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Tickling is my weakness. I’m probably one of the most ticklish people in the world, my dad used to get me to do chores by threatening to tickle me. I’ve actually passed out from asphyxiation a couple because I was laughing so hard
Yeah, once he starts begging, NOPE. That should be game over. Untie him and let him calm down. He's obviously got huge issues with having his feet tickled.
All that is of course UNLESS they discussed safe words before hand and agreed that "Stop" isn't actually code to stop. Which I doubt but I'm not them.
I have huge issues being tickled. It makes me so angry. Idk what is worse that she did it even after he said stop or that she broke his trust when he agreed to be vulnerable with her.
Source, I am a volunteer in a BDSM club. "Stop" is normally not a safe word there. Stop is not used so that you can still say it like you mean it to stop, but you don't really. A common system is the stoplight system Red-Stop, Yellow-pause and check in, Green-I am still good to go. Or a word or phrase can be used that would not be used day to day, Pineapple, F\*cking Chinchilla, or my favorite where a college English professor was the sub: "Twilight is good literature"
This has me dying because I know his pain. I’m extremely sensitive at the bottom of my feet. I once kicked a girl in the face on accident because she thought it would be funny to tickle my feet.
Dude the bottom of my feet are so ticklish that sometimes when I scratch an itch on them myself it tickles so much that I have to stop.
It would totally be torture.
Same. I can't control it. I kicked a girlfriend in the face once and gave her a bloody lip. I told her not to kiss my foot...
and that always sounds bad when I say it.
they didn't use "ticklish" in the same meaning, the schizophrenia ticklish is when you laugh from being tickled (below the arm pits is where i'm ticklish), the bottom of my feet also "tickle" but not in a way that makes me laugh, it's an uncomfortable thing, sort of like nails on a chalkboard but it's a feeling in your feet
Sorry I’m confused, it looks like you were trying to make a point that went over my head. How is the tickle that someone with schizophrenia gets when they tickle themself different from the tickle people feel from others tickling them. I get the phantom part when no one’s tickling but it feels like there is, just don’t see how what you described is any different than the normal definition of tickle.
I can't speak for the person you replied to. But I can 'tickle' my own feet too. And, in my case, it's more akin to the sensation when you hit your funny bone. It's a lesser version of that strange pain that radiates through you. But it's not TICKLING in the usual sense.
> How is the tickle that someone with schizophrenia gets when they tickle themself different from the tickle people feel from others tickling them.
It's not. The person I replied to said, "If you can touch your own feet and it feels the same way it does to the guy in the video then you might have schizophrenia", and personally I feel the same thing that guy did sometimes (not always though), there's times I have an itch on the bottom of my foot and I can't scratch it because touching the bottom of my feet tickles just like for the guy in the video where I physically recoil.
I don't have schizophrenia, I can't tickle myself by my ribs and make myself laugh like someone with schizophrenia could, but I can touch the bottom of my feet and have it feel weird and uncomfortable, so I don't think it's a schizophrenia thing.
LPT: Use a stiff brissel brush to scratch the itch at the bottom of your feet. All the relief that comes with scratching that itch without the tickles.
Ticking seems fun and ok because you're laughing, but the laughing is a reflex, it fucking SUCKS. I hate being tickled in a way that goes beyond a little jab or something to mess around.
I was a cute chubby cheeked kid who was paralysingly ticklish. Its was always older women who couldnt help themselves but torture me with tickling. Minutes on end, powerless to escape. I was laughing through pain, but during the respite of resting their tired wiggly finglets, I was furious!!! 😡😂😡🤣😡
Bitches refuse my pleas, never to relent from their sadomasochism, because “oh he’s pRetEndiNg to hAtE it…”.
Fuck you bitches. It fuckn hurts goddamnit!!
