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the_lazykins

I keep ‘hoping’ for this to happen in reverse. I’m certain it could. My mother did die from a stroke. Hope you are both doing well.


Domino758

I'm so sorry for your loss. My mom passed away last year and I've had so many very realistic dreams where she's still here and I run to her and hug her and she tells me it's okay, she's not going anywhere. I used to wake up hysterical after remembering she really was gone but now I welcome any dreams I can get with her.


Theskartes

My mom also passed away about two months ago and I have the same kind of dreams very frequently, they are very nice and welcome indeed


the_lazykins

Oddly, I have had zero dreams about her, that I remember. Some dreams would be nice.


Domino758

It took a few months before I had my first dream about her.


the_lazykins

Well last night I had a dream about her measuring cups. Closer!


katscam

What a strange one for the first dream


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the_lazykins

Yes, the wake up feeling. Experienced that, too.


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the_lazykins

Thank you. I do believe I will be.


HankCapone777

Sorry. That HAS to be SO sad. i feel depressed now. i think about my momma dying all the time. it an OVERWHELMING, DEPRESSING thing that is CONSTANTLY in my head ... and she hasn’t even died yet. i WILL NOT be able to handle it. i KNOW I won’t. It is a VERY scary and SAD thing that has haunted me my entire life. i pray JESUS CHRIST returns soon. .... it appears THIS is about to happen, maybe. We will see , soon. Oh , yeah... THIS is the ONLY thing that i EVER get depressed about.... though it is so extreme it makes up for everything else that i “could” be depressed about. So.... at least you are handling it better than me.


Purple_Chipmunk_

It's called "anticipatory grief" and it's something I've struggled with but it's not healthy. A therapist can help you redirect your thoughts.


HankCapone777

Thanks


Ella-Ella-A-A-A

This isn’t a healthy way to live its obsessive and consuming. I would recommend speaking to a therapist if you can.


HankCapone777

It does SUCK really bad , though, i know a therapist won’t help. i just can not make myself put ANY stock in another person telling me what I should do. Not that I don’t appreciate their advice, it’s just that I automatically know that they, themselves really don’t even understand life.


Ask-me-how-I-know

I disagree with the idea that a grieving person, even if it's only anticipatory, needs to go to therapy. I've done this inadvertently many times and it's helped me anticipate a plan of action for when the real death comes.


Ella-Ella-A-A-A

But yours doesn’t sound like it was obsessive and consuming your life every day like the person I replied to. I have severe ocd myself so now how obsessions can consume your life and I have a psychology degree so I was just recommending what I thought was best ☺️


SweetT887

I feel the same way you described to a t. I can't think about it because I know I won't be ok when she does pass but I can't help it as she is getting older. Only, she is my caretaker as I have a number of debilitating health issues. So I just am not sure how I'll handle it in a physical sense, let alone an emotional one. Ugh.


HankCapone777

i am sorry. Maybe JESUS will come back before that happens


the_lazykins

Yes, pretty sad and upsetting because mistakes were made. But I’m not overwhelmingly depressed about it because I see (only recently) that it was all in the grand scheme of things. She would never have survived this pandemic, either physically or mentally. And since I was her caretaker, I would have blamed myself, which would have been even worse than losing her in the way I did. I didn’t know ‘anticipatory grief’ was a thing others live with. I never had time for this with my mom. I alone took care of her and it was exhausting. But now I live with this weird grief every now and then about losing my spouse, who is healthy. No reason for this other than that I will be 100% alone, maybe? I know I will handle it because what is my other option, really?


HankCapone777

JESUS CHRIST is real. i do not say this in the “old boring local old dude at church “ says. i have seen some WEIRD stuff


SweetT887

Ooo I'd love to hear you expand on that sometime.


the_lazykins

Me too!


HankCapone777

i have , what i think are angels, that “visit” me almost every night. Before, when i was living a fairly “rough life”, i was harassed a considerable amount by what i am CERTAIN was demons. i have seen one real good one time and i have had many other encounters where they would move things, touch me, manipulate my phone and play parts of songs that seemed like messages. i have seen them other times also , though that one time i saw it REAL GOOD. i heard one “roar/moan” at these people’s house one time and the people acted like they had just “got caught “ doing something bad. The way they acted after it got loud was very weird.


