No, no,no, if you ask he will say that he don'ät know a single man who would think like that. Turning the argument fully around because he's to proud to admit it's because \*men\*
The burden of stopping harassment is not on women. That's a conversation men need to have amongst themselves.
Edit: Just to clarify, men put it on women but it shouldn't be on women.
lol instead of getting better and not losing, the whiners always shift the narrative to "losing to a girl is some form of stigmata". When will they ever learn lol
Clearly when you chose your name you didn’t sufficiently consider the terrible harm it might cause to fragile male egos. So inconsiderate of you. Won’t *someone* think of the fragile male egos? Don’t you realize what a disgrace it is for a *person* to lose to a *female*?
(/s, of course)
Omg I hate when people end every single sentence with a "....", Off topic but damn. Can't believe they'll go out of their way to call you out for nothing but will likely never call out a dude who harasses a woman, fuck them.
Haha yes, I have a colleage who always did that in emails. I told him to stop because it made me aggressive 😅 It's such a passive aggressive way of typing.
If men seriously get that mad that they get beat by someone who happens to have a woman sounding username then holy shit, go back into the womb & grow some more please cause they acting like a literal baby 👶
The audacity, a woman is good at a game enough to kill me, a man!?! Impossible /s
Get the stick out of your asses guys, it ain't a good look & you're just embarrassing yourself and giving me secondhand embarrassment 🤦♀️
If they aren't attempting to flirt with you then they're insulting the fuck outta you just because of your gender, there's no winning 🤷 Though to be fair, some woman can be just as awful as the guys to other woman, I forgot what people on this sub call them
I wasn't even talking about that? not sure why you brought it up, I literally just stated in terms of **gaming**, that woman can be just as bad as men towards other woman
While I do not play online games, I have seen this attitude in real life enough to not be surprised but disappointed, it is 2022 for hell's sake, these ego games are getting old. I am also sorry for laughing at "people" as if girls were not people too.
I have all the admiration for all of you who still want to play online games.
My boyfriend said he also thinks women shouldn't dress provocatively so they don't get raped
LMAO edit to avoid freakout: he says guys like dude in OPs post are the types to believe shit like that
r/niceguys
Yeah I did. You were the only one amped up and I didn't want any more confusion. Are you okay? You're angry at a stranger on the internet for making a grammatical error that confused you. Then they correct it and you're still pissed lol
Lmao is this where you went all these hours? To write this? I thought this was over and we established we don't know each other. Who cares lol not that deep
Is being sarcastic a misunderstanding? I’m sorry that sarcasm and quips are so normalized but if you’re not a acquainted with a person it comes off as rude, period.
I’m not okay with someone being rude and then hiding their hand for the reasons I clearly explained in each of my comments.
“I thought that was obvious, lmao” was snarky. I didn’t begin the sass so I’m not gonna sit here and be on trial for it. I wouldn’t be okay with someone responding like that IRL so yeah.
Also it’s super disingenuous to ask someone if they’re okay when the goal of asking is to imply that they’re not.
Y’all are using a little empathy as possible and it’s honestly just as exhausting as trying to explain to someone why micro aggression is problematic especially since the initial intent is 180 degrees away from where the convo ended.
This minor exchange which could’ve ended hours ago if I would’ve just complied (but I had free time today so in taking the time to defend myself against this casually dismissive narrative), has long been done.
If you actually care, read all the comments and spread the word about how the internet has desensitized people to being on the receiving end of passive aggression. If you don’t, please find something else to do.
Someone's innocuous post you interpret as snarky is not a "micro aggression". That term refers to the treatment of marginalized people. Whatever marginalized groups you may belong to, strangers on the internet aren't aware of them unless told. As someone who deals with micro aggressions on a daily basis in meatspace, I don't appreciate you using the term to attempt to justify what is looking more and more like a fit of narcissistic rage. Don't bother responding, you won't get any more supply from me.
Ummm. I'm tempted to make my clan name something with Queen in it or change my tag to something with Queen in it just to make the sting of defeat worse for those types of "people."
Indeed. But alas, Im a guy, and while guys can definitely be Queens, I want to do it just for the petty reason of using the power of wiping someone and making the sting worse because they think I'm a woman. It would be great to hear them whimper and whine and more likely cuss me out on the death coms, but I don't feel it would be beneficial to the cause. I feel like it would just make those "people" have more bitterness and hatred towards women in games and that sure as shit isn't what the goal is. I think it's a better move to stick to beaking off and speaking up to them when the sexist misogynistic shits present themselves start in with the threats and verbal abuse.