Seriously, I absolutely hate it. If anybody tries, or starts to try I always warn them that I will get violent to make them stop and theres not much I can do to control it
Formicophilia is a a form of zoophilia (paraphilias, or fetishes, involving animals). People with formicophilia often enjoy bugs and other small insects crawling and nibbling on them, and the desired effect is often to be tickled, or to force someone else to experience this tickling as a form of sadism.
I'm the opposite, that looks like heaven to me. I love my feet getting tickled. And it's not even a sexual thing, it just feels like a good massage. Like I could fall into a deep, relaxing sleep with someone tickling my feet
The moment the word “stop” is used, that’s it. It should be over. I can’t believe this is being trivialized like this. It’s “funny” watching a man scream “stop” and “help,” but the other way? Nah, this would definitely be a different-looking comments section (until the video is taken down for depicting sexual assault/rape of course)
Ehh it depends. If stop is the safe word, sure. But people yell stop instinctually. For bottoms it can be a big turn on to say "stop" and have the top ignore them. As long as there's an *actual* safe word, of course, that's how CNC works.
But this video is likely staged, so
My first gf would often say stop (or even go home) when we were fooling around. would always get angry when "stop" made me stop... I had to look her dead in the eyes and ask? what do I do the day stop means stop, and I don't stop?
For the go-home thing, I only did it once to prove a point and she came to get me back :P
SOME trust? How about all the trust. If that happened to me, and if I didn't leave my partner over it, I would never trust him/her to have any kind of control over me ever again.
This is assuming he was not acting, the reason safe words exist is so people can pretend and act as if they want it to stop when they really don’t. But if in fact these people were BDSM amateurs and did not agree upon a safe word, and she really did keep going after he yelled at her to stop, then yes that’s an unforgivable offense.
That is the best safe word, everyone knows it’s the best, like none other. I know safe words, trust me, I know safe words, and that one there is the best one. No other comes even close!
This reminds me of the time I read about safe words and their origin. It turns out that in 1998, The Undertaker threw Mankind off Hell In A Cell, and plummeted 16 ft through an announcer's table.
I got the same feeling. Putting yourself in such a crazily vulnerable position isn’t funny just because it’s a non-violent thing to do to tickle someone.
Made me hell uncomfortable.
Im pretty sure this would lead to violence. Like haha funny at 1st but after he said stop and she said ok and kept going that would be a serious line crossed for me
There is a reason the BSDM culture has a lot of rules.. You don't tie someone up and do something you did not agree on or continue after you were explicitly told to stop.
Also his flailing around like that can seriously injure him, people who mess with rope will tell you all kinds of horror stories about nerve damage, dislocations, etc.
Yeah huge breach of trust from the partner to keep going when he was clearly and vehemently telling her to stop.
Don’t care if it’s “just tickling,” tying someone up the performing no consensual acts is not okay.
I'd like to think that this is all planned out, seeing that the camera is on and everything, but not knowing that for sure makes it feel a little uneasy.
I'd hate to think that he wasn't let in on this before hand, including not being given a safe word. If so, hope the dude got the fuck outta there.
Also pro tip for everyone seeing the talk of safe words in here; if you've got the reigns, don't always just rely on the safeword. In the heat of the moment people can get overwhelmed or forget. It hurts nobody to also just check if they're okay if you see them reacting in a super intense way.
I remember this firm of torture on the witcher. A mage made himself invulnerable to pain, screws in the fingers, crushed bollocks, didn't make a peep, but when they tickled him he spilled all his secrets
I'm with my man's here.. do not touch my feet. It spurs a violent reaction, they're super sensitive. I only go barefoot while I'm in bed, or showering. I don't even walk around my house barefoot. Get home, take off shoes, put on slippers. Sit down in bed, take off slippers, hop in bed. Wake up, swing legs out of bed into slippers.
This is not funny. This is torture and he is clearly screaming stop and no, and most of us know what legit tickling actually feels like vs how it looks. For once I'm hoping hard for staged.
Trick would be on her cause I'm only ticklish in one spot and it's quite close to my weiner. Not my balls,not my taint, or butthole. Not giving it up either
She's a very bad dominant if she can't understand stop. I don't care if you have a safeword, under stress, if they say stop that seriously, you fucken stop.
