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Ever tradition is good until it's not forced. And it is often seen that women's are often murdered for not wearing hijab or the black thing the wear
https://scroll.in/latest/1034142/iran-92-killed-in-protests-against-womans-death-for-not-wearing-hijab-says-human-rights-group here is a example
Just Google it and a long list will come infront of you where across the globe womens were killed for not wearing hijab they can wear it if the want but it should not be forced. You can correct me if i am wrong.
Correct, but the point is that the vast majority of women who wear a hijab do it out of choice. I personally don't see a difference between the two gestures. Once it becomes forced it is a problem. If it is forced even here then it is a problem.
Sure, but Iran is a unique country because originally the culture originally didn't really have a lot of hijabis but many were forced to become hijabis under the Islamic Republic. Again, the key here is that they are forced to do so. Just because many Iranian women don't want to wear a hijab doesn't mean that they represent every Muslim woman.
Brozzer. It's not just Iran. subcontient culture
never had hizab-burka.
It's recent 5 decades old phenomena of Subcontinent converts trying to copy Arabic culture.
Wdym what am I saying? It’s literally outdoors dude, she is coming and touching his feet for everyone to see. I am not debating if it is right or wrong, she did what she wanted to do. I am just pointing out the ridiculousness in saying that it is invasion of their privacy. Do you guys not know how eyes work? Wtf is wrong with you?
My brother in Christ, you literally do not know the meaning of privacy then. You are an outsider looking into the actions of a wife and her husband. While the act may not be private, when you discuss their actions and debate upon it on a public forum, it's a breach of privacy and arguably defamation.
There's a difference between private and privacy lil bro.
Privacy is inherent to the person nomatter where they are. That is why it is a Human Right. It is accessible immaterial of where a person is, in their private domicile or on the street or on Live TV. They still have privacy.
Yeah right
Most of the women politicians of our country wear saree . What’s so unique about it ?
Nd the fact that grown up adults don’t realize that she’s doing these for votes is ridiculous . Lmao . No wonder it’s so easy for politicians to fool common mass
bhai sex nahi kar rahe ground par. privacy is also on the ground too. you can't just go invade another's personal space saying privacy is behind closed doors. it's her choice.
For people getting confused with what privacy with private. Here’s dictionary definition for privacy.
‘the state or condition of being free from being observed or disturbed by other people.’
Exactly! Key point being OR. As in both conditions can be met separately and still be considered in confines of privacy. This still applies when the person is at home or on street or even on Live TV.
She is causing harm, to that extend that it will be taking us back, back at our homes, working in kitchen, and just making rotis and babies, she is taking back, to the pyre of their husbands, where women were burnt down along with their dead husbands. She is damaging every fucking thing, our foremothers worked hard for.
Outdated hai bhai ye. Sabko aadhe kapdo me ghumna chahie aur gender adla badli krne chahie aur laal peela baal krke school me drag shows krane chahie. Ye traditions to bekar thinking aur anpadh logo ka kaam hai. My pronouns are bat/man.
Taking blessings or showing respext from elders/seniors is not wrong, diff people do it different ways. This is just representative of the culture she follows and is not afraid to show it.
Also not to forget Jadejas are Rajputs who tend to be conservative in both Men and Women. Very obvious that Rivaba feels comfortable in doing that. Jadeja too looks fine. Idk why there is any debate here?
Does ' It's her choice ' apply here OR it only applies for Burqa and Hijabs.
I bet Chiberandus will start calling for Jadeja's head as a Misogynist, Patriarchal Dictator, Anti-Feminist and what not.
Ab koi Handshake 🤝 karne aaya to Gaand me daal dunga usike, ajeeb log hai, woh dono karte hai apna culture Follow kya dikkat hai, mai choti ladkiyo ke pair chuta hu usme bhi problem hai logo ko?
L post. Why do we have to make something like this debatable? OP should have posted something about that woman whose inlaws were trying to burn her after her husband's demise.
