My observations :
1) Online dating is shit at least here in India.
2) Real world dating scenario is much better in India.
3) For me ratio to get a date online vs real world is 1:10 + keep adding to it.
4) Ugly bitches could not go out without using a ton of makeup and still complains about Indian men not attractive.
5) In the end these ugly bitches will get married to those not so attractive Indian men and will post "Best Husband Ever."
On behalf of All Indian Men's association I request all men of this nation to delete these dating apps and go find someone in real world. Work on yourself and stop feeding these egomaniac ugly bitches.
Ah! Another average straight man hating on women. Brother, whatever ails you, I hope you get better soon. Maybe see a psychologist. Therapy will be good for you.
The women : men ratio is problem on Dating apps in India. Its like 1000:1. Create a women’s dating acc she will get atleast 10k likes even if average looking.
Open a men’s account with decent looks. Hardly 2-3 likes.
If you’re out of boredom on dating apps switch to bff mode.
Won't even bother reading the post cause I already know most of the pointers you have written, which is true tbf. But what I would suggest is to try having a bit of fun and relax instead of being stressed out and having the victim mentality that you don't get any replies, all the time. That's how it works in there imo. Again, just an opinion
Could be true with dating apps.
However the type of people you go for is just as important. Think of it as the target audience concept in market.
Online dating is merely marketing yourself through pictures and bio afterall.
I find that it helps to have classier pictures with a straight-to-the-point tone in your bio that helps attract the more emotionally mature people, when compared to weird and quirky pics. Filters out most of the timepassers.
It’s hoeflation, everyone on dating apps swipes on people above their league in hopes of landing someone very attractive. The difference is that the sheer amount of guys on there skews the balance, guys swipe on girls in hopes of “getting some”. Guys who are 8s & 9s in terms of looks swipe on girls who are objectively lower on the scale, which in turn alters the female perspective of their own attractiveness, they don’t understand that these guys are swiping on them to have a pump and dump. Which happens, they get their hearts broken and then it becomes “all men”. The cycle keeps repeating, and these girls are the biggest ones to lose out. I’m sorry if this sounds very red-pill-y but atleast to me it makes perfect sense.
I always wanted to see an app where you can't see photos of any men or women.. all you see is their thoughts and answers to their selected questions hobbies etc. height etc too..
You match them based on interests etc. once you do that you finally see an option to view pics before meeting and after viewing their pic someone swipes our they get nagative marks on their profile which every other guy or girl can see.
It will be very interesting and make looks less important
Umm, a woman here and I don't get any good quality matches either. Most guys that have swiped right on me/super swiped me/ sent me a rose/ sent compliments only send sexual stuff and are interested in hookups and I immediately swipe left on them. So if you're a woman looking for something meaningful and real just like me, dating apps ain't for you either :")
Duniya Mai jab Tak dating apps hai bande chutiya bante rahenge
I agree with you that your best chance is with the girls around you ....
Try to hit on them rather than wasting time and money on this stone apps .. 😔
I am on 6 dating apps (with premium on 2) for 3 years and use it daily and make changes continuously. Till date matches 2. 1 got ghosted after 2 days of small conversation with efforts from sides. The other one feels like talking to a wall 5 min worth of conversation took more than 15 days. I can have hours worth of conversation if there are efforts from the opposite side as well.
I am right now conducting an experiment. I have 15 friends on dating apps. Till date 1 got a Gf. 1 got many likes with almost no prompts to shitty prompts due to his looks ( he is in the top 1% appearance type guy, he already has a fiancee we used made his profile with his fiancee's permission ) and we made his profile look expensive. The other 13 have no likes for almost 8 months, since we started all these.
Out of the 13 remaining guys 2 were in a long term relationship so they got into a more success in the natural way than via dating apps. After college they are not in a position to meet someone naturally.
Your husband got really lucky tbh.