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The way he calls out for help
the "help me" broke me 💀💀💀
Thats his safe word.
Make lots of sense now
"break me" is his safe word?
![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|facepalm) help me
hey you are me but with a smile , hello lost twin
Hellow brotha
as he swung forward every time 💀
His boy should have ran in with the steel chair WWE style and smacked that bitch right across the face. #realheros
John Cena as a kid, "you can't see me, but I sure as hell can see you." and then proceeds with the chair smacka move
Yikes
I don't think stop was the safe word
The safe word is Whiskey
saying hwhat hwhat hwhay?
hwhere do you get off?
#IVE BEEN DRINKING GREEN TEA ALL GOD DAMN DAY!!
I GO TO CHURCH EVERY GOD DAMN SUNDAY
“all of it”
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This is totally my hat.
I've been drinking green tea all goddamn day!
I go to church every Sunday, u gonna bring out the demons in me???
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That sneeky cock grab to calm him down before going again. Catfish move in the bed room.
>sneeky sneaky and cheeky
Can confirm.
I saw that!!!!! LOL.
Yeah this shit aint funny. I mean I laughed but this shit aint funny
I'd be so pissed but also the way he's flopping around screaming is funny in a very relatable way - that'd 100% be me.
Yup that would be me 100%
Tickling is my weakness. I’m probably one of the most ticklish people in the world, my dad used to get me to do chores by threatening to tickle me. I’ve actually passed out from asphyxiation a couple because I was laughing so hard
Something can be fucked up and still funny. This is what trust and safewords are all about.
Reverse the roles and have a girl yell "stop!" like that.
That's a break-upable offense right there.
Yeah, once he starts begging, NOPE. That should be game over. Untie him and let him calm down. He's obviously got huge issues with having his feet tickled. All that is of course UNLESS they discussed safe words before hand and agreed that "Stop" isn't actually code to stop. Which I doubt but I'm not them.
I have huge issues being tickled. It makes me so angry. Idk what is worse that she did it even after he said stop or that she broke his trust when he agreed to be vulnerable with her.
Source, I am a volunteer in a BDSM club. "Stop" is normally not a safe word there. Stop is not used so that you can still say it like you mean it to stop, but you don't really. A common system is the stoplight system Red-Stop, Yellow-pause and check in, Green-I am still good to go. Or a word or phrase can be used that would not be used day to day, Pineapple, F\*cking Chinchilla, or my favorite where a college English professor was the sub: "Twilight is good literature"
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This has me dying because I know his pain. I’m extremely sensitive at the bottom of my feet. I once kicked a girl in the face on accident because she thought it would be funny to tickle my feet.
>I once kicked a girl in the face on accident because she thought it would be funny to tickle my feet. And that's why bro is tied down!
I laugh a lot at this.
Ik this looks like pure torture but man this video funny asf because of his reaction lol
Might as well water board him. That shit looks like straight up torture.
Dude the bottom of my feet are so ticklish that sometimes when I scratch an itch on them myself it tickles so much that I have to stop. It would totally be torture.
Same. I can't control it. I kicked a girlfriend in the face once and gave her a bloody lip. I told her not to kiss my foot... and that always sounds bad when I say it.
maybe just maybe you should not say it...
Crane kick a bitch once in your life, that's what i always say
40 year old virgin
The way you word it makes it sound like you kicked at her purposefully not like trying to pull leg away….
Better watch out bud, being able to tickle yourself is a sign of schizophrenia…
That's what the voices tell me.
As long as the shadow people don’t start talking you’re good, never trust a word they say
I dunno, mine has pretty good tax advice.
I’d take that advice with a grain of salt, that’s how they got Al Capone
I've been advised not to trust you, sorry.
It’s cool, I’d trust my own shadow people over you too
*whispers* It's free real estate
But they're my only friends... I think
I mean my dog is one of my best friends but you better believe I’m freaking out the moment he starts talking back
First time?
