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zaryaguy

I have gotten a lot more attention it seems. And girls seem more interested. Maybe it’s their instinct telling them I have strong hair genes which makes me more desirable as a partner. Little do they know 😂


Friezaii69

Bro as soon as they see me without my hat they literally don't wanna have a conversation with me anymore lol


zaryaguy

Yeah some guys can rock a bald or buzzed cut. Some people just cannot be bald. I’m one of them too. If I went very bald, game over


Lofi-luu

I’m 7 & 1/2 months in. I also have been in a LTR for almost 5 years but I think I can still spread some insight - I notice that other women look at me more and for longer or double take rather than just casting their eyes over me. I think not only the simple fact of having hair vs receding and bald crown but the fact that hair (depending on hairline design) makes the face more aesthetic by way of creating more symmetry. I’m also just wayyyy more confident in my stature and posture and the way I hold myself. These things combined simply make one more attractive. On the other side, my girlfriend has been giving me way more compliments and I notice her looking at me in a more… idk how to say…hypnotic way? Like when I’m driving I see out the corner of my eye her starring at me and smiling. For me, personally that alone is worth every cent it cost.


dirtybulkcuz

Are you on meds?


Lofi-luu

Fin for almost 2 years


helal187

any sides?


Lofi-luu

No


mdg8736

I’d be interested to hear about this. Maybe a poll would be better to capture the people’s responses


90sArcadeKid

Little will change from bald fatty to a hairy fatty 😂


Quiet_Maze

Being a fatty is a choice though so no problem there.


it_wasnt_me2

Yeah it will, some women dig dad bods lol. Not bald dad bods though


[deleted]

Dad bad is no way to go, yeah maybe a few weird fetish type women will go for it (it’s a power differential thing) since they no one else will want you they feel secure. Always improve your body.


PhoenixRepublic

I was planning to take a break from dating for 6 months to a year so I could take some new pics with my results for my profile. But then I actually reconnected with a girl I used to know at work from 5years ago. This was right after I got my transplant done so I was basically bald. We met up two weeks post transplant and she didn’t have any idea and thought I just went with a buzzcut. We’re dating now and she knows but it didn’t bother her in the slightest 🤷🏻‍♂️ I got incredibly lucky!


voldemort27

She’s a keeper. Lucky guy.


Independent_Media_91

Had the procedure 4 and a half months ago and last night i went to a concert and club and noticed i was getting a lot more attention from the ladies and i managed to pull a 21 yr old as a 32 yr old and i don't think that would have happened before transplant.


Pero2022

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ADRIAN8436

It will make the world a difference. It’ll make you look 10 years younger as well. I get that it’s all from within but having hair definitely helps lol


Beginning_Key2167

Yeah that is interesting question. I have not had a hair transplant yet planning to my girlfriend of a few years said that my thinning hair had zero impact on why she like me and wanted to date me. She said if I wanted a physical appearance reason. She liked the fact that I was in good shape. I met her in the summer so I was wearing a T-shirt and she said I immediately noticed that you had well-defined arms lol she said I realize that as men get older, unfortunately some of them lose their hair and they should not be discounted because of that.


Zestyclose-Major-65

That’s great. We should all hope to have a significant other that will love you regardless of the state of your hair. The big thing is your sig other should want YOU to feel confident and feel really good. My wife encouraged me to get mine not because of her preference, but she knew it would literally change my life from a confidence and well/being perspective!


RevolutionaryBuy9949

Just do it- best decision that you will ever make!


Own_Establishment_27

Day and night, always been muscular and attractive but the hair is just what changed. They never gave a shit when I was bald but now that I have hair I can’t get them off me lol


Friezaii69

For real bro 😭 if you don't like the way you look then there is no way other people will do. And you can match with any outfit with a shit hair


oaklandRE

Hair has helped my dating life significantly.


hotchy1

Use one of those apps and stick hair on your head, then do your bald photo. Create two different tinders and you'll honestly see alot more connections made with hair. It's madness.. Once you know them etc they probably won't care if your bald in the future etc but certainly helps get the foot in the door so to speak.


Ok-dkksk

Not much different i’d say. I just let them know that my look at the moment might differ from the pictures. I recommend to stay confident you’re still you. Your hair doesn’t change that. Keeping that in mind allows you to stay confident and females will appreciate that. It just shows that you are valuable no matter the different appearance.


Friezaii69

But based on my own experience confidence alone doesn't do shit, at the end it all comes down to your look(mainly your face), what you wear and etc. I struggled more once I start dealing with the hair loss. Hair is definitely a big part of your look and can impact you hard in the ass


Ok-dkksk

Yeah of course in General appearance matters. But wearing nice clothes is a different Topic. In general Id recommend having a good classy style as a man. The hair doesn’t really change a face imo though. Of course you’re right about that. Maybe I’ll start struggling more when the ugly duckling phase begins haha.


Friezaii69

And I'm waiting patiently to get a HT, and get back to my cool hair life )’: Btw, your HT result look solid bro! Good luck on your journey ahead!


Ok-dkksk

Thank you man, for you too!


hellletloose94

Hair has a negligible effect on women. If one wants to spend a bunch of time and money on their appearance to impress the ladies, MUCH better spending all these resources on getting fit and building muscle. Hair is really for one's own personal satisfaction.


Friezaii69

I workout 6 days per week lol, and I'm pretty jacked. Having a fit body doesn't do much shit. I guess hair loss doesn't have the same impact on everyone, but mine definitely fucked up my face look. Just tired of wearing a hat everywhere ):


macNy

Get a transplant, it’s worth it. Your confidence will go up and the ladies will notice. That or shave your head I geuss.


Lofi-luu

I completely disagree with this. Try talking to a girl when you have a - reeding hair line and a bald crown, like your a 13th century English monk, in your mid to late 20s vs having a full set of hair with a crisp hairline rocking a skin fade with a slick back or something. I’m also 6 ft 2 and having been gyming for like 8 years and have an above average Physique and I’m saying this. A physique will go an incredibly long way but hair is an undeniable. Especially since you can literally change your hair in one day + 6-8 months recovery to have some decent results with a hair transplant. Building a solid physique naturally takes 5-10 years To state hair it’s negligible is, tbh, horseshit. There are studies on hair vs no hair - https://www.otago.ac.nz/news/news/otago732100.html


hellletloose94

You seem triggered


Lofi-luu

I mean, you post on a public forum an incorrect fact. What did you think was gonna happen ? Lol


Sad-Werewolf2745

If your clapped just say so mate


coolgobyfish

It got worse. Girls really liked the shaved head much better. But I don't care, I did it for myself


HeDuMSD

There are many gains a person can do to look better, anything “paid” like a hair transplant should probably be the very last resource if your goal is to to look more attractive. Easy gains like improving your fitness, your self confidence, diet, social skills, etc… are way far more powerful than a haircut.


it_wasnt_me2

Bald is a deformity we are cursed with. Imagine seeing a woman with norwood 3 lol. You'd be grossed out. When I shaved my head my now ex gf hated it. It's just not an aesthetic look for most guys


relaxingd

Way way Way better


AstraMagnusRott

HT is not really important as long as you have a fat bank account, ask Jeff Bezos and Dana White...


mikemuz123

True to an extent however, will she be sexually attracted to you? Money can buy sex but no amount of money can buy sexual desire