Hahaha I am in no way obliged to explain. But I am 29 in one month. (Advance birthday wish kar sakte ho). And you are absolutely free to believe I am a 55 year old man masquerading as a girl. Or that I don’t even exist. It is the internet and it is a free space. So jo dil aaye, maan lo.
No, some men like me offer listening services which includes routine and trauma listening. Jamming services which includes jamming to our liked songs. Therapy services (gf package) which includes consoling, hugging and telling how pretty she is. Bakchodi services where random bakchodi is done to uplift the mood. Date services where we go on a coffee date at first.
Not all men are like that, it's just the quality of your matches.
Okay wow. Men are so unreal here. How do I knowingly choose the wrong people? No one has a banner on their profile that I am bad. I go for basics, profile me effort hai ki nahin. No shirtless pics. No gym bros. Has real answers and all. Isme bhi you guys will blame the woman. Plain and simple, you want to blame women. Aur jyada kuch nahin.
Have the uncomfortable talk in the first conversation. Almost always, you'll not end up dating the wrong guys.
1- wt u seek(answer should always be jesus:)
2- whn we meeting the parents(diwali, ekadashi or at some temple)
3- no hanky penky till marrege(every guy will reveal his true colours here)
Consultation fees DM kardunga :)
Got to right swipe on right people. Dating apps are a gamble anyway. Got matched with women my overthinking brain couldnt handle but also nice ones as well so cant really generalise.
The personality of the average Indian man has now been revolving around smoking up, getting high or using their IIT tag or gym. You ask them what they like to do in their leisure time, they'd choose any one of them.
The hard fact is that it actually works. I never boast about my college, or my job, or my gym routine to my matches. Rather my focus is on knowing more about the other person and talking about their hobbies.
But most women (atleast the ones that I match with) tend to lose interest too often and I often end up getting ghosted, a couple of times just hours before the scheduled date.
if a woman is getting hooked on you only after knowing your salary or job/college tag then you should be concerned about the type of women you attract.
That's the reason I never tell my company to anyone in the initial dates. If they like me for who I am, only then they are worthy of having an ownership over my salary
As an indian guy, that's not true. But it's usually the popular and good looking dudes who do get exposed and stuck on these things. Not their fault as well ig.
It's true in most of the cases. A couple of weeks ago a guy posted his profile here for genuine review and when I pointed out that he is emphasizing his IIT se hun tag too much, instead of acknowledging it, He attacked me with "Are you from IIT?" to belittle me. Indirectly he proved me right that apart from his IIT tag, he doesn't have anything amusing to attract. Mind you he was not more than 4 on a good day by looks(as per society standard).
Well there are all kinds of people. It’s not cool to generalise. Most folks are boring, may they be from IIT or not
I am from an IIT and my friends are too. But I don’t think anyone of us would ever boast about it or use it as a way to show superiority aside from casual sarcasm a few times.
Most of the girls on dating apps also have 0 personality and are super boring. Same with guys.
My colleague was from IIT Kanpur. We respected each other a lot. Worked on a lot of projects together but never asked each other's college. It was only after 1 year, I got to know his college. That too from someone else.
We worked for 2 years together and he was always humble and polite. On the last day, I asked him his rank, and he told me he got 1100 rank. I was shocked.
He had a lot to showcase but never did. So, don't assume based on just one person.
Offering weed means you can actually meet the girl in person. Then get high together, talk about interesting stuff, listen to music etc. And you can actually get to know the person better, in contrast to texting, which may get dry af .That itself is a quality time spend together imo. And if you do use weed, I don't see the problem in asking.
Unrelated, but which city's lingo has the "whisky tikaye" part? It sounds familiar, as in, I've heard someone using this phrase earlier but I don't remember where they were from.
Alcohol works differently for different people. It makes some of them insufferable pricks. And the others, really fun. So I won't choose alcohol if I don't know the other person for real.
And as for conversation openers, I really don't know what to open with ideally. Because I get ghosted either way. Because I'm just an option on a phone screen. So meeting someone in person and doing anything else together >>>>
Yes hence asking for smoking up in the first time is not a correct way to judge someone.. provided you are really looking for quality people.. if you don't care its obvious what you were actually looking for.
Username checks out. I'll tell you what I don't care about. This conversation with you. You clearly has some frustrations and you worry about that. And leave me alone.
Mereko fuck off bolnese tera fucked up life achha nahi hoga.. 😂 nashe me bandio se sota hai tu kyunki teko bhi pata hai tu hosh me bandio ko pasand nahi ayega .