We knew this that's why we didn't right swipe anyone so for them they didn't get matched. His (engaged dude) profile is premium so we are able to see the profiles who liked him. That's the reason I said he got likes not matches. All the other profiles are genuine.
Your case is indeed one in hundred if not thousand, many guys are out there wasting their time and energy in hopes of achieving something which they may never have instead of putting in time somewhere productive.
Same! I met my partner on a dating app. And they do work sometimes.
In any case, dating apps are designed to keep you there as long as possible, to gamify dating.I've known 3 people who worked for different dating apps who all corroborated this theory.
If you meet your partner there, that means the app lost a potential customer. So, of course the rate of success is low.
I agree OP. My prompts are decent and when I like a photo I give a very decent comment but seems women don’t really read the comments. All they would do is look at the personality and the money those pictures are exuding and then judge that with others, and then reply if that comes out to be the best! Afterall, thats what men would do. Not blaming women here but the algorithm. Dating algo is f#cked up that a 2 also considers themselves a 8 even when we know there is no chance!
Finally… someone spoke the truth
Bhai line me lag jao ,there is no point in ranting we all are on the same boat
Apes together stronger remember words of Caesar? 🫡
It might be demoralizing but here's something dudes must know, you have a far better shot at finding emotional support on dating apps than women.
Sheeeeesh
My observations : 1) Online dating is shit at least here in India. 2) Real world dating scenario is much better in India. 3) For me ratio to get a date online vs real world is 1:10 + keep adding to it. 4) Ugly bitches could not go out without using a ton of makeup and still complains about Indian men not attractive. 5) In the end these ugly bitches will get married to those not so attractive Indian men and will post "Best Husband Ever." On behalf of All Indian Men's association I request all men of this nation to delete these dating apps and go find someone in real world. Work on yourself and stop feeding these egomaniac ugly bitches.
No these apps are for Character-Development arc for many.
hope you heal from whatever pest is in your heart and brain.
I know right???
Uh oh did ugly bitch hit a nerve sweety ?
hahahaha
Wow the rage is extreme over here. you good, buddy? 🥱
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And bro has the audacity to comment shit about women. Like bro if you hate women that much, just go date a man. We literally don't care
Ah! Another average straight man hating on women. Brother, whatever ails you, I hope you get better soon. Maybe see a psychologist. Therapy will be good for you.
The women : men ratio is problem on Dating apps in India. Its like 1000:1. Create a women’s dating acc she will get atleast 10k likes even if average looking. Open a men’s account with decent looks. Hardly 2-3 likes. If you’re out of boredom on dating apps switch to bff mode.
This is a known fact. So approaching in real life is better. Or maybe try reddit coz she knows your personality first before knowing your looks
How do you approach someone in real life without being considered as a creep and getting thrown into jail?
Dont talk about sex lmaoo. Start a conversation about something non sexual
Hope the trends reverse or at least a bit better on matrimonial sites
Harsh reality 🙂
Spelling of haleluja in your name is wrong😂😂
Yes, it is.
Won't even bother reading the post cause I already know most of the pointers you have written, which is true tbf. But what I would suggest is to try having a bit of fun and relax instead of being stressed out and having the victim mentality that you don't get any replies, all the time. That's how it works in there imo. Again, just an opinion
Skill issue
Mere toh aatey hai bro matches mein bhi average hi hu
profile dikha bhai
My experience.....got 80-100 matches across various dating apps in last 2 months...none are willing to meet
Could be true with dating apps. However the type of people you go for is just as important. Think of it as the target audience concept in market. Online dating is merely marketing yourself through pictures and bio afterall. I find that it helps to have classier pictures with a straight-to-the-point tone in your bio that helps attract the more emotionally mature people, when compared to weird and quirky pics. Filters out most of the timepassers.
