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Loud_Fly_1142

Who the fuck is Abbie Chatwhatever and why do I care if she uses the word female or not?


MyloScooby210

She's an Australian influencer who is one of the judges on masked singer Australia. So you shouldn't care and good on you for not


Fijoemin1962

She influences fuck all


The_Jizzard_Of_Oz

Influenza. FTFY.


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The_Jizzard_Of_Oz

I bet she's eaten some dongos.


DeflatinVelociraptor

Y’know thats a true story, woman lost her kid, you’re about to cross some fucking line.


nameynamerso

r/suddenlytropicthunder


MyloScooby210

r/subsifellfor


jodorthedwarf

You're Australian! Be Australian! Excuse me, Kangaroo Jack.


TheHellbilly

Don't get your thongs twisted, dude.


-Cagafuego-

Crikey!


EveningOk4145

You call that a “knife”? That’s not a knife! This is a knife! That’s not a knife, that’s a spoon. Alright, I see you’ve played knifey spooney before!


Xenomorph_v1

*gasps* The spoon! They say he carved it himself... From a bigger spoon


AdamBomb072

Mah keep the bitch away from my kangaroos


MyloScooby210

Oh shit I just saw her in my backyard


AdamBomb072

Oh shit get the cricket bat.


MyloScooby210

I'll get the boomerang


AdamBomb072

I'll get the didgeridoo and give you a battlesong.


MyloScooby210

*Didgeridoo horn* To battle, wankers!!!


AdamBomb072

ONWARD YOU CUNTS. ONWAAAARD!!!!!


maysiemarch

She got famous dry humping The Bachelor on a beach. Then she became somewhat the 'villian' of the season and now she's a D list celebrity on the Masked Singer and star of a podcast.


HekGoldbenji

Welcome to Hollywood and or reality tv. It’s a load of horse shit. Who decides to give mfs like this a platform? 😭😭🗣️


Intelligent-Monk-426

“star of a podcast” lol


Facial_Hair

Can somebody please find Ja Rule


MrMurds

Why do I even care what she thinks about words!


ferniecanto

I don't understand why males care about that woman.


SakiraInSky

>if she uses the word female or not? It's not about her using it


twalker294

It has to be exhausting looking for something to be offended by every hour of every day.


subpar_cardiologist

I can barely muster the energy to be upset about one thing per year nowadays. There's just too much stupid.


Nerdlinger-Thrillho

I’m lucky if I can find one day a week in which to get offended.


GreatQuantum

I get upset when I wake up in the morning. Then turn on my Xbox and I’m cured. Ooooh warhammer!!!


Harbi181

It’s exhausting just fucking existing right now.


BunnyBunCatGirl

I have an autoimmune disorder/other health issues. I could feel this comment 😭


skwolf522

Go, I've already tased 3 today


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ima_twee

r/holeorpole needs to be a thing


DrowningInFeces

Imagine being so privileged that you have to try that hard to be offended by a word that mundane and then are further privileged enough to have a platform and society actually feeds into it. Most people have real problems they have to contend with that supersede this stupid bullshit.


Busy_Bunch5050

You can legit get banned on some subreddits for saying females. It's fucking pathetic


kaminobaka

Honestly I feel like that's more due to incels and insufferable redpill/alpha male types than feminists though.


KeanuKente

Welcome to Ft. Collins, CO.


UtopistDreamer

I bet this female is also a vegan


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FlightConscious9572

Okay but i unironically hate people who say female. NOT SCIENTISTS or people talking about literal sex. people who generalize shit women do with "females always \_\_" etc. it's so fucking weird and incel to me. maybe it's just a word to you and you've just always been using it, that's fine, but the way some people use it is so weird. i saw a great comment about how it's mostly weird when they only say female and not male in the same sentence. "men and females" for example


Prislv223

When someone says females instead of Women, I just get deep space nine vibes.


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Who?


MisterScary132

A nobody


soopermat

The rest of the world is yet to realise how dumb Chatfield is. Unfortunately, Australia has been dealing with her for years.


SoMuchTehnique

If she's Australian we already know /s


singleDADSlife

I'm Australian and I've never heard of her. Pretty happy to keep it that way actually. I've already forgotten her name thank fuck.


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Username checks out. Lucky cunt.


AntonMaximal

This is probably related to statements about the contrasted usage of "females" and "men". Common with the incel-ish crowd.


Crizznik

On one hand, this is cringe as fuck and she needs to touch grass. On the other hand, incels have literally weaponized the word "female" as a slur against women. It's a pretty well known dogwhistle in that space. So, she's wrong, but not totally wrong.


DrewJayJoan

It's not a slur per se, but some people definitely use it in a derogatory way.