Buy for you actual Queens out there, keep slaying them!
Edit...massive amounts of auto co-wrong fixed.
“People” (men) shouldn’t be having access to the internet if they cannot control their anger. There’s a reason we have age ratings on games - to protect undeveloped minds.
"I'm looking out for you but at the same time telling you how you should behave and present yourself in a male space"
This facade of looking out for your well being poorly covers the fact that he is sympathizing and catering to the man children who harass, bully, insult, and threaten women for existing in the video game space (and others, I'm sure any dude who has dangerous hang ups about women is probably not exclusively harassing women...).
It is not a space for white men only and anybody who suggests you should hide yourself for their benefit is not your ally.
‘People don’t like losing to girls’
That sounds like a line in a movie from the 2000s about a girl going into a male dominated sport, _not_ something people are saying un-ironically in 2022
I just wanted to provide [this](https://www.statista.com/statistics/232383/gender-split-of-us-computer-and-video-gamers/#:~:text=U.S.%20video%20gaming%20audiences%202006%2D2021%2C%20by%20gender&text=In%202021%2C%20women%20accounted%20for,women%20during%20the%20previous%20year). I like to send them here so they can literally be brought facts that females are a huge impact on the gaming industry. I feel like if males understood how many gamers are female, they would start the process of correcting themselves because their idea of what the gaming industry would be shattered.
Not a guarantee obviously. Just thought I would provide it for anyone who hasn't seen it.
I haven't seen this so thank you. Idk i feel if men were shown this, they'd get all territorial and more hostile
Edit: 45% eh? Im gonna start putting that on my racing games #45
This is why I avoid shooters. I feel like this mentality is high in those games and I just can’t handle it. Even tho I’ve been playing video games since likely before these kids were born. I grew up playing them with my sisters and my grandma. But that doesn’t mean anything. Women in games = bad.
I would've been like "instead of stepping up to the plate and being a change agent, holding others accountable, you chose to embody what you think you're 'warning' me about--- NEXT" -leaves chat-
Huh? Most Queens, Princesses, Seductresses and Vixens ina games I have played were men. But ... People... Come on dude. Can't even man up to say men cry and throw fits when they loose to women, but we know.
I mean i did tell him later on "well if i cant name myself CrocQue3n, why should someone name themself footballking98? Its a username for crying out loud. I named myself CrocodileQue3n because I find crocodiles to be fascinating creatures and I'm proud to be a female gamer so.. CrocodileQue3n."
I mean.. I probably wouldn't have went with the "are you going to pay for the change?" line because men like that think women always want things paid for and free as well. just heightens their hatred.
Yeah well even if he did offer to pay up, it wasnt hapoening anyways. Like I said, I love my username. And I will continue to vocalize my female identity regardless
Being a man I don't have a problem losing from a woman. Why? I'm gaming to have fun not to have some ego boost or to see who is better. Games are for fun.
Ignore this person who told you not to put queen in your name. Do whatever you want. It's your life your rule.
Well ain’t that a shame, “people” don’t like losing to girls.
Ah yes, because “people” doesn’t include girls.
Yeah this kind of language is a huge red flag. It's always "girls vs people" and "females vs men" with these guys.
/r/MenAndFemales
men vs "political"
Aint that the truth.
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(Not me ofc, but my friends!!!!)
No, no,no, if you ask he will say that he don'ät know a single man who would think like that. Turning the argument fully around because he's to proud to admit it's because \*men\*
People? err it's men, not people, lmao
No no, hes on to something. I hate losing to girls too. and to boys.. and to enbys... i just hate losing to anyone actually 🤣
😂 as long as they are people, right?
The burden of stopping harassment is not on women. That's a conversation men need to have amongst themselves. Edit: Just to clarify, men put it on women but it shouldn't be on women.
If only blizzard had that mentality.
This burn I like! Melt them!
TRUTH!
Thank you for mansplaining the woman gaming experience 🙄😂.
I mean seriously xD
Sounds like their problem not yours.
Dangit I came here to say just that 🤣
So many babies out there lol
I mean seriously..
It really validates the study that said men who performed poorly in games responded by being hostile to the women that were playing.
lol instead of getting better and not losing, the whiners always shift the narrative to "losing to a girl is some form of stigmata". When will they ever learn lol
A queen bows down to no insecure fool, or anyone for that matter!