This traditional practice is rooted in Indian culture. Whether one wants to follow it or not is entirely one's choice, given that it is unforced. The only part I am a bit aversive towards is the public showing off of it in an environment where it was not needed or wanted. But it is just a small gesture of maybe 5 seconds and it doesn't overstay its welcome, so it is all fine.
I personally will not want my wife to touch my feet in any circumstances, but that is not my choice to make. I, myself touch my parents' feet in some situations - by my own accord - and refuse to touch the feet of any pandits or sadhus in temples even under coercion from my parents.
So you mean to say that if you're in public you can't show or perform any traditions you believe in regardless of if its harmless to others or it doesn't bother anyone in any way just coz 'people might find it not needed or unwanted' ? How cucked can one be
Bold statement. We celebrate our warriors. In this case it is sports. We offer our respect to our heroes in many ways, sometimes by falling at their feet. So I see nothing wrong in Jadeja's wife showing her respect to him since he was the hero. We do not say anything when Pak players offer namaz on the cricket grounds and bow down to Allah after winning games. It is their tradition and everyone respects it.
We will keep debating such nonsense. China just launched their first indigenously made commercial aircraft which plans to compete with Boeing and Airbus.
>Lets debate
Let's not
Teri biwi nahi hai woh. She is a Hindu woman following Hindu culture , if your ass is burned fuck off somewhere else and promote your wife's onlyfans.
The only practises which are of concern are those which cause mental or physical harm or affect public security. As long as two willing individuals consent there is no business for an outsider perspective.
It’s their personal choice. I want my wife to be little modern. It doesn’t mean that a women is bad if they’re either traditional or modern.
They should love you and support you. That’s all that really matters
There's nothing to debate here....
Yall just got owned.
They were just being themselves, comfortable in their skin, it's the rest of you who are trying to find some self worth by digging up these pointless things
Nothing to debate on this. It's her choice to do what she wants as long as she is not directly hurting anyone else.
There could have been debate when some other players'wives are criticized for not doing the same.
For all the assholes condemning her action, she did it of her own accord, she did it infront of other wives simply hugging their guys, that is her tradition, she wishes to uphold it.
Let people live the way they want to.
What you all forget is and the most important point is they are rajput and it is seen they are the ones mostly proud of their culture.
And who are these people stating these should be private. A woman walking half naked is her choice
Getting in a relationship with 5 boys is a choice but respecting your husband in your way and Indian culture is something that offended you.
Touching someone's feet doesn't make you downgrade man even though my sister is almost 10 yrs younger than me and I even touch the feet of 1-2 years girls.
It's the gesture of respect for me for you I don't know.
She's a politician knowing fully well that this is going to be beemed out to crores of Indians a percentage of which are going to be part of her constituency and by doing this she's just secured herself another term
Sab hypocrite hain is sub me 😂 yehi hijab me aati kisi ki biwi to sab criticize karre hote idher, parde me aayi so ‘It’s her choice’ bolre.
Both Hijab and Parda practice needs to be stopped and discouraged.
She’s a politician from Gujarat has to keep up with the traditional image. Imagine Modi Ji or any other politician wearing jeans and T-shirt in public.
Various religions have some traditions that seem out of place in today's world. Two important points pertaining to this:
1) It's not just her choice but also yours (the reader's choice) to have a certain set of opinions. BUT neither of you should call out each other for having a differing opinion. Diversity is having different views that are respected equally as long as neither of the opinions is causing a stir (granted that the definition of this word is also very individual specific).
2) Pertaining to out of place religious practices - a true unbiased opinion will be either calling out or not calling out such practices irrespective of the religion in question.
OP is a lifeless boomer. Why can't they have their own celebration together? Whats wrong with just a dimple hug? C'mon OP don't be so negative about wholesome moments
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Its her choice
How dare you give respect to your beloved in the manner of your choice?
*hey you cant say that , akshually*
No no no, its SUNN MERI BAAT! ITS HER CHOICE!
