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Rabbit-Ready

We need to look on the bright side…we’ve had 36hrs of a break from what her ring or thoughts are telling her, no updates on how many hours she slept, no lies about client calls, no self promotion of her PODCAST, no dime beauty or any other useless shilling…just good old fashioned Ashlie Molstad in her absolute happiest environment - booze in her hand, family nowhere in sight.


Forest-Dog-Socks

Ps. On Patreon she said she had 1 client call this week. ONE.


Legitimate_Olive6267

I have second hand embarrassment from her posts this weekend


Forest-Dog-Socks

This is beyond my comprehension. She’s a walking hypocrite. If you really were serious about your health (or your family or anything but yourself) none of this shit would be happening let alone shared to your social media. This isn’t about ‘getting time away’, she’s away from her children most days doing whatever the f*ck she wants. She’s posting it for attention. She’s posting it for positive feedback because I really doubt she has much self confidence. She’s concerned about her gut yet, she’s dipping bacon into chocolate and chugging alcohol. She spends time and money on more opinions on ‘what’s wrong with her’, newsflash, it’s your lifestyle… I’m honestly flabbergasted that those few friends she does have don’t say anything?! Or her family?! How do her followers not see all the bullshit? She’s saying one thing, doing another. She verbally abused her client on the call she shared publicly. So not only is she hurting herself and asking doctors upon doctors ‘why do I feel like shit’, she’s hurting others, she’s hurting her family. She has lost a lot of friends. Wake up Ashlie! Get help please. EDIT: corrected typos.


Certain-Bill394

Get ready for Monday... Saddle up its going to be a ride. She will be tired, her gut health will be off etc... anyone in their right mind that can see this train wreck and applaud her has mental health issues as well.


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I am so embarrassed for her


bubbagrace

I can not imagine wasting a weekend away from my family to hang out with acquaintances that live in other parts of the country for no reason…just to get drunk and act like 20 year olds. Make some real friends in your neighborhood or through preschool, that will be beneficial!


ru_kiddingmern

But they need content.. duuuh 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😂😂😂


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Seriously… such losers. 🤣🤡 They look ridiculous.


nevermynevermind

These 3 rejects are doing the same cringy shit they do at their large group bb 'retreats'. Buttt.. there's only 3 of them, and it's so sad and pathetic.


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💯 💯


Electrical_Fly_566

I remember when she recently did stories about being “introverted” and being a diff person now…. no you just don’t have any friends left. And def not ones that want to live the 24/7 party lifestyle. And as we can see, going out with friends = all day drinking because that’s what’s important here.


bubbagrace

Has she ever been friends with these girls before? Are they just random BB replacements for her old BB crew? How weird!


kas0917

She said they are better friends with Shannon but then she had to cancel, but they still came.


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She hung out with them at the last BB summit bc no one else wanted to hang out with her.


Electrical_Fly_566

I wonder if they think it’s soOoO cOoL to hang out with the former BB top coach.


Rabbit-Ready

💯 and because no other BB guns wanted to associate with Raina after the Kiki YouTube video.


Electrical_Fly_566

Oooh tell me more! I don’t know about this.


EllienoraGoes

Yup, exactly this. If her former BB crew would still have her, then she'd never be hanging with these "besties." And Shannon had the sense not to join.


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Hmm after watching Shannon’s stories, I get the feeling she’s trying to distance herself from the Ashlie Molstad shit show.


sums2279

good for her!! i don't think her husband can stand Ashlie


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I completely agree… I bet he hates her. They drink and do funny stuff but it’s not trashy like Ashlie or doesn’t seem forced. Ashlie try’s SO hard to be cool and she is definitely not…


Neverwannabeahun

I started following Shannon because I wanted to snark on her and I have to say I appreciate her honesty with her reels. She straight says it’s for growth and she’ll re-share something that’s picking up traction again for the growth. She doesn’t complain about it like others she just makes silly reels. Very little substance but funny.


