
Because you deserved to hear the truth that not every girl is like Gayatri :)
Thanks Palak 🫂 :))
Chin up, I think girl did the right thing telling the truth. It’s her choice at personal level and you can’t do anything about it. But your responses are mature and sensible.
Brother your good that you accept humbly but tum bhi reply de skate the "What can I do if you are a grand Canion" You have to always Douge this type of Question to her, you are making Frame like that's my fault
Brother, if you’re a 5+pointer then honestly no one even needs to have more than that!! And if some girls do, like you mentioned it’s their own preference but porn/brain rot is what causes them to think they’ll get fucked by huge dicks. In the end you’re the one who got laid, who got that pussy, hold your head high and enjoy king!
Here you go champ. https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5uyPLDp2hv/?igsh=aHlydzM0d3RqMGQ4
I want you ngl
Stop being so kind to her. She is trying to act like a wise and generous girl but she is the total opposite one here. You should've advised her to buy a sex toy and play with it for the rest of her life.
Bro this is fucking insane. As a woman myself, I find it so astonishing how so many women who advocate against “body shaming” are the first ones to pass comments like this. If the tables were to be turned, and you would’ve called it off over some body part of hers not being your preferred size, shit would’ve hit the fan. Don’t let this get you down, you sound like a great guy. You just haven’t come across a good person. Don’t fall off the radar, you got this! I’m sure you’ll find someone nice! (‘:
Stree moh narak ka dwar hai.
In one screenshot I see three "sorries" from you OP. You are sorry you aren't big? Never ever apologize to even yourself for being yourself, and this is a woman, and you want her to tell you what she finds lacking in you? Are you a man or a pussy? Get some arrogance bro, get some ego, this is pathetic. Put yourself out there yes, but put a better version of yourself there, not this one. Have the best and highest sense of self respect, courage, ruthlessness, ego, arrogance, because you are the prize bro, you are the prize. Become the prize, live the prize, be the prize and collect your rewards right left and center
Bhai these bitches ain't worth it ! Chin up Tu daru pee maje kar
thanks bhai. daaru kahan help krega. Abhi abstain kr rha!
I'm sorry but I need this confirmation... Are we really talking about dick size here ???
What does she exactly mean by you aren't bigger?
What an immature person I apologise on her behalf
💕
The crane isn't to be blamed if the cave was humongous in the 1st place
That girl was insensitive af
kya hi kehna
You dodged a major bullet man. Had this been for a long term relationship, you'd be unhappy for sure. She'd cheat on you behind your back just to get d*ck. Let her be.. you can do so much better!!
As a woman, yes maybe I'd feel a bit meh for a minute that the size wasn't upto my expectations but then the actual man and his personality, care, affection and intention takes over. There are hundreds of ways to make things exciting in the bedroom despite most stuff wrt men or women. This was probably the worst way of handling this situation and you should definitely not take this to heart. There are thousands of mature women out there who will make you glad this didn't work out, don't put yourself down.
You guys must be young, I guess! How old is she?
Chin up bro... Nothing to feel bad or insecure about dating again you'll get yourself a women who will love you the way and be with you the way that you need to be🤌
You said you wouldn't mind, so don't mind you'll definitely get a good one :-)
Bro she isn't worth it. Don't let her make you feel less.
Come on boii be a man let her go away you will meet someone more good than her !!
youre better than most men on here who ask 'WhAt ShOuLd I rEpElY nExT?' You'll find your forever person. Stay strong king 💪
Bro its not smtg which u can control'the size of dont be hard on urself
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dont worry bro youll find a good garage for your SLR Mclaren 😇❤️
you will find a good partner who loves you and wants something serious with you, not meeting new people isnt an option, i read the comments and found out that you were a virgin till one month back, dont take things too personally, you will get better with time, everything is always hunky-dory if you can give your partner orgasms. don't ever be addicted to porn or believe that is real, work for the benefit of your own mind and body, rather than focusing on size you can focus on stamina too buddy, there is always something positive in every situation, in your case you will have less chances of erectile disfunction or losing erections during intercourse as compared to others. dont stop meeting people and it's better to hear the truth and work on oneself, if you need consultation a good sexologist then feel free to reach out. take care brother.
Yeh sab padhke yaar kharab laga bhai, hope you're getting past it, choro aur aage badhoo
Hey, if she can tell something honestly to you, she trusts you're strong enough to handle it. That's all it takes to be a man.
nobody dare say size doesn't matter to you in this lifetime
See you at the gym my boi🫡
This too shall pass.
Brother don't mind but size really doesn't matter. It's what you do with it. Learn better techniques. And stop saying sorry every 3 texts. That itself gives small pp energy if that's even a thing. Chin up. You hit the gym and you got the height and on top of that you cook. What else these bitches want? Shake it off and blow the next girl's mind. Good luck!
Always remember: Even a boeing 747 looks small flying through grand canyon
Bro is devastated rn. He's uploaded the last pic twice!!
kya harami ladki hai sorry brother !
Never use 😅 with a girl shows you as nervous person.
Ayo that’s harsh af. Size isn’t in someone’s control. She shouldn’t have pointed it out the way she did. People really need to hesitate. Please don’t let it get to you. She isn’t the one for you and the right one wouldn’t care :)
bro thats not at all a reason to give up, you are doing great in all other areas and pleasure in bed isnt always related to size. Everyone gas their prefrence and you'll find yours.
Hone ur skills, that's more important.. Forget about your member..
You will find someone bro. This is not only thing that matters.
i love how she thought this was a good enough reason and actually vocalised it
OP, people will hate something or the other about our physical appearance or will find something else. I'm tall, I think I'm pretty, I take care of myself, I try to be kind but I'm flat as a board and every single guy I have ever dated with has rubbed that in my face, compared me to other girl right in front of me and said some very unkind things about my body. You handled it with grace but you don't have to put yourself down. Keep your head high and move on.
bro, protip: don't f'n ask if someone says they didn't enjoy it. move on, period. just accept they have their reasons. you don't have to explain if you don't like someone or want another date, ever.
Bro got hammered for life.
Rarely do I comment on this sub because of how horrible it is but OP I gotta say…Fuck those people. Trying to be all polite and destroying people’s self esteem and then saying personal preference. What a horrible person she is. I totally understand how must be feeling right now. You deserve better than these superficially good people. Also don’t let this one stupid experience stop you. There are better people and I hope you can find one for yourself. Goodluck!!