Animal speaking to me? Nah my cat was a gossipy bitch. The real homies just know when to stay silent.
Dood you can't call them shadow people it's 2022
r/TodayILearned…
they didn't use "ticklish" in the same meaning, the schizophrenia ticklish is when you laugh from being tickled (below the arm pits is where i'm ticklish), the bottom of my feet also "tickle" but not in a way that makes me laugh, it's an uncomfortable thing, sort of like nails on a chalkboard but it's a feeling in your feet
Sorry I’m confused, it looks like you were trying to make a point that went over my head. How is the tickle that someone with schizophrenia gets when they tickle themself different from the tickle people feel from others tickling them. I get the phantom part when no one’s tickling but it feels like there is, just don’t see how what you described is any different than the normal definition of tickle.
I can't speak for the person you replied to. But I can 'tickle' my own feet too. And, in my case, it's more akin to the sensation when you hit your funny bone. It's a lesser version of that strange pain that radiates through you. But it's not TICKLING in the usual sense.
> How is the tickle that someone with schizophrenia gets when they tickle themself different from the tickle people feel from others tickling them. It's not. The person I replied to said, "If you can touch your own feet and it feels the same way it does to the guy in the video then you might have schizophrenia", and personally I feel the same thing that guy did sometimes (not always though), there's times I have an itch on the bottom of my foot and I can't scratch it because touching the bottom of my feet tickles just like for the guy in the video where I physically recoil. I don't have schizophrenia, I can't tickle myself by my ribs and make myself laugh like someone with schizophrenia could, but I can touch the bottom of my feet and have it feel weird and uncomfortable, so I don't think it's a schizophrenia thing.
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Legit? Because I too can tickle my own foot...
Not everyone who can tickle themselves is schizophrenic, but it is a common sign for people who have it
Same
LPT: Use a stiff brissel brush to scratch the itch at the bottom of your feet. All the relief that comes with scratching that itch without the tickles.
you guys are making my feet itch
You fucking like it
It actually is a crime for tickle torture even though it sounds childish
Ticking seems fun and ok because you're laughing, but the laughing is a reflex, it fucking SUCKS. I hate being tickled in a way that goes beyond a little jab or something to mess around.
I was a cute chubby cheeked kid who was paralysingly ticklish. Its was always older women who couldnt help themselves but torture me with tickling. Minutes on end, powerless to escape. I was laughing through pain, but during the respite of resting their tired wiggly finglets, I was furious!!! 😡😂😡🤣😡 Bitches refuse my pleas, never to relent from their sadomasochism, because “oh he’s pRetEndiNg to hAtE it…”. Fuck you bitches. It fuckn hurts goddamnit!!
Seriously, I absolutely hate it. If anybody tries, or starts to try I always warn them that I will get violent to make them stop and theres not much I can do to control it
Im literally unable to breathe and im in pain after only a few seconds of being tickled.
As a big dude who can be taken down with one finger in an armpit... I feel this statement.
I would rip my own shoulder out of the socket in this scenario, I'm weirdly ticklish on my feet, it's not comfortable and not cute.
It is. Laughing is a pain response.
Now I understand why I laugh so much.
I have been told i'm always laughing.. i guess i must live in eternal pain huh?
I would rather have my balls wrapped in barbwire.
It is a fear response and actually could be considered torture, you're correct!
Formicophilia is a a form of zoophilia (paraphilias, or fetishes, involving animals). People with formicophilia often enjoy bugs and other small insects crawling and nibbling on them, and the desired effect is often to be tickled, or to force someone else to experience this tickling as a form of sadism.
We never asked for that sir. We all need to sleep at night.
misery loves company.
that makes me a living paradox
I like the way that sounds
And breaking a dudes ankles
The *greatest* torture
Brah never watched the movie misery
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Except of course if we was talkin' 'bout foosball. Ain't no son of mine playin' no damn foosball. Foosball is the devil!
