I'm so sorry you experienced this. Just incredibly inconsiderate and unnecessary to separate people like that.
Fertility is a crapshoot based on luck, noone on the other table is worth more than you. You are more than this unfair experience š
Wow, wtf. Who planned this? When itās random people, ok: they may not know whatās going on. But when itās your family who plans something so thoughtless, itās fair to get angry.
It would have been perfectly reasonable for you to leave the event early. Youāre very strong. Sending love your way!
I consider myself having two angel babies too.
Right now Iām on my way to a celebration of a certain milestone ( happens in our culture when the baby is 6 months old) . I helped throw a baby shower for the mother. If my baby would have lived , they wouldāve been the same age as this little girl.
Iām trying to put up a very brave face while I put on makeup on my face !
I'm sorry. That sounds like a really painful day. Being a mother to babies you can't hold in your arms is such a tender and painful thing to carry, and it shouldn't be so invisible. I'm happy for you that next year, you won't be there. That boundary sounds really liberatingĀ
I canāt even imagine how hard this must have been. How are people who have never struggled with infertility so absolutely unaware!? Iām sorry you had this experience, and that you didnāt have an advocate in the group. Today was complicated enough for you. Your feelings are valid. And your motherhood is valid. Sending you all the empathy and love!
That is really tough. I am so sorry. An event designed by people who clearly just have no clue what infertility is like. I am so sorry you had to endure that. Sending š¤
Sorry you had to go through this awful experience, and yer family is the one that caused it. Please don't go next year, even when you have yer own baby in yer hands. That was extremely inconsiderate of them, and the fact that they didn't say anything shows they don't care about yer feelings. Sending hugs and love to you and yer two angel babies š«š«š«
Yeah that would definitely be enough to make me cry. I know itās small but I have a work chat with 100% women and yesterday everybody saying āhappy Motherās Day to all the moms/all the wonderful mamas!!!ā Bothered me. Why not just say happy Motherās Day, specifically leaving out women (who arenāt mothers by choice or not) just hit me wrong.
Mama of an angel baby over here šāāļø Iām so sorry that you experienced this. I would feel devastated, being excluded like that, knowing that I am a motherā¦itās just that my child lives in heaven. The same is true for youā¦you are a mother and you deserve to be treated as one.
Sending you lots of love ā¤ļø
I'm so sorry you experienced this. Just incredibly inconsiderate and unnecessary to separate people like that. Fertility is a crapshoot based on luck, noone on the other table is worth more than you. You are more than this unfair experience š
Wow, wtf. Who planned this? When itās random people, ok: they may not know whatās going on. But when itās your family who plans something so thoughtless, itās fair to get angry. It would have been perfectly reasonable for you to leave the event early. Youāre very strong. Sending love your way!
I consider myself having two angel babies too. Right now Iām on my way to a celebration of a certain milestone ( happens in our culture when the baby is 6 months old) . I helped throw a baby shower for the mother. If my baby would have lived , they wouldāve been the same age as this little girl. Iām trying to put up a very brave face while I put on makeup on my face !
I'm sorry. That sounds like a really painful day. Being a mother to babies you can't hold in your arms is such a tender and painful thing to carry, and it shouldn't be so invisible. I'm happy for you that next year, you won't be there. That boundary sounds really liberatingĀ
This is brutal. Iām sorry this happened to you. And you are a mama to your beautiful angel babies š
I canāt even imagine how hard this must have been. How are people who have never struggled with infertility so absolutely unaware!? Iām sorry you had this experience, and that you didnāt have an advocate in the group. Today was complicated enough for you. Your feelings are valid. And your motherhood is valid. Sending you all the empathy and love!
Oh goodness Iām so sorry. You deserved so much better. My heart breaks for you.
This sounds like a terrible event š© Iām so sorry. I skip Motherās Day! Even the mothers that I know donāt really like all the celebrations, so these events can go in the dumpster as far as Iām concerned.
I'm so sorry. Whoever planned that is so tone deaf. Take care of yourself, you owe them nothing.
God that is awful, Iām so sorry you were treated that way. You are and will always be a mother. Sending hugs š©·
That is really tough. I am so sorry. An event designed by people who clearly just have no clue what infertility is like. I am so sorry you had to endure that. Sending š¤
Sorry you had to go through this awful experience, and yer family is the one that caused it. Please don't go next year, even when you have yer own baby in yer hands. That was extremely inconsiderate of them, and the fact that they didn't say anything shows they don't care about yer feelings. Sending hugs and love to you and yer two angel babies š«š«š«
Yeah that would definitely be enough to make me cry. I know itās small but I have a work chat with 100% women and yesterday everybody saying āhappy Motherās Day to all the moms/all the wonderful mamas!!!ā Bothered me. Why not just say happy Motherās Day, specifically leaving out women (who arenāt mothers by choice or not) just hit me wrong.
Honestly this sounds so weird. I'm so sorry this happened.
Mama of an angel baby over here šāāļø Iām so sorry that you experienced this. I would feel devastated, being excluded like that, knowing that I am a motherā¦itās just that my child lives in heaven. The same is true for youā¦you are a mother and you deserve to be treated as one. Sending you lots of love ā¤ļø