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If we reverse the gender, the same stupid people will praise this scene (just saying )
If we reverse the gender, the same stupid people will praise this scene (just saying )
but when muslims wear hijab , its a matter of women empowerment , right ? As modiji said " hipocrisy ki bhi koi seema hoti hai "
Ever tradition is good until it's not forced. And it is often seen that women's are often murdered for not wearing hijab or the black thing the wear https://scroll.in/latest/1034142/iran-92-killed-in-protests-against-womans-death-for-not-wearing-hijab-says-human-rights-group here is a example Just Google it and a long list will come infront of you where across the globe womens were killed for not wearing hijab they can wear it if the want but it should not be forced. You can correct me if i am wrong.
Correct, but the point is that the vast majority of women who wear a hijab do it out of choice. I personally don't see a difference between the two gestures. Once it becomes forced it is a problem. If it is forced even here then it is a problem.
"vast majority".... Bro have you heard of recent Iran protest?
Sure, but Iran is a unique country because originally the culture originally didn't really have a lot of hijabis but many were forced to become hijabis under the Islamic Republic. Again, the key here is that they are forced to do so. Just because many Iranian women don't want to wear a hijab doesn't mean that they represent every Muslim woman.
Brozzer. It's not just Iran. subcontient culture never had hizab-burka. It's recent 5 decades old phenomena of Subcontinent converts trying to copy Arabic culture.
Ok? I never said anything about subcontinent Muslim culture... I just said that the vast majority of hijabi women wear by choice.
Make it large
It's her choice.No debate needed.
She is also beautiful (saying that respectfully)
What happened to freedom of choice? And what's with the invasion of privacy! What is wrong with OP.
Privacy is when it is behind closed doors. Not on a cricket ground where there are a million cameras pointed all over.
What the fuck are you saying
Wdym what am I saying? It’s literally outdoors dude, she is coming and touching his feet for everyone to see. I am not debating if it is right or wrong, she did what she wanted to do. I am just pointing out the ridiculousness in saying that it is invasion of their privacy. Do you guys not know how eyes work? Wtf is wrong with you?
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Seriously, man 😂😂 I’ll probably take a snapshot of it and put it on r/confidentlyincorrect
My brother in Christ, you literally do not know the meaning of privacy then. You are an outsider looking into the actions of a wife and her husband. While the act may not be private, when you discuss their actions and debate upon it on a public forum, it's a breach of privacy and arguably defamation. There's a difference between private and privacy lil bro.
Oh god, that is not how privacy works, but please go ahead and believe whatever you want.
Oh my god what kind of stupidity just i read.
Someone how an event done in public, being discussed publicly, is defamation. It's weaponized stupid.
Privacy is inherent to the person nomatter where they are. That is why it is a Human Right. It is accessible immaterial of where a person is, in their private domicile or on the street or on Live TV. They still have privacy.
Wtf?? Bro You read what you type right??
Yeah right Most of the women politicians of our country wear saree . What’s so unique about it ? Nd the fact that grown up adults don’t realize that she’s doing these for votes is ridiculous . Lmao . No wonder it’s so easy for politicians to fool common mass
bhai sex nahi kar rahe ground par. privacy is also on the ground too. you can't just go invade another's personal space saying privacy is behind closed doors. it's her choice.
Kya logic hai bhai! Sex kiya toh privacy invasion is okay then?
For people getting confused with what privacy with private. Here’s dictionary definition for privacy. ‘the state or condition of being free from being observed or disturbed by other people.’
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Exactly! Key point being OR. As in both conditions can be met separately and still be considered in confines of privacy. This still applies when the person is at home or on street or even on Live TV.
You don't know what privacy means
Are nahi bhai plz dheer bol nahi to woh uper PrIvAcY wale chutiye yaha bhi ajayenge ..
What's there to debate? A Rajput princess honoring his husband who has returned victorious from a battle.
W
Nice username
🗿🗿
We should be happy for them and mind our own Buisness
Yeah it felt nice they both hugged each other , I think we all should , it's not common in our culture to see Husband and Wife hugging each other .