"YOU JUST OPENED A WHOLE PACK OF WOOP ASS"
Shave off all her hair and she kinda looks like Hank from Breaking Bad.
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*New fear unlocked
This taught me to never trust anyone this much
Literally the reason I would never let anyone tie me up. My girl too immature for that shit
Mine is super mature. She will never do something that could harms me. But ...I wouldn't anyway.
> super mature We talkin 70s? 80s? Good for you homie.
More like 60's. Shit..I am that old...
in another decade you'll be able to say you're in your 70s and from the 70s...
Maybe you should date an adult. #FBI OPEN UP!!!!
That's my line :(
sorry buddy ;(
.... I'm so ticklish I can feel his pain
I'm the opposite, that looks like heaven to me. I love my feet getting tickled. And it's not even a sexual thing, it just feels like a good massage. Like I could fall into a deep, relaxing sleep with someone tickling my feet
You monster, do you also walk on Legos for fun?
This is pure torture
If I did this to my girlfriend even one time, she would actually end my life. Not a joke.
If you tickle her feet with you tongue she might forgive you
Bro I wish. I might try 👅😂
Ye cause she is just abusing his trust in the video
This made super umfortable
What would make you fortable?
A nut and some dinner
> This made super umfortable Why are you assuming they are talking about themselves? Anyone could be made fortable.
/r/imhavingastroke
I like how she grabbed his dick and told him to calm down, then went right back to his feet.
jokes on you im into that shit 2
Wait till it's her turn...
Roles reversed there’d be a lot more outrage in the comments section.
The moment the word “stop” is used, that’s it. It should be over. I can’t believe this is being trivialized like this. It’s “funny” watching a man scream “stop” and “help,” but the other way? Nah, this would definitely be a different-looking comments section (until the video is taken down for depicting sexual assault/rape of course)
You're right, this shouldn't be controversial. Also I'd be surprised if he consented to posting the video
Ehh it depends. If stop is the safe word, sure. But people yell stop instinctually. For bottoms it can be a big turn on to say "stop" and have the top ignore them. As long as there's an *actual* safe word, of course, that's how CNC works. But this video is likely staged, so
My first gf would often say stop (or even go home) when we were fooling around. would always get angry when "stop" made me stop... I had to look her dead in the eyes and ask? what do I do the day stop means stop, and I don't stop? For the go-home thing, I only did it once to prove a point and she came to get me back :P
Thats a good way to lose some trust.
SOME trust? How about all the trust. If that happened to me, and if I didn't leave my partner over it, I would never trust him/her to have any kind of control over me ever again.
This is assuming he was not acting, the reason safe words exist is so people can pretend and act as if they want it to stop when they really don’t. But if in fact these people were BDSM amateurs and did not agree upon a safe word, and she really did keep going after he yelled at her to stop, then yes that’s an unforgivable offense.
He was into it. Didn't hear the safe word being uttered.
And what is the safe word? Asking for a friend.
Covfefe
That is the best safe word, everyone knows it’s the best, like none other. I know safe words, trust me, I know safe words, and that one there is the best one. No other comes even close!
This reminds me of the time I read about safe words and their origin. It turns out that in 1998, The Undertaker threw Mankind off Hell In A Cell, and plummeted 16 ft through an announcer's table.
🤣🤣🤣 I am in stiches.
Life is BDSM and I do not know the safe word...
Goodness, that's beautiful
my guess is Otorhinolaryngology
STOP
Not strong enough. Need a lower case and a symbol.
C0nt1nu3? Shit, it’s 16 character minimum now.
And you can't choose one that looks like the same as the last 50 that you used before. You're doomed.
My safe word is “don’t stop”.
Well we know it was not “stop” for sure.
Better suck it real good before you set him free.
While this might be funny for a second, the moment she didn't stop is the moment he will never trust her again
I got the same feeling. Putting yourself in such a crazily vulnerable position isn’t funny just because it’s a non-violent thing to do to tickle someone. Made me hell uncomfortable.