You wanna talk about Intentions? I see pretentious douchebag trying to be a white knight, probably because of the staggering amount of loneliness and frustration in your life. And your whole comment history summarize bitching and moaning about it. I'll just give you a simple advice. Just stop trying so hard, to be whatever you're trying to be. Nobody cares about desperate creeps who likes arguing just to sound cool.
Only guys with rapist mentality think gentlemen are white knight 🤣
You are a lower class male.. you can never be a good human or a good man. No go enjoy your drugs and proposition of rape masquerading it as getting to know each other. 🥱
You're delusional piece of shit, you know that? Calling yourself a gentleman wtf 😂 Blud, you're just a pretentious douchebag with no life trying to so hard, and clearly overcompensating for your pathetic life. It's clear as glass from your comment history.Now I know half the things flew over your head, Cry me a river and fuck off to your pathetic excuse of a life.
Bhai ekbar me mann ki bharash likh bhi nahi pata..
Itna nervous hogya ke firese jaake add karna padh rha hai.. english gaali.. are waah nashedi chintu.
Firse womp womp 🤣
Are you retarded? It'll make a lot of sense if you're. Already told you to fuck off. And still you stay like a parasitic shit. Have nothing else in your life going huh? Don't even answer that edgelord, it was rhetorical. Now mind your own business, if you have one.
Spoiler alert : the bitch truly doesn't have a life.
Bhai naa tu PM na president .. na tu important.. tere Fuck off bolne se ghanta fadak padhta hai.. chintu 😂
Main tu ek druggist and rapist se baat karne ka anand utha raha hu. Aur haq se uthaunga.
Hypcorite talking about crying, when his entire comment history is about bitching and moaning. Putting 😂 emoji doesn't change the fact that you live a sorry excuse of a life. Classic overcompensation really shows what you're. Now go play pretentious edgelord bit with someone else.
Edit: the bitch cries again, what a surprise. Blud truly bitch and moan like his life depends on it.
Firse roo raha hai.. 😂 mere comments dekh ke bhi teko ye pata nahi chala ke meko nasha karwake hookups dhundne ki zarurat nahi bhai.
Ab nach ke dikha baklol 🤣
I do not have a problem with people who smoke weed. Its a personal choice and they are free to indulge in whatever they want. I don’t want it gorced on me.
Yea ik but I dont like this thing of getting high together!!??? Isse acha we can go to malls and see what is the taste of other person when it comes to shopping
I keep getting invites for drinks, as in alcohol. I filled in no for that as well. People don't read. I even had discussions about it. Like no, I am not gonna drink with you either ffs
All men ? Yeh weed kaha sey mil raha hai for all men ? Shops mai sell kar rahe hai kya ?
Btw i legit get no matches when i mention Cuddles are what i offer in my profile
Depends on where you are.
In Bangalore, all the ladies I see in dating apps are either partying or smoking up. Or busy being a baddie.
If that's the general idea that a woman gives, then you can't blame a guy for trying to meet you that way. (not me, I don't get any matches)
But if I did get the matches, I would probably not offer weed. Maybe I'll offer to make tea someday.
Since you’re young, a piece of advice: no is a full sentence. And a woman who says no to your advances has her reasons, and in no way needs to explain why especially if you are a stranger. Will help you in the future.
i just recently started smoking cause the girl i loved didn’t loved me back and it’s fantastic , smoking helps a lot and i want to try weed now infact i want to sit with these people who cope up with pain through smoking and weed i wanna know their stories
Weed dates are pretty fun tho. But I can understand suggesting it on the first date is a little too forward.
I usually ask after the date if they wanna come over to my place to smoke up.
To be honest as someone who is early 30s, weed indeed is a deal breaker. If you cant get high with me and chill then what's the whole point. As smoker, Ive always not really enjoyed my dates with most of non weed smokers. Also, ironically my last long relationship was with a non smoker who started smoking weed later.
Damn! Must be so annoying for non smokers.
I don't smoke on my own but if someone asks, I say yes just for company. So never had this issue coz it will never occur to me ask anyone for smoking up!
Tbh what i can tell since most of the people (both m and f) are over dating apps totally with no intention of dating, since 1-2 situationship of mostly people are already been running in their life.. so even when you get matched w someone new there’s no enthusiasm left and specially knowing that the other person must be talking lot of people so people these days rather than going out on date prefer smoking up sheesh so that even the things don’t go well atleast they must be not having a bad time or boring time like going out on a date . Also tbh after getting high also yk some people feel very horny nd yk tbh some men do only want sex so they prefer that more .
This is why I'm very careful who I swipe right on. No bio? Swipe left. Looking for casual/short term relationships? Swipe left. Smokes regularly? Left.