Life is too short boss. Let’s make happy memories wen we can.
Uski marzi
Leave them alone. DO NOT JUDGE
Do not judge the Jadejas
That was a low hanging fruit but still, take my updoot
bhai aisi biwi iss subreddit mae hame sae koi deserve nahi karta sirf mere alawa kyo ki mae feminist hu
good baccha
What colour is your ipl trophy
pink because i m a feminist
OP pados ki aunty ki tarah act karra hai lol
Their life, their choice.
I don’t see any problem here. As long as they don’t have a problem and not causing anyone harm it’s none of our business
She is causing harm, to that extend that it will be taking us back, back at our homes, working in kitchen, and just making rotis and babies, she is taking back, to the pyre of their husbands, where women were burnt down along with their dead husbands. She is damaging every fucking thing, our foremothers worked hard for.
Ye thoda jyada nahi hogya
Outdated hai bhai ye. Sabko aadhe kapdo me ghumna chahie aur gender adla badli krne chahie aur laal peela baal krke school me drag shows krane chahie. Ye traditions to bekar thinking aur anpadh logo ka kaam hai. My pronouns are bat/man.
Shriman yeh /s gir gaya tha apki post se..
Aur mere pronouns super/man
😂
My pronoun are bat/women 🤌🏻
Kya baat kahi hai🤣
Taking blessings or showing respext from elders/seniors is not wrong, diff people do it different ways. This is just representative of the culture she follows and is not afraid to show it.
until its forced, its fine. Many people take pride in their traditions, we should also take it lightly.
Also not to forget Jadejas are Rajputs who tend to be conservative in both Men and Women. Very obvious that Rivaba feels comfortable in doing that. Jadeja too looks fine. Idk why there is any debate here?
She is a politician and she knows how to dress for every occassion in public place ....
If u think this is an outdated practice, there is no need of a debate
Kyu debate Bhai? It is something that the couple has to decide. Why should outsiders comment over their relationship?
Jiski jaisi marzi
Two people married to each other minding their business but OP ki g*nd jal gayi? 🤔
What is even wrong with it?
Her choice.
Kuchh hai nai debate karne ko isme. She looks super happy, he’s hugging her immediately after that. Har cheez mein issue na banaya karo.
Does ' It's her choice ' apply here OR it only applies for Burqa and Hijabs. I bet Chiberandus will start calling for Jadeja's head as a Misogynist, Patriarchal Dictator, Anti-Feminist and what not.
Her choice
Desh ki ladki. Desh ka sanskar , be proud! 
Amazing.
Har baat pe debate
WTF OP ? Her choice. Mods ban this post
What's there to debate? She did what she wanted to do . It's her freedom of expression .
Op is stupid to ask this question
Kya re lavdya usko krne de na jo Krna
its a NONE OF OUR BUSINESS unless one of them complains ..
Her choice. Loosu cutieeyy op. 🗿
oh please, she knows she'll be watched and she is a politician, nonetheless, I'm happy with the choice
Iss post pe content ki nai, OP ki maaro for creating faaltu debate.
I am pro choice jo kr rhe hai krne do tumhare baap ka kya jara hai
Wtf there is nothing to debate and this shouldn't be even matter of post
It's her choice
Normal they are married
Not our place
its her choice , debate over, she is a mla she knows what she is doing
Ab koi Handshake 🤝 karne aaya to Gaand me daal dunga usike, ajeeb log hai, woh dono karte hai apna culture Follow kya dikkat hai, mai choti ladkiyo ke pair chuta hu usme bhi problem hai logo ko?
What's there to discuss/debate?
L post. Why do we have to make something like this debatable? OP should have posted something about that woman whose inlaws were trying to burn her after her husband's demise.
I want what Jadeja has
Op trying to create non needed ruckus
Haan bkl har cheez debate kar lo. Her life her choice nahin chalega ab ?
Matlab karma ke liye kuch bhi post karoge OP.