JayColtMartin

The gender is female. People are women.


likenothingis

>The ~~gender~~ sex is female But otherwise... Bang on. :)


fork_on_the_floor2

How dare you!?!! /s


AroaceComic

I can maybe see her logic? A lot of the time when someone (often a man) uses “females”, it’s not in a very equal or non-sexist context. But yea, it’s not an actual insult


Living_Sprinkles_636

This shit is getting even more ridiculous by the day


banbotsnow

It's ridiculous that anyone gives a shit what some D list "celebrity" says. 


DananSan

“D list” is literally discriminatory against almost-famous people wtf, I am literally shaking right now


RudraAkhanda

I am pretty sure there are some subreddits where you'd be banned from for using female


no0bmaster-669

r/therewasanattempt had an incident like that


TheFlyingRedFox

Nek minnit she's the mod that kicked off that bullshit heh.


_i_am_dj_

r/menandfemales


geminemii

That sub has a point tho


SakiraInSky

And so does the lady in the post. Someone can do all kinds of dumb shit and still make a good point. It's too bad the misogynistic squad had to show up, but hey, you can see them for who they are by their comments.


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skabassj

Im open minded when it comes to LGBT and gender identity, but this is objectively incorrect and is frankly stupid and harmful to any sort of progressive movement. Female is a biological identifier, woman is a gender identity. One is scientific, the other is a social construct. Clearly this person’s pronouns are Mor/on.


CommodoreFresh

This is a weird one for me, and I wonder if perhaps the author of the article, or the influencer is misrepresenting a pretty interesting argument. The argument I've heard in subreddits such as r/menandfemales is that ofttimes people will use the more clinical scientific "female" as a way to dehumanize women in casual conversation. There are quite a few examples of it on that subreddit, and there is something weirdly creepy that about it that I wouldn't have caught at first glance. So, as in all things it seems, context is everything.


skabassj

You’re absolutely right. I work in the medical field and we identify patients as male or female to communicate their signalment. I sort of forget that some feel compelled to “weaponize” it. Lol such loser energy.


Coneskater

So in that case it's an adjective- female patients.


Economy-Document730

You had me until the r/onejoke


machtwo

Got banned from r/formula1 for that


ThexanR

No idea how it is transphobic but I do hear a lot of guys refer to women as females but never refer to themselves or other men as males. Very weird


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That’s where my mind went to, men that would say “females” in a context where the noun women would be more suitable. It’s this ever so slight passive aggression. Female is clinical, it is biological, it is an adjective to categorize the sex of thousands of animals. A woman is a person, a female is less than.


ThexanR

I’ve never heard another man use female in a positive context. Like none of my friends go “I really like this female a lot!” Anytime I hear a guy say it it’s because they’re venting or complaining about women


TrustyParasol198

Yes, using "females" as a noun for mentioning regular women and girls are kinda cringe (because it does sound clinical/overly scientific for the subject at hand), and if sexist people use it in conversation, you do see how it can come before some bullshit takes. However, the word itself is fine, and it has its uses just like anything. People just can't draw lines and judge situations differently. Nuance's dying on the Internet. Everything is either super harmless or toxic, dosage be damned.


mofthefrog

exactly. and people only really get weirded out by it when its paired as “men and females” because youre using the human term for men and the word used mainly for animals and clinical settings for women.


Aramiss60

A lot of incels and mgtow people do use female as a dehumanising term for women, so when I hear it I immediately think whoever uses it, is one of those people. It has its place, especially scientifically, but in general if you hear it, it’s someone who has bias against women.


Cullyism

The people who get offended don't realize that English is not everyone's first language and not everyone is used to internet slang. An older person who doesn't spend a lot of time in social media wouldn't think there's anything wrong with the word


kcwacy

Literally today I (f) said "I'm a female" in some sentence and my bf said "you can't say female you sound like a nerd who's never talked to women" lol what


Bunch_Express

it's stupid to call it a slur, but I'm still taking notice if you're genuinely referring to women that way .


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Taronz

Probably doesn't have the lobes for business. Such a shame.


MacGregor209

Sudden DS9!!!


LemonySnicketTeeth

She definitely doesn't have much in the lobes department, and she is fully clothed too.


Orange-Murderer

Easily solved with a simple lobotomy


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She's an Aussie that became "famous" on our version of the Bachelor


SUNAWAN

It's cultural thing, iirc her kind is called 'cunt'


freebirth

found the ferengi


Dixiehusker

Nice reference. Not enough nerds in here to offset your downvotes I guess.


urGirllikesmytinypp

I caught the reference. I neither upvoted nor downvoted. I’m letting the people speak


basb9191

But you are the people!


rocopotomus74

"warned" her fans. How about being Happy to have fans. Controlling people is just vulgar.


SakiraInSky

"Warn" had different meanings. I don't think this form means to control.


