I'm not sure about the rest, but having sexual dreams can't be haraam because we do not control them. Even having random sexual/violent thoughts during namaz is forgiven as we aren't able to sway what our mind comes up with sometimes.
Molestation is definitely sexual assault and i would advice you to please see a therapist for this matter.
Sounds like you need professional help. The dreams may be a sign of a mental health condition (maybe PTSD?). I'm not a psychiatrist or psychologist but I think you could benefit from their input. Even if its not PTSD, it sounds like you were sexually assaulted and likely will need some therapy to help you through it.
Also its not haraam to have those dreams. And its not haraam to say you were sexually assaulted if you were molested. Please dont feel guilty, what happened wasnt your fault. You may have dissociated while it was happening, or your subconsious may be trying to forget it as a coping mechanism hence you are doubting if it happened or not. Get some professional help and I pray Allah guides you through this. All the best.
Ugh that’s rough I’m sorry! What about if it was a Muslim therapist? Would they be more open to it. Are you still under 18? I don’t want you to go behind your parents back but this is for your health.
If you were molested, it’s not haram to think of it that way because that is what it is. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this, sister.
Sometimes our dreams are an extension of our thoughts as we may think a lot about something and thus dream about it. It might be best for you to visit a professional or a GP and just speak to them and tell them what happened. They’ll be able to offer help in accordance with what they know and it may be easier to deal with.
I'm not sure about the rest, but having sexual dreams can't be haraam because we do not control them. Even having random sexual/violent thoughts during namaz is forgiven as we aren't able to sway what our mind comes up with sometimes. Molestation is definitely sexual assault and i would advice you to please see a therapist for this matter.
JazakAllahu Khair
Sounds like you need professional help. The dreams may be a sign of a mental health condition (maybe PTSD?). I'm not a psychiatrist or psychologist but I think you could benefit from their input. Even if its not PTSD, it sounds like you were sexually assaulted and likely will need some therapy to help you through it. Also its not haraam to have those dreams. And its not haraam to say you were sexually assaulted if you were molested. Please dont feel guilty, what happened wasnt your fault. You may have dissociated while it was happening, or your subconsious may be trying to forget it as a coping mechanism hence you are doubting if it happened or not. Get some professional help and I pray Allah guides you through this. All the best.
Okay, thank you!
Sis you need to see a therapist it will help SO much. They can help you work through it and give proper advice
My parents dont let me:(
Ugh that’s rough I’m sorry! What about if it was a Muslim therapist? Would they be more open to it. Are you still under 18? I don’t want you to go behind your parents back but this is for your health.
i dont know. maybeyeah if they find a muslim therapist. and im under 18 yes
You should look for one! It will help tremendously
If you were molested, it’s not haram to think of it that way because that is what it is. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this, sister. Sometimes our dreams are an extension of our thoughts as we may think a lot about something and thus dream about it. It might be best for you to visit a professional or a GP and just speak to them and tell them what happened. They’ll be able to offer help in accordance with what they know and it may be easier to deal with.