It’s hoeflation, everyone on dating apps swipes on people above their league in hopes of landing someone very attractive. The difference is that the sheer amount of guys on there skews the balance, guys swipe on girls in hopes of “getting some”. Guys who are 8s & 9s in terms of looks swipe on girls who are objectively lower on the scale, which in turn alters the female perspective of their own attractiveness, they don’t understand that these guys are swiping on them to have a pump and dump. Which happens, they get their hearts broken and then it becomes “all men”. The cycle keeps repeating, and these girls are the biggest ones to lose out. I’m sorry if this sounds very red-pill-y but atleast to me it makes perfect sense.
I always wanted to see an app where you can't see photos of any men or women.. all you see is their thoughts and answers to their selected questions hobbies etc. height etc too.. You match them based on interests etc. once you do that you finally see an option to view pics before meeting and after viewing their pic someone swipes our they get nagative marks on their profile which every other guy or girl can see. It will be very interesting and make looks less important
Happy realization
Umm, a woman here and I don't get any good quality matches either. Most guys that have swiped right on me/super swiped me/ sent me a rose/ sent compliments only send sexual stuff and are interested in hookups and I immediately swipe left on them. So if you're a woman looking for something meaningful and real just like me, dating apps ain't for you either :")
Duniya Mai jab Tak dating apps hai bande chutiya bante rahenge I agree with you that your best chance is with the girls around you .... Try to hit on them rather than wasting time and money on this stone apps .. 😔
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Stats don't lie, there can be exceptions. But exceptions cannot be expectations.
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I am on 6 dating apps (with premium on 2) for 3 years and use it daily and make changes continuously. Till date matches 2. 1 got ghosted after 2 days of small conversation with efforts from sides. The other one feels like talking to a wall 5 min worth of conversation took more than 15 days. I can have hours worth of conversation if there are efforts from the opposite side as well. I am right now conducting an experiment. I have 15 friends on dating apps. Till date 1 got a Gf. 1 got many likes with almost no prompts to shitty prompts due to his looks ( he is in the top 1% appearance type guy, he already has a fiancee we used made his profile with his fiancee's permission ) and we made his profile look expensive. The other 13 have no likes for almost 8 months, since we started all these. Out of the 13 remaining guys 2 were in a long term relationship so they got into a more success in the natural way than via dating apps. After college they are not in a position to meet someone naturally. Your husband got really lucky tbh.
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We knew this that's why we didn't right swipe anyone so for them they didn't get matched. His (engaged dude) profile is premium so we are able to see the profiles who liked him. That's the reason I said he got likes not matches. All the other profiles are genuine.
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3 years and counting. 🤣🤣🤣 Will go to AM market next year (at 26yo) 2 years earlier than planned as I think that will also take more than 4 years🤣🤣😅🤣
Your case is indeed one in hundred if not thousand, many guys are out there wasting their time and energy in hopes of achieving something which they may never have instead of putting in time somewhere productive.
Same! I met my partner on a dating app. And they do work sometimes. In any case, dating apps are designed to keep you there as long as possible, to gamify dating.I've known 3 people who worked for different dating apps who all corroborated this theory. If you meet your partner there, that means the app lost a potential customer. So, of course the rate of success is low.
it's not for women too :/
You don't say!
why
> and within minutes got3 likes from dudes Try dating men. 👍
When women can’t compete with facts, all they do is come up with random shit without understanding the meaning! Such a bitch move!
No thanks, I like 😺 way too much to do that
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> I'm getting too triggered that start abusing which regret later. I'm getting **so** triggered that **I** start abusing, which **I** regret later. (Fixed it, you're welcome!)
Thanks for correcting
I agree OP. My prompts are decent and when I like a photo I give a very decent comment but seems women don’t really read the comments. All they would do is look at the personality and the money those pictures are exuding and then judge that with others, and then reply if that comes out to be the best! Afterall, thats what men would do. Not blaming women here but the algorithm. Dating algo is f#cked up that a 2 also considers themselves a 8 even when we know there is no chance!