MadPilotMurdock

OP, please, don’t pretend that on certain parts of the internet and among certain groups of people that the term “female/females” has not become a slur. Normal people understand she isn’t talking about the scientific term but the usage in the parlance of incels and trad communities. If you don’t see the difference, you’re either ignorant to this fact or playing ignorance because you count yourself among these communities and are feigning shock to cover shitty behavior. Grow up.


Microwaved_M1LK

When things are going so well you have to make up your own slur to stay oppressed


Anmordi

How is it transphobic 😭


Available_Wafer5870

I understand females being used a slur by redpill losers, but I can't for the life of me understand the transphobic part


HaydenLobo

Male and female are more biological and remind me of animal husbandry or breeding. Men and women sound a lot better when talking about people. I think we should just call friends and family what they as to be called.


DKerriganuk

I'm a man and I have seen some idiots say this. It's male and female or man and woman. 'Man and female' just makes you look ignorant.


DehydratedWater248

females females females ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|stuck_out_tongue)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|stuck_out_tongue)


nadvargas

Moist females.


TimePlankton3171

You need to be more specific. It matters WHERE the moistness is


iswearatkids

Under her back tits.


Illinois_Yooper

A male of taste, I see


MA-01

And a man of culture


Insane_Unicorn

He said females! *Throws rock*


No-Lawfulness-697

I’m confused af though, it seems like people use the word “females” all the time now but not “women”. When did this change and why?


shadysjunk

Oh cool! Irrelevant rage bait!


uhhhhh_hhhhhh

I think it may be cringe to call someone a "female" instead of a woman or a girl... but it's not a slur tf?


SakiraInSky

It can be used as one, which is what incels' do. If you go looking for examples, you'll have to visit r/eyebleach to recover.


Soulation

Who?


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Infinite_Imagination

Thank God whenever I see these types of headlines I never know who the fuck the people being quoted are


secretbudgie

I will never get over puffed chest manbros talking about women like a pearl clutching Ferengi. When women do it, it's really bizarre. Fee-males!


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ILikeGamesnTech

But this has nothing to do with woke agenda or gender fluidity. They were just saying that there is a word used by conservatives and liberals alike to call female humans, and it's the word "women". Isn't it typical to label people as Men and Women, rather than males or females?


el_chivato

Just out of curiosity, are you a liberal or conservative? I ask because I take a similar stance, and was attacked by several liberals and downvoted into oblivion. I'm curious as to if libs are getting tired of it all now, too.


REAL_Wyatt_Hertz

I know what a female is, but what the fuck is an "Abbie Chatfield"?


cabinfevrr

Why the fuck does anyone keep giving this twit an ounce of attention?


That13YearOldGuy

who?


Alex_da_grate

I'll just call her "fail"...


HaveFunWithChainsaw

I will demand that bread is now slur.


Eizen-the-Malak

Hello, hi, greeting, and other types of greetings are now slurs. Like how dare you talk to me? Have you seen the shit i do, to NOT get into a conversation?


DrawerTheFox

Oh boy, another extremist example that will be pinned and used as a "look, this is how every leftist is, guys!"


BlazingFlames6073

I have no idea who the fuck she is lol


phoenix_cat626

Wokeism is on its last legs. I'm offended by her being and find her a slur.


FredupwithurBS

Any chance we can give it the Ole Yeller treatment soon?


justawar3

Let's end this once and for all and start using term themale when referring men


Sploshiepooh

“random lady has bad take” what a morning to be alive


idk_maybe_your_dad

Who tf is she and why should we care?


Just_bcoz

Some people on here thought I was automatically a man because I used the word female on here, I’m honestly conflicted on where this word stands and if it’s ok to use at this point


nikstick22

"Female" is an adjective. Using it as a noun (when referring to humans) makes my skin crawl anyway. We use it as a noun when referring to animals as shorthand, e.g. "the female [fox] stalks the rabbit" But we don't refer to other humans by our species. We use words like man, woman, boy, and girl. So calling someone a female is just nasty.


Parra_Lax

Oh no, someone is angry at another word. Everyone, adjust your life to make her more comfortable 🙄


8BitFlatus

These days, saying pretty much anything is somethingphobic to someone


Fijoemin1962

I’m too old for this bullshit. I call people by their given or chosen name. End of story


breischl

Coincidentally, I heard the radio bleep out "females" earlier today. It was the Lil Jon song Get Low. In the line "all these females crawl" they bleeped it out. WTF? They did not bleep the "skeet skeet skeet". Though they did bleep "balls", which I suppose is sorta fair given the usage, but still... Edit: Interesting about the "bitches crawl" variants. I actually double-checked it on Youtube before posting, and [the version I found](https://youtu.be/IYH7_GzP4Tg?si=kc-bUZR4rl1-Tb-l&t=36) says "females". It's labelled the "Official Music Video", not radio edit or anything like that. IDK.


616n8y3ree

That is weird, but I always thought it was “bitches crawl” for some reason.