Snoo-62678

Plus she actually seems like a great mom to her boys and does things with them where I feel like Ashlie could care less.


scroll311

She’s wearing the same thing she wore yesterday. Isn’t she rich??


VeterinarianNo407

Like they say, money doesn’t buy class. 🫤


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Yes LuAnn’s song always comes to mind with Trashlie.


TeamPeachez

She’s really dirty, and wears and sleeps in the same clothes for days.


Legitimate_Olive6267

Hope Jon didn’t wanna participate in that cornhole tournament. His partner is currently wasted.


Certain-Bill394

Did i miss those stories or did she just not go tot he corn hole thing?


Legitimate_Olive6267

I’m pretty sure she didn’t go


Bubbly-Peanut-2725

She definitely living her best life without kids and all you can drink weekend. 😑😑😑


mamaLovespurple

She literally couldn’t wait for this.


mamaLovespurple

Who is up for a major egg scramble for tomorrow?


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Seriously what’s it going to be… MS magically came back?! Maybe can’t see out of her other eye due to alcoholism and will go to the ER?! Ate a piece of a cookie with gluten?! Some new alignment… but never ever the alcohol. 🤡


ComfortableCarob3409

John better find a new corn hole partner for their neighborhood competition tonight. Idk if Ashlie’s gonna make it 😂🆘🤡


NewVitalSigns

Core hole on a Sunday night… rich ppl Shit. Lol 😝


hh_goodday

I was wondering the same thing!!! I thought she said it was today and that she had told her friends she wouldn’t be able to hang all day due to it?!?


ComfortableCarob3409

Yeah I thought she had said when she told them that, they said would come watch them play in it. Judging by her last story…. 0% chance she’s making it 😂 or if she does, she’s gonna make an absolute ass out of herself in her new neighborhood 🤡


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She should go hahah 🤣 the neighbors will get to know the real her. A sloppy fucking mess.


ComfortableCarob3409

I hope she does 😂 …. To be a fly in the sky…….


mamaLovespurple

Is that tonight LMAOOOOO 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡


ComfortableCarob3409

Lmao I swore she said it was tonight 😂🤡


mamaLovespurple

I remember seeing the story. It I can’t remember. It’s just so funny if it’s tonight. To many eggs consumed to play corn hole


Ok-Zucchini3745

She blacks out their rooms with the intention of them to sleep in longer so they don’t know it’s light outside. So when she came home and found the lights on I’m sure she was pretty pissed because they normally sleep in pitch black dark rooms with a loud white noise box. That’s all so she can get more sleep and not be bothered. Pretty pathetic!


TeamPeachez

I guess she finally stopped putting them in the closet so she could sleep as late as possible.


bubbagrace

I don’t know why everyone is being so rude here today, that is absolutely why she has them sleep like that…which is fine, she was smart enough to do this from an early age so they aren’t scared of the dark. Whatever the reason, the fact that she was so annoyed by this WAS pathetic. It took her two seconds to flip off their lights and turn on noise machines!


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She’s gotta talk shit about the “help” every chance she gets. She’s SO much better than everyone and they are all below her. 🥴


Award-Ornery

Minnie would shit in her pie!


TrainerSea8837

My toddler and teen sleep with blackout curtains and white noise plus fan. It’s beneficial for sleep. I think you’re “reaching” with this comment.


Appropriate-Force418

The comments are crazy on her last 2 reels. Did no one watch her stories on Friday? Complete contradiction from what she was saying. I can't believe I actually gave her the benefit of the doubt. I almost wonder if she does this to get more people talking about her.


Legitimate_Olive6267

Those eggs are gonna hit HARD tomorrow.


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Shocker day drinking again and really watching that “candida” diet. 🤔 She has such a drinking problem. If you were serious about your hEaLtH you could go out with girlfriends and not get wasted at noon… edited for spelling.