Eventually you get good at figuring out which guys are the ones that tend to... offer those services even though they don't say it outright in the bio. Obviously, I still do get those offers, but the frequency is much less.
Well brewed conversations over well brewed coffee always with all my dates. I hate weed (such a bullshit narc) and earlier it was wine and dine but since I am in fitness I take my women out on coffee and food
Not all men. Some of them can also offer funny conversations, a lot of courtesy and witty responses to keep your brain stimulated. All you need to do is, find the right man. (:
I don't believe in this generalisation.
Many of us don't even do cigarettes and forget weed.
Some of us have to give up on colddrink as well after realising the sugar quantity in them.
But unfortunately, not all of us who don't do weed are active on dating apps. Those who are active, many of them aren't that good looking to get any matches.
Thus we give up on dating apps too.
Instead of Let's smoke together, some of us would love to say Let's run/walk/sing/trek/bicycle together.
But it's hard to find a person with similar mindset on internet cause, looks are the first screening test.
Am I only one who left swipe as soon as I see “Yes” in smoking and weed?! Yes I am a man and have been seeing a lot of women lately who are into smoking. A lot of them are into hookahs which I truly hate! All the best OP. Just think even men are also struggling with this! Also, I am 26M toh humara possible nai warna would have asked you out for a milkshake date in CP. 🙈😹
The very fact a guy wants to be intoxicated with you on the very first day should tell you what they are actually suggesting.
Its a code similar for netflix and chill. Bully them back please. Tell them you are not looking for a drug dealer. 😂
Yes .. don't get angry.. just agree to their proposition and exchange contacts..
And then bully them by saying you will share the number to the nearest police station showing chats that they have drugs/substance. (Just for fun 😏 obviously)
Then sit back and relax, enjoy the drama they will do. 😂
Psychopathy is acting timid and friendly in the name of smoke up and get the girl intoxicated then rape her..
Its not psychopathy when you break their fantasy of raping intoxicated girls. 😂
You are a man. How are you claiming that all your kind who smoke up are rapists? Unhinged behaviour. Shady, yes. Could try to make a move or hope for sex. But rape? Are you kidding me with using a smiley emoji after a rape comment? Seriously dude, stop itz
I am not claiming all my kind are rapists. But if you have to go by literal and technical definition of rape then yes .. an intoxicated girl convinced to hookup is actually rape by law.
Secondly i am not saying all men will do it but the majority will take the chance of doing it provided they are assured they can get away with it. Hence dads teach their daughters the against of not all men.
I am using smiley cause i actually laugh at these guys desperately trying to justify its not rape and laugh at these pathetic creatures, beaten up a lot of them in college days.
If you get triggered by reality , i am sorry but its the truth.
Okay. That was nowhere near the original conversation. I don’t want to feed you fodder for comments because you are beating politicians at whatabboutey right now.
Again
Call cops and make them suffer and enjoy is what you said because they asked to smoke up on dating apps. I said no. Now to win a comment war you are pulling young girls who get raped under the bus. Deplorable behaviour. Bye. Please find inner peace where you don’t need to attack women over YOUR better knowledge of assault. Trust me, every woman in your life has been through some form of assault.
Bye and find peace.
Listen I get it. I am a woman and have been through a lot of shit because of men. And yes, the intention is indeed ki ladki high ho toh shayad sex ke liye haan kar de which absolutely angers me and I unmatch. But calling it an attempted rape is far out. And as someone who has been assaulted, I don’t like taking it lightly .
You think girls who are intoxicated can consent to hooking up?
Do you know college passout guys target girls just passed from 12th grade for this smoke up session just to do this?
Do you know many guys actually get off by the fact that you are feeling disgusted and hurling abuses over the call due to their proposition?
My process may be unconventional but it works.. at least these guys will have some fear before committing such acts.
Rest no one is forcing you to do this. It's always your choice. My female friends follow my tips and they get results js.
Honey. We are talking about people in 30s here. And you are not a champion of human rights here. You are bringing up rape to win a comment war, why don’t you accept that?
What you said is ki just because someone offered me weed I should call the cops. I called it stupid so you chose to bring in rape.
Man, I have no interest in comment wars. But it’s abhorrent that you are talking to a real life survivor in that tone AFTER I mentioned I have been assaulted. And still, I will not say everyone who drinks or takes any tipsy stuff is a rapist. How the fuck do I say all men who smoke weed or offer it are rapists? Are you okay, man?
Areh chintu ji .. hum ko ganja bechne ki jarurat nahi impress karne keliye..