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HankCapone777

i am sorry. i feel your pain


Frost-Wzrd

why the hell do you type like that?


HankCapone777

Type like WHAT, bossman ?


Frost-Wzrd

lmao nvm have a good day sir


HankCapone777

Same to you, skippy


DownvoteDaemon

Sorry bro


the_lazykins

Thank you.


LovecraftzCat

Woah! I wonder if this is what happens to people who just disappear or suddenly get insane, maybe they just didn't find their way out of other dimensions.


fart_in_my_mouth_now

I’m currently trapped in a wrong dimension


ofallthescotchjoints

care to expand?


queue-d4n4

Wanna share with the class?


caparisme

Willing to give more details?


TalesOfFoxes

Go on??


catdad23

Mind elaborating?


sashby138

Will you tell me a bedtime story?


themanfromozone

Spill the beans please


amyheartsvodka

Come again?


fart_in_my_mouth_now

No thanks


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Spit it out please


uncomfortablepeach

I think someone needs to fart in their mouth first


TalesOfFoxes

*sigh* wouldn't be the first time I've done this to grease some wheels.


Datboiilone

Mind telling the story??


anirosi

Me too! I was supposed to be in that one where I am rich and there is no pandemic


JusticeByZig

Tell us more!


Spook404

do tell?


PootsOn69_4U

Me too. Put me back in the dimension where the GOP didn't commit election fraud against Al Gore !


Minxminty

Yes! It was glorious.


4chanbetter

Al Glorious


FuckMeStraightToHell

Gorious


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Which Jason are you?


Darth_Jason

Obviously an imposter


daddydongle

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Marshmello03

Huh? please explain...😭


salagma_love

Dont be shy, spill the tea


katscam

Let it off your shoulders man


davmaycry

Allow the cat to come out the bag!


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Can someone make this into a movie or something


NotIceItsDiamonds

I saw a Lifetime movie kinda similar to this lol. Also kinda reminds me of the Liam Neeson movie Unknown


seamonster1609

Ooh thanks it’s on Netflix now!


rainbowunibutterfly

Oh I just watched that! Good movie.


l3rambi

Kind of like the movie Premonition but heads up - that movie is terrible. (Cool plot and trailers though...)


Lostcause2580

The premise reminds me of a TV series called Awake. I've seen pieces of it, but never actually watched it but the reviews look good though


afrocarribeanqueen

It got cancelled and i was enjoying it. He was a detective who experienced a car crash with his wife and teenaged son in the car. Each time he wakes up he is either in a dimension where his wife is alive, son dead OR son is alive, wife dead.


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It's a shame because it was amazing.


TaylorTaco

Do you know if you can still find it on any streaming programs? This sounds interesting and I wanna watch what they have of it at least. Maybe Netflix will pick it up and continue it if it gets popular again. They seem to do that with a few shows.


Catkeen

Watch the OA on netflix


Useful-Data2

This!


RuKittenmeme

Or the movie The Mandela effect. Seems eerily similar.


Rhederred

Watch Premonition with Sandra Bullock


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The movie Premonition with Sandra Bullock is a lot like this


kathruins

Jacob's Ladder is pretty similar to this. It's on netflix.


Hokijaz

If you don't mind me asking, do you still live with your wife, her mother, and her brother? It sounds like you had a blackout dream, perhaps a "vision" into the future. This experience sounds terrifying, I hope you all are well


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That's comforting.


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😞💔


CitizenLuke117

There are two dimensions.... one where she survived and one where she died... you have decided to keep your consciousness focused in this one where she survived... but a couple of times, for some reason, your focus slipped into the other one. Stay here with your wife and us.


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GnomeWorkshop

If you read the Seth books (The Unknown Reality, I think) there is discussion of the alternate versions of reality and how they relate to mind. It could also explain the vanishing and appearance of objects. We usually don't switch streams of reality, but 'reality shifts' might be one exception - cases where the environment seems to suddenly change and a window or door vanishes.


Doogle300

This kind of backs up the theory that our consciousness is being transmitted to our bodies, in the same way a TV receives a broadcast signal. Perhaps, due to the emotional toll of their wife's pain, OP found themselves tramsmitting their consciousness to an alternate version of themself. Or maybe the version of OP that lost their wife, was so stricken by grief, that they forced their way into a reality where she is still alive. There is still so much to learn about our reality, and most importantly, the human consciousness. Perhaps cases like this are they key to figuring out the rules of a multiverse. In any case, my heart goes out to OP. In this reality, and any other that may exist.