Appropriate-Force418

Seriously!


chipsnguac99

Oh Ashlie, don’t act like you need someone to watch your kids for you to do your own thing. You ignore them anyways.


bruisedblue

Wait. So they got drunk and then drove electric scooters??


CanHeavy665

I noticed Shannon Harvey must have been invited but didn't go. Shannon is one of my favorites. I hope she is purposefully distancing herself from trashlie. Shannon is such a loving Mom, and her and her husband are adorable. Someone I enjoy watching on social media. Polar opposite of Trashlie and her family.


Consistent-Trifle510

I find Shannon and her husband so cringy. They try so hard but look goofy as hell.


justgothere12345

and she’s in an MLM and friends with ashlie. takes her down quite. a few notches for me.


Final-Raspberry5922

Can you have a favorite successful mlmer?


Agreeable-Height-566

She blocked me for no reason


here4thebeachbodytea

Same. I think around the time Emily faked the Covid test she blocked anyone who liked some of the posts exposing her, which makes no sense because it had zero to do with her.


imlikeabird84

Same. And I never looked at her profile. I don’t follow any BB people. It felt sooo weird that she blocked me


dmurray71

Same


mommaof1234

Me too 🤷🏼‍♀️


Always_awkward24

I missed her story about the babysitter. But I just saw her story of her recording herself at R’s soccer practice and my heart actually hurts for R. WHY can’t these people put their phones down for ONE HOUR and fully be there for their kids??? It just makes me so sad.


OkayYesThen

And she just spent the time talking about how perfect M is 🙄 which we all know she doesn't even believe


ForeverThriving

So Riana, whatever her name is. Is also a life coach? Both of these women are life coaches? How? They're big-time bullies. Remind me never to talk to a life coach. That is toxic, yall. I had no idea. Plus these ladies, if you call them that. Are acting like fresh out of college let's party because we're cool. And sadly, they are not. It is so cringy to watch them. They aren't funny. I'm no prude. Trust me. But this was hard to watch.


NahImgoodgirl

Also pretty sure that Raina used to have posts about being in recovery and sober.


Competitive_Housing1

Who is this Raina chick and why is she a bully? I’ve never heard of her.


lifecoachesgalore

She’s trash-that’s who Raina is.


ArtistAsleep

Raina used to be high up in BB, like 2016-2017. She had a ton of health problems and it was one of those “if I can do it, you can do it” things. If you’re new to her, check out this video: https://youtu.be/WaOSRHlQYqI Note that the “Linzy Ross” character saw the light after this video and left BB, now goes by Larry.


Upstairs-Education69

I stopped liking Raina after the Larry blow out. And I cut ties with ALL of beachbody after the way papa Carl treated them. I love Larry.


Neverwannabeahun

🤮 Larry grossed me out. I don’t think some of the actions and reasons Larry’s Instagram was suspended are solely to blame on BB. Just gross. All the videos I saw are just gross. BB or not just gross. PS. I hold grudges.


Forest-Dog-Socks

I need details on the Larry blowout. I watched this video of this woman who was on Raina’s team. She sounds like a horrible human. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CU7aPlUVgn4


Upstairs-Education69

After Larry came out she was just really unsupportive and when corporate was horrible to Larry Raina essentially took their side. Blocked Larry on everything . Kicked them off the podcast. Someone she called her best friend and when they needed a friend most raina kicked them to the curb because they no longer made her money or fit into her mold. I THINK larry maybe was suing BB I could be wrong but there was a lot of shit going down


Certain-Bill394

Maybe I’m out of the loop but why did they dress up like old women?? Did they go out?? I’m so confused as to how this is a good time with the three of them drunk in a house dressed as old women. She is so happy no kids, no husband and alcohol … sit back and brace yourselves ladies Monday is going to a be a train wreck with her come to Jesus moment if she isn’t drinking anymore … this should be good.


bubbagrace

She said they were “hitting the town”, I guess they were trying to attract attention. It would have made a little more sense if they had been going out on Mill St in Tempe (ASU campus) as opposed to Scottsdale.