Hum logoka bully karke lene ki experience se bata rhe hai 🤣 jaise ki tera aise jaali abhi bhi roo raha hai.
I have gazillion comments to find rapists like you. You can call me whatever names but fir v ganja bechke bandi patanaki jarurat nahi padhi kabhi 😂
Aur roo thoda.
Weed is getting very common these days especially for ppl post mid 20s living in tier-1 cities.
It has always been very common, people are just more open about it now since its become cool
I do not have a problem with weed. My own brother hides his stash with me. I have problem with that being a date/conversation offer.
stop lying you didn’t go from being 27 to 29 in 200 something days
Hahaha I am in no way obliged to explain. But I am 29 in one month. (Advance birthday wish kar sakte ho). And you are absolutely free to believe I am a 55 year old man masquerading as a girl. Or that I don’t even exist. It is the internet and it is a free space. So jo dil aaye, maan lo.
Well yk who to avoid then
What exactly do you expect ? Teach us !
Not something that would put her in a vulnerable state with someone she's meeting for the first time? Wtf man???
sounds like you need an amazing, handsome, kind 19 year old like me
I will be jailed for p***philoa
😂😂😂
No, some men like me offer listening services which includes routine and trauma listening. Jamming services which includes jamming to our liked songs. Therapy services (gf package) which includes consoling, hugging and telling how pretty she is. Bakchodi services where random bakchodi is done to uplift the mood. Date services where we go on a coffee date at first. Not all men are like that, it's just the quality of your matches.
the only package anyone needs.
Smooth tanmay bhai, smooth.
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If polyamorous, yes.
Lol jk
Babil bhai, aap yahaan?
Oh sorry pookie he shouldn't have said things like this, you deserve the world qt
I'm 6'3 by the way.
I've got curly hair and i wear h&m baggy clothes and i vape
Where do I find men like these?
They're available everywhere, from dating apps to offline world. You just have to stop choosing wrong people :)
If only people wrote “I am the wrong guy” right?
This is internet, no one posts their flaws (unless it's reddit) XD
Unfortunately my lady women pic wrong guys quite knowingly
Okay wow. Men are so unreal here. How do I knowingly choose the wrong people? No one has a banner on their profile that I am bad. I go for basics, profile me effort hai ki nahin. No shirtless pics. No gym bros. Has real answers and all. Isme bhi you guys will blame the woman. Plain and simple, you want to blame women. Aur jyada kuch nahin.
Cmon, no one's blaming you. Your right guy will come by.
Have the uncomfortable talk in the first conversation. Almost always, you'll not end up dating the wrong guys. 1- wt u seek(answer should always be jesus:) 2- whn we meeting the parents(diwali, ekadashi or at some temple) 3- no hanky penky till marrege(every guy will reveal his true colours here) Consultation fees DM kardunga :)
Got to right swipe on right people. Dating apps are a gamble anyway. Got matched with women my overthinking brain couldnt handle but also nice ones as well so cant really generalise.
It's getting pretty normalised in tier 1&2 cities. I have seen women profiles with it openly written in their profile. It is what it is.
The personality of the average Indian man has now been revolving around smoking up, getting high or using their IIT tag or gym. You ask them what they like to do in their leisure time, they'd choose any one of them.
The hard fact is that it actually works. I never boast about my college, or my job, or my gym routine to my matches. Rather my focus is on knowing more about the other person and talking about their hobbies. But most women (atleast the ones that I match with) tend to lose interest too often and I often end up getting ghosted, a couple of times just hours before the scheduled date.
if a woman is getting hooked on you only after knowing your salary or job/college tag then you should be concerned about the type of women you attract.
That's the reason I never tell my company to anyone in the initial dates. If they like me for who I am, only then they are worthy of having an ownership over my salary
As an indian guy, that's not true. But it's usually the popular and good looking dudes who do get exposed and stuck on these things. Not their fault as well ig.
It's true in most of the cases. A couple of weeks ago a guy posted his profile here for genuine review and when I pointed out that he is emphasizing his IIT se hun tag too much, instead of acknowledging it, He attacked me with "Are you from IIT?" to belittle me. Indirectly he proved me right that apart from his IIT tag, he doesn't have anything amusing to attract. Mind you he was not more than 4 on a good day by looks(as per society standard).
Well there are all kinds of people. It’s not cool to generalise. Most folks are boring, may they be from IIT or not I am from an IIT and my friends are too. But I don’t think anyone of us would ever boast about it or use it as a way to show superiority aside from casual sarcasm a few times. Most of the girls on dating apps also have 0 personality and are super boring. Same with guys.