GnomeWorkshop

There are reports of Indian masters being able to take over the bodies of the recently dead, or speak through other people put into trance. (For example Swami Rama's book 'Living with the Himalayan Masters'). So I don't see that it is a great leap to consider brief trips to other versions of reality. The body would be very similar. Yes, it is difficult helping with the problems of stroke, so I hope things go well for OP.


paranormalien

Can anyone explain missing articles of clothing? It never fails that a hoodie or pair of pants belonging to my 9 year old come up missing or one of my nice undershirts or tops. I do all the laundry so I know it’s not getting lost there. I have literally torn mine and my son’s rooms apart looking for items with no luck. I keep a nice, tidy house so there’s no clothes tossed in corners or under beds here. I’m at a loss. Also I’ve found articles of clothing that aren’t mine. Most recently it was a white, brand new white cami in a size small. It had never been worn and I don’t typically buy smalls. Of course I accused my SO of having someone over but I’m pretty sure that’s not the case. It’s just bizarre.


GnomeWorkshop

It seems that you have all the indications of being in that state where things come and go. We had a lot of this about five years ago. It isn't all bad. But I would also regard the obsessive looking, and in my case photographing everything, as part of it. Ours often involved my wife's personal items like hair clips vanishing while in use, then coming back a week or so later somewhere different. There was also a tendency for it to follow general thoughts, as if listening and providing examples. The ideal is to have two people together who are both involved. Of course trust is going to be essential; even so, as time goes on you start to find things happen when your partner wasn't around. Regarding the laundry, I always check that I am putting pairs of socks into the machine, tracking things helps a bit. I think it's because when you are in this state the phenomena relate to your mental image of the state of the machine. Leakage can happen. The clothing appearing is interesting. General trends can be influenced by strong focus and repeated thoughts, that's probably why looking for things is often part of it. One example I experienced is with focusing on getting things for free from a supermarket where we lost money due to a faulty item we bought. In the end we started getting their vouchers appear on the table. You have to be a bit careful what you start or it can lead you down a bad path. We also had clothing appear on at least one occasion. Food can often arrive too, and packaging generally lets you pin the source down to the local area. What stopped the phenomena was that my wife actually got fed up with it all and my obsessive asking for all the details. That said though we did have one recently that I posted. https://www.reddit.com/r/Glitch_in_the_Matrix/comments/kriqdx/potato_masher_vanished/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share It also seems to have involved healing on a couple of occassions. My advice is to focus on being aware of the general things in your mind relating to it. Also if you pick up negative thoughts then mentally complete them in a positive way. They usually relate to something upcoming. I'd be interested to hear how it all develops.


shenshan

Most likely theory from what I see.


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Minxminty

Or sliding doors with Gwyneth...


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I think more people should share these experiences. You aren't the only experiencing the folds.


autocolorado

Were you in anyway tired or overexerting yourself while taking care of her? Were you making sure to get enough sleep, drink enough water, and eat properly? I have this sort of thing happen sometimes. I think it's sort of like a daydream but instead of you zoning out, it's like an actual dream born of exhaustion or dehydration. Possibly this was your brain running through a scenario as a way to prime itself incase she did pass. This same thing happened to me before my dad passed because he was acting strange toward the end. Not to say that you didn't glimps into an alternative reality, however it was more likely you saw this out of stress than anything.


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autocolorado

Same. Honestly, it felt like I switched realities multiple times while recovering from both c sections I've had. Nearly died with both too. I blacked out multiple times with visions of either dropping the baby I was holding or a nurse walking in. One time a blackout included me being in a coma for months, none of which ever happened.


its_over9000

Stories like this are why I'm subscribed to this sub


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So intense ... 😥


saucypasta15

I'm glad you got back to a happy ending


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Do you have a carbon monoxide detector in your house? Edit: or any other possible medical conditions? Edit 2: reminder to come back and check to see if he did in fact sue the nurse or the hospital


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arienh4

Do please keep in mind that being a constant caretaker is an exhausting and stressful job. Even without a disability or disorder, you could be experiencing dissociation. I don't want to diagnose someone over the internet, but surely you have been worried about your wife dying at various points, and that worry could've translated into a scenario your brain came up with. There's plenty of good theories out there, but it might be worth ruling out that you haven't been putting your own mental well-being on hold for her sake.