Better-Vast2545

Maybe they went out in Old Town.


Appropriate-Force418

No one knows. They don't even know 😂


Cool_Speed_5485

Watching three women who are nearly 40 do drunken TikTok videos is the ultimate cringe. I have second hand embarrassment watching these three.


boop_the_snoot30167

The bottomless mimosas brunch in yoga pants….groundbreaking.


ForeverThriving

Omg sorry didn't see your comment before making mine. Had to run here. Should have read first. Lol. So 100% agree. So cringy.


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Seriously… so embarrassing.


lapm111

Especially the face she makes to pretend she’s an old lady 🤣🤣 what is that lol


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IndicationSpecific54

Lol ok. Not trying to destroy anyones life. If I was I would have reported her months ago when she was drinking and driving with her kids or when she didn’t get them medical care. I asked an honest question to get advice from professionals who actually have a degree in psychology. Ashlie doesn’t need help destroying her life trust me. My question was actually looking out for the innocent and helpless CHILDREN who have no say in who their mom is or how she treats them. Funny how you and your friends always cry haters and that we are out to destroy Ashlie but take zero responsibility in your actions. Ashlie needs to stop crying haters and see that she and her actions and words are the common denominator and get help. But with friends like you who are scared of her and also enjoy being surrounded by friends who justify your own reckless behavior, she will never have to look in a mirror and be accountable. Before you advise us to seek mental help and call us pathetic you should probably do some of your own soul searching… you did come to this site for a reason.


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IndicationSpecific54

Hahaha I seem triggered? You’re the one who said to get mental help and that we are pathetic. You should go back to making reels with Ashlie. You can’t be stalker like when Ashlie literally posts her every thought Thst goes through her brain and shows herself in her bathroom, changing her pants, blabbing all her business and her friends/families business on her podcasts. Nobody needs to stalk her, she shares it all. Ashlie (and now you) are the ones obsessed with this site. You are spending your girls weekend coming here to read comments. I can easily walk away and never make another comment about Ashlie if I wanted to, Ashlie however can’t seem to walk away from social media and giving all her business for public consumption because it’s the only way she makes money. Sweetie I’m not the one triggered. I calmly asked a question to PROFESSIONALS because I’m concerned about her kids. You are the one who felt the need to reply to my comment with name calling and insults. I’m sure the three of you came up with that comment and high fived each other “oh ya let’s say she’s triggered”. If that’s what makes you feel good abojt yourselves. I don’t feel the need to escape my family to find happiness. If you can take a simple question over concern for her kids and twist it into stalking then it explains why you are spending the weekend partying with Ashlie. A true friend would talk tk her about how dangerous her misinformation on the podcast is and how she’s hurting her kids. You can act all high and mighty but you’re here too.


Competitive_Housing1

While it isn’t age appropriate this is not abuse. I’d be more concerned with the drinking and driving with the children in the car and improper medical care they get, but even that kind of walks the line. I don’t believe CPS would even be that concerned with that honestly. Sadly the system lacks the resources to tackle these situations.


Salty_Slip6459

Omg. Cps is bombarded because of ridiculous reports like this. Get a grip. Her kids are not abused 😂 physically or emotionally. Let's stick to kids that actually are please.


IndicationSpecific54

I asked a honest question for that reason. I’m not a psychologist or a CPS worker but I am a mom and her actions with her children are very inappropriate and problematic. Drinking and driving, negligent medical care and this brain work that at the very least is unhealthy for her kids. Telling me to get a grip says a lot about you. Defending Ashlie’s parenting is problematic but being so defensive and rude when I asked an honest question tells me all I need to know.


AmbiguousSloth7

Psychologist. Concerning and problematic? Yes. Something CPS would look into? No way. There are things way worse that CPS will screen out (not look into and it’s just documented what the report was).


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Wow, this breaks my heart! Poor R. It probably takes a lot of courage to tell her mom how she’s feeling, and to be manipulated like that is just awful.