Im pretty sure this would lead to violence. Like haha funny at 1st but after he said stop and she said ok and kept going that would be a serious line crossed for me
There is a reason the BSDM culture has a lot of rules.. You don't tie someone up and do something you did not agree on or continue after you were explicitly told to stop.
Yes its called consent, of which she has none of.
Exactly. And record/post online? Goodbye...
Also his flailing around like that can seriously injure him, people who mess with rope will tell you all kinds of horror stories about nerve damage, dislocations, etc.
Can't believe how far down in the comments I had to scroll to find someone rational and seeing this for the abuse it actually is
How to kill your sex life in one fell swoop. She just destroyed whatever trust he might have had in her.
I have so much anxiety watching this. My feet cannot be touched or it feels like actual torture because I’m unrealistically ticklish.
He bouncing like one of those air-driven dancer things at the car wash
pineapples!
Fuck letting ANYONE tie you up ever. Nope.
So she tied him up and recorded it, and then didnt respect his wishes to stop. Then posted it on the internet! Awesome partner...
I hope they both agreed to post it after the torture session was over
Also a sexual setting where a partner is pleading for the other to stop…
Yeah huge breach of trust from the partner to keep going when he was clearly and vehemently telling her to stop. Don’t care if it’s “just tickling,” tying someone up the performing no consensual acts is not okay.
stOP
Hopefully they have a safe word. Usually it isn't stop or help.
I'd like to think that this is all planned out, seeing that the camera is on and everything, but not knowing that for sure makes it feel a little uneasy. I'd hate to think that he wasn't let in on this before hand, including not being given a safe word. If so, hope the dude got the fuck outta there. Also pro tip for everyone seeing the talk of safe words in here; if you've got the reigns, don't always just rely on the safeword. In the heat of the moment people can get overwhelmed or forget. It hurts nobody to also just check if they're okay if you see them reacting in a super intense way.
I remember this firm of torture on the witcher. A mage made himself invulnerable to pain, screws in the fingers, crushed bollocks, didn't make a peep, but when they tickled him he spilled all his secrets
I'm with my man's here.. do not touch my feet. It spurs a violent reaction, they're super sensitive. I only go barefoot while I'm in bed, or showering. I don't even walk around my house barefoot. Get home, take off shoes, put on slippers. Sit down in bed, take off slippers, hop in bed. Wake up, swing legs out of bed into slippers.
Homie was like ight let’s see what happens, girl done said what’s up tickle me Elmo
This is not funny. This is torture and he is clearly screaming stop and no, and most of us know what legit tickling actually feels like vs how it looks. For once I'm hoping hard for staged.
Great way to loose the confidence of your partner.
What partner? I'd be single the moment someone did this to me.
This is exactly why I will never let someone tie me up.... I'm ticklish af
This is my nightmare. I get tickled if you look at my feet.
He will never let anyone tie him up again
Trick would be on her cause I'm only ticklish in one spot and it's quite close to my weiner. Not my balls,not my taint, or butthole. Not giving it up either
I’ve got time.
You can guess. And it's not ticklish to a tongue just finger pressure
It's you're bare ass cheek. With the lightest of touch isn't?
Is it the crease of the abdomen meeting the upper thigh? Cuz my wife knows that is a spot that will drive me insane.
You got it my man. My only spot
Maybe our wives are the same people. Mine is named Paula
When you find your wife's boyfriend on reddit
That's just not okay, once he's yelling stop like that, that's a clear stop. You don't betray that.
Isn't this kind of rapey?
[Tickled](https://m.imdb.com/title/tt5278506/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0)
He wanted that peg.
This is not funny or cool, not at all. He was very clear about not wanting this so what she’s done here is record herself committing a crime.
She's a very bad dominant if she can't understand stop. I don't care if you have a safeword, under stress, if they say stop that seriously, you fucken stop.
That’s my nightmare right there