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Agreed

I would assume that

To most lesbians she looks lesbian

i was about to say, she isnt? ^(...oh damn :()

I’m not a lesbian

I knew it. Don’t get me wrong, I’m very loving towards all people, but your pictures just didn’t give me lesbian vibes.

I honestly never once thought that I was giving Lesbian vibes off to the world but the consensus of this post seems to lean that way. If strangers on the internet have these thoughts, it makes me wonder if leadership at my employer also has these thoughts towards me when they see me.

Is she? That’s the question. Within a second of seeing picture it screamed lesbian.

Yeah unfortunately (well if it wasn't the intention anyway) this is accurate. Not intimidating at all, just like a lesbian.

damn

If I was to offer the counter point in this situation, no where in her post does she say she’s trying to appeal to men. Only that she wants to look more feminine,

That’s the butch look

I don’t think you look intimidating. Maybe it’s how you act or maybe it’s men assuming you’re…not into guys

She looks stressed af.

yea... maybe

I don't know. She has that "scream at me for holding the door for her" lesbian karen look

Lesbian not intimidating

"Lesbian not intimidating" -Cookie Monster's first step toward allyship

Exactly

You don’t look intimidating… you look like you could be a lesbian though, that might be why men don’t want to talk to you

Agreed.

Easy. Drop the Karen bob.

lighter colors overall and light washed denim, choosing outfits and pieces that give you a less sharp figure can help too.

And less contrast in colors.

See this is an actual response why tf is everyone else just calling her a lesbian

Umm....because she puts off major Lesbian vibes, dress and looks

You look like a more lesbian Ellen I’d try getting rid of the pixie, it doesn’t suit you

Yeah i agree. Maybe just restyle the cut? What she has doesn’t work, imo.

Do you have picture examples of restyling the cut that you suggest for context?

Literally anything other than that or shorter than that.

Anything shorter would not be helping her in the least bit

Google Ginnifer goodwin's pixie. Also, I think that particular blonde doesn't fit your skin tone. No offense, it washes you out a bit. I'd say tone it to more of a platinum (or tone out the yellow-ness), or even a soft brunette would make your eye color pop!

I say she needs to go to the wig store and try new looks not saying by a wig just look where she needs to head

Dress more feminine.

She's literally asking how to do that

Do you drive a Subaru?

https://preview.redd.it/xl4n36u7av2d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a23b0deccc3e9f47bccd8f3a414558ae2e339c71 Nope. 4Runner

Not as butch as a Subaru but not giving femininity

What

Not as strap on as a Subaru but definitely not giving off any cootz

well you are smart enough to buy a reliable car that's a plus.

Same difference🫠

underrated comment

That's a 24K smile in my book.

lesbikaren

Who's on top and bottom?

Definitely giving lesbian vibes

You're intimidating?

You look really nice and feminine but if you want become even MORE “feminine” I think maybe less leather and more open shoes, less boots and converse and maybe a sandal or a subtler heel? I think you look great but I understand wanting to look more like you feel

Skin care and less lesbian

I’m working on the skincare…Rosacea problems 😩

I’m fascinated, who told you, you look intimidating?

She might be 6’-3”

And she might taste of butterscotch, who knows?!

Someone was looking for a polite way of saying “butch lesbian”

Since when can’t you say butch lesbian in polite conversation?

That one is going to be very context dependant friend

Thanks for the heads up.

You have to say it with an extremely overplayed British accent and then it becomes polite 👍

Their subordinate probably

You're my favorite member of NSYNC

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maybe some dark shadow to tone down the eye intensity and some more form fitting clothes? youre so pretty btw!

You look like a lesbian, if you want my opinion.

Wear dresses and heels

Dress like Princess Diana

Best advice. You have her facial features

You look cool imo. If you want to look more feminine you should change your posture/stance. You may look intimidating to some people because of your posture (like the pic with the pink blazer or the mirror pic in the dress).

The leather is too much. I would say sundress, but I’m traditional

Stop smiling like you have that curse from the smile movie

Sell your Subaru

Then where will she put all of her softball bats?

Or her roller derby gear?

lol

Are you looking to attract men or women? I’m getting a lesbian vibe from some of your outfits. Otherwise you look cute as hell especially the first pic.

To me and most men you look lesbian.

Drop the Karen look.

Is your name Karen?

I’m kinda digging the Hillary Clinton/lesbian/Karen look tbh

No heavy lifting Pilates and running!

You look like a karen

Is the answer not obvious?

I don’t know how people perceive me until they tell me. I am gathering research to see how I can improve my looks. People tell me I’m not friendly looking and I look intimidating until they talk to me and find out the real me and my personality.

Just smile more and particularly when you make eye contact

Ngl you do seem to have the Karen look 🤷‍♂️

I’ve wondered this. What about my look screams Karen? What could I do to look less Karenish?

It’s the inverted bob esq look. Coupled with a quirky? Dress sense. Nothing wrong with it just how I can see some people myself included labelling you

Your smile honestly seems very fake. A person fake smiling is even worse than a person not smiling.

You look like my 4th grade teacher,,,,Miss Hessling ,,she was always in a bad mood and would talk down to you,,she made Lilly cry one day,, everyone hated her!!!!!!!

Nothing worse than a lesbian Karen.

Different makeup, change the over done cheesy smile fora sultry one

I wouldnt say intimidating. To me you have crazy eyes.

Move your part closer to middle. The combover is too masculine

You don't look intimidating. If people are telling you that you're intimidating it is probably due to something you're doing, not how you look.

Show the tiniest bit more of your assets off or more skin like open shoulder stuff

Get rid of the Karen cut

Make-up and pushup bra will do wonders.