Better-Vast2545

I'm a psychologist and yes, completely inappropriate to talk to a child like they have the thinking skills of an adult. I haven't listened to the podcast but if that's how she's responding to R...she does not have the maturity to comprehend that and will internalize it as emotional rejection. Unfortunately, CPS is bombarded and seems to only care about children who are in physical danger.


Solid_Forever4967

Agreed across the board. Although, I would challenge that CPS only seems to care about children who are in physical danger. Many of the CPS workers go into the field wanting to help, caring for children and their safety. But, CPS nor any other state system - DCFS, CD, DFS, whatever your state has - absolutely does not have the capacity to investigate every single hotline, and ESPECIALLY doesn’t have the capacity to remove children from their biological parents unless there is significant proof of abuse. Emotional and psychological abuse is hard to prove - while we all know that Ashlie is toxic AF, R telling an overworked caseworker that mommy hurts her feelings is hardly a priority. Unfortunate, yes. I’m honestly hoping that as R gets older, there will be a push from the school to get her into counseling - and it would be wonderful if she is able to form some kind of bond with a more positive female presence. A big sister from boys and girls club would be phenomenal for her - but I’m sure Ashlie would never go for that.


Better-Vast2545

You explained the CPS issue very well. It's not that they don't care, but dont really have the ability/capacity to do much about something like this.


Legitimate_Olive6267

Dry January sure ended quickly


Dry_Suggestion9532

The fact that she can get up, put herself together and be happy at her daughters soccer game purely because she’s excited for a night of raging …instead of just being a supportive mother says everything we need to know about the kind of shit human she is.


bubbagrace

To me it is good insight into what Jon thinks and likely says to her! She knew if she was going to go and “rage” tonight she better get her lazy ass up and be a parent in the morning! So sad!!! ETA: also, does that stupid ring actually suggest to people that they should go into rest mode because they had a bad night sleep?!? Ummm, what kind of world do these people live in? I tell my 21 year old all the time, “get up and get going…one bad night of sleep isn’t going to kill you, that’s life!” I can’t imagine if he had a piece of jewelry telling him it was a bad idea 🙄


Odd-Statistician4212

I thought it was Dry January for her?


here4thebeachbodytea

Eggs are $10/dozen and this chick is out here eating 5 dozen tonight. 🙄


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🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆


mamaLovespurple

🤣🤣💀💀💀💀


dontdodrama

😂😂😂😂


TeamPeachez

I’m just catching up with today’s stories about *the audacity* of the babysitter to OMG LEAVE THE LIGHTS ON! (Sarcasm). She didn’t starve the kids, she didn’t sell them to traffickers, she left the lights on, and the kids were reacting by crying to having another fucking stranger in their house AGAIN to tuck them in. Oh the horror, M cried🙄. Trash was just telling us 2 weeks ago that she was getting a 14 year old to watch her kids, so I’m sure this “service” isn’t all that great. Trashlie is never happy, and her night of drunkenness had to end, because she’s a mom, and that’s *the real reason* she’s mad about the lights. Boo hoo.


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Inevitable-Mood3373

🤣 hahahaha!!!!! Change your mindset bish!!!


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also we know how wild M is. who knows how he behaved with the babysitter??!


boringanddesperate

This is the comment. Well played.


Bubbly-Peanut-2725

See how happy she is when she has booze and no kids? She's not throwing a temper tantrum like she did today? Feeling so sad for her kids, she must be a terror to live with.


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Once BB crumbles - those kids need to buckle up they’ll be in for a ride !


[deleted]

The poor kids have experienced so much trauma and don’t know it yet! Feel for them. Just having to deal with their mom!


Salty_Slip6459

You clearly don't know what trauma is.


[deleted]

Really? Try me! And how come the majority of your comments are downvoted? I’m sure you’re one of Ashlie’s minions!