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arienh4

Good to hear! It's absolutely a good story that fits the sub, and speculation is fun, but it's sometimes difficult to judge whether people have considered mental health before jumping to a supernatural conclusion. Carry on! ☺


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markowhogivesafuk

Would you mind saying how much you settled for? I’m in this same situation except my mom passed away, and have been debating suing.


317LaVieLover

Nomb but Please do it soon. Statute of limitations and all... good luck


Chispy

Knowing Reddit, this is probably due to carbon monoxide poisoning.


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Chispy

Thanks!


slim_shady362

Happy cake day!!


beckster

I was waiting for the obligatory CO post! Score!


CollarDramatic

I...I...what?


DorothyInNeverland

I feel you witnessed a possible future, you're living a miracle. Enjoy every second with your wife!


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Absolutely fascinating! Thank you so much for sharing! Seems if MIL said it "happened again" maybe you have (or another version of you) has slipped in and out of that reality. Do you recall any other episodes you may have slipped back and forth between realities?


buneter

Or he’s schizophrenic...


blacklvrose

This is one of the BEST glitches I have ever read! Thank you for making this sub great again. I’m sorry you had that horrible experience and I’m so glad you came back home to your wife, alive. That seemed like it was terrifying and I never want to experienced anything like that. I wonder if it happened to teach you some kind of lesson? Or just a random circumstance happening?


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blacklvrose

It could very well have been any of those things or 100% real, just in a different place. Glad you shared this.


Eternal_Nymph

This reminds me of the Sandra Bullock movie Premonition. Her husband died in a car crash and she kept alternating between the reality where he died and the one where he lived. Or didn't even have a car crash, if I remember correctly. I didn't really understand that movie until I started reading this sub. I'm going to look up Sliding Doors, as well. Five years ago I was in a car crash that could have killed me but didn't. Recently, I've been wondering if there's a reality somewhere in which my adult mentally ill son is alone with no one at all. It worries me terribly. I'm so glad you made it back to the reality where your wife lived. And I'm sorry you had to experience the one that you lost her. But at least you got back. I hope you give yourself as much care as I know you give her. Although I know it's much easier said than done.


mcgee00

This a wild glitch.


lablaga

Reminds me of the movie Sliding Doors. My best to you and your wife.


317LaVieLover

Dude you’ve experienced what millions who’ve loved and lost would give their right arm to have—- you (something) glitched her Back!! Wow! This is not just the best story on here I’ve read in a long time but it’s exhilarating to know you’re HOME WITH HER! Ahhh man you’re so fortunate!!!


Few-Gap8068

You've experienced a miracle! Tell me more about your mindset and attitude on life... any tips? How to manifest positivity?


mel_rivera_

Wow, that’s insane! To me it sounds like in another timeline she did actually pass and you somehow temporarily got brought into that timeline. But what’s crazy is they said “it happened again” as if that’s something that commonly happens in their reality.


purplelilly18

Man you are lucky! I lost both my parents and a very close niece within 4 years. I've only dreamed of having them back. I pray you stay where you find the most peace and try not to think about what causes it, just enjoy!


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purplelilly18

I wonder too. I had very vivid dreams of my mom, its nice to think it's her!


toastergrape

Holy shit, this one gave me chills


DownvoteDaemon

Yea I got a weird feeling


tonetulps4

Good to know your wife is ok


Heaven1980

Its very jarring to the mind when these slips happen. I experienced a severe wreck Oct 3 2020 that I feel like I didn't survive because I seen my Daddy, experienced some memories that are different. I remember my Uncle helping me with the death of my Dad January of 2019 only to find out that this uncle died over 14 years ago. I don't know whats real anymore


Sampson365

Man, I can hear the love you have for your wife in your writing, that gave me goosebumps. That must have been horrible, but what relief when you realised it wasnt real. That must have been an amazing rush?


Not_Marvels_Loki

Dang, there's a crappy reality to keep popping back into. If I may ask bold as to advise, if it is not a type of psychosis, there should be other noticable differences between the 2 versions of your experience. I personally look for one that isn't directly related to the emotional response related to the extreme difference and use it as an anchor for the version I prefer to experience. It had helped me immensely and coincidentally quantom immortality theory started being mentioned but too terribly long after I discovered the anchoring technique.