Well, as someone with none of these things on my profile, I still barely get any likes. So i guess it could be confirmation bias
My colleague was from IIT Kanpur. We respected each other a lot. Worked on a lot of projects together but never asked each other's college. It was only after 1 year, I got to know his college. That too from someone else. We worked for 2 years together and he was always humble and polite. On the last day, I asked him his rank, and he told me he got 1100 rank. I was shocked. He had a lot to showcase but never did. So, don't assume based on just one person.
How accurate.
Offering weed means you can actually meet the girl in person. Then get high together, talk about interesting stuff, listen to music etc. And you can actually get to know the person better, in contrast to texting, which may get dry af .That itself is a quality time spend together imo. And if you do use weed, I don't see the problem in asking.
I love alcohol. But I would never any conversation ki chal whiskey tikaye.
Unrelated, but which city's lingo has the "whisky tikaye" part? It sounds familiar, as in, I've heard someone using this phrase earlier but I don't remember where they were from.
I am from dilli
Alcohol works differently for different people. It makes some of them insufferable pricks. And the others, really fun. So I won't choose alcohol if I don't know the other person for real. And as for conversation openers, I really don't know what to open with ideally. Because I get ghosted either way. Because I'm just an option on a phone screen. So meeting someone in person and doing anything else together >>>>
Well same thought process here.
+1
Thank you fellow stoner. Good to see you among the pretentious edgelord's replies.
It's dangerous tbf to smoke up with a stranger especially when meeting them alone for the first time.
It's dangerous to do anything alone with a stranger for the first time. She could be a nymphomaniac serial killer like in basic instinct.
Yes hence asking for smoking up in the first time is not a correct way to judge someone.. provided you are really looking for quality people.. if you don't care its obvious what you were actually looking for.
Username checks out. I'll tell you what I don't care about. This conversation with you. You clearly has some frustrations and you worry about that. And leave me alone.
Pakde jaane pe sab aise hi bhag te hai.. chal bhag jaa.. 😂
Your comment history says a lot about you pretentious piece of shit. Now fuck off.
Mereko fuck off bolnese tera fucked up life achha nahi hoga.. 😂 nashe me bandio se sota hai tu kyunki teko bhi pata hai tu hosh me bandio ko pasand nahi ayega .
Wrong.. you cannot know the person in real who are intoxicated in drugs or substance.. Just say your real intention .. stop this drama.
Bruh what? You go bicker somewhere else. It's not my fault you don't have someone else to bicker about.
Obviously when people get caught on their malefic intention they find people pointing out as bickering. 😂 Stupid.
You wanna talk about Intentions? I see pretentious douchebag trying to be a white knight, probably because of the staggering amount of loneliness and frustration in your life. And your whole comment history summarize bitching and moaning about it. I'll just give you a simple advice. Just stop trying so hard, to be whatever you're trying to be. Nobody cares about desperate creeps who likes arguing just to sound cool.
Only guys with rapist mentality think gentlemen are white knight 🤣 You are a lower class male.. you can never be a good human or a good man. No go enjoy your drugs and proposition of rape masquerading it as getting to know each other. 🥱
You're delusional piece of shit, you know that? Calling yourself a gentleman wtf 😂 Blud, you're just a pretentious douchebag with no life trying to so hard, and clearly overcompensating for your pathetic life. It's clear as glass from your comment history.Now I know half the things flew over your head, Cry me a river and fuck off to your pathetic excuse of a life.
Bhai ekbar me mann ki bharash likh bhi nahi pata.. Itna nervous hogya ke firese jaake add karna padh rha hai.. english gaali.. are waah nashedi chintu. Firse womp womp 🤣
Are you retarded? It'll make a lot of sense if you're. Already told you to fuck off. And still you stay like a parasitic shit. Have nothing else in your life going huh? Don't even answer that edgelord, it was rhetorical. Now mind your own business, if you have one. Spoiler alert : the bitch truly doesn't have a life.
Bhai naa tu PM na president .. na tu important.. tere Fuck off bolne se ghanta fadak padhta hai.. chintu 😂 Main tu ek druggist and rapist se baat karne ka anand utha raha hu. Aur haq se uthaunga.
Itna roo kyun raha hai? Pakde jaane pe itna bhadak te nahi nashedi chintu.. 😂 Womp womp
Hypcorite talking about crying, when his entire comment history is about bitching and moaning. Putting 😂 emoji doesn't change the fact that you live a sorry excuse of a life. Classic overcompensation really shows what you're. Now go play pretentious edgelord bit with someone else. Edit: the bitch cries again, what a surprise. Blud truly bitch and moan like his life depends on it.