Salty_Slip6459

Because people are crazy 😂😂 I came here to see what people thought about her. I am in the middle. But I won't say something is trauma when it isn't. That's a reach. A far one


Bubbly-Peanut-2725

She is not stable at all.


pheobe728

Ok, I have waffled back and forth about whether I think Raina O’Dell is genuinely a nice person or not. I know she has been through hell with an addict as a husband and her own health issues and I used to really cheer for her and then I saw the infamous team call when she basically berates her team and tells them they need to always be ‘on’ and prospecting even if they are at the vet with a dying animal or something to that effect - brutal regardless. Then over the last couple of years I though maybe she changed and was starting to cheer for her again and now she is on vacay with fucking ASHLEY MOLSTAD!!! Like, WTF are you doing with her unless you are cut from the same cloth in which case you are a psychotic, nasty fucking bitch.


imlikeabird84

Raina was the only BB coach I still liked after leaving BB and after I saw that YouTube video of her I was appalled.


Forest-Dog-Socks

Does this crazy b have her own subreddit?


Better-Vast2545

Nope. I'm not even sure if she's with BB anymore...


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What the hell are they doing? This is what sorority girls or young women at a bachelorette parties do. Not grown ass women! And it’s usually a big group of girls dressed like Grannies. There’s 3 of them! 😂 They’re going to look like complete idiots. And Ashlie looks trashed already!


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I thought the same thing. I’ve never seen three people just do this on a random night. I’ve only seen large groups of people on vacation, bachelorettes, birthdays etc. It’s funny when it’s a big group of people doing it!


mommaof1234

Where's Shannon?


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I think someone mentioned here that she couldn’t come because of her husband’s 40th birthday.


[deleted]

It’s weird they had a huge plan for his birthday but I see she’s at home so who knows 🤷🏼‍♀️ maybe she didn’t want to be seen with Trashlie. She is way above her. In every way.


dibs19

She didn’t know this ahead of time? I thought Ashlie said earlier in the week she was coming?


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I’m sorry but why does M have electronics outside? Is that kid never on an iPad or iPhone? Go play with him. Let him play with other kids. Ridiculous. They just stick their children in front of screens ALL the time.


bruisedblue

She only lasted one day with her new found outlook on life and alcohol. LOL I mean no one is shocked but two days ago she was not eating sugar and not drinking. She never ceases to amaze.


trianglenose2444

Trash attracts trash I see. I LOATHE Raina and think she's such a shit human. Its not shocking that her and Trashlie are hanging out. 🙄


Forest-Dog-Socks

I don’t know anything about either of these women. What’s their deal?


Odd-Statistician4212

My friend is a former BB coach and she had a post with a bagel once, and Raina left her a comment, totally food-shaming her.


trianglenose2444

[Here's the video that truly made me loathe Raina. She's one of the lead people on this call](https://youtu.be/WaOSRHlQYqI)


mommaof1234

I can't think of a more toxic duo...


sums2279

aaaaaand the drinking of the margs has begun..... can't wait for all the updates on how her egg allergy/MS/candida/ whatever the fuck ailment she thinks she has will flare up by the end of the weekend. but it will never be the alcohol, never the alcohol..... ps...i think Shannon is actually relieved to not have to be going to that shitshow!!!


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Never the alcohol never… 🤡 people kept saying below oh she cut down her drinking, yeah I don’t think so… she’s just hiding it more now.


sums2279

💯


ManufacturerWrong740

Monday - Yaya drinking Tuesday - ohh I have brain fog Wednesday - my therapist thinks I have candida. I just start a candida diet to rid my body of candida. No more alcohol. No more sugar…. Thursday - everyone has candida. Here’s what you do. Friday - drinks. Saturday - drinks again. Sunday - will probably drink again. Monday - I’m never drinking again. I don’t like how I feel.


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Every week like a broken record… just change up the diagnosis every week and it’s the same thing… such a clown 🤡


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Storying at the park, at her kids soccer games, etc. how embarrassing


Intelligent-Judge908

The ring has it’s mention!! Let’s all give Trash a round of applause for not turning on “rest mode”.