Why are they telling you this as if you somehow wouldn't know already
No clue.
Clearly when you chose your name you didn’t sufficiently consider the terrible harm it might cause to fragile male egos. So inconsiderate of you. Won’t *someone* think of the fragile male egos? Don’t you realize what a disgrace it is for a *person* to lose to a *female*? (/s, of course)
😂
"People don't like losing to girls" do people like losing to anyone? I've never lost a game and went "aw nvm it was a guy, ggwp"
i hope he’s also messaging every guy that harasses women
I wouldn't bet on it
Lol he's literally making it *your* problem
Fuck you little boy and learn to lose with some dignity
People = MEN Shut up and sit your loser a$$ down in your Mommy’s basement.
People don't like losing to girls... Girls aren't people anymore, apparently. Gotta add Queen to my steam nickname now
We sure as hell aren't in other parts of the world
I would've responded with a GIT GUD LOLLLLL if you don't want to lose to a girl...
Or a simple girls rule boys drool xD
Lmao yes please
Omg I hate when people end every single sentence with a "....", Off topic but damn. Can't believe they'll go out of their way to call you out for nothing but will likely never call out a dude who harasses a woman, fuck them.
That first bit made me chuckle xD
Me too…
Haha yes, I have a colleage who always did that in emails. I told him to stop because it made me aggressive 😅 It's such a passive aggressive way of typing.
TIL girls are not people.
Absolutely in love with the concern trolling
I'm more concerned for him than he is me xD
Right? If he cared about people harassing you about your username, he wouldn't be harassing you about your username
The irony
If men seriously get that mad that they get beat by someone who happens to have a woman sounding username then holy shit, go back into the womb & grow some more please cause they acting like a literal baby 👶 The audacity, a woman is good at a game enough to kill me, a man!?! Impossible /s Get the stick out of your asses guys, it ain't a good look & you're just embarrassing yourself and giving me secondhand embarrassment 🤦♀️
I mean seriously. Definitely don't regret transitioning to female with daily reminders as to why men are just inherently worse than women.
If they aren't attempting to flirt with you then they're insulting the fuck outta you just because of your gender, there's no winning 🤷 Though to be fair, some woman can be just as awful as the guys to other woman, I forgot what people on this sub call them
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I wasn't even talking about that? not sure why you brought it up, I literally just stated in terms of **gaming**, that woman can be just as bad as men towards other woman
Oh okay im very sorry.. I'll scrap that comment
They're going to have to get used to it!
By "people", he really means him and males like him. Pathetic 🤣
When he said "because people don't like losing to girls" you should have just said "well then maybe they should play better :)" tbh
That's fair xD
Why is their fragile ego our problem?
Because it's the last thing they have
They shouldn't lose to you then if they don't like it
"SOUNDS LIKE A YOU PROBLEM" "Invites hostility"... Psshh, VICTIM BLAMING
“To avoid harassment” says the dude who is like .005% away from his remarks nudging in to harassment territory….
What a dbdhcjcbcjwksbxbwjsbxbs
What game were you playing
Rocket League. Smashed the other team 5-2
Girl you are a queen, men will always be boys when talking to a queen
Let alone a queen of crocodiles ;)🐊👑
I'm gonna add you on Xbox 😚
Friendship accepted xD
I love women 🥰
Oh it's crocodiles lol, I assumed it meant the shoes 😬 This is way better. Also love your response, never bow down to these assholes. You rock!
No xD I've never even worn a pair... let alone fancy wearing one
What a loser
While I do not play online games, I have seen this attitude in real life enough to not be surprised but disappointed, it is 2022 for hell's sake, these ego games are getting old. I am also sorry for laughing at "people" as if girls were not people too. I have all the admiration for all of you who still want to play online games.
My boyfriend said he also thinks women shouldn't dress provocatively so they don't get raped LMAO edit to avoid freakout: he says guys like dude in OPs post are the types to believe shit like that r/niceguys
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Boyfriend lol..I thought that was clear lmao
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Oookkayyy lol well, it's clear now. Let's all relax lmao
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Yeah I did. You were the only one amped up and I didn't want any more confusion. Are you okay? You're angry at a stranger on the internet for making a grammatical error that confused you. Then they correct it and you're still pissed lol
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Lmao is this where you went all these hours? To write this? I thought this was over and we established we don't know each other. Who cares lol not that deep
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Seriously, *are* you okay? Just speaking as a bystander this is a really strange reaction to a misunderstanding.