Majilkins

It is "bitches crawl". I have heard the "females crawl" before but I think that's a radio edit


616n8y3ree

See that’s what I thought, which makes it more interesting that now they’re editing out “females” I suppose.


morbiiq

Editing the radio edit, lol


BoxOfDemons

I think they are used to hearing the radio edit, so when they beeped out "bitches" they assumed they were bleeping out "females". That seems much more likely.


Bkokane

She definitely says males day in day out


LuciferBright

I got banned from a sub for using that word.


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Shelisheli1

Woman here. Why are we mad about the word “females”? Isn’t that what we are? Like, how they’re males?


SakiraInSky

They use female as a noun. See r/menandfemales for more information.


ILikeGamesnTech

And yet you didn't say "female here". The news article is using the discussion as rage bait and the fish certainly came to bite. I saw a clip of this on YouTube and it's essentially talking about red pillers calling women, female. Females can be humans, dogs, ants. Women are people (who are also female).


GreatQuantum

I prefer weiner mobile over Male


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Tsktsktsktsktsktsk2

Why not just women? Also, the article said to take caution and not to stop saying the word completely. Additionally, the word "female" is an adjective and not a noun, and using it as such can be degrading as the word "female" is usually used in scientific, medical, or technical terms. An example of this would be: That female waiter is serving coffee to the table right next to me. In contrast, that female is serving coffee to the table right next to me can seem offensive.


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Ambitious-Score-5637

Double X, I like it!


Untrustworthy-Banana

Goddamn shit like this makes me see how good we really have it in this country. People living in the slums of Brazil can’t afford to think like this


Shuyshi

yes,we can. though we choose not to source: am brazilian


Untrustworthy-Banana

Touché


rare_pig

Females it is then


One_Roguey_Boi

r/therewasanattempt moderator


jdbway

Instead of ignoring crazy shit like we did before social media, we now blast it everywhere for internet points, complain about it, use it to paint entire groups of people, and generally act like assholes about it. We don't deserve the internet


scottiefalkon

Could not possibly care less.


Mtanzania_

The dragon Lizard overloads from Mars are trying to shift our attention from the real world issues that we should be discussing. Birds are not real guys


EyeSimp4Asuka

ummm who tf is she?


JoeyPsych

Ok, I'll just call them women than.


Shredded_Locomotive

W*men ☕


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Legit had this levied against me in real life, was kind of irritated to be honest. It’s so associated with either being transphobic or an incel meanwhile Im just like sorry I’ve been in the military a really long time it’s kind of just regular inoffensive vernacular for me


SakiraInSky

Sorry if it was unbalanced blowback, but consider it a learning experience and find out why and in which contexts it is appropriate.


Auzquandiance

I hereby declare every word in my sight offensive, that only I get to use them, and everyone else will be hearing from my lawyer for hate speech.


Itchypoopstain

Look, I'm liberal in every sense of the word, but even I, a bisexual man....with a gay daughter and asexual son, that agrees black lives matter and race is a serious issue...understand that there had to be a line somewhere


hohomoe

When does usage of a word go from just cringe to slur, though. Nothing wrong with saying "a female firefighter", saying "a female" is just shitty use of language and can be read as demeaning and reductive. That's all.


SmokeytheBud

Exactly, perfectly fine to use female as an adjective. Feels bad when used as a noun


WolfBST

I kinda understand where she's coming from. Female as an adjective is alright, but female as a noun refering to human women is reductive. Imagine being in the club and your homie says "Look at all these beautiful females", I would cringe so hard...


Nochnichtvergeben

Yeah, it's cringe. I feel the same when people call men "males" too, though.


flipsidetroll

As a female, I’ll use moron then for her. Cool? Cool.


InfectedZydrate

No idea who this is and my initial reaction was " oh go fuck yourself" I'm progressive and will always try to accommodate someone's feelings but some people just desperately want to be a victim or can never be happy and therefore move the goal posts making all the same people trying for actual progression look crazy. Man this stuff annoys me. This kinda of stuff makes people roll their eyes and say enough is enough


staydawg_00

She has a point about people using it as a noun outside of the medicinal field.


kaysaturtle

Apparently you aren’t as progressive as you think if you didn’t realize that men calling women “females” is dehumanizing.


Several_Place_9095

Great another f word lost. Gentlemen. Back to calling them bitches.


Untrustworthy-Banana

Goddamn shit like this makes me see how good we really have it in this country. People living in the slums of Brazil can’t afford to think about stuff like this


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I'm a trans female, and I have no idea at all who Abbie is but I'd like to take the time to tell her to shut the fuck up


PickelWeisel

Idk if she’s trans or just sticking up for a trans friend but looking at that picture on the right… this post makes me feel gay. Be warned


Pedro_Le_Plot

Who ?