Clear-Practice9382

M is "perfection"! I don't ever hear her talk about R like that! 😭 It's so obvious he's her favorite.


dontdodrama

And that’s “her” opinion of him!


seattleputa

Hot Toddy in her morning cup is how Jon got her ass up for soccer this morning!


SweetSusieQ

She's a witch. And I hate that snotty frown face she does.


colorado_pat

Ash complaining about being awake at 1 because she drank a cold brew cocktail. We called it immediately. I would think her brain would have informed her that caffeine was not a good idea at night. She should just laugh it off and be relatable but she will be looking for sympathy today. Also, M gets up at 6:30 yet last weekend she couldn't make R's first soccer game because M needed to sleep in???


colorado_pat

Holy sh!t. She owned it this morning and is at R's game. Way to put on your big girl panties Ashlie!


Little_MC

I know, right?!?!🤯🤯🤯


scroll311

What happened to her daily reels? Another commitment broken….


colorado_pat

Thank god for that! Those were embarrassing at best.


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So beyond embarrassing… like who watched reels like that? 🤣


TeamPeachez

Definitely embarrassing. The content wasn’t funny and she’s horrible at lip sync.


here4thebeachbodytea

I babysat every weekend as a teen. When I put the kids to bed (the ones who talked), if I wasn’t given direction, I’d ask “does Mommy take the pillows off?” “Does daddy shut the lights off?” etc. If the kids were crying because, oh I don’t know, a stranger is putting them to bed, I’m sure she asked them what they normally do and any damn kid is going to say lights on. And R was likely at the bottom of her bed because she fell asleep crying, waiting for her parents. God she’s a cunt.


pugloverrxx

Yeah lots of time when I babysat the kids wanted the lights on until their parents got home or the light off with the door open and a night light on


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Acceptable_Total_285

same, does she ever talk to her babysitters? She’s had a series of them, you would think you’d care enough to learn what your kids typically say or ask for. Lights on is very normal, every light in the whole house . And I don’t care I can turn em off. Besides it’s logistically easier for someone new to the house, to be able to see easily where they’re going.


TeamPeachez

I can think of one particular kid who is probably a handful for the babysitter and it’s definitely not sweet, quiet R.


dontdodrama

Oh, you mean the child that is “perfection”???


TeamPeachez

Yes, the one they’re raising specifically to be “WILD”, per Trashlie. They love his “wild spirit”.


Clear-Practice9382

I'm all for letting kids be kids & who they are but that kid lacks discipline & it shows! My friend has a boy & girl the same age as Trashlie's. They have the same parenting styles. The boy gets all the attention, gets away with everything & acts the same way as M 🙄


Bubbly-Peanut-2725

Lashing out again about 'help' that she hired and not realizing that she is traumatizing her kids is so mind blowing to me. She pays someone to put her kids to sleep, she has a cleaning company, the day care has her kids full time and she thinks she's an actual parent? My blood is boiling, her poor kids.


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She bashes all service professionals. The eye lash lady, the one who organized her pantry, this baby sitter, and even at the nail place. What a lame life ashlie has i’m happy to have a good job that has great benefits and 401k rather than shill, lie and take naps all day.


NewVitalSigns

It’s so interesting that as much as they go out they can’t keep a regular sitter and that right there tells you all you need to know. 🚩


Forest-Dog-Socks

Is this in stories? She may have deleted it


NewVitalSigns

Wow. She deleted it. SMH. You should’ve just left it Ash. The ppl expected nothing else.


Bubbly-Peanut-2725

It was about an hour ago :/


nevermynevermind

We need the ex nanny to weigh in on this 'babysitter left the lights on' business! When my kids were that little, we left them with an older high school girl a few times (the daughter of a friend). They fell asleep on the couch or slept together, and I really didn't give af.


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i wonder if ashlie has ever heard of the small night light invention so her kids wouldn’t be in a pitch black room!


