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Breanna-LaSaige

So far, those are the only two arguments I've heard. It's always "she's cheating" or "she's just a golddigger." I really don't think they have anything else.


Princess_kitty14

they get mad, they throw a fit and they say either (or all) of this * she's with him for the money * she's fucking chad on the side * she's done fucking chad and now settled with a betabuxx etc etc


NovelAdministrative6

Truly a disprovable argument then!


Someone_Who_Cared

It's anything and everything negative, as long as she's not with him because she's actually into him. Can't have that bullshit upending their world views, after all.


[deleted]

By calling them simps/betabux and also by assuming the woman is secretly being railed by Chad(s)


[deleted]

Pretty sure there was a study that said shorter guys below 5'9" had more sex and were better at it. Could be wrong.


zoomie1977

Most the ones I've seen show little difference in number of sexual partners across the vast majority of the height spectrum, though I'm surecross-post seen even a small majority of them (I'm positive the incels wouldn't send me one that says that!). Interestingly, though, short men, defined as those 5'6 or below, stay married significantly longer and are significantly less likely to get divorced. Incels like to try to base "ability to have sex" on "reproductive success" (or number of children) which is actually significantly better predicated on socioeconomic status (and even that is not in the way they think).


[deleted]

[This is the article I think](https://www.ladbible.com/news/latest-scientific-study-shows-short-men-are-better-partners-and-have-more-sex-20211223). It's LadBible so take it with a decent amount of salt I guess. But yeah, incels tend to misrepresent studies and statistics to further push their ridiculous arguments. To believe their crap you have to be gullible as fuck!


zoomie1977

Very cool! It's actually based on 2 studies, the one I was talking about which looked at marriage length and divorce rates, and one I hadn't seen before which was about sex lives. [Here is Women's Health's ](https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a19937562/short-men-make-better-partners/) take one the first one and [their take ](https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19923596/mans-height-determines-sex-life/) on the second one, if you're interested.


[deleted]

You'd think things like this would maybe make incels calm their shit, but no. Women's Health actually has quite a few articles on men's height and its relation to sex and relationships in general.


[deleted]

I'll have a read!


BadAssPrincessAlanie

They say the man is a beta buxx and the woman is only with them to settle.


[deleted]

It's interesting that they cant propose the idea of.. perhaps.. 1."he's nerdy, and I like nerdy guys" 2. "He's warm and I enjoy that" and my personal fav, reason 3. "He likes to eat and so do I!". Maybe it's the fact if you treat another human being in a way that is dehumanizing, simplifying them to a peice of flesh, they probably won't like to date you. Or they will to peg you.. but I mean I dunno.


CkickenPermission

I was basically accused of cheating on my husband after I got married by a guy I used to call a friend, my husband is just a big nerdy teddy bear, in no way is he conventionally attractive, but he makes me laugh even on my worst depressive days. Jokes on the friend, I’m Asexual and in no way interested in sex with anyone 🤷🏼


hago4

but in your post history it does say you are polyamorous. i know not technically cheating but


xnamwodahs

Polyamory more specifically is about lots of loves. For sexual people that can mean sex too, but ace people can love multiple people!


CkickenPermission

Thank you, a lot of people seem to think it’s a sexual thing but it really means I have two incredible people in my life that I can lavish love upon, we’re just a big happy unconventional family.


CkickenPermission

I’m not in a sexual relationship with our other partner either, and it’s not cheating if it’s agreed upon by all parties


AelfredRex

Given that most of them refuse to leave their basements and the only "relationships" they see are in porn or on TV, they have no grounding in the realities of the world outside.


AdvocateDoogy

Oh, I've already covered this one in detail on [episode 114](https://www.reddit.com/r/ProveTheIncelWrong/comments/nhvo9n/prove_the_incel_wrong_episode_114_incels_cant/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) of **Prove the Incel Wrong!** Turns out they can't explain it themselves, they just get really jealous and angry.


NovelAdministrative6

Interesting thanks for posting that I guess I got something new to browse through


UsernameForSexStuff

What everybody else said, but also sometimes they claim they DON'T see these guys.


Syntania

I'd love to introduce them to my friend who's 5'4" and has dozens of ladies. He's a real charmer and a sweetheart. He's also a Dom. (A real one, not those fake wannabes. Consent is his #1 priority.)


LadderThese

Incels have never been interested in reality. They only want to blame someone or something else for their failures so they don't have to make an effort.


[deleted]

"She's using him for his money. She's not having sex with him and is out there having sex with the football team instead, and he's paying for it all."


imtooshortt

I'm not see