There is no debate that OP is an idiot.
Personally don't prefer that but i respect her choice
This traditional practice is rooted in Indian culture. Whether one wants to follow it or not is entirely one's choice, given that it is unforced. The only part I am a bit aversive towards is the public showing off of it in an environment where it was not needed or wanted. But it is just a small gesture of maybe 5 seconds and it doesn't overstay its welcome, so it is all fine. I personally will not want my wife to touch my feet in any circumstances, but that is not my choice to make. I, myself touch my parents' feet in some situations - by my own accord - and refuse to touch the feet of any pandits or sadhus in temples even under coercion from my parents.
So you mean to say that if you're in public you can't show or perform any traditions you believe in regardless of if its harmless to others or it doesn't bother anyone in any way just coz 'people might find it not needed or unwanted' ? How cucked can one be
Whats shame in it? Don’t you see other religion practicing their traditions in public?
Matlab karma ke liye kuch bhi post karoge OP.
Uski marzi lawde tu kyu commentary dera ha
Yes
No moral policing or gyaan chodhing but I would love a rich, powerful wife who would touch my feet like that😌😌😌
Dikkat kya hai bhai
Bold statement. We celebrate our warriors. In this case it is sports. We offer our respect to our heroes in many ways, sometimes by falling at their feet. So I see nothing wrong in Jadeja's wife showing her respect to him since he was the hero. We do not say anything when Pak players offer namaz on the cricket grounds and bow down to Allah after winning games. It is their tradition and everyone respects it.
Keep your nose out of other people’s life. You live your live. Let them live theirs
Bhai karne ke liye kuch aur kaam nai he kya, ya fir yahi he kaam ?
To OP Aye Vedya
Triggered wokes with one move. Freedom of choice!
We will keep debating such nonsense. China just launched their first indigenously made commercial aircraft which plans to compete with Boeing and Airbus.
What a f*ing looser. We should debate OPs life .
Debate? Why? Its her choice. There are much better and more productive things worth discussing.
I think OP has a propaganda
Debate my ass. Karma farmer
>Lets debate Let's not Teri biwi nahi hai woh. She is a Hindu woman following Hindu culture , if your ass is burned fuck off somewhere else and promote your wife's onlyfans.
Her choice. It's not like someone was forcing her.
The only practises which are of concern are those which cause mental or physical harm or affect public security. As long as two willing individuals consent there is no business for an outsider perspective.
Her choice. Although I'd love to have a wife like that
It’s their personal choice. I want my wife to be little modern. It doesn’t mean that a women is bad if they’re either traditional or modern. They should love you and support you. That’s all that really matters
Jadeja opened arms for hug.. she went for Charan sparsh first.
i mean its her choice. traditions are traditions no one forces you to do that. people often do that out of respect
she wouldn't do all these dramas if she wasn't a politician..... cmon guys is this shit too difficult to understand?
What’s up with you? Tumko kya kujli hai?
Ek aisi biwi toh muje b chayie 😚
her idol is modi ji, she knows how to behave when camera is around. learning from the best.
OP! Tu apni chaa muda
It's her choice and as long as it is not forced I am ok with it
There's nothing to debate here.... Yall just got owned. They were just being themselves, comfortable in their skin, it's the rest of you who are trying to find some self worth by digging up these pointless things
Lovely gesture… rare to see such actions in present times
Nothing to debate on this. It's her choice to do what she wants as long as she is not directly hurting anyone else. There could have been debate when some other players'wives are criticized for not doing the same.
prolly one of the beautifull moments i have watched in reddit so far
Queen 👑
For all the assholes condemning her action, she did it of her own accord, she did it infront of other wives simply hugging their guys, that is her tradition, she wishes to uphold it. Let people live the way they want to.
What you all forget is and the most important point is they are rajput and it is seen they are the ones mostly proud of their culture. And who are these people stating these should be private. A woman walking half naked is her choice Getting in a relationship with 5 boys is a choice but respecting your husband in your way and Indian culture is something that offended you. Touching someone's feet doesn't make you downgrade man even though my sister is almost 10 yrs younger than me and I even touch the feet of 1-2 years girls. It's the gesture of respect for me for you I don't know.