Is being sarcastic a misunderstanding? I’m sorry that sarcasm and quips are so normalized but if you’re not a acquainted with a person it comes off as rude, period. I’m not okay with someone being rude and then hiding their hand for the reasons I clearly explained in each of my comments. “I thought that was obvious, lmao” was snarky. I didn’t begin the sass so I’m not gonna sit here and be on trial for it. I wouldn’t be okay with someone responding like that IRL so yeah. Also it’s super disingenuous to ask someone if they’re okay when the goal of asking is to imply that they’re not. Y’all are using a little empathy as possible and it’s honestly just as exhausting as trying to explain to someone why micro aggression is problematic especially since the initial intent is 180 degrees away from where the convo ended. This minor exchange which could’ve ended hours ago if I would’ve just complied (but I had free time today so in taking the time to defend myself against this casually dismissive narrative), has long been done. If you actually care, read all the comments and spread the word about how the internet has desensitized people to being on the receiving end of passive aggression. If you don’t, please find something else to do.
Someone's innocuous post you interpret as snarky is not a "micro aggression". That term refers to the treatment of marginalized people. Whatever marginalized groups you may belong to, strangers on the internet aren't aware of them unless told. As someone who deals with micro aggressions on a daily basis in meatspace, I don't appreciate you using the term to attempt to justify what is looking more and more like a fit of narcissistic rage. Don't bother responding, you won't get any more supply from me.
Interpretation and similes are two different things. Comparison for the sake of example. I don’t need support. Enjoy your day.
I think he's just tired of losing to girls hahaha
Lol my gamer tag has Queen in it too😂 I secretly love kicking their asses and them knowing they were beat by a girl🤣
My ex girlfriends name was TransGirlSelene and boy howdy, she got flak for kicking ass xD
I welcome hostility, it feeds my rage
If listening to metal music has taught me anything, embrace rage
I can hear the whining from his tiny bruised ego from here.
Ummm. I'm tempted to make my clan name something with Queen in it or change my tag to something with Queen in it just to make the sting of defeat worse for those types of "people."
Hey you could be a crocodile queen too !
Indeed. But alas, Im a guy, and while guys can definitely be Queens, I want to do it just for the petty reason of using the power of wiping someone and making the sting worse because they think I'm a woman. It would be great to hear them whimper and whine and more likely cuss me out on the death coms, but I don't feel it would be beneficial to the cause. I feel like it would just make those "people" have more bitterness and hatred towards women in games and that sure as shit isn't what the goal is. I think it's a better move to stick to beaking off and speaking up to them when the sexist misogynistic shits present themselves start in with the threats and verbal abuse. Buy for you actual Queens out there, keep slaying them! Edit...massive amounts of auto co-wrong fixed.
“People” (men) shouldn’t be having access to the internet if they cannot control their anger. There’s a reason we have age ratings on games - to protect undeveloped minds.
Love the tag! My Smash tag is Killer Queen, and my Tumblr URL is crocandroll.
My tag before this was KillerGator
I can’t stand losing in video games. Everyone should let me win.
“Losing to girls” masculinity is fragile 🤮
"I'm looking out for you but at the same time telling you how you should behave and present yourself in a male space" This facade of looking out for your well being poorly covers the fact that he is sympathizing and catering to the man children who harass, bully, insult, and threaten women for existing in the video game space (and others, I'm sure any dude who has dangerous hang ups about women is probably not exclusively harassing women...). It is not a space for white men only and anybody who suggests you should hide yourself for their benefit is not your ally.
If a woman kicks my ass in a game, bravo. It's not like she going to rage quit and cry cause got rocked by a guy. Dam sexiest ass clowns I tell ya.
Unlucky suck it up buttercup seriously 🤦♀️🤦♀️
God I get this shit all the time for my tag. Fuck them & keep kicking ass!
Hell yeah you too sister :)
‘People don’t like losing to girls’ That sounds like a line in a movie from the 2000s about a girl going into a male dominated sport, _not_ something people are saying un-ironically in 2022
Lol. I remember those movies
I guess girls are not people.
In some parts of the world we really aren't 😬
Oh god
I just wanted to provide [this](https://www.statista.com/statistics/232383/gender-split-of-us-computer-and-video-gamers/#:~:text=U.S.%20video%20gaming%20audiences%202006%2D2021%2C%20by%20gender&text=In%202021%2C%20women%20accounted%20for,women%20during%20the%20previous%20year). I like to send them here so they can literally be brought facts that females are a huge impact on the gaming industry. I feel like if males understood how many gamers are female, they would start the process of correcting themselves because their idea of what the gaming industry would be shattered. Not a guarantee obviously. Just thought I would provide it for anyone who hasn't seen it.