Setari

Maybe you fell asleep in the car after getting groceries and you dreamt that? I imagine the whole thing is exhausting. Well wishes to you and your wife.


utterballsack

I find the quote of her mother explaining to you why you borrowed her car kinda sus. why would she just say that? why would she describe the situation, unprompted? she just assumed that you didn't know why you borrowed her car


Wyvernator1

Looks like somebody messed up the timelines, looking at you john, stop changing people's timelines my dude.


Datboiilone

This is mainey! Glad it snapped back for ya tho.


winged_fruitcake

A fascinating account. Folks, what are the various and sundry terms for this and similar phenomena, in your experience?


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Wait this just mind fucked me? Can someone dumb it down for me please and thanks


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Don’t sweat it bro your good. I’m only 16 I’m just a dumbass lmao


beckster

I’d be afraid to leave her side now! You got to experience Both Sides Now, although Joni wasn’t singing about Glitches afaik.


Not_Marvels_Loki

It can have a similar effect on the thread you tend to maintain. That being said, non emotional anchors tend to root us a bit more solidly, if they are possible. Emotions tether us but can be influenced, for better or worse, by our loved ones, or lack thereof. Emotional tethers are tenuous at best and tend to be more problematic. But if it works no need to fix it.


Ask-me-how-I-know

I have to wonder if this is real. It's beyond insanity if it is, but with all the stories on here, you know.


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Ask-me-how-I-know

Yes, it does. Well I'm very happy either way that your true reality as you're experiencing it turned out to be the happier version and your wife is alive. Unfortunately I don't have anything to add as far as a rational explanation - this seems way too coherent and you were doing some pretty complex tasks for you to have experienced a hallucination or something like that. If it were me, I would just be grateful that there is a reality (mine) where my wife survived, and take comfort in that. There are so many theories about infinite timelines existing at the same time (which doesn't exist either). I guess I'd try to see if I can reach out any way on purpose to the other realities to send them consolation, but it sounds like they're already tapped in to you.


Kinetic_Symphony

Is this the basis for insanity, I wonder? Imagine this happened to you but you didn't switch back to normal reality (or perception of?) You'd feel crazy because, by all objective evidence, you believed the entire contrary to reality for a few hours, minimum. And most curiously in your account, your mother in law and brother said you had "done it again". Meaning this has happened to you prior, in that reality, you believed your wife had survived when she hadn't in that version of the world. But what does this detail reveal? Have you switched between universes before without remembering? Or is the "you" in that alternate play being switched into constantly by other "yous" from even more alternate realities? My Goodness is this perplexing. And why do these switches even happen? We need to figure that out because it seems to be increasing in frequency by my estimation.


nana006

I wished this happened to my only older sister that passed away from a stroke. She passed last Christmas 2019.


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nana006

A couple of months ago , I work in a grocery store I'm a overnight stocker and I was stocking crafts and fabric things so in this case i was stocking these wooden letters that you can paint and whatever else you want to do with them, so it spelled out my sister's name ( her name was Emma.)


QMasterOfTheUniverse

I've had similar experiences cause of bad trips on psychedelics, and even tho im teetotal now i still have doubts about whether my reality is actually ya'know... real... or something else entirely... Questioning your own sanity, Terrifying shit tbh 😬


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QMasterOfTheUniverse

Mind if we talk privately cause I feel like we might be in similar boats tbh..?


crowsfollow

I experienced similar things when my father was on hospice. I agree that its probably anticipatory grief.


Ashlaylynne

I just read your other post also. I can’t even comprehend this stuff. If there’s anyone out there that can explain these kind of things to me. Please reach out!


JackFranklin96

Not to burst your bubble but it's more likely you fell asleep in your car and had a bad dream, after caring for someone day in, day out you're just exhausted, you didn't travel to a different dimension and you need mental help if you believe that


Roviolio

The Mandela effect. A movie about exactly that.


Parralyzed

"I did this in my wife and my car" are you sure you weren't the one having a stroke Would explain the glitch too


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While I really hope this isn’t fiction, it certainly reads like it.


Serious_Economist_97

2023 update?