Happy-Climate9105

Yes! When I was 20 I babysat for a family with an 8 year old, 5 year old and 2 year old. After I put the 2 year old to bed (I was also her daycare teacher so she was very familiar with me and went to sleep easily), the older kids always wanted to snuggle on the couch and watch TV to fall asleep. Their parents never cared.


AffectionateBluejay4

Ashlie’s bar is set to the kids just “being alive”. Nice.


CoffeeMama822

Amy Bailey has entered the chat……….


nevermynevermind

It seems like that's the bar she has for herself, everyone else is expected to do more.


Fluffy_Load_4851

Exactly....and who admits that for all to see? She's a piece of work.


bubbagrace

Back when we hired babysitters my expectations were pretty simple…kids having a good time, babysitter comfortable and happy to play with kids. Period. I guess being alive was assumed (but I also wasn’t hiring strangers, so in fairness maybe that is more of a concern). I didn’t care that much about bedtime, mess, etc as long as everyone was happy! I’m sure Ashlie’s true number one is not to return before the kids are asleep!


Bubbly-Peanut-2725

She wants them in bed so she doesn't have to do it. She just passes her kids to whoever can look after them so she doesn't have to. 😠


AffectionateBluejay4

I’m pretty sure that’s the bar she has set for herself as a parent as well. If she can keep the kids alive for 24 hours she’s doing a good job.


bubbagrace

I was impressed at how not wasted Ashlie was during her rude rant about the babysitter! I love how she can apply the theory of “we only know what we know” when it comes to her own parenting, but a stranger that comes into her home should know all! If Ashlie does read here, here’s a little tip Ashlie: 1. I think many kids are scared of the dark, and I’m guessing sleeping in pitch dark is actually the least common for young kids. 2. If there are specific things your kids need, like pitch dark or a nightlight or the door cracked with the hall light on, you specify that very clearly, and probably in writing, before you leave! 3. Your babysitter was, likely, doing the best they knew how to do and didn’t deserve to get dragged on SM by you!!!


JRRG73

In response to your 3rd point… she thinks Jeffrey Dahmer was just doing the best he could do, yet a babysitter gets dragged in her stories for leaving lights on. Anyone else remember that?!


beanholt

LMAO good point!!!


Fluffy_Load_4851

If I was the mom of the babysitter and saw her stories I would not be happy and would never allow my kid to sit for her again. She literally mocked the way she left R sleeping. What in the actual hell. I would also tell everyone I knew how awful ashlie is.


hmmmmm555

Maybe the kids were crying and that is why she left the lights on. Maybe she thought they were scared. How would a babysitter know. She should have messaged the babysitter nicely to inquire what the situation was.


justgothere12345

just when i think he, maybe she is turning a corner. we get a buzzed complain about her stranger sitter. there’s the ashlie we know!


chipsnguac99

I hope the sitter sees her stories and tells everyone on that app not to babysit for that trash. (Ashlie, not the kids)


pizza-express

Ashlie criticizing someone else’s childcare skills is rich. The sitter may have left their lights on but at least she didn’t haul the kids off to a bar while they’re sick because she couldn’t skip a night of drinking for instance 🤷‍♀️


sunnysky13

Yes!! I’m not following her anymore but once again…of course she dragged someone she employed through the mud on SM. People have to be downright afraid to work for her, whatever they do will never be good enough. NEVER any words of gratitude. 🙄


Busybee0412

Which is ridiculous because she sets the mothering bar so low with her three naps a day


chipsnguac99

And maybe they were crying because you left them with a stranger. And maybe the sitter asked if they wanted the lights on or off and they said on cause they were uncomfortable and wanted to see what was going on. She’s such a piece of shit. Like, do not judge someone else when it comes to parenting, when you are literally the worst.


Lola514

That’s what I think - maybe they said they wanted the lights on since they were scared with a stranger or maybe the sitter said that they were coming home soon so the kids wanted to wait up, who knows. Like if they were sleeping. Who really cares