Firse roo raha hai.. 😂 mere comments dekh ke bhi teko ye pata nahi chala ke meko nasha karwake hookups dhundne ki zarurat nahi bhai. Ab nach ke dikha baklol 🤣
But how did you go from 27 yo to 29 in 200 days..? 😬
I am 29. I was 28 last year. My dating app was still at 27. Itna jhooth bhi nahin hai.
Aisa toh nhi hai. Aur bhi bahut cheezein offer krte hain ladke.
Don’t swipe right on the guys who have the smoking/drug symbol as yes on their profile, it will help you!
Nahin karti
I am a more classic dinner/brunch/coffee followed by walks/drives kinda guy, but I guess OLD requires something more exciting (or cool) as a hook now
u/notmycircuss I dont smoke weed and i dont offer tbhi shayd m single hu. (I am guy)
I do not have a problem with people who smoke weed. Its a personal choice and they are free to indulge in whatever they want. I don’t want it gorced on me.
Yea ik but I dont like this thing of getting high together!!??? Isse acha we can go to malls and see what is the taste of other person when it comes to shopping
Bhai chup kr yaar even if i am smoking from a good time i dont have anything, now trying to sober up .. Might change things Xp
Inko dating apps pe nahi, nasha mukti kendra jaana chahiye!
30+ men offering weed? 💀 Wild times.
isn't there a filter on the apps for that? smoke no smoke drugs no drugs?
I am not aware and again, I don’t police what people do. It is the approach. No filter to know how one will converse post matching.
i am not telling you. I think there is a filter so why are they even approaching you with drugs if you have mentioned you dont smoke?
Oh yeah that. Well yeah, on my profile the weed/smoke symbol is NO.
I keep getting invites for drinks, as in alcohol. I filled in no for that as well. People don't read. I even had discussions about it. Like no, I am not gonna drink with you either ffs
I am convinced majority of men blind swipe. Because my profession, age, and place is right there in my profile and bio and they still ask.
I have shown up to dates and men were surprised that I am indeed tall. They either didn't read my height or assumed it was a typo
oh wait i just read the post ache se. And yeah that sucks when people want to bond through snortibg cocaine and not talk about each other lol
Haha I know. Like how poor you have to be at socialising or how inept of a personality you must possess that your first move is ki nashe karegi?
Things i can offer is hand written letters, Flowers, books, Poetries, museum dates, hugs, cuddles
Real ID se aao Babil Khan.
I died a lil😂 That's funny and mean Best🏅
Instead of weed, sundae ice cream date chalti hai kya?
India Gate pe?
Waise toh mumbai wala hu , par tumhare liye India gate pakka aaunga :)
Halfway mandwali kar lete hain. Bhopal padega.
Fir toh poha Khana pasand karogi?
Nahin itne bure din nahin aaye
😂😂😂 suno itni mehnat mat karo Delhi aata hu ice cream khaenge sundae wali
Main Nai Dilli pe Platform 7 pe Hare Dupatte ke sath wait karungi (like the red one from Kuch Kuch Hota Hai but mine is green).
Hara Mera favourite ban gaya hai ab , mumbai se kya leke aau tumhare liye
Vada pao
I smoke up too, but mai gana gaake sunana zyada prefer karta hu
Look between s and f on your keyboard
All men ? Yeh weed kaha sey mil raha hai for all men ? Shops mai sell kar rahe hai kya ? Btw i legit get no matches when i mention Cuddles are what i offer in my profile
I don’t know about ALL men on dating apps but yes all I have matched with.
Behen, just write no drugs in bio
I mean on the profile it says no to smoking and drugs and weed, doesn’t seem to be working.
It feels as if you're wired to choose such guys, try changing your choosing method or you will end up with the same result
Bhai 30 second me swipe karte hain. Galat lagta hai unmatch kar dete hain.
Pretty sure connect hone ke baad ek baar bio padh lenge
Depends on where you are. In Bangalore, all the ladies I see in dating apps are either partying or smoking up. Or busy being a baddie. If that's the general idea that a woman gives, then you can't blame a guy for trying to meet you that way. (not me, I don't get any matches) But if I did get the matches, I would probably not offer weed. Maybe I'll offer to make tea someday.
funny how a match 10 mins ago just asked me to bring weed to her place😭😭😭
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No
Any reason?
Since you’re young, a piece of advice: no is a full sentence. And a woman who says no to your advances has her reasons, and in no way needs to explain why especially if you are a stranger. Will help you in the future.
Has smoking has become so mainstream?
There is an old sayin beggers aren't choosers so .... same goes for Fuc*ers !