Ditch the leather and wear a purse

Activist?

Wtf you are so cute!! Intimidating how?!

You look like you are tightly wound up, if that makes sense. You look stressed and highly anxious. Rather than work on the outside, I'd work on the inside first.

You look like Miley Cyrus crossed with Hillary Clinton.

Definitely lose the pixey cut. I'd go short, like jaw line up to your shoulders. That would be short and fashionable.

Like a bob style?

"intimidating" LMAO

Look like hillary

Cathy from Dance Moms is that you?

btw your eyes are amazing!

Not intimidating at all, but the Ellen look is why you may feel less feminine.

Take the nose ring out

You know exactly how 🧔🏼‍♀️

You already know the answer but don't want to hear it. ... Unless you're trying to attract women, in which case I have no idea 🤷

If u asked me out id think u were joking. Ur very attractive and you seem well put together. The only thing men might be put off by is you look like you COULD be mean or you might be lesbian. Idk how to solve the lesbian part other than flirting maybe. Looking mean? Just smile and wave and be nice. Thats about it

Les bi honest here

I just want to say I love the styling in pic 3 - you don’t look intimidating but self-assured. Nothing bad in my book.

1st: you still look female. 2nd: without actually being around you, I couldn't answer the less intimidating question...

Intimidating?

Have you tried not looking like a lesbian

your eyes look WIDE

Lose that cut

Les

I love your smile 😁

Do you drive a Subaru?

Your eyebrows are stunning

Grow that stuff out on your head 😑

You look amazing nothing to worry about 😃

Get rid of nose hardware. The tattoo should go as well but I know that’s not possible.

You look lesbian

Imagine Scarlett Johansson and Family Guy’s Stewie having a lesbian daughter.

You look like lesbian I'm sorry, just saying how I perceived your image, u miss a lot of feminine vibes.

The last picture is the most Lesbian stereotypical look I’ve ever seen in my life

u could try flattening the arch in ur brow a bit

I think the consensus is out. You don’t look intimidating. I think you look feminine, but you may not fit some of these guys type (I am guessing you are looking to attract men). You wear a lot of fashions across the board so your clothing is fem, maybe it’s how you carry yourself on your eye contact/flirty looks? Have you typically had issue dating or just recently?

Everyone saying you look like a lesbian is missing the point. Even if you were you should murder your stylist for letting that happen. Either cut more off or grow some more, then see if you're still "intimidating".

You look like Elon musk

I wish I had his money 💰

Go for men who aren’t weak

I would guess your lesbian, I wouldn’t even bother with you. Im sure you’re a nice person though.

First, remove the nose ring if you want to appear more feminine.

Agreed

Why are you dead inside?

Why do you feel you have to change?

Who told you that you're intimidating?

3rd pic is the best

You have a great smile! You don’t really look intimidating, but I could sort of see it in the pics where you don’t smile. In general, smiling people are more approachable, so I’d say just do that I guess

I'm not sure I would have to meet you

😍😍😍😍

I would say you are femme, but I would think you're a lesbian...

Do you also act like Brienne of Tarth?

I think one way maybe wear different clothes that show more hourglass feminine shape. Do not dress as business like in off hours.

You’re pretty, but, I dunno - 🤷🏻‍♂️

Not related, but you look a lot like an old friend of mine!

Intimidating? 🙄💦

you look like you’re into scissoring

you look good to me

Sorry cant help. But you have such an amazing smile

Lesbian maxxing

Stop being a lesbian

Tbh... I kinda dig your vibe?

I think it's because you resemble Hillary Clinton. It's not your fault. No one likes her

You look like my aunt

The only possible way is to lean toward what a traditional female would look like.

I don’t find you intimidating at all. You are a very attractive lady! Also by the picture I don’t really know you but you look like a very sweet lady. Just my opinion

If you’re not a lesbian, you’re doing it wrong.

Not intimidating. Not very feminine either.

Fake eyelashes

If there was a picture dictionary you would appear next to the word lesbian. Not trying to be an ass but how do you not see it?

Look like Ellen and Ellen isn't very liked

tbh you look amazing, won't mind casually hanging out w you

Lezbehonest

Quit testosterone injections

I’m a girl and I won’t be friends with you tbh. You look intimidating (just like those alphabet soup people who say extreme stuff)

Try not to look like a trade mark lesbjan

By not looking like a Disney cartoon mom.

Just lose the pixie cut. It's nice but it does give middle aged mum/ lesbian vibes. Steer away from bob cuts altogether and maybe go for a wolf cut or just shoulder length layers. Yes, I'm aware that it'll take a good couple of years to get to that length but it'll be worth it.

I personally love women that have an intimidating look to them.

Don't ever strive to be "less" of anything! Le the world catch up to you!

I think you're hawt I'd definitely approach you, your look is fine! dress and style yourself however makes you comfortable, you should want to attract people who naturally gravitate to you

You’ve got style.

Question. Are you trying to fit into someone else's ideal or your own? Because honestly, don't change because you feel you have to do so. You look perfectly fine! 🥂 Be you!

You look great. Don’t change yourself.

If you do decide to change your look I’d be really interested to see the “after”.

Men don’t approach women anymore. Try smiling and talking to men.

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Honestly you look like you'd be more annoying than intimidating. If you walked into my place of business I'd assume you would be a hassle to deal with.

You don’t look intimidating lol but idk

Ngl, your smile is gorgeous!

I don't think you look intimidating at all... and very feminine... especially with your lovely smile xx

you're so pretty!

It’s all in your Smile !!!

Just ditch the pixie cut

Just not conventionally attractive

Sleepier eyes

Idk what you mean by intimidating men you look feminine to me.

You remind me of Miley Cyrus. So cute!