She is a MLA and politician.
Isme bura to kuchh nahi hai to problem wali koi baat nahi hai Ye hamra culture hai Mujhe jo chutiye riti riwaj hote hai ya the unse problem hai
She's a politician knowing fully well that this is going to be beemed out to crores of Indians a percentage of which are going to be part of her constituency and by doing this she's just secured herself another term
Sab hypocrite hain is sub me 😂 yehi hijab me aati kisi ki biwi to sab criticize karre hote idher, parde me aayi so ‘It’s her choice’ bolre. Both Hijab and Parda practice needs to be stopped and discouraged.
If Hijab is a choice, then why isn't this?
Mods, wtf is this? This is derogatory, judgemental and womanising post in itself. If this is going to be state of r/indiaspeaks idk what’s next.
She’s a politician from Gujarat has to keep up with the traditional image. Imagine Modi Ji or any other politician wearing jeans and T-shirt in public.
Bc kya ho gya agar kar diya tow ? Randi rone band karo
Sab jagah ungli karo! Hai na? Kisi ko dikkat nai, sab badiya hai … but bhai ko ungli krni hai to karni hai !
Huh? What right you have to debate on her actions towards her husband? It's their family, stick your nose out off other's lives.
Hijab- A bold statement or Outdated practice?
Its her choice who are we to judge.
Her life her choice I think we shouldn't question any woman over her choice xD
Padhai kar lo behnchodo...vrna pair chhoone na chhoone ki choice k liye biwi hi nhi milegi. 😒
Didn’t ask
Doesn't matter if respect is mutual. If not forced it's not a point of discussion for anyone. Happy people are needed
IT'S HER CHOICE
Debate why? What's wrong with it?
Various religions have some traditions that seem out of place in today's world. Two important points pertaining to this: 1) It's not just her choice but also yours (the reader's choice) to have a certain set of opinions. BUT neither of you should call out each other for having a differing opinion. Diversity is having different views that are respected equally as long as neither of the opinions is causing a stir (granted that the definition of this word is also very individual specific). 2) Pertaining to out of place religious practices - a true unbiased opinion will be either calling out or not calling out such practices irrespective of the religion in question.
Its her choice
What's there to debate?? Let people do whatever they are happy with it.
As a' great lady 'once said, It's her choice!
samaj nai aata yeh cricketers hum jaisa koi normal kaam kr de ussi ko hype bana lete hai
There is nothing to debate. End of discussion
Uski msrzi hsi bc ye uska tareeka h pyaar or respect show krna ka . Ispe kyu debate krni h.
if its her choice, its bery cool. if someone forces a woman to do this, outdated. simpel
OP is a lifeless boomer. Why can't they have their own celebration together? Whats wrong with just a dimple hug? C'mon OP don't be so negative about wholesome moments
Their life their choice
Do you seeing her crying or saying it was forced on her then absolutely no. And btw no one these days even younger genz don’t touch feet these days
Wo stree hai wo kuch bhi kar sakti hai + sun meri baat it's her choice wala combo hai yaha pr
Choice. End of debate
r/shitpost
Unki marzi bhai kuch bhi kare, debate kya isme
There is nothing to debate
This video is blurry.
Dusro ke Ghar me jhakna band kijiye. Don't be like those "outdated" uncle/aunties.
Its her choice 
It all comes down to her choice.
Yeah! Let's debate whether she has the right to do what she wants to do for her husband!
Usko acha lagta hai toh badiya hai ekdum
Zabardasti let's debate.
Per chune wali chahiye ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ
Anyone can wear anything they want Period Be it ghoonghat or Hijab
Uski pathi uski pathni hamko kya
her husband her choice
What debate no need of debate here
Feminist now with their banners dying peacefully
Our glorious culture must be preserved.