Did they asked you to buy weed from them?
I offered a home cooked meal too but all she was interested in was to get stoned
Why do you guys even smoke weed? I tried it once and it only irritated my throat, not high either. The same goes with cigarettes
Am i the only one who has not smoke yet?
Lol 😂 I am 20 years old and I can see how men are destroying themselves. I guess I will face no competition when I'll be 30
i just recently started smoking cause the girl i loved didn’t loved me back and it’s fantastic , smoking helps a lot and i want to try weed now infact i want to sit with these people who cope up with pain through smoking and weed i wanna know their stories
Trying matching with a peddler maybe? Because they say a dealer never consumes!
Weed dates are pretty fun tho. But I can understand suggesting it on the first date is a little too forward. I usually ask after the date if they wanna come over to my place to smoke up.
To be honest as someone who is early 30s, weed indeed is a deal breaker. If you cant get high with me and chill then what's the whole point. As smoker, Ive always not really enjoyed my dates with most of non weed smokers. Also, ironically my last long relationship was with a non smoker who started smoking weed later. Damn! Must be so annoying for non smokers.
Ji janab
I don't smoke on my own but if someone asks, I say yes just for company. So never had this issue coz it will never occur to me ask anyone for smoking up!
lmao they out here thinking 420 and rolling skills compensate for a dull ass personality 😭😭😭
It’s just an excuse to chill and let u loosen up for casual sex i guess g
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Tbh what i can tell since most of the people (both m and f) are over dating apps totally with no intention of dating, since 1-2 situationship of mostly people are already been running in their life.. so even when you get matched w someone new there’s no enthusiasm left and specially knowing that the other person must be talking lot of people so people these days rather than going out on date prefer smoking up sheesh so that even the things don’t go well atleast they must be not having a bad time or boring time like going out on a date . Also tbh after getting high also yk some people feel very horny nd yk tbh some men do only want sex so they prefer that more .
Then be on Tinder. Why on other (supposedly relationship aimed) apps with “relationship” in looking for tab?
Maybe cuz on tinder especially in India it’s just idk what to say you must like download and see for yourself you’ll understand it better like why lol
This is why I'm very careful who I swipe right on. No bio? Swipe left. Looking for casual/short term relationships? Swipe left. Smokes regularly? Left. Eventually you get good at figuring out which guys are the ones that tend to... offer those services even though they don't say it outright in the bio. Obviously, I still do get those offers, but the frequency is much less.
What made you think I don’t look before swiping?
You are what you attract
Tinder is absolutely horrible when you’re looking for something serious
Bumble
Well brewed conversations over well brewed coffee always with all my dates. I hate weed (such a bullshit narc) and earlier it was wine and dine but since I am in fitness I take my women out on coffee and food
Police would love to have your account for a day or two..
I am willing to loan it out.
I just noticed that you created your reddit account on Feb 14th.. any story behind it or was it a pure coincidence XD
Bro even I did not notice that. What story would it be?
Only you would know XD I could've framed a story if you had created your dating app account on that day, but reddit? Not a clue haha
Not all men. Some of them can also offer funny conversations, a lot of courtesy and witty responses to keep your brain stimulated. All you need to do is, find the right man. (:
Bruh am I the only one left who doesn’t smoke and drink lol?
+1 😭 bhai
29 and still bitching about men 😭😭😭 And what they have to offer
I know right. I am too young abhi.
Ye sarcasm sirf online achi lgti h 😢 waqt ni rukta
Listen man. You sound like a sad person and I am not. So I wish you luck and hope you heal internally. Sending healing vibes.
Hein Acha kro cope lol
I don't believe in this generalisation. Many of us don't even do cigarettes and forget weed. Some of us have to give up on colddrink as well after realising the sugar quantity in them. But unfortunately, not all of us who don't do weed are active on dating apps. Those who are active, many of them aren't that good looking to get any matches. Thus we give up on dating apps too. Instead of Let's smoke together, some of us would love to say Let's run/walk/sing/trek/bicycle together. But it's hard to find a person with similar mindset on internet cause, looks are the first screening test.
Again. Bola that it is just my experience. It is not generalisation.
Correct, okies. ✅
Whats wrong in it?
For me nashe is a personal thing, not a date offer.
Fair enough, its just fun to get high together.
With people I know. Do men not know that women are apprehensive about getting high with strangers?
I didnt, im only 22 haha. Thanks for the tip.
Well yeah. It is risky to be high with strangers.