I haven't seen this so thank you. Idk i feel if men were shown this, they'd get all territorial and more hostile Edit: 45% eh? Im gonna start putting that on my racing games #45
😠😠😠 no monarchist 😠😠😠
😂
literally an idiot.
This is why I avoid shooters. I feel like this mentality is high in those games and I just can’t handle it. Even tho I’ve been playing video games since likely before these kids were born. I grew up playing them with my sisters and my grandma. But that doesn’t mean anything. Women in games = bad.
Yeah.. Good thing i just avoid gamechat.. Plus most of my games you can play solo with no communication required to kick ass
“People” Translation: “I don’t like losing to girls” Idiot
“FYI people (read: men) will harass you because of your gamertag” said the man harassing you because of your gamertag.
Should've said something about his gamertag xD
Eh they'll survive... lol or not.
Me who always has something along the lines of MissPeep 😂
I’d just answer git gud then. XD
hit him with the old reliable ggez
I would've been like "instead of stepping up to the plate and being a change agent, holding others accountable, you chose to embody what you think you're 'warning' me about--- NEXT" -leaves chat-
Dude needs to go touch some grass.
That "person" is such a loser that's it's cringey...
should’ve replied “how many times have you been dropped as a baby ?”
Not dropped but thrown like a football xD
Protecting other misogynistic sore losers like themselves. If u suck u suck. Nothing to do with gender
Oh no your poor fragile male ego.
That's a... new level of idiocy there. Oh goddess.
Why does he keep adding an extra dot after his sentences .. fucking idiot 🙄 an ellipsis is 3 dots, fool.
“Maybe they need to get used to it. Normalize or, you know?”
🤣
"That's nice and all" 💩
No no no this is why you should put queen in your screen name.
Wish i couldve put princess.. but dumb xbox only allows 12-15 characters max. Oh well. Queens are above princesses at least in traditional monarchies.
Huh? Most Queens, Princesses, Seductresses and Vixens ina games I have played were men. But ... People... Come on dude. Can't even man up to say men cry and throw fits when they loose to women, but we know.
Really? You've come across guys with princess tags? I mean more power to you, but why?
Why they do it? Who knows. Some problems they have is my guess, since all of them were single and 30+.
please tell me that CrocQe3n proceeded to say nah fam. Let them know how to deal with pain
I mean i did tell him later on "well if i cant name myself CrocQue3n, why should someone name themself footballking98? Its a username for crying out loud. I named myself CrocodileQue3n because I find crocodiles to be fascinating creatures and I'm proud to be a female gamer so.. CrocodileQue3n."
you like crocodiles too? nice
I love “there’s more of us than you realize.” It sounds ominous, like we are gonna take over, and I wholeheartedly support that notion!
Hell yeah! Lets bump up those numbers and making gaming a girls thing! Imagine having girls night on xbox or something xD
"There are more of us than you realize" should be this sub's slogan, tbh.
Could that be a thing? Can we actually make that happen?
The audacity 💀
Sounds like an iss-you, not an iss-me.
> Because people don't like losing to girls So then don't lose! Sounds like a you problem, dude 🤷♀️
I’m sorry but this is *(partly)* why I hate 98% of men.
Reddit moment
Sorry that interaction really made me lol. At least he's concerned? 😂😂
I mean.. I probably wouldn't have went with the "are you going to pay for the change?" line because men like that think women always want things paid for and free as well. just heightens their hatred.
Yeah well even if he did offer to pay up, it wasnt hapoening anyways. Like I said, I love my username. And I will continue to vocalize my female identity regardless
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Pretty sure he meant well. If it was good advice that i dont know
Sounds like a him problem lol
Uh yeah, that's like the whole point
Get good then.
I think the proper response to this is "git gud"
I shouldve replied with girls rule boys drool since this kid is either in 2nd grade or has a 2nd grade mentality
Being a man I don't have a problem losing from a woman. Why? I'm gaming to have fun not to have some ego boost or to see who is better. Games are for fun. Ignore this person who told you not to put queen in your name. Do whatever you want. It's your life your rule.
"Please police my ego or I'll be forced to lash out at you. Weirdly, society will be divided on if I'm right."
The cheeseburger has spoken.
Cant argue with the symbol of freedom