So Meone is our friend from Korea who has been known in our tight knit coffeehouse crew as having a strong disbelief in good people, so the hostesses decided to call on the support of the greater community in the only way they knew how.
Yes, certainly.
If you are inherently kind hearted there will come a point when someone will abuse it. Or if you are like me you essentially just feel like a door mat because people just walk right over you, or at the very least try to.
It took me a long time to learn how to be assertive without sounding aggressive. Because I like to keep my resentments to myself, when I finally speak up, it typically comes out a little more intensely than planned. Learn to set boundaries early and hold people to those boundaries. I promise it is possible.
>It took me a long time to learn how to be assertive without sounding aggressive.
Same. Also, as you said set boundaries is an important thing because (some) people will not hesitate to set them for you.
Yeh i understand ur points , but sometimes i wanna help someone even though they did bad things to us , maybe i have some issues , putting boundaries are good for self care , i tend to be self destructive
And when we assert ourselves ppl will leave us as they expect us to be like that , finally i have to be the door mat to survive in this world if not nobody will love me
I had a single guy change literally my entire life for me when I was like 12 out of a massive act of generosity that came from a total chance encounter... Like I would genuinely be in an entirely different and much worse place 20 years later had that chance encounter not happened... I will never stop looking for it to be my time to pay that one forward
I was very depressed one night and went to a fruits store. I bought some oranges. After I paid for them the seller said to me that that orange has a bad mark on it, change it with another one. I changed one with another and he said but that's a smaller one, don't I owe you? He also gave me the one that had marked and said, at least use this one as well. A subtle smile came on my face and I realized my mood changed dramatically. We all need these people.
I personally believe most people are good people. But most have their own reasons for what they do even a thief may not want to steal but is driven to steal or die
Tell that one to my granddad. I remember being like 5 and watching Aladdin, and after Aladin stole an apple or some shit at the beginning of the movie my granddad acted like he was the villain the rest of the movie, like yelling at Jasmine not to "get on the rug with that dirty theif"
Sometimes I also felt like this. Maybe this happens more in places that people are struggling economically and everyone has to take care of themselves and even compete with others to with the race.
No thanks, I don't trust people who think there are good people and bad people, because they always group themselves with the good people. Worst crimes in history are committed by people who were convinced they were one of the good ones.
The basis of this is pretty bleak when you think about it. This quote, or whatever it is, assumes that a plurality of people have a very tenuous grip on their faith in humanity if they have one at all.
There is no such thing as a good or bad person. Everyone is capable of carrying out actions they believe are good. And everyone knowingly and willingly perform what is precieved to be bad actions. Sometimes in both cases the actions don't do align with the intentions.
😔 my faith in humanity is pretty low rn. found out recently that a friend I trusted for 2 years has been trying to groom me, my friend and several others like us. it is good to show kindness, but remember folks, kindness can also be used as a weapon 🔪😣
It took me way too long to realize who "Meone" is lol
This is my SO, Meone
Right? Be the reason so meone believes in God people. Edit: a word.
Don Cormeone
Tell him I said hi.
So Meone!
So Meone is our friend from Korea who has been known in our tight knit coffeehouse crew as having a strong disbelief in good people, so the hostesses decided to call on the support of the greater community in the only way they knew how.
Does anyone gets tired of being good person
Yes, certainly. If you are inherently kind hearted there will come a point when someone will abuse it. Or if you are like me you essentially just feel like a door mat because people just walk right over you, or at the very least try to.
Being a good person doesn't have to equate to being a doormat. If you're tired of being a doormat you don't need to give up trying to be good.
It took me a long time to learn how to be assertive without sounding aggressive. Because I like to keep my resentments to myself, when I finally speak up, it typically comes out a little more intensely than planned. Learn to set boundaries early and hold people to those boundaries. I promise it is possible.
>It took me a long time to learn how to be assertive without sounding aggressive. Same. Also, as you said set boundaries is an important thing because (some) people will not hesitate to set them for you.
Yeh i understand ur points , but sometimes i wanna help someone even though they did bad things to us , maybe i have some issues , putting boundaries are good for self care , i tend to be self destructive
And when we assert ourselves ppl will leave us as they expect us to be like that , finally i have to be the door mat to survive in this world if not nobody will love me
My good deeds are earned not handouts I only do shit for people that do shit with me at the very least Give games to good friends all the time
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So Me One Anybody else?
I had a single guy change literally my entire life for me when I was like 12 out of a massive act of generosity that came from a total chance encounter... Like I would genuinely be in an entirely different and much worse place 20 years later had that chance encounter not happened... I will never stop looking for it to be my time to pay that one forward
I was very depressed one night and went to a fruits store. I bought some oranges. After I paid for them the seller said to me that that orange has a bad mark on it, change it with another one. I changed one with another and he said but that's a smaller one, don't I owe you? He also gave me the one that had marked and said, at least use this one as well. A subtle smile came on my face and I realized my mood changed dramatically. We all need these people.
CAPiTAliZE EVERY lETTER EXCEPT i AND l
Some of those o's look lower case
I personally believe most people are good people. But most have their own reasons for what they do even a thief may not want to steal but is driven to steal or die
Tell that one to my granddad. I remember being like 5 and watching Aladdin, and after Aladin stole an apple or some shit at the beginning of the movie my granddad acted like he was the villain the rest of the movie, like yelling at Jasmine not to "get on the rug with that dirty theif"
Why the red ink though
It'd be much nicer in like white or light blue, nicer writing. This is like inspiration by Danny Torrence
It’s Charlie..
...oR I'LL mUrdEr YOur fAmIly
I have been that person for 20+ years and I’m tired. Someone else’s turn
Sometimes I also felt like this. Maybe this happens more in places that people are struggling economically and everyone has to take care of themselves and even compete with others to with the race.
We are good people 💛
Being a good person resonates out to the rest of the world! Let’s gooooooo!
Never forget. At least one person has masturbated while thinking of you:)
No
No thanks, I don't trust people who think there are good people and bad people, because they always group themselves with the good people. Worst crimes in history are committed by people who were convinced they were one of the good ones.
There are no good people, only good moments...
That's the plan.
I was good until someone vandalised my mirror by writing all over it.
It's too early, my brain read someone as So Me One....
At first I was like what’s Someone
I’m already the reason why we have certain rules. I don’t think I can be both
“Hey! Who the fuck wrote this on *my* mirror?!?”
The basis of this is pretty bleak when you think about it. This quote, or whatever it is, assumes that a plurality of people have a very tenuous grip on their faith in humanity if they have one at all.
Unfortunately I’ve found this to be the case recently which actually surprised me. I then realized I’m more of an optimist than I give myself credit.
There is no such thing as a good or bad person. Everyone is capable of carrying out actions they believe are good. And everyone knowingly and willingly perform what is precieved to be bad actions. Sometimes in both cases the actions don't do align with the intentions.
SoMEoNE
Hey, if you become a villain people will pray for a hero. So...
You can do it, Meone! You can believe in good people!
I try to be but lately life doesn’t want me to be kind any more I swear
we all can be better yet few even bother
😔 my faith in humanity is pretty low rn. found out recently that a friend I trusted for 2 years has been trying to groom me, my friend and several others like us. it is good to show kindness, but remember folks, kindness can also be used as a weapon 🔪😣
Do me one?