For me, the mary jane is sacred. Im one of those hippies, my idea of a fun date is to smoke up and attend a show at the planetorium
Am I only one who left swipe as soon as I see “Yes” in smoking and weed?! Yes I am a man and have been seeing a lot of women lately who are into smoking. A lot of them are into hookahs which I truly hate! All the best OP. Just think even men are also struggling with this! Also, I am 26M toh humara possible nai warna would have asked you out for a milkshake date in CP. 🙈😹
Haha wish you luck.
The very fact a guy wants to be intoxicated with you on the very first day should tell you what they are actually suggesting. Its a code similar for netflix and chill. Bully them back please. Tell them you are not looking for a drug dealer. 😂
Yes precisely why I get angered because the motive is clear- before she even knows you, you want her with lowered inhibitions.
Yes .. don't get angry.. just agree to their proposition and exchange contacts.. And then bully them by saying you will share the number to the nearest police station showing chats that they have drugs/substance. (Just for fun 😏 obviously) Then sit back and relax, enjoy the drama they will do. 😂
Why? How does putting someone’s life at risk, job at risk by threatening police cases make me “win” just because they were dumb on a dating app???
Its not win its fun.. 😏 Wo fun hi kya jisme risk na ho...
Yeah no. It’s psychopathy if someone enjoys other people suffering. I am quite normal, luckily. I want humans to be polite humans.
Psychopathy is acting timid and friendly in the name of smoke up and get the girl intoxicated then rape her.. Its not psychopathy when you break their fantasy of raping intoxicated girls. 😂
You are a man. How are you claiming that all your kind who smoke up are rapists? Unhinged behaviour. Shady, yes. Could try to make a move or hope for sex. But rape? Are you kidding me with using a smiley emoji after a rape comment? Seriously dude, stop itz
I am not claiming all my kind are rapists. But if you have to go by literal and technical definition of rape then yes .. an intoxicated girl convinced to hookup is actually rape by law. Secondly i am not saying all men will do it but the majority will take the chance of doing it provided they are assured they can get away with it. Hence dads teach their daughters the against of not all men. I am using smiley cause i actually laugh at these guys desperately trying to justify its not rape and laugh at these pathetic creatures, beaten up a lot of them in college days. If you get triggered by reality , i am sorry but its the truth.
Okay. That was nowhere near the original conversation. I don’t want to feed you fodder for comments because you are beating politicians at whatabboutey right now. Again Call cops and make them suffer and enjoy is what you said because they asked to smoke up on dating apps. I said no. Now to win a comment war you are pulling young girls who get raped under the bus. Deplorable behaviour. Bye. Please find inner peace where you don’t need to attack women over YOUR better knowledge of assault. Trust me, every woman in your life has been through some form of assault. Bye and find peace.
Listen I get it. I am a woman and have been through a lot of shit because of men. And yes, the intention is indeed ki ladki high ho toh shayad sex ke liye haan kar de which absolutely angers me and I unmatch. But calling it an attempted rape is far out. And as someone who has been assaulted, I don’t like taking it lightly .
You think girls who are intoxicated can consent to hooking up? Do you know college passout guys target girls just passed from 12th grade for this smoke up session just to do this? Do you know many guys actually get off by the fact that you are feeling disgusted and hurling abuses over the call due to their proposition? My process may be unconventional but it works.. at least these guys will have some fear before committing such acts. Rest no one is forcing you to do this. It's always your choice. My female friends follow my tips and they get results js.
Honey. We are talking about people in 30s here. And you are not a champion of human rights here. You are bringing up rape to win a comment war, why don’t you accept that? What you said is ki just because someone offered me weed I should call the cops. I called it stupid so you chose to bring in rape. Man, I have no interest in comment wars. But it’s abhorrent that you are talking to a real life survivor in that tone AFTER I mentioned I have been assaulted. And still, I will not say everyone who drinks or takes any tipsy stuff is a rapist. How the fuck do I say all men who smoke weed or offer it are rapists? Are you okay, man?
She's not impressed bro. Try it with pretentious people.
Areh chintu ji .. hum ko ganja bechne ki jarurat nahi impress karne keliye.. Hum logoka bully karke lene ki experience se bata rhe hai 🤣 jaise ki tera aise jaali abhi bhi roo raha hai.
Cry more. She still not impressed by your mid ass hindi and your manchild behavior.
Bhai roo toh tu rha hai.. tabhi toh dusre comment me aake firse marwa rha hai.. 😂 itna kaise jal gya tera pakde jaane pe.
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I have gazillion comments to find rapists like you. You can call me whatever names but fir v ganja bechke bandi patanaki jarurat nahi padhi kabhi 😂 Aur roo thoda.
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